What's Dating Like For Black People In Korea?
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i wont be suprised in a few years time, a lot of single men will fly down there to date. The west is finished
Não é verdade, eles fazem a diferença 1:21
Black people, learn to love yourself and stop trying to please other groups of people. There is nothing wrong with you.
bravo.*
100 agreed. Peace
FACTS
Well said!!!
Thank you and God blessed
“It’s 50/50 they’re disgusted with me or love me.” Wow that hit me fr
It’s so true😭 one guy was all over me and one dude looked at me an ran away there is no in between i swear
That's literally how it is anywhere in the world.
@@user-gp1bt4vm3r exactly
Something tells me you can't prove that lmao
@@johnroe4551 Unless, you're getting 100% success rate with every single girl you flirt with in every single country you've been in -- the ones who rejects you, probably see you as undesirable.
As a black man, I honestly grew up believing we were the most beautiful humans on Earth. I think this is why I've never been disappointed or upset that another race/culture is not interested in me/us. I just see it as me becoming more aware of the world but never been disheartened. And it never caused me to enjoy a place any less. As long of the food is good and people offer me respect (which I return).
I used to think that my culture's people is the most beautiful too, then i realized that God doesnt want us to think that. #respect
"most beautiful human on Earth'' for real? That point of view is bad don't neglect other race beauty
@@theseattlesound1 I guess its only okay if we are talking about Angels. cause the bible identifies a most beautiful angel
@@rogar0x785 So not neglecting would be saying "everyone is the most beautiful"? my words did not put anyone down, I did not say I am more human, a better human, more capable, less capable, or entitled to anything. No one is neglected by my words. Maybe you are simply more comfortable with the idea of blacks and/or other groups fawning over european features or something
@@thaUnWavering " I honestly believe that my race is the most beautiful in the world" what the you call that?
I want to visit South Korea one day because it's such a beautiful place, this dating stuff doesn't bother me at all because I prefer being single and I live in a country where I get judged for choosing to be single so SK doesn't sound too bad lol. I do feel bad for people who are interested in having relationships with Koreans but I think its a bit weird to go to a country for the sole purpose of being in a relationship with the people from that country. Things like that have to happen naturally otherwise you'll be heartbroken or end up being partnered up with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
Preach. !
Can we date beautiful ❤️💖❤️. U being single is a choice and I respect that. After hearing many stories negative stories of people who are in a relationship will make u wanna stay single... But there's another side of it. That comes when you meet the right person. From your comment I see that u are a nice person. Can we be friends.
Yes sister single ladies club all the way
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Truth 🤍
The interviewer is a sorcerer! No words said, yet the people he's interviewing are pouring their hearts out. For real tho, this was actually quite refreshing to have a discussion where the host is purely listening and we just get to hear, uninterrupted, the guest's thought process. Love it.
Power of being a good listener
Or could it be that they rarely have people walk up to them for interviews since they are people of color so having someone of color walk up to them to talk to them and talk about real issues affecting them in Korea kinda made them more comfortable?
@@tosinyusuff9483 Ay good point.
Lol there cuts between the videos
@@alaosodiq4626 Read everything I said. The host just listens without interrupting and jumping in.
It is really sad to see how people discriminate against black people and use it as excuse by saying it is what they see on tv or social media. But when they see the same thing about white people it doesn’t change they view of them.
내가 tv에서 본 흑인들의 모습은 항상 동양인을 때리거나 죽임 난 흑인들 무서움
does’t change their view of them* Maybe they have stereotypes because yall cant even use proper grammar
@@2mac_mini952 who is this "y'all' that you're referring to? proper grammar or not having a stereotype about a race isn't ok and cannot be justified whatsoever. you're obviously a weirdo.
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Because white people are known to be coming from wealthy developed nations. Asians respect wealth and prestige more than anything.
As a brown person, I'm quite heartbroken over how a lot of people treat black people just because of their race. They could have so much to give and people don't find it good enough because of their skin colour? Man if black people set out to get revenge they would have enough heartbreak inside them to set the world on fire.
This happens within same race and similar skin color too. So nothing to fuss about it.
@@skagraw2yes it is we deal with pure hell and it sucks
@@skagraw2 You are full of sand.
What if they set out to get revenge?? The black dude straight up said he doesn't date anyone but black, no what if needed. Everybody knows about black people doing it too. It's the same thing and who really cares? Let people fucking date who they want. And when you are going to a different country maybe don't have the expectation that people there just have been waiting for foreigners with a different culture to come around so that they can date them. You are never going to be happy if you think you are entitled to being loved by strangers.
The tall girl prefers tall people, maybe korean guys prefer korean people too..?
Like she said you need to keep your self respect and not define yourself by what others think. And you should also not define who you date by what others think. Look for someone that wants you. If they don't want you, you are not going to negotiate a relationship.
Your right and that's actually what about to happen within the next 10 years
Wow, great video! The audio is perfect, the images are beautiful. The interviewees were great too in their answers. I lived in Seoul with my family for about 6 years. I was in middle school/high school in the French school (LFS) so I wasn't really dating at the time. But for sure, I could tell there's this ideal for them, especially the women, to rather date a white man than a Black man. Which is fine if it's your preference, but most of the time it's deeper than that and it's rooted in ignorance, stereotypes etc like the interviewees had said. Great video!
We as Blk ppl are discriminated against everywhere by everyone,wether it’s in the open or quietly. Remember that bros & sistas
Lol who tf cares get over it and enjoy life
@@Boomy2nicce obviously you do. Thanks for commenting….😏 works every time
@BadBlood_TheCommonGround ma'am
@BadBlood&TheCommonGround heard of freedom of movement
@BadBlood&TheCommonGround he said everywhere so where do you suggest he go then?
The French girl has such a wise and lovely outlook on the world even though she faces difficulty, what a sweet person! And I was amazed to see a fellow Alabama person in this video! Very insightful video as always. I don't know if it comes naturally to you to interview, but you do such an amazing job approaching people in multiple languages, so if it's way out of your comfort zone, I commend you extra!
Anybody know the insta of the tall black girl?
@@Mahalakshmi-Khan It's in the description lol
My question is, all these beautiful melanin people in the video huh why can't they date each other but it seems all of them are looking for Korean men and women to date and it's very very sad... Why is that? some body tell me please... something not right with us period
@@AlkebulanJahmiah i think it’s mostly because it’s hard to meet a black person there? Like if you’ve ever been overseas in a white/Asian prominent country you’d understand that it’s really hard to meet your own race. And most of the time when you do, they end up not being your type (body and personality wise)
She looks like a pretty praying mantis
So interesting hearing some of these responses .. whew! Deep.
This is a very mature and rich street interview. Love it
I am in Taiwan and one time a guy who was asking me out said to me he likes black girls as long as 'they are not sick or have infections'. I was very offended in that he is associating black people with disease.
That is disturbing
Yeah where tf would he even get that from. I dont even think the media is suggesting that part.
@@Spokentruths725 a lot of the people over there watch movies about africa and with they closed minds they will just ASSUME that’s how we’re all living!! So I wouldn’t get to mad about it it’s really just them being selfish and not wanting to learn more about other cultures other then there own
Ignorant comments like this used to annoy me. But at this point, I laugh at it and stay away from people like that. My first ignorant experience was with a kid in Thailand who asked me why I don't shower? Insinuating if I did shower I wouldn't be black. What's even funnier, is that I told a buddy of mine and he wasn't surprised at all. Because some girl told him he needs to stop showering with hot water. 😂 We can't fix stupid. But we can avoid it like the plague though.
Hi oumah
Just go to Korea and enjoy the food lol
😩😂🤣 period.
Period lol
Exactly 🙄😂
I go there quietly buy my skincare and nct albums comes back to my hotel or chill at the cafe alone but for first timers korean subway is going to be difficult
Facts💯
We have to stop searching relevancy and hope with people that don’t matter. We need to start worrying about ourselves and we will do much much better
I don't think they were searching for relevancy. That is their place of residence and they are sharing their experiences. Most of them didn't care if you noticed.
Excellent video, i appreciate the interviewing technique and the honesty of the responses. It ishelpful to have this knowledge, even if you never plan to travel to Korea.
All I have to say…it’s not a Kdrama, if you’re going to Korea to find yourself a Korean girlfriend or boyfriend then just stop because ITS HARD. Not everyone there is open minded to a interracial relationship, they mostly see black people as “easy” or just “fun” and most of the time they just know their family won’t accept it.
Hi rose 🌹
Dey should beez sticking to their own melanin peoples anyways. Dats why we don't beez having an empire.
@@gawo8375 that sounded so dumb i lost a few IQ points
yeah
Especially "Fun" Black men are viewed as Endowed men down there while it's not all of them are like that. But comparing to Koreans, I think They got a Chance to stand out, so many girls there will not take you seriously, maybe just for hookup, or no String attached thing, So if you try to put feelings on it, Bro, you will get a heart break in a second week like the guy in the video 😂
Who in the hell is going to Korea to find a date? 😂
😂 fan boys and girls 🤣
Punks lol
Lmao😂😂
It was highly unexpected for me tho but it happen ❤️😂
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣
ITS MOON THE NEW KPOP IDOL 4:28
It don’t matter where I go,I’m going to still date my PEOPLE. I love myself and black people too damn much, to be worried about being accepted by another race.
Facts
this the comment!
When I tell to my relatives that no matter where I go I will find my black soulmate they don't trust me .... I agree with you✨🖤
I travel for fun and I noticed a lot of my folk thought it meant I was searching for a foreign partner. And I'm like "they cool but I'm just there to experience the culture". My love and affection for us is my foundation for what makes me comfortable experiencing things unfamiliar to me.
Period
I wish every one who is enamoured with the Hulu Wave and are going crazy about the KPop, KDrama, KFood, etc., should watch your videos before going to Korea. It's a real eye opener. Everything boils down to how we are as a person, and how we adapt to rejection or acceptance. Listen to the wise words of, Moon, she said something amazing -dont loose your self esteem, try to understand what you need and what you want. Just be yourself and Love yourself. There no better words then these spoken by anyone. Too many stereotypes, beliefs, closed mentality exists in Korea. So go there with an open mind and a strong will.
I hate to say it but Koreans are just not interested in us black people. One, their close minded and two, they're just not into our skin tone. It's rough out here..
Anybody know the insta of the tall black girl?
@@Mahalakshmi-Khan yes I do know her Insta why do you. Ask?
The one actually going crazy about hallyu wave is European girls but most Koreans aren't into the hallyu wave sooo that's kind of awkward.
"Closed mentality" They shouldn't have to change their cultural ways to appease some outsiders 🤷🏽♂️. They have that right
I loved living in South Korea while I was stationed there. Outside of the dating culture the people are mostly warm and welcoming especially in more rural parts. As you get closer to the city, you’ll definitely notice a shift in how you’re received. Most times it didn’t bother me and my daughter noticed it as well but that’s where we educate and teach self love 💯. I’d go back in a heartbeat but not to date. Note that All of the black women had a different experience than the black men. You’ve gotta be completely secure in yourself in order to experience a different culture because they Will stare but out of curiosity more than anything. We’re breaking stereotypes. Well said by Moon ❤
Hi love
Am Bennett from Ghana west Africa …. Nice to meet you
Yes and go over there for something more in-depthful than all this dating. A lot of the people there know that's what so many westerner's go over there for so they have a mindset already unfortunate for us anyway. But if you go over there differently and just "let things" happen if it does then it can turn out well. All that meeting on them apps are problematic too.
Yea, all the black women had a hard time. The Korean women just go get what they want I guess 😂.
When our culture glorifies black women like Cardi B, Megan Stallion and Lizzo, I can see why Korean men would be afraid.
@@bennettaddo3792 Lol. No be here you go find love. Shift abeg
Saw a short and definitely enjoyed watching the whole video. Good stuff!
The French girl is so amazing ❤ this was a great video with great questions! Keep up the content.
so no one appreciates the interviewer's fits😍 .... just me okay
That bucket hat wasn’t it
i swear he has some good taste
Everybody’s drip 🔥😆
Thanks for making video; enjoyed hearing guest’s insight
Great video! It really taught me how powerful images are around the world.
The tall black girl is so sweet and beautiful 😍
yes she is !!!
Seriously!
Yup! She is!
wow, its interesting that people feel the need to racialize black people CONSTANTLY.... she couldn't simply be the tall sweet beautiful girl. in a video full of black people you still felt the impulse to racialize her.... nothing against you, you are just mirroring whatever society you are from but its interesting....
@ReiN The account is fake because omg a black person happens to be beautiful to someone?
It was really interesting to watch all the different opinions and perspectives. Keep making these type of videos K explorer.
Loved ❤ and appreciated the positive & uplifting ending! 🥰
Honestly, I will watch any video featuring Moon🥰✨️ She's so lovely and talented
Definitely been needing this video! Happy to see my people still thriving and traveling in a terrible world. Stay up, fam. 🙏🏽❤️
That why we return the treatment back in the the states. My uncle used to rob them all the time said it’s easy money.
I am brown girl. I have a friend who went korea for masters degree...she said she felt do ignored by the dudes there even when she is considered pretty here. Even the most average looking white girl had more boys's attention than her and her other brown/dark friends.
So??? Having preference is bad?? If they gave brown skin attention...noone would cared....if they bothering someone for skin... that's bad...not having preference on dating....its all preference...if korean are into white... what's wrong in that?? They not bothering you or killing you
It’s so very different for black women than black men in Korea and I wish he would’ve spoke more on that.
@@Mr.Eminem its not a preference. Nor its koreans only. In any part of the world people would choose white skin. Even in the west, dark skin is a trend. A trend by white people. Its not a preference if its highly influenced by colourist mindset.
I hope girls stop attaching their worth to men. You don't need male validation. You may fit into the beauty standards of one place, but may not fit in another place. It still doesn't change your beauty 🥀.
@@MyUmer10 i'm brown and i never had problems with getting dates in america...and i don't think it's a trend. we have a lot more mixed people than most of the world, it's not as simple as blanketing white people. we have all been exposed to each other. we let our society be heterogenous. places like korea, and the rest of the world that is still homogenous, will not be ready to mingle with others until they start growing up around them.
This was really refreshing and informative
Good video, enjoyed an intellectual discussion. All the people in the video clearly broadened their horizons and became better people from living overseas
Firstly, respectfully, everybody is so beautiful, including the interviewer! I love this channel- very refreshing content.💗
I’m glad that these people kept it real!!!! Very honest and real interviews!!
All the interviews were fire. The short British girl with braids is crazy intelligent. 🤩 🌹👌🏿
I’m glad I’ve never been that fascinated or interested in most Asian culture or food nor do I really have that much of a yearning to visit most Asian countries.
I also think it’s important to go to places that actually value and support you and aren’t just friendly to a black person because they think they’re famous or athletic.
I already support these countries when I buy products in the US where they may be manufactured, but I would never directly support or give money to a place that looks at someone as less than. That’s just me though.
they kept it so real here. i love it lol
The one tall dark girl looks asian herself.
She is 1/4 or 1/2 Vietnamese.
I like Moon's msg/advice at the end. It's not entirely new advice but the way she expressed it was non-preachy and well-explained.
She’s half-Korean so that’s probably why she can articulate the issue as such.
The last girl 😢 she was speaking to me through her own struggles ❤
Moon- half Nigerian/half Korean artist
Whatever the reason why you are in Korea, please be the best person you can be and don't stop being your best self. Also, don't let your reason for being Korea be the main reason you are trying to find a boyfriend and or spouse. Be there in Korea so they can learn from you. And if the Korean man and women, are not interested in you. Say Amen and move on, there are other races out there who would love to know you and be appreciative of you who you are. Do not lower your standards as an individual because you are valued and deserve respect as a person. Don't be discouraged! Keep your head up!
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Man, this channel is dope. I am brazilian, and i think i will travel to Korea in the future for study the language. So, manny thanks to you to share this videos.
Hey i just wanted to thank and salute you for the work that you do and the great, insightful content you create on your channel. I have been able to learn and gain much insight through your videos and feel like your open mind as well as your objective and unbiased style of asking them leaves so much space for people to reflect and express their thoughts and experiences. Very, very dope! Keep up the good work bro!
this is some great content i love how u just listen to people talk
Haha bro, loving your outfits in every vid, you remind me of MJ from back in the day
Again, a great interview! And your black sunglasses and leather jacket!?! So sick 😎👍👍
Honestly speaking, I'm over every race that looks down on black people. They can continue hating from outside of the club. Being black is a blessing even though shxts kinda Dangerous sometimes , but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's LIT! 🔥
A proud black South African woman. 🖤
Agreed. Very LIT ! 🔥 Signed, your sis, a proud Black American woman. 🖤
Say that again for the slow people in the back👏🏽🗣️🔊
Absolutely 🖤 it’s lit. I would not have it any other way 😊
BTW I really like how gentle man the Interviewer is. I just watch the video to see his mimics and gestures!
I LOVE THIS INTERVIEWER!!!! ONE OF FEW I SEE THAT DONT TRY TO INTERRUPT WHAT PPL IS SAYING FOR THE LOVE OF GOOODD
Problem with us black people we accept everyone we need to stop that tbh
EXACTLY. 1 billion percent fact. Even in our neighborhoods. They move in and yet for many of us trying to grow into the suburban life they discriminate. They can move into our areas with ease, but we are not allowed to move into their area. They can steal from our culture and pretend on the big screen, but they do not like seeing our films portraying us as upscale people. It is disgusting.
Huh?
And stop wanting to be accepted by everyone else. We have a problem frfr.
Hell yeah
So we need to do what we don’t like being done to us ?
Love the “tall” girls advice at the end! (Sorry didn’t remember her name) she seems so genuinely sweet
This was nice interviews. The last advice was on point❤😊🇹🇹
Moon is GORGEOUS!
It's not far fetch for a person to want to date within their own culture & language. Us black people should prioritize dating other black people
yes please do that instead of trying to go to korea to get girls
@@memrman8331 tf
You’re definitely right about wanting to date someone who’s in within your own culture but the thing that’s weird is having disgust or hatred towards other cultures. I just wish things were different ☹️
@@user-pg7gl2xd8i what is wrong with that
@@memrman8331 i dont think they're going to Korea to date, or promoting that. they made this video to show people who potentially might wanna leave the US (which is valid asf) what life is like in other countries
I love Moon’s page!
Been a follower for a quick minute.
The interviewer has a good sense of fashion👏🏽 great content too, they really said a lot
People in Korea (foreigners included) are so obsessed with dating. I cannot tell how many times people (boss, clients, friends parents, taxi drivers...) told me why don't you date a Korean man they are nice. It's giving "you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣
It’s like that everywhere because ppl understand the importance of relationships & family unlike there in America
😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying from laughter. Ur comment has made my day seriously. If I ever go to Korea I’m just eat food and taking pics and getting wasted. I’m not wasting my vacation trying to find a Korean guy or girl to shack up with.
@@daihughes7710 Honey you already know! So many things you can enjoy in that country. You may come back home broke and thicker but not heartbroken 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣
Interesting 👀
Moon is so cute❤️
I literally JUST started this video but like... everyone in this video are so beautiful like whaa?💜
All of us have prejudices some based on individual natural instincts and some based on economical, social n political baises. Best is not to get disheartened and keep open mind. Many times some event happens and you end up getting strong relationships of life time.
I agree, come to Korea just to enjoy the country and have fun💃💃! Love will find you if it's meant for you❤!
Agree with this statement wholeheartedly 😊
But the problem is sexpats go because of lust, not love.
His interviews are very classy.
This was very informative!
Very educational video 👍🏾love it.
Black people not “Blacks” we aren’t things.
They maybe acknowledging the different kind of "blacks". You know like the ones from England, Caribbean, American, Africa. Not everyone see you the way you see yourselves. Only "Black" Americans walk around calling anyone with hue Black 😂
@@johnroe4551 Then they should state where they're from! The whole world knows who Black Americans are. We have different cultures and we're built different from the others.
@@menewsome absolutely. I'm far from being a black American, but I'm still black. Lol
@@JKAnu-yq1tr I like to be called African American more then black tbh . We should
Make people call us by our ethnicity not a color
@@johnroe4551 doesn't matter mate. Black people. Its not that difficult. Nobody says whites or browns.
The interviewer is handsome 🥰🥰🥰💞💞💞
The chilliest interview ❤
I recognize much of that background as the Ville right outside “walk in gate” Camp Humphreys
I have dated a Korean guy here in the US once. It wasn't our culture that was the problem, he was just strange. I live in a highly Korean area in NJ and have a few Korean friends. Koreans are mostly dating each other. Its funny, this area is very diverse but we live in pockets. If Koreans live in a town with a lot of Koreans, its quite possible they do not interact with black people often. They are still hanging out with mostly other Asian people (All of Asia) and whites. They don't relate to black culture unless they have business that serve in Black areas (hair supply or nail salons come to mind). I would date Koreans again, but I just find the opportunity to meet one not so easy so it won't happen. For now I date a Ukrainian.
Oddly the same situation here in Georgia
@@ChieftainHawke facts🤣🎯
Edison?
@@graycat7704fort Lee or palisades park most likely
Pallisades?
either completely disgusted or love...that hit real deep
K explore you got some swag my guy.
That last message was spot on 👌🏾🖤🫰🏾
If you can, can we get a part 2?
French lady is so wholesome!
Wonderful interview.
Dope video my boy
your making me laugh, the way you was trying to keep your composure lool
the french girl is beautiful omg
Very interesting, thanks for sharing..
Thank you for this video!!
Moon is very pretty but I hate how so many comments are about her beauty. It’s like dark brown girls have to look/be mixed or exotic looking to be praised for their looks and I’m sick of it. The other women were beautiful also but I haven’t seen one comment about it. African features are demonized even by African people.
Moon is half black & half vietnamese apparently.
That french girl was spitting hella FACTS!!!!!
Good content !!
FINALLY AN INTERVIEW W MOON
Lmfaooo Homie With The Hat To The Side Funny Af
"keep it p"
@@nathancasey7712 😭😭
The female beauty gave the best advice especially towards the end of the video. Know and love yourself, never push who you are on others. They eye balling you anyways. Love yourself.
Very good interview
Great interview.
Moon is so beautiful 😍
I plan on moving to South Korea or studying abroad there. I’m black and these videos help a lot.
me too
I would just say to go with no expectations. Just vibe and roll with the flow! Have fun :)
Why South Korea bro? When you can go to Germany, France or Italy?
@@juventus6728 why not korea?
@@juventus6728 korea is a very interesting country the culture there is different and the architecture there is beautiful it would be amazing to learn that there ....the countries you named are not something I would look forward to visiting
From the sound of this keeping it 🅿️ is the way to go
I really enjoyed this video.
Well Done👏👏👏!!!
I’m a married American and not searching for anyone, yet I found this video quite interesting .
I loved hearing the views and advice of the people you interviewed . I appreciated them sharing their experiences and advice.
Thank you all!
감사합니다!
Is nobody goin too point out my boys outfits?? He killin em!!
Love This. I was just speaking to my sibling how I am going to start traveling to South Korea and Canada in the next year or two after I get my budgeting and passport situated. Thank You So Much For Sharing This!!! Very Helpful.
Got the best advice of the day from the last girl. So sweet
0:20 Wow interesting. I came upon her mv/song few months back and it's not bad at all. Nice to see her on here.
1:24 I have also experienced this multiple times in Korea, and they think it's a compliment when you say you're black. It's just awkward
Even them knows you are mixed race