My Secret Past - Gareth Thomas: Coming Out | Sexuality Documentary | Reel Truth
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- čas přidán 17. 01. 2019
- In 2009, former Welsh rugby sensation Gareth Thomas came out and since then has become a role model for other young men who are struggling with their sexuality. In this deeply honest documentary, Gareth reveals how we became a master at "playing the straight man" but how he also got angered by the stress of keeping his secret for so long.
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Thank you for standing up, to not only make peace with yourself, but also to help others to see their piece of sunlight in our daily living. You seem to be a very honest, a person with feeling for others, and for me, it is highly appreciated. May I wish you joy, happiness, peace, tranquility, blessings and prosperity.
What an affirming and candid reflection to share. Beautifully done. Thanks.
It's hard I am out and don't care who knows one life live it ! So many men live two lives so sad!
You are a beautiful man.
His book is absolutely astounding , and moved me to tears
I won't spoil it all , but at one point he's standing on the edge of a cliff contemplating walking off to end the torment,again absolutely astounding and a must buy
Second time of watching. It breaks my heart to see such pain. This will help lots of other people, but in 2024 we should be able to just be ourselves.; we may have moved on a bit. Lovely comments below.
Absolutely agree. Ridiculous that anyone should go through such pain. Accept a person for who they are.
YOU are a real hero! Thanks for this video!
What a great man. He has done his country proud not just for his accomplishments in the greatest sport there is but also for the amazing things he has done for sports personalities and the general public. Great man and just a plus that he is also Welsh.
He's such an admirable man. The Highest respect.
Total respect for this amazing man!
Im brave just like you sir! 27 shades of freed! I’m 28 now, just got out from the dark closet.. I feel freedom, a feeling no word in this world can describe ❤️🌈
He's my idol and my hero and I simply love him because he's so genuine and so honest and sometimes brutally honest I was surprised when I found out he'd been suicidal so many times I've been there but I've been there for a different reason a devastating reason I lost my beautiful strong inspirational brother on the 22nd of August 2015 and the man who killed him was aquitted of killing my brother and ten other men. Jacob was my hero my best friend and I miss him everyday I have had so many moments of wanting to just follow Jacob and hug him again one more time....
That’s so awfully sad to hear. I’m sure your brother Jacob would be super proud of your strength and that you are living for him now too. On your difficult days remember he would want you to be happy and fulfilled and to never give up so stay strong. He’s still with you always. 🕊️ 💛 🕯️
Great documentary
What a real man . We love you Gareth
It took me until my 30s to come out and nobody believed me as I always seemed to “straight” and during that time like Gareth I was always so angry and so ashamed of who I was and in some way I still am.
I know you posted this 6 months ago and I’m just an internet random but I just wanted to say I hope you’re getting nearer a point where you can be happy & totally comfortable with who you are and are kicking off those leftover feelings of shame - there is nothing shameful at all about you being who you are 💕🌈
Top man Gareth a welsh and British Lions legend
The parallels in your story with my own life, has brought me such comfort, and normalcy.
Brilliant! First time seeing this. It should be shown in every classroom. Thank you!
You are great and wonderful be happy you deserve, you are the example for young man to get out and gives them hope there is hope
Brave man:::!!! from Argentina. thank you so much Gareth.
Caught Gareth Thomas on BBC this morning, re homophobic abuse. Total respect to you.
Friends should be there for you no matter what - if they're not then they're not 'Friends' so you're best rid of them
He's got everything in that old room at his parents....100caps for his country.. .
I can totally relate to this story. Keeping a secret, creating a fake lifestyle and lying to friends and family.
I was a professional soldier with rank I in the 80’s, and having tell lies and create deceptions was something I did very well, but emotionally you pay a price for that.
In the end enough was enough and I came out as well, and it was actually much easier than I expected.
So much respect for him... best wishes in the future 🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful documentary about honesty, love, acceptance and equality.
What a great man we love you Gareth
Literally weeping here! So moving, so very brave.
I'm gay and black, I really adore him, thank you for being brave and being the real you, try and ignore the stigma.
🤣🤣🤣
😂
@@domnubestdon't mock.
Who cares if you're black?
My teacher forced me to use my own time to watch this.
Why?
gareth is my cousin
By acknowledging this means that you’re ok with him and in fact proud of him. Well done and thank you.
Funny part was everyone called me terrible names but no one asked me why, or what made me such a target for the bullies throughout school. Writing my book, A COLOURED IN FULL FLIGHT, THE BOY FROM THE BARRACKS, made it clear I was abused and bullied in the name of teasing.
brave man...great parents
Very nice man ..am your fan ..from Brasil for you ..hugs....../
Respect to a great man
Great !!! He used homophobic banter and homophobic bullying to hide his sexuality
Great video
Seems introspective, but its really about being who you are. That's all that matters. I wish it wasn't such an isolated part, from previous times. I know there is more progress for the future against homophobia. Myself I feel more complete as a person and I was really young coming out. So, if anyone is struggling then its a journey to oneself. It take courage to be open. Liked this documentary.
The guy in Portsmouth didn't have to tell his best friend. I'm sure she already knew. I don't know why people have to anounce their sexuality.
Well done Gareth, such a lovely man, you have helped so many people
Since this film was made, Keegan Hirst has "come out" and has made quite an industry for himself, in a way Gareth Thomas has not.
a mother ALWAYS knows!!
MY HERO ALWAYS WILL BE ! 😍
Defining your whole existence by your sexuality is puzzling.
It's nobody's business except those involved in a relationship.
That's why straights have engagement parties, have wedding announcements, hold hands in public, etc, etc.
Bloody brilliant! 👍 👍 👍
I admire you! Love from Portugal ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Learned each and everyone of us is product of their own environment we can never change the past ever however we can try make our future better one not just for us but for all the future generations that’s my personal believe we all have own challenges.
Why not ask? re the dad? People struggle alone. People don't necessarily view themselves as others can- especially in sexuality in ways others can see or recognise. Befriend and ask, but do not betray. Betrayal is a disgrace.
Ollie, you are sound!!!
I loved him from the first phrase
It´s sad that this has been out for 8 years and it ONLY has 700 odd views! I am crying from Ollies story and had to pause just to catch my breath. And also; Gareth is so HOT!! 😉. I must google him and see where I can meet him and make him fancy me.....
Beautiful Man
he is my cousin
@@jackthomas3613 His story is uncannily similar to mine. I was diagnosed in 2004. Someone who I once considered a friend and confided in at the lowest point in my life used to hold it over me as a way to manipulate me and control me. I told my friends and family about my diagnoses so that she could no longer terrorise me. I will never forget that very lonely time. I wouldn't wish it on an enemy. And I am a nobody! Can't imagine how it must have been for Gareth being in the public eye. My heart goes out to him. Hope he is doing well.
Top man mr Thomas
a dream top!!!!😊
Gareth Thomas Welsh legend 🏴
some guy. hope he can help a few people.
gorgeous courageous man
He is so good looking
Wait. VHS recorder? What year is in Wales?
I’ve got one knocking about as well (in London)!
Ddrsdd D
They're handy to have now and then.
09:39 - "Come on in"....🤷🏻♀️😌...😅
I was abused in the plunge bath at boarding school. Rugger buggers!
Lost interest when he didn't take his shoes off after walking into his parents' house.
It could be worse....
(He could have been Welsh....)
🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 he needs his lap top looking in to another jimmy Savile he is
Wouldn't want him tackling me from behind
Lol i bet you would
Oh i dont know
You flatter yourself 😂
Crass comment.
Irresponsible
Huh?
what a coward. He wrecked that womans life. Thankfully she miscarried
I think it’s more a result of society sticking their nose into people’s sexuality and making them feel ashamed of themselves. He must have been tormented for years and that’s no way to live a life. Society is to blame for both his and his ex wife’s torment.
You didn’t get anything seeing this docu did you ?
Rhys Hoffman
I honestly don't think that oriole relapse what they say sometimes, or the damage that they do.
Wow!! You've obviously been 1000% honest, true and authentic to who you are your whole life?!? And never been afraid or overwhelmed? Lucky you