Polygamist Musa Mseleku on Balancing Family and Finances

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2022
  • Join Mr. Musa Mseleku and Old Mutual’s Head of Financial Education, John Manyike, as they talk about finances and family. From how Mr. Musa Mseleku learnt to handle money, taking care of his growing family, his streams of income, and protecting his loved ones' future. Watch this video as he shares tips and interesting financial ups and downs.
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    0:05 Introduction to Musa Mseleku
    3:27 Where did your preference for polygamy come from?
    5:46 How do you instill discipline in your children, especially when it comes to money?
    8:46 How Musa plans to provide for his family if he is gone
    11:58 The role that life and funeral cover play in a polygamous family
    15:19 The importance of having a will in a polygamous family
    19:01 Musa explains how he made his first million
    26:31 How Musa manages jealousy within his polygamous relationships
    30:52 Musa talks about how he manages money - like the budget for buying groceries - in a polygamous family
    33:21 Apart from the budget Musa provides, are his wives financially independent?
    35:12 Musa explains how to assess if someone can handle a polygamous relationship, from finances to character
    37:57 Is there a need for polygamy in the times we live in now? What kind of man should enter a polygamous marriage?
    40:56 How does one balance making sure that each wife feels loved?
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Komentáře • 181

  • @MpolokengTsingoane
    @MpolokengTsingoane Před 2 měsíci +7

    Mr Mseleku knows what is needed in polygamous marriage and he is making sure that he's family is secured. I give him a round of applause 👏

  • @busisiwemabena9924
    @busisiwemabena9924 Před rokem +45

    I wish all men would listen and learn from Mseleku not only about poligumy but life in general.

    • @virginiathenga8126
      @virginiathenga8126 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Mr mseleku that is a good point business man are very secret i wish I can share with you my problem ithink other man can listen

    • @moitoi-ij8fx
      @moitoi-ij8fx Před měsícem

      ❤❤8​@@virginiathenga8126

  • @buyisiwefani7420
    @buyisiwefani7420 Před rokem +15

    I really enjoyed the business part and how he made his first million, my mind has changed on how I must use money.

  • @palimbali3650
    @palimbali3650 Před rokem +34

    Mthombeni👏🏽👏🏽 lo baba knows what he's doing, so impressed ❤

  • @andagqirana3543
    @andagqirana3543 Před rokem +8

    Did know how powerful your teaching as to save money

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Před rokem +23

    Love the way he thinks bab'uMthombeni. Beautiful interview. So wish those little boys can watch this interview before they ask him to go and ask for 2nd wives.

    • @mrmanq9517
      @mrmanq9517 Před rokem +1

      This is what people need to relearn, the ability to speak with wisdom and poise.
      Uyabeka uMseleku...game recognise game. You must be on the wiser end👌🙌

    • @fhalalanimotaung4493
      @fhalalanimotaung4493 Před rokem +1

      Especially Dulas

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před rokem

      We are glad you found the video valuable, Patience. Thanks for the support.

  • @dikeledileli4678
    @dikeledileli4678 Před rokem +11

    🔥this man need a cup👏

  • @user-rx1ob4ho4u
    @user-rx1ob4ho4u Před 4 měsíci +4

    I wish my man can listen this ❤

  • @kennethmakhanya1029
    @kennethmakhanya1029 Před rokem +11

    Thank you Mr Mseleku for the wisdom

  • @nkosisibiya9245
    @nkosisibiya9245 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I didn't know MR Mseleku is so intelligent

  • @thabangmotaung4759
    @thabangmotaung4759 Před rokem +34

    Mad respect for this guy

  • @simphiwecordae6500
    @simphiwecordae6500 Před rokem +15

    Isthembu umsebenzi kodwa ngiyamncoma ubabu Mthombeni uyidalelwe lento, unayo yonke indlela yokubhekana nezimo zaso 🙏

    • @user-gf4nn3hf5d
      @user-gf4nn3hf5d Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yena ubaba Mseleku wenza kahle kakhulu futhi uyawathanda amakhosikazi wakhe wonke!

  • @VUYISWAHADI
    @VUYISWAHADI Před 2 měsíci +3

    I wish all the men can listen to him cz uneqiniso & he's a loving human being

  • @luyandahlela4177
    @luyandahlela4177 Před rokem +2

    Man amongst Men. Indoda yamadoda 🙏🏽🙏🏽if I can be half the man he is, wisdom wise. I would have made it in life. Mmpilo ende Mfoka Mseleku

  • @bloomingthoughts_
    @bloomingthoughts_ Před rokem +25

    I love the financial wisdom imparted by uBaba.👌🏾

    • @oldmutual
      @oldmutual Před rokem +3

      Thank you for watching. We are glad you enjoyed the nuggets shared in this video.

    • @nhlanhlanhlanhla9519
      @nhlanhlanhlanhla9519 Před rokem

      @@oldmutual yyyuu
      .

    • @mshuganadunjana1532
      @mshuganadunjana1532 Před rokem +1

      yho this guy I learned alot on him how to save money and how to manage money

  • @everyoneknowsque
    @everyoneknowsque Před rokem +31

    More people need to watch this

  • @naomiarendse
    @naomiarendse Před rokem +6

    By far one of the most interesting topics here. A must see for all who wish to return to their roots and also be financially savvi. Clapping hands!

  • @user-zi7pi6oh3c
    @user-zi7pi6oh3c Před rokem +1

    Much more respect to Mr Mseleku ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @alicemothusi7455
    @alicemothusi7455 Před 12 dny

    Mthombeni hes the best, and equal 🤞kodwa lezi azakhela abantu la ngaphandle hai. Ungavumi Musa ngoba uyababona o wrong baningi kubo labo abakuthumayo hai🇱🇸

  • @nomvulacynthia6538
    @nomvulacynthia6538 Před rokem +1

    Very informative and powerful massage Baba uMseleku your family is very lucky for having ubaba ofana nawe🙌

  • @raquelfabiaomanjate2670
    @raquelfabiaomanjate2670 Před rokem +2

    👏👏👏I salute thank you for teaching me how to use money and how to give value to a money

  • @NandipaQango
    @NandipaQango Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are a real man mr Mseleku love you baba and may God bless you

  • @thomasmkhabela
    @thomasmkhabela Před 2 měsíci +1

    I truly like his way of business thinking and savings.

  • @user-ws5xp7jk5n
    @user-ws5xp7jk5n Před 2 měsíci +3

    Good father and husband ❤❤

  • @lindiwesylvia830
    @lindiwesylvia830 Před rokem +2

    Wow lovely uyindoda yamadoda Mseleku iuyisibonelo esihle ingathi abanye obaba bangafundela kuwe , siyabonga nathi omama sivuleka amehlo ukubonisana nabayeni bethu

  • @florahmoloi5731
    @florahmoloi5731 Před 2 měsíci

    Well said Baba Mseleku, I've gained a lots of advise from this... Thank you may the lord bless

  • @S-TouchRelationshipCoaching

    Very educational
    Mseleku hence amaspaza shop's a
    are not a progressing due to l of knowledge how the system works. Very well said baba.

  • @DawnMngomezulu-eq6ki
    @DawnMngomezulu-eq6ki Před 2 měsíci

    Mr Mthembu you spoke the honest truth regarding polygamy i hope most men can learn from you.

  • @promisemsomi
    @promisemsomi Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks alot Mr Mseleku sifunda lukhulu kuwe

  • @sylvesterngwenya1281
    @sylvesterngwenya1281 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @mamdlovu3136
    @mamdlovu3136 Před rokem +5

    Well said ❤🤗

  • @user-cf3jo7co8o
    @user-cf3jo7co8o Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks babu mseleku ngiyabathanda onke amakhosikazi akho mahle shem

  • @Samukel1900
    @Samukel1900 Před rokem +5

    Baba Mseleku🙌

  • @xolisilenkosi9831
    @xolisilenkosi9831 Před rokem

    I just c intobeko kubaba Mseleku!!! Ima njalo baba ! Ba few abantu abakulezinga lakho abathobekile nje !

  • @bulelanimathe9088
    @bulelanimathe9088 Před rokem +7

    Thank you so much for that insightful, mind opening and informative interview. Great work

  • @sifisongwazi3789
    @sifisongwazi3789 Před 2 měsíci

    Baba Mseleku ngibonga ulwazi usipha lona big up bhutomdala

  • @sizakelendebele3573
    @sizakelendebele3573 Před rokem +1

    I salute you!

  • @priscillamashile8732
    @priscillamashile8732 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much, I have learned so much from this interview more especially business analogy. Makwande babu Mthombeni.

    • @Daphneygugungwane
      @Daphneygugungwane Před 3 měsíci

      Siyabonga kakhulu sifundile kakhulu njoba ukhuluma sesizozama ukubeka okuncane❤❤❤

  • @user-we4mc4nz2y
    @user-we4mc4nz2y Před 3 měsíci

    Ngyabonga ukuthi ngaphuma emanyaleni!!!!Ngibongi dlozi lami🙏🙏

  • @user-vd9ow9jq4l
    @user-vd9ow9jq4l Před měsícem

    Hay baba Mseleku I respect you. You are inteligent. Uyayimela into yakho You deserve

  • @surprisehlungwana5232
    @surprisehlungwana5232 Před 8 měsíci

    this man is a lecturer

  • @lettierefilwemphuthi7487
    @lettierefilwemphuthi7487 Před rokem +13

    What an insightful conversation with so much wisdom from Baba Mseleku. I thoroughly enjoyed this 💯

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před rokem

      Thank you for watching, Lettie. We are so glad you enjoyed the interview.

  • @michaelphahlamohlaka96mokg77

    Good teaching from the man❤️

  • @agnesmkhuzangwe7308
    @agnesmkhuzangwe7308 Před rokem +1

    I like that he clarified that it's n idea not based on individuals but he also must be forthcoming to no5 that she might not be the last one cos what he did to Mbali is not fair. Why lie coz already she loved him

  • @lindomlindo7588
    @lindomlindo7588 Před 5 měsíci

    Gud advice baba mseleku njengami nje engsasfisa isthembu and nase businesin ngyayithatha i advise 🙏

  • @tamiamona1619
    @tamiamona1619 Před 5 měsíci

    Spot on Babu Mseleku.

  • @patrickzikalala9076
    @patrickzikalala9076 Před rokem +1

    Mr mselegu impela uyayimela indaba yakhe 👌🤞

  • @nondumisomnguni8671
    @nondumisomnguni8671 Před rokem +4

    Lwandle kaluwelwa ❤🙌

  • @Daphneygugungwane
    @Daphneygugungwane Před 3 měsíci

    Iqiniso akulaleki makunemali Baba umseleku👏👏👏

  • @pinkymartha1463
    @pinkymartha1463 Před rokem +3

    Babu Mthombeni uyi good adviser I respect you keep on doing great things 🙌❤️

  • @noluntunopanjwa9164
    @noluntunopanjwa9164 Před 4 měsíci

    Much respect for you Mr Mseleku, you are a wise man

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před 4 měsíci

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  • @sinazosimthandilemadulo8155

    Honestly l fully respect you baba🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

  • @manelisjersiaaquarius2730
    @manelisjersiaaquarius2730 Před 7 měsíci

    I salute u Mhlekazi🙏

  • @KhethiweMthethwa-ye8pn

    I really like this man he knows what he want in life and i am so proud of her there way he treat his wife's

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před 26 dny

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  • @jabulanindhove997
    @jabulanindhove997 Před 25 dny

    Thanks babu mseleku for the financial literacy that you are sharing indeed Financial management is very important

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před 22 dny

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  • @poppycocknthoroane9032
    @poppycocknthoroane9032 Před 2 měsíci

    Yooooh hlem Ntate Mselelu how I wish you can help me on my kitchen business, I really don't see what am doing because I see no profit at all. Bt however I took some tips.
    May Good bless you and your family❤❤❤

  • @winiswasingoba7865
    @winiswasingoba7865 Před rokem +2

    Very powerful message here

  • @Daphneygugungwane
    @Daphneygugungwane Před 3 měsíci

    Siyabonga amazwi akho ayasakha iqiniso Baba❤❤

  • @thatosetlhare-pz6gy
    @thatosetlhare-pz6gy Před měsícem

    Yoh how you answered the first question of BaBoDlamini was 👌, over and above I learnt so much especially in the business aspect I want to do better and accumulate wealth like you however the polygamy thing I'm good, yet I love your big family you are a wise man Mr Museleku, thank you for the good advice

  • @user-fd3sx9wr2c
    @user-fd3sx9wr2c Před 6 měsíci

    well said❤

  • @esthermaphangwe9449
    @esthermaphangwe9449 Před rokem +5

    Good advice

  • @ZethuImmaculate
    @ZethuImmaculate Před 2 měsíci

    Baba Mselengu🙌❤

  • @user-rg3jp7kk4b
    @user-rg3jp7kk4b Před 2 měsíci

    Polygamy 's a big headache,as far as I 'm concerned.I really can't tolerate it.Indeed it 's a big no to me.Hellish!!!

  • @wandysoso1431
    @wandysoso1431 Před rokem +3

    I respect you babu Mseleku

  • @selulekontobela5613
    @selulekontobela5613 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Ay uyayqondisa inkulumo lomuntu ,straight to the point and no lack of confidence uyama entwen yakhe,wise words

  • @TshaRarakx
    @TshaRarakx Před rokem

    Mr Mseleku as from today I respect baba

  • @givenmbadamana915
    @givenmbadamana915 Před rokem +3

    I'm learning from this guy🤞🏽.. Much respect for uMseleku🙌🏾

  • @lungileradebe3540
    @lungileradebe3540 Před rokem +1

    I respect you Baba Mseluku I love le ndaba ye Will ukuhlakanipha ne nqondo u nkulunkulu ukuphile na the fact that ufundise abantwana bakho ukuhlonipha the next person and nokuthi bangathatheli abanye abantu phansi I salute you sir 👏👏🤜

  • @victorphenyosako9840
    @victorphenyosako9840 Před 6 měsíci

    Very insightful

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @user-fb2xj9cf7b
    @user-fb2xj9cf7b Před rokem

    Wow, what a Wiseman we need such a man in this world keep it up, baba, all the best banenhlahla your wife,s and yr kid,s❤

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Před 11 dny

    You are best Mr mseleku❤❤❤❤

  • @nomfunekotukuta9133
    @nomfunekotukuta9133 Před rokem +1

    Yhoo this man is very wise.

  • @nomvulakumalo4900
    @nomvulakumalo4900 Před rokem

    Mthombeni I respect you I feel sad for omama abangavumi u number 5. They don't see the vision because the number 5 will benefit like them and she'll respect more and love you more like Makhumalo and support you.

  • @langelihlemlangose9294
    @langelihlemlangose9294 Před rokem +1

    Effective question onthe host and Babu Mseleku is our Guru the wisdom in that man

  • @SIPHELELEMAGAGULA-lk6lr
    @SIPHELELEMAGAGULA-lk6lr Před 5 měsíci

    😂❤Mthomben you are so amazing yoh !@amadoda anje awasekho siya weswela

  • @NomondeMabote
    @NomondeMabote Před 2 měsíci

    Can you please open à a program for men to learn about family responsibilities

  • @AllyMvuzoMay
    @AllyMvuzoMay Před 2 měsíci

    eish this guy his story make sense when it comes to saving money

  • @lindinhlapo667
    @lindinhlapo667 Před rokem

    Siyabonga baba

  • @thinamakovere9007
    @thinamakovere9007 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this now i understand the concepts of polygamy and financial growth.

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před rokem

      We are so to hear this, Thina. Thanks for watching.

  • @thokozilelanga691
    @thokozilelanga691 Před 6 měsíci

    Brilliant

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Před 6 měsíci

      Hello, we are glad that you enjoyed the video.

  • @Rassie88888
    @Rassie88888 Před rokem

    True in business mind set but in isithembu its a big No
    Business wise we on the same page

  • @lindanimaduna8382
    @lindanimaduna8382 Před 10 měsíci

    A wise man

  • @lindiweluciantshangase6089
    @lindiweluciantshangase6089 Před měsícem +1

    Sengyamhlonipha after sengizwe ilaka lakhe....

  • @garfield_xx_
    @garfield_xx_ Před 2 měsíci

    Kusekude phambili we Mbali Mseleku, Le profession yo Kuba u nurse umbhedo... Ungaziphakamisi ngayo, izinto engekho nje unless you open your own private practises, I practises ke yona idinga u be I specialist kwi Phc or any field.

  • @nokulungadlamini4908
    @nokulungadlamini4908 Před rokem +2

    I was lost in his voice bakwethu😍😍😍😍😍

  • @Rassie88888
    @Rassie88888 Před rokem

    What and how kids feel at the end of the day are the included in your plans

  • @nosiphosisilana6711
    @nosiphosisilana6711 Před 2 měsíci

    It's true to be wealth is not money it's a wisdom yingako Solomon wazicelela ubulunko and ndiyangqinelana nento ethi uba imali awuyi save soze uyibone noba sowurhola millions kungoba mali inomoya nje wayo akufanele uyivumele ikulawule

  • @cooster4354
    @cooster4354 Před rokem +1

    Mr. Mseleku please try IVF with maKhuma it’s not taboo. I feel sorry for her and you because I see how you love her. You can even try a surrogate so you too can have your own children. Please Mseleku phucuka and try other things to make maKhumalo happy and expand your family ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @user-px6jz1bp6m
    @user-px6jz1bp6m Před 4 měsíci

    Hhmmmmm now I understand polygamy and I admire him

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Před 11 dny

    Wow

  • @skhumbuzoyimba647
    @skhumbuzoyimba647 Před rokem +5

    Ay lombhemu uyehlula

  • @staphinahmmaphuti9571
    @staphinahmmaphuti9571 Před 4 měsíci

    🔥

  • @NandiphaModimogale
    @NandiphaModimogale Před 2 měsíci

    🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @RuthMthethwa
    @RuthMthethwa Před 2 měsíci

    Musa Mseleku uyindoda emadodeni

  • @user-gq2fq2bv3v
    @user-gq2fq2bv3v Před 3 měsíci

    Ngiyafisa nabantwana bethu bazofunda . Ukuthi imali is emqondweni nasezandleni zakho. Siyabonga Musa ukukhlise kahle Flo

  • @thumaboikihloele5747
    @thumaboikihloele5747 Před 4 měsíci

    😢

  • @thembinkosisimelane4556

    Ngyabonga mina kuleye Will uyilendoda eyacela ukuhlakanipha zikhona izinto eyayngazicela ngyakuvuma Leadership Yami.

  • @ngetymntimndz9964
    @ngetymntimndz9964 Před rokem

    😘👏

  • @user-wq4bf9fk5w
    @user-wq4bf9fk5w Před 4 měsíci

    UMusa guy'z akajabulile nje akekho happy ngale sthembu sakhe ukuthi umile nje ngoba uyindoda kodwa ugcwele usizi uma umbuka ujula tru

  • @sicelomchunu3442
    @sicelomchunu3442 Před 4 měsíci

    Cha ushayile Mthombeni