Attract Anything by Letting GO & Detaching
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
- In today's video, my loves, I talk about how letting go and detaching from someone or something will actually help you to manifest them TO you.
Discover the secrets of letting go and detaching from people or situations to effortlessly attract them into your life. Learn how the art of emotional detachment and releasing attachments can actually pave the way for successful manifestation and stronger connections. Unleash your manifesting potential and create the relationships and experiences you desire by embracing the power of letting go.
(00:00) Mastering the Art of Letting Go
(01:40) Avoid Throwing Your Energy at Your Desires during the Detachment Process
(05:31) Benefits of Emotional Detachment for Personal Growth
(09:04) Strategies to Identify and Release Attachments
(11:52) Journaling Techniques for Effective Detachment
(13:55) Empower Yourself: Tips to Reclaim Your Energy through Detachment
Journal prompts:
1. Who is the person or what is the situation you feel attached to? Identify that.
2. Reflect on the messages this attachment sends about your identity.
3. In what way do you benefit from this attachment?
4. Envision your life and self-image without this attachment.
5. Contemplate your potential for growth and transformation without this attachment.
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I'm attached on finding true love & start a family. I'm 30 and scared of not finding the right person on time. I'm learning to detach this limited believe & to stay present in the moment ✨
I found my true Love at 46 years old … it’s amazing and so healthy!!
You’ve got this ❤
Start loving you and all will fall into place! ❤️
Just get out where you can meet people and enjoy your life! Life is too short to feel so worried about not finding what you want. Fill your life with fun, work and goals and you will find the this person as they will be very attracted to you if you are doing well in life and attracting positive energy.
I'll be 30 this year as well and going through this exact struggle too. I keep trying to remember advice a friend gave me that I think helps put everything into perspective.
"It will be what it needs to be."
same here! for me what has helped so far was deleting dating apps and focusing on what makes me happy and just… living. I have many beautiful things to experience and so many great people surrounding me ❤
@@dawncollins3161 thank you. I will be 47 on Sunday and am still single.
I miss being in love - loving and being loved . I love myself but I want to share things with someone I want to be someone’s safe place and I want to be theirs . I feel something missing. I want a partner, but the right partner. I don’t want to settle.
Hey how's it going? I'm hoping you manifested somebody like this! Pls give us an update so the rest of us can get a boost of confidence! Have a good day!
I never had any partner. Ever. I want this too. I haven't settled in 10 years or 14 years since the last time I dated! I know my wife is out there. I know it. I know what I'm seeking is seeking me. You got to believe this. It's truth. Once you align with that energy, it will come into your life. Remember. We attract what we ARE, not what we want. If you are not attracting what you want, it's because you are there yet. You need to let it go. LEt it go. It will appear when you don't expect it. I"m working on myself and I"m freaking 49 years old.
How is she always on time!? Lol.
Literally!
Heheheh🥰
She’s tuned in! ❤
I was totally thinking the same!!!
I said the same thing lol
I let go, I allow what is to be.
I retreat back to me. I release all tension.
I am happy and calm and receptive.
I love that expect nothing from anyone and appreciate everything the art of unattached living
“A state of allowing, surrender to cosmic bliss… to the divine.” how beautifully said. Thank you so, Leeor, for your beautiful gift.♥️🙏🏼💫🕊️☁️✨
Nothing in this life is constant except change.
I am scared of change.
You are truly yourself when you let go.
Forcing ourselves out the comfort zone all summer 2023
@@angeliclizzie we are! 💗
Seeing this while I’m in the process of detachment, works like a good motivation to remain present❤
I needed this video. I really did. I put my partner on the highest pedestal and then when his traumas are triggered then he triggers mine and then i find myself seeking validation from my family and friends and its such a cycle for us. I want to learn to seek validation from myself and trust. Trust in myself. Trusting myself that i would walk away when i need too. Trust that i have all the answers inside.
“everything has a beginning and an end” i SO needed to hear that 🥰
Since the beginning of this year i have been attached to this person hoping that this connection would bloom into a relationship. I lost sight of all my goals and was hyper-focusing only on this man. I get upset when things don't work out the way i hoped they would. I feel myself having mood swings more often, i have been lashing out at people because im disappointed that, that person did not reciprocate things the way i expected them to.
This video made me realised how attached i am to this person and how that attachment has been damaging to my life. I have been on a roller coaster of emotions, feeling disconnected from myself, since knowing this person
Thank you Leeor for this video. God sent you as an angel on my way to make me realise these things.
I hope that i can come back here soon to tell you that i have healed from this and that i am doing better❤🥺
How are you doing? 🥺🩷
Same situation 😢
Totally understand. I am also letting go of someone and putting the focus back on my life, happiness. ❤
This sounds like anxious preoccupied attachment. You can heal some of those wounds. Look into Thais Gibson’s Personal Development School videos etc.
I was beggining to feel a bit lost, and then out of nowhere I see your notification on my phone, a best friend calls me, and another youtuber I love uploads a video. I have to learn to accept that the universe will come to my aid when I need it, and it's okay 🥺💕
Also, what a powerful and baeutiful message, thank you Leeor. This past two years have really taught me to let go of people I loved, people I didn't want to leave, because I was scared. I was scared of standing on my own two feet. I was scared I couldn't trust myself.
But I have... and I have never led me astray, my heart, my soul has never allowed me too.
Learing to allow parts of me to die, to feel them literally dying, learning to surf the waves and to allow the universe to guide me.
I live so much closer to my heart, to people, to the universe. I am learning to love freely. To love not to hold. To admire, not to acquire.
I have learned a very beautiful way of loving. Holding people in my embrace, allowing me to feel their heat, their love, their presence, and allowing me the freedom of letting them go, of holding onto the knowing that everything is okay. I am okay, they are okay, and everything will be okay.
P.s: Love you very very much Leeor! Biggest hug ☺
If you don't mind my asking, what makes it easier for you to "let go" of someone you didn't want to let go?
@@Kidrobot016 Great Question!!!! 🙏🏻🤍. What do you think please, Euseph?
@@Kidrobot016 hello Euseph, thank you for asking :). I think that for me it took a lot of shadow work. I really had to sit with my fears, my discomfort and my pain. For me it was about learning how to find security in myself, so that I know that even if life changes I can trust my decisions, and even if I make a mistake i am capable of acquiring the tools I need to navigate anything that aggravates me. I think a lot of people talk about sitting with things and never go in detail, in my case I had to do a lot, a lot of journaling, I vented a lot to my therapist, and I had to change my beliefs. I used to be very insecure in my own decisions, so I relied on the people in my life to "guide" me per se. So if they though I should do A, even if i thoughy B was better I do A, bcs I was scared of failing or doing something wrong or not being able to deal with my mistakes.
Once I tackled that I started becoming much more secure. It's not about knowing I will always do the right think, it's about knowing I'llbe fine even if i don't.
My advice for you would be to understand what underlying issue makes you attach to people, are you relying on them to decide for you? Are you scared of change? If so why?
It really is about understanding what your fears and insecurities are trying to tell you, and help yourself through them.
Hope you find this helpful Euseph, sending you the biggest hug ❤
@Kelly Fortes I just woke up from a dream that I believe came from yet another fear. The universe (GOD) really has my back because right before bed, I asked for strength and guidance to ground myself and the tools to rid myself of my certain fears. I woke up to this comment, and it literally has already made my day! Thank you, Kelly! I always hear about shadow work being a key, but never know if I'm doing it right. I did start to journal, and a lot came out. Yes, you have helped me tremendously. I'm going to continue to sit with myself and journal my fears and insecure thoughts. I also need to practice trusting my ideas and decisions even if someone I think is better has a different plan or idea. That's a really big one for me. I think half the time I just don't speak up or voice my opinion because I've decided they are better or I already lost.
I cried reading this. I never thought about being scared to trust myself or stand on my own until I read those words, thank you for making me more aware of why I’m attached.
This is what I needed right now. Thank you Leeor! You keep our vibrations way way way up ❤
I love you so much Leeor! Thank you for teaching me and helping me to become a better person. I have already achieved huge things and I believe that miracles are going to contine to happen. Couldn't be more thankful!! ❤
Grateful I clicked on this. Definitely a message I needed to hear today 🙏🏻💕
I love what you shared about how vital it is to remove ourselves from a situation in order to get perspective and gain clarity on what's going on, and how this relates so beautifully to the creative process. Your video is helping me see this so much more clearly- it's ALL relationship! Like in painting, we need those same step-backs in order to get a clearer sense of the art that's being created. It's in that perspective where we can more clearly see where we're forcing or "trying" to "make" something happen, and we also get more clarity on what's asking to emerge next. We can't attune to these subtleties when we're so attached to seeing it from one specific viewpoint. Your videos Leeor have been activating so much inspiration within me since I found your channel a few months ago- thank you for all that you share here
Perfect timing!! I have been attached to the pain and hurt my Ex husband caused! I need to release this TODAY, NOW!
I have found an amazing true love that I AM forever grateful for!!
Thank you for sending this to me exactly when i needed it❤ hope you have a beautifully blessed day
I listened to this video back to back like 3 or 4 times to let it digest & not just consume. A season I’m in and working on but I really wrote the questions down and took notes & I will return to it and find out more about myself & how I truly feel.
Over the past couple of years you’ve literally transformed my life. I am so thankful to you. Your affirmations are the best I’ve come across. Your explanation of LOA and detachment are the best and this video is also extremely well explained and helpful. Thank you. I feel instantly happy after watching this ❤🙏
Leeor, this video is so syncronistic to my life. Just this night/morning I couldn't sleep, reliving all the good and bad feelings that this long attachment, 10 years of it, has been causing me. I've powerfully worked it out yesterday through writing and love. Today, I feel this video is here to help me close this chapter of my life, I know. Thank You for putting your heart in every single video you create ❤ You're my inspiration, soon I'll be able to buy one of your amulets and hopefully participate in your future events. Wish you the best for this week and always 💜
Literally needed to hear every word in this video for confirmation that I’m doing the right thing currently. Thank you for creating this video for us
Wow, this was exactly the message(s) I needed to hear. So many attachments - to people, identity, beliefs. I am going to rewatch a few more times and then some. 💙
I thought about “who would I become if I keep the attachment”; for example, when hanging around a family member- I get “sucked” in to the vibrations of who I once was. I know I have to stay true to myself and continue standing my ground: then I realize I dim myself/ my light so that i can relate to them or connect with them. But I realize I don’t want to be doing that anymore. So detachment here I am, I’m ready to face it, to learn from it, and embody my higher self.
🎯 I feel you
Seeing you pop up on the screen makes my whole day, I love you and your beautiful energy Leeor💛
I didn’t watch CZcams for 2 months. Today I opened the app and the first video that popped up was yours. Talk about perfect timing. Suffocating someone with my love, being attached…that was me. And it was hurting us both. I was finally ready to figure out how to detach and you’re right on time with guidance ♥️
Yaaaaaaaasssss!!!!! You are nailing it. I know my energy is strong and I have always had to be mindful of not overwhelming people with it.
cried at number 2 ♡ this was amazing. thank you
Thank you, Leeor ❤
I recently started feeling that I needed to detach, I could feel it so intensely this week. I struggle with an anxious-avoidant attachment style and have been feeling hurt and tempted to detach in a less healthy way, like being resentful and brushing off plans if they ask. But I know that reaction doesn't resonate with me, it's just a trauma response I've been healing for many years. Your message came at the perfect time and it feels like exactly the guidance I need.
Thank you, Leeor! Perfect timing as always. I needed this for my attachment to money and where I would like to be vs where I am. It’s time to ‘date’ myself and pour into the practices I know will raise my vibration again. We know what we need to do, but we continue to stay depleted and stay on the hamster wheel. It’s time to choose what our soul needs 💙
Thank for this. I had tears steaming down my face. This hit me on a different level and I really needed to receive these words. I’m going through a really hard time in my life with attachment and anxiety and listening to this grounded me. Saving to a playlist to come back to ❤
Never have I ever related to something so much. This was eye opening on another level. Thank you so much for explaining it all so well and helping me to such incredible new insights. I have new ways to look in the mirror and start my growth now. Beyond grateful to have found your channel!
First line in and you’re already a magician. I’m so happy to be a part of your energy
Leoor this is exactly what I needed!! Randomly out of no where- I’ve found myself ruminating over my first relationship that ended 4 years ago. I don’t think my body fully metabolized the trauma and experience. I prayed today for closure, I still harbor a lot of confusion, pain and anger towards him. I want to break free and call back my power. Thank you!!!
It's true when they say "you heal the world through you"🙏🏼
This is the best video i have ever watched on CZcams. I really appreciate and value your every single word. Its like a concentrated formula of overcoming stress and healing ourselves!!♥️
This is what I needed. Thank goodness it found me. I haven't been honest with my attachments in years but lately my pain points have been glaringly obvious. To the point where I can no longer ignore them. I am looking forward to being with myself and completing the journal prompts. I have been in a heart space where I felt like no one chose me but truthfully I haven't made me a choice in years. I am looking forward to just being with me in an honest way; I desire to like and love who I am. Thank you for this video.
I’ve listened to other people and you. I come back to you. You break it down and lift it up. You are amazing!!! I hope to be like you or at least keep this mindset. Absolutely beautiful. 🙏🥰
Hey girl ❤ I want you to to know how much I enjoy these moments I get to share with you. I am sending you so much love. Have SUCH a good day because you deserve ittttt after all you have done for us 😊
You speak so well. I'm learning how to let attachments relax and breathe, and this video comes at the perfect time. And I just want to say that you reflect the best part of this philosophy, and what you say resonates deeply with me. I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you.
This video just came in PERFECT TIMING, thank you Leeor
this video popped up while i’m going through the worst situation iv had w a roomate. i appreciate you
A lot of the times we have unhealthy attachements and i had to learn the hard way. I've been bullied in school so I never had a lot of friends, also i lost a lot of friends. I guess that's where my attachement comes from. 14 years ago i met some girl at my work who i was on the same page with and we became really good friends. I guess She was the friend i never had before, a few weeks ago she commited suïcide and it created so many anxiety inside of me. This video makes me understand the situation and myself a little better, so thanks for that!
YOU CALLED ME OUT IMDEIATLY omg I love it tho it was the perfect description of attachment. I needed to hear this❤
This is Divine Timing - I’ve been resisting letting go against my own nature - Thank you!
i was begging myself to resist the urge to act impulsilby against my belief just bcuz i was "doubtin or fearing" and i was looking for one of those affirmation videos of yours and this one pop up I'm so happy, you blessed my tough time, I'm happy to hear your voice in my state right now, lot of love, I knew learning to detaching would be the next step I'm so happy you are my teacher today ajjaj
From your journal prompts I’ve realised I want to feel like I’m chosen, this has been an ongoing need for me which I must explore further. Thankyou x
This is so beautiful 🤧🤧🤧 I absolutely needed to hear this. I felt so alone and I felt like taking control of every situation and every person when really I should control my own actions and detach whilst I take responsibility for my own actions
Great video and great examples of how to detach. Physical and digital distance is so healing and helpful for detachment. And, bringing attention to what you do have over what you don’t.🙏🏾💜
You always always always post the right thing at the right time thanks Leeor 💝 needed this
I am so grateful for this video , you can't imagine how much I needed it at this time going through a heartbreak. I love you
Needed this today. ❤ I love you Leeor.
You were on FIRE with this one 🔥 I’ve been feeling attached/obsessive over certain relationships in my life recently and trying to detach as much as I can. Not throwing out the fishing reels right now. Just chillin in my boat.
Here’s something I thought up; I like to think it when I am out and about: “I give out smiles for free, as only what is best & meant to be will flow to me with ease” 💛❤️💚
Going to watch this very soon!! I know it will be absolutely spectacularly, blissfully amazing!! Thank you, Leeor!! 🙌🏻✨💚🙏🥳
I can't believe just by watching this video & ofc taking notes and practicing what she said over & over again my whole changed. I can't be enough thankful of you cuz you literally saved my life from super anxious attachment to fully detachment & freedom . I belive I still have lots of things to learn and imma keep my eyes on you ❤️
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Wow just what I needed, so on time🌞 so tuned in, thank you Leeor❤️
You’re Godsent. I have been struggling with sadness and neediness for months.. and couldn’t find resolution within myself .. despite knowing mentally much about the laws of the universe/LOA/Neville Goddard etc. but I really needed this process you just shared. God bless 🙏
I love this, am maneuvering through surrendering and nourishing myself love giving more to me then focusing a lot of my boyfriend, the relationship
It feels refreshing and nurturing for me to give to me and out my energy in me making sure that I’m not pulling away
This is so helpful Leeor ❤️🌈🎉
i never go around commenting this stuff on people’s content but genuinely, i love you Leeor. you have changed my life for the better in so many way, almost held my hand and walked me through my spiritual journey and through so much of my healing. not only that but it feels like you give me cheat codes to life. the work you’re doing matters more than i can even fathom. i’m grateful to have found you when i did ❤️
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You have no idea how badly I needed this right now
What I love about you is that you never talk about ''attachment'' as something shameful
I'm a anxious attachment style and I cling to others. I fear abonnement! At almost 49, I"m learning how to go within to date myself. I don't have a partner and don't have family or siblings. No friends in the town in live in and now I'm making new friends! I loved your video. I started going to CODA in Jan 2020. Been going off / on for years. Not every week. defiantly a game changer when letting go. Great great video. I couldn't have said it better. That low self esteem and that root Charka gets clogged then we don't feel WORTH love, or good friendships and we can self sabotage the friendship! No more. I say I"m worth good loving friends and I say that I am worth my own time instead of giving my power away to others and expecting them to be something they are not. I'm done with that.
Oh Leeor 🥺 I needed this! And you’re always in time. I came to CZcams looking from a video from you about the full moon around now or any new video tbh, then I saw this video and the likes were at 444 (an angel number). I just know I’m at the right place at the right time again! 🥺❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much 🙏🏻
OMG i love you soooo much! You have no idea of how much you have changed my life, how much I have grown by learning from your videos, and really practicing all the love you pass on! I am soo grateful for you! Thank you leeor! Hope someday I can meet you in person!
I needed this very message today..!!
You've touched on so many points... listened three times.
You have such a sweet and gentle and thorough way of teaching... you are a blessing....Thank you...🙏🏻
Thank you so much for the encouraging advice. This is what I needed to hear during this time of low vibration/energy. I’m taking back my energy from this relationship now. ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Leeor, this is a video I needed to watch. The very reminder I needed. Much love!
wow, the clarity I gained from the journal prompts you provided is so empowering. I discovered that my attachments to men & my dream career are both coming from a need to feel safe by predicting my future & planning. but I've realized, although I think I know what I want - only time will tell what is truly best for me, and God & the universe will provide just that. thank you Leeor
More than a person per se these days, this really clicks for me right now with situations or aspects of self. Letting go and allowing flow and change, is really what I need right now
That is so well explained! It makes sense to let go when you gain awareness of your own energy output, including the expectations & attachment to results. This video made me feel free in a way.... Thank you, Leeor.
I’m going through a really hard time of my life right now. Every time I felt anxious, I listened to this and it instantly helped to calm me down and be more peaceful with my inner self. Thank you for creating this video. ❤
Me too💝
Being laid off for a few months, I have become attached to finding the perfect job within a field and status I want. I will continue to do the work I need to internally and externally but I’m letting go of the attachment to certain roles, companys and even type of work I am desperately holding on to.
I'm attached to my ex :(
He broke up with me 2 months ago and it's been so hard to let him go, our relationship was so amazing and the best i've ever had, we planned so many things for our future together and I was sure he was the love of my life, but he left me because he's going through some tough times and is not emotionally available to have a serious relationship. Although I understand and have empathy for him, I still love him and want to be with him so bad. I think about him everyday and everytime anything reminds me of him or the pain of not being with him, it makes me cry like a baby. I think this video came up in my feed for a reason and everything you said resonated with me a lot. I hope I'm able to move on and let go of him, because so far everything feels like emotional hell :(
I can feel that pain
I'm sorry. Hope you're doing better. I feel the same way.
hi love, how are things going now?
I hope my girl thinks like this as well and come back, i really miss her alot, she breakup with me cause just little argument and she go crazy and breakup with me 2 months before
Yr don't worry everyone is going through the same thing ...just keep faith in god
Wow. This is the theme of my life right now. For several weeks I’ve been saying I’m emotionally detaching then i see your notification at 12:22 😮❤ can’t wait to watch thank you
perfect timing as always, thank you for this one
where I'm at in life currently, I'm wanting so much. It's great to have this reminder, thank you.
Glad to be one of the first people here! ❤ You always bring such a soothing energy with a very powerful message! Thanks a lot Leeor!
I didn't realize I needed this right now but it is so helpful and I'm so glad it's here, thank you!
the whole video felt so warm :') I'm really going through it right now and this helped me gain so much clarity on the situation and myself, thank you
i came across this video bc it was suggested to me and i am going through a healing journey right now. i was involved with a guy for a few months and i grew so attached to him, that i abruptly ended things with him. i didnt want to do it and i thought i had made a mistake. i was going through guilt, grief, anger, sadnes, and i felt like i had lost everything. but i didnt. i only gained more strength into realizing that i dont need anyone to give me happiness. happiness lies within me. im on day 5 of my healing journey and by watching videos like this one, i know that i have the power to learn detachment and use it in my next relationship.
I've seen so many videos on this topic. This by far is such a great articulated, clear message and delivery. Thank you for you video!
This was amazing!!! Def needed this explanation! ❤
For all the journal prompts i had no answer for what impact that person is having in me ! My intention when I clicked this video was to just listen, as I am your subscriber and I appreciate your words ! But at the end this just left me BLANK !! 😊
This was super helpful. I love knowing what the steps are. A lot of people on CZcams just say let it go, but with the steps and the questions it’s now a guide to move through letting go. Thank you so much.
Leeor you're glowing! And every single word so so so wise. Thank you so much for sharing ❤🌙👏
You’re an angel Leeor, I always take away so much value from your content. Thank you 🙏🏼
I feel like I’ve been searching for this video for a year! Thank you 🙏🏾 💯
I have never heard anybody explain attachment better than you. Thank you. I am just living it and you have clarified it for me so well. Time to start making my own powerful spider web. I love this idea!!!!
Thank you for explaining it so profoundly and deeply. Instead of just telling us to detach and focus on self. 💗 This has helped me so much in my current situation in helping me leg go of my ex after so long…
Always on time! Thank you love ⭐️
love the wisdom you share with us. thank you for cultivating a community where we can all do our inner work together and grow😢
Crazyyyy timing girllll, thank you!
Finally, the spiritual perspective and dynamics on attachment and how to bring out energy back to ourselves with specific clear nurturing steps that feel very doable and reachable. Thank you, I love you. I’ve subscribed. Can’t wait to learn more from you 💫
Loved it!! Felt a big release as your words resonated so much in my being!! Thankyou Leeor❤️💝
Omg, THANK YOU soooooo much! I really needed this due to a break up that was killing me inside. Thank you
I needed this so much ! Thank you going to go through these questions and let go ! ❤
Needed to hear this.❤
I was literally feeling so drained today, as I'm focusing on getting a job, felt like I was under too much pressure, but now I feel better .❤
Thanku, Thanku, Thanku Leeor for this wonderful guidance, it felt as if I'm talking to one of my guiding angels, guiding me ❤
Hey Lakshya. Were you able to detach from the outcome?
came at the perfect time honestly. thankyou leeor
Leeor this video was so helpful! 2 days ago I was talking about this with my friends and today your video shows up ❤️
Thank you i really needed that ❤️
It's still painful but hopefully things get better