Remi Was Rushed To The ER + An Emotional Health Update… - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 226
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- čas přidán 8. 08. 2023
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Alisha getting mad and still singing the wrong lyrics got me 😭
LMAOOO
Same lmao I was thinking to myself “canceled my plans just in case you'd call, not he’d call!” 😂
"Our purpose is what were presented each day" As someone who battles depression everyday, these are words that I needed to hear. Thank you so much Alisha, for putting this out there.
Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” THATS MY SCRIPTURE 😭😭omg the way this pod today just was like a pep talk for stuff I didn’t even know I had omg wow 😭😭
We appreciate remi being so vulnerable with us and Alisha giving her the safe space to speak her mind 🫶🏼
Alisha praying for Remi is what friendship is 😭
as a 21 who ran away from christianity & returned 4 years ago, & someone that has watched you both for 7+ years, my heart is so full that you’ve discussed christianity. tears were brought to my eyes for the both of you. sincerely, thank you for opening up & sharing your thoughts on religion on this platform, in a positive way.
Honestly, hearing that your friend has been praying for you, i am also sobbing. To have friends who pray for your well being and happiness is such a gift. I'm glad they have that in each other.
Getting older is a privilege. In November last year, my childhood best friend suddenly passed away at the age of 26. That definitely shifted my perspective on life and getting older.
Remi, crying is such a therapeutic way to process and grieve either good or bad. Thank you for being vulnerable.
Not me crying on my own couch with Remi and Alisha. Thinking of you Remi. Sending all the positive love and vibes EVER. We're rooting for you (( and your baby bro))
Dear Remi,
Thank you so much for sharing with us what you are going through. My boyfriend had cancer in his spine and he did radiation at MD Anderson in Houston! He is in recovery now and doing good. I believe Shane will be okay too :) If you need anything let me know 💜
Sending so much love to your boyfriend and all his loved ones 🩷 happy to hear he’s in recovery
Remi I’m so glad you were able to get the scan to find the cyst early. Hopefully it does not continue to grow or affect your health. My thoughts go out for Shane as well. Alisha is so cute. One amazing friendship 💗
Thank you we love you!!!
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Matthew6:34
Every day’s a new day and God watches over us, and we can trust that.
This was a really beautiful episode. Remi, you’re a strong woman, and I’m going to keep you in my prayers.♥️
When it rains, it pours!! But after the storm there will be a rainbow. You got this Remi, we're all here for you & wishing you nothing but the best
I WAS WAITING FOR THIS EPISODE BECAUSE I WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT REMI’S HEALTH 🥺🥺🥺🙏🏻
THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE KNOWING GOD IS STILL HERE IN THIS FRIENDSHIP AND IN THIS GENERATION ❤😢
God is after your heart, Remi girl❤ praying for you & your family!
I’m glad Remi has a great support system. I’m the same where I try to not make bad situations as bad. I hope you’re healthy REMI and your family. It’s okay to be sad though.
I’m actually so glad to hear that EVERYBODY stops when you are in pain Remi, especially because you are always the strong friend.
Poor Oli baby not wanting to leave Alisha basically having a panic attack after she realized how serious it was. But all of your friends are so worried about your mental state because it is too much for ANYBODY to handle is something so priceless.
We love you Rem and thank you for telling us. 🤍
Remi, I have a similar thing on my brain, a cyst on my pituitary gland, that was 6 mm big caused by hormonal imbalances. I have an endocrinologist, hormone doctor, who prescribed me a medication to get rid of it. I have to take it for a few years and the cyst should disappear completely. I have taken the medication for a year now with minimal side effects and it has already decreased a ton so it’s working. Hoping your situation is similar! Wishing you the best, you got this! ❤️
This was such a beautiful episode I cried. The love you two have for each other and ur friendship radiates thru the screen. It makes me think of me and my best friend and truly warms my heart❤ Remi I am sending all the love and support to u and ur family. I am wishing for Shane to have a smooth recovery and sending extra love to Lily and their baby
Remi I have a pituitary tumor which causes hormonal imbalances, and it’s really uncommon in my experience to find anyone online that talks about these types of conditions. You are not alone, and you are in my prayers. ❤
OMG SAME…only just now watching several months later lol! I recently found out about mine and hearing about other people who have the same thing or similar and talk about it is so comforting and helps me feel better! Hope you’re doing well❤️
Aww Remi, Im so sorry. Even thought it’s trough a screen I hope you can tell all the support. You’re amazing and I hope you and your family are surrounded by love. Sending lots of prayer towards your brother.
I was scared to listen to this podcast because I get very invested and was scared to spiral hearing about all these not so great things that I’m also afraid of, but I listened and loved it. & it’s truly helped me feel better about life and all it’s up and downs. & Alisha the way you spoke and what you said was very refreshing and enlightening. Loved this. 🫶🏼
We love you endlessly
this has to be one of if not the best podcast episode you guys have done, you guys exhibit so much optimism and vulnerability. i love this friendship and sending so much love you remi you are everything.
Keeping positive thoughts for you, Remi. Alisha saying our purpose is what's presented to us each day really struck a chord with me. As someone going into their mid 30s still feeling a little lost and wondering what my purpose is, that really put me in a sense of calm. Thank you for this episode.
Remi, your strength is so admirable and we’re sending you so so much love ❤️
Honestly, I'm praying for you, Remi. Life is so unfair, especially when it's recurring on a daily. I'm so glad you're being strong, but allowing yourself to feel and talk about it. Stuff like this can truly be hard. You are always in my thoughts. Glad you seemed a little happier in the video, despite everything. 🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤 (Loving these episodes of Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi ❤)
Wow…this was such a profound episode. I’ve been subscribed to both of you since 2017 & this really felt like such a vulnerable and humanizing episode.
Alisha, I was especially moved by how wise you spoke about being in the moment, how depression is about the past, and how anxiety is about the future. And as we’re getting older, we just need to be present, which is SO hard! But it felt easier knowing that y’all go through similar life things.
Remi, thanks again so much for sharing. I will share the same sentiments that have been poured to you in your most recent vlog: you are under no obligation to share any private details of your life with us, but I thank you for being so real, especially as an influencer.
Pretty Basic, thanks for being alongside us as we’re also navigating our late 20s & early 30s ❤️
When Alisha said “I’ve been praying for you” also made me cry! 😢
Not me SOBBING in the office listening to this. This is so beautiful. Sending you both so much love ❤ Rem, you are so strong!
Hi Remi & Alisha, Thankyou all for being so vulnerable. Crying with you girls at 7 AM in the morning. Thankyou remi for sharing your vulnerability and we’ll be sending your family positive vibes & Alisha Thankyou for creating a safe space for remi & us listeners.. a lot of us needed to hear what you said today Alisha ❤️❤️❤️
Love that Alisha is a supportive friend who has been praying for Remi! It’s so amazing to see the change in people for the better🤗❤️
Omg crying 😢 This is so raw and real. Alisha giving Rem the space and time but being so real about what she feels as well is beautiful. Remi's thoughts and perspective is just a lovely reminder that hope can spring from bad things. ❤ The Christianity talk towards the end is so relatable and surely took guts to talk about.
You guys make me happy cry more than anything else. So thankful to be able to watch you two have these discussions 🫶🏼 Remi you truly are an inspiration.
aw we love you remi, thoughts & prayers for you and shane
Alisha’s point on our purpose was what I needed to hear today. Thank you for being such a great friend to remi! ❤️
I am so grateful for this episode. I have been having major life/heath problems one after the other. Things that I thought "oh that will never happen to me" and I have been miserable but this has helped me get an outside perspective. I am going to work harder to be appreciative. ❤ you girls
Absolutely loved this episode!!! Remi and I are like the same person! I don’t ask for help ever and this episode showed me I’m not alone! I always tell myself “ if I can’t control it then it can control me” and it’s really hard to just sit and feel all the emotions!! Thank you Remi for being you!!
Love that you’re sharing this with us, life is SO rough sometimes especially when it happens all at once. This is exactly how I handle bad things going on in my life. Just laugh at it until it get to be too much and then break. It’s impossible to stay positive all the time, but I love that you try to look at the upside in situations. I hope all of these crazy life events work out and that August is AMAZING for you Remi 💗
I have been watching Alisha and Remi for years and to see how this friendship has evolved is absolutely beautiful! This episode put me to tears and showed me that it will be okay! Thank you for your optimism because it motivates me to keep going 🤍
I’ve grown up in the church and knowing the Lord is the greatest thing to happen to me. He is so comforting and changes your whole view on life! Remi the Lord LOVES you and created you with a purpose and for a purpose!! Praying for you and for this hard season🤍
I usually watch the pod when I'm getting ready and doing my makeup.... BUT NOT IT"S RUINED BECAUSE IM CRYING AT YALLS LOVE AND TEARS FOR EACH OTHER 😢
Remi girl you are so strong. I’ve been crying with you this episode. We love you girl.
man, hearing Remi say her brother has cancer brought me back when I found out my really close aunt had cancer a few years ago. just saying it out loud is so hard (for me personally) because it would immediately make me tear up
REM, I said this on your blog but in case you missed it… I’m keeping you on my prayer list (yes a real actual list). But I hope I can encourage you to be kinder to yourself and give yourself permission to be emotional. Prayers to Shane as well!
But what I didn’t say is… sometimes being vulnerable and in need allows our loved ones to kick in and show support and love. That can be a huge help to the loved one because for certain they’re going through something and need to feel needed. (Does that make sense?) basically allowing others to help you helps them. So much love to your family and you! I wish I could give you the biggest hug! 🫂 🤟🏽
Your friendship is so beautiful, thank you for being so vulnerable Remi and sharing with us. You and your family will be in my prayers 💕this episode was amazing, I cried with you both 🥹
This episode has me so emotional! I hope you both are having beautiful days. God is good and I'll be praying for you both always. Love, -Arizona gal living in Italy
I wish I could give you girls a hug!! This podcast is such a joy to have every week. Remi, sending all the love and prayers your way!! You can get through this girl!!! Also you girls' friendship really warmed my heart
So sorry for you Remi, listening to this episode takes me back to my grandmas cancer diagnosis back in August of last year, still battling but stronger than ever. I pray the best for you 🙏
im crying with you guys😭 i feel the empathy and scariness youre going through, i love the positivity but alisha's right it's okay to feel it remi
Literally crying through this podcast. I love the positive vibes Remi! It takes a lot to not dwell on the negatives & to be so grateful for what you have. Hang in there 🤍
Thank you to both of you for talking about this, because I've been dealing with a lot lately and you helped me put things into perspective. Love that you've created this corner of the internet for people like this.
‘God doesn’t bear a soul with more than it can handle’ this quote just motivates me get through anything coz it’s basically saying if God has puts us in a situation we’re likely able to get through it even though it might be the most difficult thing we do ❤ hope it all works out tho remi!
Crying 😞😞 I hope everything works out good remi KEEP us updated please
Alisha is the best 💖 I love you both so much.
I cried cause this is worrying and I do want everyone to be good but also I’m a baby and when anyone cries, that’s it’s for me 🥺
You got this remi 💜
Incredibly proud of you remi. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but your amazing mindset will get you through every struggle. You guys are amazing!! Fully cried during this episode
Thank you remi for showing us this huge positive way of seeing life. It really is teaching me a different perspective and i appreciate. I love you so much ❤
ugh remi I am SO SORRY. 2022 was like this for me and it was truly crushing but i literally would tell all the terrible things to my friends like it was a big joke the world was playing on me and my family bc it was the only way i could get through it all. things will eventually get so much better and you will be an even more kind and empathetic person for it if thats even possible!!! love you guys xx
I usually listen to pb when I'm getting ready to go to work, i was not ready to bawl my eyes out at 6 in the morning. My heart goes out for you and your family, Remi. Sending positive thoughts and prayers 🥺❤️🩹❤️🩹
Remi 💕 my heart goes out to you. Prayers for you, your brother, and your family. Good things only from here on out! 💕💕💕
i loved alisha's talk about how you should live in the moment and not worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will worry about itself. i have been struggling a little because i start school tomorrow, as stupid as it seems, it's just weird being the new kid, even though i'm going into junior year. my new mindset is that i'm just grateful to be here and if something is supposed to happen, it will and you just have to deal with that. everything happens for a reason. keeping shane, shane's wife, and remi in my prayers 🩷🩷
I put this episode off for a bit because I didn’t want to cry but I am so thankful that I watched it today I needed it. Remi has such a beautiful perspective and it really has made me look at things so differently and I love y’all and am praying for y’all ❤️❤️❤️
This is my favorite episode. Thank you for being so vulnerable. My dad had a sarcoma cancer so it’s super scary I know Remi! Sending so much love and prayers for your brother and you! ❤
Remi thank you so much for sharing what you are going through, I believe there are some viewers who can resonate with your struggles. We can all agree that you are so strong mentally and it is totally okay if you cry and take a break to process everything. Wishing you and your brother so much strength and health ❤️
sending prayers and vibes remi
I love this ❤
Remi my prayers are with you, and you too Alisha. I love the balance you two have, we are rooting for you.
Aww this episode made me tear up a little, thank you for being so open with us Rem! Of course we care about what’s going on with you and your fam!! Sending you and your family love 🩷
this episode was beautiful 💜 the love and support you two have for eachother is so real and raw. i love these episodes it feels like a real connection between you guys ands the viewers
ugh remi i’m so glad you’re alright and thank you for sharing all of this. july was such a hell month for me also, i had 4 infections back to back to back and just when i thought i was almost better, i’d get another. truly exhausting. health stuff is never fun, but i hope august is better for us both🙏🏽 you deserve a break.
Remi, I’m in the same boat as you. I found out about my pineal cyst and aneurysm last year. It started with sadness, confusion, and feeling lost… but then I, like you, thought it could be worse. I had to find the positives, like you, and feel optimistic and hopeful. We understand you and are grateful for you sharing your story.
Love Alisha’s perspective on having a purpose for each day!
Hi love, my brother had osteosarcoma in the leg at 17 and he has been cancer free for 7 years. He did not have to have his leg amputated thanks to amazing surgeons. You are the best it’s okay to cry. I cried everyday but he is good now. ❤❤❤❤
There absolutely is a purpose for you sharing this and opening up. Thank you 🥲
Sending so much love to you and your family Remi. 🫂
Remi is so me with trying to cope w her emotions by suppressing her feelings to cope. Also I like how Alisha pointed out ur purpose sometimes isn’t (over all) it can be day-to-day and I’ll tell u when I switched my mindset to that it makes a world of a difference when going through a hard time.
Thank you Remi for being so open and vulnerable with us! You cannot imagine HOW MUCH we actually care! I wish you and your family all the best 🥰
Love you Remi ❤ Health is definitely the most important thing.
This is the best episode.... so much more than basic. Praying for you brother Remi. Thank you both fo sharing and , sharing your friendships.
I love y’all’s friendship it’s so beautiful and remi it’s okay to feel your emotions and cry it out we love you you got this keep your head up girl! ❤️ this is true friendship!
The depth of the conversation towards the ending has me crying ❤ Praying for yall
Sending love to both of you, and healing vibes to Remi and the Cruz family. Apropos of nothing, the outfits are on point today, ladies.
we love you Remi 🥹❤️❤️❤️ what you said from like 44:00 is so wholesome
you’re going through so much and being so grateful at the and time
wow Remi ❤ praying for you and your family
I genuinely loved this episode i related to to this especially with the faith I’ve been struggling lately with my faith and trust but knowing I’m not alone helps a lot I wish the best for both Remi and Alisha love ya 🤍🤍
I cried when you talked about feeling like someone is watching over you. I am a follower of Christ and Remi I agree, He is watching over you. I have watched y'all for years and years, every single video basically. I love and care about both of you, and pray for y'all too. Lean into Him. He loves you and is so worth it. I am often reminded when i look back, how all I have to do is just take one step, and He comes running. I love you guys. thank you for being vulnerable. it's so important in our world. 🤍
i really loved when they touched on christianity. i feel like when you’re grown up with christianity shoved down ur throat sometimes you may grow up to resent it and people have to find and *want to come back. the way alisha’s been praying for remi made me smile
thank you for sharing your story and making us feel less alone. I just had a cyst found on my cervix last week and I was s-ing my pants.. so I cant even forking imagine what youve been going through.
Positive vibes to you too🩷
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Remi you are so strong! Pray has incredible power...those prayers that you receive from both your mother, your father, your friends and those who see you, is what makes you feel that peace that everything will be fine...Everything happens for a reason. Put everything in God's hands and you will see that everything will be fine❤🙏
I watch you guys individually but this is my first time watching a podcast episode, this was so good. Love that you two have this kind of relationship where all these things can be talked about and layed out. It’s always so much easier to not see past those situations that feel never ending but you guys are creating such a better outlook on life and it’s beautiful! I pray that God would continue to reveal Himself in your guys life. You guys are His creation and He longs to extend His love for His people and I pray that even though it’ll feel like there’s every reason to not that you guys would give Him a chance. I know Remi used to go to Inland, my friend went there and was a fan and would always bring it up to me haha but maybe giving that a chance again wouldn’t hurt. 💕💕
Sobbing because my 2023 has been like this… didn’t get the promotion I was hoping for, my father in law was in the hospital really ill, had to postpone a trip I was really looking forward and planning for a year, my mother in law broke an arm, my father in law seems to have early stage dementia… it all kept pilling up and I’m like Remi trying to fix everything and everyone and sometimes you can’t. I also found a new connection with God and religion. Listening to all this and how beautifully Alisha was able to explain your purpose in life was amazing. Sending good energy to you and your family Rem. Kisses from Argentina.
Remi I completely understand.
I know that life has its moments it’s Bumpy & you always having a positive way towards that is amazing & made me come to the realization that I’m going be okay even if things are going on in life . That doesn’t mean you still can’t have those feelings but to laugh & keep going is an amazing feeling. Thank you for being such an inspiring person. I’m going keep going for me & at the end I will be successful
Thinking of you Remi! I had major health scares this year too at 28 years old and am awaiting more tests. Both of my carotid arteries dissected randomly and blocked blood flow to my brain. I was terrified of a stroke. Then they also found an aneurysm on my brain (same spot my gma had one that killed her) and a cavernova (a spot that can bleed in the brain as well). It’s scary stuff when it’s your brain!! Like you said, I like to look at things like maybe the paint can incident was to find this cyst and get it treated before it can cause damage. Maybe my carotid arteries dissected to find the aneurysm before it ruptured. Everything happens for a reason. Sending prayers and good vibes your way as you work with your doctors!! ❤
Oh Remi... I've been going through it too. I want to give you a huge hug!!!!!!!! We'll both get through it, girl. Sending love!
@@ayushi_rathod_ I appreciate that!
I want to appreciate how supportive Alisha is to Remi as her bff! And Remi putting her personal life out.
It's ok to not be ok especially when everything is just hitting you all at once. I wanted to cry when Remi said I don't want to cry. I'm sitting here yelling girl cry let it out!
God’s really starting to heal the world through their struggles, leaving only Him left to turn to. So beautiful i can relate immensely
we appreciate these kind of vulnerability especially for influencers like you two! this was such a wholesome episode! sending prayers to remi!
Remi I am so sorry that you are dealing with all this you deserve to let yourself feel/cope anyway you want💕 I couldn't agree more with you about spiritual beliefs and I've had a very similar experience with religion thank you for sharing with us! Sending love and healing your way💕
Remi, 1st off god is good 🤍and you along with your family will get through it ! being optimistic is also what got me through my now husband getting a Pituitary brain tumor. He fought against all the odds and it’s definitely so scary hearing what the doctors told us. We are here today and he is tumor free 🥳 I’m now dealing with basal cell carcinomas in my face, I’ve had 3 removed in the past 3 years and another spot that came up recently 😭 but I try to be positive. With all that being said, Shane will be ok !! So will you 💖
This episode was filled with so much love ❤️
First I want to say that I've never commented on a video like ever, I never liked a video I'm just always a silent fan. I want to say that this is my first time commenting and this episode hit me so hard. When Alisha said our purpose is what we are presented with each day is totally true. I think I've never ever in my life related more to a content creator as much as Remi. Lowkey think we are the same person LOL. July was a very bad month for me too but I was also very optimistic and grateful, just like Remi was..there is this quote in spanish that i love it is "Mañana Sera Mas bonito" that even though today is crap you can always count on tomorrow being just prettier. Its crazy how much we have in common and i want to thank both of yall for being just so transparent and raw and real. Because unfortunately in this world in which we livein we dont get to see that much. So did i cry at work writing this yes. So thank you for the bottom of my heart ❤💜
Awww poor Rem 🥺 we love you so much and sending so much love and prayers 🤍
I appreciate you sharing with us and being so vulnerable remi! I love you (both) and hope august is great for you all ❤ also I totally thought for head injuries at e.r. that they’re not supposed to make you wait?