"If you cant handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best"
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- čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
- #dating #relationships #marilynmonroe #knowyourworth #narcissism #bpd
A short discussion on the phrase falsely attributed to Marilyn Monroe "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best", and why people who use it are not likely to ever have stable and peaceful relationships.
Awesome content chris
If she wasnt there in her prime, dont save her in her decline.
Don't save, ever.
Fun Fact: Their "best" and their "worst" are the same.
"Any reaction is a good reaction because it shows he still cares" really struck home for me. Thanks for the post. I've been dating emotionally unavailable damaged women and this kind of behavior demands boundaries I have struggled with putting into my life to have happy relationships.
I'm glad it helped. Be warned, emotionally healthy girls will not seem as exciting but you have to pursue a strategy of delayed gratification on this.
I don't reward bad behaviour with an emotional reaction, so when that behaviour comes out long before anyone would consider dating and I don't react to it, I either shrug my shoulders and cut contact or she will because she realises it'll never work on me. I have managed to train one woman to behave, and the irony is that she seems to treat me better than she does her husband. No, we're not seeing each other.
Lol I say this to women all the time to point out that absurdity, stupidity, and double standards.
I've found that very few women say this. But it's an instant red flag if they do.
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Yeah, it would be nice to meet someone to date for the first time in decades who wasn't a train wreck and who didn't expect to be able to control, use, or emasculate men and that she'll reciprocate, because having boundaries and expectations that she'll behave makes a guy undatable. If a guy is a complete walkover and gives her feminine energy, she'll be interested. It's funny that when they discover very early on that you have boundaries that they immediately vanish.
The wrong ones will. (this is most, but not all). Most of the good ones are taken but occasionally become available.
@@busybecomingmyself This has been every woman I've met over the past 24 years, except one, briefly in 2007. I know a few businessmen such as yourself, but they're unmarried. Though they meet plenty of women, they don't date because they've found all there is to meet are manipulative users, so they gave up and spend time with their friends and relatives.
It's curious that the 'good ones' who make themselves available to me are married or are in LTRs. But, I have morals.
Hwyl am y tro.
@@EE12CSVT then they're not good ones.
I didn't realise you were also Welsh. I moved a thousand miles away and the difference in quality is huge. I'm not saying that attractive and stable and relationship suitable women can't be found in Wales but you're going to have to do more looking than many other places (no place is a haven though).