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  • Matt opens up on first date, and talks about his campfire accident.
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  • @theS4V0Y
    @theS4V0Y Před rokem +23

    Matt’s only issue is those green pants. Everything else is awesome. :)

  • @2615ParkAvenueAssociates
    @2615ParkAvenueAssociates Před rokem +88

    I feel so optimistic for them; she's beautiful, he's handsome and in spite of initial differences they are both open to know more about each other and have a second date. You just have to root for that kind of couple.

  • @babs591
    @babs591 Před rokem +32

    I'm not understanding why his single...his such a great guy. I really see him married with 6 kids and these are the type of men we need to be having loads of kids.

  • @susanwhite6761
    @susanwhite6761 Před rokem +37

    What a gentleman, Matt!!!!

  • @stanbalo
    @stanbalo Před rokem +48

    I do think they complement each other. At first, she was so uptight but at the end very relaxed. I mean they might not end up as lovers but the whole thing was a good experience.

  • @robertnelson432
    @robertnelson432 Před rokem +72

    I really needed to see this today. He is quite inspirational.

  • @Georgie14
    @Georgie14 Před rokem +22

    Matt is a keeper!

  • @lifeaccordingtotheo9643
    @lifeaccordingtotheo9643 Před rokem +85

    I think he could be exactly what she needs. He kind of comes crashing through her walls and says here I am. She needs some therapy which means asking for help - this is a good thing.

  • @rohananya
    @rohananya Před rokem +10

    Love them both …….. she just hasn’t met the one that can make her feel comfortable…until now. ❤️❤️

  • @niadean9518
    @niadean9518 Před rokem +107

    Matt is such a sweet optimistic man they seem more like friends imo especially because of their differences, unless she changes her mind about having kids.

    • @futojanos
      @futojanos Před rokem +8

      she is still too young. A couple more years when all her friends get pregnant then she will change her mind.

    • @MissArtsyDeee
      @MissArtsyDeee Před rokem +22

      @@futojanos not everyone wants children, and that's okay. It's a personal choice each person makes for themselves.

    • @niadean9518
      @niadean9518 Před rokem +2

      @@futojanos Yeah a sad case of our times is woman waiting but she probably will change her mind, I just wonder if it will be with Matt, one hopes they work out!

    • @fancypuss
      @fancypuss Před rokem +13

      ​@@niadean9518Not every woman has to want children.

    • @ryanx9777
      @ryanx9777 Před rokem

      @@MissArtsyDeee not for the reason she said, that's selfish

  • @trapt29
    @trapt29 Před rokem +25

    He’s a lovely man

  • @franek_izerski
    @franek_izerski Před rokem +22

    So much trauma in the world. We have to figure it out and deal with it together.

  • @cassandrabuitron427
    @cassandrabuitron427 Před rokem +14

    What a fantastic matchup. I'm tearing up

  • @melinmove
    @melinmove Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is an example of how a date should be, not talking about looks and all that superficial rubbish. She overcomes her being vulnerable fear, and that's really admirable. He seems pretty secure that he'd help her be more open going forward.

  • @Shizi7
    @Shizi7 Před rokem +25

    My grandmother said that she did not want to have kids when she met my grandfather. Nine kids later…

    • @universesays1842
      @universesays1842 Před rokem +2

      she didn't lie,she wanted just one kid,not kids
      your grandpa didn't kept his promise

    • @Shizi7
      @Shizi7 Před rokem +1

      @@universesays1842 🙂

    • @siddaye
      @siddaye Před měsícem

      No she was probably shamed into doing so or only did to fulfill a task complete a task ​@@Shizi7

  • @angelicharmony
    @angelicharmony Před rokem +22

    Surprised they put them together when they have such a fundamental difference: wanting kids vs not.

    • @ytjhhh
      @ytjhhh Před rokem +1

      I know eh

    • @annacats5240
      @annacats5240 Před rokem +1

      Yes if they start matching mismatch people it will ruin what this show is about

    • @roseschulze1647
      @roseschulze1647 Před rokem +1

      That is a big thing. If she's only 24, she may change her mind about having kids. Especially if she has a man like Matt; his positive attitude would surely be contagious. :))

  • @genebigs1749
    @genebigs1749 Před rokem +12

    Surprise ending! I never expected either of them to want a second date. I wish them good luck!

  • @Freelythoughtful
    @Freelythoughtful Před rokem +22

    First viewer.. Wow that's never happened to me 😄 and omg it was worth it. Matt is gold and I'm sure this young lady will be able to embrace life better now she has bravely gone on tv on a first date!!

  • @oceanlover3530
    @oceanlover3530 Před rokem +7

    She’s beautiful and he’s a handsome guy. They both seem like kind souls. I hope things work out and they stay in touch whether it be friends or as a couple moving forward.
    ✌🏻😉✌🏻

  • @SamSGSDUMA
    @SamSGSDUMA Před rokem +6

    You can see her being a bit more relaxed during the interviews part but notice her walls go up a bit upon meeting Matt.

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop Před rokem +17

    He must be thinking that eventually she will come around and want kids after being married

  • @Leftatalbuquerque
    @Leftatalbuquerque Před rokem +2

    I think these two would have a lot of fun as the years passed.

  • @pelicanbay2006
    @pelicanbay2006 Před rokem +5

    He seems like such a good guy

  • @suzannek3493
    @suzannek3493 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love these two. What a surprise . Love to hear if it went anywhere ???

  • @Von_RX
    @Von_RX Před rokem

    great one!

  • @dmalka336
    @dmalka336 Před 11 měsíci +1

    He's so amazing.

  • @ichussslangday5530
    @ichussslangday5530 Před rokem +2

    Ohhh i love these two

  • @yorukkizigeziyor
    @yorukkizigeziyor Před rokem +1

    Beautiful video 😍👍

  • @susannadvortsin
    @susannadvortsin Před 11 měsíci +2

    He seems like a nice guy and non judgmental. Willing to see her even though she seems to have different values from him. Maybe it will work if she can compromise.

  • @TobinOsusky
    @TobinOsusky Před rokem +4

    wowo... i can relate to both of them so much... i am covered in scars too, and sinc my father passed from cancer i have closed off my heart to others.. this was a weird episode to watch jaja

  • @ellesea123
    @ellesea123 Před rokem +18

    Honestly, I was so perturbed when I heard they were going to do a US show. Everything about it seemed awful... but after watching some of these, I realized that love is love; it is universal!!! I hope that everyone gets a chance to experience it, whether it's come or gone. It is beautiful!
    I'd like to apply if I weren't so shy! 🥰

    • @user-og2wt3le4j
      @user-og2wt3le4j Před rokem +1

      They're also doing Canadian shows. I haven't been that impressed so far.

  • @stevenkass6154
    @stevenkass6154 Před rokem +3

    Both so sweet.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Před rokem

    Props to the gentleman. 👏🏾

  • @colinbawden4222
    @colinbawden4222 Před rokem +1

    Would be interested in an update - best of luck to both of them.

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 Před 6 měsíci

    That was a good episode

  • @celticbro1
    @celticbro1 Před rokem +7

    This was a nice date. Matt was v open and this helped his date relax and feel comfortable about letting down her guard. I actually agree with her about bringing children into this world and that could be a dealbreaker for them.

  • @rachelmahon9149
    @rachelmahon9149 Před rokem +3

    They look really good together ❤❤

  • @PK-bh2sr
    @PK-bh2sr Před rokem +2

    Matt’s green pants? Not too sure 🤔

  • @kaycampbell8532
    @kaycampbell8532 Před rokem +3

    They were both very sweet. I hope it worked out for them.

  • @FarzanaHaq1
    @FarzanaHaq1 Před rokem +1

    Seems like a nice genuine couple..

  • @stevansmith9582
    @stevansmith9582 Před rokem +3

    I understand we have to be polite in a first date but I'd tell her at the end of the date, I don't think we the same goals in life. I want kids, you don't, I'm optimistic, your close minded. Hope you find somebody with the same mindset.

  • @dinxie8221
    @dinxie8221 Před rokem

    Oh they are SOO cute!!

  • @PrincessDie187
    @PrincessDie187 Před 4 měsíci +1

    She's the most naturally pretty girl I've ever seen

  • @Toeco_tuesdays
    @Toeco_tuesdays Před rokem +2

    This girl is literally me😢!!

  • @leigh7507
    @leigh7507 Před rokem +34

    I love her outlook on kids. She actually cares more about the unborn than most.

    • @Goddess.of.Victory
      @Goddess.of.Victory Před rokem +5

      No she's more a a career independent woman that doesn't need a man" . She'll change her mind when she's too old to bear children & has "powdered eggs "

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Před rokem +3

      @@Goddess.of.Victory you're trying to predict her future which is odd behaviour

    • @Scott-iw5ji
      @Scott-iw5ji Před rokem +5

      Meh. Her attitude about kids just seems like a cop-out in order to cover for a desire just to live selfishly and to not have to do any hard self-reflection or change her outlook. She says that 2 people can't change the world, but she forgets that to a child (or children), those 2 people ARE their world.

  • @gillowens24
    @gillowens24 Před rokem

    That is so sad lost her dad both sound very nice.

  • @mariolaloboz6352
    @mariolaloboz6352 Před 10 měsíci

    I like her very much finally honest person.

  • @JackMontana69
    @JackMontana69 Před rokem

    I LOVE POSITIVITY FOR SURE.

  • @simonscowled9925
    @simonscowled9925 Před rokem +24

    Mark: super mature enlightened dude
    Marie: very physically attractive, hope she gets therapy to help her lower her walls

  • @PacificNWGrl
    @PacificNWGrl Před rokem +1

    These two look like a great fit. I sure hope they make it work.

  • @hideyable
    @hideyable Před 5 měsíci

    I've also been on fire & suffered burns. I've never brought it up on a first date cos I don't think it's as much of a riveting story as this man evidently does.

  • @AN-cy7xm
    @AN-cy7xm Před rokem +3

    She's got amazing eyes. Exotically beautiful.

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 Před rokem +1

    I love his optimism. Don`t understand her, but she is cute. 😊

  • @charlene8239
    @charlene8239 Před rokem

    Cuties, I hope they go far

  • @hotdoggington6962
    @hotdoggington6962 Před 9 měsíci

    He seems like a catch. It's horrible what he had to go through, but he came out the other side of the crucible so much stronger.

  • @ilovemysweeties
    @ilovemysweeties Před rokem

    Ok that was super cute

  • @embisonjones4996
    @embisonjones4996 Před rokem +4

    She doesn't want to have kids with him. Believe me, if he was her type, she would have been open to the idea.

    • @antwto8784
      @antwto8784 Před rokem +1

      No I won't believe you. She doesn't want children. A lot of women don't and when they say that no man can change her mind, no matter how good looking.

    • @sweetstorm7652
      @sweetstorm7652 Před rokem

      True

  • @rranni
    @rranni Před rokem +5

    She was zoning out and not interested

  • @craiglewis4357
    @craiglewis4357 Před rokem +1

    I think Matt is the of guy that can bring her walls down.👍👍👍👍

  • @pcharm3711
    @pcharm3711 Před měsícem

    03:00 i said the same thing to my man and he said we could create heaven on earth for them ❤

  • @BrothersInArms1
    @BrothersInArms1 Před 7 měsíci +1

    They’re a cute couple. When’s the baby due? 😜

  • @nualarosth8448
    @nualarosth8448 Před rokem

    They would make a beautiful couple.

  • @Mokkel73
    @Mokkel73 Před rokem +1

    I would fall in love with her even if I was blind.

  • @purgatory89
    @purgatory89 Před rokem

    Expressing your perspective, based on your personal experience, trauma ..forces them to empathize.. no longer a mutually objective experience.

  • @marnkalman
    @marnkalman Před 11 měsíci

    I had heart surgery at age 10 I’m almost 40 years old and I’m single from Richmond, Virginia

  • @nisnga147
    @nisnga147 Před 2 měsíci

    dude sounds like salesman lol

  • @RadioWhoPoo
    @RadioWhoPoo Před rokem

    Just ONE person can change the world....let alone TWO

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives Před 10 měsíci +1

    2:45 valid

  • @jamesryan82
    @jamesryan82 Před rokem +40

    Americans are so, well, American 🤣🤣

    • @larrypatterson5363
      @larrypatterson5363 Před rokem +6

      Not sure what you mean? Are we optimistic and forthright like Matt, or closed off and guarded like Marie?
      Btw, I was surprised she said yes to a second date.

    • @davidmorley5430
      @davidmorley5430 Před rokem +1

      ​@@larrypatterson5363 I know it's edited and they are probably told to talk about their back stories but they both seemed a bit serious. No flirting either!

    • @larrypatterson5363
      @larrypatterson5363 Před rokem +5

      @@davidmorley5430 I agree. Somewhat serious and not very flirty. Also, I noticed that Marie appeared to be looking about when Matt was talking to her. That’s why I thought Marie was disinterested in him.

    • @SamStone1964
      @SamStone1964 Před rokem +1

      @@larrypatterson5363 He tried to be fun and a little flirty but was attentive enough to rein it in to meet his date where she was.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 Před rokem +2

      Ignorant comment.

  • @serafinhikes
    @serafinhikes Před rokem +1

    She is the perfect woman for me. Her worldview matches 100% with mine.

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 Před rokem +1

    These are two very beautiful people inside and outside. I think the reason she doesn't want children is because of her father passing young. She afraid of abandonment, which is understandable.

  • @skai3294
    @skai3294 Před rokem +1

    That's one of the main reasons I don't want kids.

  • @plasmaarmelund
    @plasmaarmelund Před rokem +2

    He needs to lose those green pants. Dude, you are not Kermit.

  • @feingetarntesfischfilet4841

    If only more people could get over the "I have to pass on my genes🧬"-stage and take care of children in need who are already there...🥺☺️

  • @rauldiazleone9482
    @rauldiazleone9482 Před rokem

    the guy was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo perfect when it comes to personality, you wanna have a proper date? go and talk to him, he will explain what to do!!! he knows !!!he is DA kinGGG Of the dates!!! a saco cerd0!

  • @cathyabrahamse1929
    @cathyabrahamse1929 Před rokem +1

    I think you don't have to give so much personal info on your first date scares people off.
    I full agree be honest but you could wait until you get to know each other first.

  • @katechan8262
    @katechan8262 Před rokem

    Hey

  • @stevelim1842
    @stevelim1842 Před rokem +1

    4:18 Amazing. Be grateful each day you wake up.

  • @patobrien6364
    @patobrien6364 Před 5 měsíci

    Let's just hope his flute
    made it thru intact 😘

  • @NancyFoshee-cl1rl
    @NancyFoshee-cl1rl Před 4 měsíci

    She should ask herself. ...what would dad want for me...and answer that honestly..her father would. want her to open up & love a mate!!! I think Matt is good for her!

  • @kenc9236
    @kenc9236 Před rokem

    Sorry about your Dad's passing.

  • @jasminvavrecka9294
    @jasminvavrecka9294 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow what a dude

  • @laurieg.5371
    @laurieg.5371 Před rokem +5

    Didn't like this one....was depressing. I wish them luck. He's amazing.

  • @LilKay9
    @LilKay9 Před 18 dny

    They want different things... I don't get it

  • @TheElMuffin
    @TheElMuffin Před 6 měsíci

    Give me hope, why don't ya

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper1188 Před rokem +2

    She wasn't interested from the start.

  • @marapeters9144
    @marapeters9144 Před rokem +2

    shes so silly

  • @outsideview9052
    @outsideview9052 Před rokem +1

    He would see her on a casual basis but there isnt much chance of them staying together. She doesnt want children. I guess this man thinks she can change her mind.

  • @LadyNimuey
    @LadyNimuey Před 11 měsíci

    as much as i agree, that they make a sweet couple - if he wants children and she doesn´t, thats just too big of a difference in life goals. so if both are serious this can´t work.

  • @billykidman1879
    @billykidman1879 Před rokem

    he looks much older than 26

  • @ppumpkin3282
    @ppumpkin3282 Před 2 měsíci

    Marie looks much more than 24.

  • @BrandonFord-fc4lj
    @BrandonFord-fc4lj Před rokem

    She doesn’t want kids? Wow she’s a keeper!
    Where can I find this woman’s contact information? Lol

  • @kenrehill8775
    @kenrehill8775 Před 8 měsíci

    “Do you have dietary restrictions” only an American woman can ask that as an opening question on a date.

  • @sweetstorm7652
    @sweetstorm7652 Před rokem

    Kids is a non negotiable, she’s pretty but I hope he meets a woman that is optimistic and wants the same as him.

  • @tiagoagm
    @tiagoagm Před rokem +1

    It was bad from the kids talk.

  • @Gobbygoblin
    @Gobbygoblin Před 9 měsíci

    she looks like taylor swift

  • @mehdimehdikhani5899
    @mehdimehdikhani5899 Před rokem +17

    World is a bad place. Let's make it a terrible place by our pessimism, inaction and laziness.

    • @Perseus-kw3xc
      @Perseus-kw3xc Před rokem +1

      That's American individualism for you

    • @parislove4769
      @parislove4769 Před rokem +1

      Then go change the world and when you are done, tell me to have kids, i'm waiting..⏰

  • @immers2410
    @immers2410 Před rokem +10

    She’s just highly disagreeable. It has nothing to do with her dad passing.

    • @sm3296
      @sm3296 Před rokem +6

      As someone who has lost close family members and going through grief, I know all too well the way I put up walls, had broken filters, wanted to hide from the world as it was all too confusing and painful. She’s going to be fine. I hope with this lovely man in her life to help her through it.

    • @rickyb725
      @rickyb725 Před rokem +3

      She is very genuine and in touch with her feelings. Unlike you x

    • @jamesgem1809
      @jamesgem1809 Před rokem +1

      You got that right. Zero to do with father.

    • @antwto8784
      @antwto8784 Před rokem +1

      Spoken like someone who has clearly never lost a loved one. When you lose someone you are close to, you become very cold on the inside.

    • @SamStone1964
      @SamStone1964 Před rokem

      @@antwto8784 Every individual has a different experience with bereavement and grief. Some of us go deep into the pain and become softer, more compassionate and loving and dissolve the walls.

  • @ELEKTRARE
    @ELEKTRARE Před rokem

    She is very pretty really , this dude will struggle to get her okay

  • @wade2bosh
    @wade2bosh Před rokem +3

    he should drop her. the world is better than ever. he should have kids withs omeone else