The one hate comment that we just had to address
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- čas přidán 4. 06. 2021
- So in this video we got a kind of comment that stood out amongst all the positive comments that we usually get on our channel. In the comment this guy was talking about how guys face a much harder time than girls. The whole comment is made out to be Boys vs Girls. We are sorry but we do not see life in this way and we strongly believe that nobody should. So yeah, we had to make a video about it. Hope you enjoy this video and also learn something from it.
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| Vidhi | Student | Niece |
| Abida | Consultant | Aunt |
| Shivam | Musician | Uncle | - Zábava
Where do you stand on the Girls vs Boys debate? Especially would love to hear from the boys on our channel. If you agree with anything we said in this video then do show your support by liking this video and sharing with your peers and those problematic relatives 😆.. Lots of love 😘
We'll get 6k likes👍
Edit:People who were early only could understand 😅
Ya sure 😀😀😍
Yeah sure
Love you 3s crowd ❤️❤️❤️ aapka video mujhe bohot entertainment deti hai and mama aap jo meme use karte ho uski mai diwani hu
Mama ke meme bohot pasand hai mujhe 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
👍👍👌
"Our whole country will progress ,if BOTH boys and girls focus on their future"
-abida mami
yupppppppppp
@@mrigankabiswas9471 ok..edit krta hu..thanks
@@rohan5692 you are such a sweetheart
@@anantikagandhi6017 why😂
@@rohan5692 because you weren't ashamed of correcting wrong spelling, everyone starts fighting lol
My mother got married at the age of 19,,,,,,,,,what I want to say she didn't even got the opportunity to make her carrier,,,,,,,,,,and I see in her eyes the importance of building up carrier .
Yeah Neeru. So many woman go through the same
@@3saCrowd ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
Same here.. my mom also got married at the age of 18 and I know she really want to do something in life we're blessed that we're getting such opportunities in life to do!:)
@@3saCrowd I bet she is abida 😃
My mother name is also neeru
Mami's personality is at next level ! She is having so mature personality . Love your videos and content too ❤️ 💕
Thank you Kavya 😘... and I hope you keep fighting the good fight. 💪🏻
Mami is very calm and sweet and intelligent..
After this its confirmed- 3's a crowd is definitely a social media influencer group :)
Yes! I agree
Agree to
Makeup is not the problem the mentality is and this needs to be changed.
Yesterday the BPSc 64th result came And my mother cracked it as Revenue officer at age of 37 so you see it's all about passion and not gender..
Awesome. Give our regards to her
Wow..Congrats aunty..That awesome❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, such an inspiration
my mausi became a govt employee at the age of 44. :)
congrats to your mom 😍
I'm a girl and i swear i have soo many responsibilities.
P. S- I'm preparing for NEET 22 and I am inspired by u guys😍❤️
Awesome.. All the best Chetana.. You will surely do great.. But don't take too much pressure of responsibilities as of now.. You are too young for that.. Just keep doing your best.. Thats all that matters.
THANKS GUYS FOR CONSIDERING THIS TOPIC YOUNGSTERS LIKE US NEED TO KNOW AND BE BROAD MINDED !
The fact that they decided to addresss this comment and not brush it away, and also the way they dealt with it with such positivity and matureness is truly applaudable👏👏
Great going guyss♥️♥️
Thanks Wonderwoman ❤️
The more you live ,more you realise , that human beings are not made for comparison... whether its gender , skin colour, caste, percentage, clothing, house, money ............etc ....
Guys getting from uu..❤❤
true
Sahi bola re tune
I am also fan of jannat zubair rahmani ❤️❤️❤️
To all my fellow "boys" 🤦🤦
I would just like you to close your eyes and Imagin, "that you are walking down a hallway in your comfortable shorts and literally a 100 people in the hallway are just staring at you", I don't know about you but the level of anxiety I will have, would be enough for me to not step out of my house for Months...And girls have to face this situation almost every single day...just imagin your self in their place for them...have some empathy...!!
The fact that there is whole talk going on about what a woman should wear and what she must not simply contradicts the statement ' ladkiyo ki life kitni easy hai'
To all my seniors in the comment section! You guys are going to rock NEET 2021 and you are going to be in your dream college 🖤🖤
All the best to you guys ! Work hard get it
“How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!”
Such talks are so important in today's world where girls are still misjudged over silly topics like makeup,dress etc whereas in real life girls or any other human has to go through so many things on a daily basis
Thank u guyss for such powerful talk❤🙌
Totally agree and More power to u guys😊❤
Thanks Soma for all the support
@@3saCrowd ❤❤❤
This was so so important.The boy is basically judging everyother girl out there on the basis of few Tiktoks he saw(Atleast I think thats the main origin of his gussa😂).The mindset is absolutely baseless.I hope he understands this and becomes a better human.
Nowadays mentality of some girls is just to not work hard and even girls consider girls are weak... it's a harsh truth
most of the Boys are all great no matter what they do
@@mayanksingh.13 nahi Yaar..even my parents are very conservative, but one thing they can't stand is the thought of me a girl at a home without a paid career..also like they said working in a professional field or working in the house..it's a choice..both can't be neither deprived or forced..same must go for both genders
@@navyaroy7773 I've already talked about it with lots of girls and most of them agreed with me and maybe you are hardworking girls... that's great
@@RupeshKumar-tj3rr around 90% girls/women i know are hardworking and want to build their own career. Koi bhi kisi aur ke upar dependent nahi rehna chahta. I'm preparing for jee, and my parents want me to do well. They want to see me being independent, not as a failure jo husband ke paise pe jiye. Aapke thoughts bohot misogny based hai.
I never wore shorts in my life because I find it uncomfortable for me but I always took the side of the other who wear it and are not liked by my grandma for wearing it.😀
Awesome. Thats the way to do it 😅
Your grandma was teaching modesty. You're lucky you have a grandma. :)
@@sias3562modesty is subjective. Those who wear shorts are not lacking modesty. It's all about perception, someone finds modesty in covering their whole body.
@@Prachij2607 A woman can be described as modest when she avoids doing or wearing anything that might cause other people to have sexual feelings towards her.
@@sias3562 based reply 😎 lol why didn't she replied back hahaah I support what u said
I fought with my family and relatives for 10 years just to learn karate. They always used to say 'Sports are for boys'. Personally, like Vidhi, I will also not be okay with marrying a rich guy because financial independence matters a lot to me. I can't even ask money from my father because I don't feel comfortable, let alone asking money from someone else.
More power to you
Well we talk about changing society and yet don't even try changing ourselves. If somebody's dress is too short rather than trying to find decency In her styling, try to find decency in the way you look at the person.
Period.
Currently , as the doctors are being treated harshly by the society now a days !!!!
So I would request 🙏 you MAMA ..... To please address this issue in your upcoming video !!! So that people can understand the efforts of the doctors !!! And it can be a motivation for the future doctors too !!!!
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We do plan to make a video on this topic sometime in future. Thanks for the suggestion
@@3saCrowd thanks for your concern !!!! 🙏🙏
This is what we want in our society
Tackling our way through NEGATIVITY.....
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK CROWDS❤️💛💙
Thank you so much Gaurav ❤️
The video is so amazing. I agree with everything you guys said. I personally don't like wearing clothes which show alot of skin because of safety and now it's just a habit .I used to get uncomfortable after seeing girls confidently wear them but I ve started to accept the fact everyone can wear what they want. Moonbyul is a South Korean rapper she's kinda conservative so doesn't like wearing exposing attire but ofcourse she's so rich and a part of Korea's famous kpop girl group. Clothes don't define ppl . Also I loved what NIDA said ❤️❤️
In 2021 you can't talk about gold diggers because women now don't even want to get married. Q2han CZcams channel (fashion influencers) is of 2 twins 30yrs old who don't want to get married and wear whatever they like. Me and sister are following them.
Absolutely right
Addressing such issues without holding back makes you guys true influencers,our world needs more of you 🙏🏻
I completely agree...that if u don't like anyone's content then don't watch it...it just simple
Instead of doing comparison, criticising someone because u r not satisfied doesn't mean yaar...the first thing is that stop doing judgement yaar and specially in this situation,we need to be positive👍
4:44 mama's leg - the reason behind Channel's Success 😂😂
You are absolutely true. I appreciate you taking time to address this stereotypes in our society. It's really sad listening or seeing when someone in this advanced century still has that mindset. My best friend said to me that one should never judge anyone just bcoz you don't like that. Whenever we see this or hear this we should politely tell that person to evolve his thoughts. Everyone in this world is equal with all having equal opportunities. There's nothing appropriate and inappropriate ... It's just you mindset and your perception. Ppl these days easily manipulate thoughts according to there convenience and that shows how your thought process is.
Change these stereotypes and evolve or we are doomed !!
Thanks Jainil
The one reason why you all deserve so so so much love is that you address today's problems which everyone needs to be aware of. It has been an issue for a long time and it will take some time to end totally but there IS a difference.
Great video! Hats off!
PS: How can you not call yourselves social media influencers?! This video totally proves you all are!!
i feel the household work is so underrated...the household work is literally so hard to do..can the guy really do all the work our mothers do.
us ladke ko apni ma ka kaam ek din ke liye karna chahiye tha...tab pata chalta kitna mushkil hai..aise mentality ke log kahi nhi jayenge is duniya mein
guys u r true influencers..❤
You are absolutely right Stuti ❤️
"Our whole country will progress if both boys and girls focus on their future" million dollars line.... ❤️❤️❤️ By one and only our beautiful abida mami...❤️❤️😘😘😘
I wish we could make a world where every person irrespective of their gender can live peacefully and happily . This patriarchal society is barrier in the progress of our country . I wish people use their mind to think of new ideas , learn new things, develop skills instead of investing their time in such meaningless things
This is so amazingly unproblematic and wholesome while still conveying such an important message!
Thanks Arushi ❤️
You points are completely valid " live and let live "
simply concluding it .... no one is up or down in this world ! god created everyone as such all of us equal and no matter what
This video deserves to be a part of school curriculum! I usually watch this channel because of sheer energy, fun, lighter moments you guys display with so much ease but this one is epic. HATS OFF TO THE TEAM!!
Great topic, handled beautifully 😇
this topic literally needed to be addressed!! thank you for doing that.
you guys are definitely social media influencers ....spreading positivity and so much more.....hope our family becomes larger and larger .
LOVE U GUYS!!!
I love mami's thinking ....❤️ I really want to be like her.
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Me and my mother together watched this video and she told me that my naani used to say " the day when no man will look towards a girl with wrong mindset, that day i will approve my existance" and i really felt that!
Love to your mom and respect to your nani
@@3saCrowd
You guys delivered this topic and made everybody understand in most flawless way. I hope this video reaches to every sick mind people and can change them atleast bit. You guys are doing great job🙏🏻❤️.
Thanks Anjali ❤️
If men are allowed to go shirt less every where inside out ...then wt is the problem in a girl wearing a crop top ......
If men can wear shorts... wt is the problem..a girl wearing shorts short dresses n all....
Society: ye Aamir log phente h..hm middle class ye sb nhi phente
Shame on the mentality we live in
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Fir koi agar inke chaakkar me amir ban jaye toh kehte h "paise aagaye toh apne sanskaar bhul gaye, paise dekhke log badal jate h".
@@anusha3287 so true.....and I hv seen mainly parents do not support such cases....hmme Shoba nhi deta ye sb (parents say)
@@bhanupriya8199 poore life they wanna be "middle class" by their own choice and say "shobha nahi deta " and still chase money. I don't understand these people at all man. I mean at first they get offended if someone calls them middle class or poor but they also wanna hold on to their conservative orthodox thinking. Idk if this thing has a solution or not. Why your appearance should tell whether you are amir or middle class???
@@anusha3287 u r rich, poor middle class.... doesn't matter... but what matters is ur thinking..ur mentality....
And if girls talk to abt this to ppl...they say...bigar gye h...pta ni aage kya din dikhayenge ....kuch nhi jo skta inka.....
I wish this gets changed....🙏🏻
@@bhanupriya8199 I only have one solution but again they'll say bigad gaye h. I say in logo se doori banalo even if they are your family.
I don't believe my mother and father give equal importance and pressure atleast very least but my sister is med student and I will definitely be in med college and I ❤️ them alot
There is not a single word where I do not agree. More power to youuu guyss🥰✨
You are the persons who lights up ours day with positivity so dont get disheartened.
We all are with you....
4:44 mamaa's leg - the reason behind Channel's Success and Views....This was EPIC 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So glad u addressed this, they're literally just jealous!
Kudos to 3's a crowd team for bringing out a sensitive topic in such a humorous way. You guys gave the message as well as didn't heat up the situation.
Thanks Sriyashree
@@3saCrowd always welcome... waiting for more such videos
Deeply touched by your thoughts ❤️
People will continue to say stuff like tht..but I wanna say just don't let them make you. This is the best reply to them..
Finally I have seen you seriously guys you just make our day😂
Thanks for so much importance Sejal
❤️ always
After this its confirmed- 3's a crowd is definitely a social media influencer group ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I love the fact that you people raised this topic... It was much needed to the indians out there with this mentality... Me as a boy believe thay girls struggles more in this country... To face that mindset of people to tackle all the negativity in this country and to stand out independent is much a tough job to do...
Mami is much lucky to have a husband like shivam mama... Even every Indians out there should be like shivam mama to be the best supportive and kind sweet husband..
Much love to you people... Keep making such videos.. ❤❤❤
Tum khud boy ho...but tumhari soch kitna positive hai👍👍👍👍👍kash aisa hr bhai,hr husband,hr father....ki soch aisi hoti🙏🙏🙏🙏
I absolutely admire how you guys so calmly and optimistically dealt with this. People certainly love to victimise themselves, speaking from personal experiences and those who have fought to break the pre-existing stereotypes (shoutout to all the three of you) need to be respected. This video is so wholesome. And I myself want to develop into a strong independent woman who can look after her family herself. I love Abida's aura, just the way she is. She seems so strong. I don't know how can someone just look at the clothes and not the beautiful persona. It's all in the person's mind and his/her perspective. All someone needs to work on is themselves rather than go rant or hate.
Glad to hear this Gauri. All the best to you
Okii starting to see the video now and I am really excited as I love these three and the title makes me think it's gonna be a really cool video!!!
Edit: Oh my gosh this is such a valuable video!! I've definitely come across similar comments on CZcams and they're so distrubing, you guys replied to ek ek line which is really a smart move ❤️ Glad u made this video! And mami kudos to you for fighting for your education, I am glad you did and I really hope it inspires other girls as well💕
The ant example was actually a really good one! Mama you're so sweet and a true gentleman :)
Vidhiii! Seeing you makes me so happy that our generation is onto a really good path
And atlast like I always say, mama your editing is 🔥🔥 seriously!!
Videos in the last were true example of what women are capable of.
I think comments like "you look better without makeup" are also really annoying. Like ik it comes from a sweet place but things like oh you don't need make-up. Like bro just because I am doing make up doesn't automatically means that I am insecure or anything along the lines. Unless I say so don't feel the need to tell me whether I need make up or not.
Hey Vanshita. Thanks for writing in and sharing ur thoughts. We value them a lot. And we truly value ur support. Love
I love the way you describe everything . I want to say to all boys out there:
You don't know what a girl has sacrificed for you so respect them and you should "never judge a book by it's cover" ,besides girls do have so many problems in their life that you can't imagine . They had periods , mood swings and do you know when a girl gets pregnant she goes through so much at the time of delivery and even in entire 9 months when she carries a human being inside her stomach . Because of that pain so many womens die . Besides you should mind your own business and don't interfere in anyone's life before you get to know them .
You guys deserve a big 👏 applause for taking initiative and making an effort to talk on such a sensitive topic.
I am a girl, but still i m not a feminist because I haven't yet understood the idea behind Feminism but one thing I know for sure Feminism doest not mean hating men, and people need to understand this.
I believe the idea of Feminism has come into being so that people get comfortable with mami and vidhi wearing shorts if they are comfortable with mama showing his hairy legs😂
Thanks Aastha. Feminism is just about equality of gender. So most of us open minded people are feminists (even if we do not know it yet)
I love the quote Brilliant minds talk about Ideas, Average minds talk about events and small mind talk about people how they wear,talk stuff like that.Thanks for the quote it says everything.
Thankyou for making this video. That’s it I can’t express my feelings for the videos better. Such things need to be called out.
Your talking session teaches me the life lessons much respect and love to your family.
Its not gender we as an nation(especially as youngsters) need to focus on, instead we need to focus on the value system we build in our mind. especially the open mindedness to keep ourselves in their shoes to understand the situation and to understand magnitude of one's situation. hence think wisely before coming into biased conclusions.
The best part is that you guys made such a BEAUTIFUL VIDEO from a HATE COMMENT and taught us so much!! YOU GUYS ARE REALLY AWESOME
one minute into the video and I already wanna say that ily for making video on this topic and the courage it must have taken to speak up about the issue, I really appreciate that. I know the video is gonna be awesome and eye opening for a lot of people
I agreed to all your points , you guys are so positive , whenever I feel sad I just watch 3s a crowd and it enlightens my mood btw will you guys do more videos with Vidhi's friends ??
Yes. If and when we get a chance
I wholeheartedly agree with your views. Many guys think they have the pressure of the whole world on their backs. No bro no we are facing the same thing.
Also I loved the thing at the end, "Before calling girls gold-diggers ensure that the gold min your house is not from your mother's dowry."
Like DAMN BURNNN
Love the video.
Lots of lovee
You have done a great job discussing about this topic... I luved the video. This is the problem of about 90% people. And ya society needs more people like u ...
it was a very nice video it was a topic which normally people not focus on because its a little on other side than an entertaning video but you guys have represented in such a way that i personally think it has changed mentality of a lot of people.thanks
Although some misogynistic people are still commenting the same type of things but thank youuuuuuuuu so much for this video guys.... The comment was giving such a negative vibe but you were lifting up my mood immediately ....and the clips at last from those beautiful ladies were also so gooodd ❤️😚
Thank you guys for addressing this issue. Abida, you're a personal inspiration for me :)
That really means a lot Swati. -Abida
Uh never fail to amaze us ❤️❤️❤️...trio rocks...much love...
I loved the video as usual and I loved the fact that you addressed this comment ....... I feel that being ' financially independent ' is one of the most important thing a women has to be ........ Also loved the quote that Mama gave , it is actually soo very true ☺️
So So much Important to talk about ..
Really Appreciate that
Hope Haters will get there answers and logic too
By the way missed ur vedios ..
Don't let our judgemental society dominate your real self.
This topic is really really needed to be discussed in every family.
Thank you for speaking on this. 🥰
Wow i just loveeeed the whole part of this video every single part 💝
Thanku guysss for this 🥰
I think nowadays this is needed💔💝
"Bonds aren't just about history or blood. Its something much stronger! Feelings of love.That's all haters really need."
Love you all the members of 3's a crowd❤❤
For starting few minutes I didn't recognise that this was about the hate comments and all .......all of them look super positive and charming that they make through it very smoothly and gently love it 😌☺️
Hi guys,
I came across your page past month and have been seeing videos on loop since then. Whenever I feel low, I just watch you all and it makes me feel super light. Thank you 3's a crowd ❤
Todays video was a must!
Makeup is a hype and its completely the girls or boys choice whether they want to apply it or not these days men like ankush bahuguna are actually taking one step forward.
The problem is like jaise hi tumhara birth hua h na u have been given a list of things ki nhi tum ladki ho tum ye sab karogi n tum ladka ho toh u will do all this and it goes on until u dont see the world or get the exposure once u start exploring u will realise ki why we are so narrow
minded.
And people just can't accept the change no one is ready to come out of their comfort zone!
I really appreciate mami being so independent she had to fight for all of this and she deserves all of it and mama dw no one will judge u...u r too cool and awesome!
Aww Preksha.. tysm love
this was such an imp issue to speak about . i always felt that suraj barjatya movies were so much loved bcz it portrayed the middle class as it is but that's the problem it should'nt be like that ! anyways eagerly waiting for book giveaway and hoping to get mine this time . fingers crossed!
Such an important topic that everyone should know about girls.
Kudos to you raising this topic!
You guys gave your opinion on such a controversial topic so well and probably without offending anyone, you stated facts and that's the way ig the other side will understand calmly that they are wrong. Well done. Super proud ✨
I have been watching all your videos since I discovered it! Now I can actually say that you guys are one of my favourite CZcamsrs.
Means a lot
I am glad I watch creators who are truly broad minded and are putting in some effort for generalising the taboos and myths. I loved the vedio though. All of us know the ones who have Shitty minds not gonna listen and just dislike but let us just appreciate 3s a crowd for stepping up and talking about all the stuff which needs to be generalised.
The day our influencers don't need to talk about it or defend it will be the day our country will be a country of GENTLEMEN AND LADIES.
In my opinion this girls vs boys debate will never end , even if we want to but no it will never come to an end .
btw the video was amazing and we want more videos of mama ji in the center it lokks good :))
Ha ha. Thanks Devanshi. Point noted
@@3saCrowd :))
what a perfect way to reply a negative comment! Great impact and positive vibes from 3's a crowd and all the girls in the end :)
loved the video:)
Thabks Nancy
I can seriously say
Your channel is very informative.
What I personally like is you all give us information by entertaining us.
Both boys and girls are equal... It's just the mentality which needs to be change...
Great video👍👍
Hi abida..u sound vry knowledgeable im really interested in those idea and knowledge and what u do &ur edu...how to grow as a person..and u r so sweet i want to become like u 🤓..
guys are so the best❤️
Awee. Thanks Ananya ❤️
Whatever content or videos u guys make ! It just makes me so happy ! I can't Thank you guys ❤️ enough lotsssss of love ,I hope this crowd fam grow more n more🥺🥺 ! N for the people who aren't aware of ur channel is suchhhh..... a losss in anyways 🙂 it's just so much FUN, REFRESHING, n MOTIVATING arrrrhhhhh......... Love u guys 💕💕💕 waiting for the next video 😘🥰✨
This was such an amazing video with so many valid points. Completely agree with everything.
This was really needed...but yes its not that only boys have negative thinking about girls, girls r no less than boyz...🤗
Heyy.....i really miss ur fun videos...i was waiting for since days...this was also gud,since mama is at center ,more views today 🤣...hope u guys make a fun video next week..
Mami mama ur really cute together 😘❤️
How many of u all agree???
Next Video we want: Mama's childhood in India compared to Mami's childhood in Saudi Arabia.
Thats a nice idea. Lets see.
@@3saCrowd yess yess please vidhi (manao unhe) 😹😹😹😹
@@3saCrowd 😁
This video was really needed... And u all were so positive to the hate comments...it makes me nostalgic ...
U guys are really really really AWESOME and sweeeettt...💗💗💗
A hugeeee thanks to you three for bringing out this!! Thanks a million🙏
Every word was to the point.
Although i can deliver a long speech on this topic but just let it be.
Wtv thankyou guys❤️
Why always I end up Knowing that whatever the content is you guys are just wowwwww (this wowwwww is of Saif Ali Khan same as he speeks😂)❤️keep growing wish you all the luck 😁
Ha ha.. Thanks Ananya
Bravo 😁
I'm an indian I am proud to see that people changes their view in those thinking which isn't some or most of the people disobey and giving some annoying talks but but but today girls are rocking which is very very good broooooooo wakt lagega abhi pura mind set change hone mein logo ka and all the best to vidhi's future
Lovely video ❤ ❤
Loved watching khushi and Nida at the end ☺ want to see them more 😍
Mami you are such an inspiration
We literally need to grow up for our better future💜🇮🇳
We are not ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society.........💜
This talk was necessary. Thank you so much for this guys. Just love your content so much.
Heyy you all are so coollll
please never stop making videos💕