A LIFE UPDATE // STUCK, GRIEVING, AND DISCIPLINED DAYS...

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  • čas přidán 11. 03. 2024
  • sharing a few personal thoughts on life and homeschool lately while i make my way through this seasons daily routine that keeps me moving towards the goal.
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Komentáře • 59

  • @Homecookingisbetter
    @Homecookingisbetter Před 4 měsíci

    I understand how we can be hard on ourselves as homeschool moms, but I just want you to know that I think you have been the BEST online homeschool example I've watched on CZcams. I truly mean that. I've always been AMAZED at all that you accomplish with your children. Be encouraged and know that you have been a real inspiration for me and I'm sure others. You set the homeschool bar high. Which is a great thing. I'm glad to see you're back!

  • @ChrisTeeO.
    @ChrisTeeO. Před 4 měsíci +1

    It’s spiritual warfare friend! Invisible accusers, thoughts strategically focused on stealing joy! You are health, wealthy and whole regardless of the lies that swarm like flies! Lifting you up! 🙏🏾💐💞

  • @ClaudineAllen
    @ClaudineAllen Před 19 dny

    I can completely relate to this. The feeling of it ending before I did all I wanted to do. My kids have moved on from homeschool to regular school. The oldest declared himself ready to go when he was in the 8th grade. It was a shock to my system when the younger ones wanted to go also. I was not fully prepared but it has been great to see them spread their wings. I am more focused on personal projects and getting back to career I love. I am playing more of the role of a supporter....reminding them of who they are in Christ as they face the challenges of being out at school. The Lord will completely guide them and you!!! Many blessings and love to you and your family!!!

  • @boybossmamahomeschool
    @boybossmamahomeschool Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Sarenah, I have been feeling this way too since my oldest started highschool… between whats happening in the world, our bodies & hormones changing with age and social media influences / friends it’s very hard to feel in control & steady … but we know one who is, Christ Jesus and he’s got us mommas & our kiddos in his hands 🥰🙏🏼 #leaningpnhim tx for sharing!!

  • @kimgreen6395
    @kimgreen6395 Před 4 měsíci

    Welcome back! Yes, we are still friends 😊 I've been a subscriber for many years and I enjoy your content. Let me start by saying you are truly amazing! I can totally relate to everything you mentioned in the video. My son just turned 16 and I've been homeschooling from the beginning. There are times when I felt like we should have done more. I should have been more organized. I should have been more consistent. I really feel like the time during the pandemic and after, caused a lot of those thoughts. But God reminded me too of gratitude! I looked around at everything my son has accomplished. The AMAZING experiences he's had and if it wasn't for homeschool he would not have been able to have this awesome journey! I want to thank you for all you do. Your videos over the years have been a blessing to me in these homeschool streets and I so appreciate you 😊

  • @letfeliciteefly2504
    @letfeliciteefly2504 Před 3 měsíci

    🫂 this was so real an I felt so much of what you said here -you have been missed cuz there is none like you in this space 🤗 hey friends!

  • @sincerelyfaithandfamilyhom4683
    @sincerelyfaithandfamilyhom4683 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I clicked so fast!!! So glad to see your face 🤗and I identify with what you’re saying here so much! I have a highschooler, a middle, schooler, and an elementary-er lol. my highschooler is taking her third semester of dual enrollment classes and we only have one more year before she’s off to college and I don’t know what to do with the feelings I have approaching that next transition. But I am so thankful for the gift of time that comes with homeschooling. to just be there…. But my mama feelings vacillate, between excitement, apprehension, happiness, sadness, and so many more! Time please slow down! I am just going to keep doing my best and praying that God will do the rest 🩷😅

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! And, girrrrrllllll all of this! Every single bit. I just love your sweet girls! The internet is a crazy place. To even see you type third semester of dual enrollment is strange. Our babies are all growing so quickly and so gracefully and the blessing of being here for it all 🙌🏾. Love “seeing” you here mama. It blesses me so 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙🩷

  • @lisasteven2007
    @lisasteven2007 Před 3 měsíci

    This is the most honest update and I'm so thankful for it. I felt like I was listening to myself in a mirror with some of the things you shared (and I don't identify with most people online). The weight of what you've been carrying....and grieving. I feel that. I felt that. I am thankful another homeschool mom with kiddos around the same age shared because some days feel like Im just a lot with how much is going on. Our bodies reflect that and I'd love to know if you've found a consistency to your own disciplines for taking care of yourself. It's tricky to find that balance.

  • @homesteadschooled4587
    @homesteadschooled4587 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Yes! I have homeschooled my 4 boys for over a decade now and next year I'll have two high schoolers. Some days it honestly feels like they just skipped from elementary ages to high school ages and I wonder where the time went! We didn't read all the books I wanted or do all the things I felt like we had so much time for. It's so hard! Life now is wonderful too, but it feels like time is just slipping through my fingers.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Yup. Exactly that. Time is wild. How did we get here? Lol 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @CLeigh315
    @CLeigh315 Před 4 měsíci +2

    ❤ watching this video was like looking in a mirror- the grieving, the feelings, the weight gain…. All of it! Life transitions are beautiful but feel hard!

  • @travellingthrough7118
    @travellingthrough7118 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Darling ! I don’t even know you personal … but again I looked at your pic and thought 4 months is a long time 😢 was worried you weren’t well . Thank the Lord you are back 💐💐💐

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      The 4 months was so full of the sweetest memories that I was holding onto for dear life just trying to soak them all in. I film/record/document home movies and memories all the time but the extra that it takes to share publicly comes at a cost that I don’t always have the grace for. But when I am able to again…. It feels so good. So lovely to be greeted with 💐 like those you’ve shared here. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. They bless me so much!!!! 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @chianasanderson9634
    @chianasanderson9634 Před 4 měsíci +2

    It's great to see you. Thanks for sharing. I've been traveling through some very similar transitions and the heart work will be worth it. My youngest of four is 14 and I'm graduating my second this year. This is definitely a time of seeking the Lord for what's next while navigating a new hormonal season. I hope for all the best as you embrace your new normal.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Graduating your second?! 🎉 yes to forever seeking HIS face and HIS will for our lives and our babies as well. Thank you for being here. Thank YOU for sharing!!! 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @julesm9081
    @julesm9081 Před 4 měsíci

    Bless you 🙏🏻💜💔

  • @HeresHowWithTomi
    @HeresHowWithTomi Před 4 měsíci

    We are still friends! I feel you on so many levels. May the peace and comfort of Jesus shower you and may you find comfort while gaining clarity the clarity of your role in this new chapter of life.

  • @harmonymiller7999
    @harmonymiller7999 Před 4 měsíci

    I feel all of this! You are not alone!
    And…you DID a fabulous job and you will continue to! You are amazing just as you are right now! Even struggling. You’re fabulous!

  • @kathrynrachael
    @kathrynrachael Před 4 měsíci

    I can understand you on so many levels. Sending you huge hugs!!

  • @thebscotts
    @thebscotts Před 4 měsíci

    Wow! Glad to hear this side of parenting shared beautifully.

  • @brooket.4947
    @brooket.4947 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Oh!! I so missed you, friend. ❤ Welcome back!

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Sameeeeeee…. Friend, same 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @danaparzych7414
    @danaparzych7414 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Girl I haven’t even gotten in to the vid yet and I am just here to shout I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL and have been looking forward to where you guys are at and how you are doing!

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Will forever be happy to see your face (comments) here, friend. Excited to catch up along the way 🩷💙🩷💙🩷

  • @armetriadboyz
    @armetriadboyz Před 4 měsíci

    So happy to see a video from you. I'm like some of your subscribers, I was praying that you and your beautiful family were doing well. I can relate to how you feel. Kind of going through the same thing. It's a hard struggle at times. But I have faith that we will get our strength back soon.
    Hope to see more of you and your family

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci +1

      So happy to be sharing again. Girlllll I had nothing left to give lol. But in a good way for a good reason if that makes any sense. Yes to faith in strength being restored! 💙🩷💙🩷💙🩷

  • @ktj8763
    @ktj8763 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The way I clicked on this video so fast! Yes, we are definitely still friends! 😂 Your update was so timely, I have middle and high schoolers too and have been grieving this as well. I'm so glad you shared. Be blessed!

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Lolllllll, love it. The comfort in knowing I’m not alone 🙌🏾. So happy to know this friendship is standing the test of time 🤣🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @lifeatpecancottage5263
    @lifeatpecancottage5263 Před 4 měsíci

    Hello friend!
    I feel you!!! I have one that will be a freshman next semester and a nearly one year old…so I am all over the place emotionally. I appreciate your perspective and learn SO MUCH from you. Thanks for sharing.❤

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci +1

      I know “all over the place emotionally” like the back of my hand lol. And the fact that you can learn Anything from what I share blows my mind 🤯 a blessing for sure. Thank you for being here friend 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @kimscooterjamieson
    @kimscooterjamieson Před 4 měsíci +1

    I can relate and felt the same about the same when it comes to the new chapter as they get older. We are very blessed to be able to homeschool our babies and it’s hard for them to be growing older. I feel you mama in Every aspect. I am in the chapter of perimenopause and girl that is difficult at times as our bodies change dramatically body mind and soul. With weight gain and mood swings and hot flashes. It can be a lot but we have to remember that our own self care is so so important so we can be there for our babies. Sending you so much love as our journey continues and changes. You are never alone. Much love #6 breakingloose❤😊

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yessss to all of this!! Everyone growing older and growing gracefully. So much change. So many lessons it’s been the actual most lol. So comforting to know I’m not alone. 🩷💙🩷💙

  • @JSCDR
    @JSCDR Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are amazing Serena! If I could give you a hug, I would. I understand what you are going through but I want to tell you that you are absolutely amazing! Any plans that didn’t pan out weren’t for you. God knows better than we do and he will use all of the amazing things that you DID accomplish for your good and for the good of your littles. Okay your bigs. 😉
    You are the measuring stick for my homeschool journey! Give yourself grace! 🤗 Thanks for sharing your heart. I am heading down your path soon as my son approaches high school in September. I don’t think it has hit me quite yet so I will need to revisit this video when it does.
    P.s. We missed you around here. Hope to see more videos soon.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      I missed you all too!!!! And can I just say thank you for encouraging my heart in such a beautiful way. I would take that hug any day!!! And yes BIGS is starting to sound just as good as LITTLES these days lol. I hope I am able to share even more parts of our journey that will make your days ahead even sweeter as you head into your highschool seasons right behind us. It’s been a joy for sure!!! Thank you again. 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

    • @JSCDR
      @JSCDR Před 4 měsíci

      @@TheFallCoFamily🤗😘 All my love to you and your fam!

  • @Creative2xmom
    @Creative2xmom Před 4 měsíci

    I really went through a grieving process this last year as well as my oldest graduated last May. It's definitely a season of being discipline to look ahead and not look behind.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Congratulations 🎉 what a blessing!!! Although I can only imagine the array of feelings attached along the way. Yes to the discipline required to stay the course. 🩷💙🩷💙

  • @mamamilly10
    @mamamilly10 Před 4 měsíci

    I’ve never related to a video more. I’m in a very similar season after homeschool the past 6 years. My kids don’t “need me” like they did. Literally everything you mentioned from grieving to isolation and feeling out of control but I dislike discipline. Seriously everything you said I relate. I’m grateful that I’m not alone but also praying for you in this season. I’ve been needing to clean out my homeschool room but when I try I just see the things that we didn’t get too or unmet expectations. It’s hard finding my role now but I know God is in it. ❤

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Girlllllll the way I can relate on the homeschool room clean out. I keep wanting to fix it up a bit to film a tour and document how things have changed but the way I don’t even feel like touching a thing right now lolllll. Praying for us. All is well 🤣😘

  • @danaparzych7414
    @danaparzych7414 Před 4 měsíci

    Also have to say I LOVE your hair (and your smile AND your heart❤ momma)
    When you are READY I would love to hear your about your experience.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      You got it! Love you friendddddd 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @GraceandGrit
    @GraceandGrit Před 4 měsíci +1

    With you in the grief. It’s so hard because I too, am so thankful but it’s ok for us to feel the loss of a beautiful time that is never to be had again. I’m in the struggle too mama. And feeling that struggle to be present but also allow grief. ❤ you are NOT ALONE in this.

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Ashhhhhhhh… hi mama!!!! Yes it’s so hard. Hard for me not to get stuck in that place, but I’m working through it. Glad to know I’m not alone. Love you girl 🩷💙🩷💙

  • @miramorgan5016
    @miramorgan5016 Před 4 měsíci

    Welcome back! We are still friends in my head.

  • @EricaLucasLoves
    @EricaLucasLoves Před 4 měsíci

    Yes, we are still friends. ❤

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Ericccccaaaaaaaa… makes me happy to “hear” friend. So happy 💙🩷💙🩷💙🩷

  • @travellingthrough7118
    @travellingthrough7118 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Also, please so do a crochet video or series , whilst you chat ☺️💐💐

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      That might be fun. You’ll get to see my one stitch lolllll cuz that’s all I know how to do for now 🤣🩷💙

  • @DeniseDesarden
    @DeniseDesarden Před 4 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @praylovehomeschool3997
    @praylovehomeschool3997 Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Friend! I have missed you so! This video made me cry because I am feeling the same way!

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Sameeeeee… crazy how you can feel like you might be the only one only to realize that you’ve never been alone in life’s ups and downs. 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

    • @praylovehomeschool3997
      @praylovehomeschool3997 Před 4 měsíci

      @@TheFallCoFamily yes girl! And our kiddos are around the same ages so I’m feeling all the feelings.

  • @jesskacruz896
    @jesskacruz896 Před 4 měsíci

    Yup still friends 😉😁

    • @TheFallCoFamily
      @TheFallCoFamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Yasssssssssssssss!!!! 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙

  • @razz7810
    @razz7810 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I hear you. Looking at the bookcases with such potential and dreams and realizing that it didn’t exactly match the reality is a vibe. 💚💜🩵