UTHANDO NESTHEMBU - Growing Up In The Most Famous POLYGAMY Will Break You | ABONGWE MSELEKU

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ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 93 - Abongwe Mseleku
Daughter of Ma Cele and famous polygamist Musa Mseleku joins us on Engineer Your Life and unpacks the dynamics of growing up in a polygamous family, the pain of your whole life being scrutinised on TV and finding her inner voice in a large existence.
Hosted by: Lungelo KM
Cinematography by: Tino Media
Content Production by: Owethu Mhlongo
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[@EngineerYLShow]

Exclusive conversation about the trials, the blessings and the ethics learnt as a young person raised in the most famous polygamous family.
A lesson on humility and self-acceptance.

[@nanazimkhize2149]

Lungelo!!! Wow! Your communication skills are second to none. Angfun' ukungasho . Keep up the good work.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you kindly MaMkhize❤

[@nanazimkhize2149]

@@EngineerYLShow Kwathi cosololo bakithi, uma ungbiza nge-DNA code or should I say 'Utatakho code' or better yet ' Serial number'? 😊😊😄😄You are welcome, Lungelo. All the best in your current and future endeavours.

[@nosimilomthethwa2812]

@@EngineerYLShow,,z

[@nosimilomthethwa2812]

Z❤zzxx

[@bontlemaake1771]

Abongwe is such an exceptional child. The articulation 👌🏽

[@vfabach2874]

I agree with you Bontle....she's absolutely AMAZING , GROUNDED and so so HUMBLE ❤️

[@kutullomankoko9640]

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[@thobekamrauli6895]

Love Ndlunkulu s kids very humble, respectful she raised them well❤

[@happysehume]

One thing about u’MaCele!

[@matshedisotsilo5231]

Love them too, so humble shame👌👌

[@siviwekula760]

She's done a great job raising them👌

[@lwaziehgumede6413]

A job well done by MaCele this goes to show that she is not what she is portrayed to be on television. What we see on TV is ratings for the show.

[@tozamamlomo665]

This child is so so matured.I like the part where she says there are children who are orphans but they are extremely successful& some donot have fathers.I like it.Big up Abongwe

[@angiemakhubela]

Macele’s kids are very humble. Kuddos to the parents ❤

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

Right?! Even Lwandle Jnr is as respectful and calm

[@melanin_130]

The most calmest podcadt in SA❤❤❤❤ maturity and respect😊

[@Khanyisa92]

I love the thoughtfulness, sensitivity and gentleness that was shown by Lungelo during this interview. I felt him literally respecting Abongwe’s boundaries, some of our podcasters could learn a thing a or two here❤

[@nanazimkhize2149]

You couldn't have articulated it better! You are spot on. Well- said Khanyisa.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you so much. My heart appreciates this ❤️❤️❤️

[@vfabach2874]

​@@EngineerYLShowI subscribed immediately after this interview. I have been watching for a while without subscribering...I connected with you today. Thank you for your genuine care and sensitivity.

[@thinamakovere9007]

I have also subscribed because of this interview.

[@keneilwemakakatlelo5397]

Macele, you've done very well, your kids are down to earth, soft spoken.

[@matshedisotsilo5231]

Well done Mme

[@Liz1418]

I kmow im going to watch this interview 3x if not 5 that's how much I luv Abongwe no Lwandle. Bigup to MaCele for raising them well.

[@sontomtolo473]

What a sweet young lady, ingane ezthobile. Mama must be so proud😊

[@mariangambi883]

U are famous world wide even here in the USA 🇺🇸

[@nokwazishezi7580]

MaCele's kids are so respectful and very humble ❤️

[@PhiwayinkosiKhanyile]

Lungelo I understand your channel is not big as it supposed to be, but 1 thing i can confirm as a viewer of many podcasts ukuthi your questioning style is ncaaaa👌👌❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

❤❤❤❤

[@gladysthusile6764]

Waze wamuhle abongwe Macele kodwa ngikuthwesa umqhele ngezi ngane zakho uzukhulisa kahle❤❤

[@user-xs4mv4zq5f]

Unfortunately we don't choose the families we are born in they choose us❤

[@ConnieRamasike]

Abongwe and Lwandle are really humble...must be a true reflection of their Mom ...kudos to you MaCele🎉

[@bongiwemakhaza1833]

An introduction of who she is, her parents and family structure would have been great for context but great interview though.

[@tebogokganakga4231]

Totally agree. They assumed that we all knew her.

[@zuzuh5755]

MaCele raised her children very well. They are so kind and humble. Abongwe! when you look at her in the side, she look exactly like his father. That was so cool Abongwe❤.

[@annienai]

True so kind

[@sarahthulare4694]

They are just humble beings ,, it has nothing to do with Macele
My mom was a very humble person kodwa my sister on the other hand, you’d swear she was raised in a different way by different people Iyo

[@asandakhathi]

She's so well spoken my word

[@dineonkatswang4791]

Wow Abongwe very matured, respectful, humble and calm your very good

[@cynthiamavasa2785]

The dude doing an interview his so sweet hle 😊😊😊... Abongwe is an amazing soul hle

[@leratomamabolo]

Abongwe is calm, beautiful and respectful. Love her❤️

[@DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc]

Ma Cele "s kids are very very humble uyakwazi ukufundisa ingane inhlonipho I love Ma Cele"s family God continue bless them

[@bongiwengowapi5412]

It's my first time to watch this,she seems intelligent and mature,I love this interview,it's like I am watching an adult,she is lovable and smart!

[@mapulamaunatlala]

She is so authentic , herself ,respectful wow I applaud her parents. That is so rich very big deal thank you abongwe well done.

[@neosjournal_]

Abongwe is the coolest sibling

[@user-ui5uf8dt1g]

Macele your kid's are humble sisi good job on raising your kid's ❤❤

[@mbandazayoyolisa5849]

Macele did a good job raising her kids

[@NomathembaNgxola]

Love u baby...beautiful aura
Respectful.Matured..Humble
The list is endless...What a coothed Soul

[@nomcebosokhela8279]

Abongwe has her head screwed on right. Her parents did a great job raising her.

[@user-wm1ro4cn6w]

Such a wise young person ,I love how she takes time to respond ,bless her ❤️ 💗 💕 ♥️

[@joycebuthelezi3601]

Look exactly like Mpumelelo truly brother and sister❤

[@brendamlaba3587]

So humble and well spoken ingane zamaCele ziyahlonipha bandla. We love u Abongwe ❤️

[@user-zq8sy8gs5x]

Oww bethunani maCele abantwana bakho they are so humble

[@NomsLoots]

MaCele’s kids are so grounded my word. Such humility is inspiring. Humble yourself by the side of the Lord and He will lift you up 🥹

[@tshepisomokoena4149]

Such a great interviewer I love how you made her feel at ease in terms of asking the question of her sexuality

[@conniemorapi9891]

❤woow love this

[@nonsikeleocleopatra377]

Ndlovukazi Macele you have done exceptionally well when raising your. May they all follow in Abongwe & Lwandle Steps.

[@teboJoh]

Abongwe is smart matured well mannered respectful open minded almost well rounded character. This podcast also Big ups Lu🎉

[@user-ks3up1lv2w]

❤❤❤❤❤I love her

[@asiveangel4940]

Here here!

[@lettyjanemahlangu1152]

MaCele, you are blessed to have polite humble kids, siyakubongisa. It's definitely the way you brought them up. Congratulations Ndlunkulu

[@mondemdakane161]

Maceles kids are very respecting very humble, well done Macele

[@thisiscolbert3007]

Present! 🙋‍♀️

[@ZinhleMbatha-op8ln]

My favorite ❤

[@mahlozinibasi9560]

She articulates herself so beautifully ❤

[@thabelanglawrencenthako2024]

Wow! the maturity of this young lady is on another level 💯❤️ shout-out to the Mselekus

[@melisamoyo7751]

She's so smart and humble

[@nonnydlurminey2377]

I just love her ❤

[@nosiphopatricia4154]

❤❤❤abongwe

[@bongiwesithole9376]

I love you Abongwe you are a humble girl.Big up to my angel.💥💫💫

[@QueenRadebe-ku2if]

Oh I love Aya ❤

[@thelaalbertscorner]

I love this❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@masentlejiyane6021]

She's beautiful ❤️

[@amandasyethemba9628]

Oh Abongwe ❤❤❤

[@nosiphooqaah6771]

I like this child so much

[@londz_sa]

I love abongwe❤

[@Renei145]

Love her spirit❤

[@tlhomphomalumbela2855]

Literally my favorite podcast!!!

[@AsangeQati]

She is humble ❤

[@tshepisolijane2452]

Ma Cele is avery deep woman. Very wise aswell. Its no womder she has kids like ones she has. ❤

[@leratomashiloane4665]

Please get comfortable chairs for your guests. Seeing the feet flying high in the air really looks painful.

[@NormaMtshali]

When you short if u want your feet to touch the ground you seat in the middle of the chair instead of back back.Dangling your feet is more comfortable trust me

[@sanelekula3647]

@@NormaMtshali no back support?😭

[@luvflowakhuzwayo2004]

😂😂 kodwa nawe

[@gingertwala8474]

There's an epic level of wholesomeness & grounding that Ma-Cele instills in the growth of her kids, grandkids included.
These kids have beautiful spirits. Such stability is commendable💞👏👏.

[@vfabach2874]

Amen🙏🏾

[@palesamhlambi8478]

True ❤

[@Mbalings]

I think MaCele is also humble and grounded but she has been through a lot. I feel i have misunderstood her as well. Otherwise, who are the kids taking after? ❤

[@gingertwala8474]

​@@MbalingsTrue hey, sometimes we're victims of our own circumstances, it's in how we choose to not allow such to alter who we are, guess Ma-Cele chose sereneness hence her very grounded kiddies😉.

[@turnersway7410]

our lungsta😍

[@nondumisocm]

Love you Abongwe❤

[@jaycoo81]

She’s so calm😊

[@nobommaganga2035]

I love this child❤

[@nkosinothandozulu5733]

👏👏👏👏 Good Episode

[@user-fp9ii6yl8c]

Tops to this interview

[@PhumzilePatience-lx2qe]

Luv her she's so humble ❤❤❤

[@spitfire9502]

I like her😊❤❤

[@NomathembaNgxola]

Very Coothed.

[@YolokaziChagi]

I love her soo much ❤❤❤❤

[@mosothosophy7830]

Very calm...I love her ❤

[@unathi_pinky]

Abongwe ❤❤❤

[@msvee1320]

I loveee her 🥹🥰❤️

[@nosiphosomniso7533]

Abonge !!!! such wisdom, I salute you ❤

[@phelosikhakhane]

So articulate and beautiful.

[@NonhleLanga-xb7zc]

Abongwe love her spirit 🌻💚

[@mathotoalina7828]

I love Abongwe o na le hlompho le botho

[@thasy_masilela]

Wow Abo🥹♥️ Super proud of you👏

[@mashadimokgata871]

🎉🎉So beautiful Abongwe sis. I love you girl

[@nhlanhlamanatha8799]

Muhle Abo and very original

[@nozimbali_n]

she’s so well spoken and respectful🥹

[@mamzoshangase3851]

You are so down to earth, God bless you

[@patmadyibi8291]

Eloquent Abongwe 🙌🏽❤

[@phathiwephakathi1327]

All mamkhulu's kids are so humbled ❤❤

[@palesamhlambi8478]

It must be God❤

[@user-ii1zo8hn1z]

Ufana no lwandle ebuswen

[@mfundisozuma5810]

So well Spoken😻

[@user-eh3kf7fz6k]

Mme Macele more and more grace dear

[@nolwaziginindza7460]

Wow well Abongwe is well articulated ❤

[@user-mb1od8cf7u]

Wow she is very humble ❤😊😊

[@phatheka]

She’s very grounded

[@thulanimutonga7415]

I love Abongwe's personality

[@hlengiwemyeni9318]

Abongile🙌🙌🙌

[@joycephakathi9365]

Mhhh Abongwe🥰 very humble and Sweet❤❤❤

[@user-le8sv8op1l]

Mamkhulu’s kids 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️

[@lusandapretty6478]

She is so eloquent

[@tsundzuseabela5853]

ah this child is very humble man

[@Marthashiningstar]

Very humble kids must say