People mistake peace for boredom...

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  • @knithappy
    @knithappy Před měsícem +14

    I’m 63 years old and wish I had this wisdom many years earlier! You are wise beyond your years.

  • @Iris-919
    @Iris-919 Před měsícem +12

    As a certified homebody, this message resonates w me. I find peace in solitude. It calms me. Gives me time to process thoughts & emotions w/o distractions. Some of my favorite activities I do alone...reading, bike riding, cooking. I don't feel bored or like I'm missing out. Some people have a hard time being alone w their thoughts & feelings so they need distractions. This is a much needed message. Thank you Tim! 💖

  • @janiceellis6513
    @janiceellis6513 Před měsícem +24

    This is so true. People do mistake peace for boredom. My husband is a Christian man who likes to go to church & read the Bible. He’s STABLE, he’s kind, he doesn’t need a lot of excitement. I tell young women, “ain’t nothing like good treatment!” He will give me his last dime; doesn’t care if my hair is short or long, or I can wear a paper bag on my head….he’s cool with me however I wear my hair or whatever I want to wear. I love that.

    • @Gurl-5150
      @Gurl-5150 Před měsícem

      Serial killer. Look in your basement lady!

    • @BESTMOAD
      @BESTMOAD Před měsícem +1

      ​@Gurl-5150 you one of them gulls that can't live without a daily dose of drama

    • @stf8369
      @stf8369 Před měsícem +7

      Beautiful story, I'm so happy for you. Don't pay these jealous people no mind.

    • @janiceellis6513
      @janiceellis6513 Před měsícem +2

      @@Gurl-5150 a tree is known by the fruit it bears. My husband is 94, in perfect health, still cuts his own yard, takes out the trash, takes no medication whatsoever, and he gets up to thank God every day he’s living. He unselfishly still helps with the local food distribution ministry picking up food to distribute to families, and he’s the most respected deacon in his church & community. He loves God & desires to live right. Joke all you want, but there’s nothing like a real man of God.

  • @berniejeanjones596
    @berniejeanjones596 Před měsícem +10

    Love seeing a young man talking about this kind of subject, this is a lesson that takes so many people a lifetime to learn, if they ever learn it at all. So much pressure to be this or that, so much noise coming at us that it's hard to find yourself, let alone accept yourself. Getting stuck on becoming this "ideal" version of ourselves is really just a prison we create for ourselves. Keep up the positive talk!

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +10

    Praying for peace in our country and world.🙏

  • @janiceellis6513
    @janiceellis6513 Před měsícem +10

    Another thing, he respects women. A lot of men thinks it’s okay to disrespect or hit a woman….not my guy; he would never hit me. He wants to live right before God, so he honors me, loves me & respects me.

  • @debbiepochy6751
    @debbiepochy6751 Před měsícem +4

    You are so right Tim! My husband and I are both retired and in our 60's after both of us having busy careers. We see some of our friends constantly posting about traveling, cruises, etc. Both of us love to be home! I love to read, cook, garden and keep a beautiful home. My husband loves to work outside and keep up on all the yardwork. We still like to go out to eat once in a while and do short road trips. We find peace and relaxation in our own back yard! 💗

  • @jonathanpatterson4558
    @jonathanpatterson4558 Před měsícem +11

    love you tim.

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +9

    That is a reason I don’t follow Social Media!

  • @elainecarey6915
    @elainecarey6915 Před měsícem +10

    Tim grab a cool drink and sit outside on the porch and listen to sitting on the. Dock of the bay. That’s chillin I gave me my best life at 71 years old! Just have to relax and love finds you!!

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +7

    My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are so Blessed!❤

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Před měsícem +5

    Such wise advice for a young Man. Yes, I think just peace. ❤

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +7

    I pray to God each and every night to thank Him for the many Blessings that He has bestowed upon me and my family!❤️🙏

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +5

    Sending prayers and love your way!🙏

  • @historianKelly
    @historianKelly Před měsícem +3

    Tim, not only does lack of drama not equal boring, don't let society make you feel like, if you prefer being alone, OR, if you don't meet anyone who shares your interests, that that means any less about yourself and your choices. When I was younger, I really wanted to be in relationships, but by the time I was in my early 30s, I started wanting more & more time to myself, especially to pursue my hobbies & spend time with friends & family. Now that I'm in my late 50s, I'm good with the choices I made. I love the solitude. That's *my* happy space. It's not for everyone. But no one can shame me for making my choices, because I served my family, I still serve my community, I care for rescue pets, and I share the things I'm good at with anyone who can use my help - I'm not selfish, I just like solitude. No one should allow others to dictate what their happiness is to them. As long as you aren't hurting others, as long as one spreads love (it's the only thing that truly matters), it's all good. ☮️

  • @dianeouellette3571
    @dianeouellette3571 Před měsícem +5

    In an interview Oprah once said that when she first met her life partner, Steadman, her girlfriends warned her that he was dull and boring. As she got to know him, she found him to be a principled man who was a very deep thinker....not at all dull or boring...just not really into a lot of drama. A perfect match for her.

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 Před měsícem +2

      Are you serious? A woman who seeks wealth, fame, by delving into other people's drama? Even made up drama, like the Harkles? Worst possible example.

    • @dianeouellette3571
      @dianeouellette3571 Před měsícem

      @@MissJensk1 I know. It's ironic isn't it?

  • @pjperdue1293
    @pjperdue1293 Před 19 dny +1

    It's whatever feeds your soul. I'm old enough to be your grandma and I can tell you, you're right. You stumbled on this wisdom at a young age. 🥰 Most of us take a few decades more to realize it.

  • @katboss4886
    @katboss4886 Před měsícem +5

    I would go to the shore with my guy. He sea fishes, I sit in my chair & read my book. It works for both

  • @marvinbone1379
    @marvinbone1379 Před měsícem +4

    Wow, that's AMAZING, Tim ! I wish i'd heard this EONS ago. Reminds me of an old saying, "millions long for immortality.... who are bored, on a rainy Sunday"

  • @MariMack
    @MariMack Před měsícem +3

    Wise words. Thank you for sharing. You be you!

  • @Colleenha83
    @Colleenha83 Před měsícem +4

    You have a wise soul Tim. I find myself a bit anxious when bumping into people I’ve not seen for a while and they say “so what you been up to?”. Feeling like I’m going to be judged bc often I haven’t been doing anything other than going to work!! My life is very boring and peaceful but it’s fine I like it that way 😂

  • @barbcarolegrafton6981
    @barbcarolegrafton6981 Před měsícem +5

    Thanks Tim. Good talk! I’m sure lots of people would find my life boring but I don’t care. They don’t have to live it. I am sure I would not want to live their life either. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And that’s okay. The older you get, the more you realize that it is okay to live a life that others don’t understand.

  • @BB-nu3vd
    @BB-nu3vd Před měsícem +6

    I like “boring.“ I’m a low-key person and that’s what I want in someone else.

  • @user-yj7iq6um8g
    @user-yj7iq6um8g Před měsícem +5

    You are right we are all different and like different things , that’s the way of the world. I am a home body also and I keep myself busy. You are a very knowledgeable young man keep up the good work. Thanks for sharing

  • @michellehunter7076
    @michellehunter7076 Před měsícem +1

    You said that thing there!

  • @Foxyjk50
    @Foxyjk50 Před měsícem +4

    Wow Tim, you just blew me away with this and I am so glad I tuned in and watched .., to be your age and have so much depth regarding life in general is so wonderful. I could listen to this over and over again, you’re so motivating and inspiring. As a social worker for the past 26 years for largest county in the country, I can only hope that I have been as inspiring as you are for the thousands of clients I have worked with. You have such insight and awareness and it’s refreshing to see. Thank you for being you and Keep up the good work, you are pure awesomeness… ❤

  • @stf8369
    @stf8369 Před měsícem +3

    So true, my husband and I do not like to travel much even though we have traveled. We like being at home, cooking making our home pretty with DIY projects etc

  • @tracytryall4261
    @tracytryall4261 Před měsícem +2

    I love this, Tim❤ I'm a homebody, too. As we grow a bit and heal from our past and possibly trauma, we crave serenity, peace, quiet, movies, good cooking at home. Keep doing what you are doing😊

  • @robertfullone9032
    @robertfullone9032 Před měsícem +3

    I have no time for revenge. Heard this the other day, find myself thinking about it often.

  • @Marian-sl4mw
    @Marian-sl4mw Před měsícem +2

    AMEN! Please keep your motivational talks coming. I’m not of your generation but I’m listening when you speak because I know God can use anyone at anytime to speak a word. Thank You. ❤❤❤

  • @christyhancock7387
    @christyhancock7387 Před dnem

    Damn right Tim!! Thank you brother!! Shit I'm finding peace tearing up this Reese's PB cup right now! 😂

  • @deborahzuchero7348
    @deborahzuchero7348 Před měsícem +3

    Agreed! You are supposed to have peace ☮️ and quiet life is hectic enough Nobody has ever died of boredom ❤😊

  • @marymiller8370
    @marymiller8370 Před měsícem +3

    Truth!

  • @norakeeswood9808
    @norakeeswood9808 Před měsícem +4

    Thanks so much. 👍🏽🎉🍀🎉

  • @LillyRose924
    @LillyRose924 Před měsícem +2

    To get this at such a young age means you're on the right path little brother. I struggle a bit with people saying I'm odd because I like books and birds and trees. I learned that separating myself immediately from the negativity works wonders. So continue on your own path, you have a great start. I wish you and your brother much success and happiness ❤❤

  • @joannparker1977
    @joannparker1977 Před měsícem

    Tim, I just happened upon this yesterday. It from like 1941 I think.
    To be silent the whole day, see no newspaper, hear no radio, listen to no gossip, be thoroughly and completely lazy, thoroughly and completely indifferent to the fate of the world is the finest medicine a man can give himself. ~Henry Miller
    You are so right. When I read this above, it sounds like nirvana sometimes.
    But, when I first started trying to do this, I felt guilty. Thinking to myself "Why am I not cleaning up and hauling all the junk I have down to the dumpster?" Or some many things like that. But, I try to tell myself, convince myself, it's okay to do literally nothing "productive" all day. But in the end, spending a day like this is beyond productive. It's important to ask yourself "can this wait? Can it be done tomorrow or the next day?" That's what I ask myself. I hate being a slave to time. What time it is. Having to rush and worry about time. And unplugging has become way easier.
    As far aa going out for a good time, I just do it when I want. And when I'm around people that are like, let's go, go, go, do this and do that, I've become old enough to say no. And sometimes they look at me like I have some problem. Fuck them. Learning to say no and not caring what they think will quickly show you who you don't enjoy hanging with. Find and be with people that accept and enjoy being around you. They are out there.

  • @galpalsal
    @galpalsal Před měsícem +1

    Excellent quote! You are so right! People think that if they're not "doing something", then something is wrong with them. NOT TRUE. Once you achieve peace for yourself, never change it for anyone.

  • @MissJensk1
    @MissJensk1 Před měsícem +4

    A friend's eife left him because, she said, he was boring. That was over 20 years ago. Unfortunately, he still repeats it. I told him, you've repeated this to yourself so many times, you've made yourself believe it. And also you tell everyone you meet, do they'll believe it too.. Never take on board what one person might think of you.

  • @slick11o54
    @slick11o54 Před měsícem +3

    Good job Tim!!! 👏

  • @nikkigannon8729
    @nikkigannon8729 Před měsícem +1

    God bless you Tim . You are wise beyond your years!🙏🏼❤️

  • @susanmerrell4304
    @susanmerrell4304 Před měsícem

    I needed to hear this today. Thanks Tim! You are an old soul and a gem.

  • @jacquelinemathews806
    @jacquelinemathews806 Před měsícem

    Thanks for this. Peace is priceless ❤❤❤

  • @GiftedMELKSMelissa
    @GiftedMELKSMelissa Před měsícem +1

    Love this Tim!!! Great message….. someone needed to hear that, that’s why God put the message on your heart🙏🏻❤️

  • @TRL1967
    @TRL1967 Před měsícem +3

    True That My Man!!

  • @tbfisher7717
    @tbfisher7717 Před měsícem

    I love the Tim talks. My peace is chilling with my dog in my house. My 85 year old father thinks I’m boring. He has to be on the go all of the time.

  • @joer8273
    @joer8273 Před měsícem +6

    I think you’re a good man. You have a good spirit. I feel blessed for being a spectator in your journey to awareness.
    It started as musical awareness, but clearly your level of self-awareness outside of the realm of music is refreshing.
    I’m really proud of you, bro.
    I gotta be honest. As a former teacher and a life coach now, I’d love to spend an hour or so here or there with you.
    Your thoughts, opinions , and reflections would make for incredible conversation. I just know that I might ask one question that would plant a seed that makes for incredible convo in subsequent weeks.
    So proud of you, bro. Can’t say it enough. Shakespeare once wrote “To thine own self be true” and YOU GET IT.

    • @TwinsthenewTrend
      @TwinsthenewTrend  Před měsícem +1

      Yes we can talk more text me on my instagram @twinsthenewtrend

  • @19GAS
    @19GAS Před měsícem +1

    I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH YOU!
    A very good Speech!
    Im also a lot in the House, and I go on long Walks or Jogging, because thats MY Peace!
    I also listen to music ♬ ♬ a lot Because thats MY Peace!

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +2

    We have already seen Fred back!

  • @samanthabutler8923
    @samanthabutler8923 Před měsícem +2

    Yes, so true!

  • @charlottelinder4868
    @charlottelinder4868 Před měsícem +2

    Good Night / Good Morning
    It's nice to see you ☺️
    God's Blessings 🙌 on you and your family.....😇💙😇
    This is so true 👍

  • @finbarwhite9989
    @finbarwhite9989 Před 28 dny

    Sometimes we all need to switch off from life . Finding peace is the best . Remember money is nothing treat people well .

  • @evelynanderson406
    @evelynanderson406 Před měsícem +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @dianeouellette3571
    @dianeouellette3571 Před měsícem

    Jon Batiste's song "Be Who You Are" supports exactly what you're saying. It can be lonely being a visionary and not following the crowd.

  • @JARARTVIDEO
    @JARARTVIDEO Před měsícem

    Thanks Tim....You are a real gem. I appreciate your thoughts.

  • @SVati-su5ih
    @SVati-su5ih Před měsícem +2

    💙💙💙

  • @rmichele2016
    @rmichele2016 Před měsícem +2

    💯💕

  • @user-wo8km4hz9y
    @user-wo8km4hz9y Před měsícem

    Tim, Thank you for sharing such an important concept! Your messages always speak to me. 💕

  • @vickiemurph
    @vickiemurph Před měsícem

    Be yourself. ❤️

  • @rosemarydowney1976
    @rosemarydowney1976 Před měsícem

    Well said tim you can't be who someone else wants you to be the best person you can be is yourself you are a blessing to me and others always so nice seeing you be blessed and take good care 👍

  • @Am_Elia
    @Am_Elia Před měsícem +1

    You sound like you really got your head on straight. Don’t forget to follow your own advice. If someone is judgmental or putting you down they’re not worth your time.

  • @ericjackson3986
    @ericjackson3986 Před měsícem

    Thanks!

  • @wendydabee
    @wendydabee Před měsícem

    You are quite right.
    Thanks for keeping your videos coming, thankfully at your own pace.
    Thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @IdalisCrespo33
    @IdalisCrespo33 Před měsícem

    🥰😇that's true luv

  • @karenarens2981
    @karenarens2981 Před 20 dny

    Love you guys - you bring joy! Have you listened to Charlie Daniels, The Devil Went Down to Georgia? If not, you must! A classic. Peace.

  • @thewarman9096
    @thewarman9096 Před měsícem

    Jennifer Rush - The Power of Love.. thanks

  • @ilikebeets9600
    @ilikebeets9600 Před měsícem

    Much Love

  • @loveit7484
    @loveit7484 Před 25 dny

    Great video!!!

  • @MichaelLesesne
    @MichaelLesesne Před měsícem

    Tim talks? Nice. But, you couldn’t use that title if your name was Ted. 😆

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 Před měsícem

    Tim, you post at your own speed.

  • @allentowngal4769
    @allentowngal4769 Před měsícem

    Exactly. People in Ukraine and GAZA would love some "boredom."

  • @user-ku9tm3up2q
    @user-ku9tm3up2q Před měsícem

    Twin, you have got to cover the Kendrick/Drake diss tracks. Can’t wait to hear your take on this.❤❤

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr Před měsícem +3

    When you have time, will you please play and react to the video and to the song by John Lennon called “Imagine”. Right now, it is such a relevant song!

  • @haijitoro939
    @haijitoro939 Před 20 dny

    Twin, where have u been? 😜