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  • @claireselje4391
    @claireselje4391 Pƙed 4 lety +9338

    Tylor: “that’s the shittiest thing you could do”
    Josh: 👁👄👁

    • @Anana315
      @Anana315 Pƙed 4 lety +741

      Claire Selje That camera guy did him dirty 😂

    • @bri4015
      @bri4015 Pƙed 4 lety +1489

      i feel so bad for him lol he’s the only normal one in this line up 😭 the rest are like “no yeah i planned this/we’re married/abortion isn’t an option”

    • @jules4423
      @jules4423 Pƙed 4 lety +18

      Perle des Antilles omg ik 😅😅😂

    • @_cherrychi_
      @_cherrychi_ Pƙed 4 lety +15

      bri Ikr

    • @thatsEforEveryone
      @thatsEforEveryone Pƙed 4 lety +433

      @@bri4015 fr like you really planning a pregnancy and you haven't even graduated high school yet?????? To each their own

  • @lucasbrunoz
    @lucasbrunoz Pƙed 4 lety +6077

    Its so weird hearing a 19 year old saying "my wife"

  • @mariahearts372
    @mariahearts372 Pƙed 3 lety +4839

    I feel like Tylor thinks he is already 45 and know everybody

    • @nyawina3431
      @nyawina3431 Pƙed 3 lety +42

      Gurl😂

    • @mariahearts372
      @mariahearts372 Pƙed 3 lety +24

      @@nyawina3431 gurlll don’t come after me 😭😭😭 al i right?😂😂

    • @mariahearts372
      @mariahearts372 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Am*

    • @nyawina3431
      @nyawina3431 Pƙed 3 lety +15

      @@mariahearts372 Your comment has made me feel better today😂😂

    • @mariahearts372
      @mariahearts372 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      @@nyawina3431 hahah i hope it did love!

  • @BakedPotatoYT1
    @BakedPotatoYT1 Pƙed 3 lety +11364

    Josh is the most honest, honestly. Others are either afraid that their kid is gonna see this video one day or straight up lying.

    • @katelyndodge2762
      @katelyndodge2762 Pƙed 3 lety +230

      I feel like Edgar was straight up. I mean, he said it was hard but he had always wanted that and he’d kinda been prepared for it so it makes if he wasn’t as phased by a pregnancy.

    • @xwrtk
      @xwrtk Pƙed 3 lety +18

      Josh is the only that lied. The financially stable question. When together with his baby mama, he would ask for CZcams money when he didn’t want to help with CZcams. They all have CZcams besides Zenon who just has Instagram.

    • @TrynafindLea
      @TrynafindLea Pƙed 3 lety +32

      Am I the only one that doesn't like Josh? Cause I dont mind him it's just that EVERY SINGLE answer of his has to be about college which annoys me.

    • @mimichappel3067
      @mimichappel3067 Pƙed 3 lety +122

      or they’re just telling the truth.... not everyone is gonna have the same experience

    • @ghog4792
      @ghog4792 Pƙed 3 lety +33

      Why are you all saying this, how can you tell they are not honest??

  • @laurynh.603
    @laurynh.603 Pƙed 4 lety +9415

    it’s so weird to hear someone my age say “i planned our pregnancy”

    • @kotosqoposrly
      @kotosqoposrly Pƙed 4 lety +553

      I can't really fathom having my early life revolving around marriage and children. All I wanted to do was studying and going out with friends and preparing myself for adulthood.

    • @cocomonster1000
      @cocomonster1000 Pƙed 4 lety +66

      I was planned my mom was 17 my Dad was 18 it happens lmao

    • @cyasis9143
      @cyasis9143 Pƙed 4 lety +78

      Lauryn H. You may not be able to relate but not everyone is the same. I’m 18 and pregnant and I’ve wanted to be a young parent since I could remember. Just because this lifestyle isn’t ideal for you doesn’t give you the right to be so judgmental

    • @rachellekut
      @rachellekut Pƙed 4 lety +39

      Some people start early because they want a lot of kids. Or because you have more energy when you’re younger. It all just depends what your desires and goals are.

    • @420Lollypop420
      @420Lollypop420 Pƙed 4 lety +19

      I planned with my now husband to have a kid at 14 đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž ended up having our son at 16 but he really was the best thing to happen to us

  • @nancebenavides
    @nancebenavides Pƙed 4 lety +7912

    josh: “two little infants”
    he has twins? omg

    • @carsyn8940
      @carsyn8940 Pƙed 4 lety +212

      Nancy Benavides his girlfriend has a yt channel if you wanna check it out. its just sophie gonzales

    • @xxsophiexx8009
      @xxsophiexx8009 Pƙed 4 lety +56

      Carsyn J woah i watch her sometimes but never with the dad in it now ik the family đŸ˜±đŸ˜‚

    • @greenalfoil
      @greenalfoil Pƙed 4 lety +19

      I didn’t realise they had split.

    • @Ggu-lm4pg
      @Ggu-lm4pg Pƙed 4 lety +29

      Yup at 14:03 the one he’s holding and also the one Logan is holding,Luke and Zeke

    • @petrcrawthwait9338
      @petrcrawthwait9338 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      I feel so bad for these guys. they've derailed their lives and it was entirely preventable.

  • @redrosess1487
    @redrosess1487 Pƙed 3 lety +3001

    Josh was obviously scared of being a dad , he was having 2 children

    • @samanthadavis678
      @samanthadavis678 Pƙed 3 lety +213

      Yes! It’s already scary having an unplanned pregnancy. Imagine having an unplanned pregnancy with twins. He’s grown so much and he’s a great father!

  • @dbuc4671
    @dbuc4671 Pƙed 3 lety +4017

    If I told my mom I was “excited” she would slap me to the 5th dimension lmao

    • @sheena_1378
      @sheena_1378 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      Why?

    • @maryupoppin
      @maryupoppin Pƙed 3 lety +222

      @@sheena_1378 because some parents are concerned for their childs future and aren’t as supportive

    • @sheena_1378
      @sheena_1378 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      @@maryupoppin okay thanks for explaining it to me

    • @maryupoppin
      @maryupoppin Pƙed 3 lety +8

      @@sheena_1378 np :)

    • @sayyanika4990
      @sayyanika4990 Pƙed 2 lety +56

      5th dimension huh? my mom would slap me off to another planet

  • @alwaysbeautifulx3
    @alwaysbeautifulx3 Pƙed 4 lety +8057

    Dang imagine being that young and ur gf tells u she’s having twins

    • @DiboraBinebeb
      @DiboraBinebeb Pƙed 4 lety +120

      Gone 😭💀

    • @jackeline2009able
      @jackeline2009able Pƙed 4 lety +442

      And about to leave for college!😭

    • @madisonrae1272
      @madisonrae1272 Pƙed 4 lety +100

      I’m a twin and my mom had us at 16!

    • @fridayaudioz5442
      @fridayaudioz5442 Pƙed 4 lety +113

      imagine the pain of having those twins😭

    • @aitor.online
      @aitor.online Pƙed 4 lety +37

      happened to a bud of mine. wild but he knows to take responsibility

  • @i-want-fries1931
    @i-want-fries1931 Pƙed 4 lety +5039

    why do y'all gotta make josh seem like a bad guy tho? he's being real
    we see those camera angles bruh

    • @sativadva
      @sativadva Pƙed 4 lety +224

      So many comments shitting on how they edited Josh specifically, but I think the angle they were trying to take was--seeing how Josh is the most relatable--to put a spotlight on him in order to show the audience how authentic and level-headed he approached the given circumstances.

    • @attiliasarpong2305
      @attiliasarpong2305 Pƙed 4 lety +63

      Idk I've been only seeing good comments about him lol

    • @femcelgirlfren
      @femcelgirlfren Pƙed 4 lety +12

      i hate when they do that

    • @krystinaraquel
      @krystinaraquel Pƙed 4 lety +3

      i-want-fries right

    • @justaunpopulargirl8463
      @justaunpopulargirl8463 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      We don't have to agree with him

  • @yyhhsss
    @yyhhsss Pƙed 3 lety +4942

    Not only is Josh's reaction totally realistic, his parents' reaction was realistic too. I am a little surprised by how the other guys said their parents were excited and were fully supportive. Perhaps it's to do that some of their parents also had kids at a very young age.

    • @xwrtk
      @xwrtk Pƙed 3 lety +47

      It was clear why Logan’s mom was excited because she has 4 boys and two granddaughters through her son. He dad seemed quite excited for girls too. His mom shopped for girly things a lot.

    • @Chapa24.
      @Chapa24. Pƙed 2 lety +32

      I’m 24 and honestly, if I get pregnant out of marriage my mother wouldn’t be supportive at all.

    • @Chapa24.
      @Chapa24. Pƙed 2 lety +11

      @RiBea yes. That’s how my culture has affected my mother’s values and principles fortunately and unfortunately. That makes me stick to the cultural norms to an extent regardless the way I personal see things

    • @canned_can_chan4590
      @canned_can_chan4590 Pƙed 2 lety +23

      If my kid becomes a teenage parent ofc i will support them and not bash them. But ngl i'd be disappointed, cos i want them to have a stable life and education. So not too excited

    • @klaireallen7008
      @klaireallen7008 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Logan's mom and dad were supportive because they were teen/young parents as well so they understand Logan and his fiance's position

  • @lucilulv
    @lucilulv Pƙed 3 lety +2819

    No, Edgar, birth control isn't only about women's pills

    • @kate-zh4ny
      @kate-zh4ny Pƙed 3 lety +167

      lol why do you think they all got someone else pregnant

    • @cassieisacatyourmom2564
      @cassieisacatyourmom2564 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      @@kate-zh4ny I- wha-

    • @lucilulv
      @lucilulv Pƙed 3 lety +13

      ​@ISABELLA SANTIAGO Jajaja agreeeee, but what i said is that the pill isn't the only method

    • @themacdaddy1749
      @themacdaddy1749 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@lucilulv there really aren’t that many options that out there worth talking about tho.

    • @LuisFernando-gj4md
      @LuisFernando-gj4md Pƙed 2 lety +55

      Their ignorance actually justifies why they got a child at such a young age...

  • @anonimooi6996
    @anonimooi6996 Pƙed 4 lety +6357

    Tylor: I think that’s the shittiest thing you could do
    Josh: 😐

    • @gemm3502
      @gemm3502 Pƙed 4 lety +580

      Omg yess I felt so bad for josh when it happened.

    • @fant_a
      @fant_a Pƙed 4 lety +596

      Bruh. Like, wtf. He made him seem like he's the bad guy

    • @yallitsalice7493
      @yallitsalice7493 Pƙed 4 lety +244

      The way he looked around aswell.

    • @wilmon
      @wilmon Pƙed 4 lety +27

      when did that happen?

    • @fIiperama
      @fIiperama Pƙed 4 lety +51

      @@wilmon 8:31

  • @deennnnis
    @deennnnis Pƙed 4 lety +9765

    I feel like the guy in the white shirt represents actually the majority even though he isn’t it in this video

    • @ebell1960
      @ebell1960 Pƙed 4 lety +738

      My theory is that people with similar attitudes wouldn't be down for this video. They don't wanna put themselves out there as "teen dads".

    • @nimbzclowd
      @nimbzclowd Pƙed 4 lety +24

      I wouldn't say that that at all. that's literally one out of the 6. unless you are saying they carefully pick all their ppl to fit a certain agenda.

    • @nasosch.1641
      @nasosch.1641 Pƙed 4 lety +221

      @@nimbzclowd well for each question they show the answers to an Instagram poll they made and it usually favored white shirt guy's answer

    • @frostbitegaming3289
      @frostbitegaming3289 Pƙed 4 lety +83

      @@nimbzclowd Possibly. But people have to remember certain types of people would choose to participate in these videos. For example, I think "do all Asian Americans think the same?" is a much softer representation of how asian parents actually feel. And that's because the more "cool" parents would participate in those videos.

    • @JHawke5
      @JHawke5 Pƙed 4 lety +108

      I think he’s just saying that the people that would be willing to come on a video like this are people that have had a more positive experience with being a teen dad. The guy in the white shirt showed a bit more vulnerability in the negatives of being a teen dad and how it totally derailed his life plans

  • @katherinechodaczek4925
    @katherinechodaczek4925 Pƙed 3 lety +3190

    just would like to add that tylor got discharged, he and his wife got separated and he got another woman pregnant :-)

    • @sarahsiddiqui3386
      @sarahsiddiqui3386 Pƙed 3 lety +543

      WAIT WHAAAAAAAAAAT

    • @katherinechodaczek4925
      @katherinechodaczek4925 Pƙed 3 lety +842

      Sarah Siddiqui yeah they were on unexpected and I saw on a fan account that this all happened. Obviously none of my business and I can’t judge but I just got a bad vibe from him in the show and on this video he was pretty disrespectful towards some of the other dads idk

    • @gracedestiny
      @gracedestiny Pƙed 3 lety +176

      teaaaaaaa😬

    • @alexzandrarodriguez7788
      @alexzandrarodriguez7788 Pƙed 3 lety +75

      Noooo waaayyyyy

    • @passit6833
      @passit6833 Pƙed 3 lety +191

      đŸ€Ł not surprised at all

  • @tajanaimccray
    @tajanaimccray Pƙed 3 lety +4207

    Tylor : *Funny, military teen*
    Josh : *Realistic, honest teen*

    • @joshuacalix1814
      @joshuacalix1814 Pƙed 3 lety +240

      Tylor is just annoying with that Yee yee ass haircut

    • @giaisaliar6813
      @giaisaliar6813 Pƙed 3 lety +197

      Where was the funny? 😕

    • @kidlisaxx9627
      @kidlisaxx9627 Pƙed 3 lety +78

      Define funny

    • @tajanaimccray
      @tajanaimccray Pƙed 3 lety +65

      Guys, he was acting like everything was alright. No actual teen is gonna feel like that because no actual father will feel like that, unless they planned to have the baby. At least that's just my opinion on it.

    • @giaisaliar6813
      @giaisaliar6813 Pƙed 3 lety +11

      @@tajanaimccray thats got nothing to do with being funny😂😂

  • @marissaw2074
    @marissaw2074 Pƙed 4 lety +9594

    when the one guy said “Babies” i was like MULTIPLE BABIES

  • @Noob-sl2mr
    @Noob-sl2mr Pƙed 4 lety +7959

    Josh had considered not being apart of his children’s life because he was considering abortion which is something the other guys didn’t. They literally shouldn’t judge him for it.

    • @d.i.n.g.u.s
      @d.i.n.g.u.s Pƙed 4 lety +129

      Glamour CH I would. Abortion is disgusting

    • @aenriqu
      @aenriqu Pƙed 4 lety +738

      e o n it’s not disgusting... but its your opinion i guess...

    • @jasminericee
      @jasminericee Pƙed 4 lety +615

      e o n it isn’t. if the child suffers later on esp financially, you’re not gonna swoop in and venmo the baby money so no, you have no right to judge.

    • @oliviatran686
      @oliviatran686 Pƙed 4 lety +483

      Faith Coxon it’s not murder..... it’s literally a clump of cells.... would u consider cancer treatments murder also?

    • @ericanicole7214
      @ericanicole7214 Pƙed 4 lety +349

      Faith Coxon “let’s save political fights for twitter” - says the person who decided to knowingly input their controversial opinion but expected no one to say anything about it

  • @syeirras4514
    @syeirras4514 Pƙed 3 lety +2944

    Josh was so real i feel like everyone was judging him for having actual concerns about his future

  • @ressa4800
    @ressa4800 Pƙed 3 lety +5173

    I think Josh is the only one matured here,, his reaction is realistic. And also i think only josh is an educated student and have family that cared abt their son’s future and education. His the only one talking abt college here. His honesty hit me hard. No wonder he get scared bcs he got a twin babies.

    • @themacdaddy1749
      @themacdaddy1749 Pƙed 3 lety +30

      First off your opinion sucks, but just cause he’s allowed to pursue college doesn’t make him or his’ parents better than the rest tf. Who’s to say any of them wanted to go to college or could actually afford college and then wait 4-8 years to get money when they need it now. Naive person with a simple minded comment.

    • @ressa4800
      @ressa4800 Pƙed 3 lety +71

      @@themacdaddy1749 tf,, its just an opinion, MY opinion. I dont care what you think abt josh or others bcs its YOUR opinion but FOR ME josh the only one show that education is really important (in this video and at this moment-not future) and i’ve never said that his parent better than others, the one i mentioned in previous comment is in specific aspect which is education. Not all aspect i said abt his parent bruhh. Everyone has their right to give an opinion. You’re the one that tooo simple minded right now. I’ll not comment anything abt your opinion bcs i respect the way you are thinking. Everyone has difference thought bro.

    • @caleigh8110
      @caleigh8110 Pƙed 3 lety +70

      I agree with you that Josh gave us a more realistic perspective on being a teen dad, because he wants to focus on school and he knows that his (baby mama or girlfriend) also wanted to go to school and travel. I also think that Zenon gave us a more realistic perspective on being a teen dad as well.

    • @mrcoconut5077
      @mrcoconut5077 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      @@themacdaddy1749 but ur opnion sucks

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 Pƙed 2 lety

      Ohkay supreme judge saya. Because you feel, we must declare all others as immature imbeciles while Josh is mature.
      Why? Because you said it.

  • @seventhplace1990
    @seventhplace1990 Pƙed 4 lety +10686

    Why did it feel like the guy in the white shirt was the main character in a movie?

  • @elijahr.775
    @elijahr.775 Pƙed 4 lety +2997

    imagine PLANNING and TRYING to have a kid before you even get a stable job and settled down life

    • @gabriellefloyd9844
      @gabriellefloyd9844 Pƙed 4 lety +142

      Elijah R. Ikr, that’s scary. But Logan’s girlfriend has a pretty stable job.

    • @zrayne
      @zrayne Pƙed 4 lety +382

      exactly. that’s so selfish to start a life with a PLANNED child when you have no stable career, insurance, or home that you own or rent. that’s crazy ignorant and irresponsible to me, to plan to get support instead of just waiting until you’re a stable, independent adult ...

    • @kombuchana
      @kombuchana Pƙed 4 lety +167

      The guys in this video seem super selfish except for Josh pretty much

    • @dancelikeyoumeanit8741
      @dancelikeyoumeanit8741 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Gabrielle Floyd she’s a youtuber haha

    • @lemmegetmyglassesyall2213
      @lemmegetmyglassesyall2213 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Really tho. They are humans not Alexa’s

  • @ottledaguette7638
    @ottledaguette7638 Pƙed 3 lety +2242

    tylor was downright shaming josh and nobody defended him. thats so wrong for so many reasons.

    • @gitutaneja
      @gitutaneja Pƙed 2 lety +199

      tylor also got another girl pregnant lmaoo. he’s so annoying

    • @evasmojang
      @evasmojang Pƙed 2 lety +11

      @@gitutaneja wait what??

    • @exammole4545
      @exammole4545 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      @@gitutaneja
      This ain’t supposed to be rude but can you give sum of dat ✹proof✹

    • @wilburfoot
      @wilburfoot Pƙed 2 lety +9

      @@gitutaneja proof? or are you spreading lies because you like to hate?

    • @gitutaneja
      @gitutaneja Pƙed 2 lety +20

      @@wilburfoot how instagram and there’s videos online i’ve seen. stop assuming the worst dunbass

  • @elinapant4363
    @elinapant4363 Pƙed 3 lety +1141

    Josh has twins on top of that. Respect him for his honesty

  • @mattemattematte
    @mattemattematte Pƙed 4 lety +6193

    The camera was so shady panning to josh after tylor saying “that’s a shitty thing to do”

    • @zinniekay3958
      @zinniekay3958 Pƙed 4 lety +226

      I noticed that too😂😂

    • @huskysings9536
      @huskysings9536 Pƙed 4 lety +54

      lifewithmatt nah fr tho😂😂

    • @yohlahGo
      @yohlahGo Pƙed 4 lety +13

      lol

    • @s2sHoXXs2
      @s2sHoXXs2 Pƙed 4 lety +277

      YEAH WTF its fine to have doubts and some thoughts out of fear, at the end of the day hes there for his kid. jeez camera!

    • @tjimakavita8719
      @tjimakavita8719 Pƙed 4 lety +77

      True I feel like these people come here and be honest and open up we shouldn't judge just listen and learn

  • @samanthalara9277
    @samanthalara9277 Pƙed 4 lety +2497

    Tylor has no chill, he’s out for Josh. Poor dude was scared and being honest

    • @BADCoDGAMER
      @BADCoDGAMER Pƙed 4 lety +211

      Samantha Lara he thinks hes high and mighty bc hes in the military...

    • @-_--_---
      @-_--_--- Pƙed 4 lety +154

      Tylor has a disgusting haircut

    • @LadyWhisperss
      @LadyWhisperss Pƙed 4 lety +40

      Ken Kaneki i think it was a scar on the back of his head that made his hair appear like that.

    • @cosimoto8700
      @cosimoto8700 Pƙed 4 lety +19

      @@BADCoDGAMER I was wondering why he was the only one looking grown.. Or trying to at least. He put on his "I'm a man" Pants before showing up for this😂

    • @shannynindigo2907
      @shannynindigo2907 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Ken Kaneki it’s a scar

  • @ashleyvogel2691
    @ashleyvogel2691 Pƙed 3 lety +757

    Josh seemed a little sad and scared throughout the video, but when he picked up his baby he had a bigger smile than anyone elseđŸ™ˆâ€ïž

    • @ziti1694
      @ziti1694 Pƙed 3 lety +31

      I think tylor was being horrible to him during it because they do edit a lot out

    • @DivinityinLove
      @DivinityinLove Pƙed 2 lety +1

      point made on authenticity!!!

  • @fongheenkitaloka2800
    @fongheenkitaloka2800 Pƙed 2 lety +457

    Everyone else: Josh is honest.
    Me: What happened to the back of that boy's head?

    • @maggiestearns9825
      @maggiestearns9825 Pƙed 2 lety +41

      i’m pretty sure he’s got the united states shaved into it đŸ€ź

    • @AbhishekSingh-xh4fh
      @AbhishekSingh-xh4fh Pƙed 2 lety +60

      @@maggiestearns9825 bro i legit thought he got some hair issue 💀💀💀💀

    • @tiffffjane
      @tiffffjane Pƙed 2 lety +17

      It’s most likely Alopecia which is an autoimmune disorder.

    • @davyddocarmocabral2989
      @davyddocarmocabral2989 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Looks like scaring

    • @user-mu1jm9mz2t
      @user-mu1jm9mz2t Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      @@davyddocarmocabral2989I have it similiar to him but it’s only 2 really small spots you can barely notice. I was born with the scars and hair doesn’t grow there

  • @Tunnel_Boys
    @Tunnel_Boys Pƙed 4 lety +2445

    My man Josh really just wanted to go to college

    • @mamakitty6549
      @mamakitty6549 Pƙed 4 lety +187

      It's pretty hard to feed kids with no money, to be real lol

    • @bente1695
      @bente1695 Pƙed 4 lety +123

      George Dee you just know his whole family wasn’t supportive at first and he had a tough time making the choice to stick w baby and mom

    • @jenniferjimenez952
      @jenniferjimenez952 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      George Dee 😂😂😂😂

    • @ginihall1234
      @ginihall1234 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      He can tho..

    • @emilyjane9901
      @emilyjane9901 Pƙed 4 lety +33

      And he is going! He's been in college for almost a year now actually and doing well.

  • @ishmamahmed7742
    @ishmamahmed7742 Pƙed 4 lety +8715

    Josh was the most honest with where he positioned himself.

    • @kaylab4687
      @kaylab4687 Pƙed 4 lety +320

      The rest probably weren't being honest because they don't want to look like the bad guy. Most of their answers were way off the instagram poll answers that were more truthful imo. Like for example that one guy who said he was excited when he found out he was going to be a dad but then later on answered yes to the question about asking the girl to get an abortion. Makes no sense. If you were excited to have a baby you don’t ask the girl to get rid of it.

    • @jlk4894
      @jlk4894 Pƙed 4 lety +59

      Nah maybe some teen dads are actually happy and it just happened to be that alot of them are in the video

    • @viovenda8922
      @viovenda8922 Pƙed 4 lety +44

      I think they were all honest with what they personally felt. The polls favored the negative answers more but that doesn’t mean all men feel that way. Plus literally anyone could vote on the polls as they are predictions. It’s mostly how other people thought they would answer.

    • @Unknown20686
      @Unknown20686 Pƙed 4 lety +19

      *Poqqers* just because he isn't really glad with it all doesn't mean that he's the "most honest". I feel like the rest were genuinely glad.

    • @nickvoremy6213
      @nickvoremy6213 Pƙed 4 lety +31

      Lol what?? Just because he fits your stereotypes doesn't mean others weren't honest with their positioning.

  • @cyanroads9985
    @cyanroads9985 Pƙed 3 lety +1508

    Y'all should do one of these with single dads because they don't get enough recognition

    • @shelbybeard7161
      @shelbybeard7161 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      git what I thought this was at first s

    • @00Agitprop00
      @00Agitprop00 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      They don’t exist

    • @Person-oe7li
      @Person-oe7li Pƙed 2 lety +17

      i agree because all the single dads i have met are some of the greatest dads i’ve met !

    • @abbiewookey9226
      @abbiewookey9226 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      @@00Agitprop00 yes they do

    • @Lily-wj9rb
      @Lily-wj9rb Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Because theres not alot of them. 98% of single mothers are women. Thats where the ubiquitous term’gone to get milk’ came from. Theres no saying liek that for mothers cause they dont leave

  • @ryuteez9218
    @ryuteez9218 Pƙed 3 lety +654

    Josh was still able to financially support his child completely, he a king

  • @hddvlogs8457
    @hddvlogs8457 Pƙed 4 lety +5107

    The cameraman is one shady fella for focusing on Josh when Taylor said it’s a shitty thing to think of abandoning your pregnant girlfriend when he’s the only one that kept it 100%

    • @shreyab25
      @shreyab25 Pƙed 4 lety +37

      Ikr

    • @tonyplaysgames2537
      @tonyplaysgames2537 Pƙed 4 lety +84

      You've got to realize there are multiple camera angles, and the editor chooses which are viewed. Also, I think it was intended to show both aspects of the question.

    • @lamborghinicentenario2497
      @lamborghinicentenario2497 Pƙed 4 lety +36

      Jubilee has political bias, you should all be aware of this

    • @savetheplanet2563
      @savetheplanet2563 Pƙed 4 lety +25

      Byunsbabe Vlogs Well it is pretty shitty. You can still point that out while commending his honesty. I don’t really think that men should be applauded for not abandoning the children they had equal part in creating, but it is hard to admit when you have less than savory thoughts but overcame them, so good in him.

    • @margareta1712
      @margareta1712 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@lamborghinicentenario2497 i wasn't,but now that you mentioned it.... interesting

  • @sophiethee
    @sophiethee Pƙed 3 lety +1292

    "If you knew what could come of you having relations, then you shouldn't consider abortion"
    easy to say for a teen who was so self assured that he planned to have a teen pregnancy

    • @luisasalazar2796
      @luisasalazar2796 Pƙed 3 lety +148

      and tbh he is not the one carrying the egg

    • @vitaaeris
      @vitaaeris Pƙed 2 lety +51

      Not to mention that he’s speaking about a whole ass child like just some kind of accident that can happen and that someone has to deal with

    • @alexbrown7071
      @alexbrown7071 Pƙed 2 lety +51

      @@vitaaeris ikr? A kid is a huge responsibility, the only valid reason to have a kid is because you want a kid. He consented to sex, not parenthood. And sexual drive is something most people have starting from teens, that doesn't mean they're mature or responsible to have kids. And that was so immature lol like so poor shouldn't have sex because they may not be able to afford to raise a baby?

    • @justateapot3847
      @justateapot3847 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@luisasalazar2796 “the egg” - wtf does that even mean? You mean the ZEF (zygote, embryo, fetus)? No woman carries “an egg” when she’s pregnant.

    • @wheeler5382
      @wheeler5382 Pƙed rokem +4

      Is he wrong? what are you trying to say? You are admitting he is the one being accountable for his action? You talking like that's a bad thing

  • @pastaburglar
    @pastaburglar Pƙed 3 lety +516

    i love how josh handled finding out he was having children he didn't just ask her straight up to have an abortion, but he also didn't just move on thinking everything was great they had a sit down honest conversation on what they should do. and that, my friends, is how you handle that

  • @eliza4410
    @eliza4410 Pƙed 4 lety +4976

    *It’s so weird as a young person hearing a 19 year old talk about his wife lol*

    • @Nimbereth
      @Nimbereth Pƙed 4 lety +72

      Cause you are a single millenial.

    • @takearriabrown7644
      @takearriabrown7644 Pƙed 4 lety +217

      Nimbereth That’s actually a pretty moderate view. Our generation gets married later in life on average.

    • @Nimbereth
      @Nimbereth Pƙed 4 lety +5

      @@takearriabrown7644 How much later the mother has a child is worse for the child. Teenage mothers are best for the baby.

    • @anto4380delaguaridaa
      @anto4380delaguaridaa Pƙed 4 lety +86

      Nimbereth not necessarily, girls who have kids at 12,13,14 are normally high risk pregnancies, and a lot of the times, both the baby and the mother are in danger

    • @kennedy3682
      @kennedy3682 Pƙed 4 lety +91

      @@Nimbereth What studies say that? Teen mothers, more times than not have no college education, don't have stable jobs, and have school to worry about. Also it's proven that the younger you are the higher risk the pregnancy.

  • @lola5342
    @lola5342 Pƙed 4 lety +4202

    Tylor doesn’t feel judged for being a teen dad because he doesn’t look like a teen

    • @delicek8999
      @delicek8999 Pƙed 4 lety +90

      Also who names their kid tylor

    • @enti1102
      @enti1102 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      So maybe when naming him they made a typo and named him tylor except tyler

    • @Apple-br3hc
      @Apple-br3hc Pƙed 4 lety +25

      His hair is so bad!

    • @caseybaby1011
      @caseybaby1011 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      🍎 Apple 🍎 he has a really bad scar on his head. If you watch unexpected you’ll see some of it like you do in this video. I don’t know what it’s from but don’t be insensitive.

    • @shy6839
      @shy6839 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      who names their kid tylor it’s tyler

  • @vanillabxby6891
    @vanillabxby6891 Pƙed 3 lety +361

    I feel like Tylor was trying so hard to portray himself as perfect 😂 and he was making Josh feel really bad about his honesty with his comments. It's totally normal to have negative thoughts at first.

  • @juana3835
    @juana3835 Pƙed 3 lety +755

    I’m confused. It seems like most of them planned their pregnancy. If that’s the case Jubilee should have choose more fathers that “accidentally got pregnant”. In my opinion it’s not “normal” or common to PLAN a child at such a young age so I absolutely understand Josh’s points of views. I felt kind of bad for him bc he sometimes was the only one with another opinion and I personally think that Josh represents a lot of teen fathers or parents all around the world. This video kind of portrayed teenage pregnancy as something completely normal and did not (or barely) talk about other problems.

    • @weychill1279
      @weychill1279 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      yeah i thought that or they were pretty privilege (supporting parents and not bad financial situation from the start)

    • @Artemis1901
      @Artemis1901 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      Totally agree. I bet the vast majority of teen fathers are a lot more like Josh than any of the other guys. I felt bad for him too because in this group he was the minority but definitely not IRL. The proportional representation is way off in this group.

    • @vrinkee
      @vrinkee Pƙed rokem +4

      Well the point of this video is to see if all teen dads agree on things. Of course they're going to have similar points of view if they were all dads who did not plan on having a baby. This video just shows that some teen dads are excited to have babies and have different perspectives than the stereotypical ones. Josh just fits into the stereotypical box, which is perfectly fine by the way. I feel like this sort of video is always going to be skewed anyways because I'd think most dads with negative experiences with their children's birth wouldn't want to go online saying stuff like, "I didn't want them," "They ruined my relationship with my family," or, "They destroyed my chances at getting an education." Imagine their kids seeing that some days. It could ruin their lives. So makes sense that more dads with positive or neutral experiences would be willing to open up about it in front of a camera.

    • @arturovaldemar
      @arturovaldemar Pƙed rokem +3

      I'm pretty sure none of them wanted to have a child. Most of them were putting their best face for the camera. Josh was the only one who I thought was honest.

  • @alaynamclands5076
    @alaynamclands5076 Pƙed 4 lety +3331

    “i think that’s the sh*ttiest thing to do”
    *zooms in on josh on disagree line*

  • @sparshitasahu2539
    @sparshitasahu2539 Pƙed 4 lety +5067

    I feel like Josh is having it hard. First he had twins, second he broke up with his gf,then he has college,and his family weren't that supportive.

    • @beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800
      @beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800 Pƙed 4 lety +30

      him and his girlfriend have a youtube channel

    • @autumnvibes8194
      @autumnvibes8194 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      999th like hehe

    • @beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800
      @beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      @@tasmiabano1663 it's really his girlfriends channel but he is on there a lot is called Sophie Gonzalez

    • @theyilingpatriarch
      @theyilingpatriarch Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Maybe his family is still not open about it until now and maybe their throwing so much words that made him even more stressed.

    • @tali7287
      @tali7287 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800 she said Josh not the other one

  • @suzyk6885
    @suzyk6885 Pƙed 3 lety +537

    I like how josh mentioned adoption as an alternative if they had agreed for abortion

  • @abigailgrimm1657
    @abigailgrimm1657 Pƙed 2 lety +298

    Y’all are sleeping on Logan. He stepped up for his girlfriend who was already a teen mom to a baby when she met him, not only does he take care of her, her daughter, but now there daughter together and a baby on the way.

  • @aryanihsan2623
    @aryanihsan2623 Pƙed 4 lety +2390

    No one:
    Egdar: I planned my pregnancy

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Pƙed 4 lety +178

      He's probably married to Chelsea from the other video. They both are very proud to have a kid that young which is a red flag to me...

    • @arianajimenez6217
      @arianajimenez6217 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      @@MsDudette21 they are married.

    • @cliffp2562
      @cliffp2562 Pƙed 4 lety +46

      MsDudette21 They can do what they want and they have more than enough to support his kid, If you have the money, time and want to have a child what’s so wrong?

    • @natalybasora9769
      @natalybasora9769 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      @@cliffp2562 They're not mentally prepared. That's what's bad about it. For example, Kylie Jenner when she had her baby. She could have all the money in the world but doesn't necessarily mean that she is mentally prepared. It's not just having it, it's raising it correctly, that's a challenge!

    • @deadroses6493
      @deadroses6493 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      MsDudette21
      Why is that a red flag ?

  • @koldskalbanden7991
    @koldskalbanden7991 Pƙed 4 lety +3766

    I feel like this isn’t really a fair comparison. Most of these pregnancies were planned, while in the teen moms’ one all but one were unplanned.

    • @renatacamacho9532
      @renatacamacho9532 Pƙed 4 lety +285

      I mean, it’s super common for fathers of unplanned pregnancies to RUN and be absent, so...

    • @dominiktorres8256
      @dominiktorres8256 Pƙed 4 lety +165

      hard to find deadbeats to come make a video talking about why they're deadbeats

    • @joenotexotic6865
      @joenotexotic6865 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Dominik Torres period

    • @viovenda8922
      @viovenda8922 Pƙed 4 lety

      Xeta pretty common

    • @njc1304
      @njc1304 Pƙed 4 lety +21

      @@dominiktorres8256 ikr, It's not like they'll be like "Nah, I'm not involved, the reason I showed up is cuz I wanted to be in a video and thought maybe I'd get paid. But I actually just walked out as soon as she told me. I had actually been cheating for a while. But yeah! Life is good"

  • @chelseaalexus1839
    @chelseaalexus1839 Pƙed 3 lety +271

    LEAVE JOSH ALONE đŸ˜€!! HE HAD TWINS OF COURSE HE WAS SCARED GAHT DAMNIT!!

  • @domeddd
    @domeddd Pƙed 3 lety +436

    Josh is just being honest. He's showing what a lot of other guys go through.

  • @lovely-kh5ry
    @lovely-kh5ry Pƙed 4 lety +11163

    I felt really bad for josh, I just felt like he was a little overwhelmed with the baby situation and the other participants kind of made him uncomfortable with their responses

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Pƙed 4 lety +1129

      Honestly Josh was the norm, most teenage boys are not PLANNING pregnancies or hoping for a baby anytime soon. Most of the guys here are more exceptions while I feel like Josh is really how most teen dads feel.

    • @nikoletacude8721
      @nikoletacude8721 Pƙed 4 lety +269

      @@UrbanDecayLova247 Yeah his reaction is the most real one out of these six guys

    • @missshannonsunshine
      @missshannonsunshine Pƙed 4 lety +79

      Nikoleta Cude I don’t think so. I just think that the people they chose were unfair because some were married and seemed happy

    • @user-qm5cg4hv8c
      @user-qm5cg4hv8c Pƙed 4 lety +42

      Especially 8:32...

    • @marlenesolano813
      @marlenesolano813 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Yupppp

  • @victoriamoreno4966
    @victoriamoreno4966 Pƙed 4 lety +14521

    I wish they showed more unplanned teen parents. Half of these guys wanted the baby.

    • @96hanoodah
      @96hanoodah Pƙed 4 lety +75

      yami bakura exactly

    • @overtlygrrl4850
      @overtlygrrl4850 Pƙed 4 lety +148

      Victoria Moreno I believe they may not have because that could be detrimental to the child later because that may cause the parents to say truthful, yet hurtful, things.

    • @JennaleighandLiam
      @JennaleighandLiam Pƙed 4 lety +69

      They choose dads who planned it because it makes it more interesting they ask you questions before picking who they will have in the video

    • @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594
      @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594 Pƙed 4 lety +23

      Only like 2 of them wanted them right?

    • @JennaleighandLiam
      @JennaleighandLiam Pƙed 4 lety +1

      This Boi Loves P!nk yes Logan planned his baby

  • @changedmyusernameagain7654
    @changedmyusernameagain7654 Pƙed 3 lety +236

    I hope Josh looks at this comment section and realises how amazing he is and how much everyone likes him

  • @mira9667
    @mira9667 Pƙed 2 lety +97

    Josh's responses are what I would assume a teenage boy would feel after he finds out he's going to be a dad, I was actually more surprised by the other teens' responses.

    • @nocroxie5171
      @nocroxie5171 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Everyone in his life was telling him it was bad.

  • @audreyp889
    @audreyp889 Pƙed 4 lety +3653

    I feel like they were all judging Josh, poor kid

    • @TraciDargan
      @TraciDargan Pƙed 4 lety +17

      Eliza Hamilton where?

    • @tanikala5255
      @tanikala5255 Pƙed 4 lety +26

      no josh is a MAN

    • @marimidoriya6059
      @marimidoriya6059 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Eliiiiza

    • @noahcowan6556
      @noahcowan6556 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Josh had and has had the exact same responsibilities as everybody else he is just not as mature.

    • @riyajoseph9261
      @riyajoseph9261 Pƙed 4 lety +44

      @@noahcowan6556 nahh, he's just the most honest

  • @nicktokar2459
    @nicktokar2459 Pƙed 4 lety +3542

    These kids having kids at 18/19 and then there's me at 23 who can't even talk to a girl.

    • @GothBatty
      @GothBatty Pƙed 4 lety +38

      Nick Tokar I had my son when I was 19 he’s 8 now 😊💯

    • @caroa8
      @caroa8 Pƙed 4 lety +112

      This comment is me in seven years I'm calling it right now

    • @samiammunoz6854
      @samiammunoz6854 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Nick Tokar lmaooo.. me af

    • @LandBark
      @LandBark Pƙed 4 lety +10

      32, I can talk to girls/women. Now It's time for another step xP

    • @parrotparfait9898
      @parrotparfait9898 Pƙed 4 lety +34

      Dude I feel that, 20 and still lacking a first kiss. Haha

  • @victorialobato3652
    @victorialobato3652 Pƙed 3 lety +155

    Josh being realistic and serious throughout the prompts but then all dopey smiles around the babies made him the real one here

  • @lilyisinretrograde
    @lilyisinretrograde Pƙed 3 lety +218

    Not only was Taylor literally going after josh but are we not gonna talk about the fact that Taylor looks like his hair was cut by a lawn mower LMAO😭😂

    • @Ofthewoods1973
      @Ofthewoods1973 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      His hair is cut in the shape of texas lol

    • @julianafuller6176
      @julianafuller6176 Pƙed 2 lety +23

      He had cancer. Don’t judge before you learn.

    • @donteatmycheeze4901
      @donteatmycheeze4901 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@Ofthewoods1973 LMAO thats not the shape of Texas were you ever in a geography class

    • @Ofthewoods1973
      @Ofthewoods1973 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@donteatmycheeze4901 It looks like Texas in my opinion. And yes, I aced my geography courses this year.

    • @jellybob7693
      @jellybob7693 Pƙed 2 lety

      @Hannah Beaumont yes get it I'm so proud

  • @nicholasgambacorta3840
    @nicholasgambacorta3840 Pƙed 4 lety +14355

    Josh is the only one being real, and everyone else judged him. He really didn’t deserve that.

    • @iveysmith7303
      @iveysmith7303 Pƙed 4 lety +183

      NG 217 not really. logan was being real

    • @juniore8001
      @juniore8001 Pƙed 4 lety +540

      The dude with the fked up hair basically called him a ahole which made me made because he doesn't know him at all

    • @nse-leebryan5860
      @nse-leebryan5860 Pƙed 4 lety +84

      Logan was being real also

    • @barutwabibo
      @barutwabibo Pƙed 4 lety +114

      These guys were conforming and not being as real a JOSHđŸ‘đŸœđŸ‘đŸœ

    • @lalasubliminals7339
      @lalasubliminals7339 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      NG 217 you have 999 likes

  • @kaleeeah4850
    @kaleeeah4850 Pƙed 4 lety +7092

    I’m crying Josh was like “ What a nice baby u have ”

    • @leigha.yvonne
      @leigha.yvonne Pƙed 4 lety +190

      The guy was holding his other baby

    • @leigha.yvonne
      @leigha.yvonne Pƙed 4 lety +199

      Naseem R when he says “what a nice baby you have” to the guy beside him in the jean jacket, he’s saying that because he’s a dad of twins, the other dad is holding his second baby.

    • @leigha.yvonne
      @leigha.yvonne Pƙed 4 lety +102

      Naseem R the baby’s are Zeke and Luke, the mom of the baby’s have a CZcams channel. When he said nice baby he was making a joke cause it was actually his

    • @jadalynn4970
      @jadalynn4970 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Leigha Yvonne omg i didn’t even notice that those were sophie’s babies!!

    • @issa5536
      @issa5536 Pƙed 4 lety

      Leigha Yvonne what’s her CZcams channel

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it Pƙed 2 lety +46

    No teenager should be 'trying' to get pregnant. You have plenty of time, wait until your career is established and you earn money so can help provide for your family.

  • @beyourself4304
    @beyourself4304 Pƙed 3 lety +179

    I feel like josh didn't got as much support by his own family as he deserve at that time

  • @purebliss7238
    @purebliss7238 Pƙed 4 lety +2725

    You can see how Josh’s face lights up when he holds his baby and it’s much different from the gloomy expression he had during the questions

    • @bobjoe5520
      @bobjoe5520 Pƙed 4 lety +71

      He regretted his mistake but now he loves it

    • @j.j1999
      @j.j1999 Pƙed 4 lety +39

      Because he is an amazing dad!! i watch him and the mother of his babies on youtube. they are so mature and amazing

    • @antoninaprazic9818
      @antoninaprazic9818 Pƙed 4 lety

      jenny j what’s their youtube channel

    • @bharadwajgoda5578
      @bharadwajgoda5578 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      @@antoninaprazic9818 Check the description

    • @j.j1999
      @j.j1999 Pƙed 4 lety

      Antonina Prazic Sophie Gonzalez

  • @zoeborja5260
    @zoeborja5260 Pƙed 4 lety +5941

    Josh isn’t just a teen dad he’s got TWINS
    Edit: the baby momma is named Sophie Gonzalez and she has a YT channel

    • @georgexm_1
      @georgexm_1 Pƙed 4 lety +47

      teen dads

    • @Sudzy06
      @Sudzy06 Pƙed 4 lety +95

      Zoe Borja still a teen dad tho nothing changes...

    • @aristotel2094
      @aristotel2094 Pƙed 4 lety +31

      😳😳 wdym twins i only saw him with 1 baby..where’s the catch

    • @babydoll2k5
      @babydoll2k5 Pƙed 4 lety +115

      @@aristotel2094 he said "From obviously zero babies to TWO infants-" He wasn't planning to have a child, especially not two of them. That means he had twins...

    • @aristotel2094
      @aristotel2094 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      mwuah seems I missed that part, thanks for the explanation :)

  • @Jzuahahkskagafd
    @Jzuahahkskagafd Pƙed 3 lety +181

    I like Josh, he is intelligent. I knew Edgar feels so uncomfortable, he crossed his hands, I consider his answers sounds like justification, he knew how hard it is to be a young father.

  • @BlazeCarlton
    @BlazeCarlton Pƙed 2 lety +46

    Josh is the most mature and honest out of all of them. He really thought it through, stepped up and took responsibility, I'm sure he's a great dad.

  • @tierrasimone4229
    @tierrasimone4229 Pƙed 4 lety +2302

    Josh looks like he's been through it, I feel bad for him.

    • @kyitty
      @kyitty Pƙed 4 lety +10

      Flurrie mcpie but he didn’t so stfu

    • @sharayu22
      @sharayu22 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      True

    • @lovecinnamonxx
      @lovecinnamonxx Pƙed 4 lety +44

      @@flurriemcpie6124 you don't know that at all. No contraceptive is 100% safe, maybe they were actually using one.

    • @StellaOcegueraa
      @StellaOcegueraa Pƙed 4 lety +23

      Flurrie mcpie he also had twins!! That can ware someone out!!

    • @user-vr7wg6qx8e
      @user-vr7wg6qx8e Pƙed 4 lety +2

      well you should know the consequences because nothing can truly stop pregnancy from happening you need understand that these things happen regardless of protection You wanna go and be intimate with someone at a young age be ready for the CONSEQUENCES

  • @janetzarate6056
    @janetzarate6056 Pƙed 4 lety +6082

    I wish they would’ve had more teen dads like Josh and maybe even single teen dads

    • @AintIastinker
      @AintIastinker Pƙed 4 lety +133

      The point is to bring out different opinions and backgrounds .. that's why it's called spectrum!

    • @monkeykingmo-ri777
      @monkeykingmo-ri777 Pƙed 4 lety +146

      I wish there werent any teen dads

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira Pƙed 4 lety +105

      @@monkeykingmo-ri777 and teen moms

    • @wop168
      @wop168 Pƙed 4 lety +16

      Janet Zarate No such thing as single teen dad, his mom is the one doing all the world as usual its the woman taking care of the kid

    • @deontashafford5726
      @deontashafford5726 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Janet Zarate josh is definitely gay my guy lmao

  • @faith-fg3dg
    @faith-fg3dg Pƙed 2 lety +129

    i watched josh's baby mom's youtube and you could really see how involved josh is in their lives, even with everything that was going on and i really appreciate his honesty in this video

  • @hihola4444
    @hihola4444 Pƙed 3 lety +122

    I get all the comments about Josh being a great guy, but Logan definitely is too! He literally stepped up at 17 to be a step dad and he also seems really nice😊

  • @reallyi2132
    @reallyi2132 Pƙed 4 lety +2132

    the military dude probably doesn’t feel judged bc everyone is married w kids in the military lol

    • @FLUFFY4891
      @FLUFFY4891 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      So true

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Pƙed 4 lety +37

      RIGHT! I was thinkin like sir that’s normal there.

    • @tay2944
      @tay2944 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Truest comment

    • @toqa6735
      @toqa6735 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      True , my brother and his 18 yrs wife

    • @fanbase4226
      @fanbase4226 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      @first last Same with my brother, but he was engaged until he cheated on his girlfriend and they broke up. :P

  • @jsmedenilla4524
    @jsmedenilla4524 Pƙed 4 lety +1707

    "Abortions, adoptions and all other options" -Lil Josh 2019

    • @lesliiminii
      @lesliiminii Pƙed 4 lety +41

      Lollll he should drop a diss track on the other dudes haha 😂

    • @hisbloodsaves3621
      @hisbloodsaves3621 Pƙed 4 lety +10

      JS Medenilla pray to end the sin of abortion! Hell is real!

    • @CC-CR
      @CC-CR Pƙed 4 lety +14

      *_bARS_*

    • @ChloeRoestel
      @ChloeRoestel Pƙed 4 lety +5

      His Blood Saves
      Okie Doki then

    • @dillonmichaels6037
      @dillonmichaels6037 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      @@hisbloodsaves3621 Prove it

  • @azucenanajera2295
    @azucenanajera2295 Pƙed 3 lety +80

    I just want to reach through the screen and give Josh a big hug and tell him everything's ok.

  • @kirankaur5919
    @kirankaur5919 Pƙed 3 lety +49

    So Edgar went to agree for "My family approves of me having a child at my age" but then, proceeded to talk about how her reaction to the pregnancy wasn't it, she was negative & now his kid doesn't hang with his mum. Why didn't he go to the middle or to the disagree side? Was he being real with himself?

  • @Kai-bu6zv
    @Kai-bu6zv Pƙed 4 lety +3055

    “what a nice baby you have”
    we love josh

    • @elakren9128
      @elakren9128 Pƙed 4 lety +65

      NIKAYLA i think he was talking to logan bc logans baby wasn’t there so he was holding one of joshs twins

    • @khanhvidoan7524
      @khanhvidoan7524 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Olivia Parres-Gold yes! cutest boy twins

    • @RebeccaLynn-ed5em
      @RebeccaLynn-ed5em Pƙed 4 lety

      Olivia Parres-Gold Yeah! his girlfriend (i think sophie) has a youtube channel!

    • @Kai-bu6zv
      @Kai-bu6zv Pƙed 4 lety

      I think the CZcams channel is Sophie Gonzalez

    • @elakren9128
      @elakren9128 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Olivia Parres-Gold he did him and sophie and both the boys went to LA to shoot this, logans holding the other twin bc his baby couldn’t be there

  • @linty2747
    @linty2747 Pƙed 4 lety +4584

    i feel like josh was being targeted by some of the other guys when they were answering questions. he was just being real.

    • @mari5258
      @mari5258 Pƙed 4 lety +193

      Right it annoyed me. Like non of them hv it all together no matter what they say lol 😂

    • @lucya4238
      @lucya4238 Pƙed 4 lety +67

      Lynne Zhang yeah I noticed that too. I kinda felt bad for him

    • @SydneyJean
      @SydneyJean Pƙed 4 lety +1

      i agree!

    • @crazyowlgirlcncowner
      @crazyowlgirlcncowner Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Josh is a CZcamsr along with his baby's mom. Their channel's name is Sophie Gonzalez.

    • @USMCplzzz
      @USMCplzzz Pƙed 4 lety +11

      They’re not singling him out because he chose to go to one side of the room.
      He chose to make an adult decision, but wasn’t ready for the adult consequences that CAN happen when that decision is made.
      I get it, teenage boy with raging hormones, can’t see things clearly for what they are in reality. But there’s a point in life where we are taught a level of self discipline to be averse to these life changing risks.
      Nowadays, single mother households don’t put that pressure on self discipline and thinking before acting. The stats and science on that is fascinating for those of you interested.
      He made his decision that cost him the life he might’ve wanted and is responsible for the life he helped create.
      He seems happy now that his child is born, for most men that puts life into perspective. It’s a sacrifice that he’ll live with but most importantly he’ll be living for something other than himself and will feel more fulfilled and validated as he becomes a pillar in his child’s life

  • @starr3701
    @starr3701 Pƙed 3 lety +79

    the kids just vibin like: đŸ‘¶đŸ»đŸ‘¶đŸœđŸ‘¶đŸŒ

  • @guccymia4622
    @guccymia4622 Pƙed 3 lety +38

    Josh was being super honest and also like that’s a normal reaction and he had twinssss

  • @angelosvlahos
    @angelosvlahos Pƙed 4 lety +9217

    I feel like Josh in the only one who answered 100% honestly

    • @the3musketeers14
      @the3musketeers14 Pƙed 4 lety +47

      Angelos Vlahos why would anyone lie?

    • @xomnipresent8913
      @xomnipresent8913 Pƙed 4 lety +47

      Why would someone not be honest about something they didn’t like

    • @ara6372
      @ara6372 Pƙed 4 lety +101

      If you watch Yasmyn and Logan’s CZcams channel you know he’s being honest too

    • @henrymathews3671
      @henrymathews3671 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      exactly

    • @erika8349
      @erika8349 Pƙed 4 lety +83

      I think they’re all being honest. They just experience different situations.

  • @adrianao7915
    @adrianao7915 Pƙed 4 lety +3989

    honestly, props to josh for being so honest even when he was the only one on the other side of the room

    • @fakepewdiepie1845
      @fakepewdiepie1845 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Copied

    • @Yes-mn4zy
      @Yes-mn4zy Pƙed 4 lety +43

      Yes he wasn’t afraid of the judgement

    • @HelloHi-ik5lx
      @HelloHi-ik5lx Pƙed 4 lety +47

      Yeah. For sure. I can’t imagine it-3 days before college move-in. Surprised they didn’t go with adoption.

    • @veradavidovic8034
      @veradavidovic8034 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Adriana Olivas Ureno yeah and i support that he still wanted to be educated...i hope he finishes those 4 years^^

    • @witchsick
      @witchsick Pƙed 4 lety +18

      I’d definitely have been on his side if I were in his position, it was pretty rude that Tyler was shading him wherever possible. Tf, people have different experiences y’all 😂

  • @y.6679
    @y.6679 Pƙed 3 lety +32

    For the prompt "Do you have a good relationship with the mother of your child" when they all walked to strongly agree it made me super happy- I have no idea why but just knowing that they were in a good spot made me smile :)

  • @queensigal
    @queensigal Pƙed 3 lety +83

    Watching "teen mom"i think gives a more realistic picture of what is going on ...most teenage girls end up with horrible irresponsible boys with few exceptions.

  • @Aghbfyhbb
    @Aghbfyhbb Pƙed 4 lety +3839

    I wanna be Josh's friend, he seems a lot more honest

    • @LK-nx4cs
      @LK-nx4cs Pƙed 4 lety +69

      how do you know the others aren't being honest/wholesome , teen pregnancies aren't always negative and just because they didn't have the teen pregnancy stereotype doesn't mean they're lying/not wholesome although I don't advise it

    • @Aghbfyhbb
      @Aghbfyhbb Pƙed 4 lety +165

      @@LK-nx4cs I'm not saying they're not being honest, I'm just saying that it seems like he was more willing to share the bad parts of it than the others is all, wasn't trying to put the others down

    • @Drea_A
      @Drea_A Pƙed 4 lety +53

      Agreed. I felt like the other ones gave the answers the think they NEEDED to give. Like what they think are 'grown up' answers

    • @LK-nx4cs
      @LK-nx4cs Pƙed 4 lety +2

      @@Drea_A yh you think you have no evidence and are making a large assumption

    • @vianjelos
      @vianjelos Pƙed 4 lety +3

      @@Drea_A whats sad is that there is no point in having this conversation if they arent going to be 100% transparent.

  • @hexrtromxnce
    @hexrtromxnce Pƙed 2 lety +20

    The way they all went to strongly agree when they were asked “was your relationship with the mother okay” I awwed

  • @danielleocean2973
    @danielleocean2973 Pƙed 2 lety +22

    Brandon seemed so heartbroken when he told them „friends“ from football who would call his girlfriend names. This actually broke my heart.

  • @fuzzipink
    @fuzzipink Pƙed 4 lety +2677

    For everyone saying that these men are putting on “a show”, it’s hard to even find teen dads who are even present in their kids’ lives so...

    • @trpysnow
      @trpysnow Pƙed 4 lety +26

      Actually it’s not. The majority of teen dads want some sort of involvement with there child.

    • @BernieSanders-bn5dk
      @BernieSanders-bn5dk Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Where can i find mushrooms? 😉

    • @goolumf
      @goolumf Pƙed 4 lety +23

      thisbitch 123 people who don’t want to be dads prolly won’t come on the show tho

    • @joycelyneaddo1355
      @joycelyneaddo1355 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      Yukié›Ș so then why are there so many single teen moms?

    • @dominiquec644
      @dominiquec644 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Like mine

  • @user-hx9cc1qh3h
    @user-hx9cc1qh3h Pƙed 4 lety +2694

    Everyone's praising Josh and throwing dirt at the others lmaooo this is like a reverse Erin

  • @evasmojang
    @evasmojang Pƙed 2 lety +23

    Josh finally smiling when he holds his baby is precious.

  • @endercupid
    @endercupid Pƙed 3 lety +24

    12:06 is just Tyler trying to be ✹different✹

  • @justinc.3385
    @justinc.3385 Pƙed 4 lety +40604

    it’s so weird seeing an 18 year old say they planned their pregnancy.

    • @gabriellefloyd9844
      @gabriellefloyd9844 Pƙed 4 lety +1890

      Justin C. Yeah, and they were seniors in high school when they got pregnant. It’s crazy, but they have their own family unit in a house they’re renting so I guess it works for them

    • @blondexsunshine
      @blondexsunshine Pƙed 4 lety +1542

      Justin C. I’m 31 and I can’t imagine being 18 and thinking about having a baby. I’m 6 months pregnant and I’m kind of overwhelmed and I do have financial support. At 18 I was graduating high school and looking forward to finally having freedom. But, to each their own.

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 Pƙed 4 lety +871

      I know, right. You should at least be financially stable before you PLAN to have a child.

    • @justinc.3385
      @justinc.3385 Pƙed 4 lety +338

      Tiffany agreed, i’m 23 and about to graduate college and i don’t want one for a few more years

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt Pƙed 4 lety +94

      Abby Griffin how would u know they aren’t stable Lmaooo

  • @trinamarieortiz3971
    @trinamarieortiz3971 Pƙed 2 lety +28

    Josh might’ve been scared/nervous and had a normal teen reaction to a teen pregnancy but you can tell he loves his babies and he’s a great father!

  • @lucias2424
    @lucias2424 Pƙed 3 lety +65

    Some of these men have to be lying about their answers-

  • @TheBoeboe
    @TheBoeboe Pƙed 4 lety +605

    the guy in the white shirt.. damn.. he feels so geniune and sweet. hope the best for him, and his life gets a bit easier

    • @MakeupBracesHair
      @MakeupBracesHair Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Check out their youtube channel! Him & his ex are the most genuine youtubers Ive watched

    • @april1252
      @april1252 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      @@MakeupBracesHair What's his CZcams?

    • @maddieb5581
      @maddieb5581 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      April Sophie Gonzalez 😊

    • @april1252
      @april1252 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@maddieb5581 Thanks lots 😊

  • @kianjames7399
    @kianjames7399 Pƙed 4 lety +4110

    I honestly would like to see “Do all people who had abortions think the same?”

    • @Ishizu09
      @Ishizu09 Pƙed 4 lety +62

      There is a difference between i had an abortion because i wanted to and i was forced to do so. Those who were forced obviously don't think positive of it. And many people don't see the difference when they say " you will regret having an abortion".

    • @kianjames7399
      @kianjames7399 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Ishizu09 I agree❀

    • @kianjames7399
      @kianjames7399 Pƙed 4 lety

      carolina hernandez what’s your handle? ❀

    • @lavie717
      @lavie717 Pƙed 4 lety

      there's already a posted video about it. check pro-life vs pro-choice

    • @kianjames7399
      @kianjames7399 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      La Vie not with spectrum though

  • @vinaybembalge2370
    @vinaybembalge2370 Pƙed 3 lety +33

    Me being an indian just thinking how will my neighbours and relatives will react after they know i became dad at 19.

  • @111blvd
    @111blvd Pƙed 3 lety +16

    I really hated how the attention was directed and cameras were pointing at josh just because the others were on the same side besides him when they asked whether they are involved in their kid's life even though he wasn't even on the other side. Just one line away. That just proves his honesty and I admire him

  • @mielindegaard5568
    @mielindegaard5568 Pƙed 4 lety +8716

    That guy in the white t-shirt is so alone in this discussion.

    • @lead.364
      @lead.364 Pƙed 4 lety +159

      He tells his own story on his ex gf's YT Channel: Sophie Gonzales

    • @AnnaMazingFusion
      @AnnaMazingFusion Pƙed 4 lety +476

      Mie Lindegaard IKR, I feel like this is so unbalanced. Most teen pregnancies are terrifying when unplanned, and these teen dads all seemed to be planning them!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Pƙed 4 lety +252

      Fru Lindegaard, he is the only one that's honest .

    • @Ashley-ku7is
      @Ashley-ku7is Pƙed 4 lety +82

      Most of these guys are lying. 100%

    • @osimeon00
      @osimeon00 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      As he should be. The other guys actually take responsibility for their choices and are actively involved with being a dad.

  • @claubabe16
    @claubabe16 Pƙed 4 lety +14820

    Josh seems so judged but is literally the only one being honest.

    • @jada2370
      @jada2370 Pƙed 4 lety +180

      Claudia Aguas So you’re just assuming that the other guys are lying?

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 Pƙed 4 lety +331

      @@jada2370 They're not all lying but I highly doubt all of the ones who had unplanned pregnancies were perfect angels that didn't have any doubts.

    • @chadmincher
      @chadmincher Pƙed 4 lety +134

      That’s why I asked about peer pressure. How much are these guys not being honest due to the fear of being judged.

    • @unetrehumain1353
      @unetrehumain1353 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      everyone has a different opinion, maybe they are "lying" or sugar coating, but it's maybe their way of dealing with it, like the more you say it, the more it grows on you, please don't judge without knowing

    • @UniversityOfMunich
      @UniversityOfMunich Pƙed 4 lety +22

      He seems the least likely to end up an absentee father in the long run

  • @ashlynnwoodruff5800
    @ashlynnwoodruff5800 Pƙed 3 lety +19

    Josh literally had twins like no wonder he has the reactions he did ❀❀❀

  • @solmartinez7208
    @solmartinez7208 Pƙed 3 lety +12

    josh was the most honest and realistic of all of them

    • @xwrtk
      @xwrtk Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Josh lied about being financially stable. When he was together with his baby mama, he would consistently ask for CZcams money when he wouldn’t help with CZcams. His baby mama because of CZcams but not him. They aren’t together anymore.

  • @AudTheGod
    @AudTheGod Pƙed 4 lety +2870

    “My wife” Y’all I’m older than all these guys and I just broke up with my first real boyfriend...

    • @soniachari579
      @soniachari579 Pƙed 4 lety +28

      I can feel you

    • @aben4628
      @aben4628 Pƙed 4 lety +50

      24 never had one

    • @crazynats367
      @crazynats367 Pƙed 4 lety +48

      Bro I JUST turned 18. I ain't gonna get a boyfriend for a long time, let alone a HUSBAND. I could never

    • @bigacornlavafla1310
      @bigacornlavafla1310 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Vlad To the Bone i’m turning 22 next month and I haven’t been in ANY relationships!! I want a baby!!!!

    • @kiyoponnn
      @kiyoponnn Pƙed 4 lety +6

      @@bigacornlavafla1310 I can give you a baby😉

  • @johannarauha
    @johannarauha Pƙed 4 lety +5456

    Cool to see teen dads. Teen moms are everywhere but usually no one talks about the dads!

    • @stupidt3232
      @stupidt3232 Pƙed 4 lety +186

      Because most leave like mine did. My mom was 15 and my dad was 21 but he left. They don't want a child so young so they aren't talked about that much

    • @vincenzoacciari6260
      @vincenzoacciari6260 Pƙed 4 lety +141

      @@stupidt3232 that's not really a teen dad

    • @yuhloic
      @yuhloic Pƙed 4 lety +35

      Stupidt thats not a teen dad

    • @JYMAHJAMES
      @JYMAHJAMES Pƙed 4 lety +124

      @@stupidt3232 15 and 21 😳

    • @AnimeGirlYaoiChan
      @AnimeGirlYaoiChan Pƙed 4 lety +175

      @@stupidt3232 I feel like he left for legal reasons..

  • @ryuteez9218
    @ryuteez9218 Pƙed 3 lety +18

    aw, I loved it when they all moved to strongly agree for the "I have a good relationship with the mother"