EVERYTHING You Need To Know About SIGMA MALES | Sigma Male Mindset And Lifestyle
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We’re going to be talking about the six male personality types that decide your male characteristics with a focus on the rare sigma male personality, and how he compares to the famous alpha male. We will also be talking about the pros and cons of living a sigma male lifestyle, looking at some famous sigma males, and make sure you watch until the end because we will be testing you with some questions to see if you’re a true sigma male yourself, or just a wannabe.
Content:
0:00 - Intro
1:55 - Male personality types
9:05 - Sigma Male vs Alpha Male
12:28 - Pros and cons of being a sigma male
17:04 - Famous sigma males
23:00 - Sigma male test
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This is obviously crazy entertaining and sounds cool and makes you think it is really just on a spectrum of resolved/unresolved narcissism, where at one point narcissism can get hardwired into the DNA and irreversible at some point, the best example of this phenomena is the serial killer Edmund keeper, who also had a very classical psychological relationship with his dominating mother, this is because inherently we as a species at a cell level are adaptive. And evolving, our consciousness can even evolve past these points where these distinctions are obviously useless. Now I'm pretty sure nobody agrees with me but that's because you all have the IQ of peanut.
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@@skydaddy2692 gee! I wonder who the narcissist is! Lol! To formulate ideas that sound intelligent doesn’t make them so! And old saying may be something you my friend need to ponder “ pain makes man think, thought make man wise and wisdom makes life bearable!” But there are so many who never learn ! Think ! Or become the later ! Life’s experience is a lesson and yes we all are different types! I am 68 years old , I’ve seen alphas , Betas , and sigmas . because of these videos I realize I am one ! A sigma ! It’s not easy at times but I am content to be! These differences Are what makes the world go round! The true God has made us what we are and it’s our responsibility to use our being to the benefit of mankind! Good will always prevail! Bad will always fail! We are seeing this in our government as I speak now! Take care ! Good luck on your journey!
This is so true . As a Sigma male , my childhood wasn't great! I was neglected, treated unfairly , my gifts were belittled and had a narcissist as a father but that didn't break me or my confidence . All along, I knew I had something unique in me , I just didn't know I was a rare male . I'm glad I discovered who I really am and even more happier that there other men like me out there 🙂
I can relate to almost every word you just typed.
We are here and we dont care feast days as well
Oh shit you too huh?
Sigma males usually don’t have to explain that they’re sigma males. I’d imagine they’d find it cringe.
I appreciate your insight!
The calmness of the sigma is what angers women and other male types. Being calm in the face of anger can be a huge advantage, but also knowing the precise moment when to get mad.
A lot of dogs lose their bite when they see you aren’t impressed with their teeth.
What if my anger itself is calmness?
“If you have to tell people, you’re the boss. You aren’t the boss”
If you have to try to confirm you’re somebody. You’re nobody.
Tywin Lannister be like lmao
If you can walk the talk it doesn't matter.
Many talk their talk but can't walk it down.
I believe it's better to tell others you're a nobody so that you don't get attention.
Attention only brings problems.
@@guillermorobledo2842 attention brings prosperity, if you utilize it correctly.
I live alone, I work alone, I ride alone, my time is all mine, I don't celebrate any B-days or any Holliday's. My energy comes from within not from any outside source. When Alpha males display strength against a Sigma an unexpected display of Power will show the Alpha strength is insufficient
9 out of ten. Yeah , I 'm a sigma
same,,,we have the BEST LIFE EVER.Sad only at We are them som see the Darkness.
Alpha are bullies, and bullies are usually cowards. Just like the USA and its NATO allies, they’re a bunch of bullies. They can only bully weak defenseless tiny countries.
holy sh!t. all the same here! no holiday, or anything, ride alone as well
Feels weird to celebrate birthdays almost like I don’t really care just another day
the traits come from difficult childhood environment indeed, neglect or abuse from family, the boy will learn to rely on himself and must adapt to tough situations. I never borrow money from anyone, or ask for help I prefer learning and doing things by myself it's natural to me.
Yes. But mostly depends on ur personality. Do a personality test. Most Sigmas are INTJs and a few are INTPs.
I believe my Dad was a Sigma Male. He taught me pretty much everything I know. I watched him carefully and often times imitated his actions. I wanted to be so much like him when I was little. Now that he's gone I find myself doing a lot of the things he did. As far as other famous Sigmas, most of Clint Eastwood's characters were Sigma as well as Liam Neeson. If someone would make a movie of my life one of them would have to play the part of my Dad. Honest, factual, sometimes cold, and totally blunt when speaking.
Loved the video, although there is one point that you missed... We as Sigma's always try to improve ourselves and those we find to be of value around us. I grew up in normal home with older bullies as brothers, but financially above stable. My personal view, as a person schooled in psychology, sociology and law is that, Sigmas tend to see both sides of things and have their morals and ethics dictate their situations and decisions. My penny for thoughts...
The reason we don’t open up to new people and may portray ourselves “differently” is because we meet new people with no intentions of forming new relationships. We have all we need already. We only wish to make our occasional interactions with others pleasant and without problems. None of the “getting to know you” is necessary, but there’s no need to be rude either.
Oh fuck, i landed directly into every answer telling me im a Sigma, could this be why my romantic partner misunderstood me and tell that im too cold hearted and separated with me but i just bounce back to be myself in just a month or two and felt that nothing has happen im as good as no Break up occurred but it's fucking 9 yrs bro of being with her im really loving just being only with myself alone as i found more room to self improvement🤣
Am going threw that now.
OMG all those traits at the end are 100% describing of my personality. Nice to see things come out with our own personality type instead of the old Alpha or Beta 2 class system.
Here because I had a few friends call me this and wasn't sure what it meant. I am familiar with MBTI though and am a INTJ man but do have a more intimidating appearance if I'm being honest. Alpha males have been a challenge as they are confused why I could care less to compete with them unless they anger me enough. Beta/gamma males are often suprised when im nice to them since they are used to harsh treatment by alphas. I was the kid in high school who could get along with anyone but preferred independence most of the time. It's hard being a Sigma in high school years if you are looking for women, but trust me from experience when you get into your late 20s and early 30s life gets very easy for you. The main thing is you have to be successful and choose your path early and stick to your road map, nit letting others take you off your path. Because you will be miserable in the process. And don't let others criticize you for enjoying doing things alone. I always prefer to workout alone vs having a gym partner and many guys found that odd, but to me it was a form of therapy while having music on and lifting. If you are an INTJ like myself, learn to develop your weak points (we do in fact have many) and life will seem to open itself up for you. Thank you for this video, and I do agree 100%, especially about the gamma male. The most cringe thing to a woman is the idea of transactional sex. Don't do it...
“Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.”― Iris Murdoch
Adding value is an art that is very rare to find in society but every once in a while it pops it’s head up and I worship the moment
For years I thought I was an alpha even though the shoe didn't fit perfectly , learning of the sigma male has shown me that is exactly what I am and that is very empowering , thank you for the way above average content of your channel
I've had the same feeling of the shoe not fitting. I was always forced to play the alpha role and it was easy, but I never liked it.
This is the best explanation of personality types and Sigmas that I have ever seen.
Thank you, that is great!
An interesting watch that popped up in my suggested after watching another video I was asked to watch.
- Survivor of child abuse who took it as a lesson in how not to treat other people.
- Never really fit in with any social group, but fit in enough to be part of the group.
- Happy to wander off and do my own thing, and be content being alone.
- Peer group pressure usually triggers "I said no to the thing, keep pushing and I will just leave and go over there".
- Manly man things because real men! annoys the crap out of me and I don't have the energy for it lol.
- Lots of other stuff mentioned that are mostly accurate.
- Questions at the end for me were.. no: 0, maybe: 2, yes: the rest.
Seems the manager at the gym I go to may be correct and I may be one of these Sigma male things.
In my job I was paid the most despite others having superiority over me. Didn’t want it, never will. But when the SHTF they call me. I like it this way. My terms, I’m good at what I do. Others defend me, I don’t need to do it myself. Kindness is a strength, lead by example. Love. Sigma!
Love it, keep it coming
before today, I'd never heard of a "Sigma" male.. it was always been alpha / beta and I'm certainly NOT an alpha (thank god). So I'm listening to this and nearly every sigma male point ticks a box... I've never been lonely a day in my life but I like, hell LOVE, being alone. Crowds are draining.. sure I can play to one for a bit if I have to but certainly isn't something I'm going to seek out and anyone that knows me would tell you I couldn't care less about the opinions of strangers and even friends opinions are at best a point of consideration unless it is a rational logically pointed view.
Constantly thinking, constantly planning, not everything mind you.. but if it's something big.. it needs a plan A and B cause life is never kind enough for plan A to be perfect...
my sister has often said "Guilt doesn't work on him so you better come with something else or move on", she's right..
for decades I've often said of a situation or occurrence that it's not a question of if I noticed, cause I assure you I probably did, the better question is if it's something that merits a response, which it often doesn't.
And so I'm watching this vid and it's checking every box to some degree, the majority of the talking points being 100% spot on.
Really amazing came back to rewatch this video you're doing great man keep it going
i grew up being not the favourite kid even among cousins but it gets me to think that i can do whatever things my own. i am also quick to stop whatever activity i induldge myself as a result of influence from the alpha centric challenge for validation. whatever hype among ppl surrounds me to join in the fray, i cant control my mind from giving a deep thought, whats good in it for me.
This is indeed the best explained video on sigmas. Never knew i bear these traits, up until now. Difficult childhood brought me here. Thank you for explaining it so precisely.
Great video 👍
Thanks for this video.
Actually getting chills now. Its been a year since I started being true to myself and its been 99% ups. Any downs got turned around and became ups simply by perceiving them that way. Life makes so much more sense now. Seeing this was a confimation of the progress ive made. Very empowering, thank you :')
I was today years old, after a lifetime of pondering, and the last 4 years of intense self-examination , when i come a step closer in knowing what's my energy. Thank you.
It’s a vibe you project from the moment you meet someone.
I am not alpha or beta. Lone wolf? yes, trying to improve myself always yes. I love being on my own yes. I am not afraid confrontations. I walk my own path. I don't care about others opinions. I will sacrifice what I have to get what I want or where to be. Life is about learning. I will be a student for the rest of my life. Thank you for sharing!
I agree with all you wrote. But I’m not Σ since I don’t care that much about success. I thus would like to hear more about the differentiation of Ω and Σ. Maybe I’m somewhere in between.
@@lazyfretter2668 learning and growing always, isn’t necessarily about success it’s learning because life is made for learning.. sigmas do not have to be successful..
I suppose I should add successful in society’s terms.. if you are happy , complete, and highly skilled at lots of stuff are you not successful even if you haven’t amassed loads of green papers??
Now I know that I am a sigma male thank you for letting me know
Really enjoyed the content, exceptionally insightful!
Yes! It's like I wrote the dialog for this video. Sigma power full force. This describes me so well. Keep things accurate!
Me and my wife looked at this, and i looked at the end, and i was blown away. I can 💯 say yes to 11 questions interesting i never heard of sigma male but at the end of the day i am just me and i am getting on with my journey thank you for putting thisvideo and explaining this
These characteristics are spot on 4 one of us genuinely. Thanx for this information.
Very cool!! Thx
I’m 70 and always thought I was dropped off on the wrong planet. I seemed to do everything differently than all others. Feeling that no one ever put in enough time into the brain work required to accomplish the best outcome. Yes I’m a loner. Choose to have no friends, don’t need them. They get in the way with their monkey shines and silliness. I don’t mind social engagement as long as they can understand words that contain more than 3 letters. 2 or 3 others is fine but hate large groups. Too much chaos and babbling without meaningful content. I am kind to others and never dump my opinion on others unless I need to, to get a job done. Always thought I was alone in this world. Glad to see there is more like me. Am I sigma? Who really cares…not me.😊
Good video describing us sigma. Keep up the good work
I love the videos from this channel! They are very informative and accurate!
@Muttley 69 Thank you for that awesome pun. Lmfao
It’s took me along time to find out what I was about. I knew I was different.
A lot of emotional twist and turns throughout growing up. But know , one you know you have this ability , used in the right way, you can achieve a sense of such a positives energy , that can over come many problem s I. Life , that most people have and alywsys will have . So , i feel like a physiologist now , so with this I feel the need to help people with struggles . There’s so much more to learn and adapt when you have this ability . All the things you saying in this videos is like wow and refreshing . It crazy I’ve had all these feelings and thoughts most of my life. Thanks for this video it’s liberating
Wow - this video is such pure brilliance. The best I have seen on male personality types
This was great information, and it reallly provided clarity on a personal level.
This is enlightening, I put my traits down to being a Pisces, but never felt satisfied that star signs are completely accurate. Stumbled across this excellently presented video, and must say I feel a little closure regarding my traits also somewhat exposed. Great video keep up the hard work!
Loved the ending. Found myself analyzing me during the video and found traits from all the personality types. In the end, if you are you and feel comfortable in your skin and won't break your principles/moral code/ etc. then you are good. The rest are just labels.
P.S - sorry for the short rant and you've got a new sub after watching a few videos. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Vlad!
The fact that this is unedited let’s me know how much you reread this ngl 😂
All on point,glad to know who I am.👍🏽👍🏽
Something I have noticed that you missed about sigma's is that we are genuinely pleased at other people's success
My father died when I was 9 years old. As a result of growing up without a father I had problems with my self awareness for years, especially in school. I was always the quiet guy and had some unusual hobby’s and so on. This shyness and insecurity had changed over the last few years since I became a trainee in the company I’m now working for. I was lucky to find my passion pretty much straight in my first job and I absolutely love what I do and my colleagues told me I am doing a pretty good job and finally having something you can be truly passionate about was probably the most important thing to slowly build up my self awarness. I’m at that point where I just don’t give a f*ck anymore what people think of me or want to tell me if I now it’s bullshit, I’ll tell them it’s bullshit. Life gets much easier when you don’t try to please everyone you come across. People will always like you or hate you, that’s just how it is. Once I made a mistake and i wanted to inform my supervisor and standing next to him was my boss. My boss asked me if I’m stupid or something, I answered: „pretty much looks like it“. Then I left, it giving any shit. Why would I? Everyone that’s working with me knows that I’m good at the job but I am still a human and make some stupid mistakes sometimes and I’m not the kind of guy to apologise for everything I screw up because then I would apologise for being a human and hell must freeze over before I’ll start doing that.
THANK YOU! FOR DOWN MY ROAD!❤🎉😊
So funny! I’ve alway been the outcast! But had a few good friends! My sister and brother always thought I was a weirdo. But I’ve always felt like I was normal , different but normal , even as a kid . Quite the loaner but happy ! Love the arts, love people but not in groups ! I feel humans behave badly in organized groups , religion , politics, any social groups , there’s always a pecking order , it sickens me to watch ! So I tend to be Alone ,riding my motorcycle, sculpture, gardening, shooting my guns , going on trips! Actually these videos on sigma males has really helped me to understand myself ! Thank you Very much! Bravo to you! Richard .
This was very interesting and close to a thesis, back in 1998, that I had written, which basically there are 5 types of males. The difference, I didn’t give it an alpha, beta, sigma, omega, delta, title etc... this was well put and spot on. Enjoyed watching this immensely!!! 👍👍
Lol and thank you for clearefication. Going forward with new ability to dont care so much about the crazy world around like always but on the next level but still wondering sometimes about why
I've got to say strangely I find comfort and acceptance in myself watching this video
Being a Loner I send most of time at peace and enjoying being outside away unknown
I feel that a random spill of spoken words make a spot open to wars vs a everyday social circle in my opinion
My social life was highly structured as a child through church activities; but my personal life was completely unstructured. It was common for me to spend whole days unsupervised, outside, no less! I grappled intently with the natural world via mundane tasks. It wasn't enough for me to just walk home from school. No, I had to take the river route, examining its banks; or hold my breath for a spontaneously chosen number of steps, then add 2...then one more...hahaha...Probably the most challenging thing I did as an 11-yr old was deliver morning newpapers. Seven days a week for a few years I got up by 4 am. In the Michigan winter, I'd be wearing two of everything, and three of a couple things, as I rode my bike in the snow and wind to deliver 40+ newspapers. Bicycles in the snow...sometimes I wonder how I managed to pull it off! hahaha...kids can do anything!
I struggle taking personality test cause I can relate to so many things. A counselor told me I'm a chameleon I can adapt and change to any situation.
That's weird, I've tried taking personality tests and have a really hard time nailing anything down. I often act like those I'm around adapting their sense of humour and whatnot. Thanks for your comment, I'm going to look into the chameleon
The part about taking the reins on a group reminds me: I always like to say “I’ll good at filling out a room.” Meaning, I suppose, if there are alphas or extroverts filling the space I can sit back and observe adding only comments or wise cracks. On the other hand if the room is quiet and awkward I can engage people and break the ice.
Guys if u are sigma or not it doesn't matter. be ur self and try to improve yourself even if it needs to defy the majority of people. By the way being sigma isn't cool it's just the way people are. and at the end of the day enjoy your life
All they had to say it was the rarest of all types now everyone is a sigma.. they follow the trends ..hard to believe all these ppl are good looking and superior intelligence that get laid at will..
One of the things that I have observed from reading various Sigma Vids, comment sections, is that people keep focusing on the Introvert aspect and say that they must be a Sigma because they themselves are Introverts.
I do not believe that Sigmas are Introverts, but are Ambiverts.
The Sigma is constantly observing the world and the interesting things going on, but unlike a computer they cannot take all that input and automatically provide an output. They need time to sort and analyze their observations and then decide an output. This is difficult to do in a group of any size (Because they are constantly providing more input.), thus the Sigma’s need for “some” alone time. Of course the Sigma can also be bombarded by to much input, thus also their need for some alone time. But, if you are always alone there is little observing of interesting things, nor are there interesting conversations being had.
I think that Bloke Box here, has done a very good job of identifying the Sigma as an Ambivert, yet people are still identifying a Sigma as an Introvert. Something that many Introverts who think they are Sigmas ignore is that the Sigma is capable of stepping forward and leading or being the focus of a group, if they feel the need or the desire to do so (Something that cannot be done by a true Introvert.).
I believe that being an Observer is a primary characteristic of a Sigma, but I also believe the ability to step forward is also a primary characteristic of a Sigma, and if you have not lead or found yourself the focus of a group, you are not yet a Sigma.
There's "safety and security" in solitude and preparation as well
Sigma here, yep viedo is on point! Especially the disinterest in tribes and hierarchy. We often find our selves pulled into leadership or find people following us, but we really don't care for it or strive for power or dominance or respect. We just kind of have it. Moral quality is also a big driver. As for relationships, while girls always seem to be present and available and interested we generally don't find most of them compelling enough to draw us out of our more interesting life and ambitions. We want relationships and connections like anyone else but it really has to be with someone who is of genuine quality. We don't play games and have little time for anyone who can't reach up to our standards. We are self confident and rarely defeated but can become annoyed and disinterested quite quickly when others have plateaued around us or are of low personal quality. So we move on quickly always facing forward in life. Which also manifests as always looking for ways to improve our selves even if we don't have to. As far as childhood trauma, I personally don't have any but I do recognize that my experiences have shaped who I am now and (even more importantly for sigmas) have influenced who I want to become. I think that's the biggest thing for us. We have this subconscious pull in us to just become. And I think that sets us apart from all the rest.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Andrew! 🍺
Yes sir I touch and agree with you bro…
on point ☝️
this is a very important video
I have bi polar 1 too and when I go I think I'm doctor who, my life has been very interesting. Never even liked doctor who. I didn't think it was real science fiction but the music. It's mad how much confidence I have and just found out about sigma and it jumped even more
You had me at 21 questions😂😂😂
Alpha males identity is wrapped up in the people that glorify them. The Alpha male is the head and the people that applaud the alpha are the body. In a social setting the sense of self for the alpha is to have the most attention thereby being taller. The sigma does not depend on the out of body adulation and has it within. When an alpha gets near a sigma the alpha has fear unless there is a group. Like the gang of dogs near a big dog. The woman of an alpha male also finds the sigma male attractive and the alpha knows it and hides her from him.
/i don't give alpha males any attention. I find their peacocking disgusting
Yep, bullied as a youngster, don't like crowded anything, i design and build things that please me, I seek human contact when needed, I can't endure small talk, but if a topic comes up that I'm passionate about, it's all good. I walk my own path, do my own thing, if you don't like it, hey look, there's a mall over there, knock yourself out.
Working while listening. Sounds like all mentioned is me
Great periods of my life, I've been a knowledge as an ashore by men, mostly and weird by women. Now alot of this begins 2 make sense.
I was told by a colleague yesterday that I am the poster child and the prototypical sigma male. I asked what is a sigma male. He said - “you”. So I looked it up and found this. It’s literally me to a T. This is crazy.
I've just discovered I am a sigma male.thought alpha, but after all these vedios.im convinced no dought I'm sigma,always knew I had to have my alone time to recharge and collect my thought.and charismatic, do not chase the females, but seems they chase me.
Learn something new every day
So I just had my cousin answer the questions for me and she answered Yes to every question. I was bullied and jumped a lot as a kid but never got hurt or knocked out even when it was 8-12 jumping me. I ran away at 13 after my parents split up and lived on the streets on and off until 19 when I caught a felony. I slept with over a 100 before I was 18 and was known as a player in the 90s and 20s till I had my daughter which since her mom and I didn’t work out I’ve been single for 6 years and loving it. No one telling me what to do. I became a truck stop manager after my bosses boss talked me into it over 6 months or trying. Did that for a decade but quit a 6 figure career week before pandemic and now make a quarter mil a year growing medical in the country soon to be off grid. 💯😏
This information REALLY HELPED me figure out why I am SOOO DIFFERENT from everyone around me! Thanks for this work!!!!💯👍🏽
because you think you are different, there nothing else
When you wanna be Sigma, but realise your actually Omega.
Facts
Right so true
Sigma here.!!!??2
I was doing so well too... until the video games! 🤣
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Since young i love being alone ignoring my siblings and they too let me be.Till today,i'm still the same and still love my own space.No point in joining any groups but will interact with someone creative link to the same projects.
I had an extreme amount of freedom as a child. My wife says emotionally and physically neglected. It made me really independent but unable to ask for help.
It's understandable that having a lot of freedom as a child may have contributed to your independence, but it's also important to recognize the importance of emotional support and connection with others. It can be challenging to ask for help, but it's a strength to recognize when we need support and to seek it out. It's never too late to work on developing healthy relationships and learning to ask for help when we need it. It can take time and effort, but it can be a valuable and rewarding process.
Given Sigmas are the rarest of all .. how did sooooo many end up on YT vids espousing their Sigma-ness?? 🤔 🙄
Apparently a question with no answer. "Sigmas" all over YT just make me lmfao ... it's a dweebfest.
I believe most people eventually place importance on having a social network. As Jordan Peterson said being more famous creates a greater network of people in which he can connect with anyone being widely known. A cure for feeling boxed in and not able to express your ideas, getting more connected means more influence and application for all that lonely hard work and studying. Not having outlets gets more and more dissatifying.
I have developed a group of friends. They are like me and it doesn't take long to recognize them. Good guys like minded self motivated.
If someone would like to reach out I can tell you a lot about this personality as I always wonder what was so different about me until I went to a psychologist and pointed me in this Direction with tests. It truly is crazy to know you are not the one one and sometimes wonder why you have to explain to your closest friends why I think the way I do. It is partly genetics but the way I was raised has alot to do with the way I excel and the holes I find myself going to with deep reflection.
I find lowkey a similarity between a gamma male and sigma male. In fact you caN say a gamma is a sigma in training
I m an introvert, aggressive but friendly, emotional, kind
I don't have any female friends and only have 2-3 friends (of course male)
I have a lot of ambitions but sit back saying I m good for nothing.
I don't have any self-respect, I find it difficult to survive in this world as everyone mocks me down.
I'm a nerd (quite intelligent). I can take risks whenever I need and I don't want to follow society.
I have low confidence and worry a lot about my future.
I worry about what others think about me
I don't know which personality type I have but I know that I "NEED TO CHANGE".
(sorry for my bad english)
A longtime friend of mine sent me a couple videos about “sigma” males bc he said he thought it described me to a T. I showed my wife and she said the same thing. She said it explains so many of the things that she always found so puzzling about me. I do see quite a few similarities as well. I guess there’s some validity to the idea, although I could do without the label. In my experience, the higher the amount of ppl who show a desire to associate with a particular label, the less I actually feel that I relate to it.
Well done! Most of this feels like an enjoyably accurate description of my particular cluster of unusual personality traits. But planning meticulously? Really? That is the opposite of what I would do. Especially on holidays. Meticulously making sure I am prepared for anything? Yeah. That's the whole point. Making sure you will enjoy yourself, whatever may come your way. Trusting your instincts and abilities to adept to any situation and have a good time on the go. Good to know that at least most of my 'weird traits' seem to cluster in other people as well and it has been named. Maybe I'm just a Gamma who turns on his Alpha when faecal matter hits the fan, his Beta when things are going smooth, his Delta when he is tired and his Omega when he's... Well, I don't really understand hierarchies anyway. Maybe I'm none and/or all of the above. I have watched the whole video and took the time to respond. Seems I do care. So, that's also not very Sigma. Agh! No one is reading this TL:DR anyway. If you did, you're definitely not Alpha! ;-p
Noo thank you for share this vidieos exelent point of bew
I didn't know who I was and honestly don't care... I love Psychology and enjoy these videos... I do understand more that it's ok to be not Alpha and still being respected.
Thanks 😊 very much for the ideas, only today I truly knows exactly who I am but only I don't want to mention....
So nice of you
Thanks for the video, it was very interesting. I'm trying to figure out if I'm sigma and I definitely check a lot of the sigma boxes. I imagine a world full of the ME generations trying to get even with the perceived alphas of their past and imagining themselves a sigma. I think there are some flaws in the arguments Ive read in the comments though. I think classifying sigmas as introvert is possibly wrong, because to be a leader, you have to at least be interested in other people and personalities at times, in order to understand them enough to be a leader, and you couldn't or wouldn't if you were a true introvert. The differences between sigma and alpha are very interesting to me though. A sigma seems to be an alpha male who really only differs in that he gives up the leader position of the superficial social hierarchy to go after things which prove to be more meaningful and the main characteristic of a sigma might be the way they place truth and meaning as being the most important things to obtain. That's why they have a stronger sense of morality, but i think to be a leader, you have to be interested in other humans and that is different from being an introvert. I feel like at my greatest manifestation I would be the type the so called alphas were trying to be but cant because its not in their nature. Someone comfortable enough with himself not to care what other people think. The exact opposite of the pretty boy jock captain of industry types, who has a lot of the same traits that make him popular and social abilities, but doesn't care enough about how their perceived to go after superficial goals. I suspect the true sigma was the kid in high school who would rather work on their car or computers, or other cool and interesting things and figure out how things work and learned to support themselves through their learned ability rather then the quarterback types who seem on top of the world but do everything according to how the world will view and reward them. It might sound like Im downing alpha males, but I see the two as having very similar characteristics but the Sigma cares less about what the world values and more about what they value, which often makes them be perceived as outcasts, but really they just wont go along with the crowd which they see as sheeple in search of superficiality. Sigma are probably the few that seek nothing more then finding truth and meaning and learning where the edge lies without going over. idk maybe im full of shit but i think were missing something about these mysterious sigmas and it probably has something to do with the fact their probably unable to be understood by other types of people because they don't have the same motivations of most people. I think Elon Musk is probably a very good example of the sigma type., He cares more of the idea of free speech and walking the correct path then becoming more wealthy, he cares more of improving and changing then following societal norms at all. I think the biggest sigmas in today's society would be people like Joe Rogan, and Jordan Peterson, people not able to drink the cool aid when they hear arguments that don't fly with mainstream ideology. People who would sacrifice popularity and wealth and other worldly possessions to find truth and meaning. That helps them find interest in characters they find, which could be wall street tycoons or someone who's homeless because hardly anyone can tolerate them but who have lived an incredible life. I apologize for being so long winded, but I do find this subject very interesting, and I suspect the sigma type while being the most rare, is probably the hardest for most people to understand.
100% True.
Whew! This is my first time to hear about sigma male! I feel and think I'm majority a sigma with a little of an alpha. I hope there will be a sigma group around the world or in my country I can engage into, tto get to know more about this sigma male group... Thank you for this bit of information.
Hey there! Thanks for checking out our channel and for your comment. It's great to hear that you're learning about the concept of Sigma males for the first time. It's not uncommon for people to identify with a combination of traits from different types, like you mentioned feeling mostly like a Sigma with a bit of Alpha. It's always good to have an open mind and continue exploring different perspectives. And who knows, maybe there's a group of like-minded individuals in your area that you can connect with and learn more about Sigma males. Thanks for reaching out and keep us updated!
@@Bloke_Box My gratitude also to you man! Now I was thinking my partner now is my same sigma female version! 😂😅😂
I admit, I started as an Omega type, transformed into either a Gamma or was Gamma like, and I know my next and highest level, but I need not say it, even though it matters not to me what others may say. I am just heading toward my true nature, what I know I am deep down, and I am cacooning right now. I have much to work on and I cannot hold myself back anymore.
I'm not gonna claim any title...however, I do relate to alot of these points.
Thank you for the videos. But some people won't get it. We understand that. I expect you to have more haters than fans of this content. That said your videos do help some. My guess, that's why you make them. Thank you for your time and energy.
importance is developing self knowledge and skills
living true to yourself and striving to become the better version that's what attracted me the most in this video.
Hmm never knew I was a sigma. Thought I was one of those "losers" or "outcasts" for being myself. I don't really believe in social constructs too much, it is just an illusion for me and only use it depending on the circumstance since I am in the legal profession. But all honesty I do live for myself and without expecting it, people just flock to me. I have my talents and tricks and hobbies and interests and although some may like it and some may not, I just don't give a shit cause I can either give them legal trouble or use my Muay Thai training to give them physical trouble if needed. I never knew these stereotypes existed, thanks for this.
YES TO ALL
I am part Cree and aboriginal from Australia also Irish and English though I was taught all this with wolves and rank and usual types seen would be Alpha, Reinforcer, Peace Maker and sometimes the wild card. You tell it how it is though no doubt.
I know a sigma male. I know him very well. Everything said in this video is entirely valid for the person I know, even for childhood.
I was born on a farm in the Ozarks, hardly got socialization until I was five years old. Went to a different grade school every year until moving to Los Altos. Experienced a terrible parental divorce at 9 years, lost contact with my mother before realizing "some" normalcy when I first had an Apple IIc put in front of me.
Flash forward 40 years later, two beautiful kids, two terrible divorces, and own a tech company with 60 employees. I have zero issue dating women, they do often seem attracted to me and I can illustrate charisma (although it takes energy).
But, for sure, since I was a young child...I have always been alone and self suffecient. I would walk around the neighborhood asking homes if I could do yardwork for them when I was in 4th grade and never stopped focusing on what I could provide for myself.
Introvert, yes. Plan everything ahead including when I'll get gas, yes. Hate small talk, yes. No friends because I hate talking on phones & bullshitting about nothing. Can't break moral code, yes. Efficient, highly, yes. My wife hates it & loves all at the same time. My way is always the right way & everyone else always agrees, yes. Everything has a solution, yes. Don't speak too much or not at all around strangers, yes. Always reading, or in the gym, or learning new things, like chess, yes. I opened my own boxing gym, just so I can workout alone & have some interaction with people for 2 hours a day when I give boxing classes. As a sigma man who is always alone, except for my wife & kids, everything in this video resonates, especially the not having a tribe or team. I'm very successful & I did it all on my own, but now I kind of wish I had a team or tribe of like-minded people. However, that's always been the problem, I haven't found any like-minded people. Even if I did, would it work out. Even my job, before I retired at age 42 so I can have more freedom, was perfect. I was an intelligence analyst in the military & then I got hired as a lead scientist of intelligence & technology at MIT. I had 30 other scientists & analysts under me on my team. I'd always here them saying, things like, "he just showed me how to do this & it made perfect sense, but somehow I can't explain it to you, but trust me, it's right because I saw him do it with my own eyes". I used to smiled listening to them being confused about something I thought was really simple.
You are from the system I hate .the Question is are you part of it . Military MIT governments everything that's wrong with this world
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I feel that I fit at least 85 percent Sigma. I have been ridiculed for being a loaner but, I feel very comfortable not having to be among large groups of people infact at times large groups can make me very uncomfortable.
I can identify with most of the Σ attributes but am definitely not that much focused on success. Thus i will investigate more about Γ and Ω.
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