This is true. I used to run my mouth all over the place when i was younger. I've learned the value of silence. Silence allows a woman to be more discerning. A woman with discernment is a powerful thing.
True... But that isn't the primary value of a "Silent Woman..." It's not necessarily for her personal Aggrandizement. But for service to others. Meaning, your discernment only benefits you. However, your ability to *"LISTEN"* benefits the whole!
right, but not always. I also think we have to look at the energy that people are embodying as there are men in their feminine energy and women in their masculine energy that can easily take on these roles as well.
She gets it. Only the holy spirit can have her speak with this amount of wisdom and truth. Women and men should line up to learn this blessesd truth.Continue to light it up my sista!.
She need to tell black women the truth....men like femininity.The black woman is like a man yelling and screaming and thuggin and they wonder why the black men dont like them.....their wisdom!
This is so true! As a woman I have always been a quiet person but in all my years of living I've realized that my silence has been my biggest strength at times. My silence has kept me out of a lot of trouble. I'm always observing even when people think I'm not paying them no attention.
And the things I hear when they think I’m not listening or just used to me being quiet or think I can’t put 2 and 2 together….😊Lucky for them I have the self control to keep it to myself and keep it moving
She's correct. To bad many of the woman will look at her and call her the very thing they call me. Mammie! It's power in our silence. I'm embarrassed by the woman I see today.
I have heard a circle of knowledge and wisdom out there, which I know is in direct synchronicity to this. It's just that this culminates an understanding to the point, which I am so fulfilled to have heard, and realised amongst us, indeed.
Exactly. Silencing women has been going on for millennia. Doesn’t change the fact that men are more dangerous to society than women. Most of the vio*lent crimes are committed by men and most of the victims are other men. Every woman is more likely to die at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of a pregnant woman is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Words definitely hurt but it is idiotic to talk about total annihilation of families with anything else. It has become a clown world.
For some of us this is true. I was silent for years in a toxic abusive relationship. I had to speak up and stand up for myself. At the same time, she makes a good point. There's a time and place for everything.
She speaks the truth. Being out of control hurts everything you love including yourself. Being silent and observing is controlling the situation and you learn more by watching and listening then by talking and doing. Something that took 40 years of my 62 years to learn
@@doodlepuddle7500yeah but a lot of women already say that. On the other hand women don't know when to shut up and when some woman does, females think she's a pushover or oppressed when that woman's above you all 😂
Facts i always tell the dudes around me a weak man is a dangerous one men are like glass when we break we hurt others this is why we need to temper ourselves it wont stop us from breaking it will make it harder to break but the most inportant part is when s tempered glass breaks it doesn't hurt others
💯👌CORRECT. Wisdom indeed! I’ve dealt with a lot of narcissistic men and other types for many years, and the skills I’ve learned to survive through that, will be with me the rest of my life.
This is a common phrase around women... men only hear "you dealt with a lot of men" question: what do you have that makes you attract A LOT of narcissists????
She is a lovely young woman, no need to mention she is black. Doing so keeps the problems going foward. Not doing it leaves the problems behind. In this way we move foward united.
You’re so right. I love my silence. It gives me peace and time to think of my relationship that’s been bad. Silence can be for improving what you want in your man, it’s up to you on your decision. ❤
Then you've totally missed the entire point. Because the Silent Woman must have the ability to *"LISTEN"* & take Correction, Direction & Instruction... Something you clearly have no interest in doing!
❤ This message is so perfect. I am 51 and my wife and I practiced this through bad and good times. It us common knowledge for us, but ut us good to get this out to the youth. Great message.
I always say whenever a women is in conflict with a man- silence and moving in silence is her most powerful asset- I have heard too many women speak too quick and have what’s spoken used against them- so when this amazing sister says silence is where a woman’s power is she is 💯 correct ❤
Facts. I use to be a hot head in my teens. Control my emotions . Especially the anger. Self reflection even for a moments keep me in line. Things done in anger can’t be undone in calmness or regret.
Thus the saying don’t speak in anger once you’ve said something you can’t take back what you’ve said! If your mad let it go till you calm down then speak calmly and clearly!
This is great wisdom. However, men also hurt women with their mouth. It is great to learn the art of quietness as a woman. Whether you are wronged or hurt, it turns out to be great strength. ❤
Yesterday, in a moment of anger, I had a beautiful woman smile at me. And her smile literally tamed this savage beast. Amen to her. May Saint Benedict protect her. 🙏🏻
@@dwaynejones7266Intelligence doesn’t come from what you know it comes from what you do and how you do it. So yeh we all may have known this information but most of us didn’t use it obviously. Look around us. Hello! So in my opinion she is intelligent and beautiful if she practices what she is teaching. You obviously need to keep your mouth shut a little lol!
@@dwaynejones7266 Perhaps it is ancient knowledge. I see no evidence to say she is not intelligent. She is a wisdom keeper and truth teller. With all of the 21st century bullshit distractions, it is a good thing she is repeating these ancient truths. She is part of long line of people who repeated it so you could make a snarky reply on CZcams that it has been said before.
@@poquitovibes9432 again your just saying what everyone knows 🤣 "IF she practises what she is teaching " So you don't know if she is living the life she talking about? lol She ain't teaching shit. It's basic knowledge, not rocket science. everyone knows what she said. How about "teach" something that people don't know . So nah, my mouth will stay open until you come back with an actual point with proper wisdom and intelligence that should keep my mouth shut lol
As a man a my lady is quiet it bothers me. It usually comes out weeks later when we are getting along. A man likes to talk and resolve the problem before we go to bed. The song mad by Neyo is so true
This is true. I used to run my mouth all over the place when i was younger. I've learned the value of silence. Silence allows a woman to be more discerning. A woman with discernment is a powerful thing.
Sooooo pretty 🎉
Agreed!
👑
"I used to run my mouth all over the place when I was younger"😅 classic female!
True... But that isn't the primary value of a "Silent Woman..." It's not necessarily for her personal Aggrandizement. But for service to others. Meaning, your discernment only benefits you. However, your ability to *"LISTEN"* benefits the whole!
“If you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who didn't cut you.” ~Anonymous
So deep 😮
So TRUE
Wow 😳
I love this
Whoa😮
Correct! Being silenced is different from being silent. That’s powerful!
Silence is golden... at the appropriate time. 😊
right, but not always. I also think we have to look at the energy that people are embodying as there are men in their feminine energy and women in their masculine energy that can easily take on these roles as well.
Learning to be silent and learning self control is a valuable attribute for everyone.
Exactly
❤Exactly ❤
Right right I was just thinking the same thing like wouldn't any healthy human need to learn both???
Learning to silence yourself is self control I'm not to sure If this lady thought this was some wise unheard of advice 💀
This !
This young woman is a breath of fresh air wise and elegant
Style & Grace ❤
Sounds like she had a good father
@@cannacare777and mother
Ye she seems like a brilliant person
She’s probably all that. But literally a copycat as well. A typical social media modern day talking head.
Good but not original.
She gets it. Only the holy spirit can have her speak with this amount of wisdom and truth. Women and men should line up to learn this blessesd truth.Continue to light it up my sista!.
Deep thoughts from a young woman.
I don't think I've heard anything better than this in a long time. That beautiful young lady nailed it
Not really
Definitely...
EL G ...Really! Come on!
Yeah that hit me cause I was that man she’s talking about and I been with women that was like that to so yeah she no wat she talking about
Same here.
😮 self control is a flex. Silence is wisdom.
Silence is golden staying positive and prayed up kelelah
@@ernestinetodd7744 “The best way to predict the future is to create it." - Abraham Lincoln
CORRECT 💯💯💯
Her quiet strength is her greatest asset..
Those words🔥 so full of wisdom
My granny said this way back in the day…little boys, watch your hands and little girls, watch your mouths. Shout out to my granny 🙏🏾
I love messages like this, it's not coming from a bias stand point but a balanced one.👏🏿
Yup that's what I was thinking
I'm brown
True
@user-pf7sx4kv7f this has nothing to do with the video or the comment so why say it
@@alr_ok__I_get_itbecause their entire life revolves on race instead of anything of real importance like content of character.
I'm glad she wasn't silent about this....pure FACTS!!
She was completely silent until I scrolled into this video. She waited for the right opportunity to speak 😊
Nigga, stop simpin she not speaking facts at all that shit ain't real life.. nigga u just simpin off the way she saying the shit😂
@shyguymuzik9095 If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it,does that mean the tree didn't fall 😂
@@WIZZYDAN 🤣🤣🤣
She need to tell black women the truth....men like femininity.The black woman is like a man yelling and screaming and thuggin and they wonder why the black men dont like them.....their wisdom!
This is an intelligent woman.
I can’t wait till I find a man that I wanna let speak till I’m spoken to that is goals, that is true respect and admiration in a relationship.
She gave me shivers, nothing but respect for the way she projects herself.
Lmfaoo yo i got goosebumps at the end 😂
This whole comment section is filled with incels… yikes
The most beautiful and wise words I've ever heard from a living lady so far. May the Lord bless her and all her beloved.
I knew this has to do with religion. A silent woman? They want to silence her so that they can grape her and she says nothing.
Thats real talk from a Black Queen 👸 Salute to you and God bless 🙏
When a person is broken.......stay away from them.
This is so true! As a woman I have always been a quiet person but in all my years of living I've realized that my silence has been my biggest strength at times. My silence has kept me out of a lot of trouble. I'm always observing even when people think I'm not paying them no attention.
Great thanks mem, from Nepal
I observe people who assume I'm not aware of them observing me.
The new me..silent is peace
I've always been observant even when I was a little girl and I still do it to this day.
And the things I hear when they think I’m not listening or just used to me being quiet or think I can’t put 2 and 2 together….😊Lucky for them I have the self control to keep it to myself and keep it moving
This young sister knows something... A woman with wisdom who gets it, priceless...
That's an oxymoron
She’s so pretty I’d probably agree with whatever she’s saying 😍
her mommy and daddy taught her that but she needs too understanding is an lessons too learned
This is actually really beautiful advice. I needed this.
She's correct. To bad many of the woman will look at her and call her the very thing they call me. Mammie! It's power in our silence. I'm embarrassed by the woman I see today.
Protect this woman at all costs! ❤👏🏾
If wisdom was a person
Hear, hear!
From whom??
You know what, I have nothing to add to your comment
Yes fack her ❤ her genes need to be scattered
If more people knew about these "pearls of wisdom", we would all be better off. What a smart and beautiful woman.
people do know but see the thing is that self control part will get to you
Who is This Young Woman? I Want To Meet Her. A Young Woman With That Much Wisdom is Rare.
I have heard a circle of knowledge and wisdom out there, which I know is in direct synchronicity to this. It's just that this culminates an understanding to the point, which I am so fulfilled to have heard, and realised amongst us, indeed.
Never again. 16 years of "learning to be silent" got me absolutely no where. Speaking my mind has been so freeing. No thanks! I got this.
Exactly. Silencing women has been going on for millennia. Doesn’t change the fact that men are more dangerous to society than women. Most of the vio*lent crimes are committed by men and most of the victims are other men. Every woman is more likely to die at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of a pregnant woman is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Words definitely hurt but it is idiotic to talk about total annihilation of families with anything else. It has become a clown world.
For some of us this is true. I was silent for years in a toxic abusive relationship. I had to speak up and stand up for myself. At the same time, she makes a good point. There's a time and place for everything.
Incredible wisdom from such a young woman. All praise to God.
I'm sorry but I disagree. This goes for both men and women
My late BF tried to tell me this 11yrs ago. He died 9 yrs ago and i get it now❤
She speaks the truth. Being out of control hurts everything you love including yourself. Being silent and observing is controlling the situation and you learn more by watching and listening then by talking and doing. Something that took 40 years of my 62 years to learn
She spoke nothing but truthful facts ❤ 💯
No, I’m saving this in writing it down. You are very wise speaker.
She is very wise and beautiful. God bless us all.
The word "Sophia" is feminine and means wisdom. In the Bible wisdom is referred to as feminine.
Woman Speak 🗣️ 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕
I receive this !!
I got to put this on Repeat !
Eternal Gratitude, Love, Peace, Truth, Compassion, Justice, Healing/Wholeness/Unity/Abundant Blessing, Royal Starseed
Sistah! Namaste! 🌌⚖️🕚🕚🌚🙌💯💐🧠
I actually never heard it said like this before. Totally agree!..
They say it's better to remain silent and be thought a fool...than to speak and remove all doubts....
*thoughtful you mean😅
@@MukoroJr😂
@Yung Muko I can't tell if you're joking. They said what they meant. No hate.
@@faxe1155 I just understood it now omg. Im completely wrong
@@faxe1155 Thank you for allowing to think further.
That was powerful. Preach it. Truer words have never been spoken. Legend ❤
I love it... pure knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Thank you for sharing ❤
Love a woman who keeps her mouth quiet instead of saying evil things
I love when men speak less and sensible
@@doodlepuddle7500yeah but a lot of women already say that. On the other hand women don't know when to shut up and when some woman does, females think she's a pushover or oppressed when that woman's above you all 😂
Love a man who builds his family and community up, instead of destroying people or things.
" If you have nothing nice to say, don't say nothing at all".....
Love a man who does what he says he's gonna do and doesn't lie. Men do destroy with their words as well
That's a wise woman right there. Look at the way she articulates her thoughts
Girl u speaking 😅
@@nerorandy3736LIFELESSONS101 SCOTTIE PIPPEN
LIFE LESSONS WISDOM KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING SHE IS POWERFUL ENOUGH SAID MIC 🎤 DROP
💛💛
Facts i always tell the dudes around me a weak man is a dangerous one men are like glass when we break we hurt others this is why we need to temper ourselves it wont stop us from breaking it will make it harder to break but the most inportant part is when s tempered glass breaks it doesn't hurt others
💯👌CORRECT. Wisdom indeed! I’ve dealt with a lot of narcissistic men and other types for many years, and the skills I’ve learned to survive through that, will be with me the rest of my life.
This is a common phrase around women... men only hear "you dealt with a lot of men" question: what do you have that makes you attract A LOT of narcissists????
@@partingalano kindness
This black queen is speaking facts 👏
She is a lovely young woman, no need to mention she is black. Doing so keeps the problems going foward. Not doing it leaves the problems behind. In this way we move foward united.
@@LadydogCYea, if we don't talk about racism the racists will stop being racist on their own.
@@LadydogC its ok you secretly don't like to see black folks given their praise. You're the problem.
@@LadydogC THANK YOUU!
@@LadydogCyou're the one who brought it up
This is wisdom from this sister. I wonder who her parents and role models are. Beautiful ,sister, and powerful.
📑 🧐
Hmmm Oooh lord🤦♂️!…
I wish Black Americans cultural norms, values, standards have all those attributes…
…Well educated…
James 1:19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
You’re so right. I love my silence. It gives me peace and time to think of my relationship that’s been bad. Silence can be for improving what you want in your man, it’s up to you on your decision. ❤
These are some of the most insightful words I've heard from anybody
This is VERY TRUE and people need to know this. I used tell people " Just cause I don't say ANYTHING doesn't mean that I didn't SEE IT."
Girl, yes, you ARE speaking wisdom, this is the second clip of you speaking I’ve heard. Wish I knew who you were!
💯 truth. When I’m upset, I take time to calm down so I don’t speak out of control.
You are a GODDESS..never heard a woman speak with that much truth..Peace to you queen..
Tell it like it is my dear sister! Wisdom speaks.. Blessings to you
Until you find out she's cheating.
Ahmen finally some common sense thank you young lady thus is something us older generations know but for whatever reason failed to pass on
Love every word she is saying because it's
True. Bless you woman!!!😊😊😊😊😊
This is right on the money
I stopped talking and cussing and started watching and paying attention
Now they worried
Then you've totally missed the entire point. Because the Silent Woman must have the ability to *"LISTEN"* & take Correction, Direction & Instruction... Something you clearly have no interest in doing!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nobody is worried 🤣🤣🤣
Because YOUR behavior changed. The easiest way to change the things around you, is to FIRST change YOURSELF. I commend you @The Phoenix
@@GMacII trust me I know about behaviour. I been a psych RN for 18 years and I know my behaviour wasn't always the best 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Someone taught this young lady something keep being you lady💯
It was me. She is gf.
So much substance and soundness🙏👑
Blessings to you both
❤ This message is so perfect. I am 51 and my wife and I practiced this through bad and good times. It us common knowledge for us, but ut us good to get this out to the youth. Great message.
Both of u remail silent after any argument or clash
How do u resolve Ur issue if u hav any complain to Ur partner...how do u convey if Ur hurt or being unheard
It is self-control for both, not one or the other.
we don't need more women like her, we women need to be like her. a woman who isn't bias with any gender, and respects both.
You mean we need more 'People' like her, not being biased towards any gender and respecting both should be practised by everyone not just women
@@TADAA-true
@@TADAA-agree
I always say whenever a women is in conflict with a man- silence and moving in silence is her most powerful asset- I have heard too many women speak too quick and have what’s spoken used against them- so when this amazing sister says silence is where a woman’s power is she is 💯 correct ❤
Damm she gave words to my thoughts
Facts! Once you finally speak… then the person will feel more like shit because they can’t manipulate you any more… silence is key.
Facts. Ik more than said.
Why do you want them to feel like sh*t? 😂 Your aim should be to enlighten them. If they feel like sh*t afterward, so be it.
Now that I’m older and been through some shit this hit a whole lot harder…real shit though
Facts. I use to be a hot head in my teens. Control my emotions . Especially the anger. Self reflection even for a moments keep me in line. Things done in anger can’t be undone in calmness or regret.
@@theblackmoth1111well said bro.
Thus the saying don’t speak in anger once you’ve said something you can’t take back what you’ve said! If your mad let it go till you calm down then speak calmly and clearly!
This is great wisdom. However, men also hurt women with their mouth. It is great to learn the art of quietness as a woman. Whether you are wronged or hurt, it turns out to be great strength. ❤
“Wow that was so well said and so true as well” Salute to her she’s a beautiful black Queen👏🏾🙏🏽❤️🇨🇻
That woman showed what true power is, self awareness and self control.
You just nailed it girl...too good of wisdom 😊
Yesterday, in a moment of anger, I had a beautiful woman smile at me. And her smile literally tamed this savage beast. Amen to her. May Saint Benedict protect her. 🙏🏻
Ahh finally a person who spoke the actual fact for both men and women!! Huge respect for you gurl !!!
She's spitting game. Wisdom is universal-- it comes from the ones you least expect.
My Grandmother taught me That "U learn ALOT by listening 2 someone"rather than talking 2 someone
Pot of wisdom,This is a proverbs 31 woman,Blessed is the man who married her
It's evident you have been observing because you chose the right opportunity to speak those wise words and your delivery is perfection.
True. But the question is how?
No doubt
Wow, This is ABSOLUTE wisdom & understanding! Thank you for passing this knowledge the way you did, this is TRUE Soul work 💪🏽
And Spirit.
Girl you got your shit TOGETHER!
What a powerful word. Anyone lack wisdom let them ask of God. Amen
That's why we have such a respectful and loving marriage, because we always learn from every experience and appreciate the value in each other.
How do u communicate if u r hurt or any complain to Ur partner ....
AMEN!!!!!
This is actually worth taking a moment and recognizing.
Thank you!
Yes beautiful woman I so agree with u and thank u for the wise words ❤
True.
Silence is and will always be golden!!
This is absolutely right in every way. These words will change my life.
There is so much power and wisdom packed into this short clip. If we take heed to it…unstoppable.
Well said. Self control is a fruit of the Spirit. This beautiful woman is impeccably wise.
Correct
I always being silent
But when my time come I respond😊
Yes it’s something I’ve learned to master 😊 it makes so much difference in the way people treat you and view you! #respect
We need women like this❤
Or...*more women need to be like her
This is probably one of the best quotes ever spoken by a woman
Give that woman an academy award, she's a hell of an actress I'm sure.
First one of these platforms with substance. Thank you!
That's the realest thing I've heard today 💯💯💯💪🏿
Every single word you said is precious and has a meaning
Amen sis you have just described me, it took time to develop the level of self dicipline i have attained.
I understand why you say this...I was wrong you was right...💯
She is so intelligent and also so beautiful
She's not that intelligent. It's common sense. People knew this 10000 plus years ago
@@dwaynejones7266Intelligence doesn’t come from what you know it comes from what you do and how you do it. So yeh we all may have known this information but most of us didn’t use it obviously. Look around us. Hello! So in my opinion she is intelligent and beautiful if she practices what she is teaching. You obviously need to keep your mouth shut a little lol!
@@dwaynejones7266 Perhaps it is ancient knowledge. I see no evidence to say she is not intelligent. She is a wisdom keeper and truth teller. With all of the 21st century bullshit distractions, it is a good thing she is repeating these ancient truths. She is part of long line of people who repeated it so you could make a snarky reply on CZcams that it has been said before.
@@poquitovibes9432 again your just saying what everyone knows 🤣
"IF she practises what she is teaching "
So you don't know if she is living the life she talking about? lol
She ain't teaching shit. It's basic knowledge, not rocket science. everyone knows what she said. How about "teach" something that people don't know . So nah, my mouth will stay open until you come back with an actual point with proper wisdom and intelligence that should keep my mouth shut lol
I love Prophetess Double Grace. She 's such sweet person and her mom is such a sweetheart
I think that's the most truthful thing I've ever heard through this app ever
As a man a my lady is quiet it bothers me. It usually comes out weeks later when we are getting along. A man likes to talk and resolve the problem before we go to bed. The song mad by Neyo is so true
I love it, “She is right”,and the way she speaks makes it sound even better.
What is her name?
Jesussss sis is speaking nothing but facts and wisdom‼️‼️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That's So True 💯🙏🏾Amen to the Words of Wisdom!!!🙏🏾💯❤️❤️😊