What Dr. Phil Thinks May Be Causing Young Woman To Live In Fantasy World

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  • čas přidán 1. 02. 2018
  • Dr. Phil delves into a young woman's past to determine why she may be living in a fantasy world which includes believing she is in a relationship with a woman she met online.
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  • @shawtygotlo1
    @shawtygotlo1 Před 3 lety +1713

    The fact that Dr Phil lays out this poor girl's long history of trauma & then throws her off the show when she's upset people are laughing at her is extremely unethical

    • @somebodysname816
      @somebodysname816 Před 3 lety +69

      It’s repulsive

    • @Be1smaht
      @Be1smaht Před 3 lety +23

      I get what you mean now

    • @alishabrown5491
      @alishabrown5491 Před 3 lety +22

      But these things that she said was not proven , it just what she told him what happened.

    • @sandiestafford4085
      @sandiestafford4085 Před 3 lety +32

      He knows what he’s doing..he has all the training ..not you

    • @ryuk7883
      @ryuk7883 Před 3 lety +82

      @@sandiestafford4085 he’s no longer what you can call a psychologist, he may have been, but the way he handle this story shows he’s not trained. No therapist would ever do that this way.

  • @mizzysparrots4874
    @mizzysparrots4874 Před 2 lety +488

    Bailey is very soft spoken and seems rather mature about this while on the show. I feel dr phil really beat her down. He even asked her to leave and embarrassed her. Baileys family is in these comments saying she never got better after meeting dr phil and she even went missing for a short time. They found her and her parents had to take legal guardianship over her because she's not fit to care for herself. Poor girl

    • @marraine7299
      @marraine7299 Před 2 lety +37

      That honestly does not surprise me. It saddens me like crazy but doesn't surprise me. As someone with trauma as well I probably would have become majorly suicidal if dr Phil had treated me like that.

    • @DulyDownward
      @DulyDownward Před 2 lety +10

      He asked her to leave because she started trying to manipulate the audience into feeling bad for her??? And she isn't mature about this, quiet sure, but she acts very entitled at times. She's trying to manipulate everyone and he's calling her out on it, which is funny because it seems to be working on everyone here.

    • @donnad6677
      @donnad6677 Před 2 lety

      @@DulyDownward Yes! You're Exactly right!
      This girl is severely emotionally ill! She was being very manipulative when she was told to finally leave the stage. She knew it too. You notice she came back. Most very manipulative people are very intelligent. Obviously they're smart enough to manipulate people and get away with it. She is a very entitled person. You can see it in her face that she's not being truthful when she's "agreeing" with Dr. Phil. She IS just saying what she thinks he (and everybody else) wants to hear.
      I'm not surprised that she went "misding" for awhile afterwards. ANOTHER manipulative tactic.
      "Waa Waa...I didn't get my way, so I'll just leave and worry everybody! I'll Show them!!!" She is definitely a brat...and definitely NOT a good person.

    • @Javachipgirl
      @Javachipgirl Před 2 lety +18

      I'm sure Dr Clown, err Phil, set her way back in whatever progress she was making.
      His tone, attitude, choice of words, it's all repulsive.
      Did he ever face any backlash over this episode?

    • @zip953
      @zip953 Před rokem +12

      @@DulyDownward if you saw what happened when she first got on you would not feel the same.

  • @jess.0J
    @jess.0J Před 2 lety +389

    I really hope Bailey is doing ok now. Jasmine was extremely kind to her even though she didn’t know her backstory.

    • @mizzysparrots4874
      @mizzysparrots4874 Před 2 lety +10

      Unfortunately baileys family said she's not well

    • @michaelbell8834
      @michaelbell8834 Před 2 lety

      She is disassociating and delusional. She needs competent and intensive mental health care.

    • @harleyquinn8325
      @harleyquinn8325 Před 2 lety +5

      @@mizzysparrots4874 what happened

    • @mizzysparrots4874
      @mizzysparrots4874 Před 2 lety +28

      @@harleyquinn8325 after the show, Bailey tried contacting jasmine again. Jasmine turned her down yet again (instead of just blocking her like a real grown up would have done, she eggs Bailey on) and Bailey ran away. She was gone for 2 months. When she finally came home she was very mentally distraught. I dont know much more than that. Theres a woman in these comments who comes by every now and then with updates on Bailey.

    • @meilarenne51
      @meilarenne51 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mizzysparrots4874 Bailey was making new accounts every time she blocked her

  • @jasonwest2297
    @jasonwest2297 Před 2 lety +144

    As tragic as this young lady's circumstances are, it's nice to hear a guest calmly say "yes, I do need some help". I hope she got it.

  • @ashviolet
    @ashviolet Před 3 lety +120

    She needs help, real help. Not some through a show like this. He basically put her down like that, worsen her condition.

  • @michaelcs4183
    @michaelcs4183 Před 2 lety +577

    I really hate it when someone says an ill person is “living in fantasy land.” It’s so condescending and needlessly mocking.

    • @donnad6677
      @donnad6677 Před 2 lety +9

      Well...the Truth's the Truth.

    • @rosebud2489
      @rosebud2489 Před rokem +15

      @@donnad6677 If your a therapist you shouldn’t tell them their living in a “fantasy land” like stop invalidating their problems

    • @Peaceful2113
      @Peaceful2113 Před rokem

      You and me both not right

    • @Totaro17
      @Totaro17 Před rokem +5

      @@rosebud2489 but she is. And telling someone that there is reality and that here is fantasy, and they are blurring the lines between, is what a good therapist does.

    • @Totaro17
      @Totaro17 Před rokem +3

      @@rosebud2489 that’s not invalidating their problems. Not telling her would be. You got it all backwards.

  • @jessieduke2124
    @jessieduke2124 Před 2 lety +278

    Her experience on Dr Phil will be now listed to her traumas. Congratulations Dr Phil

    • @victoza9232
      @victoza9232 Před rokem +5

      Don't blame him for her mental problems.

    • @BlueySchiffer
      @BlueySchiffer Před rokem +9

      @@victoza9232 if there's someone you can blame it's for sure dr. phil. genuinely horrible person.

    • @awesomemom533
      @awesomemom533 Před 10 měsíci +2

      He’s arrogant

    • @thekharataykid
      @thekharataykid Před 9 měsíci

      lmfao ikr. i would never go to a therapist whos so judgy

    • @7T2323
      @7T2323 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Unfortunately. This girl is so sensitive that with all the gaslighting pressure around her about how her past traumas have contributed to her "harassment behavior" it's enough to deepen the hurt, remove others from taking responsibility for hurting her and transforming her into a perpetrator. She is doing nothing but mirroring forceful perpetrating behaviors of how others latched on to her, she believes she has a connection or affair with that girl because the whole environment around her has chosen to DISCONNECT from what they did to her. Dr. Phill is actually wounding her even further as he controls the narrative of trauma and what had happened to her in the past, placing the blame back on her.Truth is, people are remarkably resilient and not ALL pilled up traumas are considered fixed and untreatable. Her resilience is demonstrated in the fact that she allows a foreign point of view to reach her to see her "role" in it, how she hurt others in her "dream space", while the potential connection she is looking for between the other and self, the real HURT, is again, DENIED. Basically, she sees how she connects with others but Dr Phill has not disclosed how others connected to her in terms of responsibility and hurt. But at this time she is already fawning to cope with the potential shock of having her ALL abusers being revealed to her , ALL at once, some of which she could even have forgotten about. Causal explanations have no room in therapy unless the client has self-reflected long enough to identify a causal connection between traumatic life events. Dr. Phill is a CBT old school believer. Showing doesn't mean knowing, knowing doesn't mean feeling, feeling doesn't mean acting in this case. What a fuc+ING disaster he had created! I'm so sorry for what this s+it show has done to you, child! ❤😢

  • @lindy9425
    @lindy9425 Před 2 lety +189

    Now that I’ve seen all these traumas, I’m sad he kicked her off the show. She genuinely needs help

  • @matthartley3822
    @matthartley3822 Před 3 lety +424

    I don't understand how he can be so hard on this poor girl. I feel like I'm missing something.

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +19

      I wonder how many of these people are Bailey in reality.

    • @matthartley3822
      @matthartley3822 Před 3 lety +74

      @@DesertBluebells my cousin, who was also raped and put through traumatic situations multiple times, acted pretty similar to this girl. He seemed to live in a fantasy world up until he blew his own brains out. I can't believe how rude and dismissive Dr. Phil was with this girl. She desperately needs help.

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +33

      @@matthartley3822 I am so very sorry to hear about your cousin, Matt Hartley. So sorry. Hugs to you.

    • @matthartley3822
      @matthartley3822 Před 3 lety +13

      @@DesertBluebells well it's certainly not your fault but I appreciate your kindness. Hugs to you too.

    • @kaycrayton1472
      @kaycrayton1472 Před 3 lety +19

      I knew her she is very manipulative. She’s not nice, and plays a role. She’s using her traumatic experiences to manipulate and guilt trip people. So don’t say Dr.Phil was being “hard” on her.

  • @lindadouglass4692
    @lindadouglass4692 Před 3 lety +349

    Well that answers a lot of questions, l totally understand why she had to have this pretend relationship. So much pain. I totally feel for this young woman.

    • @qbb01
      @qbb01 Před 2 lety +1

      Or she is just full of it and creating lies to justify her actions. Wonder if there is any proof of these assaults? I've known people to lie about assaults to justify their actions. She's very manipulative so I wouldn't be surprised.

    • @bobbysochocki4521
      @bobbysochocki4521 Před 2 lety

      Yes fr

    • @vermilliongecko
      @vermilliongecko Před 2 lety

      @@qbb01 I'm sure the show's producers would have checked all that out, Ben, and checked police records etc. You clearly don't know the difference between someone with a mental health condition and someone with a personality disorder. I'm willing to bet that your psychiatric qualifications are....um....ZERO.

    • @qbb01
      @qbb01 Před 2 lety

      @@vermilliongecko You don't need quals to know when someone is manipulating.

  • @jazzy1652
    @jazzy1652 Před 2 lety +69

    “She doesn’t deserve to be harassed by you.” I get that but Bailey does not deserve to be embarrassed on a show from a grown man who should know better for not wanting her biological mother on

  • @freshjive8586
    @freshjive8586 Před 11 měsíci +10

    This is an absolute disgrace and how he didnt get his license revoked after this episode is shameful. The girl is confused but you could tell she had a sweet heart inside and wanted to better herself...how he wasnt hounded off TV after this bullying attack is beyond me

    • @oo0Spyder0oo
      @oo0Spyder0oo Před 2 měsíci +1

      That’s because he hasn’t had a license in over 20+ years, he’s a tv personality with some letters after his name.

  • @Itishayleigh
    @Itishayleigh Před 3 lety +138

    The girl just wants a friend or Someone close too I feel bad

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 Před 3 lety +23

      I think you nailed it. She's so desperate for companionship and love that she's desperately holding on to a random person she came across who seemed non-threatening. I'm usually the most practical person ever, but I experienced a time when I was away at grad school and felt really lonely and built up a relationship in my mind as being deeper than it actually was. I put a lot of pressure on the new relationship because he was my only friend in the area. Loneliness can really mess up the mind of even a usually rational person.

    • @nemom7791
      @nemom7791 Před 3 lety +7

      @@lvega5606 most definitely loneliness is very impacting on one's actions. I've felt lonely so many times & have to always ground myself as much as possible cos it's easy to spiral into dangerous territory.

    • @melanatedqueen
      @melanatedqueen Před 3 lety +3

      No. This girl needs help. It is not loneliness which makes people stalkers.

    • @Fairyviewroad
      @Fairyviewroad Před 2 lety +1

      @@melanatedqueen It can be both, I think.

  • @moonshadowessentialssoapsn5287

    Honestly I feel bad for Jasmine but applaud her for being so compassionate for this girl. I think she needs a lot of help, Bailey that is not Jasmine. But I think Bailey is telling Dr. Phil what he wants to hear. She’s been delusional for a long time and that isn’t going to be undone in 1 morning. This girl has suffered enormous traumas in a very short period of time. My heart breaks for her but she needs a lot of help I hope by now she has received it.

    • @pammers5588
      @pammers5588 Před 2 lety +7

      I agree. It seemed to me that Bailey was just telling Dr. Phil what he wanted to hear. Also, Jasmine was so understanding. I give her a lot of credit for what she did.

    • @andrewiglinski148
      @andrewiglinski148 Před 2 lety +4

      I’d support her having a show over Mr Phil

    • @kristykannapell1720
      @kristykannapell1720 Před 2 lety +4

      Jasmine should have received so much more support! I’m horrified for her. She seems wonderful but was traumatized.

    • @mizzysparrots4874
      @mizzysparrots4874 Před 2 lety +9

      I dont applaud jasmine for anything. All she had to do was block Bailey on social media and she never did, she let it drag out. After the dr phil show Bailey tried to contact jasmine again and STILL jasmine didnt block her and just allowed Bailey to send message after message. I feel jasmine is setting Bailey up for failure because jasmine likes the attention

  • @dominoyo4196
    @dominoyo4196 Před 3 lety +426

    There's something sick about watching two privileged men try to tell this young woman about how she should handle such a massive amount of trauma. Seriously this must have been added to her trauma list. She seemed so desperate for help and he just threw her off.

    • @hf15123
      @hf15123 Před 3 lety +10

      Yes! Thank you! They may be trained and have Ph.Ds or whatever but they have NEVER been in her shoes. Not ever.

    • @Negro.spiritual
      @Negro.spiritual Před 2 lety +7

      @@hf15123 well I dnt think that’s the problem phil is narcissistic asf and a sellout who hasn’t renewed his license in 15 years and the moment it starts to look like they are ganging up and bullying her he kicks her of to save face this is ridiculous

    • @LCHINGON
      @LCHINGON Před 2 lety +6

      Priviledge men?

    • @mon796
      @mon796 Před 2 lety +9

      There's that leftie word "privileged".

    • @Fairyviewroad
      @Fairyviewroad Před 2 lety +6

      @@mon796 Sicko

  • @heathers4768
    @heathers4768 Před 2 lety +35

    She is so fragile, understandably so. She says what you want to hear I think because she's just trying to please people so more of them don't hurt her. She needs mental help and I really hope she gets/got it. Poor lady. :/

  • @jasmindaanya1053
    @jasmindaanya1053 Před 3 lety +78

    He is the one who is pretending to "HELP HER " but actually he is kicking her down the ditch .....

  • @WorshiptheFatherandStayclean

    Poor girl I pray she's in good health she has been through so much in a short period of time.

  • @jessicajamesspeaks
    @jessicajamesspeaks Před 3 lety +82

    I would never go on national TV to further damage my mental wellbring, let alone seek help. Where did Dr. Phil get his psychology license? 😂

    • @SofiaBelle117
      @SofiaBelle117 Před 3 lety +8

      If I remember correctly he has to give up all his licenses to practise as a psychologist in order to have his show. Might be wrong but I think there are confidentiality laws against therapists openly discussing their patients issues, and going international about your issues is not something any therapist worth their salt would ever suggest. He exploits people at their worst for his own personal gain. Won't ever understand how this show is still going :/

    • @Paulstrickland01
      @Paulstrickland01 Před 2 lety

      @@SofiaBelle117 Well humans exploit each other for their own gain. She exploited him to get close to Jasmine, Jasmine exploited him to get rid of Bailey and Dr Phil exploited them for his shows viewership, it's life.

    • @SofiaBelle117
      @SofiaBelle117 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Paulstrickland01 that's nothing to do with patient doctor confidentiality. Yes people may exploit each other but that's why there are laws in place preventing professionals from doing so... hence why he let go of his license so he CAN do this.

    • @fransmith8992
      @fransmith8992 Před 2 lety

      @@SofiaBelle117 you remember wrong. he gave up his license before they took it from him.

    • @wiamehammani2591
      @wiamehammani2591 Před 2 lety

      No like seriously, who let this guy get this license

  • @pickme7307
    @pickme7307 Před 3 lety +119

    Oh so jasmin does not deserve to be harrassed, but bailey in spite through all her pain is just dismissed with all her trauma?

    • @spacebubble1552
      @spacebubble1552 Před 3 lety +6

      I know. It's crazy!

    • @peacefulinvasion684
      @peacefulinvasion684 Před 3 lety +25

      To be fair I feel like Jazmine was the only one who somewhat cared about helping bailey :/

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +7

      She was NOT dismissed. She was manipulating Dr. Phil, mocking the audience, and finally, she got her dumpy self thrown off. Dr. Phil works overtime trying to help people. But he will not allow evil manipulators to get free tickets on his time or money, and I don't blame him. Frankly, I don't believe that Bailey was either raped or suffered a miscarriage. She lies about EVERYTHING. She DOES need help, a lot of it. But that doesn't mean she isn't a very dangerous person, because I think she is a sociopath. I hope everyone will see this show and be exceedingly careful around this woman!

    • @spacebubble1552
      @spacebubble1552 Před 3 lety +2

      @@DesertBluebells ?

    • @pickme7307
      @pickme7307 Před 3 lety +5

      @@DesertBluebells sooo, you know bailey personally to say that stuff about her?

  • @sangeetasharma-xk9cs
    @sangeetasharma-xk9cs Před 3 lety +49

    I feel so bad for this girl. She desperately need help. Dr. Phill you definitely lost this one. Handled so poorly. Sending hugs to Bailey. ❤️ Hope she is healing and is in safe hands.

  • @the-finn
    @the-finn Před 3 lety +51

    No wonder she's doing this, she knows Jasmin wants nothing to do with her, so she feels safe.

    • @elizabethescalante7866
      @elizabethescalante7866 Před 3 lety +4

      Unfortunately, she doesn't realize that she's making this woman uncomfortable.

  • @frannyfran7157
    @frannyfran7157 Před 3 lety +38

    My heart hurts for this young lady I hope and pray that she gets the help that she truly needs. I don't know why dr. Phil seems to be compassionate with some while he isn't with others. True disappointment.

  • @ringaboo549
    @ringaboo549 Před rokem +60

    I think Dr. Phil was upset because there wasn’t enough drama to draw the crowds attention. The girl is very calm and patient. She actually needs and wants professional help. Dr. Phil is literally just an Entertainer. He doesn’t care about the kids mental well being.

    • @rod9883
      @rod9883 Před rokem +1

      Soooo true

    • @mandykitson7039
      @mandykitson7039 Před 16 dny

      Great insight cause he's certainly no doctor, that's for sure

  • @annebernadetterama6428
    @annebernadetterama6428 Před 3 lety +27

    I felt so sorry for her,. She's a strong woman btw. hope that you already healed

  • @riotgrrrlry
    @riotgrrrlry Před 3 lety +140

    BRUH WHY IS HE TELLING EVERYONE HER TRAUMA

    • @NYCBG
      @NYCBG Před 3 lety +13

      You don’t think that he discussed it with her before the show ?

    • @andreavasiljevic2104
      @andreavasiljevic2104 Před 3 lety +21

      She signed a waver and she knew it was going to happen

    • @Disrtict6
      @Disrtict6 Před 3 lety +7

      To traumatize her even more for one thing

    • @zerobrine5226
      @zerobrine5226 Před 3 lety +5

      I dunno BRUH, why do you think BRUH? I'm serious BRUH,I wanna know BRUH.

    • @mattattacky
      @mattattacky Před 3 lety +6

      @@NYCBG You have to understand that even though they would have discussed it, there is definitely manipulation going on behind the scenes to coerce the guests into doing things on the show. Watch the other video about how she was told her mother wouldn't be on the show but the producers say shady things about the arrangements with that.

  • @gabrielvondohlen4755
    @gabrielvondohlen4755 Před 3 lety +214

    So you show the whole audience a grocery list of trauma; and later in the show when she acts like a person who has experienced trauma you kick her off. You exploited her, promised her help, and then made matters worse. Then after receiving backlash you proceed with deleting comments. From one Christian to another Mr Phil, you need to repent of your ego.

    • @wosh253
      @wosh253 Před 3 lety +13

      defund his show he does help people instead bullies and humiliates him for money and laugh

    • @cindylouwho9464
      @cindylouwho9464 Před 3 lety +5

      I agree with what you’re saying. I do respect Dr. Phil, but I did see him flip sides on the couple who adopted the dwarf lady.

    • @Peem_pom
      @Peem_pom Před 3 lety +11

      Truly he has used her as a pawn in this episode

    • @spacebubble1552
      @spacebubble1552 Před 3 lety +3

      Agreed

    • @tvilla6466
      @tvilla6466 Před 3 lety +2

      You still think he's a Christian? As in demonstrating a Christ-like character? Was it the way he humiliated her? Exploited her for monetary profit? The way he condescended her? Then kicked her to the curb? Yeah, because that's what "Jesus" would do!? From one Christian to another. LOL.

  • @chelecovers6893
    @chelecovers6893 Před 3 lety +39

    The only utility Bailey could get out of this show is the hope that a REAL DOCTOR is watching and could reach out to her to actually help her.

  • @Disrtict6
    @Disrtict6 Před 3 lety +84

    Btw dissociation is not linked to ideas/delusions of reference, and Bailey is probably not as nuts as they made her look

    • @dola6354
      @dola6354 Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly i was think about what he said does not make sense at all

    • @bela9225
      @bela9225 Před 3 lety +7

      Dissociation is more like you mentally check out for a while (black out) and then come back without remembering what happened, right?

    • @susieusmaximus5330
      @susieusmaximus5330 Před 3 lety +10

      @@bela9225 Not necessarily. Dissociation includes mental states like derealization or depersonalization, which can occur while the person experiencing them is fully conscious. It's a complex phenomenon.

    • @bela9225
      @bela9225 Před 3 lety

      @@susieusmaximus5330 oh, I see.

    • @Dani-lc9hq
      @Dani-lc9hq Před 2 lety +1

      yeah, it's not dissociation but mania

  • @petersaysthings
    @petersaysthings Před rokem +38

    How they treated her is disgusting after all the trauma she’s endured.

  • @nicolearnold8042
    @nicolearnold8042 Před rokem +4

    Him exposing what happened to her is awful wtf

  • @ziigiiziig
    @ziigiiziig Před 2 lety +11

    I was in this situation, in a way. Twice, unfortunately. The first time was with a guy who love bombed me and then pulled away quickly when I started to get worried I'd driven him away. I fixated on it for nearly two years and I was angry for the sudden rejection. The second time was with an ex who was toxic and dumped me the day after he bought a new Corvette and I lost my temp job. I was undergoing PTSD from psychological trauma from that horrible relationship and it became another fixation because I was so devastated and hurt. I wanted to reverse everything and essentially bully my way back into a renewed relationship. Huge mistake. I'm much better now and no longer have these unhealthy fixations. I'm taking time to work on myself so I can have a healthy relationship.

  • @MrGlass-xg5pu
    @MrGlass-xg5pu Před 11 měsíci +3

    Aw poor baby, she has beeen through a lot. Her innocent heart couldn't cope with everything and she created a fsntasy world.
    Reality is hard, but you gotta live it.
    I feel really bad for the poor innocent girl. Hope she'll be ok.

  • @Ramon_92
    @Ramon_92 Před 2 lety +22

    He totally destroyed this poor girl the dude is a TV psycho

  • @randylynch4330
    @randylynch4330 Před 3 lety +42

    Deleting comments calling him out for disgusting behavior in this episode and many others is peak pathetic.

    • @brittneelovesbeauty
      @brittneelovesbeauty Před 3 lety +3

      They opened the comments publicly. They were never deleted

    • @danielcarneiro5483
      @danielcarneiro5483 Před 3 lety +3

      he never deleted them, they were disabled but then they opened the comments again

  • @Peem_pom
    @Peem_pom Před 3 lety +82

    This is way too much for q young child to bear. I hope this sweet pliant girl finds peace.

    • @judethaddeus9856
      @judethaddeus9856 Před 3 lety +17

      There is no young child in this episode

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +15

      I don't see a young child anywhere. Bailey is a young woman.

    • @dola6354
      @dola6354 Před 3 lety +1

      She disappeared

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +5

      @@judethaddeus9856 They don't seem to be able to see that Bailey was extremely manipulative, evil. But that is what sociopaths do; they fool people into thinking they are the victims. Dr. Phil saw right through her fake victim spiel and threw her dumpy figure right off the stage. Even her Mother doesn't trust her. That poor lady she was stalking. She should have called the police on Bailey. I also *really* question whether the whole rape and miscarriage story really happened. She lies about everything else!

    • @DesertBluebells
      @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +3

      @@dola6354 No she didn't.

  • @pinkcat8855
    @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety +36

    He is not a psychologist, he is not a psychiatrist.
    He is a showman.

    • @pinkcat8855
      @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety

      @synergy He selects people with mental issues to promote himself and his show.

    • @pinkcat8855
      @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety

      @synergy It all rides on ratings. As long as people watch this trash and network sells commercials the trash will be on TV.

    • @tinadaniel9195
      @tinadaniel9195 Před 2 lety +1

      This was wrong of him this girl set boundaries and did not want to see her this is wrong

    • @pinkcat8855
      @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tinadaniel9195 Dr. Feel doesn't care what his guests feel. Dr. Feel does whatever he wants on HIS show.

    • @pinkcat8855
      @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety

      @@tinadaniel9195
      He is a doctor like I am an artist, a BS artist.

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 Před 2 lety +4

    Such a lovely young lady. The last person to speak was the one who made the most sense.

  • @snehalgaikwad5486
    @snehalgaikwad5486 Před 2 lety +7

    Im never going to watch his show ever this is so heartless. Bailey has gone through a lot, I wish she finds peace and is always surrounded by the people that love and understand her.

    • @marraine7299
      @marraine7299 Před 2 lety

      Yeah this episode pretty much made me decide to boycott him henceforth.

  • @charlieburgett1698
    @charlieburgett1698 Před 3 lety +4

    I did what Dr.phil I saying about living in your head and I had to stop because it effected my life so deeply.

  • @richardrojas8706
    @richardrojas8706 Před 3 lety +53

    Is he deleting comments? What a clown.

    • @spacebubble1552
      @spacebubble1552 Před 3 lety +4

      No, the comments were disabled for such a long time. Now that the comments are enabled, the videos are popping up.

  • @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441

    I was in shock that he showed the list of her trauma. But than i thought, maybe Dr. Phil thought she needed to see that to understand herself. But idk. I just hope she got help. Trauma therapy.

  • @kayleemcevoy1688
    @kayleemcevoy1688 Před 3 lety +6

    wtf why is he telling everyone her trauma that's not gonna help anything

  • @TransVirgin118
    @TransVirgin118 Před 3 lety +53

    She is so brave for being on the show. And this was so revealing! And it's amazing he got through to her. The depth she said "you can't make anyone love you" that was revealing. Sounds like she sought to be "the man" in the relationship so she would be in charge and it's good she believed that she was loveable, otherwise she wouldn't have reached out to this woman and persued her

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh wow, that’s a very good point! I didn’t even think of it that way. That she does still believe that she’s loveable (regardless of all the trauma she’s endured), otherwise she wouldn’t be seeking this relationship and feeling as though it’s working out. Which it’s very important that she truly knows that she IS loveable! And also, that she CAN be helped and is WILLING to take that help, and proving that by coming on the show. She has hope, and I pray she’s gotten better and gotten the help she so desperately needed. 🙏💪

    • @idlehour
      @idlehour Před 2 lety

      Totally its so much like Transformation Engagement The twins get twine. Totally forgoes all basic Chelaoion in first right man? The drive Dr scenes were fantastic and got Baskin almost. Forever The Band Market Marched was similar in its similarities and thing that's similar almost. I don't believe in being a broken Record but it was Marris Grab and Filling Channels

  • @danee2031
    @danee2031 Před 3 lety +7

    after hearing him explain it, this girl is me asf 😭😭

  • @Be1smaht
    @Be1smaht Před 3 lety +7

    Shes had so much pain. This is not good. Shes so young

  • @beancheese3148
    @beancheese3148 Před 2 lety +8

    From this clip, I can see why Dr. Phil got a little annoyed with her later on but I still don’t get why she had to be thrown out. Bailey needs help, especially after all of that trauma she’s been through.
    (For context: soon after this clip, Bailey tells Dr. Phil that her and Jasmine’s relationship is the love story of the century and she plans to write a book about it, completely overwriting everything she’s just said she understands.)

  • @charliecorleon
    @charliecorleon Před 3 lety +19

    The human brain cannot differentiate between reality and imagination, reasons why we feel fear/excitement when we watch movies as if it’s real and dreams feel like reality until you wake up - Psychology

  • @astupiddumbdumb4423
    @astupiddumbdumb4423 Před rokem +4

    4:01 seems like he just wants her to lash out and act crazy, bc she’s remaining cool and calm and admitting her faults, while he can still compose his savior complex

  • @noradonoghue8245
    @noradonoghue8245 Před 2 lety +5

    The poor girl. I hope she is doing ok now. 🙏🙏

  • @LCHINGON
    @LCHINGON Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful young lady...prayed for you and your future.✝️❤

  • @handlingthehowards9543
    @handlingthehowards9543 Před 3 lety +7

    I wonder if she ended up leaving the girl alone

  • @allysond2518
    @allysond2518 Před rokem +2

    this is disgusting. Dr. Phil talked over her and humiliated her and brought up her past traumas and for what? absolutely awful

  • @lailaniybarra7022
    @lailaniybarra7022 Před rokem +2

    & why has no one mentioned that she had a head trauma a month before she became a “stalker” or “crazy”?? The Drs could have missed something small that changed her.

  • @oo0Spyder0oo
    @oo0Spyder0oo Před 2 měsíci +1

    I come back to these clips of this girl because I find her really attractive, I hope she’s doing well all these years later. Hopefully Phil didn’t traumatise her too much by shaming her.

  • @naleybaby
    @naleybaby Před rokem +2

    An unpopular opinion but Dr. Phil knows what he's dealing with here. I used to have a friend who went through the most terrible horrors as a child. As an adult due to her past, she learned how to manipulate people to get what she wants, the same is going on here. No fault of both women but trauma affects people differently

  • @Laura-vt7mc
    @Laura-vt7mc Před 2 lety +2

    She is telling him what he wants to hear because he's bullying her. Gross.

  • @bubsgriffiths5518
    @bubsgriffiths5518 Před 3 lety +3

    Because of my dissociation disorder I’ve missed a lot of things ... and don’t remember a lot of things

  • @user-lh2cz2vq9y
    @user-lh2cz2vq9y Před 5 měsíci +2

    Omg she got many trauma, so sorry to her 😢

  • @idkme2024
    @idkme2024 Před rokem

    4:54 “ Your also numbing yourself so you won’t have to feel anything “ FACTSSSS

  • @mdhvdubey
    @mdhvdubey Před rokem +1

    I feel why she told him not to bring her
    Mother. She needed help, she got bullied. 😔

  • @Angie_bae
    @Angie_bae Před 2 lety +3

    I feel so bad for Bailey :(

  • @curious1053
    @curious1053 Před 2 lety +3

    Sad that so many people feel sorry for this stalker girl.

    • @karenv5103
      @karenv5103 Před 2 lety

      Her fixation is way to strong and unprovoked. Social media isn't always sociable

    • @kritikasingh9831
      @kritikasingh9831 Před 2 lety

      This girl has a mentel problem she needs help hope u have the mentel capacity to understand this

    • @kritikasingh9831
      @kritikasingh9831 Před 2 lety

      Ok sir you perfectly right try explaining that to a mentally-challenged person god bless you...

  • @m.kurbah8485
    @m.kurbah8485 Před 3 lety +3

    I wish this girl could meet me we could have a healthy relationship. I really pity. She just needs someone to love her.

  • @j.p.1732
    @j.p.1732 Před měsícem

    I agree with all the comments of how hard Dr Phil was for this young girl. I find her very mature, articulate & polite. “I see my place” is a sad comment. I hope Dr Phil is happy.

  • @kyonshi77
    @kyonshi77 Před 10 měsíci

    This intervention with Dr. Phil is fantastic and the most beneficial for her. You can see she's realizing how detrimental this fake relationship was to her own self. Good thing she's been guided through this with concise and empathetic discussion. I dont get all the clowns in the comments crying she's been ''bullied'', for crying out loud lol. Its clearly not the case. Also, she AGREED to be on the show, so there's that. She's an adult and she understood the deal, just like she's an adult to finally see the falacies she was nurturing and now she knows she can get away from them, to focus on healing the traumas, like Dr. Sophy said.

  • @nadamohamed4089
    @nadamohamed4089 Před 3 měsíci

    I have experienced such hard traumas🥲I hope to heal. It feels empty and meaningless💔

  • @sylviaboone5557
    @sylviaboone5557 Před 2 lety

    I pray Bailey is doing well !!🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @srimoyeedas7424
    @srimoyeedas7424 Před 2 lety

    This case was really an emotional one. Problem of differentiating reality and fantasy. Trying to put ointment of fantasy over repeated severe traumas. It is the pathway of defense mechanism that her brain thought is right at that moment..

  • @sarakesten5352
    @sarakesten5352 Před 9 měsíci

    Do you have the entire episode?

  • @upgradingmyself580
    @upgradingmyself580 Před rokem

    I know its hard but I feel.Dr. phil here. Its has happened to me. I developed an obsession with someone that never ever one time told me they liked me ....I had to pull away from their space in order to not create this relationship with them. I wanted to be in control of who loved me and how i was loved.

  • @jayaom4946
    @jayaom4946 Před měsícem

    I would imagine that it would be extremely hard to get it together after already having mental health problems then coming on this show, putting yourself out there publicly, and coming out looking even worse. This show can't possibly help people.

  • @truann-lucia2267
    @truann-lucia2267 Před rokem +1

    So he has a list of all her trauma list and he spoke to her like that.

  • @White-nv3pq
    @White-nv3pq Před 2 lety +1

    You cant just make a polite girl cry its dumb you could see how stressed she was

  • @printshop2user60
    @printshop2user60 Před 2 lety +1

    she def isnt done stalking Jasmine- shes playing the game

  • @madonnamartin5458
    @madonnamartin5458 Před rokem

    Dr Phil is so true

  • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094

    Omg pot???? Like seriously! It has shown to be effective in helping with anxiety to pain relief. It’s legal in how many states now?????

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 Před 2 lety +1

      It should be legal for medical purposes, but smoking it should be banned.

    • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
      @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 Před 2 lety

      @@MustacheCashStash125 why should smoking be banned?

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 Před 2 lety +1

      @@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 Smoking marijuana clearly damages the human lung. Research shows that smoking marijuana causes chronic bronchitis and marijuana smoke has been shown to injure the cell linings of the large airways, which could explain why smoking marijuana leads to symptoms such as chronic cough, phlegm production, wheeze and acute bronchitis.
      Smoking marijuana has also been linked to cases of air pockets in between both lungs and between the lungs and the chest wall, as well as large air bubbles in the lungs among young to middle-aged adults, mostly heavy smokers of marijuana.
      However, it's not possible to establish whether these occur more frequently among marijuana smokers than the general population.
      Smoking marijuana can harm more than just the lungs and respiratory system-it can also affect the immune system and the body's ability to fight disease, especially for those whose immune systems are already weakened from immunosuppressive drugs or diseases, such as HIV infection.
      Smoking marijuana hurts the lungs' first line of defense against infection by killing cells that help remove dust and germs as well as causing more mucus to be formed. In addition, it also suppresses the immune system. These effects could lead to an increased risk of lower respiratory tract infections among marijuana smokers, although there is no clear evidence of such actual infections being more common among marijuana smokers. However, frequent marijuana-only smokers have more healthcare visits for respiratory conditions compared to nonsmokers.
      Studies have shown that smoking marijuana may increase the risk of opportunistic infections among those who are HIV positive, although it does not seem to affect the development of AIDS or lower white cell counts.
      Another potential threat to those with weakened immune systems is Aspergillus, a mold that can cause lung disorders. It can grow on marijuana, which if then smoked exposes the lungs to this fungus. However, it rarely causes problems in people with healthy immune systems.

    • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
      @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 Před 2 lety

      @@MustacheCashStash125 wow really bc I haven’t had bronchitis while I’ve been smoking for the last three years but okay…..

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 Před 2 lety +1

      @@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 Well if you continue smoking it, there’s a possibility you could get it.

  • @goonerballs
    @goonerballs Před rokem

    Dr. Phil needs to see a psychologist. This is so disturbing to watch him gaslight this young woman

  • @soheilvalinejad431
    @soheilvalinejad431 Před 3 lety +4

    Last trauma : being imbaressed infront of the whole country
    But seriously that s not ok

  • @CheriDawn
    @CheriDawn Před 3 měsíci +1

    Dr Phil is self righteous and mocks and belittles people.

  • @sharonduval3959
    @sharonduval3959 Před 2 lety

    I wish the best for her.

  • @someonesomewhere2316
    @someonesomewhere2316 Před 3 lety +1

    In the last video i heard her name is erica thats a girl ive been stalking for three years and just recently i blocked her. Ive been trying not to look at her posts for about a month now but all the time i see these coincidences and i take them as signs that she's the one, but i know she's not a good person she's not the person i thought she was and i knows she's not the one.

  • @Peaceful2113
    @Peaceful2113 Před rokem

    Bless her heart

  • @MobileDudeYT_STUDIOS
    @MobileDudeYT_STUDIOS Před 11 měsíci

    Wow Dr Phil just wow.

  • @pinkcat8855
    @pinkcat8855 Před 2 lety +1

    There is a real estate salesman who calls himself Dr.Phil
    The agent is actually a doctor, he is a dentist.
    Dr.Phil Realty. 💰

  • @spectralphantom7956
    @spectralphantom7956 Před rokem +1

    Later on in the episode they explain that she was attacked at school, raped by her friend, abused by her drunk boyfriend twice, and had a miscarriage. She really is living in fantasy land 🤦

  • @iDalisMediaTV
    @iDalisMediaTV Před 2 měsíci

    This girl needs to sue him.

  • @ButterflyG-ep7pi
    @ButterflyG-ep7pi Před 28 dny

    Normally its people catfishing people to get money or out of sheer cruelty . i have a hard time believing the woman did not lead her on but apparently she didn't have any proof in email or text that the woman led her on ...so this story is different.

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 Před 4 měsíci

    Bailey makes me feel better about my ASD. I feel normal.
    Well, in some ways. There's something I actually wanted to talk to an "expert" about on CZcams. It involves me living in "fantasy land" (I say loosely, with a different context). But I want to talk to someone who understands ASD (and preferably in addition, OCD, since mine brainwashes me). Whoever wants to hear my question, I'm hoping your channel shows you're a psychologically knowledgeable person, or again, someone who understands ASD. The more references, the better. I know we autistics are not considered normal, and my mysterious topic is an example about me.

  • @virginiafrost2608
    @virginiafrost2608 Před 29 dny

    she needs to learn to keep herself safe.

  • @Binta12853
    @Binta12853 Před 2 lety

    Just unbelievable. If I was ever in her shoes. If he says I should leaves because I was being offended by her audience. I would tell him “it would be my pleasure”.
    No nothing no nothing
    I think he was angry for the girl being polite???
    Better still he’s mad because she agrees on everything he says??

  • @bijuleni
    @bijuleni Před rokem

    Does anyone know what has happened to her? I am mortified by how she was treated by him. Listing all those traumas??😬

  • @maliceplus
    @maliceplus Před 2 lety

    Can someone send me the full episode?

  • @Utopian30
    @Utopian30 Před 3 měsíci

    The guys knows she has trauma and still acts like she commands him disgusting

  • @7777LORENZO
    @7777LORENZO Před rokem

    He should not abuse her again and assault her again by you Phil

  • @shadowblastxtreme9032

    If ever anyone harms themselves after going onto this show, i hope he will be held accountable for contributing to it.

  • @williamwade7919
    @williamwade7919 Před rokem

    im sure this made her feel better

  • @coffeeblvck2812
    @coffeeblvck2812 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m watching this and all I’m thinking what kind of a ridiculous show is this? And why are people still watching it?
    The fact that he had to repeat the fact that jasmine wasn’t interested in her after she stated that was aware, was most definitely messed up.
    You do not mess with people’s trauma no matter what… that’s a low blow

  • @Disrtict6
    @Disrtict6 Před rokem

    to whoever commented on the comic type font, there is a blog post in it, wish I could credit you but cant find you again, but thanks for the tip! I think it was at joel's vid but I cant find you there either.

  • @AceStar1994
    @AceStar1994 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Bailey did continue to harass Jasmine after the episode but she's not missing. Her family celebrated her birthday 3 weeks ago. It's on her Mum's Facebook page and Bailey looks totally different (She's put on weight)