Why Do the 16 Personalities Achieve Their Goals (or Fail)?
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You underestimate my power to ignore and not care! I've literally 10-minute snoozed for 4 hours. Many times. And I still haven't even started my 2020 taxes...
Didnât see the ad and the video links...
Me an INFP:
Wanna learn about the universe
Wanna learn a new language
Wanna write some fiction and poetry
Wanna learn guitar
Wanna finish my drawing lessons
Wanna learn something interesting
Then ended up doing nothing cause I just don't feel like doing it.
Dreaming
Thinking
Possible interactions with people we actually have never met
Imagining starting a new life in a new location
Its tiring...
exactly.
Yup. I don't feel so alone now. I don't understand why I do this and I get angry at myself.
RIGHT???? I'm an ENFJ, and I experience the same thing!
OMG that's soooooooooo true...
As an ENTP myself, why do I succeed? Because it comes easy to me.... Why do I fail? Because it comes easy to me.
As an ENFP, this made me think I may be an ENTP.
NEVER CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT EVER AGAIN
@@averyvincentavner472 well that isn't an ENTP thing to do
THIS IS WAY TOO ACCURATE
@@averyvincentavner472 That is not something that is exclusive to ENTPs tho. Type does not presume competence nor intelligence, and perceivers in general tend to be like that when things come easy.
Frank James is slowly turning into a online (free) personal life coach. Lucky subscribers
Ixxj: *has a prefect plan for life*
Reality: Haha you thought!
Ixxj: oh sh**
Yup. I'm an infj married to an intj and this has happened to us more then once. We over plan and then reality is like "ha!ha! I will create randomness and chaos"....We don't like chaos.
I am an INTJ and I dont know how to apply for a job.
Now imagine if those 16 Personalities became friends. It would be like my room, a whole mess.
INTJ, INFP, and ENTP is the best combo of types, prove me wrong
@@settheray2jerry1 prove yourself right...
@@settheray2jerry1
well assuming their all "underdeveloped" like most ppl... whose going to teach the next one good ol fashion Si/Se ?... interesting
People: Are you done thinking about it? Can we start?
IPs: Never!
Lol
Yep... I have thousands of ideas in my mind and that's where they stay
Yes, I marinate. I feel a bit pushed.
Am I living in a simulation?
@@louisejoelyes
Frank : "You probably have goals, aspirations, things that you want to go after in life"
Me, an INTP : nah not really actually
maybe not clear goals, but I'm sure you know what is you _never_ want to be.
Fits better with the problem-seeking negative INTP mindset.
I never want to be old but that's an unrealistic goal I avoid thinking about
Don't you want to go to the moon or something?
@@Tilnaor yeah I know, I said it for the joke mainly, I actually know where i'm going with my life for once, let's hope it lasts đ
@@louisejoel Well, we have the same fears apparently
so basically:
EJs have to also focus inwardly
IPs have to also focus outwardly
EPS have to limit their flexibility and flow of ideas
IJs have to broaden their flow of ideas and be more flexible
Or in other words: use the opposite MO than what you're comfortable with. This is why we all need help from other people. Whether that means getting a business partner, a life partner, a life coach, or regularly bouncing your ideas off of your friends(preferably all of these), it is very effective to apply the "Two(or several) heads are better than one" philosophy.
Infp: DONT TELL ME WHAT TO DO
Entp me already done a big project passively , by 2 year gap of study, i knew what fe wants, doctor title just bunny title for me, cz it dont even sell or recognised people that much (yes after a while they forget for sure)
The fact I already know as an ISFP that my absolute absence of discipline and my "If I don't enjoy it why do it?" mentality are what hold me back-
Itâs truth though. Why do it?
@@loisrabies8713 that's how I see it. But more disciplined people around me say that sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do to progress in life. I guess that's right, but it's such a gloomy way of seeing it isn't it? Or am I just too careless?
My idea of progress in life is to know myself better and be on better terms with myself. If I must do something for it that I don't like, well, then one day I'll get sick of myself and do it and be proud...
As an IP type, I also think "What if I realize later on that this doesn't actually make me happy and I just wasted time?" and so I do nothing đ
@@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 no we just enlightened đ
INFP here. I didn't start experiencing success until I actually stopped listening to other people telling me that I couldn't do things. I started just doing what I wanted to do, and it works way better than listening to "realistic" people. Who actually aren't that realistic at all, they are just afraid.
Thanks fellow infp
INTP here. Same. I do it my way or I just don't.
I agree completely.
Some people get stuck on their own ideas of HOW something should be done instead of the outcome. Sure I do not get my children ready to go like most personality types but they do get ready to go. I usually give myself 5 or 10 extra minutes to get out the door.đ -ENFP
I feel like INFPs can do anything, even careers/pursuits that aren't typical "INFP things", as long as we feel strongly about it
Video idea: 16 personalities in the hunger games
Which personality will survive and which die firstđ
May the odds ever be in favor đ đ đ
INTJ: Wrote a to do list on the back of their hand with bullet point lists under each one, killed in first 2 minutes.
INFJ... ALONE, HIDDEN, SURVIVED.
INTP's: Have a good tactic and are under the last five
INFP: 0 survival instincts, 0 coordination, 0 will to fight.
Let's be honest, we will be the first ones to die - fellow INFP.
I've noticed that the less preoccupied and overwhelmed I am with achieving goals, the better I am at achieving anything.
As an INFP, doing anything at all is so hard, even if it's something I like. If it's something I like the issue is there's always multiple other things I like that I want to do and I can't decide which one I'll like doing the most so I end up doing nothing. If it's something I don't like the issue is I'll never feel like doing it so I don't until I absolutely HAVE to. If it's a bigger goal I'm working toward like a career I get so stressed out because I start to think that what if once I get there I find out that I actually don't like what I'm doing and I just wasted all this time and money on school? It's so hard to actually commit to something because I want to know for sure that I'll like it and that it'll make me happy because if I'm not happy then I just don't see the point. But I know I just have to take that risk because I'll never know for sure until I get there and if I never go anywhere I'll never be happy
Same and thatâs why itâs impossible for me to find a dream career
now that comment truly convinced me that i am an infp cause same bro same
Yeah so I actually need to push myself even if I donât want to because if I donât Iâm just stuck in that one phase forever
Exactly. I guess we just gotta let go sometimes, go with the flow, and not care where the wind takes us
As a fellow INFP I felt this to the core. However, I have recently become slightly more enlightened :) I have lost count of how many times I have been accused of starting things that I don't finish and to be honest I don't regret that anymore. I have found a lot of things I don't like and continuing to do them felt like a waste of my time considering that at the end I wouldn't have revisited them anyway.
I would advise you to try and let go of that need to "know for sure this is for me" and go with "let me try this and see if it's for me". If it's not, don't fret about it. Just drop it and move to the next thing you want to try. If you find that you enjoy something, continue doing it but at the same time keep searching for other things you might also enjoy, applying the same tactic.
There is nothing wrong with trying new things and finding that they are not for you. As a matter of fact, I think for people like INFPs it should be encouraged, given our span of interests and thirst for knowledge. You'll regret not trying later on when you start thinking "if I had started this last year, I would have come so far".
For me the problem was always that I wanted to do too many things at the same time but I've learned to deal with that by making lists. For example, writing down what I want to do today, just to declutter my head and have a clearer picture of what I'm aiming for. The satisfaction of cutting each item off the list is enough to get me to go through all of them and by having a list you get to have that sense of satisfaction for each one. This can be applied for career goals / choices, travel destinations, hobbies and so on.
Also, try to consider that everything you do teaches you something. Even if it was a good outcome, a bad outcome, a good choice or a bad choice, you learn something from everything you do. 'Cause you said that maybe you work really hard and invest a lot of money and time into getting a job that you might not like. That's fine too. You never know how the things you learned for that job can be applied in other areas as well. I'm not saying everything is peachy, perfect and easy but thinking in such a negative manner is really not helping you so why think like that at all? Just take the lesson and move forward to the next adventure.
Also, when something goes wrong (even if it's your thoughts going wild) the first and most important thing you need to do take a DEEP BREATE!
P.S. 4 months late but I still hope it helps in any manner.
INFP: look, in my daydreams all my ideas manifest into actual real stuff and it works out great, so do I reeeally need to take action? Just not feeling it right now...
ENFP same thing but MUST INTERACT WITH STRANGERS
Do you know of the LAW OF ATTRACTION?
If we INTP's are like this.. We will manifest it more..
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Literally međ
My dreams have always been the realist thing, I donât like reality. I donât even feel like I exist, merely a more a time-bound consciousness
INFP here
Yep I am an idea person. I have lots of ideas in my head. I take him out every once in a while and play with them.
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As an INTP, the fact that there are people who suppress their inner voice baffles me.
Same here -ISFP
Yeah, as an INFP I'm not really sure how that works.
I don't know either, for me, I am the inner voice, the body, just a tool.
-ENTP
Me as INTP who wants to learn Spanish: *Damn this video could not have come at the right time. Gracias amigo.* â€
@@lalim499 Sorry. I will fix it.
@@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 Youâre ok đ It made me chuckle
@@lalim499 what was it?
@@lalim499 At least you find my mistake humorous. Thanks for the correction by the way.
I ended up specializing in Spanish in college (itâs a sort of convoluted story)!
ENFP teacher here and lesson planning is my personal hell.. you mean the kids won't just vibe and get what I'm laying down??? Kabdksndjdiks
I know...This is my struggle as well. -ENFP
Do INxJs struggle with trying hard to process what's going on at the moment while all the other people can simply be receptive of them? Then you wait for the scenario to get over so that you get time to think about the events later however, the same cycle continues...
That's definitely true for me. Usually in a work situation, I'll be in my planned out routine, then get a curve ball thrown at me. Stresses me out in the moment, but later I look back and think, 'well I could have done x,y,z and no stress.' đ€ Itâs hard, but learning to let go of control.đ
I canât speak for everyone, of course, but that is kind of the case for me (INTJ). I donât like dealing with new, unplanned things, and I will generally avoid them wherever possible and think over whatever it was later on. If I really have to get involved, I like to at least take a few minutes to think things over first.
@@middlekiff2663 Yeah... I really don't do well with the unexpected.
@@StephanieJeanne yes exactly đ€, even if not exactly planned, we have an idea of how things are supposed to happen. If they don't go that way, we get clueless and blank.
@@middlekiff2663 exactly
I am an INFJ who does a lot of stuff, takes forever to get around to finally start and then runs into things head on, but almost never finish anything. I only just discovered how much I plan other things, so I have decided to try adding more journalling and planning things everywhere.
Would you ever consider doing a video with the 16 personalities interacting with each other?
Yes.
We.
Need.
This.
Now.
We can do this on FJ anniversary
If you want this kind of videos dear kirstin has a lot of them
@@chisol3508 Kirsten is too stiff. Hers are slow and arenât really funny.
INTJ me: having a mental breakdown for a week now because my plan got ruined by a small inconvenience... yeah I feel attacked
Same! It's why I don't like surprises, also, even if they are good ones.
Same! My best friend is an ENFP and always telling me "Why are you trying to always plan everything ? You can't think of every detail. There will always be something more you won't have thought about.."
He gives me nightmares.
I am having a mental breakdown for always staying up late to study then cant wake up for zoom meetings.
Glad I showed up for class today, I was afraid it may have been canceled.
EXXP life: "Makes a todo list"
Why must my empty shell live in this prison?
It is so strange how different from one another people could be... like for me an IJ type if I don't have a completed todo list I lose my mind... but EP types feel trapped by that
â@@bethanyabigial7416 Oddly enough i love idea journaling, and also love using reminders because it means i don't have to remember. I think the big problem with todo lists that people often solely use it for what they should do, not for what they can't wait to do. They are their own tyrant they rebel against.
@@dracsharp Wow that is profound
You are right, I don't put things I want to do on my to-do list because I don't have to tell myself to do them... I guess that is the point, but it is also kind of sad
Hmm. I'm an entp, and I like doing to do lists and ticking it off cuz it's like tricking unself into being productive, and I love being productive and knowing I haven't wasted what little time I have on earth. So idk, it's kinda satisfying. I'm not productive very often, so Imma try to improve myself haha
But I mean I hate routines and planning... sounds tedious
Silly frank, INTPs don't have goals, somewhere along the process of finding something that is worth achieving that's also realistic, doable and provides value we just give up due to the cumulative exhaustion of going through all of these ideas.
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As a Istp I can relate so much, like I need to know everything to get started like I wanna do so much stuff but I just donât know whatâs right or wrong
I can relate to that a little bit being an ISTP, but I actually take the time to acknowledge what the hell I want and then I go for it, unfortunately though when I get too involved my brain just stop thinking about that specific project and I start going into tangents and other projects and goals I wanna accomplish. What I realized is that Itâs âeasyâ for me to start something, but to continue on that is more complicated, and itâs so frustrating and annoying
Frank James is like anti-anxiety, anti-depressant meds only better and without the damn side effects! Heâs the âFeel Goodâ Dude of CZcams!
This made me realize working on a project with an IJ as an IP might have been a good balance of an IJ disliking research while an IP taking too much time gathering information. He kept coming up with brilliant ideas while I tried to make sure if everything was right.
Yes. Frank is basically saying to use more of the opposite MO than what you're comfortable with. This is why we all need help from other people. Whether that means getting a business partner, a life partner, a life coach, or regularly bouncing your ideas off of your friends(preferably all of these), it is very effective to apply the "Two(or several) heads are better than one" philosophy. Take Rhett & Link for example. They have described their creative process as usually Rhett(INFP) comes up with several ideas, then Link(ENFJ) works with him to narrow it down and finish it off. There's a lot of back-and-forth, and they both feel they have equal input, so in the end they can honestly say, "This is OUR creation."
ENFJ - I realized this problem a couple of years ago and started working on it, but it's still kind of difficult to not get carried away by other people's needs. I tend to try and accomodate what others want into my own schedule and goals, like trying to convince myself that doing that (whatever the other person wants) will also be advantageous for me... but many times it isn't and just delays me in achieving my goals. In the end I am happy about what I achieved with the other person, but frustrated about my own goals...
CZcams: hey there's a new 16 personalities video
Me: not now
CZcams: it's by Frank ja..
Me: already in there
CZcams: ....
CZcams :
:|
Lol
@@chocolatebar2306 mortal..u seem familiar đ§
@@bubbleteabeatboxx lol
"Thanks for sitting through that" Frank said, as I immediately paused the video.
There it is again, the same feeling every time. This itchy, slightly burning feeling of shame, deep inside of me. My eyes glide to the upper-right corner of the browser window, to the red octagon of the Adblock Plus Chrome extension. The redness of the icon represents the way my face would have reddenned, should I ever look in Frank's eyes in person. Those eyes. Those beautiful, honest eyes, the very eyes that watch me from the paused video frame, as if telling "You haven't sat through anything, have you? It's okay, thanks for that anyway". The burning inside is overwhelming. I reverse the video 5 seconds, copy the URL right before the ad should start, open an incognito tab where the Adblock is disabled, paste the URL and press Enter. I must do it. I must earn his thanks, I must SIT THROUGH THAT.
Spoiler: YT didn't show the ad anyway, so I thought at least I can write this thing. Maybe someone will have a giggle.
LOL
5:43 that's exactly what we INTPs suffer from in our lives at the end of the day not finishing any project or work just gathering information as much as we can from all resources that's really what steals large part of our time
As an ENFP... I knew this on some level, but you've explained it so clearly I was laughing and crying at the same time.
Someone: how are you going with that [thing you excitedly committed to]?
Me, having moved on thrice since then: um... good? What was it again?
Someone: so when do you think you'll buy a house?
Me: a house is way too permanent for me.
I know I should be going back but I just... struggle so much with this... and it's so hard to explain.
Thank you for putting it into words xx
Iâm an ENFP and my goals got halted completely due to almost global shutdown . I had been cranking out life goals for 5 years prior to this. I had to completely rethink my goals and have temporarily abandoned old goals. Iâve put my ladder on a new wall (goals) so to speak with completely new focus because the aggravation is so great. So, no, I cant bare the piece by piece and lack of spontaneity and am bitter about any infringement on my self determination.
"You need to have a plan"
Me *an enfp*: I don't think I will đ
I am an ENFP too
I pretend that I can make a plan but I can't đđđ
Have u make a friend with INTJ
I wanna so bad but I didn't found INTJ in real life yet
My brother and sister are both INTJs. Iâm a lucky ENFP!
@@sherazkarkokly3193 haha yes one of my close friend's is an INTJ
@@pepsicola0786 why are you so damn lucky
I am an INFJ with an ESTP-husband. Believe me, after 5 years in that relationship I'm not afraid of NOTHING anymore.
infjs can adapt to groups easily, but adapting to a new job is deadly
Facts. Just when I think I've got the hang of my job (I started 5 months ago), my ESTP boss throws something new at me.
A dream for me is having a food truck. I think it's great for an ISTP because when I hit my human interaction quota, I can just close the window and drive away. Having the truck: dream achieved. Actually making a living that way: find a new dream.
Yeah, establishing a customer base requires reliability. The great thing about being your own boss is that you can set up your operation the way that suits you. Perhaps you could find someone who is suited to interacting with customers to do that part of the work while you do the non-social tasks.
I had this idea a while ago, but I also would like to make the truck a mobile house to live in, to avoid neighbors and more social interaction, but to also be flexible with the places I can go and to be prepared to move along with my necessities in life
Very insightful, Thankyou!
That was really helpful. Thank you Frank.
Amazing video! Thank you so much Frank! đđđ
i showed the EP section to my sister (who is an ENFP) when you said that you have to stay organized she pushed away my phone and said ânoâ đ
That intro was perfect đ
Good advice. Thank you for another good video, FJ. đ
i love your gesticulations
and i also love that description of EJs because that's REALLY my struggle
Thanks a lot of enlightening my dayâŠalso I love your new intro đ
Im so glad you did a sit-down-talk video againnn i miss it so much! I love hearing ur personal stories and prespectives! Ur early videos helped me so much with my emotional growth thankyouđđ
This has been really helpful.
As an ENTP I can totally relate and yeah I do accept the advice Frank gave. These are so true.
How Frank does so well đł
Me and my friends love Frank's videos đđ»
Oh my gosh, tell me all the great stuff, gimmme!!!
It's so crazy to see how much this channel has grown and how much Frank has changed
Frank: In order to achieve success, you need to be organized; you need to have a plan.
ENFP: *nervous hehe-*
Just signed up for the Fabulous program. ENTP (51% feeling vs 49% thinking) here and looking forward to actually getting things done. lol I have been following your channel for quite a while and my kids and I enjoy your sense of humor. My son is an INFJ and my daughter is an ESFP. I show my ISTJ husband as well and he watches because he loves me. haha! Just wanted you to know I was here and look forward to your videos whenever they come out. Frank James is a household name around here. :-)
Infj here. But also live with a chronic illness that makes every moment of every day unpredictable! I keep wondering why other folks with chronic illness can actually manage running a small business etc. I guess it's because they roll better with the constant battery of punches, lol. Oy.
Same here. My mental illness has diminished my energy level greatly
You are gold brotha
Who else kinda has a crush on Frank đ”ïžââïž
Who doesn't.
as an infj i feel so appreciated watching you
PREACH đ Not that it will make people change, but at least Iâll know why we all wonât đ
Can you make : 16 personalities winning an argument (but they hurt the person's feelings)?
Laughs in ENTP
@@CigaretteCrayon this would be the best win for ENTP, especially if there are tears involved on the losing party đ
Oh no, Fe doms would probably get their own feelings hurt in process. But thatâs a good idea.
đ I'm an INFJ
@@CigaretteCrayon mad ENFP can beat entp
I just love how he pop ups outta nowhere
Hi! I'm an ENFJ and I strongly agree with everything you've said about EJ types in this video. I've always just been doing what everyone around me has wanted me to do and even though I've succeeded at those things, they've never really made me feel content or given me a sense of achievement. And your advice of taking a step back and trying to understand myself... I've really been trying for the past two years. I'm in my final year of university and I really want to figure out who I am before I go out there but it is really difficult. I feel like building a sim that's exactly like me just to help myself understand what I stand for and who I really am. Thank you for this!
I really enjoy your channel man keep up the great content đŻ
As an INFJ, routine is the best but things do happen. Always remember this, a few trusted friends who are EJs go a long way when you need help getting back to your routine or doing what I call the "Friendly Trustfall" into what your new routine is. Being alone sucks so have a plan for that
Well Explained.
INTJ here...Sometimes the issue isn't getting tripped up by new real-world issues; its wanting to be perfect, so doing too much research or too many experiments...or being wrong once and not trusting your instincts to press forward with something else.
Idk what to say man, you just summarized the thing I really struggle with as an ENFP. I always have trouble making decisions and sticking with them because it all seems so funđ
Love the opening! It's like Amy Santiago showing Gina her flashlight presentation.
I see myself in all of these...I thought by developing E/P I'd escape I/J issues but I see I just added to them lol. Very interesting. I'm so effective at creating a false front but the thing I'm actually passionate about i hesitate bc need perfection and stuck in endless possibilities keeping me from taking action, while panicking whenever I'm thrown slightest off plan smh lol. THANK YOU so timely!
"It's no surprise to me I am my own worst enemy...đ¶" -Lit also INFJ đ always enjoy your videos Frank...it's nice to have a community where the personalities are explained so we can understand ourselves and each other better. đđâ€
I absolutely love the apps that you promote. I signed up for birdy, Squarespace and love this new one. I would start little too, with just drinking waterđ ... And someone telling me all right LaRae, you did a really good job drinking water today your awesome!đ€Ł
As someone who's more of the INTJ variety, I find what I struggle with the most is just forming a network of people. Moving from my head to the real world can obviously take me forcing myself to do things, but much more so, it's harder for me to communicate with people what I actually mean. Especially without taking on a condescending or hurtful tone(because I feel like I'm being forced to translate the obvious) that inevitably gets misinterpreted as me being rude or hurtful for no reason. Apparently, people don't like that.
Can't agree more.
Well maybe a bit of perspective, from this friendly ENTP, might help you with that.
If what you know or think seems obvious to you, is only obvious because it is on your head and you understand it. But in the same way, what is obvious for others will not be obvious to you. So the same way you might expect others to be clear and give the proper and important information to you, you should try and do the same to others. You never know what the other person knows, and it is illogical to expect people to know about everything just as quite probably you are not an expert on everything. So while you might know more about "x" they might know more about "y". And being more charitable on the expected competence on people, people might surprise you. Again not everyone has to be good at "x" you might find that person that sucks at it, but is great at "y" which is were you suck, and then you can complement each other.
@@farrex0 That's not really the issue. I don't expect everyone to know everything. It's the fact that I have to explain things at all that bothers me. Things should just make sense the first time around. Obviously they don't, but knowing that and expressing that at the spur of the moment are two very different things.
So true...
What bothers me is that my brain works a mile a minute sorting through potential future variables that might come up, how to deal with them, then moving on, so I go from initial concept to fully fleshed out plan in a matter of seconds. Then I explain the plan and people keep bringing up "but what if..." things that to me were obvious and I already sorted through them, so it is like going on a hike, getting to the end, and half the group has barely left the original trailhead. Super annoying.
Infp hype! :)
Ok I am definilty and ISFJ! I donât have a job currently but on my usual routine something went wrong and I freaked out! But I have been getting better about that and asking for help when I know I need it. Also it doesnât gelp I have had so many obstacles in my way like I just moved where I am living now a few months ago, didnât know many people so donât know who I can trust, am legally blind so I have to rely on others for rides and have a limited time, live alone right now without all of the people and friends and family in my life that I normally get help from but thank God it all work d out in the end! Anyways I love these videos they are helping me so much to see the world differently and recognize patterns in why people o have known for years do the things they do! Like for example I am introverted and so my mom asks me to call for her because she doesnât want to call but I also canât say no I just work up the courage to do so! Lol
Iâm glad you tell us things we need to do to improve on instead of telling us what we want to hear just to get views. I really appreciate it
The juxtaposition of this room TrIgGeREd me so much, the roar in my ears deafened me to what he was saying and tinged everything in red... đ .
But I got over it and replayed. Nice vid.
Such a wonderful person! đđđ
As an IJ type I can only agree with that.
I've tried so hard to get better though. Started DMing for a D&D group, hoping it would help with improvisation. It took me 2 years to finally put my plans into action. And then I realised I've passively planned easily 2 years of a campaign with weekly sessions and now I don't know how to reduce it. It's getting better though, but it's a very sublte improvement.
I like to say "I'm flexible, but only if it works around my plans and with at least 24 hours notice, preferably a week."
As a 60+ IJ, I have to say I've gotten very good at seeking out new information and being open to it. I also learned a lot about being flexible when I worked for a catering business for over 20 years.
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Can you make a video about how INFJ's can improve their extraverted sensing?
Well done.
I already know the answer to this. Intp - procrastination. Needing to get all the information before we start.
Curious to see how you tell me what I already know in an entertaining way. Because I'd rather do that than actually start my project.
7:30 you do not disappoint.
As an INFP, I agree with FJ's statement and advice.
If I may share my own experience as a reference to help my fellow IPs out there :
My procrastination had taken a severe toll on my writing activities. A year ago I've joined a group of aspiring authors in my area. The commitment (and external pressure^^) of delivering at least 5 pages every two weeks has really helped me actually getting something done :)
âTaking action before youâre readyâ wth? I Never thought of that!!! Brilliant, seriously- ISFP
Pssh, goals and aspirations HA who has those... right? *sniff*
- Me, ENFP, 2021
Installing Fabulous app now.
As always, I relate with this a lot as INFJ. I have really trouble with "overplanning" and making plans A, B, C, D.. in case of situations that can possibly happen, you know "
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And there is happening problem with acheving them.. I feel like Im totally not going forward and stucking too often in some places.. in the end Im trying to get through them and getting tired when I see that all things which have to be done, so I'm just losing motivation pretty fast đ
On the other hand, not planning and predicting what can possibly happen making me full of anxiety and scared about future. So its really hard to find balance there.. đ
I think, best way to be succesful in that case.. is to create a habit to make some kind of checkup list or diary.
What I mean is, when we will see black on white, that we really moving forward, even if by small steps.. it gonna be the best "motivation kick" to go forward without feelings of hopelessness.
I guess sometimes we are also forgetting, that a few years ago we planned sth, what we got today.. and how huge success it is that we did it.. and because of that we can't truly celebrate our successes(even if they are small) to keep building our confidence and self-esteem.
True is, whenever I remembered to look back, I was realising that I basically did what I planned, and didnt fail as I though till that moment.. and in that exaclty moment it's making me happy and positiveđđ„°đ Its really important experience and Im forgetting so often to believe more in myself
I'm IP & this explanation is soooooo true. Same with EP because I'm Ambivert but with stronger leanings to I.
I think it is hard to find a middle ground between the path I choose and what people around me think is better.
also sometimes I just stuck in the mindset of its only one is right either me or everyone else.
---INTP
Intj here, you said: go with the punches, and roll with the flow ;)
I definitely have tons of ideas that I never end up doing, which is unfortunate, but life is overwhelming as it is, so... Also, I would rather be "unsuccessful" than do something I'm not interested in. And I lose interest pretty quickly so you can imagine how "successful" I am. -intp
Also, my istp husband is actually pretty good at getting stuff done that he wants to do. Sometimes he just wants to jump into an idea he has and I have to go, "woah woah woah, hold on. Let's explore this idea a bit more to see if it's something we should actually do."
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The Four Horsemen of Comment Section
- INTP
- INTJ
- INFP
- INFJ
INTP yes. That's my struggle. I'm an artist. I want to do my thing in the way I think it's right and I like. It's really difficult to put myself in the mind of other people and fvollow their directions for commissions. I do it but it's a sufference.
I also overthink about every project and never really start doing it.
So I always find myself too close to the deadline and I end up not realising all the ideas I had had.
IJs need to let go of some control...
INTJs: Wat? Let go control? What? But I have the next 45 1/2 years planned out...
Cool I think I'm narrowing it down to EXXP, IXXJ, ESFP/ENTP or INTJ
Hey Frank, can you explain the 2 letter combinations you use to classify the types? Thanks for all the cool stuff you put out there.
Good video.I like it.