my vintage summer wardrobe got stolen in Rome

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  •  Před 8 měsíci +389

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    • @lfgifu296
      @lfgifu296 Před 8 měsíci +21

      we all better do so because this should be the unofficial gofundme for your new vintage wardrobe😭😭

    • @Smd3580
      @Smd3580 Před 8 měsíci

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    • @Catmom-gl5nt
      @Catmom-gl5nt Před 8 měsíci +4

      So I just listened to your umbrage over the thieves not wanting your shoes and it made me think of my something similar that happened to my father almost 30 years ago. His business was broken into, as were all the other businesses in the complex. When he arrived in the middle of the night to see what was taken, he found his electric computer and other electronics piled year the door. They went to the trouble to consider taking the stuff then said, yeah, so not worth it. Nothing ended up being taken and my father was actually a bit offended.

    • @stephanienoire1892
      @stephanienoire1892 Před 8 měsíci +5

      I love June's Journey! I never finished the mystery, I will have to download it after I replace my phone (display broke)

    • @EeeDee1
      @EeeDee1 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Meme Mom please like my comment

  • @tierneykurfess2618
    @tierneykurfess2618 Před 8 měsíci +2522

    Those thieves really saw your dad’s sweater and went “this man’s style aint it”
    Brutal

    • @hannahbradshaw2186
      @hannahbradshaw2186 Před 8 měsíci +105

      Legit! At that point they may as well have taken it since they took everything else. I'd actually be offended 😂

    • @kneau
      @kneau Před 8 měsíci +85

      Possibly worse: maybe one is aware enough to know what they're doing could leave someone exposed to the elements. "Could be cold tonight, leave the sweater."

    • @ericdale4641
      @ericdale4641 Před 8 měsíci +10

      Dad style is the porcupines' quills to theives.

    • @silviasanchez648
      @silviasanchez648 Před 8 měsíci +17

      * thieves browsing through the luggage * Ugh, no leave that sweater out. And the shoes! They're awful.

    • @niffler09
      @niffler09 Před 8 měsíci +9

      it looks like a nice sweater, clearly these thieves know NOTHING

  • @lucasmcinnis5045
    @lucasmcinnis5045 Před 8 měsíci +5721

    Commenting to help meme mom buy back her wardrobe

  • @Fool2199
    @Fool2199 Před 8 měsíci +1446

    It's crazy how we sometime feel obligated to justify ourselves. You were robbed, your car was closed. You're not stupid for packing the way you do. It just sucks sometimes

    • @Hair8Metal8Karen
      @Hair8Metal8Karen Před 8 měsíci +145

      This is 100% my thoughts. Even if the car had been sitting open with neon arrows pointing to the luggage, it was still the fault of those who chose to steal.

    • @Merle.Jeromin
      @Merle.Jeromin Před 8 měsíci +14

      Word

    • @mellie4174
      @mellie4174 Před 8 měsíci +35

      Say it louder! Dont victim blame yourself girl!

    • @MikiakaDevil
      @MikiakaDevil Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@Merle.Jeromin+hhhhjjjjjjjjj

    • @WhiffleWaffles
      @WhiffleWaffles Před měsícem

      Exactly! Sometimes, people will rob locked cars with nothing in plain sight.

  • @felinesmite5170
    @felinesmite5170 Před 8 měsíci +1627

    As a Roman, my guess is that it was done by someone living nearby with contacts with people selling stolen stuff in Porta Portese market (which is the local flea market, and the biggest of its kind in Rome). They saw you park the car from their windows/ balcony and observed you coming and going for a couple of days to get a feeling for your habits/ timetables.
    You can sell pretty much anything in Porta Portese, and it's common knowledge that some of the merchandise isn't acquired through exactly legal means. My suggestion for future trips would be to frequently change your car's parking spot, and to try as much as possible to only open the trunk when no one can see you.

    • @MildlyRabid
      @MildlyRabid Před 8 měsíci +147

      This is the first explanation of the motive that makes sense.

    • @giuliar7944
      @giuliar7944 Před 8 měsíci +137

      Yup, Roman too and my first guess was porta Portese as well, wouldn't be surprised if some of the clothes appeared there in some days

    • @lewlavabra6811
      @lewlavabra6811 Před 8 měsíci +119

      oh boy. i don't live in italy but this makes me paranoid of going to a flea market and (unknowingly) buying something that was stolen from someone else. 😅

    • @shylockwesker5530
      @shylockwesker5530 Před 8 měsíci +64

      If you live there you could go and take a look, take photos of the vintage clothes at the flea market to show Karolina and maybe even recover the stolen ones.

    • @felinesmite5170
      @felinesmite5170 Před 8 měsíci +127

      @@shylockwesker5530 I would, but the market is HUGE. It takes at least half an hour to walk by every stand, and that's if you're just glancing at the items displayed. Also, most clothes sellers have them thrown in messy piles over large tables, so they aren't exactly easy to see without combing through the mess. If some of Karolina's stolen dress had flashy patterns or colors and I had reference pictures I could try, but without that it's like looking for a stranger in a crowd.

  • @Camylona1324
    @Camylona1324 Před 8 měsíci +2765

    Oh wow. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. They didn't just steal your beautiful clothes, they stole hours of work, planning and effort. I'm so sorry.

    • @djdissi
      @djdissi Před 8 měsíci +19

      Exactly, was thinking the same thing. She's taking it like the champ she is... I on the other hand, am quite shattered

  • @JazzHands
    @JazzHands Před 8 měsíci +2121

    This is why you should always only buy haunted clothing! When someone steals it, the little girl will terrorize them!

    • @mountaineergirl255
      @mountaineergirl255 Před 8 měsíci +81

      This is both terrifying and genius.

    • @emilyrln
      @emilyrln Před 8 měsíci +62

      Someone needs to make an Etsy store that specifically sells curses and hauntings for your clothes 😂

    • @TalaySeedam
      @TalaySeedam Před 8 měsíci +12

      Especially now, in the ghost month.

    • @newcamomile
      @newcamomile Před 8 měsíci +4

      ​@@TalaySeedamit's September not October

    • @TalaySeedam
      @TalaySeedam Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@newcamomile Ghost month started on August 16th and will last till September 14th when the Ghost Gate will be closed again.

  • @adriennegonzales2636
    @adriennegonzales2636 Před 8 měsíci +400

    I suffered a loss like this and I was surprised how many people blamed me. You did nothing wrong. No one has a right to take your things ever.

  • @MsChumptyDumpty
    @MsChumptyDumpty Před 8 měsíci +658

    I'm Italian and I live in Rome, quite near the neighborhood you got robbed at... and first of all, let me say that I'm MORTIFIED about what happened 😢💔 Rome is not my hometown but I love this place and it's so frustrating to hear this 😢😢😢 I suspect they're gonna re-sell everything in Porta Portese, this huge market that they have on Sundays. I could look out for some of your stuff next time I go there 🥹

    • @hollykellyy
      @hollykellyy Před 8 měsíci +66

      That's so kind of you. I hope you can spot some of her clothes.

    • @carolinpurayidom4570
      @carolinpurayidom4570 Před 8 měsíci +25

      I pray for your suscess

    • @sharknado623
      @sharknado623 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Any updates?

    • @hisprincessprincess4916
      @hisprincessprincess4916 Před 7 měsíci +4

      You're such a kind person! ❤

    • @MsChumptyDumpty
      @MsChumptyDumpty Před 7 měsíci +36

      Little update: I've been to the market in question, but I've found nothing 🥹 At one point I thought I had spotted her lacey white skirt but it was a dress 😔 ~An ugly dress at that 👹~ It's unlikely I'll find anything cos the weather is getting chillier and they started swapping summer clothes for warmer ones 🥹🥹 I'll keep looking tho!

  • @laurenloertscher1319
    @laurenloertscher1319 Před 8 měsíci +962

    I love how you're reaction less like "oh no I'm so sad I'll never recover" and more like "what the frick. why. What a poorly conducted theft. how dare they"

    • @hannahbradshaw2186
      @hannahbradshaw2186 Před 8 měsíci +53

      If anyone has seen the UK Ghosts, it reminds me of Fanny getting mad at the thieves for not taking the silverware 😂

    • @benzaiten933
      @benzaiten933 Před 8 měsíci +42

      like Karolina I also wonder why they didn't take her father's camera. wasn't this obviously an expensive item?

    • @gideonbias
      @gideonbias Před 8 měsíci +15

      It gives very much Uncle Iroh

    • @harpress
      @harpress Před 8 měsíci +6

      It's like Karolina put on her best teacher glasses and stare and went through their routine with a red marker. That's an F. you failed, thieves. Should have studied!

  • @oywiththepoodlesalready
    @oywiththepoodlesalready Před 8 měsíci +1183

    I feel like you criticizing what the robber took gave the same energy as my English teacher saying “If you’re gonna cheat, at least do it well.”

    • @APmain-dg6bh
      @APmain-dg6bh Před 8 měsíci +8

      "it's creetin"

    • @victoriancuddler
      @victoriancuddler Před 8 měsíci +68

      a friend got his backpack stolen, he stalked the robbers, got it back and most of his important things were with him: documents, money, etc. What was actually stolen? His costumes bc he's a theater kid and a bag of fake money for theplay he was starring at. The robbers were so incompetent they couldn't even find the real money in the goddamn backpack

    • @luckyzacky
      @luckyzacky Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@victoriancuddler omg I would want to do this but as a girl I would be terrified of actually getting stabbed.

    • @djdissi
      @djdissi Před 8 měsíci

      So true tho

    • @kristinazubic9669
      @kristinazubic9669 Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@nharber9837 well if they’re gonna send UNSOLICITED pics, they shouldn’t be surprised!

  • @JellyGummy26
    @JellyGummy26 Před 8 měsíci +644

    As a romanian with paranoid parents, they always taught me as a child to NEVER EVER leave stuff in the car especially on vacation. To this day, I dont even leave a bag or box in the back of my car even in my own condo parking where the risk is extremely low. One of my parents' friends even got stolen from her car while she was at a RED LIGHT and didnt lock the doors of her car.

    • @alien-vu7yl
      @alien-vu7yl Před 8 měsíci +57

      Yup, my family won't leave a water bottle in the car for fear it would tempt thieves.

    • @user-kk9gf9wj4p
      @user-kk9gf9wj4p Před 8 měsíci +62

      WOW! At a red light!! When I moved from Florida (Miami) to NYC - I learned NYC is not an environment to leave ANYTHING in your car. Many car owner's even taped notes in the back windows - saying: "Please don't bother breaking the window - everything in the car is as empty as you see here." - My not new car happen to come automatically with an expensive radio (it was used - but there was the radio.) I replaced it a few times with the same radio until a police officer I reported it to was kind enough to tell me "These are professionals. They are looking for that brand of radio. So they go through your front light in a way that doesn't set off the alarm - and shut off (something?) that shuts off the alarm - and then just sit in the car - and nice and neatly slide out your fancy radio - probably takes them two minutes and then they are calmly walking away. After that I a) didn't report it to my ever increasing insurance and b) just got a cheapo radio brand put in by my very nice Brooklyn mechanic.

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol Před 8 měsíci +16

      @@alien-vu7yl Yes, even a few pennies left openly in a car will usually be enough for an addict to break in.

    • @Revelwoodie
      @Revelwoodie Před 8 měsíci +45

      @@littleblackpistol Yeah, my car has been broken into for:
      - spare change
      - a USB cable
      - an audio CD
      - a travel cup
      - a hat

    • @mime514
      @mime514 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Sincer :”)

  • @peggythomson8146
    @peggythomson8146 Před 8 měsíci +448

    I’m sorry you had this happen. I’ll share what the police officer said to me when I was beating myself up for not securing my purse that got stolen, “it’s not your fault someone took it. That was their choice.” I always appreciated that sentiment. Take your time rebuilding your wardrobe. I’m sure you will have good ideas of what will work for you.

    • @happypace9414
      @happypace9414 Před 8 měsíci +12

      When someone stole from our property the police said with confidence that they would get them. If you think about it, they will eventually get caught and spend time in jail even if it isn't over your particular loss. If that doesn't happen there is always h.e.l.l. for the scoundrels.

    • @mishynaofficial
      @mishynaofficial Před 8 měsíci +15

      I guess, Karolina feels less blame, and more grief. Grief for the lost things that will never return...

  • @cb9825
    @cb9825 Před 8 měsíci +1797

    When Karolina said that a 3 years old laptop is ancient, I side eyed my 8 years old laptop. Still going strong!💪🏽 I don't edit videos though.

    • @hannahbradshaw2186
      @hannahbradshaw2186 Před 8 měsíci +79

      I've got a 10 year old Mac. I can't believe it's still going (albeit a bit more wheezy 😂)

    • @SilverHawk214
      @SilverHawk214 Před 8 měsíci +31

      Right? Mines 6 years old and my brother has one that is 12 years old, that one is dying though.

    • @rosevinetube
      @rosevinetube Před 8 měsíci +26

      My MacPro is going on 6 years. Many updates over the years, but it is going strong. I would be in deep mourning if it was stolen.

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel Před 8 měsíci

      Planned obsolescence and perceived obsolescence are both tools for corporations to sell more and profit, while littering the Earth

    • @mb-ob2ye
      @mb-ob2ye Před 8 měsíci +6

      Ha, mines 8 years old, too!

  • @lexie2740
    @lexie2740 Před 8 měsíci +549

    Being the most fabulously dressed thief in Italy, they should’ve been easy to catch.

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 Před 8 měsíci +31

      They just throw away whatever cant be sold fast.

    • @RavenLotz
      @RavenLotz Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@heyhoe168😢

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@RavenLotz I know, but this is reality of a criminal world. It is dull. Criminal romanticism is a lie.

    • @RavenLotz
      @RavenLotz Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@heyhoe168 I was just upset about the wastefulness of throwing stuff away not sure what criminal romanticism has to do with that

  • @Jeannette311
    @Jeannette311 Před 8 měsíci +213

    My ex stole everything I owned since it was temporarily in storage. It’s been 20 years and I’m still upset by it. I’m so sorry this happened to you all.

    • @drummerlovesbookworm9738
      @drummerlovesbookworm9738 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I had a really terrible loss of things in storage which actually is still a pending legal issue years later. It’s stomach-rinsing. At least once a day a memory of something I had but lost washes over me.
      Fortunately, I’m Traditional Roman Catholic so I can claim the pain as penance so I figure I’m getting straight into Heaven, no Purgatory required. 🥴😵‍💫😜

  • @valeriemiller2029
    @valeriemiller2029 Před 8 měsíci +134

    They took one look at your clothing selections and just assumed you must have had expensive taste and probably some fine jewelry tucked away. Sad they actually got your priceless hand made wardrobe. Mean people suck!

    • @Last.Stand.1111
      @Last.Stand.1111 Před 8 měsíci +5

      More than mean, greedy selfish, cruel people

  • @jacobd1984
    @jacobd1984 Před 8 měsíci +873

    Listen, I understand being envious of someone’s wardrobe, but this is going too far.

    • @emanuelebabici
      @emanuelebabici Před 8 měsíci +36

      Lol this is not envy, Karolina's wardrobe was probably all sold out at the black market the next sunday. It takes place literally in the district she was staying in, and her clothes were probably the peek of the weekly sold😅

    • @elinebuis5751
      @elinebuis5751 Před 8 měsíci +4

      How did you arrive at the conclusion that it was envy of her wardrobe??

    • @its_gabs
      @its_gabs Před 8 měsíci +41

      ​@@elinebuis5751I believe op was joking

    • @jacobd1984
      @jacobd1984 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@elinebuis5751 Just a joke. Yes, the real reason was to sell anything that would sell.

    • @Madiannereid
      @Madiannereid Před 8 měsíci +9

      @@emanuelebabicino understanding of sarcasm/humour huh? 😅

  • @Aneres225
    @Aneres225 Před 8 měsíci +1281

    Unfortunately thieves don't tend to target "wealthy" people because they are more difficult to steal from given the sophisticated alarm systems on the cars that now even have cameras, tracking devices, and the likelihood that police will take that robbery much more seriously if it happens to someone super rich. They purposefully target low to middle income people, who of course it actually harms the most. I'm really sorry for you, that's so frustrating and you worked so hard to accumulate quality pieces and for the stress to you and your family.

    • @jj-gk6rj
      @jj-gk6rj Před 8 měsíci +12

      You don't think she is wealthy? I certainly do!
      I am very sorry to hear this happened to Karolina and her family but some of her takes in this video show that not only is she quite comfortable financially, I don't truly think she values money or her belongings.
      Many people would not be able to bounce back from a theft like this or afford to replace anything afterwards.
      While no one deserves to get robbed it is always, ALWAYS a bad idea to leave any items unattended.
      Finally, people really need to stop travelling if they don't have the time and decency to learn at least some basic language skills of their host country.
      I'm sorry but this whole video was very first world problems and I don't think lessons have been learned.😬

    • @Aneres225
      @Aneres225 Před 8 měsíci +103

      @jj-gk6rj she stated that the luggage was around 20 years old and not flashy, which is why I said that. I don't know her financial situation and wouldn't speculate on it either way.

    • @BryanLu0
      @BryanLu0 Před 8 měsíci +83

      ​@@jj-gk6rjBased on what she says in the video, I think mostly she lost things of sentimental value, not monetary value.

    • @sannik2634
      @sannik2634 Před 8 měsíci +116

      @@jj-gk6rj personally I feel like "learning basic language skills" is more like... ordering in a restaurant and some phrases you will be using a lot, not filing a damn police report? Not to mention that you probably aren't going to learn perfect pronunciation in the month or two leading to your trip, and the police officers probably aren't used to hearing every single touristy accent ever.

    • @Hana_H
      @Hana_H Před 8 měsíci +55

      I mean she said they did this kind of travelling regularly. Also badic language skills probably don’t mean writing a report at the police station. Also it’s very weird the thief would target clothes and shoes and not an actual expensive camera. And while I don’t think Karolina’s family is on the verge of bankrupcy, she does state that she doesn’t need our money and we should focus it elsewhere. Your comment is very much giving off “didn’t listen carefully”

  • @cinemaocd1752
    @cinemaocd1752 Před 8 měsíci +163

    Our camera got stolen on our honeymoon and we lost all of the photos. I don't give a rat's ass about that camera, 21 years later it's obsolete and probably in a landfill now. I WISH I had those photos though. It sucks that this happened, the sentimental value and the memories of Carolina's vintage wardrobe is incalcuable to her. I hope those thieves steal someone's bag that is full of poisonous snakes...When I was in college my car was broken into and the theives went through my cassette tapes and left all the bob dylan and I was so fricking mad on bob dylan's behalf...

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Or tongue worm larvae. Tongue worms are nasty.

    • @stellaluna6421
      @stellaluna6421 Před 8 měsíci +4

      My parent's home was broken into during their honeymoon, and my dad swears it was the person who sold him their mattress (the only person they told). At least my mom had hidden her jewelry, but my dad lost a bunch of digitized journals and it's sad to think they were wiped and sold

  • @maibimbum
    @maibimbum Před 8 měsíci +203

    I moved to Europe and shipped several boxes. Included in these boxes was the majority of my books and clothes. A lot of those clothes were vintage and had belonged to my mom while she was living and studying in Europe. Somewhere between California and Germany half of my shipment was stolen, so I lost all the clothes and the vast majority of books. Including my baby photo album. I was sick over it for a couple years. Oddly they took my cardboard boxes, not the vintage steamer trunks full of art supplies and vintage cameras 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @obliviouscandybar
      @obliviouscandybar Před 8 měsíci +19

      That's so sad to hear, especially since you'd inherited the clothes from your mom. 😢

    • @lamoinette23
      @lamoinette23 Před 8 měsíci +8

      i'm so very sorry.. some things are irreplaceable 😥

  • @jwsuicides8095
    @jwsuicides8095 Před 8 měsíci +869

    I started wearing vintage clothes in the 80s and they were so cheap then. No one wanted them and people thought I was crazy, but I loved them. The thing with vintage clothes is they can't be replaced and that's sick that someone has stolen yours.

    • @whereheathergrows
      @whereheathergrows Před 8 měsíci +5

      I’m from the 80’s and studied historic costume in college. I still couldn’t afford them then😂

    • @jwsuicides8095
      @jwsuicides8095 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@whereheathergrows Shame you didn't live near me I could have got you some bargains!

    • @MetaBassy
      @MetaBassy Před 8 měsíci

      They were not so vintage back then eheheh they have 40 years more now eheh

    • @FunSizeSpamberguesa
      @FunSizeSpamberguesa Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@MetaBassy Now clothes actually from the 80s are considered vintage, which just makes me feel so ancient.

    • @Schneeeulenwetter
      @Schneeeulenwetter Před 8 měsíci +1

      probably also depends where you live(d) my mom also went vintage shopping in the 80s and no one wanted them either (Europe) @@whereheathergrows

  • @kristinewatson3702
    @kristinewatson3702 Před 8 měsíci +744

    I had my house broken into. I was away on a work trip and they must have known they had plenty of time. They tossed every drawer in my house. It felt so violating! They stole so many things that were sentimental but the one thing I've never gotten over is they took my mom's 1951 classic Singer sewing machine that I learned to sew on and she had given to me to sew curtains for my home. I loved that thing and it held so many memories with my mom.
    I'm so sorry you lost such personal items. People say it's just stuff and replaceable. I can tell you not everything IS replaceable. 😢

    • @NoiseDay
      @NoiseDay Před 8 měsíci +120

      Even IF nothing of sentimental value was stolen, it's still a huge violation of your sense of safety.

    • @vickywitton1008
      @vickywitton1008 Před 8 měsíci

      Absolute scumbags!

    • @cindland
      @cindland Před 8 měsíci +66

      I’m so sorry for your hurt. I get it for sure! Many years ago, I was moving house from Germany back to the US. I went back and forth between air freight and ship, with air freight I would’ve had to hire a second company to move my belongings from JFK to my home in NJ. The ship harbor was closer to my home and grind transport was included. I arrived and my belongings were supposed to arrive a week or two later. But I heard nothing. Turns out there had been a “storm of the century” at sea. And in those cases, they will let cargo go to save the vessel. They didn’t contact me but my partner in Germany. So notification took longer. I lost not only an antique treadle sewing machine but an antique heirloom porcelain Victorian doll, numerous pieces of vintage and antique jewelry from my long departed grandmother, along with all my clothes and many valuable items, and just all my household possessions-basically my life history. I was devastated. It was such a psychological and emotional blow. And I mourned for a long time. I did receive an insurance check but that could never replace the sentimental and valuable heirloom items.

    • @RoyalHeather
      @RoyalHeather Před 8 měsíci +63

      I wrote a fanfiction series that got mildly popular, and one of the readers bound books for a hobby. So you can imagine I was ecstatic when she offered to bind my fanfic as a novel and send it to me! She sent me photos as she was making it, it was beautiful, and as an aspiring novelist the idea of having my own writing as a book meant so much. Well, she ended up shipping it to me on a weekend when I was out of town, and by the time I came home, the package was gone from my doorstep. Someone had taken it. Despite searching, putting up flyers, even filing a report, I never reclaimed it, and it turned out later that there was an organized package thieving ring going on in our apartment complex. That book was a one-of-a-kind passion project, and it probably got tossed into a dumpster once the thief realized it didn't have resale value 🥲

    • @RoyalHeather
      @RoyalHeather Před 8 měsíci +20

      @@cindland that's heartbreaking 😭

  • @choisant7741
    @choisant7741 Před 8 měsíci +133

    This also happened to my family in Rome :(( We just stopped by the beach for like half an hour on the way to the airport. They stole all our passports, a camera and my mother's favorite jeans jacket (she is still mad about that). But the worst was they took my 5 year old sister's bag with her favorite teddy bear in it. She cried and cried and cried all the way to the embassy to get emergency passports and on the plane home and was sad for many weeks after. And it was probably just thrown away :(

  • @docmidna1076
    @docmidna1076 Před 8 měsíci +80

    Hello, Italian here. A few summers ago, on the morning of my departure for my roadtrip, my car was stolen in front of my house.
    The thing I noticed that is extremely similar to your experience is the late evening visit to pick up or leave something in the car. In my case I had left a handful of things of no economic value in the trunk the night before the event.
    I believe that this behavior may have attracted the bad guys in both cases, it is possible that they checked where we were returning and therefore they could have taken it calmly and committed the crime.
    I understand your feelings about what you lost: in my car there was my collection of CDs (all not original but lovingly put together over the years), two beach towels that I was very fond of and above all a bag of fabric that my mother had made for me and that I have never been able to use. She is no longer able to sew another one and the thought that an object of such great sentimental value to me could have ended up in a dumpster still makes me feel sick.
    I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @c_r_i_ss_y
    @c_r_i_ss_y Před 8 měsíci +353

    The reason why they probably didn’t take the camera was because of the serial numbers. A friend of mine got his nintendo switch stolen and he later found it in a pawn shop and was able to trace the thief by the serial number and the thief’s credentials at the pawn shop.
    A big LOL

    • @DarthLenaPlant
      @DarthLenaPlant Před 8 měsíci +2

      I wish that had happened with my sister's special edition Nindendo 3DS, because I even checked so many pawn shops in my city... I guess the asshole kid still has it. I do hope they step on a lego. Every single day.

  • @Taradoxxi
    @Taradoxxi Před 8 měsíci +595

    If the Internet can find Ludwig’s stolen truck, we can find Karolina’s stolen clothes 😤

    • @KCallia
      @KCallia Před 8 měsíci +97

      "Let's do it!" -andrea's fashion galaxy

    • @MotherOfSuck
      @MotherOfSuck Před 8 měsíci +27

      I'm here for it, get a subreddit going!

    • @thesparechannel6580
      @thesparechannel6580 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@MotherOfSuck Ooo yeah, reddit can find anything

    • @cmoore6131
      @cmoore6131 Před 8 měsíci

      Eyes on depop and other resale sites 👀

    • @k_a_y_l_e_e
      @k_a_y_l_e_e Před 8 měsíci +24

      @@thesparechannel6580 reddit isn't good for much, but by god are those people good at finding missing/stolen/abducted people and things.

  • @devchekhov7512
    @devchekhov7512 Před 8 měsíci +196

    I'm so sorry that happened. This isn't much, but I hope you can get a few cups of coffee in there ❤

  • @jaclynrachellec
    @jaclynrachellec Před 8 měsíci +113

    As a person whose size isn't sold in stores, and who has to alter nearly everything I own or make it myself, this sounds like a nightmare. 😳

  • @iwrotethis
    @iwrotethis Před 8 měsíci +812

    My mom and I moved from Arizona to Ohio and the movers stole EVERYTHING. All we had left was our animals, a few photo albums, a few clothes, some important papers... everything else is gone, from sentimental to irreplaceable to practical. We went from trying to enjoy our "fresh start" to being angry at our loss with nobody caring or helping.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Před 8 měsíci +106

      how does a legit moving company steal stuff?

    • @Marcel_Audubon
      @Marcel_Audubon Před 8 měsíci +106

      ​@@jj-if6itmaybe think more not-so-legit-but-a-lot-cheaper moving company

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Před 8 měsíci +12

      @@Marcel_Audubon just track them down? lol

    • @georgiakuchinsky
      @georgiakuchinsky Před 8 měsíci +57

      I'm so sorry, what a terrible thing to have happened to you 😢

    • @jj-gk6rj
      @jj-gk6rj Před 8 měsíci +20

      That's awful. I'm so sorry 😟

  • @coloraturaElise
    @coloraturaElise Před 8 měsíci +254

    "I hope they step on legos....not gonna lie." I burst out laughing at that, Karolina! I hope your Roman fans find some of your pieces after you post pictures.

    • @Catmom-gl5nt
      @Catmom-gl5nt Před 8 měsíci +26

      My favorite curse is may your socks always fall down and may you never find a decent parking space.

    • @cbpd89
      @cbpd89 Před 8 měsíci +7

      If I had the mystical ability to curse my enemies, this would be the only curse I need.

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda Před 8 měsíci +1

      She already posted pictures on her Insta a while ago.

    • @emahabara1215
      @emahabara1215 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Catmom-gl5ntmine's may you step on a D4 with every step

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle Před měsícem

      She just said that while I was reading the comment :D

  • @Yue_mariin00
    @Yue_mariin00 Před 8 měsíci +44

    Honestly the frustrating, angry and extremely violating feeling of being robbed is unexplainable. Although I am glad to see you doing well despite everything, I am so sorry this happened to you.🙇🏻‍♂️ Nobody deserves this

  • @Sophie_Cleverly
    @Sophie_Cleverly Před 8 měsíci +31

    As a mystery writer, I feel like a plot twist would be that the guy who seemed suspicious but then was friendly to you in Polish was actually the thief, and that's why he took the Polish novels... Unfortunately writing mystery plots does not help me solve real life crimes!
    Really sorry this happened and hope you can soon find some new favourite items if the others are never found. ❤️

    • @Dawn_Hannah
      @Dawn_Hannah Před 8 měsíci +1

      Jessica Fletcher, is that you? 🕵🏻‍♀️📝

    • @old_fashioned_agnes
      @old_fashioned_agnes Před 8 měsíci +3

      I also had this thought that it was the same person 😆

    • @thearboristswife8274
      @thearboristswife8274 Před 6 měsíci

      I'm reading the comments to see if anyone else had the same thought I did. I would have been asking him a ton of questions. What nerve!

  • @lindaolivova2698
    @lindaolivova2698 Před 8 měsíci +616

    We moved to Wroclaw and on top of adjusting to a new home, my husband's vintage analogue camera was stolen within the first month of living here. Of course one would feel angry about the monetary and emotional value, but the feeling that bothered me the most was just not feeling like I can't trust ANYONE. It's traumatising in it's own weird way. And people will say "oh well you can always replace things" but people fail to realise how your trust in humanity is just shattered immediately afterwards.

    • @JankoWalski-hz3lu
      @JankoWalski-hz3lu Před 8 měsíci +59

      I feel you. I was mugged on my street 12 years ago, and since then I no longer feel safe anywhere in public, especially knowing that culprits were never caught and I might pass them on the street not knowing who they are.

    • @staceyn2541
      @staceyn2541 Před 8 měsíci +31

      My ex's digital camera was taken by a friend of a friend. I will never be sure how many pics of our young kids were lost with those memory cards. Been 12 years, will never forgive him. He had stuff stolen more than anyone I have ever known.

    • @benzaiten933
      @benzaiten933 Před 8 měsíci +20

      + even when you can somehow replace those items, it's not the same anyway. not the same memories and stories attached at all.

    • @Ichneumonxx
      @Ichneumonxx Před 8 měsíci +35

      I got my flat broken into after just half a year of living in a really beautiful albeit expensive flat, according to the police I was actually observed and targeted even though I was poor AF back then and had nothing. I was so traumatized I couldn't stay there and moved a couple of months later. And they didn't even take much, just some cheap jewelry that was worth less than what I had to pay for the door they destroyed.

    • @unyvaydushamoya66666
      @unyvaydushamoya66666 Před 8 měsíci +26

      Yeah someone once tried to steal a book I own that's in latin. The thief was found but, bro, ??? You can't even read it why are you trying to steal it

  • @Bildgesmythe
    @Bildgesmythe Před 8 měsíci +299

    As my mother used to say, never take anything on vacation that isn't disposable. If it doesn't get stolen the airlines will loose it.

    • @ramotnik8061
      @ramotnik8061 Před 8 měsíci +20

      Yeah, i never take my engagment ring to trąbek for that reason 😂 but then i am afraid someone will brake info the flat

    • @Lili-xq9sn
      @Lili-xq9sn Před 8 měsíci +16

      I've always been like that (though nothing has ever been stolen from me). However, the fantastic clothes that haven't fit me for decades i still have and wish I'd travelled with them when they did fit.

    • @benzaiten933
      @benzaiten933 Před 8 měsíci +38

      I actually have a trip planned and this inspired me to take my second choice clothes and items rather than the first choice one. still nice clothes but less painful if stolen or lost.

    • @Lili-xq9sn
      @Lili-xq9sn Před 8 měsíci +7

      @@benzaiten933 you should take one of the good ones... I'll bet you'll wear it most of the time.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Před 8 měsíci +19

      I've done 'carry on' only for the last couple of trips because I'm terrified of airlines losing my suitcase

  • @blingbling45
    @blingbling45 Před 8 měsíci +41

    I'm so sorry for this! And also I can feel you: me and my friend got robbed this summer in Milan. Thieves broke into the apartment through the open window (it was hot) while we were sleeping between 3 and 6 a.m. took our phones, credit card, and an expensive camera. We didn't even wake up! They left the handprints in the apartment, too. The funniest part is that we even tracked the thieves ourselves but the police did literally nothing. 🤡

    • @AlysRose
      @AlysRose Před 7 měsíci +8

      the police in Italy is USELESS (and I say it as an Italian). I'm very sorry :(

  • @hannahclift3277
    @hannahclift3277 Před 8 měsíci +51

    I just had my suitcase of handmade clothes stolen while on holiday so I relate so hard to everything you’ve been saying about realising what’s gone. And the guilt of going into fast fashion stores 🤷‍♀️

  • @666mrdoctor
    @666mrdoctor Před 8 měsíci +1227

    As an Italian I'm ashamed to hear this news. Unfortunately our country is in a terrible state.

    • @AW-uv3cb
      @AW-uv3cb Před 8 měsíci +178

      It could happen everywhere, especially when you have so many tourists there! And (without dismissing all the economical/political issued that Italy faces) it's still such a beautiful place with amazing culture (my cousin is absolutely in love with Italy, especially the Salento region, learned to speak the language perfectly and recently bought a cheap trullo down there. I was lucky to be able to visit her last month. It was stunning and she has the best neighbours originally from Veneto!). So don't feel bad! Everywhere has bad sides and good sides!

    • @nonakabyrd5759
      @nonakabyrd5759 Před 8 měsíci +75

      The look of surprise when the realize they aren't popular clothing.
      It's like when my husband's CDs got stole. They were all big band, swing and rat pack😊

    • @benzaiten933
      @benzaiten933 Před 8 měsíci +5

      is the mafia and corruption still so prevalent?

    • @Galaxxi
      @Galaxxi Před 8 měsíci +111

      @@benzaiten933 Italy is sadly atrocious with crime. I have a small business, and in my research trying to figure out which countries are safe to ship to, most people don't even *ship* to Italy because mail theft is so bad. I've been friends with people who live there, they say it's really bad too. Big shame, it's a beautiful country

    • @sarasthoughts
      @sarasthoughts Před 8 měsíci +72

      ​@@GalaxxiI'm italian and this is the first time I hear about this 😂 I have never heard of stolen packages in my life! Maybe by a neighbor but never by couriers!

  • @mjocosta8275
    @mjocosta8275 Před 8 měsíci +460

    Am so sorry about this ugly Crime committed in my country. Sorry from an Italian fan 😓

  • @gabriellemcnamara8955
    @gabriellemcnamara8955 Před 8 měsíci +22

    karolina's struggle with modern fashion to replace her wonderful vintage wardrobe is the exact reason the rest of us non-vintage girlies have to obsess over Kibbe body types and deep dive into clothing practices and materials in an attempt to wear anything. RIP Karolina's Vintage Clothes (and her family's luggage and broken car window 😭)

  • @louremedi2936
    @louremedi2936 Před 8 měsíci +43

    My dad being Italian and us living in Switzerland, it was a really big deal when we went in holidays with our very nice car with Swiss license plate. So it's kind of ingrained in my brain to never leave the car in a shady spot, never leave anything in the car, never trust anyone and always expect to be robbed so keep eveything important on yourself. I'm so sorry you had to experience all this

  • @tomhomunculus
    @tomhomunculus Před 8 měsíci +182

    Drop a P.O box! I inherited some of my 100 year old grandma's clothes. She was very stylish, I'd be happy to send a couple choice peices :-)

    • @Ohsololo
      @Ohsololo Před 8 měsíci +10

      You're so cute!

    • @shoszannah
      @shoszannah Před 8 měsíci +6

      Wow you are a good person ❤

    • @jamiedebruin9863
      @jamiedebruin9863 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I have 2 round lace tablecloths that I have no use for, from my grandmother-in-law. Not clothes, but she did mention needing them in a previous video. Here's hoping she does drop a PO box!

  • @sarasthoughts
    @sarasthoughts Před 8 měsíci +402

    Oh girl no 😭 you have been EXTREMELY lucky if this has never happened before. First rule of parking is to NEVER leave anything visible in a parked car! My (italian) family taught this to me when I was little and even though I live in a small town I always do this. Rome in particular is huge and you need to be extra careful :(

    • @druidriley3163
      @druidriley3163 Před 8 měsíci +78

      Maybe she lives in a safe area and never had to worry about this? I one time was donating some old clothes to my local goodwill shop. I tried to find a bag to put them in and only had a large bag from a high end store to put them in. Left them in my car to go shopping. Someone stole the bag out of my car. LOL. They got a bunch of used clothes in a department store bag.

    • @brandyjean7015
      @brandyjean7015 Před 8 měsíci +20

      ​@@druidriley3163that made me chuckle!

    • @bruttoribes6410
      @bruttoribes6410 Před 8 měsíci +32

      I thought this was known worldwide, I hope more people see this comment

    • @Charoula1608
      @Charoula1608 Před 8 měsíci

      @@druidriley3163 My parents were unloading at a hotel (before they had me). They grabbed the valuable stuff and the suitcases and went inside. By the time they got back outside, someone had broken in and stole my mother's makeup bag. I hope the thieves really enjoyed their used makeup LOL.

    • @krewetkaaaa
      @krewetkaaaa Před 8 měsíci +37

      ​@@bruttoribes6410 it is known rule in Poland as well....but to be honest 95% of time nothing will happen in Poland if you leave it like this

  • @neldahargo5933
    @neldahargo5933 Před 8 měsíci +37

    you're handling the trauma so well. I would have looked up a witch and had them cursed into oblivion. but that's just me.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Strega Nona on the job...though she's nice, she would do it for Karolina.

  • @renerice2669
    @renerice2669 Před 8 měsíci +61

    As a larger plus size person, one of my biggest fears is having my luggage stolen or lost. I ALWAYS pack 1-2 outfits in a carry-on or bag that stays with me because I know I'm not finding clothes that even fit my body in a country where I don't speak the language.

  • @alli_mode
    @alli_mode Před 8 měsíci +90

    It's gonna be mislabeled in a museum in 10 years.

  • @rosevinetube
    @rosevinetube Před 8 měsíci +96

    The worst thing about being robbed - of anything - is the sense of violation. I also know that feeling of obsessing over the dumbest little thing lost, just because it had sentimental value, or was something I had made, or was given to me by a dear friend. Thanks for sharing your story. Very relatable.

  • @jbridges9574
    @jbridges9574 Před 8 měsíci +125

    Thanks for all your amazing content! I’m sorry this happened to your family but I’m so glad you’re all safe.

  • @rochellevanderhelm4944

    Honestly, one of the worst things about being robbed is how violating it feels. It makes my skin crawl when I think about those creeps rifling through my private space. It isn't that my things are worth very much, it's just that they're MINE!!!!

  • @rodentary
    @rodentary Před 8 měsíci +273

    As someone who had my laundry stolen from my own building i can understand the feelings. It sucks and its like its not valuable to anyone but me.

    • @Revelwoodie
      @Revelwoodie Před 8 měsíci +16

      A delivery driver stole an ashtray from my porch. It wasn't valuable. But I really just...liked it. It was one of those big hotel ashtrays, like the size of R2D2, lol. That was like 10 years ago and I still think about it.

  • @rustysquid
    @rustysquid Před 8 měsíci +656

    Sorry that you experienced this. Hope this helps you restoring your wardrobe.

  • @JRVan-ez4yi
    @JRVan-ez4yi Před 8 měsíci +60

    One time my family's van was broken into, they stole our cassette collection & a mini TV & then just threw the cassettes into the dumpster nearby. We contacted the cops who barely made a report because they were "busy" with accidents because it snowed in a place that snows every year. (The dusting of snow qas how we found the cassettes as their were footprints to the dumpster from the van.)

    • @Last.Stand.1111
      @Last.Stand.1111 Před 8 měsíci +2

      yeah same, they took all of my camera film from my whole life I was going to get prosessed at the next stop, and they just chucked it

  • @RosaliePacheco
    @RosaliePacheco Před 8 měsíci +83

    I used to live in a midsized US city. I was going on a long weekend trip. I had a bag of just clothes in my car. During one of my university classes someone forced open the drivers door and stole it. I went to campus security they said they can’t pull the camera footage for something like that. I went to the police and they could care less. The officer literally asked me why was I so upset about just clothes and if I had drugs in my bag. I was so disgusted.

    • @Parrotting
      @Parrotting Před 8 měsíci +23

      The problem is never normally just the thieves. The problem is it’s allowed to happen. That’s why so many people will tell you they went to the police and they at best couldn’t care, at worst insulted or blamed them. It will be some kind of local or government corruption going on guaranteed.
      The items stolen are usually in places that would be secure (hotel, locker, car etc)

    • @annaandre9131
      @annaandre9131 Před 8 měsíci +12

      I'm so sorry (and upset) you had to face that level of disrespect after being a victim...

    • @Last.Stand.1111
      @Last.Stand.1111 Před 8 měsíci +2

      you should have pushed further and called more cops, the act of breaking and entering is serious and a crime, for me the cops care and if there was camera footage they wanted it and took it seriously

    • @Last.Stand.1111
      @Last.Stand.1111 Před 8 měsíci +2

      so sorry that happened, greed is disgusting

    • @janisvaro4949
      @janisvaro4949 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Being robbed is so violating. I wish the cops took it more seriously. Not only would you feel better, but if thieves knew there was a chance they'd get into trouble, you might see a reduction in theft. I've always thought we should add charges to b&e's that adds time for emotional damage. Also, I've never understood why people go into law enforcement if they don't want to...enforce the law?

  • @dancemacabre26
    @dancemacabre26 Před 8 měsíci +276

    Imagine finding Karolina’s clothes in an Italian antique shop

    • @magdabak5797
      @magdabak5797 Před 8 měsíci +16

      Don't think So. They'll check it one more time and probably throw it away. You can find clothes and open suitcases on the side of the roads all over Italy and Spain.

    • @shannonbalthazor8712
      @shannonbalthazor8712 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@magdabak5797That is devastating to hear.

    • @laltrasfaccettaturadelrubi6845
      @laltrasfaccettaturadelrubi6845 Před 8 měsíci +8

      more probable in one of the street markets if they make the effort.

  • @xrzeropoint7989
    @xrzeropoint7989 Před 8 měsíci +254

    I recommend "Ode To My Clothes" by Tori Amos. She's a traveling musical performer and when in Ireland someone accidentally donated her entire wardrobe so she composed a song about it.

  • @GuadalupeT
    @GuadalupeT Před 8 měsíci +21

    I completely agree on the feeling of knowing that someone you don't know touched your stuff. Our house was robbed one summer and the thieves left all of our clothes in piles all around the bedrooms (they were probably looking for hidden money or sth). As soon as the police left, we started to wash EVERYTHING because we felt so disgusted

  • @itsema91
    @itsema91 Před 8 měsíci +31

    This happened to us in France while also on a camping road trip. We were in a rush and left only a couple of things at the campsite and drove to the city to go for dinner with a friend we hadn't seen in 10 years. Came back to the car an hour and a half later and the window was smashed and all our stuff scattered all over the car and the floor of the street. I know exactly what you mean about feeling "gross" about the stuff they touched. They had gone through my makeup bag and thrown it on the floor, gone through all my clothes. They also stole some super random stuff! Like they took an 8 year old laptop and my passport but they left jewelry?! They also took two pairs of Birkenstocks. Now let me tell you: THOSE SHOES WERE NASTY. They were old af and we had worn them to the beach so they had salt water stains all over. However, they left quite pricey leather shoes?? They also took a random pair of Decathlon sunglasses that probably cost 10 euros...My conclusion is that what they take is a mix of stuff for resale but also stuff they just like for themselves/their family.

  • @SenhoritaF.
    @SenhoritaF. Před 8 měsíci +258

    The fast fashion horror experience is so interesting because as a tall curvy/midsize woman I still blamed myself a little for not fitting in those types of clothes. ''They are made for tall and slender people''. But Karolina's experience (the supposed ideal body for those brands) proves that they are just badly patterned and cut, anyway lol

    • @ettaz
      @ettaz Před 8 měsíci +26

      Yes! I love the look of one piece swimsuits, but I always have the same experience as Karolina. And I'm not even tall, or that skinny! I think I'm as average as it gets, I'm about 170cm tall and about 60kg. That drawing she made reminds me so much of every experience I had trying to buy a swimsuit.

    • @sunnisideupplz3920
      @sunnisideupplz3920 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Yeah it was really relieving to hear- I tend to be pear shaped, so it's SO hard to find pants that fit. Knowing she had issues too made me feel so much better.

    • @edstella
      @edstella Před 8 měsíci +11

      Absolutely. I always have to remind myself and my friend about it because it's so insane that clothing brands are so big and assumedly with a lot of money, but they're all awful at design. Sizing up a shirt? One would think they would pattern it proportionally to fit a larger body. Nope. Just make the body part *wider.* Should they make the sleeves larger or the torso longer? Absolutely not, if someone's bigger the shirts are just stretched out horizontally. It's ridiculous and unflattering on everyone.

    • @aminadoce
      @aminadoce Před 8 měsíci +5

      Oh, I can ensure you're actually right. I'm 180cm / 65kg and somehow ALL clothes seems tiny on me, like, fast fashion made me wish more than once that I could be 15cm smaller to be okay (no joke, i usually thinks abt it very often)
      And ofc they're doing their best incentive to sew our own things =)

    • @CzesiaPL
      @CzesiaPL Před 8 měsíci +16

      I've heard this theory from a teenager: those cloaths are meant not to fit anyone. People will buy them and soon realize there is no chance to make them look good on them. In the outcome those people will go shopping again in the hope they will find better cloaths. Rinse&repeat

  • @mariagraciamorenovegas7722
    @mariagraciamorenovegas7722 Před 8 měsíci +145

    You really shouldn't have to justifiy yourself (meaning your familiarity with camping, the area, etc.) for getting robbed, it's not your fault, it shouldn't happen under any circumstances. Sorry to hear that!

  • @wherefancytakesme
    @wherefancytakesme Před 8 měsíci +7

    There's no other kind of human being I despise more than a swindler. I've had things stolen too and it puts unmentionable thoughts in my head. I'm glad you're able to look on the bright side of things.

  • @dorrolorro
    @dorrolorro Před 8 měsíci +47

    I'm so sorry this happened to you! I was robbed the exact same way in Prague in 2005. All of my best clothes were gone, and it was just a few days before I started high school! 😭Lesson learned the hard way, never, ever, ever, leave your luggage in the car.

  • @sariahcheadle9909
    @sariahcheadle9909 Před 8 měsíci +74

    "Remember whatever inconvenience in your life there is, uh....you can always monetize it." 😂 I literally guffawed. You defense mechanism is definitely humor!! In all seriousness though, this is devastating. Such much love and devotion went to collecting and creating those pieces, I'm so sorry!

  • @YochevedDesigns
    @YochevedDesigns Před 8 měsíci +181

    Ouch, I feel your pain. Many years ago, I had a suitcase full of all my Renn Fair garb stolen out of the back of my car. When I got ready to leave and realized that everything was gone, I was DEVASTATED. This was not Party City clothes, these were all things that I had hand sewn, embroidered, beaded, and sweated over for years. Also, there were about $1000 worth of custom made corsets in there. I'm still bitter.

    • @saiyamoru
      @saiyamoru Před 8 měsíci +5

      I'd still be salty about it, too. It's even worse when they're all one-of-a-kind items, and it feels like they would be easily recognizable if you saw them again. I had a bunch of vintage/custom jewelry stolen a few years ago and if I ever see anyone wearing my 'set' they're going to have their eyes raked out.

    • @rosewillow5757
      @rosewillow5757 Před 8 měsíci

      Ugh I’m sorry, I had a lifetime of my dance costumes and my vintage baby dresses stolen out of my RV a couple years ago..I can’t even think about it...

    • @killerfreckles1162
      @killerfreckles1162 Před měsícem

      Oh no! That is so sad. I’m sorry this happened to you. 😢

  • @danielleA18
    @danielleA18 Před 8 měsíci +9

    It's stories like this one that makes me want to pack my absolute most hated things every time I go on holiday 😅 the heartache 💔

    • @ulrikesextro4187
      @ulrikesextro4187 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Thats why I packed my oldest stuff this year for my Trip to canada- Just in case I would have to leave everything behind if there were wildfires coming nearer to Our hotel.

  • @insulaarachnid
    @insulaarachnid Před 8 měsíci +10

    Karolina, I get the confusion over the thieves' choices. My parents house was robbed Christmas night many years ago, when we were all staying there but out visiting other people. They took the most random shit and left valuable items. "I hope they step on Legos" is now my favourite curse 😂

  • @minime7375
    @minime7375 Před 8 měsíci +103

    The sad part is they probably don’t know where to sell those vintage pieces and they probably dumped them in the garbage. Hopefully they didn’t extract any personal info from the laptop. Sorry that happened to you and your family.

    • @lisah-p8474
      @lisah-p8474 Před 8 měsíci +9

      That's what's so infuriating. 😡 You know that creep was like, "What the heck are all these old clothes?? Junk!!"

    • @hamsterfan999
      @hamsterfan999 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@lisah-p8474highly doubt that since they deliberately took their time to pick and choose what they wanted. no doubt thinking that the rich polish tourists could replace their own clothes easily enough.

  • @Akane87
    @Akane87 Před 8 měsíci +231

    If it'll make you feel better, know that police don't even help us Italians, regardless of the fact that they can understand the language 😂 I'm sorry you had this experience, you have to be so so careful now even if you are not a tourist, it's really disheartening.

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 Před 8 měsíci +7

      I'm German and had to deal with the police here twice - once, because my letterbox got broken into and my new bank card stolen, resulting in a 500€ theft. The other time, my handbag with wallet, keys, phone etc was stolen when out and about in the city.
      Both times, the treatment I got was atrocious. They couldn't have been less interested or motivated. Or sympathetic for that matter. In the police station after the handbag theft, they even refused to try and contact my brother, who lives the next town over and has my emergency keys. I had to go there by bicycle (took me about an hour, but what else was I gonna do without a phone or money on me).
      So yeah. Not necessarily just a problem in Italy 🫤

    • @Akane87
      @Akane87 Před 8 měsíci +9

      @@raraavis7782 I'm so sorry to hear that. I can only speak of my own experiences, but I'm sure it's a problem pretty much everywhere. Our family lawyer disappeared with all our documents and some money and the police said they couldn't do anything about it. So that's their fixed response for anything, even about more serious things. We have a HUGE problem with what we call "femminicidio", women who lose their lives to their partners even after they report it to the authorities. The response is always the same, meaning that until the crime occurs they can't do anything. I wonder what we are paying them for 🙃

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@Akane87
      How horrible. Yeah...what are they good for, if they don't even care about protecting people from violent crimes, right?
      With the theft thing...I understand, that they can't actually do very much. It's the indifference and lack of a normal human response, that really bothered me the most. Made me not want to have anything to do with them ever again, if I can avoid it.

    • @Akane87
      @Akane87 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@raraavis7782 For sure! The lack of empathy is what bothers me as well, especially during those horrible moments when you are full of anxiety and fear.

    • @terrydegola4688
      @terrydegola4688 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yeah true. If something happens you're alone qnd they cAnNoT hElP. Behind my house there is a field and some people put a roulottes in there and it has been three months and they're still there. The owner of the field tried to talk to them because hey, that happens to be my source of income, but they didn't move and the police was like sOrRy, wE cAn'T dO aNyThInG. Yeah Italian police sucks

  • @BarefootMain
    @BarefootMain Před 8 měsíci +9

    I felt the same way when my vehicle got broken into years back. They took my backpack with all of my beautiful regency clothes. Which either I had made or had saved up and purchased for $$$. Then they took my car stereo... but left my iPod and my skateboard...? I had been so tired the night before from our recency ball performance that I didn't bring stuff inside and it was all gone by the morning. Ever since then, I don't leave anything in a car that I don't mind if it gets stolen. It's so creepy and unnerving after a robbery. I'm sorry this has happened to you as well. These thieves at least have good taste in clothes lol

  • @TeaCupCracked
    @TeaCupCracked Před 8 měsíci +22

    For future videos, maybe you could talk about the "logic" of how to strategically build up a wardrobe now, given your years of experience versus what you thought you needed to do as a noob. When I got into Japanese Lolita Fashion I had this perception of how one was suppose to build their wardrobe, or how others thought you should but then once I had already been in it for a while I realized, looking back, I would have given my younger-self completely different advice. Basically, having lots of time/experience made me realize looking back how you would very strategically / deliberately go straight for the most important key elements that in the end make the most direct impact and that those items are really particular and often subtle on their own.

  • @Tidde
    @Tidde Před 8 měsíci +61

    I have a friend who said something like "when you loose or break something you get the permission to get new favourites". While it sucks to get robbed and loose stuff, I hope you get the lots of new favourites that will bring you lots of joy

  • @SewingBoxDesigns
    @SewingBoxDesigns Před 8 měsíci +66

    A few vanlifers I follow have mentioned that if you park or get an AnB in some charming little side neighborhood in Italy, you're a target for robbery. Literally 'asking for it's. The people there know it's a AnB, they watch it. They know a van with solor panels is bound to be tourists with money and tech. It's becoming a very sad world. The beautiful pale blue bathing suit! 😭 But on the bright side, more reasons to sew. Your poor Dad, give him a hug from a stranger on line, who thinks he's done a wonderful job raising you!

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Yeah. I have a small, diy Van and I'm super paranoid about that kind of thing. Especially since I'm traveling alone. I made sure, that my vehicle just looks like a nondescript delivery/handyman vehicle from the outside. Although I've been told, that these get broken in as well, because people look for expensive tools. Sighs. But, of course, that is not an option, if you want solar panels or stuff. I do make sure, to never park in touristy spots, though.

    • @SewingBoxDesigns
      @SewingBoxDesigns Před 8 měsíci +2

      After very much agonizing, we went with a portable power box, an inverter, an alternator connection switch, and a suitcase solar panel. It doubles as a windshield sun shade, because our windows arent tinted. But ages ago, my self made wedding dress was boxed up in our garage and someone got in and stole our motorcycle helmets and my wedding dress! Nothing else, despite hubby's rolling tool chest! We had a quicky court wedding with one lousy Polaroid my mom took of us, and we were planning on an eventual anniversary fancy wedding (Vegas, Elvis impersonator 🤣) and I hope who ever wore/wears my dress is cursed to this day with boils and disfigurement! (And the same for Karolina's sky blue bathing suit. Perhaps she can get a custom repro made from photos? 😭

    • @raraavis7782
      @raraavis7782 Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@SewingBoxDesigns
      There's a special place in hell for people, who steal family heirlooms or wedding dresses or other stuff with sentimental value. It's just so cruel, especially if the item isn't all that valuable in terms of its resale worth. What you gain from it just isn't worth the pain you're causing.
      Safe travels!

    • @SewingBoxDesigns
      @SewingBoxDesigns Před 8 měsíci

      Safe travels to you as well! 😃

  • @HamelinSong
    @HamelinSong Před 8 měsíci +14

    One thing my mom taught me is: DO NOT LEAVE VISIBLE ITEMS IN THE CAR! She always reminds me, even though we live in Florence, where these kinds of things are quite rare. And always remember that, as a tourist, you are way more vulnerable. If you're traveling with a car with a foreign number plate, either empty it or get a garage for the night.
    EDIT: Let's be clear, I'm not blaming Karolina or her family.

  • @EasterWitch
    @EasterWitch Před 8 měsíci +8

    It is always so sad loosing sentimental items! I can't remember being robbed of any sentimental items, but I do have a tendency to loose stuff when I am on holiday or out hiking, and the absolute dread when you realize it is gone is so overwhelming

  • @courtneyx9845
    @courtneyx9845 Před 8 měsíci +107

    Cameras and other electronics have serial numbers, so they aren't stolen too often anymore. Sorry that happened to you. Someone tried to rob me while in Rome too.

    • @_Just_Another_Guy
      @_Just_Another_Guy Před 8 měsíci +12

      Yes! I read many cases about the horrible pickpocketing and theft problems in Rome!
      I really want to visit Rome and other places in Italy but the rampant thievery makes me nervous.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@_Just_Another_Guy Just be really careful of pickpockets. I went around 10 years ago and nothing happened but there is definitely a dodgy feeling in the air for many of the places you visit

  • @LilyLewis771
    @LilyLewis771 Před 8 měsíci +50

    Oh NO. The worst thing is not just the financial value- the emotional value and irreplacabilty of handmade and vintage clothes makes them invaluable. I’d be devastated to lose my wardrobe, it has so much sentimental value to me 😢

  • @juliabazanska
    @juliabazanska Před 8 měsíci +4

    The only time in my almost 40-year-old life I've been robbed was in Rome, they stole my backpack from under my chair in a street restaurant - I had looped the strap around my ankle to prevent it being stolen so I can only assume they cut through the strap! The pickpocketing and thievery in Rome is seriously on another level! Wszystkiego dobrego wam życzę i niech ich pierun trzaśnie.

  • @NikkiSchumacherOfficial
    @NikkiSchumacherOfficial Před 8 měsíci +6

    I’m impressed that you were forced to walk in a fast fashion shop and buy an entire wardrobe and look that good as these pictures show. Wow😮 It shows your level of fashion skills.

  • @danyf.1442
    @danyf.1442 Před 8 měsíci +224

    Damn...as an Italian it sucks especially bad hearing this, I am so sorry dear Karolina.

    • @nohandle508
      @nohandle508 Před 8 měsíci +3

      It's not your fault, please don't feel bad. I'm sorry this happened too. :-(

  • @KatieeeBug03
    @KatieeeBug03 Před 8 měsíci +44

    I was robbed while in university. They stole all of my cash and a really useful pair of boots :( the worst part was definitely the feeling of mistrust and anxiety.

    • @ZimVader-0017
      @ZimVader-0017 Před 8 měsíci +7

      This happened to my mother. It was the 80s, and she lived in a student lodgings with other girls.
      A roommate was the one doing the robbery, and she stole from the other girls, too.
      My mother caught the roommate's friend with one of her stolen shirts (they had been so dumb that they wore the stolen items at the university), and made her take it off in front of everyone. The shirt was gifted to her by a friend from Mexico, so it was very unique and recognizable.
      She got some stuff back ( the university's security actually did their job), but not all of it.

  • @Katherine-em4fl
    @Katherine-em4fl Před 8 měsíci +10

    Most of my clothes are thrifted or gifted by people, and I struggle a lot to find my size in normal shops. As you say, the sizes are very strange. Damn, that sucks that they stole that from you!!! I would be very upset because when you take your time to make a personalised wardrobe, it really feels like your little treasure, that you cannot replace that easily.

  • @shmargluff
    @shmargluff Před 8 měsíci +7

    Really sorry this happened to you. Being the victim of theft feels awful. I had my expensive university textbook stolen in a packed university tutorial when I briefly went up to the front of the room. The book had been open on my desk and when I came back it was gone. I was in disbelief and felt awful knowing that one of the people around me must have done it, but I had no proof and couldn't make everyone open their bags to check.

  • @inanutshell2924
    @inanutshell2924 Před 8 měsíci +220

    Who ever it was,, it will be something they can never wear, your clothing is iconic and very easy to place and remember. Give it time,, our community is not insurmountably large, some one will eventually draw your eye on the interweb to something that may be yours. I hope you find the items you love the most again.

    • @GalinaEv
      @GalinaEv Před 8 měsíci +2

      i'd like to imagine it was team of Karolina's fans. That's why they didn't take expensive camera

    • @SibylleLeon
      @SibylleLeon Před 8 měsíci +38

      @@GalinaEv If they were fans, that would make it even worse, because then they knew how much work and love was in these clothes...

    • @GalinaEv
      @GalinaEv Před 8 měsíci

      @@SibylleLeon yeah but at least the cloth will be cherished and not thrown away

    • @stellasdoesstuff
      @stellasdoesstuff Před 8 měsíci +31

      Unfortunately, it will likely be resold, so whoever ends up with it probably won't be the people who originally stole it

    • @benzaiten933
      @benzaiten933 Před 8 měsíci +16

      sadly it'll either land in the trash or 'donated' to be re-sold in another country. it's unlikely that anything will pop up again.

  • @florianabonera9713
    @florianabonera9713 Před 8 měsíci +50

    I am so sorry this happened to you, but Rome can be really tricky. As an Italian I was trained not to leave anything visible in the car because people will break in to take anything of value or not, but also the police experience is very typically ridiculous.

  • @Samxdannytxr
    @Samxdannytxr Před 8 měsíci +7

    A few years ago, I was working as a teacher, and a small group of students stole candy out of my desk. The value was probably between $5-10, and it was candy meant as rewards for students, so it wasn’t like I was planning to eat it. However, the feeling of being stolen from and having my trust damaged hurt terribly.
    I’m sorry to hear your family went through that and lost irreplaceable items.

  • @guadarossifedyszyn9319
    @guadarossifedyszyn9319 Před 5 měsíci +5

    the moral of the story is to keep everything valuable in a hen-shaped bag

  • @artvandelay7236
    @artvandelay7236 Před 8 měsíci +70

    you never cease to amaze me, i would be a bitter, miserable, hate-filled wreck. instead, you create an entertaining vlog about it.

  • @Malecare
    @Malecare Před 8 měsíci +90

    So sorry for your loss. I am sure it is a deeper hurt than most might imagine.

  • @ucjatomczak8509
    @ucjatomczak8509 Před 8 měsíci +16

    So im also Polish and this video reminded me of an incident that happened to me also in Rome. We were also not In the city centre, because it was a last minute trip and our car and another car with Polish rejestration plates had broken windows, those were the only Polish cars in the area and also the only ones with broken windows, nothing was stolen but we had to go the rest of the trip with a trash bag with ducktape covering the window. Really sorry for you btw :c

  • @thebugbear
    @thebugbear Před 8 měsíci +11

    You talking about the difference between what you miss and what the thieves wanted was so true for me when my backpack got stolen. Obviously it was a pain to replace my driver's license and my phone, but I was so sad to lose my swimsuit that fit me really well. I hope they enjoyed the wet swimsuit and towel at the bottom of my backpack. So sorry that happened to you!

  • @rebeccaude4412
    @rebeccaude4412 Před 8 měsíci +27

    The dress from your friend hurt my heart the most. However, the idea that the thieves could have been watching as you got your pajamas night makes me feel grateful that they only took material items. In my opinion, the fact that your family went through with your holiday is fantastic because the memories you made can never be lost since they live in your hearts. 🤗💜

  • @pixiepalasmr6881
    @pixiepalasmr6881 Před 3 měsíci

    At first when I saw the title, I said, “Can’t blame them, her clothes are to die for “ but in all seriousness, my heart goes out to you, it’s sickening to have your personal belongings pawed at, let alone taken from you.

  • @ittybittybuckybarnes7012
    @ittybittybuckybarnes7012 Před 8 měsíci +3

    That’s terrible!!! Not just clothes they took, but time and love and care!! Not just some replaceable fast fashion, but YOU. I hope your new summer wardrobe exceeds the old one and makes this all a little less awful. ❤

  • @heatherly86
    @heatherly86 Před 8 měsíci +108

    Being robbed is awful and feels so violating. I’m so sorry that happened to you and your family!

  • @carlac9782
    @carlac9782 Před 8 měsíci +40

    So sorry to hear. In the 90s I lost a whole wardrobe of Chinese vintage clothing the same way. Car broken into and evetything gone. I mourned those pieces for a long time. I am in awe of your attitide towards your experience.

  • @sarahfox5379
    @sarahfox5379 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Girl! I'm so sorry about your wardrobe - I would have just laid down and cried - you are so amazing that you took this in stride!

  • @marinasanford8799
    @marinasanford8799 Před 8 měsíci +1

    "I hope they step on Legos" is now my new favourite way to curse someone.

  • @ewalczuk
    @ewalczuk Před 8 měsíci +136

    Awww… I’m so sorry to hear your stuff got stolen!

    • @cbpd89
      @cbpd89 Před 8 měsíci +25

      My bro lives in Las Vegas and he has literally had his car stolen and recovered three times.
      He finally sold the old junker for a car that has better security features. It's so common there for cars to be stolen for just a drop off or whatever and then abandoned with nothing taken. Sometimes he gets the car back with extra weird stuff in it!

  • @darianasosa7298
    @darianasosa7298 Před 8 měsíci +133

    Maybe it's because car theft is so common in my country, but I did cringe at the idea of leaving your luggage in the car trunk. Then again, we don't even trust hotels in my family. Our luggage always has locks. I'm so sorry this happened to you, because outside of the money and time spent, your wardrobe held a lot of sentimental value.

  • @lacrimatorium
    @lacrimatorium Před 8 měsíci +170

    Dear Karolina, former New Yorker here. Pro-tip: Never leave anything visible in a car that you don't want stolen. Solutions for the future. If your car has tinted back windows, then, and I realize I'm going up against family tradition here, so take this with truffle flavored salt flakes, but do not pile things higher than the bottom of the window. Then bring a very dark textured piece of fabric, blanket, and when you leave the car cover everything with it. That creates the illusion that there is nothing in the car. The tinted glass hides every thing that is dark. Light colors stand out. But black hides the stuff. Try it sometime. In other words, especially in the Southern Mediterranean area (Italy, Spain, Southern France, Greece), where thievery and pick-pocketing are more common, make sure you are not tempting the thieves. Also if your car was parked in a zone where people are sitting around, be careful of advertising what's in your trunk. My NYC brain would have immediately noted sketchy men sitting around and I would not have spent time opening the trunk in front of them. I would have brought everything valuable upstairs. Never leave anything you would regret being stolen. Car thieves are skilled.
    Now Karolina being part-Polish myself I fully realize that there is an old Polish tradition that says no one can tell anyone else what to do. Each Pole reinvents the wheel, or, in your case, makes their own wardrobe. So I am sure you will not follow my advice, you will have to invent your own methods. But if you take one thing from this it's simply this: Never leave anything in the car that you would regret being stolen. Period.
    And thanks for the video and the sense of humor!

    • @ciastomarchewkowe7103
      @ciastomarchewkowe7103 Před 8 měsíci +42

      Everybody knows that you shouldn't leave things visible in the car. It's common sense. But in the last 10 years Poland had become safe enough that a lot of the time you just automatically go "eh, it will be fine", because people don't remember anything like that happening to them or people they know. You start feeling like you're paranoid when thinking too much about getting robbed, because it seems so unlikely.

    • @lacrimatorium
      @lacrimatorium Před 8 měsíci +19

      @@ciastomarchewkowe7103 The curse of success.
      I live in Tbilisi Georgia. I left my apartment building today for two hours and didn't even lock my door.There's a lock on the building entrance and a code to get in. But I only do that when I stay in the local area. But since I did live in NYC, I have a radar that goes up in certain places. Italy is one of those places.

    • @moth1560
      @moth1560 Před 8 měsíci +6

      this is extremely basic common sense and yet...

    • @aneanai
      @aneanai Před 8 měsíci +3

      @lacrimqtorium4628 no one needed your comment or protip

    • @moth1560
      @moth1560 Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@aneanai clearly She did.

  • @ninjabgwriter
    @ninjabgwriter Před 8 měsíci +4

    I'm so sorry your stuff was stolen, that's terrible. Losing sentimental things is always the worst, but I'm glad you were still able to enjoy time with your loved ones and find things to laugh about.