If you think you need somebody to Lean On there will be Trouble - Sadhguru

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  • -if you think you are full of pain, struggles, problems, and you need somebody to lean on, well there will be trouble.
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Komentáře • 276

  • @caribbeanqueen1389
    @caribbeanqueen1389 Před 2 lety +13

    He said... if you have matured beyond your parents, you can choose your own path.
    I needed to hear that.

  • @jarcau_vegan
    @jarcau_vegan Před 3 lety +85

    Trying to desperately lean on someone who cannot hold space for you can be one of the wildest catalysts for emotional processing.

  • @venaramphal
    @venaramphal Před 3 lety +8

    Just because they don’t get a divorce does not mean the marriage is working 🌺

  • @twinflame1445
    @twinflame1445 Před 3 lety +48

    People should be free to follow the soul, not be squashed into a character who society wants them to be!

    • @prasunjitsaha7023
      @prasunjitsaha7023 Před 2 lety

      Your soul may lead you wrong way..
      Dont try to implement something which is not more sustainable and wellbeing than the existing system..
      First ensure your new system is better then come to point

    • @twinflame1445
      @twinflame1445 Před 2 lety

      @@prasunjitsaha7023 your soul is never going to lead you the wrong way! That’s something that only your ego mind would make up!
      Have a good day sir.

  • @knightsalmon42
    @knightsalmon42 Před 3 lety +109

    I think the low divorce rate in India is primarily due to the lack of freedom that women have plus show society views divorced women in India and not because the marriages are working. My thoughts.

    • @assumptanini4252
      @assumptanini4252 Před 3 lety +2

      True...I was to type that but on swing this then no need to

    • @RanjithKumar-fs9gn
      @RanjithKumar-fs9gn Před 3 lety +4

      It may be true some years back, but not now especially Hindus and Christians are taking there own decisions, whether to stay or not.

    • @hardeepkaur2753
      @hardeepkaur2753 Před 3 lety

      Too much freedom too much loud too much showing bodies god has answers hidden secrets deeper from Kenya beautiful beautiful beautiful is within power creating your own world journey royalty

    • @DattaMusics
      @DattaMusics Před 3 lety

      .. because your life sir Hijacked by your hormones you want a partner at 6840 at 10:00 at 12 at five anything that is American aesthetics that is not the Indian aesthetics if you marry think twice before you Marry and if you get divorced then again think twice before you choose the next one somebody married tomorrow is not the aesthetics of Indian that is why it is working when something happens there free to move out there is a system of divorce in this country but marrying 4 x 5 x 6 x changing icecream packages is not the aesthetics of India and it should never be the aesthetics of India and break out fabulous into million little pieces like America that is something which I will not do in my life when I can hope and claim that many people in the country will not to this is one thing we will never accept from the American backlog

    • @TheCherrytree123
      @TheCherrytree123 Před 2 lety +1

      True. China was like that 30 years ago. there is no place for divorce. society not allow this. I got a indian friend live in Australia. She never marry. her parents push & push. this like a war :-)

  • @munnamonk7608
    @munnamonk7608 Před 3 lety +71

    Sadhguru is a Genius in himself.

    • @creativecollective3388
      @creativecollective3388 Před 3 lety +2

      He would disagree with you..

    • @munnamonk7608
      @munnamonk7608 Před 3 lety +1

      @@creativecollective3388 Genius people will always disagree with me.

    • @creativecollective3388
      @creativecollective3388 Před 3 lety +2

      @@munnamonk7608 touche

    • @dcantay9430
      @dcantay9430 Před 3 lety +3

      Just closer to the truth, so what he speaks is closer to the truth - that's what our soul relate to ✌️🧡🙏

    • @MrMakingwavesmedia
      @MrMakingwavesmedia Před 3 lety +3

      You are ignorant. Intellect has nothing to do with insight.

  • @Jenniferspace
    @Jenniferspace Před 2 lety +4

    Am addicted to listening to Sir Sadhguru

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 Před 2 lety +1

      ME TOO!!! I LOVE AND ACCEPT HIS EXPERIENTIAL WISDOM! THANKS LORD JESUS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY IN THE HIGHEST!

    • @TheAntar73
      @TheAntar73 Před rokem

      mee too!

  • @chandradayesingh3463
    @chandradayesingh3463 Před 3 lety +14

    I love listening to Sadhguru. The way he explains everything. His love and laughter, his wisdom and knowledge. I can never get enough of it. When I close my eyes and focus, I can hear him sing Shiva Shambhoo, and I just sing along with him. This is bliss for me.

  • @Thestoriesunheard
    @Thestoriesunheard Před 2 lety +1

    Yeah he is so right....even if someone says that he or she will help you just don't take the help beyond a point that might affect you..all I mean is don't catch feelings for them or you will see the worst of all you have seen

  • @cocoslover100
    @cocoslover100 Před 3 lety +23

    Instead of reflecting and getting out of painful path, let friends say you are on the right path to calm you down, and support you on the painful path.

  • @AB-ec9kj
    @AB-ec9kj Před 2 lety +2

    Break ups also provide the opportunity for a break through.

  • @jackiecorreira8477
    @jackiecorreira8477 Před 3 lety +1

    So true that’s the illusion or misconception that we have but when it comes down to it you need your true state of self to be centered and your fine

  • @toddseals2792
    @toddseals2792 Před 2 lety +3

    That still happens when you're married , you just have to work thru it together ...

  • @ismetdoku5703
    @ismetdoku5703 Před 3 lety +19

    You are a great teacher BLESS YOU ✅

  • @sheejaramesh8550
    @sheejaramesh8550 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Guru Ji

  • @christiangab1227
    @christiangab1227 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing sadhguru's wisdom you are truly awesome and helpful ^^

  • @rohinipagi435
    @rohinipagi435 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you sadguru ji

  • @nancysmith3400
    @nancysmith3400 Před 3 lety +3

    Oh that was a very helpful teaching, thank you so much for your wisdom and kindness dear Sadhguru Jai 💝🙌🌎🙌🎶May all beings marry to join together to bring more Peace and Love to this world 🙏 OM

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před 3 lety +2

    Tq sadhguru...

  • @2ChristSublimity
    @2ChristSublimity Před 2 lety +3

    A great lesson. This is special!!

  • @jitendrazarapkar4638
    @jitendrazarapkar4638 Před 2 lety +1

    Namaskaran satguru infinite thanks

  • @dipanshumutreja2323
    @dipanshumutreja2323 Před 2 lety +2

    What wise words ❤️

  • @Adam50457
    @Adam50457 Před 3 lety +6

    There is ALWAYS a WALL to lean on and you never can FALL!!!

  • @christopherbest8204
    @christopherbest8204 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @evelynpayne4412
    @evelynpayne4412 Před 3 lety +4

    I enjoy the wisdom🦋🌹

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 Před 3 lety +2

    Very good speech..Sadguru Gi. Thank you.

  • @Mysticaltarotmessages
    @Mysticaltarotmessages Před 3 lety

    Love this title.

  • @505kant
    @505kant Před 2 lety +1

    Amen I love you

  • @iraja333
    @iraja333 Před 2 lety +1

    Koti Koti Pranaam Gurudeva mastak Aap Ke Charno Mein Hara Hara Mahadev 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jenyurikouth4984
    @jenyurikouth4984 Před 3 lety +1

    Super. Thanks.

  • @geetavansiya3376
    @geetavansiya3376 Před 2 lety

    Deep knowledge...
    N scientifical answer

  • @buikhai1
    @buikhai1 Před 3 lety

    Sadjguru, You are inspirational to all people,

  • @upliftandbealive6547
    @upliftandbealive6547 Před 3 lety +5

    ~watching from portugal my friend sending love and support

  • @manisrose1284
    @manisrose1284 Před rokem

    The most important thing is alertness or consciously alive is much needed to keep a healthy and happy marriage keep going

  • @ziziroberts8041
    @ziziroberts8041 Před 2 lety +1

    Well said. 🕊️❤️🌹

  • @sbs_modernmeeralaxmisharma465

    Awesome

  • @Jen-je3jo
    @Jen-je3jo Před 2 lety +1

    Joyous

  • @Joyce-ni7tq
    @Joyce-ni7tq Před 3 lety +1

    Best!!

  • @travelandliving3061
    @travelandliving3061 Před 3 lety +2

    He will talk both ways

  • @kenmcleong8175
    @kenmcleong8175 Před 3 lety +1

    To fulfill my needs I am with u

  • @fitwigebrehiwet3129
    @fitwigebrehiwet3129 Před 2 lety

    Great hallucinating

  • @tarramattiebissoondial8079

    Love listening to you guru ji, always learn something new every day 🙏 ❤.

  • @truthtarot7074
    @truthtarot7074 Před 3 lety +1

    Sadhguru 🙏

  • @jmanuelpereirafernandes4017

    Yes

  • @catherinelampman4125
    @catherinelampman4125 Před 3 lety +2

    Namaste 💫💖

  • @toddseals2792
    @toddseals2792 Před 2 lety +1

    I did not watch this video yet , I Like to make predictions of what already happened in my life , and then explained to me this is Why , I LOVE all your teachings , some a little much , more people need to experience life , with out fear 😀😀😀...

  • @yedelingdanvide2770
    @yedelingdanvide2770 Před 3 lety +11

    This is outstanding!

  • @prathameshpukale5366
    @prathameshpukale5366 Před 3 lety +1

    Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏🙏

  • @RituSharma-hz6ue
    @RituSharma-hz6ue Před 2 lety +1

    Pranam Sadhguru 🙏🌱🌹🌺🍃🌸🌿🌼🍀🙏😊😊😊
    Very nice …..🙏🌹🌱

  • @barbaramawinwin5287
    @barbaramawinwin5287 Před 3 lety +4

    In Buddha teaching we already learn not to break up the other person married life. Thanks to you.

  • @rickeshpatel4025
    @rickeshpatel4025 Před 3 lety +5

    I don’t think anymore needs to get married until their early-mid twenties. We all change throughout life, it’s naive to think someone will be the same as they where 5-10 years, even a year ago.
    Life is temporary, we have a fearful view of life and death leading to all kinds of conflicts internally looking to the outer to fulfill our inner. We are born whole 🙏🏽

  • @arafatsagar9814
    @arafatsagar9814 Před 3 lety +9

    It's amazing to see both the extent of knowledge and wisdom this man has!!

  • @rabeeshkumargola9081
    @rabeeshkumargola9081 Před rokem

    well said👏👌👍

  • @muumarlin1731
    @muumarlin1731 Před 3 lety +2

    Wonderful:)

  • @rakheejulka7075
    @rakheejulka7075 Před 3 lety +15

    Namaskaram Sadhguru ji. Success of something is in the result . Marriage is not about who arranged it , the end result is success or not is vital. It is we who are responsible to make it work or unsuccessful. Nothing can stop breakups. All marriage is a wrong terminology. Amazing clarity on marriage .....which ever way it happens its lways arranged.
    Deep respect Sadhguru ji for insight on marriage.

  • @noahtheearcetectvsthesuici9768

    That's how I felt in high school growing up and they made sure I felt differently before I left

  • @chandus8936
    @chandus8936 Před 3 lety

    Good one 🥰

  • @nalinibisnauth8491
    @nalinibisnauth8491 Před 3 lety

    You learned from sadhuguru explain teaching,what anyone learned is yours,so what is sadhuguru,let alone. Thanks 😌.

  • @tadhghayden8440
    @tadhghayden8440 Před 3 lety +4

    Compatibility...is best...unless you want a hard sadana!!..but what you say about self abundance is true indeed...

  • @dipasinha663
    @dipasinha663 Před 2 lety

    Guruji🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @kahmads
    @kahmads Před 3 lety +1

    super

  • @Learn--With--Us
    @Learn--With--Us Před 3 lety +4

    Desire to be with others can only come from a deep place of security of self.

  • @fitwigebrehiwet3129
    @fitwigebrehiwet3129 Před 2 lety

    The Great doses

  • @davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796

    No one can really choose ! There's choices in front of each individual, these are there to make a decision from the choice to choose from..... so deciding from whatever choice or choices coming from outside, aren't your choices, all you have to do is make decisions. So decide the best choices for your experiences in life. And knowing that you will always have other opportunities to rectify decisions from outside choices which are no longer needed helps. Namaste 🙏

  • @ashishkumarsingh7861
    @ashishkumarsingh7861 Před 3 lety +2

    We must try to be Independent and showcase own skills and colors, own hardwork brings happiness and honey any time everywhere. Grammer and vocabularies leads the way. Leaning towards somebody brings distress. But doing God's work brings God's grace and blessings everytime. Follow God's instructions. God is Omnipotent Omnipresence.

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 Před 2 lety

      YES INDEEDY! HALLELUJAH, YAAAY MEN! THANKS LORD JESUS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY IN THE HIGHEST!

  • @SydMountaineer
    @SydMountaineer Před 2 měsíci

    Most people end up in relationships & marriages that happen without any thought, we put more thought into buying a car than we do WHO we get into a relationship with.

  • @anshulsharma996
    @anshulsharma996 Před 3 lety +5

    Same my mom told me you don't know who is his father n mom. I married my boy just I felt he is a guy. Trust me he is an amazing boy.

  • @ketwals2723
    @ketwals2723 Před 3 lety

    People like 2 choose easy all the time...thats the reason they get weak.Its nothing wrong walking on a easy path...just sometimes the unease gives u some the ease never can. When u can walk on ownself...such a peace...bliss...joy...richness showers u...u can only explore this...its not 2 understood by a conditioned old mind .Aum

  • @2ChristSublimity
    @2ChristSublimity Před 2 lety +1

    10:51-11:22 an invaluable life lesson. This is truly precious!!

  • @aniketshirke363
    @aniketshirke363 Před 3 lety +4

    I am marrying only the girl that's lit😁❤️ awesome guruji

  • @sriramiyer637
    @sriramiyer637 Před 3 lety

    which is the song which plays on the start of this video.. please someone tell me the name of it... it has an awesome raaga in it

  • @ajj2455
    @ajj2455 Před 3 lety +1

    Here me living as single. Since i don't need some kids for me all kids are my kids all mothers like my mothers and ofcourse my mother connection with me somehow deeper but iam fine with anyone just for walk or work but not for lifetime lol.. i realized. For living in society for some independence and to feed self till alive trying to have some money in useful way by giving my knowledge for basic needs is only my little needs well not a lean completely though. Iam ok

  • @Lashistoriasdelilith
    @Lashistoriasdelilith Před 3 lety +2

    I think that meanwhile I am free to choose it doesn't matter which arranges.

  • @vishnuprasad8813
    @vishnuprasad8813 Před 3 lety

    🙏❤

  • @varshamuzik2149
    @varshamuzik2149 Před 3 lety +4

    Whoever reading this
    May all your dreams come true 🤗

  • @sureshautay3182
    @sureshautay3182 Před 3 lety

    Hi , what is the last song end of the video

  • @sandrakoker3277
    @sandrakoker3277 Před 2 lety

    I believe that every one as a nation will decide what they want. I like to know that I have a choice.

  • @HighlightingExcellence
    @HighlightingExcellence Před 3 lety +1

    Someone please tell me the song he was singing at the end?

  • @margaretneanover3385
    @margaretneanover3385 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow. Maybe a forced failure is the point. Learning others as it seems. I say a bit otherwise but then it's very hard to not topple another.

  • @basanadas9159
    @basanadas9159 Před 3 lety

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @manisrose1284
    @manisrose1284 Před rokem

    By experiences I could declare that problems before or after marriage which ever way it may be arranged, yet till there is no third party's issues or interruption the marriage definitely be happier each day or years and so on.

  • @hmmm-jk7tv
    @hmmm-jk7tv Před 3 lety

    What is the title of the first song in the beginning

  • @merysteep4583
    @merysteep4583 Před rokem

    Whats that show on netflix

  • @sufyansheikh5103
    @sufyansheikh5103 Před 3 lety

    Whats the song name in the end ?

  • @stefaniatallberg5534
    @stefaniatallberg5534 Před 3 lety +1

    The main reason why the divorce rate is so low in India is that under the Hindu law both partners have to give consent in order to legally divorce each other . So many estranged couples prefer to separate rather than divorce for that reason.

  • @lindagoins2022
    @lindagoins2022 Před 2 lety +1

    IM REMINDED OF LEAN ON ME...WHEN JOE CLARK WAS WORKING THINGS OUT IN THE SCHOOL WITH HIS BULL HORN AND ALTHOUGH HE STEPPED ON SOME TOES AND HURT SOME HEARTS.
    HE DID IT BECAUSE HE CARED AND WANTED THE KIDS TO SEE VALUE IN THEMSELVES.
    ITS GOOD TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO HAS YOUR BACK, SOMEONE YOU CAN LEAN ON... BUT IN LIFE YOU WILL FIND AS I DID, THOSE WHO YOU HAVE LEANED/ DEPENDED ON GETS TIRED AND IN THEIR OWN WAY..THEY WILL SHUT YOU OFF OR LIMIT YOU, MAYBE ITS TO LOOK OUT FOR THEMSELVES OR THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE THE LEANING POST ANYMORE..
    I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS,AND THE IMPORTANCE OF DEPENDING ON YOURSELF... TAKING WHAT YOU HAVE AND DOING WHAT YOU CAN TO SURVIVE,AND THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU GAIN ALONG THE WAY.
    ( EVEN THE BEST OF FRIENDS,SOME TIMES PART)

    • @vashikarnaspeslistguruji4842
      @vashikarnaspeslistguruji4842 Před 2 lety

      ᴀᴀᴘᴋɪ ᴋᴏ ʙʜɪ sᴀᴍsʏᴀ ʜᴀɪ ᴀᴀᴘ ɢᴜʀᴜ ᴊɪ ᴋᴏ ᴄᴀʟʟ ʏᴀ ᴡʜᴀᴛ's ᴀᴀᴘ ᴋᴀʀᴇ +𝟿𝟷-𝟽𝟺𝟷𝟽𝟼𝟾𝟺𝟹𝟻𝟽.

    • @lindagoins2022
      @lindagoins2022 Před 2 lety

      @@vashikarnaspeslistguruji4842 LIKE I SAID BEFORE , WHAT EVER THAT MEANS...I DON'T SPEAK YOUR LANGUAGE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND MINE,IF NOT YOU WOULDNT HAVE RESPONDED ... WHAT EVER U NEED TO SAY ...SAY IT AND SPEAK ENGLISH...

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 Před 2 lety

      Linda...girl, U JUST SAID NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!!! SUSTAINED, Little Sister!

  • @lazycollector6254
    @lazycollector6254 Před 3 lety

    What is name of starting music...??

  • @saikiranjakkani9079
    @saikiranjakkani9079 Před 3 lety

    What is the song name in this video....Which came at the beginning..

  • @tiffanyohara6364
    @tiffanyohara6364 Před 3 lety +3

    SADHGURU DEAR, IN INDIA, POOR WOMEN HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO BE MARRIED OFF. SOME HUSBAND BEAT THEM. THEY HAVE NOWHERE TO RUN AWAY TO. IS THAT WHY DIVORCE IS ONLY AROUND 1 1/2 PERCENT? IT WOULD BE HIGHER IF WOMEN COULD ESCAPE A BAD MARRIAGE.

    • @worldcitizen9847
      @worldcitizen9847 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes I agree with you. It would seem that such a wise man understands it too.

  • @sujufromchennai7174
    @sujufromchennai7174 Před 3 lety

    👏👏👏☺️

  • @onlinevideos0079
    @onlinevideos0079 Před 3 lety

    Name of the chant at the beginning?

  • @katharinaokan1571
    @katharinaokan1571 Před 3 lety

    🙏🍃🌸🍃

  • @dereckkessler
    @dereckkessler Před rokem +1

    Regardless of your religion nobody can choose a better partner for you to spend your life with than yourself. Divorce rates are just higher in countries women have more financial independence

  • @tadhghayden8440
    @tadhghayden8440 Před 2 lety

    Pre arranged by another party included as distinct to arranged by yourselves.....I suppose...is what Sathguru means...a man and woman should if they can have the first priority...to serve each other first n foremost...then it will be a thing of dignity n grace n beauty....indeed we are born into this world alone!!!in being alone we are not lonely or needy or dependent..in aloneness we are not lonely n searching and needy....for in aloneness we are looking n connection with the sustaining uplifting power of the infinite divine.....and we can give to another without expectations... This is what I'm seeking ...while I'm waiting....

  • @Letitgo1975
    @Letitgo1975 Před 2 lety +2

    So well said about so called arranged marriage which most of us small minded people in west don’t understand as we think whatever west does is best!! Crazy

  • @syndhya
    @syndhya Před 2 lety +2

    AI should arrange..... Read phones, track shopping habits, lifestyle, spending habits, social media use etc and match ppl 😀 it for sure will happen soon

  • @LILTINS
    @LILTINS Před 3 lety

    Geeta say not to let an ignorant be out of his ignorance, don't know why you sadhguru Keep on posting videos

  • @joe414
    @joe414 Před 3 lety +1

    He IS GOD.PERIOD

  • @tadhghayden8440
    @tadhghayden8440 Před 2 lety

    I wish maybe ....some one else wise in such matters ..would find a suitable compatable partner for me....

  • @lisaperez8276
    @lisaperez8276 Před 2 lety +2

    Love him…really question though the idea that more people staying married = marital institution is working. That said, I do see the validity of how arranged marriage works well for a lot of people.

    • @malinimisra565
      @malinimisra565 Před 2 lety

      Exactly... Same thoughts... Just because India's divorce percentage is low, does it mean it's working... I didn't expect this from Sadhguru...