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This episode of Spectrum wouldn't have been possible without Gillette and Walgreens - thank you for giving these men a space to discuss masculinity and identity! Visit your local Walgreens or walgreens.com for your favorite Gillette products. What was your favorite moment from the discussion?
Jubilee Gillette is just about the worst sponsor you couldâve gotten for this video.
@@Seanonyoutube chill, they can support whoever they want and be supported by whoever they want. You calling Gillete a bad sponsor gives no reason to why they might be and is simple hate. They cared enough to sponsor an informative video on a hot topic that means a lot to many Americans
@@Seanonyoutube They probably liked the commercial and agree with the ideas so they let this be a commercial for Gillette especially with that ending and the football player shaving
Jubilee why donât you guys flip the script and have women in there talking about femininity? To me locker room talk and women gossiping and telling their girlfriend all of your personal business are just as bad.
My least favourite part is the times it's so obvious that it's sponsored and how plastic that makes the rest of the video feel
When the Asian guy explained how his dad felt he was a "Kitten" and some of the guys told him how much of a man he was that was really touching. Being able to validate something he struggled with was a really great gesture.
Ruby da cherry
This is what the incel community or guys that might be getting into it truly need, I think.
Sometimes all you need is a voice willing to listen.
Ruby does not exist
I was tearing up đ„șđ„ș
Honestly I almost teared up too. Struggling with that thought is very hard, itâs one of the biggest struggles on our journeys to manhood. Itâs relieving to hear it being discussed. Thatâs something we normally all emotionally deal with silently and privately.
That nfl guy fought practically every stereotype
The Pro364 it feels manufactured itâs so opposite
I relate to him
im pretty sure he got paid to do that lol
@@Smellystinkyfarts Kyle and his dad Howie and the Long family really are those opposites of the norm kinda people. at least what has been showed to us in their popular famous lives
Jurnalist it still feels like heâs trying too hard to push against the norm so that people admire him but I could be totally wrong and he could be a genuine guy but something just feels off
he's the most unKyle Kyle of the Kyle community
AHAHAHA
"The kyle community" I can't lmfaooo
Now he is a high ranking officer
He's definitely a Kyle on the gridiron
right
"Blood, sweat, and tears"
I'm a profesional chef. I work in kitchens 8-12 hours a day, 5-7 days a week. I've bled, I've sweated, and I've definitely cried. If you put passion into something you care about, that makes you just as much of a man as any athlete.
Working kitchen is HARD theres a reason depression is high in ppl who work.back of house. Definitely not for the weak
Saaame.. Wounds just dont heal!! T_T
"I've bleed, I've sweated, and I've definitely cried"
But, like... not IN the food, rigth?
Thatâs beautiful! Well said đ„°
And thanks to this comment the health department is coming.
The asian guy was really brave in how he was able to open up.
Marcus Matousek I think his name is Erik, but yeah I agree with you đđ
Everyone else was basically just following Kyle.
riiight
it's Gillette saving their ass
He made me tear up.
When they all told the Asian guy that he was a man and that he could even have the black guy as his dad. THAT WAS TOUCHING. Beautiful
I feel bad because he keeps the guilt of never showing his dad that he was a man or never was able to meet his expectations while he was alive even tho he hit his own expectations. I think itâs better to meet your own expectations than your parents because you feel that you did good. You know what Iâm saying.
Literally made me tear up its so sad, im glad they are so supportive!
That was simply sad. In a bad way.
they have names
@@michaelw.9657 it is better to meet your own expectations but the feels meeting your parents expectations and be a pride for them is very important especially in asian culture
I like how the guy turned Lockeroom Talk into something heâs comfortable with, instead of considering a place where u act like a toxic dude, he considered it a place where u can express ur emotions and guys r gonna be there to talk to u, while also being a place where u can socialize. He turned the meaning upside down in a good way
I think CJ views were the most reasonable. Long and red sweater were spewing nonsense.
@@danieljenkins7951 Just say you don't understand their perspectives and be done with it mate.
Have you ever thought of the wild notion that a person can disagree while understanding their argument?
locker room talk is essential for men. men need men to check them when they do something wrong.
@@danielsnake23checking men for their misbehavior is necessary. Locker rooms arenât. I understand the necessity for a safe space but a space to be an ahole is by definition not safe.
Kyle Long ain't a man, he's *THE* man.
Heâs a liar
I wanna see him and Andrew Tate debate
The NFL player and guy in red sweater...I would love to be friends.
Indeed
Wouldnât doubt at all that that guy is saying whatâs expected, in a way most of them likely do because of current social pressure. He looks a certain way so he has to act in a way to try to prove he doesnât behave in the way people would assume
Just because you donât agree with a person doesnât mean being friends with them would be bad. I would be friends with all of them
@@richardinis I never said that I agree or disagree with anything. Iâd be friends with anyone really so long as they are kind.
Which one of the guy is nfl playerrr?? đđ
The way sean ran to Kyle and gave him a hug as if he was hugging an older brother really got me. This guy just wants to be accepted and validated and Kyle was there
Pretty sure he was trying to tackle him for $ 1 million
@@JoeyZero123 If you call a good ol' hug a tackle then... I guess
@@JoeyZero123 but Kyle knew his intentions. He knew that Sean needed a hug which is why he initiated the group hug. Truely a very positive masculininty moment
I'm just proud overall that men nowadays are this open, honest, and hold such respect for other men, coming from the place they were coming from with huge understanding. they all displayed masculinity in all of its facets. if this is where masculinity is headed then we're good.
Agreed
Unfortunately not everybody is convinced yet. We still have some ways to go.
yess
Why are women allowed to be as feminine as they want without being viewed as toxic while men have to act a certain way or else society views them as toxic?
@@Jose_Martinez11 men are allowed to be "masculine", who's stopping them? who's forcing men to be feminine? if anything society forces men to be stereotypically masculine, and that stereotypical masculinity has aspects that can be harmful to both men and women, that's what toxic masculinity refers to. masculinity itself is not bad at all, the *negative* aspects of stereotypical masculinity that's perpetuated by and pushed onto men is the problem. if you want examples of the negative aspects I can provide some but maybe you know what I mean
You know you're definitely a male if you're playing Donkey in Shrek: The Musical.
Man*
Lol
@@ericvalles4661 does it make a difference
definitely
@@enpockelistek3855 Yes. âMaleâ is exclusionary off trans people in this context.
*do all men think the same?*
âIs kissing the homies gay?â
Im deadđ
Nah G, its homiesexual.
It depends.
You can kiss your homies, as a treat.
Mariam Ahmed do you ever give your homies a bj?
"you're a tiger" "you can use my dad if you want"
My god these guys are so sweet can I be friends with them?
Random guys coming with offers..... In 3,2,1....đđ
*Allow me in introduce myself*
The âsweeterâ men become, the harsher women will become.
@@WomenofHighValue lol ok
R feminine men are emotionally unstable.
And let the escalation of emotionally unstable marriages and families begin! Fun!
Iâve been married for 10 years
You should do âdo all teenage girls think the sameâ
@Ismael Barrera generalizing and not true lmao
@@MotionMasterMike not all men , just most of the men in these comments who say women are like children and donât speak up because they wonât hurt peopleâs feelings but once they do they accuse them of being hormonal . Other than that I love all men who donât talk down on women and have a high ego . Any women or man who has a high ego can leave
Sat I havenât seen one comment saying this
@@Yer4you mhm yh definitely âmostâ men in this comment section
@@MotionMasterMike assuming something about them before it even happens, and you wonder why they say that
Validating other people's struggles is often overlooked and so so important. You can tell that Erik really felt safe enough to open up to the other men. This episode brought a tear to my eye. I love this episode.
Rob is clearly such a good dad and cares about his daughter.
Thanks, Sydney! I definitely do. She and my wife are truly amazing
MrBeast I am đ
Glad someone said it. He seems like an amazing father.
Lol MrBeast randomly chilling in the comment section
Sydney Reynolds SO HERE FOR IT â„ïž
When they said âyouâre a man, I see you as a tiger, get over here.â I lost it. So loving.
Emma Matheson ya righttt and when he said âyou can use my dadâ it was just so comforting.
Fr they were sooooo understanding i loved it
Tigers suck. They only exist, because we think they are cute. Wild pigs are the true chads. While humans spread so did wild pigs.
@@MrCmon113 lol tigers are Savage wtf are you talking about?
@@MrCmon113 nope. honey badgers are the true chads
As an autistic man, locker room talk is the worst part of being a man, and it's the primary reason I was only friends with girls until I was in college and some of the guys had matured out of it
May I ask what that is? I've never heard of it before.
@@charbelalam2648 locker room talk is when males discuss sex and drugs. They talk about women they slept with and game plans to sleep with more. They also mentions drugs that they have tried and encourage others to do the same. Growing up christian, I always hated it as a kid and still hate it as an adult. I think the only pro is that men can vent their frustration about life and get practical solutions. The only problems is that the solutions are based on bad advice
@@mario125ww oh damn that is new to me. We never have these in my country, that stuff does not sound fun to me.
@@mario125ww I mean you just pigeon hold what locker room talk is. Which was exactly discussed in this video???? As the black man said he experienced lovker room talk as a safe space to talk about men related topics. Dsnt mean it always involves sex or objectifying people. Its just been hijacked.
"locker room talk is when males discuss sex and drugs. They talk about women they slept with and game plans to sleep with more."
I mean the fact you deevolve what it is to something like the sentence above is quite sad.
@@maxpowers4436 no I gave it context. If locker room talk was about men topics only, women wouldn't have a problem with it. So me mentioning the biggest controversy about it is warrant. Also at the end, I mention a pro of it which is what you mentioned: men issues
Rob seems like an amazing father â€ïž I grew up without a father and it would have been amazing to have someone like him in my life
Thanks! I hope my daughter feels that way her whole life :D
"I see you as a tiger" I SQUEALED. THIS MAN IS IS GOOD.
what a dad
You squealed like a mouse
Whole ass woke my girlfriend up and everything
Tyler K. Totally agree
eva parke
LesBEEEun
- Jesse lee Peterson
lol jk but the jlp guy is such a troll if u see his channel
I usually donât get too involved with CZcams but I found myself tearing up hearing the man speak whoâs father took his own life and one of the last things he remembers him saying is âhow come Iâm a tiger and my son is a kittenâ. He never received validation from his dad, I hope this man finds peace.
TooFacedBaby05 he find can find peace from the prince of peace. Jesus is the answer
A lot of people with depression and who take there own life have insecurities of there own which could be a reason he projects his insecurities on his son in reality his father may have felt like a kitten
@@jacksonlowe3993 your probably right
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Dear Erik, you spoke your truth to millions of people; that takes some real courage. If you, in your heart, feel that you are a good person and you do everything you can to keep being a good person, you are a man. You are a great man, in fact. :)
this is the most wholesome episode of spectrum I have ever seen I actually got teary eyed
The sports guys parents raised him RIGHT
Sike he lets his women dominate him, they raised him real wrong.
Maxine Teitelbaum period.
Sticky Fingers no he sees his wife as an equal. Your extremely toxic
@@noahparker50 You're a Moron.
its very easy not to feel toxicity and hatred towards other people when you have looks, money, skill, and athletic ability where everyone likes you
I love that the prompt is on the bottom of the screen throughout the segment.
Agreed. I used to have to constantly rewind if I missed the prompt or forgot what it was.
same. in the past the audio hast always been clear i couldn't understand what the prompt was and no amount playing it back helped
Bort same, Iâd step away for a little bit and then have to go back
YES! Cause when I get distracted when they ask the question I look back and I just see everyone moving and don't know what happening lol
same
The football player and the guy in the red sweater are absolute kings.
I cried when he said he can't meet the expectations of masculinity that his Dad is putting on him đ
Real men does not cry
@@josecarlosxyz you're the problem in this world.
The man in the red shirt was my favorite honestly. All of his opinions were respectful he wasn't sexist and he just wasn't scared to be himself
Thanks! I try hard to be open, honest, and respectful. Iâm happy you saw that.
Southgate Media Group I'm sure you're a great dad also you kinda restored my faith in men along with a few others, keep it up man !
Must be a great husband & dad
@@pretty948 restored!! means you lost faith in men!! like all men. That's huge.
@@SomeOne_1409 Fr like I hate that we try to strive for equality yet we aren't just ditching basing the actions of someone off of their gender, skin color, and sexuality
"Being feminine makes you less of a man" would've been a great prompt
oml youre right
Having too many feminine characteristics kinda do make you less of a man, like a soyboy isn't very manly
@@dudemanbroguy5747 so you have to be "manly" to be a man?
@@joshuaenzo1282 yeah
@@joshuaenzo1282 hey a man can express himself how ever he wants but if he's a guy that wants other guy friends but lacks many masculine traits himself then hes gonna struggle to have those friends, it's hard to respect a beta male
being a man isn't about towering over others. it's about going down to someone's level in their time of need and helping to lift them back up onto their feet. that's how I see it at least
I think the dads analogy about him being a lion and his son being a kitten is accurate. Kittens are loving, curious, and fearless they make a great companion, a lion does not lol from another perspective that was a compliment.
"Sports are more masculine than arts"
Martial arts : *exists*
HAHAHA đ
What I was thinking exactly because I do martial arts đ€Ł
If it's in the Olympics isn't it a sport?
I think of martial arts as a sport bc there is the UFC, boxing organizations, Olympic wrestling and kickboxing organizations
@@apllo4193 well chess is in the olympics so
Honestly idk who Kyle Long is but I really respected everything he said. I liked how vulnerable and truthful everyone was
He was an Offensive Guard for the Chicago Bears. He just retired this year. He is the brother of Chris Long who played Defensive End for multiple team, and won the Superbowl with the Philadelphia Eagles in the 2017 season. They both are the sons of Pro Football Hall of Famer Howie Long who played Defensive End for the Las Angeles/Oakland Raiders
This is what has been the meaning of "man up", People don't realize that is true masculinity, accepting our vulnerability and showing it to the world therefore making us more resilient. Men share their concerns with other men because they first of all can more than likely relate or share what mistakes they have made to show a better path. (not saying that there hasn't been abuse of the term before, most times this is what it means)
you would probably attack him if he didn't agree with your views
CallMeB nah I wouldnât attack anyone but thanks for your input
I totaly agree. And it's funny how I imagined that he woud be that "Manly Man", because of my judging by appearances, but he's certainly not.
His Lao Veteran father totally was under pressure and PTSD experience and that really bottled up.
"woman prefer male leadership" he said... And me hard shaking my head: absolutely not. I will always think equally mixed is the best
Heâs right though, they do. What the NFL player is saying is the politically correct thing to say, civilisation has been built by Man. Has there been even one successful female civilisation
Abdul-Ahad Hussain there never could be a âfemale civilizationâ whatever thats supposed to mean because men have been doing everything in their power to keep women down. And historically many female leaders have been way better than their male countparts. Elizabeth the first, maria theresia, there was a very succesful chinese empress and many many more. So what your saying is actually just factually wrong.
@@ax4326 yes there were a lot of matriarchal civilizations until the partiarchs invaded their land and surpressed them. The fact that you donât know that women have always been leaders throughout history shows your lack of education. Do some research.
Good leaders have to be able to consider the interests of multiple different people, be good at communicating and act rational and not based on anger. Those are all qualities that women are more likely to have.
@@katybee3891 thatâs y matriarchal societies live in extreme poverty coz thereâs no true masculinity. If women think they r oppressed why tf donât they go and live matriarchal societies??? Guess wat because matriarchal societies r extremely badly off
@@katybee3891 You generalize leadership on a singular role. Females can be great leaders, depending on the subject. If it is in a social sector, I'd rather have a female leader (generally speaking). Women are a lot more compassionate. But there are also topics that are better suited for male leadership. Things, that usually revolve about "things" or that require aggression as a driver (war for example).
As a teenage male itâs very interesting to see how older men respond to these questions and I think that it would be extremely valuable to see how teenagers feel about these topics.
oh you're right, I hadn't thought about that. and btw you're crazy eloquent.
@@maygreene5436 Thank you
I as a female teenager felt the same in the âdo all women think the sameâ video
Young boys and men desperately need positive role models. Too many boys out there raising themselves, it's sad.
@@MsMusicalBeans true.
â 6 Men Talk About Masculinity (feat. NFL Player Kyle Long)â sounds like a smoother title
bump
Yess that sounds way better. I was confused by the title at first.
Kayleigh Stevenson same!
Yeah, sounds like the NFL player is not a guy.
wax Ok soyboy
Dude in the blue shirt... The fact he doesn't live up to his father's expectations says far more about his answers than the answer he gave. The insight is crazy
I was a bit worried about this video making me upset, but this was actually quite wonderful discourse, and i think everyone involved learned something, and thatâs what this is all about.
I hope Erik realizes he doesnât have to meet his dadâs expectations and that thriving and being proud of yourself, independent of *anyoneâs* expectations of who/what you should be, is truly what makes him a man.
@WingsOfTruth What's wrong with being the one with glasses or blad nfl guy? They are true men
WingsOfTruth wtf
@WingsOfTruth definitely not what they said. And even if they are "beta", there is literally nothing wrong with that.
Wings of truth is a troll that's randomly here on these videos. He'll just escalate it, so I'd just ignore him or her? Idk. I really hope Erik gets the mental help he needs cause he's not only dealing with too high of standards but also grief and insecurities.
WingsOfTruth he was literally a football player. Are you the beta?
when Erik talked about his dad saying that Erik is a kitten really stuck out to me. Erik keep it up your a true man, strong and independent. were all rooting for you!
Oof. I teared up. Made me think of all the little sentences that formed my life. I wish him the very best.
Also it is okay to be a kitten. I prefer kittens over tigers honestly....
Thank you to you both, Iâm on a great path. Iâm glad thereâs people like you in the world to lift people up
@@erikkhamphouy7723 You seem like a great person, and you deserve to be happy. Wishing you all the best.
@@erikkhamphouy7723
Bro I can't believe it. When I saw the thumbnail with your face, I was shooketh
@@erikkhamphouy7723 PLEASE don't take this the wrong way, but are you gay? asking for a friend
All the men on this episode were outstanding! The way they opened up and were there for each other was beautiful and how they respected each others views. Wish them a lot of happiness and health.
This was the first video where I felt all the participants had at least one good point. Everyone was respectable. Overall the most positive and my favorite Jubilee video
this is gillette's best ad in a while
i got confidence to shave after this ad
Gillette shaving cream smells good.
@@christianjane8401 ok BRO
Honestly forgot
Went and bought some gillette right after. Remember boys gillette makes you a man
the first question hit hard. if anyone tells me bob ross is less of a man than anyone, that person is categorically wrong.
Especially since he used to be in the airforce
@@thetoaster765
*''now i'll shoot you two missiles because every missile needs a friend''*
@@myers5059 some happy little missiles
@@thetoaster765 is military manly now
@@thetoaster765 Congratulations, you destroyed the point
"How to be a real man"
Alright this could be interesting
"Sponsored by Gillette"
And there it is
Fuck this channel is something else.
EXACTLY! The title made me go hmm, and whem I saw the partnership, I was like ahh I see.
Ya, the Co that makes fun of men, & lied to women
Who cares? Why is that more important than the content of the video, the topics of discussion and the opinions of the participants?
Of course Gilletties would think that playing a physical sport or manual labor isn't more masculine than painting and acting, that's the future of "men" they want to build.
I'm only one question in and I know this is going to be an absolute joke by how most men aren't agreeing that sports are masculine, it is possibly one of the most masculine things out there. It's literally (not metaphorically, literally) built off man's desire to hunt, fight, cooperate, and compete and involves heavy physical work. They are trying to redefine male and masculine, make a new-male, or nu-male for short.
Such a great episode! I love how they gave each other space to state their opinion, share their experiences. It's nice to see people come together rather than fight with each other â€ïž They were so supportive, empathetic and calm - that's how communication should be like! Huge thumbs up!
the football player was so wholesome and so intelligent within his own thoughts and iâm very glad he was featured in this episode
honestly! such a good man
Vudi
A very rare thing these days.
Add Bow If Girl Don't ruin it. He's a great man, but not a rare one. Get out more.
hot too
All the guys in the Long family are super wholesome and smart.
The NFL player is a ridiculously respectable person. I hold him in very high esteem after watching this video
Respectable because he has the same opinion as you?
@@user-sd6lg8lf5c I actually like how you worded that. (I'm gonna use that in the future XD) my answer is yes and no. He held a different opinion on a couple, but his insight on the topics were well thought out and he made great points. He calmly explained them
@@dragonartist223 Oh ok. So if a conservative or someone who completely disagreed with you was calm and had good insight, youâd respect them too?
@@user-sd6lg8lf5c Of course. As long as they're respectful and open to hearing how I view things. As long as a mature conversation takes place, I wouldnt have a problem. And may I just say, I'm moderate, politically. I know many conservatives with their own separate opinions. Just because people don't agree, doesn't mean that they can't respect one another. Thats childish.
@@user-sd6lg8lf5c are you being intentionally obtuse and toxic or are you just not very bright?
The group hug was wonderful! I'm also glad, I think his name is Eric, was able to open up about his dad. I'm really happy that the others were so supportive of him and validated him.
Why did they have to show that guy missing the layup lmao
Fr đđđđđ
LMAO i thought he was gonna make it đđđ
I can see Sean questioning his opinion when heâs to the opposite of Kyle and itâs sad to see men wanting to be accepted to the masculine side they look up to. Iâm glad Kyle is such a great figure to society
Itâs good that we get some actual value out of some guy we pay ridiculous amounts of money too for running into other guys.
@@StJosephsCreatineEnjoyer "we pay" who's we?
Kyle is a weak beta male who would never make it on the wrestling mat. On the mat, you have to be an alpha. Stick to the soft world of football Kyle.
@@iramswrestlinghighlights1164 Ok.
Zachary they wouldnât get paid if football fanatics didnât glorify their every breath.
Dude, Kyle Long went to my high school. I knew him when I was little. He carried my friend on his shoulders for field day. I'm so proud to see that he didn't feed into that "Manly Man" stereotype and completely redefined what it is to be a man.
@WINTERBULLS KINGCHITOWN Yep! His name is dropped here all the time.
facts bc you dont have to be toxic to be a manly man. i think all these men are manly men, and i admire them for it
That "manly man" stereotype doesn't exist and it's sexist to say it is.
@@darkwolf4434 it does exist it's just rare to see people who follow it
@@Potatocrime24-7 Yeah, but the problem is to stereotype men as a group into that stereotype, I think it's dangerous to stereotype any group.
This made me cry at the end. This was beautiful. Amazing work!
This video was so much more wholesome than I expected and I love this đ„șâ€ïž these men are all great men
This episode was one of the best. Surprisingly not toxic but really open and great convo :D
When they âtackledâ him at the end and hugged him, I just about cried. I am really glad things are starting to change, and I can be a âmanâ in the modern day.
Bro you cried at that? Lmaooo surely there worthier things to shed tears for
What do you mean about things changing?
Bro trust me you should be yourself, but no woman ever has said: i want a man that cryâs about a lot of stuff! Keep your emotions and impulses under control and youâll do fine.
NNJApanda youâre so wrong
Julxester - No heâs not. Most women donât fuck emotional men lol
Kyle Long is what "manly men" should strive to be. I haven't heard of him before this but he's one great and wholesome human being.
He is an embarrassment like Terry Crews.
@@dagda3000 You seem very insecure. You might benefit from a bit of therapy or a support group of some sort. You're okay as you are, you don't need to prove you're "manlier" than anyone else.
dagda3000 His dad physically abused his mom and was also an alcoholic. His mom ends up divorcing and turning into a strict Christian. He doesnât want people to end up like his dad who kept physically abusing his mom.
dagda3000 yikes
@@GoddoDoggo Has nothing to do with insecurity. I am just annoyed that this multi-national company Gillette is pushing this weak image of masculinity just because they want to sell beauty products also to men. We both know that the absolute majority of women do not want to be with soft woke men. This emasculation of men is probably worse for women than it is for men.
love it. I like how I got to see that I'm not the only person who's trying to redefine what a man is. I honestly though a man like Kyle Long would be a bit more aggressive and conserved than he seems. But he's kind and passionate for other men as well. He isn't afraid to show care. Brotherhood.
That last scene is so wholesome. Every man needs that type of support and feeling that it's ok to open bout this type of stuff
Girls: Heâs probably cheating
Guys: Hey boys what you guys do for your skin?
Boonie Bound The bro: Just soap and water bro
i would like to like this beautiful comment, but it has 969 likes, so it would be breaking the law if i were to like it
william hoegh itâs all good, youâre in the clear now
I have now proceeded to like the comment as it has a non-holy Number now
@@Omar-su3iii just wipe my face with the same towel I wiped my balls with
I love how Kyle and Rob are so confident in themselves and just generally really considerate, I bet Rob is an amazing father.
I hope Erik will come to peace with the fact that he will probably never meet his dad's unrealistic expectations too
Ma Ei just wondering, but don't you think CJ is a great father too or would you believe that there is only one way to raise a child
@@schneiderjean-pierre4085 Not the one you asked but I wanted to answer as well, hope you don't mind - based on the views he (CJ) expressed in this video, I don't think he's a horrible father, but because of how he expressed his views on women, what a man's role is etc. no I don't think he'd be as great of a father as Rob would be - simply bc the views he holds may be too strict and too restricting for a child to flourish and become their own person, because he holds some beliefs that are so dead end, that there's no room for development it feels like.
He is an amazing dad. You probably wont believe me but I've known his family since i was a kid
Alystxo what views because if he's anything like his own father, who he has a great relationship with, I don't understand. His father was very supportive and instilled his beliefs and morals on him. What's the point of becoming an adult, going through life and learning, if not to advise aid or guide your children. That's the big difference between them because CJs father was just as supportive and encouraging the only difference is his father had a belief that helped guide him through life and he passed it to him. If I have something I believe to be good I'm going to teach it to my kids if they accept it cool if they don't fine. Another thing I think you should consider is to be able to be as supportive as you want all parents to be, you have to have that kind of money. My parents can't afford to support me in my dreams so of course they tried to guide me to the most guaranteed path to success. You can't expect everyone to parent the same way. Once you have kids and money you can be super supportive. Most parents do the best that they can, can't be mad at my parents for that and the strictness helped harden me for life because I wasn't gonna have that support so I needed that, otherwise idk where I would be.
Alystxo there are probably a whole lot of grammatical errors but I just wanted to give you some food for thought
This video was so beautiful đ I hope all these men kept in touch they would be a awesome friend group
Loved this one. Such a genuine chat and they really listened to each other and considered each perspective
Being âa real manâ or being âa real womenâ doesnt exist. Just be a good human. Love yoself and be kind. Live yo life!
Nicely put
Totally Yeah!
It really doesn't work like that though lol
@Laffy Taffy The majority of people think alike. Obviously people who are in this comment section might think the same because we're drawn to these videos, other people are drawn to other things. There's not a lot of people who can accept these thing, keep in mind, how many close friends do you actually have?
@Laffy Taffy everyone is objectified, it doesn't matter if you're a good person or yourself, people will value or dis value no matter how kind you are. That's reality
Tearing up at how they encouraged him thinking he didnât achieve his dadâs expectation of being a man. This is the best video yet & the definition of manhood that the world needs.
e.cdawg his dad was a gang member I would consider that a good thing since u didnât choose that path you are more of a man that him
These men were overly effeminate...
@@DCBfanboy what?
@@alejandrom7049 what?
@@alejandrom7049 I could go on like this forever, by the way
It bothers me that Sean only addresses Kyle as "The NFL player", like, he's a person, he's more than that, if you respect his profession so much respect him too.
Thanks for this, it was so wholesome and respectfull to watch and the ending with the hug was just everything. Mr NFL (tho i had to google what NFL is..) was incredible but respect to Erik for being so open about his past. I was always afraid to disappoint my parents. But my parents are the best. They told me to strive for higher and grow, while telling me they are already proud of everything I am and have achieved. Erik deserved that too.
WHEN HE RAN TO HIM AND THEY HUGGED I started crying this was such a wholesome episode
RIGHT that was so sweet
CRINGE
I thought that was so sweet that these group of men were able to have a real hug and not just a quick little âbro hugâ(which thereâs nothing wrong with)
@@masterwindu1234 The men and women here donât find it cringe
@@masterwindu1234 disliked.
"you have to put blood sweat and tears into something." Do you know how many times I have cried over the artwork, sweat from playing instruments, cutting my finger on needles, and paper? Art requires blood sweat and tears my guy.
Yup. Very true. And it doesnât help that Iâm extremely clumsy.
It takes a lot of time, precision, practice and a lot of hard work to be good at it, to be good at everything.
Cutting onions in the summer is art as well. costs ne blood sweat and tears
Yup
Nothing physical
this is such a well-made episode! love the visuals, the candidates, the topic, the questions
This is the first discussion I have seen in a long time where they disagreed but openly shared and respected each others opinion. Sometimes it feels like we are losing raw honesty and respect for different opinions at the moment, so I found this video really refreshing.
Y'all introduce the sports guy as a special guest but not shrek the musical's donkey's actor? Okay đ
Yaaaasss
@@welcome2dulak330 still a celeb in my eyes.
@@amazinghannure6440 beautiful
1 11 he ainât even a center ....
This is a joke guys lmao
Announcer: Men-
Kyle: *yeets himself to disagree*
sending the most hugs ever to rob and kyle. love them so so so much. every time they spoke i smiled.
Great insights from all these men! One of my biggest obstacles is trying to please my dad. He came from a broken home, was in foster care, and worked his ass off to provide for his family. I feel like I'm constantly letting him down.
Please do one, âWomen who grew up without dads/ without male role modelsâ
Mary Oary our women who grew up without moms
Growing up without a dad .....I think the effects on the women depend on the character of their dad and wether it's was because the dad died or left. How they left and so many factors.
i have met girls without a dad, and some of them had daddy issues and want an older guy as a bf, husband and SOMETIMES not always they take that as a replacement for a Male role on their life.
Or kids who grew up a single parent house hold
growing up without a dad is better then growing up with a terrible dad. Evey story wlill be really unique
I didnât think Iâd like the NFL guy but heâs so wholesome
Goes to show you you shouldn't judge.
itâs natural to make assumptions based on numerous and faulty accurate generalized stereotypes however acting upon those before that individual is allowed to express themselves is wrong. I think itâs fine that they noticed someone outside of the stereotype đ€·
I would disagree because if you take into account the amount of eyes he has on him and how peoples' views would impact his million dollar career, anyone would lie to save it. So he is most likely bot being 100% honest
@@user-jf6mc4xc3v that makes sense honestly
@@user-jf6mc4xc3v yeah but that's how people change and become better. They take into account others opinions and form their own from the information given. It hindsight, it doesn't really matter if he is completely honest because he is still setting a good example and seems like he's someone that would help others out.
i genuinely wish i knew more men in my life like the men in this video. they are so respectful of each other and i learned so much from them!
PLEASE more videos like THIS. Men really need to hear these things, this was one of the most powerful videos I've seen from Jubilee.
Ohh. The dad in the red t-shirt gives away so good fatherly vibesâšâš.
HEâS SO PRECIOUS IM-
đđŒPetition for him to be our dadđđŒ đ€Ł
He seems like an amazing dad! His daughter is so lucky honestly đ
@@swtlikecndy4119 His daughter is actually my best friend!
@@lilyg9940 me when i lie
I feel so bad for Erik, he has the weight of the asian dad on his back and thats so hard
You can be your own person. He is a grown ass human. His dad is not an exuse at this point
@@jakubpuchalski2583 sod off mate
@@jakubpuchalski2583Fine, everyone has their own two feet. But the mentality you have around confidence and independence someone like Erik might not have reached. Maybe you can be your own person, if you knew how to. Erik might not have learned these things because no one had built him up and encouraged him. Yes these people are sometimes full of bad excuses and avoid responsibility as well as standing up for themselves maybe because they have no balls. To have the reason and bravery to stand up for yourself doesnât come naturally to everybody. I think itâs kind of Ignorant to assume that people arenât different and donât work differently. And you probably feel so too I hope. So how do you think youâre helping? Youâre totally assuming Eriks (and everyone elseâs) situation. I think it sometimes works to say to someone to be their own person. I just feel like your comment was careless by not taking that into account.
Same here I felt for him
@@jakubpuchalski2583 he's not using his dad as an excuse, Erik was just saying that his dad was hard on him
kyle is such a delight. an overall wonderful human being.
kyle long (nfl guy) is so cool, i love him, he seems so humble and respectful
I adore Kyle. I donât know who he is and Iâve never seen him play but I completely respect his opinions. Honestly what a good guy. He was raised right
I donât agree, I respect him but there is no being âraised rightâ your right way of raising people might not be the way others think is rught
@@owenrogers3790 while thatâs a valid point, you can generally tell when someone was raised better than someone else. Iâm not saying thereâs one way to raise someone, Iâm just saying there are better ways than others
@@owenrogers3790 I disagree. Being raised right is to be respectful, kind, and decent to others. There is something called different personality traits and quirks, however if we canât agree on what makes a decent human being .. Iâm afraid to tell you that you werenât raised right
@@owenrogers3790 raised right is just not being a douche bag. that's not complicated to understand so i already fear for your children
What do you mean âraised rightâ. He was raised fine but I personally think he has a wrong perception of masculinity and Jubilee just put him there as a way to boost leftism. Also, is he respectable because his opinions align with yours?
I was so sad to hear the one guy talk about his dad who called him a kitten. Knowing that his dad has passed away and they can't mend that bridge... Ugh đ
13:39 that hug đ
@@3self yess! I was waiting for it. â€
Sad thing is I doubt his dad would have wanted to mend it with such a âweak manâ in his eyes
So much for being a tiger though. Verbal abuse and invalidation from parents is the worst. It sticks with you for your whole life.
From the context that I got I just heard envy in that statement, that the father couldn't cope with something that a kitten could handle. That the father would've liked to handle life more like how Erik have done. Idk I don't want to come across as insensitive but I think that his father looked up to him more than he'd ever know
As a musical theatre performer, who used to be a 5 sport athlete and played college basketball, with an emotionally abusive and unavailable father, and a child of my own, this segment hit me in all of the feels.
I felt that I was represented through all of these men, and it was soooo refreshing to see how awesome of a guy Kyle Long is, as I was a massive Chris Long fan growing up in the St. Louis area.
This needs be to shared and seen by so many guys who are just carrying the trauma and unreasonable expectations of their inadequate fathers and really just need a hug and some encouragement.
how all these men comforted each other was so refreshing to see
Erik running towards Kyle first of all the guys at the end to tackle/hug him after Kyle reassured him he's a man is the sweetest thing I've ever seen đ
@DarthYuYevon why not? You don't know the person's preferences.
@DarthYuYevon you sound like an incel
@@samueljackson315 Yeah, that classic "I'm afraid of getting hurt so I'll say the negative thing before you can voice your opinion, that way I'm safe" mentality.
Samuel Jackson I think we gotta stop trying to point at every person that might be one for shaming on the Internet if it's something we want to fix.
Even more so having in mind that, when constructed, his point really is "having a soft spot that he's afraid of showing isn't really gonna help him at dating, therefore that's not something you don't really care about when talking about attraction" and can be refuted in a different manner than pointing fingers.
That's what I think.
Tl;dr:
The moment you guys stop de-humanizing incels is the moment the storm will start calming down.
iâll tell you why you can tell Kyle is a professional athlete. FIRST OFF THE LINE EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
Lmao im dead so true coming from a football player
True
Except 13:35
Gillette didn't pick him for no reason. đ€·ââïžGuaranteed other football players have different views.
[C] if you think kyles views were unbalanced and biased then your own internal bias is making you misread this situation.
This one made me shed some tears coming from a Dad whom also expects much more of me as a son to be a man. However, he himself cannot judge because he was never much of a father figure to look up to. So, it is quite a touching topic... đ„đ â€
I would love to see this re done this year!
when Erik ran up to Kyle at the end and gave him a huge hug my heart went: đ„șđ„°
Same!!
bromance đđđ
"I can't believe I'm such a tiger, and I have a son who turns out to be a kitten." Oh my God! That cut deep
If he was a tiger, his son wouldn't be a house cat. He's an ocelot, who likely married a lynx, and who is now compaining that their child didn't turn out to be a Siberian tiger. If his dead was a tiger, he could have made a tiger cub with a female tiger.
@@MrCmon113 Iâm confused
Taxtro I mean he was the leader of a gang, thats pretty tiger behaviour
The only comment I had was: Uh dude, I think your dad is kind of a dick. U are a man.
I literally started crying when he said that ...
This was so wholesome. Loved all these guys.
"I meet my father's expectations for what it means to be a man"
I don't. And I don't feel bad about it. My dad has a pretty conservative world view and I disagree with him on many things. Being a man is not about showing strength, not about bragging, not about not letting your feelings get outside. I am happy that I am who I am and that I don't meet those expectations, because they are not what it means to be a man to me. I can say sorry if I made a mistake. I can cry, when I feel like it, I can respect women and I can give in. That are things he can't, things that he probably views as masculine. I'm happy that I'm not masculine in his eyes and I wouldn't care if he knew I'm that way.
You should also expect to be respected in return of you respecting others tho. Donât degrade yourself just because of difference in gender.
i'm proud of you
If you think conservatives think respecting woman is not manly then maybe you need a new conservative view point đ. Happy for you tho. Be your own person or youâll never be happy.
@@venway5465 i think you misread the comment, they described him as conservative with the adjective meaning "averse to change or innovation and holding traditional values", not the noun, meaning a political affiliation.
@@tinyrecluse3142 yep, exactly. and that my dad doesn't respect women doesn't have to do anything with being conservative. That's just because he is a dick.
I would trust the guy in the red shirt to walk me home after a party
to hold my drink
@Fly Swatter NOOOO
@@darla8592 omg we have the same name đ
@@darlapaniagua1852 you are the first person to have my same name
I woudnt trust you you seem weird
Damn, Jubilee added the "backstory clips" (Guy cooking when talking about himself) You guys really improved the editing!
Once you have a dual sponsorship the sponsors set the standards of the video. They want to make sure their image is held high
Oh and larger budget
Needed that
Agree. The b-roll footage held my interest even more!
he's like cooking f- pasta al pesto ahah
This has to be the best produced video Jubilee ever made! I don't even watch the NFL, but Kyle Long has my upmost respect.