Seneca's 8 Tips For Mastering Yourself

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    Seneca was a power broker, a playwright, and a Stoic philosopher. These 8 lessons will teach you to become a better master of yourself, just like Seneca was striving to do.
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    00:00 Intro
    01:29 1. Seek challenges
    01:59 2. Focus on your response
    02:48 3. Choose your influences wisely
    03:57 4. Be a master of yourself
    04:47 5. Say yes to what matters
    05:20 6. Do the hard things
    05:55 7. Protect your time
    06:58 8. Make others better
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Komentáře • 236

  • @mattbishop1093
    @mattbishop1093 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I am sincerely inspired by reading the comments from all of you. I would love to surround myself with fine people like you.

  • @DailyStoic
    @DailyStoic  Před 2 lety +243

    The tips
    00:00 Intro
    01:29 1. Seek challenges
    01:59 2. Focus on your response
    02:48 3. Choose your influences wisely
    03:57 4. Be a master of yourself
    04:47 5. Say yes to what matters
    05:20 6. Do the hard things
    05:55 7. Protect your time
    06:58 8. Make others better

  • @siasharma2736
    @siasharma2736 Před 2 lety +278

    “It’s not that life is short, it’s that we waste a lot of it”- I’ve been biting my nails scared to getting older (I’ll be 24 in about 2 months). And this quote resonated so well with me, I’ve been afraid of running out of time because I think I don’t have much time left. But this fear of losing time has been making me waste time… this is such a vicious cycle. Thank you for this amazing video! 😊💙

    • @davidanthony6408
      @davidanthony6408 Před 2 lety +4

      Hi Sia, take a moment to read my comment above. It's about my take and views on time and potentiality. I am just a normal guy, who loves to understand the elements and dynamics of reality. I do have a business, and my greatest challenge has been time availability. In my particular situation, I feel obligated to be there for so many family members who are needy and they drain me of my time and energy, so I am left with not enough of myself to grow my business. At the same time, I enjoy being with family and it feels good to know that I was there for them when it mattered, I might never get that chance again. So what I am trying to say is, that spending time and helping the people that matter to you, that you love will count for more at the end of your life. In our last days, we are more likely to regret not enjoying life enough, not connecting enough with our hearts. This is what makes us feel more alive, more than the dopamine that comes with winning, popularity and addictions. What really counts is the meaningful energy, love, and joy, these are the things that invigorate and nurture our souls. Positive energy. The brain chemical for love is oxytocin but produced naturally when we put our hearts in the right place, live for love and joy. It gets tricky because its in the same arena of pleasure, where many get addicted. We're emotional beings, but try to be a bit more rational more than emotional, to keep your inner drama in check. Well, nice chatting. Goodluck.

    • @siasharma2736
      @siasharma2736 Před 2 lety +3

      @@davidanthony6408 thank you for your wisdom! Life can be a bit of a balancing act, I am very career driven so I get a lot of happiness and fulfilment from that sort of success but I am aware that genuine human connection is also necessary for fulfilment. I completely agree with you and am so grateful to hear your story. Thank you 💙

    • @monocyte2210
      @monocyte2210 Před 2 lety +12

      You are still very young wish you all thr best coming from a 34 year old

    • @siasharma2736
      @siasharma2736 Před 2 lety +1

      @@monocyte2210 Thank you! I appreciate it!

    • @Qunyc1985
      @Qunyc1985 Před 2 lety +2

      24 !!!! LOOOOOL You already outlived many of my friends. GO!!!!!!!!!

  • @drmarctagon
    @drmarctagon Před 2 lety +19

    It's amazing how've you managed to go over the same material in different ways for so long. You must know the stoic works word for word at this point.

  • @inesamezquita6152
    @inesamezquita6152 Před rokem +33

    I am now 23 years old, going through a lot of changes which at some point made me feel like my life was turning apart, and in fact it is, but now I see the value in what is happening, and I wanted to thank you for not letting the stoic's word die! I value your work a lot. Thank you, again.

    • @alanverga3456
      @alanverga3456 Před rokem

      Keep your head up. Hope you’re doing better

  • @DS-cf1zc
    @DS-cf1zc Před 2 lety +129

    I just wanted to say thank you Ryan, I have been practising (loosely) stoicism for a few years, and found it helps me.
    But, last Christmas and New Year Covid nearly killed me, and in early January, I could barely breath, barely walk, barely read or write.
    Today as I close in on the anniversary of catching the virus, I am not sad, unhappy or dwelling on the past - I still have some health challenges that is the extremes of covid disease. But I have read many books this year, practiced hard, and read hard, and written lots. In March, having learnt to walk in Jan, I ran a mile, in June I ran 10 miles, and in September I went both half marathon distance, and did a competitive mile. My mile time was still poor, but I did it - I need to recover 30 seconds to be back to pre-covid. But my half marathon time was not far off - around six minutes or so a 1:43. My best since passing 40 being 1:37 - so not the end of the world.
    This does work, focus on being the best version of yourself, and thank you Ryan for personally inspiring me to keep reading my Daily Stoic, keep journalling and keep pushing myself.
    I hope your family and you enjoy Christmas and the New Year. Best wishes.

    • @rid.h.tom.4296
      @rid.h.tom.4296 Před 2 lety +3

      Glad you used this time to improve yourself rather than wallow in self pity. Kudos!

    • @DS-cf1zc
      @DS-cf1zc Před 2 lety +5

      @@rid.h.tom.4296 Self pity, serves no one, and adds nothing of value to life.
      I just try to be the best that I can be, each day, and work on improving from that point.

    • @chillofy2311
      @chillofy2311 Před 2 lety +2

      You are strong and I'm proud of you! Best wishes!

    • @francelaferriere6106
      @francelaferriere6106 Před rokem +1

      A year later, I hope you're feeling better!

    • @DS-cf1zc
      @DS-cf1zc Před rokem +1

      @@francelaferriere6106 Im doing okay, I have long covid, but it is manageable. And I am still making the most of the life I have left.

  • @Wil_Dasovich
    @Wil_Dasovich Před rokem +2

    Seneca’s the goat

  • @JeffHarrison1960
    @JeffHarrison1960 Před 2 lety +2

    Focus. Having the courage to say no to the non essential, lending more time for the essential. Thank you Ryan

  • @kwekuaggrey622
    @kwekuaggrey622 Před 2 lety +22

    I was surfing the net to get the best way to preserve my hard copy books, and found Ryan. I have since been his follower. The daily stoic and the daily dad are my favourite text to read each day.

  • @bobnandez
    @bobnandez Před rokem

    Seneca. My new role model.

  • @DavidTysdal
    @DavidTysdal Před měsícem

    Been the BIGGEST challenge of my life lately. 56 years old. Always trying to NOT waste my time.

  • @kimdev11
    @kimdev11 Před rokem +21

    Summary:
    1. Seek challenges
    2. Focus on your response
    3. Choose your influences wisely
    4. Be a master of yourself
    5. Say yes to what matters
    6. Do the hard things
    7. Protect your time
    8. Make others better

  • @TheDivine111
    @TheDivine111 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m only 16 but this stuff is helping my mind so much thanks!

  • @mattbishop1093
    @mattbishop1093 Před 9 měsíci

    I wish you would host a stoic weekend retreat and seminar so we could all meet and encourage each other!

    • @itsmichaelmai
      @itsmichaelmai Před 7 měsíci

      it's not by him, but he once participated: Do you know the Stoiccon? its on Saturday in fact

  • @lorickman4035
    @lorickman4035 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you Ryan. My name is Logan I am trying to turn a lifetime of iggnorent learnings from my community around me. You have been byfar the most reliable source of information and quotes. Thank you for what you do.

  • @siphotheguy1870
    @siphotheguy1870 Před 2 lety +1

    The best way to master yourself is to debate yourself. Once you have learnt to master debating yourself you will feel a huge intellectual relief.

    • @68ctcb
      @68ctcb Před rokem

      How do you go about that?

  • @jsalt3800
    @jsalt3800 Před 2 lety +17

    Oh man, you’re so lucky to have cicadas on your farm. I’ve found their sound to be so relaxing. They were everywhere in Virginia where I grew up and don’t exist here in Germany. Thank you for your lessons! Through stoic philosophy, I think I’ve finally found a way to live my life. I was and always will be a soldier and the concept of self discipline is very near and dear to my heart. I lost my way after leaving the military but have found it again by applying stoic philosophy to my life. Every day is a gift. Time is precious and wasting it is crazy. Momento Mori has become the new way I strive to better myself each and every day.

    • @anwyn9846
      @anwyn9846 Před 2 lety +1

      We have cicada season where everyone complains about the noise. I decided to research them and meditate at the time their calls were the loudest. It really is all up to you.

    • @petrpernikovec6601
      @petrpernikovec6601 Před rokem

      They do exist in southern Moravia in Czech. Its not that far as Virginia from Germany.

  • @SefGains
    @SefGains Před rokem

    “You do get to chose whose child you want to be”💎

  • @kerryriley1418
    @kerryriley1418 Před 2 lety +14

    I can decide whose descendant I want to be. Thank you for this powerful insight.

  • @juggernaut3299
    @juggernaut3299 Před 2 lety +2

    I cannot like this talk enough. Spectacular. So much to learn from the ancients. People's desire for meaning and self improvement never change. Thank you.

  • @sridhartomalladi
    @sridhartomalladi Před 10 měsíci

    this is helping me deal with a lot, hope this reaches those who need this the most....by realising one has to confront fear head on - i ask what - all the thousands of singular questions that ask you unconsciously is not what you have to trust and land on, its the unbelievable force that can confront fear/all thats causing pain and suffering and everything else you are not comfortable with and afraid of....there is anunimaginable universe of stength and all that is...believe me...im seeing it tooo transitioning back and forth....and the doubt thats raising more questions and the faith and trust in this force ----teying to test myself with these back and forth ---- is opening gates to glimpses of existense of a huge amountnof good and healing....and the experience is unbelievable..for a mome t...and it goes away....what is it this that i am going back and forth from...

  • @haroldkemp5283
    @haroldkemp5283 Před 2 lety +23

    You’re putting into words and elucidating how I’ve been feeling, how I’ve been trying to live, and how I aspire to grow. Thank you for all of your work! It’s obvious that you are very passionate and knowledgeable about Stoicism - and I’m hooked!

  • @chasingmypinnacle
    @chasingmypinnacle Před rokem +3

    Thank you Ryan, you help make me better and give me hope as I walk this planet alone.

  • @ovi54
    @ovi54 Před 10 měsíci

    Needed this video more than anything in life right now. Thank you

  • @JohnDoe-xv5fc
    @JohnDoe-xv5fc Před 2 lety +1

    Train the mind body will follow rigorously🕉

  • @hanzlee5173
    @hanzlee5173 Před 2 lety +4

    I've read and finished three books. The obstacle is the way, Ego is the enemy and Stillness is the key. These three books dramatically changed my overview of life...The stoic mentality is such powerful! Awesome video and truly helpful

  • @rolfjacobson833
    @rolfjacobson833 Před 2 lety +1

    i am such a fan. i am becoming a stoic more everyday.

  • @amitavaroy4709
    @amitavaroy4709 Před 2 lety +5

    You are doing great service to mankind with these videos. It really helps us to live a better life.

  • @Ruprecttt
    @Ruprecttt Před 2 lety

    Absolutely love your channel, man! Keep up your amazing work and thank you.

  • @j.k.stewart5985
    @j.k.stewart5985 Před rokem

    I don't know how many NFL teams you made it to but a lot of the players need to listen

  • @OnekamaProducts
    @OnekamaProducts Před rokem +2

    I have been binge watching your videos. I am primed to execute, all i have to do is take the leap. Thank you Ryan, wish me luck on changing my life.

  • @dawnbehatin1224
    @dawnbehatin1224 Před 2 lety

    Yet ANOTHER AWESOME VIDEO!!! Thank you!

  • @g2tegsown
    @g2tegsown Před rokem +4

    Watching your videos had made me realize I follow many Stoic traits naturally. However, the enlightenment from the knowledge you are spreading is really got my mind working. Love the content, excellent work.... seriously.

  • @philipleung4258
    @philipleung4258 Před 2 lety

    I love these little nuggets. Thank you!

  • @barchetta575m
    @barchetta575m Před 2 lety +2

    This is AMAZING! Thank you for the emails and thank you for these videos.

  • @alanarobyn7472
    @alanarobyn7472 Před 2 lety +2

    The “who’s footsteps will you follow” hit home. I am an adopted person who has no family connection unfortunately. It has been a struggle to find my true identity in this life. I don’t have to know my ancestors necessarily to find footsteps to follow. I can create my own clan of sorts. Mentors and ancients that speak to me can be my way forward. Amazing! I love your work Ryan, I have recently found stoicism and your teachings. I have had many life struggles and this way of thinking has given me hope and solace, as have you.

  • @kasondaleigh
    @kasondaleigh Před rokem

    Love this channel!

  • @evy684
    @evy684 Před 2 lety

    I look forward to your videos. I watch them several times. They do absolutely help me .

  • @Azaruz90
    @Azaruz90 Před 2 lety

    Thank you like always for your videos,Ryan :).

  • @hagakuretv
    @hagakuretv Před rokem

    Dude make more Videos about Seneca, this guy was a different breed of stoic, love him for ever

  • @quenniemartinez3703
    @quenniemartinez3703 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for showing a new perspective. Kudos!

  • @btmonson
    @btmonson Před 2 lety

    Awesome video. Thanks again for making the ancient wisdom so accessable!

  • @Felipe00162
    @Felipe00162 Před 2 lety

    Ryan, thank you for all your inputs! Looking for the easy life indeed does nobody any good! I am learning to embrace hardship!!!

  • @jwilsss
    @jwilsss Před 2 lety +2

    This was a really quality video in all aspects, keep up the good work. Thank you!

  • @Jide-bq9yf
    @Jide-bq9yf Před 2 lety +3

    You’re a compelling exponent of this incredibly helpful school . All the best and please keep up the good work .

  • @JavierBonillaC
    @JavierBonillaC Před rokem +5

    Great advice Ryan. It is super-important for me precisely at this time. It’s not only what you decide to do, it’s about what you decide not to do or stop doing.

  • @harishshaddy
    @harishshaddy Před 2 lety

    I've always loved, respected Seneca! A great soul!

  • @HashiZorrilla
    @HashiZorrilla Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you brother

  • @jamessteven9709
    @jamessteven9709 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Ryan for all of this. From now on, I promise to make myself better just like what you are doing...👊👊👊

  • @sharpenrightservicesllc

    Love your channel. I'm getting so much out of it.

  • @Gemories
    @Gemories Před rokem

    The way Ryan concluded this video was very very good.

  • @nourhanebn69
    @nourhanebn69 Před 2 lety

    I love your work

  • @Breaklimitingbeliefs
    @Breaklimitingbeliefs Před rokem

    As a teenager and still in my growing stage i am very happy that i found the way of thinking like a stoic this early in my life, my body has been growing steadily each day because ive been challenging and making my body go through hard chores and all that, i am very excited on who and what i will become in the future.

  • @jomaltas2066
    @jomaltas2066 Před rokem +1

    Wonderful! My brother has been following the Stoics and it is amazing. Thank you for this work.

  • @joyce6235
    @joyce6235 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing. I am so glad I found you 😊

  • @TheEntity0
    @TheEntity0 Před 2 lety +2

    I signed up for the daily stoic email two weeks ago, and everyday it gives me something to think about. A helpful idea to carry with me thru the day. Thanks!

  • @DoctorRapper
    @DoctorRapper Před 2 lety

    great vid. Cool shots of Austin. Thanks for the wisdom

  • @YourFriendlyGApilot
    @YourFriendlyGApilot Před rokem

    Thank you.
    Definitely need more of this and less of many other things! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @GracieVillatitoyohpeep24

    You are my sage.

  • @IwanPieterse-iwanzbiz
    @IwanPieterse-iwanzbiz Před 2 lety

    Picked up meditations, the Gregory h translation on your recommendation. I’m enjoying it.

  • @amberbryan9125
    @amberbryan9125 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @merry-lynnallison3002
    @merry-lynnallison3002 Před 2 lety

    Hello Ryan, I want to thank you for your postings. I push myself everyday and focus on my charity work every single day. I have let go of the people who saw me as weak and simply used me. I am so grateful to you for giving me the inner strength to push myself. Love from Vancouver BC. Canada

  • @eduardor0605
    @eduardor0605 Před 2 lety

    Awesome!

  • @Kumar-rq9ro
    @Kumar-rq9ro Před 2 lety

    Great Video. Thanks.

  • @bentardejong
    @bentardejong Před 2 lety

    The video production just keeps getting better

  • @thulasiram5015
    @thulasiram5015 Před 2 lety

    Love you man 💖

  • @xiaoguan1143
    @xiaoguan1143 Před 2 lety

    thank you so much

  • @sc99hom
    @sc99hom Před 2 lety +3

    One thing I realised after reflecting on my years in senior high school, college, and university that I think can also be applied here is how if we want to continuously improve ourselves, we should always try to find people who are (1) better than us (i.e. mentors, teachers, elders) so that we can learn from them, (2) people who are not as good as us (i.e. juniors, younger people, less skilled than us) so that we can teach them, and (3) people who are the equal of us so that we can challenge ourselves with them.
    Also, thank you Ryan for sharing these little treasures of Stoic wisdom! They are thought-provoking and great reminders for me to continuously reflect on, and I find they are also very consistent with Chinese philosophy

  • @timmiriajay6006
    @timmiriajay6006 Před rokem

    Great content

  • @durianwalker
    @durianwalker Před 2 lety

    thank you

  • @Laura-dv7ye
    @Laura-dv7ye Před rokem

    Wow, I am going to send this to others to inspire them as well. Thank you a lot for your amazing work and video's!!

  • @darrellborland119
    @darrellborland119 Před 2 lety

    This video bears repeating often...thanks.

  • @starseed45
    @starseed45 Před rokem

    I thought I was the only one living the life of Sysiphous and feeling so victimized but clearly Seneca lived that life and is a great inspiration to me. Thank you for this video

  • @mikefelber5129
    @mikefelber5129 Před 10 měsíci

    One of my favorite quote by Seneca is “You cannot win the time lottery” One the shortness of life

  • @mahdielhajuojy1112
    @mahdielhajuojy1112 Před 2 lety

    those kind of videos i like keep doing em

  • @sameersiddiqui7139
    @sameersiddiqui7139 Před 2 lety

    Fantastic video

  • @azhaanebrahim4887
    @azhaanebrahim4887 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you always looking forward towards your episodes daily stoic self discipline it's for yourself not for others the person that master himself through self-control and discipline is truly undefeatable 1% better everyday out of the year %365 percent better by the end of the year thank you keep up the amazing work.

  • @salmontoya7065
    @salmontoya7065 Před 2 lety

    Ryan thank you

  • @tanushlokhandeallmyt4178

    ur the best author who summarizes his own books

  • @martinduggan6498
    @martinduggan6498 Před 2 lety

    Hope to learn and be better.

  • @randyeast2542
    @randyeast2542 Před rokem

    Hi Ryan: In my opinion, this is your best video ! (to strive to seek to find and not to yield) The Best ! Top Marks Ryan Bravo !!!!!!!!

  • @anupambanerjee8924
    @anupambanerjee8924 Před 2 lety

    Thank you :)

  • @iloveyellow7214
    @iloveyellow7214 Před 2 lety +1

    I think you sharing these things about seneca is making me happy I found you. Why? Because I found a Seneca because of you
    I would always be thanking the day I found you and the content you shared about Seneca
    Tha k you for making me Sane this pandemic
    Be safe and Healthy Mr. Holiday

  • @carlcandiano1517
    @carlcandiano1517 Před 2 lety

    Great video

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776

    great meditation to start the day=]

  • @meidasken3508
    @meidasken3508 Před 2 lety

    Thx !

  • @AARCANUM
    @AARCANUM Před 2 lety

    Thanks mate

  • @elijah6510
    @elijah6510 Před 2 lety

    Watch a lot of your videos and before i knew of Stoicism, I had determined a Vulcan-like life was necessary in this chaotic world…then I encountered your videos. This particularly one came at the right moment today…thank you. Appreciated.

  • @Breaklimitingbeliefs
    @Breaklimitingbeliefs Před rokem

    Ive surrounded myself with tall people so i also became taller, i surrounded myself with strong people so i also became stronger, i guess it really is true!!

  • @JohnMcCullough97
    @JohnMcCullough97 Před 2 lety

    @RyanHoliday You should seriously consider having an in-person conference. I would love to spend time with like minded people. Iron sharpens Iron. It would be amazing.

  • @FABIOh1976
    @FABIOh1976 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the timestamps. This should be standard among youtubers.

  • @DavidTysdal
    @DavidTysdal Před měsícem

    Be the master of your own kingdom. - Guy Ritchie Champions don't complain, they are too busy getting better....

  • @CTE421
    @CTE421 Před 2 lety

    Thank u buddy

  • @loub1733
    @loub1733 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Ryan I am an Aussie who has read your material and followed you for a while. Great to see you on The Drum last night talking about stoicism. Julia Baird who interviewed you has also written a great book called Phosphorescence- you have probably done your research on her . Glad to see you work is making its way to the Southern Hemisphere,

    • @RyanHolidayYT
      @RyanHolidayYT Před 2 lety

      I just had her on The Daily Stoic podcast. Check it out!

  • @Gomjabbar28
    @Gomjabbar28 Před 2 lety

    love seneca

  • @dynasticlight1073
    @dynasticlight1073 Před 2 lety +1

    Sometimes it's amazing how We look back thousands of yaers to find a path. We, are continue searhing in the Now...Humanity itself is being remimded alot now . How to think ,act ,be . A human Being... No skool is perfect.

  • @wesleygovender6579
    @wesleygovender6579 Před 10 měsíci

    Be a light onto yourself. Buddha

  • @jamescollinscares3897
    @jamescollinscares3897 Před 2 lety

    Found some of your books at chapters.unfortunatly too expensive for my meager living expenses .thank you for this channel

    • @riptideHI
      @riptideHI Před 2 lety +1

      eBay my friend. Used books have more character anyway! Ryan’s works are worth finding a hardback.

  • @michaelwilkinson5393
    @michaelwilkinson5393 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm in college and this semester has not gone well at all for me. It is likely I will have to retake one or two of my classes. It is my fault in all honesty, but also up to me to learn from my mistakes. I needed this video today, so thank you.

  • @wesleyalan9179
    @wesleyalan9179 Před 2 lety

    New sub here! Good,interesting stuff,thanks!❤🤟💪