"Nobody Is Born Gay, It’s Always Something Traumatic That Happened”
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- Episode 42 | The Arab LGBTQ Leader | On this episode of Trappin Anonymous “100%” we speak to The Leader of the Arab LGBTQ Community. We learn his views, his childhood & what he looks to accomplish in his movement. You will be both entertained & educated!
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He seems like he would be a good friend.
Thank you
He's not the first gay person who I've heard say that it is not something you're born with and I believe he's right. I just don't think that all gay identity is born from trauma. Personally, I don't think that people are born with a sexuality but, rather, it is something that is cultivated in you through socialization and personal discovery.
Absolutely agree!
GOD is not the author of confusion! No one is born gay!
no one is born straight
Over sexualization can cause this too
Yeah I like the way you wrote that!!
When you are authentically yourself/aware & not willfully causing harm/hurt to society as a whole. Baby YOU ARE NORMAL I applaud you lad I applaud you job well done.
His family knew they had predators within the family. When he said they make you “Sleep with the light on..” For him, he was groomed and that is sad apart of him sounds like he was robbed from being the man his father wanted him to be and that hurts him to the core, his inner child screams out “it’s not my fault” and all he really wants is his fathers love….
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He was a child. The only thing he was robbed of was being a child. Parents shouldn’t have expectations for their kids they’re their own person and have their own idea. His father was the reason for his down fall
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@@whatsquiradoingThe predators that sexually abused him are entirely at fault.
@@boujeeboy95Islam does consider h0m0sexuality as a crime not just a sin, a legally punishable crime, now is it punishable by death I'm not sure.
I understand that childhood trauma is usually a key factor, everyone deserves to be loved and have a voice...
Trauma isn’t always physical people. Some of you all heard his story but didn’t listen to the words he said in the beginning of the video. Please look up trauma if you don’t know that it can be emotional, mental ect and not physical and obvious.
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I like this interview he is so honest and he speaks fact god bless young man wish u all the best
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@@boujeeboy95You said you hate having sex, but you also only have sex with men, I'm confused.
11:58 already explains what I'm going through as the scapegoat in a group of assaulters and their enablers. It's made me crazy. One day I do want to share my testimony. For now I'm sending so much love to survivors who are blamed and villainized by the ACTUAL guilty evil PERPETRATORS. I BELIEVE YOU. And I pray the best life for you.
Been saying this for a while. Some folks need to talk to the dirty uncle
That’s so dumb. Because heterosexuals are also traumatized as kids. This is a lie
You been saying this for awhile so you've been wrong for awhile.
And protect your kids from them
@@breakbeatmediaYes, Most DEFINITELY!!!
@@monopolizedopamineare you the uncle???
He is such a beautiful soul, it’s unbelievable
Thank you ❤
Everyone i know thats gay for a fact has told me something has happened to them as a child
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That is THEM I ran a gay org at Howard U. A minority of them experienced sexual abuse but ALL of them grew up bullied by the church
Yes I've worked with gay people who've said they became gay because of childhood sexual abuse. Some were abused at a very young age and remembered the abuse while undergoing therapy.
Great interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Awww I love him and how he puts his English together. Such a sweetheart
He's still a little hard to understand.
My degree is in psychology, I studied trauma and its affects of child molestation. I also studied world religion. Egypt is in Africa However it should not be viewed the same prior to Arab invasion and colonization. I can speak with absolute assurance when I tell you homosexuality runs deep within their nation. The elite prefers little boys. Other males of lesser class systems also Gr@pe little boys. I used to cry at the thought. Those babies have no protection and when these babies grow up to be promiscuous rather it be with make or female its almost always rooted in them being violated as children. The other option is to keep the sick cycle going by violating other boys...or girls. If a woman were to come out, her family would end her. I applaud him for being brave to tell his story because this isn't a topic discussed publicly. Just like catholic priests, it's their known hidden secret. They also are sexually unhinged and deviant in Dubai. I'm dismayed but not shocked the least bit. The Roman empire also practiced these vile acts. That's why yall gotta listen beyond what you "hear". The "Smart guy" breaks this down perfectly. I feel bad for him and never left vulnerable little boys outta my prayers. By the way these comments are displayed, im severely disgusted that yall are overlooking this man's generational trauma and hurt. BTW Chris..we rocking with you all the way✊🏾❤
I watched a documentary on Afghanistan called dancing boys that revealed the preference of young boys amongst warlords and their soldiers. It was beyond saddening.
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@@royaltii_The ”dancing boys” was still illegal even under taliban rule!!! Now imagine what would happen if h0m0sexuality was widely accepted and normalized in those places.
One main reason of the downfall of Romans was h0m0sexuality.
Thank you for the honesty
This guest’s purpose is sooooo huge! Lord order his steps🙌🏾
Thank you ❤
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You probably the best interviewer ever!! You literally ask the questions I be wanting to know immediately after I think it!! Great Interview.
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Thank u!!!
@@breakbeatmediaI got confused about the going to womens bathroom part.
He’s a realist and very aware I love how his soul seems pure and raw at the same time such a perfect balance of emotions in depicting the world we live in
Thank you
Thanks for opening up❤❤❤
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So Brave!!!
May GOD Bless this man for speaking his truth! Wow he cleared my mind from a lot of confusion!🤲🏾❤️
Thank you
Family just can't be trusted sometimes smh!
Truth
Protect the children!
Great interview
💜 I love everyone without judgement thanks for this interview
I don't normally listen to anything gay I believe in a different but this really touched my heart ❤️. I know what he is saying is facts! Stay encouraged young man
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The conversation y’all had at the very end 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 what’s his name? I would love to watch the shows and movies he’ll be in
Great Interview
Thank you for speaking the truth! 95% are not born gay. Either a traumatic experience have sculpted them or they were groomed unknowingly
Where’d those stats come from? Quickly.
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Damn you’ve never actually met a gay person 😂
@@reet7060 I don't believe them
@@smokejones4484 oof then you’re just a regular ole jackass
God don’t like ego🤣
Im lovin this!!!!
Great interview, I hope God heals him from all that trauma ❤
Not everyone believes in god.
Amen
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@@lvnarspiice...and That's so sad to Me🥺🙏🏽
@@antJaxStar they believe in something they might not call him God. Everyone will see soon
@16:21 by the age of 10 this guy has been thru so much. He admits everybody is born normal.
Adam & Eve. I like how open he is in telling his childhood too. You heal thru talking about it.. even though the interviewer is asking some painful 😕 questions.
Wtf does "normal" mean in this context? Straight?
@@monopolizedopamineyes, no shit. Being straight is technically being normal, because it falls into the normal practices within our society. Gay people love to stand out and be different anyways. There ya go.
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As a mother of a gay 17 year old son, feminine, I loved his perspective on religion. Good interview. Wishing you plenty of blessings!!!
24:10 he truly exposes the family cult/gang systems... And also breaks down my feelings towards sex/porn: I can't it's gross and depraved to me - no hate to those who can.... I really pray for life to bless this man!!!
I accept that he believes that, but I think he's viewing the world through the lens of his situation. I know plenty of LGBT people (me included) who grew up with good lives and just ended up liking what they like. Of course, we all go through hard times, but I never experienced anything that affected my sexuality. I just eventually realized I liked what I liked one day and continued living life. Every gay person is not this poor soul that grew up being abused and mo****ed all day. Y'all gotta meet more people who are different from you.
I know some men can be born attracted to men and some men convert because they like the attention they get from men that women don't give them being Rejected by the opposite sex can be harsh
@@Force100able I have never heard of that but okay…
FACTS. Well said.
I loved this and him❤ `hugs`
As stated in the beginning it’s his opinion and true for him. I certainly applaud him being so open and sharing his experience. Hopefully it frees some other gay Arabic child or any gay child being hurt like this and trying to find themselves. 🤎🤎🤎🤎
Yes
Can't ever knock someone for their truth and repping it
Chris, u just get better and better fam!!!!
I needed to here that. Love.
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@TrappinAnonymous Here, Here!!!
His dad didn’t protect him. That’s so wrong. I hope and pray this young man heals. He doesn’t deserve none of the things his family is putting him through. 🙏🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼
When you come to the Uk I want to do one. I’ve had a similar experience as your last two guest; but it so interesting. I never associated the abuse and Grape as sex, because it’s not- it’s abuse. It’s astounding to hear everyone story
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I definitely love his shows, this is real life shit no sugar coating
Thorough and done so well!!!❤
Thank you for your comment, he seems to be projecting, he has a long road ahead of him, in his healing journey❤...I was however very triggered about his response on the washroom bit, he didn't seem to have any concern for the woman as he did for the men, I'm not sure why that is.
He specifically said trauma and not all bad. He did not say that men are gay because they were touched.
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What is good trauma
@@candacee3297right lmao
I recently started watching your interviews. I appreciate your professionalism, honestly and respect that you give to each person. I am a new follower please continue doing things the way you do with so much grace! ❤️ @Trappin Anonymous 🎉
Love Wanda!
He's got a real Knack for this!
This was a great interview and really made me think about how to serve this community as a servant of the Lord.
This man has a story, and I believe a higher calling than even he knows. He is a survivor, and I pray that he gets to know Jesus in a way to see that The Bible is a vessel, and God doesn't want to see any of us perish or kill us.
I love him😭 but what he said definitely is Facts! Ain’t nobody born gay💯
Whew
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And no one is born straight either
@@gottagetit2943 congrats….
I hate when members out of our community speaks for the whole community. Not everybody's been touched or has been taken advantage of as a child. He should keep it on his self because not everyone thinks like he does or even has that mentality..
Ur right, not everyone has been touched, in fact most have been allowed to date too early (which leads to heartbreak earlier than normal, which can cause a pressured sexuality change) and most have lacked fathers and/or two-parent households which can also lead to sexual changes due to the fact that a large amount of parents don’t know how to instill the proper gender roles in their children.
It's harmful because it bolsters the false narrative that non straight people are groomers and p3-dos. This mf is in direct opposition to arab lgbtq people.
@@beezusalmighty8791 "proper gender roles" are subject to change so your prospective is outdated. Besides, statistically, since straight people are the firm majority, it would have to be also true that most single parent homes produce straight kids. In fact it's more probable that you have a non straight kid the more kids you have, not because of how you raise them.
Its funny how when a gay person talks about an experience that probably effects the majority of your community you would say this not true etc, but I also wonder if you speak up when your community encourages grooming and sexual transitions of minors? Are you vocal about that issue or you pick and choose what you like about your community. To me it seems like yall just wanna party for pride and keep quiet on real issues like the secret pedos in the community. Just saying
@@beezusalmighty8791yes daughters = house slave and sons = military fauder
Great shit to instill in your kids, community convenience over mental health and safety 😂
I’ve been living in an Arab country for 7 years and his story is extremely common. Until you live on this side of the world, it’s hard to fathom how frequent this happens… amongst other things. Very sad
His truth is not everyone's truth. I wasn't molested by anyone from day I've always been this way.
Exactly. This pod knew what they were doing releasing this too
People aren't born sexually attracted to the opposite sex or the same sex because that characteristic does not develop upon birth. Likely an early childhood experience that is repressed or happened before your conscious memory formed.
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How do you know 🤔🤨
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Yeah he definitely speaking for him
I really really wanna see how his future will be I absolutely love his spirit
I agree.
I just think it’s crazy that we live in a world where people will literally try to force me into believing something happened to me to where I am not attracted to women. No, it’s not a choice. I’m not choosing to not get a hard on from women. I just don’t. I never have. It just never happened. Nobody can force a str8 man to get a hard on for another guy. If he’s str8 no amount of money or even having a gun to his head will make him like men. This guy has been traumatized, and he’s projecting. Some of us were raised with love and nobody MADE us do anything. He hates himself and the rest of us in the community who are just like him. I could tell he was BITTER soon as he came on the screen. I feel his pain but don’t take it out on your own people trying to be a pick me for y’all str8 people.
THANK YOU!!
I agree w the caption
He is very FABULOUS.
Thank you 😊
My best friend has NEVER been with a man and she’s ALWAYS liked girls. Never had a crush on a boy or a man and she’s 50+. Hell she gets mistaken for a man/boy and have since she was a child. Oan, nothing ever happened to her as a child.
Thats all great but that doesnt mean she never had some kinda trauma in her life. It could be something she doesnt remember or suppressed to the point where it doesnt exist to her.. Hopefully she never had to experience what so many kids have experienced but most ppl in the lifestyle has been touched as a child
What is his name I would love to learn more of him
Boujee boy
Boujeeboy95 on all social media
I think its half and half. Some people go through trauma and yeah they turn gay fully or the were bi and just reject the other side. But i feel like people are interested in what they interested in
I think he is 100% right
Thank you
He’s not lying
Thank you
Such a Ginuwine person. Wishing you nothing but happiness and peace. May u find that within...❤❤
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Yes! Prayers for Him!!!
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This may not be true for all but all of my lgbtq friends went through but so did I and I’m still heterosexual so I don’t think trauma alone leads to homosexuality. Maybe for some.
I like him.
Thank you
I’m straight and I think this jus his view on it. I’ve literally grew up with boys that were more feminine even question. Why is he like that at such a young age? I’ve come to realize that they must just be born that way how do you it has to be because how can you be so young and so female like?
Exactly!!! It’s the female like part that was getting me too, cos not all gay men look or talk like that, i know a whole lot do and that’s no prob with me… heck i just heard him admit he’s feminine. I feel for his experience though and i know that does happen in those communities though (and many more) but i mean the communities where it’s basically illegal and they’re killed for it.
The amount of Ads is reckless 8 in 10 mins ~ how can we enjoy w so many disruptions!!
What cartoon is he talking about at 47:10
Ok so I’ve watched about 10 minutes, he’s speaking off of his OWN experiences with a father that was an ABUSIVE BASTARD, but to say “nobody is born gay it’s from trauma” sis a lot of us DID NOT EXPERIENCE that type of hatred from our parents.
Doesn’t have to only be from your parents
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So why do you think you’re attracted to the same sex 🤔
@@whatsquiradoing because they make my weeny hard
I agree. It’s sometimes because of mental issues illness
I’m gay and nothing ever happen too me 🤷🏽♂️ lmao
I agree with him on the gay perspective. I’ve been saying that.
Lol nobody is “born” gay or straight. BUT attraction is something that special to each and every person. I was never “traumatized” and I’ve been gay since kindergarten when I had a crush on this boy named Carlos. Don’t let these lies continue to group people into boxes.
What happened with you and Carlos? I was too scared to tell my crush I liked her in Kindergarten but I think I gave her an extra oatmeal cookie once and it made her smile, so yeah, stuff was pretty serious between us🤣.
@@youtubemovies7993 lmao I never built up the courage to try 🤣
@@sotaurusmusicdamn man, good ol Carlos, I wonder what he’s doing now😂. If you ran into him at any point in your life would u tell him he was your kindergarten crush? Lol
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@@youtubemovies7993 sounds like you just weren’t to process your feelings and understand them 😐
i don’t believe that all sexuality is born out of trauma. The culture conditions people to be straight, so to break the mold could easily be based on your idea of what a man is. trauma can affect how you go about your sexuality, but i don’t think it determines which gender you like. You could’ve had a positive experience as a kid . For me, i saw someone that really intrigued me, where i thought “i love this person”. Gym culture is pretty gay. Wrestling culture is gay. Hypermasculine cultures in general are homoerotic and those dudes marry women. Some men are gay and adopt a heterosexual life until they get divorced and then they seek same gender relationships. Not all gays were molested.
Astaghfirullah. I’m so sorry he had to experience this as a child
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he's speaking from a personal experience and projecting it as a generalization. Not to mention how Arabs view homosexuality to begin with, no telling what he went thru as a kid that shaped his mindset to think like this
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Quite the opposite step one was acknowledging that stuff as kids shapes you as a person and as an adult. If you don’t want to heal so you can acknowledge yours that’s a personal problem.
@@whatsquiradoingwhat exactly opposes your opinion to mine? I'm not justifying his beliefs nor do I agree with them, just giving some form of understanding to why he thinks the way he does.
@@chron3756 how can you make someone else understand his opinion are you him 🤨
@@whatsquiradoing I can only go off what he said and try to find the logic in it based off the information he gave on his life/how he grew up, it's not that hard to rationalize
Why tf y’all ain’t call me the fuck y’all get this dude from
What is his name?
I mean being honor killed and banished is heavy Arab Muslims are serious about passing on the family
Name and they view gay sons as wasted seed it’s sad and hypocritical knowing the kids are getting turned out by males within the family
@15:45 😔😔😔
He sounds like Jose Hernandez 😂
I’ve lived in New York City for years the most gay populated city in United States. I’ve worked with gay men for years. They all know they’re not born gay.
It’s interesting seeing the third eye charm on his neck, something VERY forbidden in Islam. It’s considered “Haram”.
Nobody’s born gay. Chromosomes don’t lie. It’s absolutely a choice.
That’s not how chromosomes work! Clearly failed biology
He does have social media?
Boujeeboy95 on all platforms
I kinda agree it’s either trauma or choice. I’ve seen many say they were born that way though. So sorry for his trauma but God is beautiful in all our lives. Amen 🙏 FREE the Arab ppl
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That’s definitely his opinion and he is entitled to it just like everyone else and he is right that a lot of gay people have been traumatized but that doesn’t mean it was sexually because I do know gay people who were never violated as a child but did go through abuse because of them being gay
What where they exposed to as a child sexually it’s not always about molestation it’s about exposure and projection.
The dead love 😢
I love u boujeeee
Love u more babe
GAY People!…..Have Bin Some Of My Most Faithful Friends In da World!…As Far Bak As My Memory Takes Me! lol❤
Nope. We are not normalizing asking not straight people "who touched them" to make them not straight again. People gotta stop projecting their own lived experiences.
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It’s not about who touched them it’s about the projection of heterosexuality on to ppl when they are kids and are impressionable. A child doesn’t know sexuality they have to learn and experience it themselves. Being gay is due to the inability to be able to learn and experience sexuality for themselves.
You're a victim if you don't get revenge
I’m a Christian but I don’t agree with homosexuals being mistreated, maltreated and abused it’s not ok! I hate that he was so severely verbally abused by his own father! It’s not ok , I wish him well and I wish him healing life is not easy for any human being. It’s completely free to just shut up , & or be kind respectful 🙏🏽
I hope his dad watches this.
My son is gay, and has never wanted a woman and has never been molested to my knowledge. I feel this is his experience, and I respect it but it sounds like self-hatred from his upbringing, and he can't seem to come to terms that he really gay. So he throws in a woman every know and again to say he is bi. I wholeheartedly disagree with his viewpoints. My son came out to me a bi and that's quickly changed to gay a month or so later. Ijs
GOD is NOT the author of confusion. No one is born gay!
@@ajrose1245Shut up
I’m bisexual, ufortunately I prefer men but I hate everyone lol
This dude is speaking facts, steve was created to keep the population at a certain number
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THIS GUY IS THE DEFINITION OF LOST AND NOT KNOWING WHO HE TRULY IS. POOR THING.
Aren’t the LGBTQ Community 1? I didn’t know they differentiated ethnic or cultural sectors? I’m asking because he said they don’t have Arab parade, is there a Black/White or Asian lgbtq parade ?? Y’all help if I’m just clueless but much respect to all people!
Yesss talk about it now gay is something people want to vibe with but gay began from trauma! Thats why it was created and moved in a silence and secrecy it stemmed from a traumatic sexual experience.
Young teens making adult decisions when their brains aren’t fully developed is a problem. But for them live a life they don’t feel comfortable with isn’t fair either. So I don’t know what the answer is! I do know the answer for transitioning before your brain if fully developed is a HARD No! I’ve seen many that have said they regretted their actions!
They’re not old enough to make that decision before 18.
You Love him out of Obligation.
If he truly believes this how is he still gay 🤔
Because it’s a choice.
It's his choice and years of habit is hard to reverse
The ones beating on this guy after sex, was beating their own disgust of what they think of themselves. They wanted the sex out of it but the guilt of doing it with a guy makes them rage bc they would never want anyone to know they were “Gay”.
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