THE REAL REASON BEHIND MEG'S COLD FEET, BAD THERAPY & HARRY'S PARANOIA
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- Is Harry & The Meg's reconciliation narrative driven by guilt or is it just an optics maneuver? Why is Prince Harry so paranoid? Was the Meg's launch *retaliation*?! And the real reason behind the Meg's second thoughts on American Riviera Orchard Montecito, revealed! Today's video covers much of the recent royal (& royal adjacent) news including King Charles' Easter outing! There are timestamps/chapters for your viewing pleasure.
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0:00-1:25 Easter Joy!
1:26-2:54 The Paranoid Prince
2:55-5:15 Guilt & Optics
5:16-10:10 Bad Therapy
10:11-11:55 Harry's Vulnerability
11:56-13:03 The Real Reason Meg's slowed down on her business
13:04-14:49 B Team Famous Template
14:50-15:50 What even is IT?!?
15:51-17:26 The Meg's Dismal Popularity
17:27-18:36 Was it supposed to be American ROYAL Orchard?
18:37-20:30 Is the Launch RETALIATION?
He has never learned how to move on. He’s actually like a spoiled toddler.
Some people spend their entire lives looking at life through the rear view mirror and Harry is one of them. Therapists tell him what he wants to hear rather than what he needs to hear so here we are.
He can't move on he needs victim hood in order to make $$
I found it strange that until he married and didn't get his way his victim hood is when it escalated..
Harry only thinks of how things effect him without any regards to how things effect other people or his family. He’s very narcissistic!
@@DD-dq1ed We can't be sure how he behaved previously. Until he married and the gruesome-twosome walked out, Hazbeen had the whole royal establishment to manage his public image. Now he doesn't have that protection and we can all see the petulant ingrate in his true colours.
Spitting his royal dummy out ,
I don't think Harold thinks he has done anything wrong. He is shameless. Spiteful, petulant, nasty. The Meg sold Harold on a narrative of himself as an unappreciated victim. Encouraged him to act out. He's done her bidding gladly. He has NOT gotten nearly close to the punishment he deserves.
Not very smart
His name is actually Henry, not Harry or Harold. Harry is his nickname given affectionately by his mother and father.
@@juleanekent917 True, but since the whiny Ginger and his wife belittle Princess Catherine, we'll belittle him.
H, Hank, Harold, Spare, Harry, Todger...
African parks
@@karineanderson1670 add haznoballs
Losing their mother was very devastating, but it happens to children all over the world. They had a big and supportive family and didn’t have to worry about food, clothing, school, money. Many children recover with nothing.
Both my mother and father had their dad’s both die during The Great Depression when they were only 7 years old. My mom was 1 of 3 girls and my dad had 1 sister, so 2 children. Women typically didn’t work outside the home if they were married with children, washing laundry on a scrub board and hanging them outside to dry, keeping food in a icebox and cooking, washing dishes, ironing and starching all of the clothes was hard enough. Being a wife and mother was a full time job. Washing baby diapers and rags for menstrual pads was a constant terrible chore. Disposables didn’t exist, all of the everyday clothes for children were sewn out of cotton flour sacks, polyester didn’t exist. So after their fathers both died their mothers had to get jobs to try and earn some money to buy food. Women didn’t get a fair wage either, there was no welfare or food stamps to help poor women feed their children. At 7 years old they had to start washing their own cloths and help walk to the store and help carry home the groceries. My mom said it was her job to dump the ice pan and she would forget and it would spill all over the floor so then she would have to mop the floor. Harry has always had it easy his entire pampered life. I think there was suspicious things about her death and I know they were terribly crushed but using that as a excuse to trash your own life is really wrong, he only hurt himself. He sure never looks happy. If the King has Pancreatic cancer, he won’t survive that, my husband died from that and when the told us what he had I knew he was a dead man. You don’t survive that, so Harry will loose his father too probably within 2 years. So who is he going to hate then? He has had everything money can buy and he has never been happy, he has wasted his entire life, hating everybody. He got married in a 30 million dollar wedding and supposedly has 2 hidden mystery children and he isn’t happy. I stayed awake the entire night to watch their wedding and hoped he would be happy but he doesn’t seem to be ever happy. Maybe when his dad’s funeral happens he will be happy. We will see.
Never believed the idiot and just look how he has now discredited Diana's name...belives markle is like Diana 😂😂wtf😂😂 Diana's cream😂😂wtf😂😂N Y car chase 😂😂wtf
This idiot loves only himself
Markles use Diana and race cards. Regarding mental health yep will go with that as both urgently need to be certified not for their mental health but ours
True. Those things can't replace a mom though.
Meghan pretending she 'doesn't want the drama' after she enthusiastically created and fueled it. 🤣
The truth? She is scared of being booed, so she pretends the RF mistreated her and is beneath her.
Narcissism off the scale!
Yes, she is a bully and a coward. Consequences are not something she can cope with at all. As for him, bring on the boos!
I think that you might enjoy Narc Con's CZcams podcast on Markle's modis operandi in relation to the RF. It is quite interesting.
Meghan likes the idea of the USA seeing her as a victim of the royal family. Unfortunately for her most people eventually see who the real bully is.
@@annatjienilsen539 Thanks. 👍
she is all about the drama
Harold should be very worried about the reaction from the British People.
He has insulted us, and we do NOT want him here 😡
I totally understand. We in the USA do not want him here either. Whatever the furthest point on the globe from both countries is where Harold and Megan should go.
His name is actually Henry, not Harry or Harold. He was dubbed Harry affectionately by his parents.
@@cecacademicadvisor nope, sorry..we don't want him in Australia either!!!! (I think we're on the other side of the globe to USA.... and we don't want either of them!)
We in New Zealand don’t want them either!!! Besides which, most celebrities who come here love the fact that the average kiwi will know exactly who they are, and leave them be anyway. Not the best for an attention seeker 😂😂
@@cecacademicadvisor , I was thinking of Tierra del Fuego. Too close? Bwahahaha.
As a therapist, I know that sometimes you need to tell your client some hard facts about themselves. It's really tough, but I truly believe this is what Harry needed rather than the cushy lovey dovey therapy that he's obviously been receiving. Not many have the guts to say no to him, I'd love him on my couch. He needs a rude awakening
I imagine Harry would always fall back on the excuse of ‘how can you know what it’s like growing up Royal’.
We have seen the 'wobble heads' that MM has taken Harry to for 'therapy'!!
As a behavioral health professional, I agree with you totally.
I suspect that any therapist who did as you recommend wouldn't remain Harry's therapist for long. I remember when Tom Bradby was interviewing Harry for the publication of 'Spare', and it became obvious to him (and to the viewing audience) that Harry was trying to double-talk his way out of the accusation of racism against his family. Bradby knew he was lying, but he could read the signs that Harry was getting annoyed and he couldn't press him on the subject because he knew Harry would just lose his temper and storm off the set. That's how he behaves with someone who's developed a good rapport with him. Anything that pushes into uncomfortable territory, especially of a confrontational nature, is instantly rejected.
@@erstwhile6163basically that does not matter. No one really knows what it was to grow up in my family also. There are just humanily circumstantions and reactions and character. Nothing humanly is strange for Royals I am sure.
Harry's had waayyyyy too much therapy! mostly from his wife! right from the start when she wore his mothers parfume and whispered in is ear to tell him she connects to his dead Mom! gross!!!🤑🤢
He needs to stop thinking with his todger.
Sick and depraved people. If harry wants to return to the UK then it's up to his father to find him a hidey hole to live in, out of the public eye. Trying to reintegrate him as a working royal? That would be a very unwise move. As for markle - she's not wanted in the UK ever again. I suspect just about no one cares what happens to her.
It really is.
Think of his drug use with living with two dealers! Three, if we count Markus Anderson.
🤔It’s almost as if it suits their purposes to keep him drugged up.
I don't see Harry feeling guilt or remorse.
Homely Harry is obtuse and has never applied himself … bottom of his class in school and couldn’t pass his helicopter pilot’s test to elevate his rank in the military. No discipline, no common sense and no conscience. There’s no reversing his reprehensible behaviour against the RF.
I think he’s only remorseful that he’s an outcast, but he doesn’t feel remorse for what he’s done to cause his family, friends and the public to turn against him.
@@hsmd4533 yeah, it's affecting his ability to exploit his family to make money.
Fear of embarrassment and ostracisation
@@themaltesepenny3504 exactly
What are they trying to prove? She is spending a lot of money to prove what? Why don't they spend a quiet life with their children! They caused all this drama!
NO kids’ bred, nor born by the parasitic pests’. She’d a hysterectomy at 28………
What children? The two invisikids? Moonbump 1 and moonbump 2?
What children.... oh you mean the invisikids?
She is very good at getting publicity for the various ' brands' that she keeps announcing, getting logos designed and getting hold of yet another microphone to talk about it, but when it comes to the actual.product she can't produce it. There is nothing there but another publicity stunt for a workshy untalented wannabe. She is unable to.make a success of anything
They don't have any Children. Just Rent a Kid.
Harold won't be betrayed he will be ignored by his former family.
As they should but Harold will still see being ignored as being betrayed. He's that dense.
His name is actually Henry, not Harry or Harold. He was dubbed Harry affectionately by his parents.
@@juleanekent917 And he and William used to refer to himself as Harold as a joke.
I don’t think he’ll be betrayed or ignored. I think he’ll be exposed.
@@juleanekent917he referred to himself as Harold in his work of fiction where he maligned his own family.
I don't believe that this one has regrets at all. He's too entitled, too dumb and he believes every word his wife tells him.
Him and Andrew two peas in a "royal" pod. The entitled duo with one American straggler hanging on.
OMG yes.
Narcissists have no guilt, nor remorse. It’s manipulation and gaslighting for the “repair” of their brand, period.
I don't think Harry or Meghan feel guilt, they are both too selfish.
Agreed, there is no proof whatsoever that either feels anything more than
Aggrieved over their wishes not being met.
I agree if that was so Meghan would fill guilty about her dad.
Rachel Ragland will not be forgiven for what she's done and Harry-"hand-bag" should be feeling regret!!! he should be totally ashamed!!!
Loved your video. You are really comprehensive, rational, and informed. Thank you!
But he won't because he lacks intelligence and empathy.
Harry hand-bag😂😂
H is not capable of feeling regret nor saying NO to M.
@@teresalsm6146 ......he's a pathetic masochist - he 's enjoyed alternating between being "poon-tanged " & then "mis-treated" by that thing he married.
They thoroughly deserve each other.........at least they've saved two other people from the same fate as themselves.
And, through all the dirty work Harry looks 10 years older in his age.
💯💯💯 they both look horrible!!!!!
Absolutely! They have both aged terribly.
Harry regrets one thing only....he regrets that he has earned the enmity of his former family. It gets in the way of his borrowing money.
'Borrowing' implies it will be paid back! Stealing? Extorting?
Hardly borrowing. He'd never repay.
No matter what the California duo do to lessen their feelings of guilt; the people won’t believe they are being sincere. The Royal Family have more important things to worry about. King Charles and the Princess of Wales, their fight against Cancer is what they should be fighting against. The only thing that the Royals need worry about is being alone with them. Either that or frisk them for microphones. I was happy to see King Charles out and about for Easter. I wish King Charles and Catherine, Princess of Wales all the best in their journey to good health.
Sadly, regardless whether they have microphones or not, they will still tell their 'truth' afterwards.
@mazzaprowse8803
Don't you mean **sell** "their truth."
Harry seems to be mentally stunted in his teens, he doesn’t appear to take responsibility for his actions or words. He’s very much in the blame game whereas nothing is his fault I.e. it’s the Palace, the Press, or even, I didn’t say that, this doesn’t serve him now and won’t lead to maturity. He must learn to accept responsibility for the decisions he has made as well as responsibility for the pain he has caused. I hear that he’s still looking for an apology from the family when in reality, he definitely needs to humble himself and beg forgiveness from the family. He still remains blind to his brother being his greatest supporter who only wants Harry to be happy. I also believe that his relationship with Meghan is toxic to his mentality and the sooner he sees this and separates himself from her, the better off he will be. That’s a difficult situation however, she seems to have him completely isolated and under her control. The entire situation is extremely complicated and dangerous for Harry.
@robertwhatley2825, your statement is well said, but I have to disagree with your sentence re H being blind to William being his greatest supporter and who only wants H to be happy. I doubt William has any time or inclination to help his vile, spoilt and petulant brother be happy. William has way more important issues to deal with. H is responsible for his own happiness.
Harry isn't feeling guilt, he's feeling left out. Good.
I think he felt he had some importance in life when working as a Royal even if he had problems with the structure. Now he has nothing to make him feel like he matters beyond a background actor for his wife
What's so sad about all of this is he could have married someone nice and if he did want out of the Royal Family gone on to live a quiet life maybe doing something he loved. Instead he's trapped and will be for the rest of his life! I know it's of his own making but it's a long time to be miserable.
He married the wrong person.
That's the crux of the problem! So unfortunate 😕
I don't believe a 'nice' girl would Want to marry him. His reputation as a 'wild child' with low moral boundaries would have prevented any decent woman wanting to take on that burden.
Meg never saw him as a 'husband ', but moreso as a financial gravy train.
Exactly. William was right when he told Harry to slow down and take more time to get to know her. William and Catherine had almost ten years! And boy has that turned out to be a remarkable partnership.
Harry was just a spoiled, dumbo who liked to party. MM was a manipulative, narcissistic golddigger looking for fame and money. He never wanted out of the RF until TW convinced him when she realized "work" was expected of her.
Harry is too selfish to feel guilt.
Must need Dad to give him money
I agree with you about the therapy spiral. I think that Harry has been dealing with ‘therapists’ that have an agenda of creating more issues than truly exist. If you never get better you must keep attending and PAYING for therapy sessions.
The whole “live therapy” thing was such a huge red flag. He looked so miserable and depressed.
I’d imagine his therapists only validated him instead of challenging him. You can’t grow unless you’re challenged.
Unfortunately you are correct. Some clients expect to be agreed with and some therapists are more than happy to oblige.
Yes, he has been reduced to a cash cow by his wife and his 'therapists'.
That's why therapusts I do NOT go to...keep you coming back so they make more money...how many "therapists" have broken up marriages by having sex with a client...I know there are bad seeds in pretty much every vocation but therapists use your own feelings to manipulate you not to help you...I just won't throw the dice on what kind of therapist you might find....why tell anyone anything they can use against you...blackmail is also a problem in the "therapy" world...no one ever hears about it unless someone gets killed because of a therapist. Oh they do help people but trust them oh hell no so why go? Harry clearly has really bad therapists when he can't even admit he's ever done anything wrong in his whole life its ALWAYS someone else's fault. All my opinion.
Just seeing her so called calligraphy triggers me. Who puts up a website with nothing on it?
Someone who is as hollow inside as the South Park cartoon.
I know nothing that one does should surprise me, but even I was shocked to see an e-commerce site launched with absolutely zero products featured, much less for sale.
Simply bizarre.
@@mrsterious5845 One of the early reviewers said that signing up didn't even produce an automatic welcome email. That's pretty basic.
An attention seeking freak of nature
@mickidonahue4038 Totally! The calligraphy, the "royal" looking crest... everything about her page Triggers me. I literally laughed out loud when I read your comment because it's so true.
Meghan Markle wiping away her "Crocodile Tears" which she seldom shed any most times. Did she shed a tear for her father while she was living it up at the Wedding Reception? I don't think she gave a hoot about her father who she dismissed and went about her usual selfish entitled self to live her life without a thought about her dad who sacrificed and did so much for that "spoiled rotten daughter of his.
We’ll said!
She has dead shark-eyes. Not sure she can cry.
Yes. One tear from left eye.
@@jennyfairbairn2525 of course she can cry on demand, she's an actress, or so we are led to believe
@homegown1234 I am heartbroken for her father, Thomas. The man did everything for her, including going into debt, to make sure she had Everything she wanted. The total BS claims she has made, "Growing up on the $4.99 salad bar at Sizzler, her "work-study program and scholarships that paid for her college." Thomas Markle literally has the Receipts for the $ that paid for her private high school and then Northwestern University. The way she has treated her father is despicable.
My 9 year old is more mature, more caring than middle aged Harry is.
Then I give you credit as well.
She is so toxic to me, I couldn’t purchase anything from her. Just will not happen.
@marymiller2329 I think a lot of people feel the same way. Even if she sells something cool I Refuse to buy anything from her.
We are not buying her lies and won’t be buying her merchandise.
They don't feel guilty at all. They care about themselves and their ability to "hawk their wares" and their brand.
I think that you might enjoy like listening to Narc Con's CZcams podcast on Markle's modis operandi in relation to the RF. It is quite enlightening.
Elsa what brand do these ingrates have? Two ungrateful children who can't see further than the end of their noses .
It’s crazy. If they left, renounced the titles, and lived a semi quiet life not slagging their families, they’d probably be very popular and wealthy right now.
They were incapable of hiding their arrogance - believing they deserved their own kingdom. Absolutely gross.
I've been saying this all along!💯
It was nice to see King Charles doing well ❤
Sorry, I disagree that M&H are trying to remove any guilt that they are feeling - they acted most cruel & selfish when Prince Phillip was I’ll then died and Queen Elizabeth II was fighting cancer then died. If they can act so heartless at this time, it’s certainly no problem for them to act in a calculating way that they think will somehow benefit them now. If both or just Harry comes to the UK, it’s to get something they need or possibly prevent Harry from losing some type of status. I don’t think they care one bit about anyone but themselves.
I agree. It's just play acting. Can't take that serious.
Totally agree. First you think how can someone be so callous but sadly there are some very wicked people breathing our oxygen.
Just wicked individuals
You make good points.
@RRbobreed Good Point!
Regular use of illicit substances can alter your mood and brain functioning. I think it has made his natural paranoia going into overdrive along with his wife enabling the paranoia.
That's a good point. People think they can play with those things but you can't.
I don't think either one feels regrets. Who would kidnap them? No one wants them.
Even the Taliban don't want to bother with him He's thoroughly destroying himself by feeding his long term paranoia
ToW website is a joke this highlights her severe limitations in all spheres
Ha ha ha! Very good
When is he (Harry) going to learn, he is not that important. At least since his stupid betrayal and behavior!!!!
Harry also has a strong narcissistic bend, not quite on the same level as his wife, but it does put him in the center of his own universe.
I'm in total agreement about too much therapy. He seems unable to grow up and put childhood fears behind him. Many people have had terrible events in their childhoods but have learned to put it all in perspective.
Allegedly when Princess Diana rang the family from Paris to see how they were & to say goodnight etc, Harry was too busy playing with whatever ,to talk with his mother. It was a quick “ hi & goodbye” sort of thing & off he went to finish what he was doing. He wasn’t a toddler, he was almost 13 yrs old. I’m not a Therapist, but Maybe most of this built up anger & bitterness is because of his own guilt from that time.
Harry shouldn’t worry about The Firm. He should be worried about the people of the UK.
Look at videos of Harry before and after Meghan, I can’t believe the difference in the man. This woman has used his grief, paranoia, childhood traumas and fear of being alone to control him. If the situation was reversed there would be a lot more sympathy for a woman and calling out of this mental abuse and control. I’ve always thought the therapy that Meghan insisted on him having has made him ill, I’ll bet she picked the therapist. He’s always been vulnerable and she’s made him weak. This awful news of Princess Catherine’s cancer may have snapped him back into some reality. I really don’t know how he’ll be able to move on from this mess, so much damage has been done. Real people have been hurt.
Great analysis. Harry is all about Harry. If Harry had an empathic bone in his body, he would be dealing with the African Parks abuse charges.
She took the name of a place she has lived in for 2 min. Kinda like calling yourself duchess after being one for only 30seconds.
Two problems with Harry. First, he has arrested development since suffering the trauma of losing his mother. He is still 12 years old and can't seem to move on. Second, his wife is not a good person. She devalues Harry constantly and goads him on which brings out the worst in him. If he ever gets free of her, he may be able to think clearly and see the egregiousness of his ways. Then the real tour will start....the apology and grovelling tour.
Spot on!
Omg don’t say we’ll have to put up with all of that next !!😮
Totally agree. He is still a twelve year-old.
@@ockmfHarry was 2 weeks from being 13 years old....
You can't blame other people for your behavior!!!
Harry and Harry Alone is to blame for Harry's nasty, narcissist, paranoid controlling behavior!!!!
I agree with all your thoughts and comments having said that wanker was only 2 weeks shy of his 13 th birthday still it does not allow him to treat anyone else in his family the way he has HRH Prince William also lost his MUM difference is he chose to find truth regarding his Mum and sadly her death king material all the way as princess Diana wanted him to do she was 💯💯 supporting his future and the Monarchy 😊❤
The Queen’s hat for Easter was gorgeous… I wish Americans would get back into hats.
Harry is an awful man … let’s hope those invisible kids get the dad they deserve.
Start wearing hats! Why not? What have you got to lose, maybe someone will follow you. Start your own trend.
I often wear hats.
TW doesn't let Hazbeen have any friends, he is isolated while TW does whatever she wants. The man-child needs to wake up, TW is ruining HIS life.
……he’s as thick as two short planks’. He’ll not wake up…………ever………
Rachel Ragland Markle has already ruined Harry the traitors life is in trash bin swamp it’s done finished
I agree
Already done
………classic malignant narcissistic behaviour in separating victim from family, & friends’, so the narc has total control.
The ginger dimwit will NEVER wake up, he’s way too ensnared by his evil 🦹♀️ witch 🧙♀️ wife, in her 🕸………
The opposite of love isn't hate. It's indifference. Harry will just be ignored, which will hurt more than anything
@Booboosmom YEP!
If you do not feel better after 6\8 sessions with a therapist you need either to talk to friends and family, if you can, or get a different therapist.
therapy is very much an American thing, he should man up & grow a pair
Yes! Great point.
The betrayal is so profound, in particular the offensive against Catherine and William, that it's almost impossible to imagine what a path back would look like. Its really hard to accept that the stress put on the whole RF, including Phillip and the Queen, and the realization that Harry purposely sought to injure them contributed to their declining health to some degree.
He can be the prodigal son if he chooses, but that requires a full and heartfelt repentance and we're still a ways from that.
His gear is fed by Meghan, they believe they are much more important than they are. Nothing to do with guilt.
By the way all her cooking recipes were stolen from Cory Vitello her old boyfriend who she used and discarded, as per usual.
What was that strange therapy Meghan does? It was strange to me. I remember when they first went to California Harry said he did realize how bad his youth was until he went to the therapy that Meghan used. I'm not exactly saying the exact words.
Yes, he 'didn't know he was trapped, until MM told him he was'....says it all, he wasn't trapped before, but he sure is now!! In the wicked ones Web of lies and deception!!
HG Tudor calls it 'lashings of spicy poontang'!
Harry said during the OW interview he 'didn't know he was trapped ( within the monarchy/firm) until Meghan told him' !!!!!! To paraphrase O 'Whaaaaaaaaaaaat'
The navel gazing method?
@@jennyfairbairn2525 I agree with H.G Tudor also. This therapy was putting pressure on certain parts of the body. That just makes Tudor's theory more believable I guess. LOL.
This is true. I was diagnosed with complex PTSD and when my symptoms first began taking over my life, I didn't realize it was the disorder. I wasn't used to the panic attacks over small irritations so I thought it was people being irritating. It wasn't until I realized that it was me.. I was disordered.. I was the one that needed to change, that things began to improve.
Anything we put outside our onus of control is a sign that we are disordered. It doesn't matter what your trauma is, if you willingly avoid facing the demons, you give them power to destroy you and damage anyone around you, whether you intend it or not.
Harry needs to learn self accountability and self control. Until he does, his life will only get worse.. Not better.
@@geezer1471 Yes, I agree. But with trauma, it's not that easy. It's a daily fight. You have to work those muscles everyday while triggered and it only gets easier after years of daily practice. It's painful and difficult but you can't give up. Six packs don't appear overnight.
It requires self discipline and honesty. You have to learn to be as careful with others as you want them to be with you. Once you see how hard that is, you learn to get the stick out of you own backside, so to speak.
(Edit: But to hone in on an important part you pointed out, I do not see Harry being capable of this in Meghan's company. She won't support it and for me, my disorder is more severe than his. It took me two years before I could train myself to consistently not to respond to things while actively triggered, no matter how awful they are. He may be able to do it a lot faster but he would need the support and affirmation of his core group and she's pretty much all he's got right now. I don't see things ending well for him as long as he's in her direct presence and I think she knows it.)
@@geezer1471 Absolutely agree with that. Not everything is connected to trauma for Harry. A lot of it is just selfishness and jealousy, which goes back what she said in this video. He seemingly blames everything on his trauma and then uses that as an excuse to behave badly and expect to be coddled. Not everything is trauma. You've gotta have actual integrity before you can commit to fighting any daily battle or you simply won't do it. You'll expect everyone to carry their load and yours without complaint and that's what they've done.
My respect and best wishes to you from America. And thank you for the kind words.
@@geezer1471 You, too. 🙏🏻🤍
@@SolaGratia. Anytime you feel shit you are welcome to contact me.
@SolaGratia “Even pain has a purpose”.
Saw that somewhere and I remind myself of this everyday because I have a natural tendency to want any negative emotions I’m feeling to be erased and replaced with positive ones.
It can seem counterintuitive to let negative or painful emotions remain without attempting to wipe them away just to be happy. Most of the time, how we feel may be the way we should feel - moreover, the way we need to feel in order to make adjustments that render positive outcomes in our future.
I thought your analysis about your anxiety was profound and shows you have a healthy self awareness. ❣️
Harry’s not a good person but it’s hard not to have sympathy for his downfall. It’s what Grimm Fairy Tales are made of. He legit married a Disney villain.
More fool him - he was warned
I have no pity for him whatsoever
@win1776 Fantastic comment and so so true! She is like all of the female Disney villians rolled up into one. I love how Lady C describes her "Medusa tendrils" that are constantly falling out of her messy bun and framing her face.
Cruella DeVille!
If in the past they punished him for his bad behavior, all this could have probably been avoided!!! Now, is to late!!! Unfortunately he has lost any sense of decency, if he ever had the least of it!!
You don't know that "they didn't punish him".
After the Nazi uniform. He was made to apologize publicly. Then made to personally apologize to the Israeli ambassador. Then Charles made him visit a concentration camp. And then Charles had him muck out pig stalls at Highgrove for weeks.
All those consequences just bounced right off dim Hawwy.
In the army H kept calling Pakistani soldiers by a racial slur. So now, he is the only member of a long list of royals to ever been forced, by the army, to take Sensitivity Training. Not once, but TWICE.
When you are a professional victim, punishment has no effect.
Hawwy still feels very hard done by.
WAAGH!😢
You can take it to the bank that he didn’t muck out those pigs and some poor farm worker ended up doing the job for him. He probably slept through the sensitivity training, and I ‘m afraid I can’t see him being moved by Auschwitz. He comes across as self absorbed and not the slightest bit empathetic. As for the Israeli ambassador? Easy to apologise because for people like him, words are cheap.
Who was going to discipline him? KC now is not the same person in the 90s and 2000s - he was too busy trying to rehabilitate Cami.
@luxpursuits Enough on Camilla already. She went through worse that the current Princess of Wales did during the courtship with the current Prince of Wales. Diana cheated first, Diana did a much better job of playing the victim than either of the "Harkles". She [Diana] gave an interview implying the now KCIII might be incapable. I never have understood Diana Deification.
@@deborahbutcher3933 I understood that Charles was seeing Camilla all through his courtship and marriage to Diana. He didnt see he only for a short while before resuming his royal dalliance with the lady. The old queen forbade him to marry her and insisted he found a suitable wife to provide heirs. Charles should never have been allowed to marry his mistress the way Harry should never have bee allowed to marry his 'actress'. The end result of all of this is massive expense to the British tax payer!
I'm in agreement about your view on the Past Prince's therapy, but one also needs to take into account the effect of his boss on his current mental state. As long as he views her as his mother reincarnated [metaphorically speaking], he won't be able to progress. The only way he'll be helped at all in this lifetime is to pull up his big boy pants and become a man. I just can't imagine that happening. When she eventually divorces him, he'll either get a brain or he'll go swirling down the drain.
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That narcissist Rachel Ragland Markle will never divorce Harry traitor only thing she has she nobody full circle she unable snared anyone with world known name attached
I hope the RF are all out of town on their own charity engagements.
I think they will deliberately not have any engagements the night of H’s speech, so they can’t be accused of trying to sabotage him. They are not stupid.
Narcissists NEVER feel guilty. The one and ONLY reason they are going -MONEY
Don't ever give them an inch, half inch, you get my drift.
I agree with William
The therapy Harry is getting isn’t helping
He’s a malcontent
I remember that Catherine said 2 or 3 years ago, right after Harry advertised his therapy with Oprah, "Talk therapies are not for everyone". Sooo, Beebs thank you for touching on this particular subject.
I really admire your intelligence and curiosity.
Beebs is definitely an intelligent, compassionate and articulate presenter. 💜💜💜
He doesn't ever look happy anymore. He was always the joker in the family, laughing and smiling before MM entered his life. This can not be turned around as it has all gone too far.
Thank you for talking about therapy in such a nuanced way. I’m a therapist and loved how you presented this discussion. I absolutely think Harry is “over-therapized.” As well as probably has a personality disorder (him and Meghan). So often I find myself having to tell clients “what if your negative beliefs are untrue?” Or “What if this is just a blip in life, and not the biggest catastrophe to ever happen?” Reality checks are so important lol. These two do NOT live in reality
If you ignore a narcissist, they go into overdrive, and end up showing themselves up.
Agreed, I think Harry's handler has been in overdrive all her life! Apart from landing him, she can't really be called a success. She seems to lurch from one gaff to another.
Oh Harry, once a person has done what you've done to people whatever they do to you is called revenge not betrayal.
I'd prefer to call it "logical consequences"
@NiniM8154 yes, that's better
Good Point! It wouldn't classify as Betrayal.
I don’t think Harry has ever looked at Megan the way he used to look at Catherine.
You can't "betray" a person who has betrayed you. Their betrayal wiped out anything you could possibly do to them being considered "betrayal." As for therapy, let's face it, Harry has A LOT of time on his hands so there is no doubt that he is getting way too much "therapy." What I don't understand about Meghan Markle's IG launch is even if she is all up in narcissist-land, where is WME to reign her in? This has to be damaging the brand of WME too, the fact that they couldn't do anything to stop the train wreck.
Taking drugs will make one paranoid.
Adding to that level of paranoia is the amount of drugs he has confessed in taking. Like others, I don’t think he feels one ounce of guilt for what he has done. They have both spent their lives being the victim of their own doing. They have lied, manipulated and abused people. Is it any real surprise they now want to transfer their own actions upon others? Not to me. No way are they sincere in their attempts to “make nice”. People like them never do things out of the kindness of their heart
The Royal Family need to stay far, far, far away from both of them.
If they had done the lifestyle thing right out of the gate, they would have been successful instead of going scorched earth on the Monarchy. Ego will trip you up if you don't keep it in check.
At least some what successful.
Lifestyle thing was probably Plan Z. M wanted to become a big person in Hollywood. I think she's resorting to Lifestyle because the original plans failed.
Harry is quilty and has no way to redeem himself at this point. As far as therapy it really does seem that his therapists has not helped but has caused him more harm and his use of drugs only compounds that. Harry could have easily left & had the life he said he wanted.
Phsycopaths can easily fool even their therapists. Most therapists won't touch them.
I think there’s an HRH in that logo. She just tried to slightly conceal it.
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Harry uses excuses to do what he want's to do, he is a spoilt entitled brat. Meg has become his therapist and he does her bidding.
No, Beebs. There’s no guilt. NOBODY cares about his paranoia or faux guilt.
Would "American Rotten Odour," work? It does, after all, describe her personality to a T.
Well said!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Well done!!
Can't get a brand name more clunky and unharmonious than American Riviera Orchard Montecito.
I always have to think about what her brand name is, terrible name! It’s a boring name, too long and not catchy!
Typical narcissistic word salad.
Looking gorgeous in that wine color!
I just said the same thing
I agree. So pretty today Beebs
Exactly👍👍👍
She never looks anything less than immaculate
@@kerryalfaro9437Me too😅
TOW is incapable of feeling guilt.
TO probably feels guilt, but it is too late, TO, way too late. You should feel guilt, shame, and remorse, and likely some of that is knocking on your conscience. But it is way too late.
Hey TO, are you feeling guilty about the Africa Parks horrors? No? Then why should anyone believe a word you say? As a friend used to say, "Your actions (or lack thereof) speak so loudly, I can't hear a word you are saying." And, frankly, had you tried to straighten out the horrors of "Africa Parks," you still would not be trusted, nor should you be.
The only reason for an attempted "reconnection" is because she wants good press. And, as with everything, TO, goes along with it.
TOW! Do I detect a fellow Tudorite? 🤩
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You do!
" develop" !!!!! Come off it. What has this woman EVER followed through on😅
🎉I’ve noticed an uptick in complimentary articles about the Megs and the Sussexes lately. I assume it is part of a PR campaign
Paid PR puff pieces and bots must be costing them a fortune!
When they refer to her as The Duchess you know it's from the sugar factory.
He is only paranoid of getting boo'd. That's why their participation in "whatever", it's always a surprise.
What guilt? Narcissists don't feel guilt. They don't do anything wrong, they are perfect.
I so agree with you about the bad therapy. So glad to hear you say it out loud. I have long believed this to be Harry's problem. And William sees it but is powerless to help.
You know ,one has to WANT to Work at the therapy & be honest. Therapy is just a futile effort in this case. Facing Honesty is not in his realm.
@@cocojoe-fw1mtabsolutely...I think he would reject certain things because of his ego.I din't think he is willing to put in the ( self) work required to grow and heal.Also,no self awareness or ability to take responsibility for his part in unhealthy choices.He would like a therapist who goes along with his sense of being the victim.
His therapist is his mother-in-law! I would imagine that she keeps him in line for MM! She's even been known to like to partake in some of Harry's favorite remedies!
He needs to get away from his wife and her mother and seek real treatment!
Your commentary is always so succinct and insightful. LOVE your channel. ♥️
And a very lovely voice.
Beebs is smart and beautiful. I'm learning a lot from her content beyond the insightful fashion critiques@@lynemac2539
I think you've got those two pegged. What a mess they've made of themselves. His problematic qualities were minimized or concealed by the institution when he was in the UK. But all hell broke loose when he met the very person to pounce on those weaknesses for her own gain. Such an inept yet malevolent duo!
Perhaps he truly realizes the role of a spare now and hopefully feels like crap for all he's done
When I was growing up we had friends. You talked to your friends and they offered ideas, or said that they've been through what you're going through and you might get a bit of arm around the shoulder sympathy and a trip to the pub! There is so much focus on 'labels' these days and we miss the fact that you can just have a bad day for no reason. Hank has been taken from his friends, who knew him well and what he had been through and would have had a good answer for him. Sadly he seems to have embraced the California mind set of 'its not your fault' and rather than having mates to take his mind off it he is now wallowing in his own misery and blaming anyone and everyone except himself.
After meeting her at a Sandringham weekend, his friends apparently texted each other saying that Harry must be f#@*ing nuts.
@@jennyfairbairn2525 They apparently told him to his face too, and pointed out she had no sense of humour and they had nothing in common etc. That's when he made the tasteless "She's so hot, she'll let me do anything" comment. Apparently that was enough for him to abandon his family, country and entire life.
@@janicewilliams2076 Little Harry strikes again!
Think about what he said about therapy.
And he could not get Meghan to a therapist when she was suicidal?
I call BS.
Harry and the Meg were the perfect storm when they came together. Destruction, negativity, immaturity, insecurity. Then you throw the Megs narcissism in the mix, I wonder if Harry has any idea what he allowed himself to become. From what we are told the RF pretty much white washed Harry's behavior prior to Meg and then worked to do it for both of them when they came together. They bring out the worst in each other. I feel sorry for the kids. Another thought provoking video Beebs. Thank you 😊
Meg could have sold bitterness, jealousy,envy and spite. All homemade and plenty available. Renamed MEG Montecito Egregious Goods.
🤣🤣 clever 🤣
And in her case, renewable and sustainable!
I think Meghan’s ARO problem is that she has never had an original idea. She’s trying to cover everything she’s ever seen someone else is doing or has done. She also seems allergic to advice.
Beebs, Megan lives in her own world. She has visions of grandeur. She KNOWS every word said about her online.
Harry's self-confessed drug taking hasn't helped either. He is his own worst enemy.
Harry will always blame everyone’s else for Anything and Everything!!
As a therapist, you were absolutely correct about how an individual can be caught in the cycle of negative thoughts and how everything becomes both paranoid and will blame others.
Focusing on your mental health is bad for your mental health.
With regards to stagnant therapy, I would add that some, or even many, therapists are reluctant to push their patients to “do the work”. I wish they would adopt a more physiotherapist approach, tell the patient to do the work or they won’t get better. You just can’t get away with slacking off when you visit a physiotherapist. Just sitting and complaining is not doing the work.
I saw a very comforting therapist for several years and made no progress. Then I found someone who pushed me and I am no longer depressed
Pain has a purpose. Even negative emotions have a purpose.
There are no quick fixes in this life. You must do the work.
I agree 💯 with u . I think too much therapy is not good . How can u heal and move on if u just keep going over and over the same problems all the time
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1:43 harry is not paranoid about any security, he is afraid of being booed , remember how they were booed at the jubilee 😂 that was before the Netflix show and spare ... now after everything he's done, Harry knows he will be booed badly..
Maybe he is worried about his Inheritance? 😢
He should be! The vast majority of a Monarch’s estate goes directly to the next Monarch. It was an agreement made to both avoid death duties ( special exception) and to prevent the portfolio that supports the Crown from being diluted by being shared by too many extended family. Think about how little would have been left if Queen Victoria had shared her estate equally with all her children?? M is dreaming if she thinks H is going to inherit a castle or Palace and a nice bunch of jewels. Can’t happen!
As long as Princess Anne has control of the finances, I don’t see Harry enjoying his inheritance any time soon. Meghan would actually have to be nice to Princess Anne and I don’t see that happening any time soon either.
No she!
Perhaps Harry isn't afraid to go to the Invictus Games, but the Invictus Games are leaning towards kicking him out of the event and pretending security is the reason he is absent will let him save face?
At 8 months pregnant I couldn’t see my feet and it didn’t cross my mind to bend down, if
If it got dropped it stayed there
Until someone else came along and picked it up for me haha
I did a waddle squat like thing.
Yep! Same here!! I had a 10 lb baby 21/1/2.inches long. I didn’t walk, I waddled!!
I totally agree with what you have said. Harry is using Diana as a shield & a sword depending on the occasion & as a convenience for not growing up & forging a productive path in life. It can't genuinely be both & you can't pick & choose its use when your life is going well ie part of W&C + Harry or things have gotten crappy ie the day he got married 😮
If his mother was still alive she would be kicking his butt for his actions and he would have never married that despicable woman. Unfortunately he uses his mother’s death as a crutch. There are so many people out there that have lost a parent at a young age but they have done the work to go on and lead a normal life. I’m from a military family and I was military myself. I have had friends lose their fathers due to war. We all grieve for their losses but we go on. Harry needs to grow up and not look at his mother as perfect. He has never gotten older. He is still that 13 year old boy .
Even the softest launch possible will have at least one product or service on offer. My cousin started a food business with only one snack. She put all her effort into making it taste good, which is why it took off. MM doesn't understand that selling physical goods takes lots of hard work, creativity, and a good reputation among possible customers.
I thought KC3 looked well & in good spirits 🎉😊❤
Beebs is incredibly intelligent. Much, much more than a fashion commentator. What deep-dive into how self narratives can emerge.
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