Why Men Don't Think It's Worth It To Have Girlfriends Anymore
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Women are finally ready to settle down when they are 40yrs old with 2 kids.
Yeah and who wants that? Lol not I.
To late then only an idiot simp will cuff something like that.
YO DO A FLIP!
If you can't have her in her prime than curve her in the decline
I lolâd and thought damn itâs true in most cases
Bro Iâm 50 and I can tell you it was never worth having a girlfriend or wife.
It's a lot of fun the first six months. lol. That seems to be the max on fun though.
It's never easy to keep a relationship going after 1,5,10 years BUT AT LEAST up until 10 years ago you didn't have to deal with social media, neofeminism and all this crap that is destroying dating and relationships.
Good for you
Social media ruined women. Itâs not like the days where we can interact with woman and actually have girlfriends without them constantly messaging or taking to other guys at once. Itâs sad all of us men and women just want someone to commit to us without all these trust issues.
You are 100% correct
@followjohngalt , When it comes to modern Western women, keep running and do MGTOW or get a passport and join the Fraternity of the Passport Bros.
Dating and marriage is non-existent in the West.
â@@followjohngaltsorry, that is sad. I feel similarly about the men I've met in the past 10 years or so. Not the roster so much as that they are just a bunch of shallow sluts or drink too much. Unfortunately when they want to get serious with me, I dont respect them because they're so base. (I will say this happens regardless if I've slept w them or not, usually not... because my skills at detecting liars, users, or desperation have gotten better).
I agree. Today's world is difficult. The only way maybe is to do what you like and hopefully meet like-minded people. Perhaps on the more whole-some side of things. Like whatever spirituality you practice or philosophy you beleive in or specific activities.
there always are on the phone
most women for the streets these days
or they just go from bf to bf with out being single a week, they always have a guy lined up. they're all garbage.
â@@aaroncolombo that part hurts. Woman just casually goes to the next guy
ââ@@aaroncolombo if you're talking to a female just always remember its most likely temporary and she's still flirting with other guys
It's all double standard bullshit. They're not yours its just your turn and it's OK to forfeit. They have plenty in their fan club that haven't yet learned their lesson yet.
@@aaroncolombo bruh they even cheaper than a prostitute
That's how bad it is in the West?
Oh boy if this culture is what is starting to happen in my country (Romania), I'm fucked as well. It's not just Northern America and Western Europe.
I'm 37. When people ask me why am I single or why I don't have kids. I dont really have an answer for them. I just wonder how they cannot see what a mess we are living in these days
Itâs simple: Too much risk too much money
@@manasseh7 you're right ..I've got total peace, full pockets, ahead on all my bills...let me focus on that
@@SR-hf3hx thats it right there.
@@manasseh7 had two female coworkers actually admit they had a crush on me today...one isn't in my league and the other is too young....God was telling me something lol
â@@SR-hf3hxwtf is too young?
"Stay single until you get what you deserve" So true bruh, don't be a nice guy, be a GOOD guy with standards and lines that cannot be crossed.
This should be getting more likes đđ»
Recipe for loneliness. Nature's way to clean the gene pool. Reality is cruel.
@@mv8908 bruh then donât let mature decide. If you canât find someone that is good enough for your standards get a child through surrogacy to preserve your legacy
@@christianrodriguez5346 why would you like to bring another loser into this infernal life to suffer a similar fate?
Basically, find a girl that's gonna be interested in you while you barely SHOW her any wealth and ALREADY be wealth enough to "sustain" her in your life. She won't even bother to look around cause she won't have to. Unless she's a "he was TOO good" and gets bored đ.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Why are you posting the exact same comment on every video?
32 y old guy here. Was not easy in life as to break the family curse ( literally every single member brainwashed and narcs) Lost interest an good 10 years back in all that crap, now im living on my own, got as much free time as i want, its never been better actually. It is true that mans life after 30 is the new 20s. Dont give up kings, life is not about woman đ
It's totally not about woman! It's about being 100% happy on your own. Become the best version of yourself.. Make money with a job you love.. Travel.. Have se* with several women.. Sorry but this sounds great to me. Better than having a relationship with these messed up western modern women.. right?
Hopefully it gets better for all us.
Thatâs the life to have for sure I hope things get better for me as well & Iâm turning in a few months.
Only thing I experienced was games and ghosting from women
Move to Thailand
One time there was a man who asked another man what it's like to be in a relationship with a woman. He pointed towards a tree nearby and said "do you see that tree over there with all its branches and leaves? That's how much pleasure and happiness you will get from being in a relationship with a woman. Do you see that huge mountain behind that tree? That's how much pain, suffering and despair you will get from being in a relationship with a woman."
Those are some very wise words
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This is definitely a true story
Thatâs deep asf
I LOVE THIS!
Got a message from a girl I haven't seen in 4 years. I entertained her and messaged her back. The entire time, Im remembering who she was then and likely still is. Drinks almost daily and smokes daily. Bounced from guy to guy. I was not one of them. Friend-zoned and not mad at all at that. Why is she messaging me? She sees my FB profile, and I still look young and fresh. I stopped drinking 6 years ago and stopped going out. She did not. Im 43, and she's 33. I met her when she was 23 and I was 33. Why in the hell would I want to be around her for a moment? She initiated us reconnecting. I did not. I kept thinking, post wall queen, post wall queen, post wall queen. The reckoning is here, and she's trying to pull me down with her. No thanks. Enjoy Cinco Demayo getting wasted as usual. Bye, lady.
lol. Are you my brother? The same happened to me yesterday. I'm just a year younger than you, and some woman that friend zoned me when she was 19, and at the time I was 33 (yes, huge age difference) just emailed me back saying she wants us to be an item. For a moment, I was willing to entertain the possibility, after all she would be 28 years old. Still a young thing, relatively speaking, but hopefully wiser than the dumb ass 19 year old I remember. Then I saw her updated picture and holy shit. I don't know what the woman has went through the last 9 years, but she looks to be around 50 years old. Serious drugs, drinking, and God knows what sexually involved. I look to be 14 years younger than her rather than the 14 years older than her in actuality. Needless to say, I passed. WTF is going on with women?!
Exactly!
Every girl I graduated with has gained 50+ lbs. I lost 125. Women age like milk
What does the wall have in common with the 2022 Georgia Bulldogs and the 2023 Michigan Wolverines? đ
Good thing you realized! Self awareness is important
This is what I realized a bit too late. I wanted a girlfriend so bad that I never thought about what I wanted out of a girlfriend, after doing that I realized that women aren't offering what I want to get out of a relationship anymore. It's not worth it. I want a home maker.
Very trueđ
absolutely but my schlong still needs to be worked so I will be selling the dream until further notice
Dating women is like torture, don't do it unless you have a very strong mind. I don't so i ignore women like the plague lmao
44 year old black guy
No kids no debt
Enjoying my life
Not worried bout a girlfriend anymore
Jus paid off student loans too
Recently went to yellowstone park and saw the wildlife
Was awesome
You, my man, can be proud of yourself đđ»đđ»
Enjoy your life mateđđđ
Good to see black men not having 15 kids good Onya mate
Olâ faithful đ»
@@brudesim5673 yea yellowstone was great
Saw elk and bison
I've seen both sides. At 28 I was divorced, lost everything including all contact with my daughter. At 34 I've rebuilt. I have a better life.
Meanwhile, tools still keep telling men to do what you did...Marry young.
I am pretty sure you are the rule and not the exception. (with your divorce.)
I am glad you did well a second time and I hope you can get on in life well. Hopefully one day, your daughter can get your side of the story.
You right terry I can't stand most women these days social media ruins them .
Ignore social media đ
@@HeatherOlmsted-bp6xc đ
â@@HeatherOlmsted-bp6xcye but women don't and that's the issue they get tons of messages from guys a day who make them feel like goddesses even if they ain't the best looking so it inflates their egos which makes them think they are all 10s irl
@@tomhall4986yikes. Go to therapy friend. It sounds like youâve been very hurt. Understandable. But this mindset is just trash. Thereâs nothing wrong with a woman getting attention from dudes, it would happen IRL too, itâs called flirting and it happens. As long as the women arenât engaging/entertaining it you should be happy to be with someone everyone wants. Because she is with you. You see?
â@@Ciera_Bankswrong
Choose wisely fellas. There is alot of smoke about women.
Last girl literally admitted to me she used to sell her body mind u she was 22 when she did it and she still demanded I give her a relationship watch out fellas is scary out here bro .
Yoo thatâs crazy man I hope u moved on
Good job finding that out before it was too late
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Iâm glad you avoided that! Itâs looking scary out here wild!
That's great that she was up front and told you.
There is no value for a man in relationship. The man risk to lose everything in all situations. Never settle ever. Personally, "I view all women as a distraction from where I want to go in life." God comes first.
What are you talking about? You don't risk losing anything in a relationship, unless by relationship you mean a marriage or cohabitation in a common law state.
@@JohnMcAfee-se9ms Really..Half your income kids, step kids, potential alimony, 401k, your house, the list goes on. Come on man you have to be smarter than that.
So a delusion over other delusion.
Come on internet trolls..You can do better than that..Bring out all the girlie save a 304 men to make comments
@@DavidSmith-wi3ic You are so old and insane you can't even come up with a reply to me.
Stay single, build wealth first, and then the power is in your hands, trust me on this .
Still get mostly ran through entitled women...
Men and women fail to understand that millionaires are always working. Money doesnât come easy.
Who says people arenât working hard? Thatâs a generalization.
@@crustykeycap5670 Generally, millionaires are always working.
Lol, you've drunken the coolaide
@@robjohnson5337 yeah I know streamers who play video games and watch videos all day work. Girls who show off their bodies work. Rich people donât âworkâ like normal people. And the ones who work are STILL millionaires.
It makes PERFECT sense to be envious of millionaires. They are in a very good position 99.9% of the time. They could stop working if they wanted. Again who says people who arenât millionaires arenât working? Like they arenât working hard enough? Most people work hard. Harder then they should, because they get fooled. They were scammed before they were born.
â@@crustykeycap5670Thats just the way the economy works đ
It all boils down to this:
Men want women way more than they need them; women need men way more than they want them.
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But does it matter? even tho it is correct, I feel/think that it comes down to appearance ( even if Manu refuse to accept it ) and enjoyment at first, for both sides. Then it's just getting used to 1 another really, we are fucking weird đ.
Figured out why youre aone
That's a great quote I'll have to use it and credit you đđŸđđŸ
From my experience itâs not even worth being in a relationship it will lead you to credit card debt, stress, & headaches.
Keep it as friends with benefits if you can't control your spending.
The psy ops suggest these women lay their best years to be sacrificed on the altar of the demiurge to be granted everything in youth, in exchange for 7x the suffering during the other 2/3 of their life
As opposed to suffer with a loser ?
Not really worth the time investment these days.
That's why I've come to realize as long as I have Jesus I don't need any females or anything else I'm ready to meet him
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Amen brother
I don't want to alarm you if you haven't heard this, but he was killed.
You might be waiting for a long time.
@@JohnMcAfee-se9msyes, but he rose from the dead. Heâs alive and in heaven right now.
Cope
Modern women aka future cat ladies
You mean dogs. They all have dogs now. Dog mom is what they are called. They worship a four legged beast but donât want kids of their own.
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Invest in Petco and Chewy.
I know some very high value men, who are single and they just call Escort girls. I asked one them:
" Why are you single ? "
His answer: " I work so hard, I'm not gonna get in a relationship with a girl, who has even 3 body counts. "
Those men are smart
Hypocrisy
They are only good for pumping n dumping
Don't worry about it. Just keep on racking more bodies to your count. You go girlfriend â@@innavision1920
@@innavision1920very much so. Deserving of a woman who values and pair bond through intimacy yet pump and dumb escortsâŠ? Expecting women to have values and qualities they donât possess themselves, all for the wrong reasons that only benefits themâŠ.
I can hear the âmen and women are differentâ bs coming in
Women can leave you for a variety of reasons that are completely out of your control. That is the main reason. As soon as a woman sees and interacts with a guy she deems better, she will at the very least be interested, and be less interested in you. This is nature. You have to be the best of the best, or you will die alone.
I wouldnât go as far as the last sentence. But generally this is true
@@gs90000 I think my last statement is fair to make. Logically, if women keep leaving you for better men (which is almost always the case), you have to become, in her mind, the best.
@@fiat_ow7876 âyou have to be the best of the best, or you will die aloneâ?? Thatâs hardly true.
I remember watching a wedding in my local church a few years ago. I though "I wonder how long will that last". They are probably divorced now. She has another man. He dipped his wick and having to pay support.
I would only date a younger woman and I would only marry a virgin. That white dress has meaning.
Good luck finding one
That would make sense if youâre a virgin.
@@peacelovea209 Impossible đ
best dial back those standards or get used to staying single.
@@pantsenfuego9986 can still use modern woman until you meet somone with morals đ
It's annoying that I can't even post links to old CZcams videos in the CZcams comments without it being deleted, no wonder so much knowledge has been lost.
Bro is fucking smart
There are a few smart men out there. Us guys get better over time, while women were instantly fine when young but over time they lose their beauty
CHRIST IS KING
Buddha is king
â@@Buddha_Bankrupt A dead man with not a single miracle to his name? Not saving one person? Is King?
Hahaha
Christ is within
Heâs dead.
AMENđ„đ„đđ
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.đ
Broken society = broken people
Well said â€
It's obvious it's broken when people no longer want to procreate anymore lol
Patriarchy broke the world
@mv8908 many countries do not have a patriarchal system.
@@jayc342009 such as?
I love my freedom being single.
Same here enjoying my singlehood
Take care of yourself, work hard, don't let flakes take you.
agreed
They wear to much make up, fake hair and nails, every weekend in the club.
Yes, plastic Barbies .. donât forget the fake lips, boobs and eyebrows LOL
When you overhear them tallking about their exploits is a total turn off.
I finally got rid off the feeling of loving that one special girl, im fully focused now im fully recovered, ww got this shit bro
You won't need a woman's love to find happiness and fill the void once you know God's love. âšïž
GOD ONLY KNOWS BOY!!đ€Łđ
Whats another 5 years I love being single with no sense of control over me. Something might come but I'm pretty fucken picky so let's see what happens.
They want to waste their best years and they want the best guy ever after they hit the wall đ„đ„đ„
My friend is married and he was like marriage is overrated don't do it just a couple days ago I feel bad because he is not happy, he's a lawyer and wife stays at home. I think womens standards are so out of wack that most of the time its what you can offer and that they typically choose the guy who can offer the most. All my single sister does is watch "House Hunters" and lavish lifestyles of reality tv personalities all day its basically conditioning women into thinking they need stuff to be content in my opinion. I asked my sister would you ever date someone that worked at wall-mart or seven eleven and although she's always vocal she didn't say a word. Her silence taught me something in that moment. Most guys are feeling like women probably don't want to grow with them they just want to take what they have, so when you see it from that perspective you don't see women as something of value anymore. I've had attractive girlfriends and I've seen dm's its crazy and just think some women are addicted to that when even if they are in a relationship they will be entertained by it. Girls aren't programmed to be aggressive so there's an empty void for guys and guys usually just feel that void with sex but they have to compete with other men in relationships already who have status and are sleeping with everything that moves. This creates diseases, conflicts and complicates dating for everyone. The girl who is single is overloaded with attention, the girl who has kids with the guy, the guy who's competing with the guy and the guy who just got a divorce and or woman that got a divorce. After being in the cycle so many times you just say screw it this sucks and I don't want anymore.
If their profile says ive had my fun, now its time to settle downđđđđđ
They want to get financially connected, i refuse.
The key is don't marry, if you marry u can loose 1/2 of your wealth....at least. If your wealth increases throughout your working years 1/2 of that is gone as well
Then stop dating unemployed women.
â@@TGP109often the case is that the more we earn as men, the more we want a woman to be at home full time with the children to raise them properly.
Just date, screw them, and if sheâs worth it sheâll be around till the end, maybe she can left somthin in the will, but not half my worth, hell to the naw!!!
I think you nailed it on the head with this one bro cause ive seen the crazy shit first hand.
Fax. I ain't going out of my way. They can approach me themselves.
I agree I don't know anybody that's Happy married after so long they just feel trapped in marriages and mortgages kids fighting no and you know what every man I ever knew destroyed me in some way maybe because I was stupid and let them and my dad who truly loved me unconditionally and truly loved my mom died in my hands when I was 19 years old and that destroyed me more than any other man since so I just I give up and I just say you know what I'm the bride of Christ and that's good enough
You probably have at least a few mental problems considering that whole paragraph was a single run-on sentence.
Not enough ROI
A girlfriend requires an investment of three things:
a) time;
b) energy;
c) money
The ROI for a man (sex). Result: dopamine surge. However, before and *if* one gets to that stage, there is typically an accompaniment of stress and drama for a man in dealing with a woman. In my case, I am a quiet and calm person who avoids conflict, stress and drama.
In watching many other videos on the subject matter, the comments basically echo the same sentiment: it's not worth it! 52m never married.
33, i dont aproach, i dont date, i dont smile at woman. I enjoy my peace honestly, got a cat and gaming PC i dont need much. Im glad i have no kids with my 2 previous toxic girlfriends. My 60yo unckle got totally played by his wife, lost half of his stuff hes saying me ur doing good son, woman can destroy you completly mentally and physically (hes like my dad bc my dad died when i was little)
NOW YOU A SINGLE MOM
Every vacation i took with a girlfriend almost always involves drama...
It takes alot of experience to avoid the game women play we as men have to be smart about it dont be played
Great video Iâm glad Iâm not the only one thinking everything you said . Iâm 47, Iâve literally tapped out of marriage . I had no choice but to focused on my career when I hit 30. I sacrificed a lot of my time with work , working long hours and putting in nights and weekends @school . I hardly if ever took vacations as I had no one to go with all to climb the career ladder , and it has paid off! Again sacrifice . I donât see marriage as an option for me as you said where is her best years I can enjoy life with .
Girlfriend took my hand and showed me that reality is constructed in a huge factory run by little hidden creatures. While I was distracted by the beauty of that machine she surprised me by showing me that I'm one of the creatures in that cosmic factory as well, who is merely suffering from the illusion that I'm a human living in the Universe that was think we know. As I was coming to grips with that, she showed me that myself and all the other creatures running the machine are actually just singular, primal points of observation -- possessing no other actual attributes than the pure ability to know. Before I could process all of this I was gently transformed back into my body and sent home again.
Cool story bro
Patience young Padawan.
Too bad women like Padme don't exist. đą
And what about a 29 year old virgin woman who didnât go crazy during her âbest yearsâ but studied and dealt with poor health?
Well, youâd be a high value woman .
I agree with the other reply. If you find/found a way to be in good health, and are collaborative instead of jaded*, then youâd be a rare find that any decent man would be glad to have around. Finding that match would be still be hard tho
* itâs easy to get secondhand jaded from the internet. As someone who is also on the sidelines not participating in debauchery itâs sometimes hard to remember that my hands are basically clean, that Iâm winning by not playing, that I just gotta keep my eyes open, know my boundaries and be patient
agreed a good catch is a way to describe it
Nothing but pure facts and bangers this man is always dropping
I needed this today thank brother
Love it bro, thank you
Very well said, liked and subscribed.
If women had the pressure and accountability to get screwed in divorce court almost every women would have an only fans page but not the case. Pretty much itâs a win win for women these days.
Family and birth rates down but at least women can screw men in divorce...our civilization is going to crumble but at least women are happy i guess...
Speak that truth young man. Iâm 36 and have been experiencing the same. Stay strong brother and keep true to yourself.
I appreciate these vids man
MUCH THANKS đđ FOR THE WISDOM, REAL FACTS!!!!!!!!!
This might be my favorite video on the net right now cause you said everything I wonât say out loud & I have no problem dating and getting women. But bra.. these chicks donât know the half of why Iâm not going to give my all and itâs for ALL the reasons here. đ
Whole video was facts â€
Good video man
Patience is on our side!
Thanks for the video.
You're the beast bro
Or they end up pregnant then all of a sudden they want to settle down and find a man to take care of them and theyâre in the relationship for the wrong reasons at that point.
Peace and serenity Is my only reason. But understand your points.
I approve this message. đŻ đŻ đŻ
One of my friends was single until he was 50+ years old isnt love suppose to be easy and straightforward you know no cheating no lying no secrets like you love me I love you type of thing
it breaks my heart to watch this video! half way watching this makes me realize there are real potential guys out there.
30 seconds in and I gave your video a like, yes thatâs right getting them on their way down and yes that chip on my shoulder is apparently holding me back.
This video contains FACTS!
I love the truth ..& brother you just say it how it is đđ
Just recently i met a really cute young girl and we were really hitting it off, good personality match which is super rare for me
Then she hits me with " But if you want to be together you have to accept that I'm 'poly' "
So apparently that means she wants to have permission to sleep around with anyone
She tells me she considers that "a really important experience to her" to have the "pirate ship" experience
sigh.... there goes another one ....
They looked forward to that girlfriend with joy, but without haste, not pining for it, but seeming to have a foretaste of it in their hearts, of which they talked to one another. But when they looked at me with their sweet eyes full of love, when I felt that in their presence my heart, too, became as innocent and just as theirs, the feeling of the fullness of life took my breath away, and I worshipped them in silence. Their children were the children of all, for they all made up one family.
I never thought about this
Speaking some facts
It just isn't worth the heartbreak man đą .
Just keep stacking and investing in yourself! I did the whole dating thing 9.5 year and 3.5 year long one⊠couldnât be happy and less stressed and my bank account is fat! lol best thing I did was got back in a good hobby after my last relationship and just staying busy living and investing in my future. When Iâm 40-50 I can still get that 25 year old lol time is on our side
"Live on pay per view" I love that!
Can we all agree that this man is speaking factss!!
Enjoyed the video. Love the way you put it. If the ladies didnât give a fuck about us when the world was kicking our ass they donât get to be apart of the picture when weâre dominating it!
Nice loosens the soul like lack of control of oneâs eyes. Soul taken with ease, ya know. (Ok Iâll stop.) đ°đł love all the videos!
This is cold hard FAX
I watched the available guys leave for vietnam when I was very young later in life I did marry a 100 percent disabled vietnam vet with 2 purple hearts who i miss. Some of what your saying does make perfect logical sense. Now as far as special goes its no surprise that after having his sternum opened there was an inability to stop oxytocin from pouring out affecting the hearts of others that notice. My now hero is me even though I have not been able to access the benefits of his experience which was vast. Gold fever took him away. Keeping it light playful harmless is an art that will keep our greatness visible so to pick and choose our moments of mutual acceptance of what we do have which is the present.
when you focus on yourself and no longer care they come running..... let them come and when they knock you say no thanks
All facts bruh
Social media messed this whole generation up.
Iâm happy with my hand itâs always there and donât talk back and is super cheap!
I agree with you completely, itâs basically black pill - but this realization sets you free.
All my life ive been chasing girls never did nun for me dis last year and a half I've been focusing on myself..its PEACEFUL
Speaking facts
The grim reaper part was funny. Let him do his thing. đ