Sexual Intimacy After Betrayal

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Komentáře • 47

  • @n.howell980
    @n.howell980 Před 4 lety +24

    Just watching this triggers me because it seems to me like common sense yet he doesnt get it 😞

  • @apartmentsixeleven4093
    @apartmentsixeleven4093 Před 3 lety +4

    The guy in this video turned out to be even worse than he seems here. There are two follow-up videos and the last one is a jaw dropper.

  • @burnettaallen2492
    @burnettaallen2492 Před 4 lety +24

    It's really difficult when a man pursues a woman who didn't really want him to begin with but eventually accepts him and loves him truly only to learn that he was never truly invested in the relationship.

    • @michellecook-hill431
      @michellecook-hill431 Před 3 lety

      Why would any woman eventually except him and love him truly when she didn’t want him to begin with. There’s this thing called intuition and gut… For crying out loud

    • @vanessafly2245
      @vanessafly2245 Před rokem

      That’s what happened to me !

  • @jensbornagain
    @jensbornagain Před 2 lety +4

    I am never getting out of the discovery phase. 💔 he will never tell me anything how do you move on in the marriage when he lies and denies.

    • @Littleone124
      @Littleone124 Před 2 lety

      In my experience, it's not possible to move on if he is still lying to you. You will never trust him and he continues to disrespect you.

  • @pandemic4841
    @pandemic4841 Před 3 lety +8

    Appreciate the info, just can't get through the video right now... maybe down the road.

  • @tiffanymonique82
    @tiffanymonique82 Před 2 lety

    This was so very good! Thank you

  • @Somegirl3602
    @Somegirl3602 Před 3 lety +13

    It's funny how women still ask the question of should they stay or should they go after multiple infidelities.... Majority of Men don't even ask, they leave you. But we as women put up with it even with the risk of STDs/herpes etc. Something that could make you infertile. We put up with it even after men birth outside children.

    • @mljrotag6343
      @mljrotag6343 Před 3 lety +3

      The gender shouldn't matter here.

    • @keynat9755
      @keynat9755 Před 3 lety +5

      @@mljrotag6343 but she's right

    • @mljrotag6343
      @mljrotag6343 Před 3 lety +4

      @@keynat9755 I understand but am against double standards. No one should put up with infidelity.

    • @keynat9755
      @keynat9755 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mljrotag6343 agreed!

  • @marywhibley1756
    @marywhibley1756 Před 3 lety +3

    I have done all as a betrayed partner, but since I got to know that he cheated on messenger, he said that they were only friends!!!. FRIENDS!! When I saw them sharing kiss emojis to each other, and the amount of, "love you's to each other",and all the sweet names he was calling her, that he does not say to me as his wife.😭. I have never heard him say, " I love you", once to our son and daughter!!!.
    Well, when he was caught, hesaid that it was nothing, and they were only friends. He doesn't want to talk about it, and has swept it all under the carpet.

  • @jaydixson1731
    @jaydixson1731 Před 2 lety

    Great info

  • @keynat9755
    @keynat9755 Před 3 lety +1

    Emotional 4play! 2 snaps!

  • @priscillambae7261
    @priscillambae7261 Před 3 lety

    So so touching

  • @kingaidu6481
    @kingaidu6481 Před 3 lety

    Wow I am watching this now , of course was not dealing with anything like that but I live in St Kitts small world

  • @tedholly6178
    @tedholly6178 Před 3 lety

    When my ex wife cheated on me and betrayed our marriage before our divorce I couldn’t sleep with her after she disrespected our relationship our marriage and she repeated to cheat after even though she said she wouldn’t and we even tried married counseling and last time she had her new boyfriend took her after our session , she even asked both of us if the other man was the father of her baby would either one of us would take care of her after she chose between us and small miracles she wasn’t pregnant after all !! This is disappointing why not have a women explain why she did cheat and what she did with her new adultery lover ! In my future relationships I always laid down one rule if they cheated on me the door closed behind them do not return I will not accept them back after that betrayal and divorce is the only option! Also I’ve never ever seen a women truly remorseful after they have cheated on there marriage or even truly apologize or take responsibility for the selfish choices when they betray there marriage vows ! How about focussing on on how betrayal affects the faithful spouse after being betrayed by the unfaithful female spouse !

  • @sexycatlady17
    @sexycatlady17 Před 6 lety +6

    Thank you for your insight, great video! Any suggestions on if your spouse has withdrawn from marriage/me? He will not educated himself on infidelity, no videos or books. Doesn't want to talk about it and has abandoned and neglected me countless times after discovery. It kills me. I have physical pain in my chest...is it time to divorce? Thanks again!

    • @CouplesAcademy
      @CouplesAcademy  Před 6 lety +6

      Hi Nicole, there is too much to share in a youtube response. You should set up a FREE discovery session with me so i can answer your question at length. www.couplesacademy.org/

    • @akstylez_ak5037
      @akstylez_ak5037 Před 5 lety

      Nicole Avila
      Great question

    • @apartmentsixeleven4093
      @apartmentsixeleven4093 Před 3 lety +4

      Same happened to me. He wanted it to magically go back to normal with no effort. It just doesn't work like that. It is a year and 3 months later and I still can't kiss him. Have no desire for affection from him or toward him as a result.

  • @1966littleminx
    @1966littleminx Před 6 lety +8

    I have a question... When should sexual intimacy resume after a partner has been caught cheating?
    I kicked my cheating partner out and after a month we decided to try and work things out but he is saying sexual intimacy shouldn't happen until I can trust him again we have been back together for 3 weeks and there is no intimacy at all

    • @rnaz21
      @rnaz21 Před 6 lety +25

      In my opinion, it's not for him to say, it's your choice, not his.

    • @franklinekyle1140
      @franklinekyle1140 Před 5 lety +1

      Just wonderful, I have been researching "heal after affair" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my m8 got cool results with it.

  • @mbuckhannon
    @mbuckhannon Před 6 lety +9

    I just found out that my wife has cheated on me a month ago, I just found out about it 4 days ago. We need help please.

    • @lievepw1459
      @lievepw1459 Před 5 lety +3

      At least a man is searching for help, you don't know how was him in their relationship.
      Did you cheated on her before?
      You respected her and avoid her to go somewhere else?
      I'm not defending her because cheating is shit. No excuses!!!!
      Was she telling you her feelings and you ignored them, how was the communication? How both behaved while going out?
      Why was she so unhappy?
      Don't listen to the coward here writing shit, that asshole will always be a cheater and a piece of shit, you're better than this idiot commenting because you're ASKING for help.

  • @slyfly4829
    @slyfly4829 Před 3 lety +1

    my ex betrayed me twice after leaving me for 2 guys in 8 years, in a blink of an eye, both times, she became maliscious and sadistic, treated me like i was the enemy, i couldnt figure it out, but i think the reason why it never made sense is because my discard happened long before i ever even met her. i havent nor can i have sex or be close with any woman, my anxiety sky rockets, i get a rock in my stomach, and my heart starts to ache. i think i will be alone for the rest of my life

  • @moneybags999
    @moneybags999 Před 4 lety +4

    The smugness of the boyfriend in this clip really triggered me. It was almost like he had to prevent himself from smiling when he said he did everything. Was this a real discussion or a reenactment?

    • @moneybags999
      @moneybags999 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sawnydawn Wow. I'm not sure I can stomach part 2 but I'll try to anyway.

    • @sawnydawn
      @sawnydawn Před 4 lety

      @@moneybags999Its insane and even harder to stomach, for sure 😣

  • @choukawaii4484
    @choukawaii4484 Před rokem

    Im a spiritual person but dont believe in conventional religion. I agree with some n disagree with some. I say that to ask is you guys methods based in religion? I have experienced advice multiple times that didn't help me in the past because it was a lot of advice to pray, n bible reference that didn't match my life style/beliefs. Thanks.

  • @maykiirwin9894
    @maykiirwin9894 Před 6 měsíci

    I hate these kinds of videos. I'm in actual agony, looking for help and this guys spends more than 5 minutes promoting his practice. CZcams commercials aren't even that long!