THIS List is GOING VIRAL! "Top 10 Reasons Why Black Women Have the Lowest Marriage Rate"
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Bonus: They train their sons to be feminine and train their daughters to be masculine.
Direct result of this single mother epidemic. Which is the direct result of of all these systems and institutions designed to expel fathers from homes and marriages.
Exactly....too many of these "masculine energy" girls around. If they say that shit, daddy wasn't around
And they treat their man/husband like their kids also...the entire household is backwards. 🤦♀️😢
Mad
@@phyniseconner2011 That's a big one. 🎯🎯
1.Combative
2.Masculine
3.Snarky
4.Passive Aggressive
5.Condescending
6.Delusional
7.Overly Emotional
8.Attitudes
9.Huge Ego
10.Don’t value Marriage
And they are very controlling 👎👉
With children.
They show these traits to our young men who might be awkward, corny shy, etc, unless they're whiyte. : The black wife effect. They brag about uplifting the white men. Cheering each other on.
Same list for men
@@princychickricin9437 I guess we'll have to add deflection to the list. LOL
#11: Saying they’re the epitome of beauty while wearing other women’s hair
FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Say that again brother
There was another video a youtuber made, I can't remember her name, that explained the phenomenon of why black women may wear other women's hair and how it stems from years back.
The choice of hairstyle a woman chooses to wear shouldn't be the sole defining factor if she's worthy as a wife or not. Now it's one thing if she's wearing fake hair that looks insane, but remember, black hair (and this highly depends on the texture etc) is very fragile. I know women with full thick hair but due to them not wanting to either damage their hair, they may throw on a wig or maybe do some twists or box braids.
Even myself, I keep my hair in a nice pixie cut. I never cared to manage long hair on a daily basis, but if I have an event or vacation and want to change my look, I'll do twists or maybe extensions, depending on the look and aesthetic I'm going for.
Also too, do you know how many women have hair diseases? Struggle with cancer? Black women go through these things as well and sometimes use fake hair to conceal these issue just like any other woman who experiences those unfortunate diseases.
So my point is, stop policing black women's hair. If you don't like what black women do to their hair, that's okay, but to constantly police it is bewildering to me. And it's mainly black men who do this.
My long term bf was a Hispanic male and he did not care how I wore my hair. Hell, he even helped me take my box braids out then deep conditioned my hair for me 😅
But the same black men who say this nonsense, are the same black men that go for the white girls with the botoxed lips, injected but, and silicone stuffed in their cheeks. Absolutely wild.
@@Bbmoney244 Sister...I'm not coming for black women's hair. In my opinion, sisters have the strongest female bodies "including" hair on this earth. Trust me, I've dated quite a bit, and I can tell you that (please excuse the stereotypical names) Becky's hair, Mai Ling's hair, Maria's hair, and Kareima's hair is thin and brittle compared to the beautiful strands of our black sisters. Secondly, women of all ethnicities suffer from hair disease/loss. Lastly, all I'm saying is that I wish our beautiful sisters embraced their beauty by-way of their natural hair. Your entire body (not just your curves, but including your hair) is the epitome of beauty around the world. So EMBRACE it! Long, short, curly, straight, full, receding/alopecia....it don't matter. Embrace it.
Will we ever see a return of the 70s afro? I miss that look.
@Bbmoney244 Cool story! Now explain the excessive make-up, raptor claws and BBLs?
Black women are loyal to femininism, alphabet group and super loyal to chaotic behaviors😩
Not even alphabet group because you know the number 1 go to when they want to insult a man and thats his sexuality. They say it like its a negative. They are the most phobic of any group because they are the only ones that shame men for not wanting them.
💯
All of that is operated under the William Lynch
Feminists towards us but submissive to Brad and all his institutions. It’s called racial hypergamy
And the Govt
Financially irresponsible
Extremely irresponsible In all facets of life. I was dating a chick who is in her 30s, college educated and lives with her mom. She makes really good money and even wanted to take me shopping. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her spending that much money on me. We got into it about money before. Come to find out she is 95K in student loan debt and been out of college for over I'd say 10 years. This chick could have probably had her loans and stuff paid off in 3-4 years, if not sooner. She did other stuff that just made no sense.
I mean there are other ethnic groups of people with higher student loan debt tbh. That's not the worse I've seen. I know people, non black, who have 150 k worth of debt just for going to a ivy league school. Now, unless that female had debt up the wall with credit cards etc outside of that loan, then I understand. But again, 95 k is relatively low to what some people spend for college loans.
True, but, to gamings point, the loans should have been paid. If paid, it’s way less stress when you get married. I know bc I paid off all my college loans way before I met my wife.
@@user-zq8to3zr5y Yup, but I told her the student loans werent the problem, because if we were married and she decided to go to school she would of had the same debt. It's the fact that she had all that time to pay them and didn't. That shows me immaturity and financial immaturity. That's the problem. There was a pattern I was seeing of bad financial decisions.
@@Bbmoney244 I said nothing about student loans but as someone who works in finance, I will go into more detail. First, how many BW invested in an ivy league education? Most BW have a huge amount of student loan debt from a bottom tier college and a worthless degree. A person who attends an ivy league spends over 320,000 but is sought after by most major companies. 150K in student debt can be paid back easily when they are making six figures straight out of college. The statistics show that BW overspend and have the least net worth. BW also pay more on mortgages and car loans.
Number 11, to many single moms
Isn’t that related to number 4?
That should be number 1. There’s been plenty of women I would’ve taken seriously if they didn’t have someone else’s kid(s). But maybe they were only acting right because they have kids.
That’s a big deal.
Number 12....Can't cook or clean
Real talk
🎶🎵🎼You let em hit it raw. You didn't have 2nd thoughts 🎶🎵🎼Now you a single mom🎵🎶🎼
№11: They're thug chasers.
They are too hyper focused on what is cool or lame...newsflash!!! Cool points don't pay the bills!!! I wish government assistance was fully cut. Then they would learn or starve
Pookie-&-Ray-Ray-R-US
WM chaser.
This is definitely the one 😂😅🤣
@@WesterGuard🤣😅😂
1. Judgemental
2. Confrontational
3. Lack of self discipline
4. Financially inept
5. Morally compromised
6. Unhealthy
7. Unattractive habits
8. Projecting
9. Irrational
10. Non-compromising
LoL many are morally bankrupt with some being in the negatives. Certainly not wifey material
But according to red pill, men don't care about a woman's money. So what does it matter if she's in debt since men "don't care about a woman's money"
And again, I'm not knocking, but don't make it seem like all black women are financially irresponsible when you have white people too with spending addictions and go bankrupt as well. A hood rat bw may be broke due to trying to be hood rich and flex, but you have responsible suburban black women out there who do fine with money. You think the white girls getting bbls, botox, carrying bags are always good financially? Some of them are probably living loan to loan. I can agree with the other reasons listed in this video, but the financial one was wild.
Another issue with them is if they happen to be educated then they like to tell anyone who will listen that they have degrees and they like to look down on people who they deem lesser. Only BW do shit like that
Not to mention detest listening to others.
You forgot Jealous of Women of other races.
Very Jealous
Women: I rather be with a bear
Bear: Grizzle Grizzle
Well, bears probably have bigger dongs than men.....😂
This funny
At was clever😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They always leave out the part that holds them accountable.
he said "if the black man and black woman can't get along, the black community can't get along."
Correct.
With that in mind: I was looking up something else and happened to be on the SSA website and glanced pay of BM vs BW broken down by age. Now, I remember how all of this messaging came out about how they make more than us now but the numbers are not even close. So why would they start spreading this garbage? See the way they gloat and become more insufferable? To your point: Checkmate C I A
Me and the other guys studying Cyber Security are called not hood enough constantly by the BW on a college campus! All of us have 6 figure entry level jobs (something we don't disclose that to them it's none of their business) they just get turned off when we tell them our field. I give up 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Yet they get mad when you date/marry Non BW. Make it make sense …
They are a disgrace !
They'll be hitting you up in 10yrs trying to get you to clean up her bad life decisions. 4 kids with 7 potential fathers, then when you don't want to date a single mother she'll call you sassy.
Get a white girl bro! They get it
That's their loss bro if anything your better off!
Disdain and lack of respect for BM.
Good bm specifically
Working black men
It's all black men they have a disdain and a disrespect towards. And everything that has black male essence on it they hate us they literally hate us our own women and they use every excuse in the book to lump everybody together instead of breaking things down.
I don't have a disdain toward black men at all, but I don't like when they (some) put black women down and don't uplift the positive ones that do exist.
@@Bbmoney244 those that put black women down are the ones who are identifying the fact of the reality that we live in. Many black women have drank the Kool-Aid and are sitting here sucking at the bosom of feminism claiming that black men and in their agenda all black men deserve to die or don't deserve to live or shouldn't have been never born I'm guessing that includes their children their fathers their brothers and all their ancestral males. And ask for those brothers who do promote positive women many of us do. It's just that it's not promoted in public media or social media because that would be a complete opposite run of the agenda which is being pushed and designed to promote separations of black men in black women. Speaking for myself I have a disdain for black women who have the audacity in the American girl to tell us black men that we are worthless when in fact we are not in fact without us there would be no them. What I really dislike myself personally speaking is the fact that it's not the woman it's the acts of the woman the character of the black woman. the ideals of maybe black woman is such a negative dimension of mind,body and spirit. No other race that we have witnessed on this planet has demonstrated such hate in vitriol for its own.
Loud, large, and loose. Who wants that?
Lol the new 3LW Loud, Large, Loose Women 😂😂😂
Guys, boys or men who can not afford woman who not from the hood or ghetto upbringing.
🥲😂🤣
@@slimm7848 yiiiikes 😮..🤣
Yeah not me
BM not asking BW to marry should be the definitive concern for BW not BM - this explains that BW are failing to attract BM
Not failing to attract blk men - simply failing to RETAIN OUR ATTENTION POST 🌰...
these hyenas don't understand that. they will in time.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Yep once they hit the wall.😂🧱
@@acethefloridianforever The🧱is the Undefeated Champ!
They are failing to attract any man
Zesty Pookies.... they keep choosing Pookies, though. Then, get mad at the "square" dudes they used to curb, go off and marry non-black women.
Yet, and praise. "The black wife effect."
Bro like I say, real men don’t care about what women want … remember this ! Real men shouldn’t care trust me it will always work in your favor!
Because the square dudes are the back up plan, how dare you not take pookies sloppy seconds🥴
@@TChalla007 I saw videos on this and its all a lie that the "sisterhood" created. A good wife can be found in any culture, ethnicity or culture. Black women keep posting how much they contribute to a marriage when many tear their marriage apart. There really is no such thing as the black wife effect but they want to believe their delusion.
SIGN language is the only thing they know.
And I have a flight to Thailand to catch later on tonight. I refuse to deal with this unnecessary stress.
Edit: I'm in Doha, Qutar now waiting for my flight to Bangkok.
FLY FOREST FLY🛫✈🌍🛬
P.S. DO NOT EXCEPT A JENNY BABY AT ALL.
Welcome to Paradise my friend
If the Black Men and Women don't bring Father God Almighty back into the Black family and home then forget about fixing anything in the Black Community.
Just checked the weather report. Cloudy skies with drizzle drizzle lol.
With a strong chance of Drizzle Drizzle
Cloudy with a chance of grizzle grizzle 🧸 🧸
I came to say, if they lost with me and a bear in the woods, it’s gonna be Grizzle Grizzle son 🤣😂🤣 👫🏾+🌲🐻🌲=🧍🏾♀️(🏃🏾➡️)🩸🐻🩸
@@AnnoyedBluebonnetFlowers-mp7goThey STILL out here talking about taking that chance🤣😂 I keep saying, we are only months away from footage.
Let these modern black women make their crazy list and they'll be 60 and single taking applications just like Viviaca ate A Fox 😅
You mean Goro from Mortal Kombat ? 😅 Corey Holmes is 1 funny ninja 😅😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@@nashambenyisrael7689I saw that and damn near choked 😂😂😂
@@cjjohnson3827 I was dying laughing myself, I still chuckle a little when thinking about it. 🤭
V A Fox had her time it's over for her
Black men are not marrying because they are tired of many of the black modern women. It's like a vendor who's product is not on demand calling customers broke because they don't have his product. That's basically what that lady said, when you control demand, you control the number. Basic economics, as demand drops, there will be less buyers.
The list is 100% accurate and true. To the last guy: Nope. You will *never* have 100% marriage rates in the black community. It's no longer possible for the men and women to get along. As for marriage itself: The rules and laws have to be re-written for men to ever step back into it. Even then, the women here arent worth it anymore.
You dont have a 100% marriage rate among any group in America!! This country has the highest divorce rate among all Western countries.
A guy I worked with from Nigeria told me he dated a black American woman and after 3 days he said he’d rather jump off the bay bridge and drown and get eaten by sharks than to be with her. When they broke up, he ran around the track and did back flips lol
Sir I’ve never been married no kids . Have my own, car, apartment, money, and love God.
I make 67k a year but I’m still not what most sisters are looking for, and for the ones that do want me. I don’t want them
Dont be in a rush to have some chick destroy your life, just enjoy life right now please.
stay strong and debt free brother.
Yeah when I was younger I was living on my own all my boys was still living at home with their parents I had all the things women say they want I had a good salary, my own place and I’m not ugly I’ve never been called ugly by women and I’ve pulled 10s before so I know my looks ain’t the issue yet even though I use to be thuggo I changed my ways and became a man of God but I realized with doing so no woman is interested because I guess I give off good guy vibes now lol… idk it’s just weird… yet I feel what you mean @myrongatlin7608 and that’s a good salary and women ain’t interested if you ain’t a pookie or a scammer or a drug dealer that’s what women are attracted to and they admit it. They don’t want a man that has a good job, is not crazy and are good men because women are addicted to drama … look at the shows they watch? If you’re not constantly fighting with them they think you don’t love them women’s mindset have been twisted and it’s on purpose but women are so fking dumb they don’t realized they fell into the trap…
Activate your passport. Just don't bring her back.
If you get married, you will lose all of that
Rome: if a female biologist is going to give you this information are you going to be upset about it?
Women: Yes, because she's a Pick-Me!
exactly
She’s a pick me but they all want to be picked by man by saying they don’t want a man
This list gonna be LOOOOONG!!?! 37TH🫡📘🛫💯🏃🏿♂️🤔
Men marry women. Women accept or reject the offer of marriage.Low marriage numbers mean men ain't asking!🤔😳
But they dont have many options of to reject or accept.
Men not asking because she's gonna cheat, be influenced by friends and family to leave. She tells her household business. Why would a man marry them. They have high body counts which effects her able to pair bond. Too much trauma emotional baggage m negative , disruptive,combative, argumentive n just plain nasty. I can vouch for this I was married to a woman for 14 years and we had five kids. She divorced me like she was a damn saint .
Low marriage numbers mean BW are the first to wake up from the delusion of a patriarchal system. It is the white man’s system and of course the BM is trying to mimic the WM. Do better. Hopefully black men will wake up soon because I’ll never go white but the state of BM is scary. Stay up ✨
70% of divorces are intiated by the woman, not the man!
Funny how that works, isn't it? It's like they think, the market doesn't want your product so the market is broken/messed up.
Funny how they try to call us "zesty" or "sassy" for simply telling the truth about them... i pray this list keeps growing
Right like white women don't let out an eye roll or suck their teeth here and there.
Here’s my take:
1. Non synergistic
2. Promiscuous
3. Competitive in relationships
4. Independent in relationships but not interdependent
5. Unwillingness to actually love and appreciate a man (oft the case)
6. Lack of temperance
7. Too egotistical and unreflective
8. Demanding and oft entitled
9. Oft irate
10. Not willing to show any sort of selflessness or love
Especially the last one.
1st bw (3yrs-divorce) 2nd bw (3yrs-divorce) 3rd wife Asian, 30 wonderful yrs and counting
Damn
1st wife a sister.
I stayed in hell for a decade just so I didn't lose my kids.
2nd relationship Irish girl.
Met her when she was 24
Almost 15 years
Wow,that's crazy bro
Funny how they get enlightened after the wall
No one is forcing this on BW though, they happily adopt the mindset
My reason for not marrying a black woman..they thought I was too corny or lame for them all the way back to the 7th grade to today.
11. They think been a quality successful discipline man with self respect-is LAME BORING, WEIRD and DUSTY.
What?? That is so absurd👎🤨
Because alotbof them crave drama and chaos. If there not getting it they feel bored. Women are emotional creatures that's why they like soap operas. If a stable guy comes along and he's treating her well and always there for her and very stable they think that's boring and predictable. Have you ever been with a woman and everything is calm and stable? Watch what happens next. They'll create it out of thin air for no reason. They thrive in their emotions makes them feel most alive. They need to feel slighted and complain online or to friends about something. When there's no drama or chaos they have nothing to relate to toxic friends or online communities. Also people when they feel they know the ending to a movie or book before they watch it, then there unlikely to read or watch it. No intrigue, no mystery. Also with those women alot of them grew up in dysfunction and toxicity with there parent and family dynamics so when a stable guy comes along it's something new to them they don't know how to react or interact healthy wise because it's naturally uncomfortable to them. Some are selfish as well and feel the added pressure to have to treat the good stable man as well as he is treating her and they don't wanna have to put the same effort and energy in to maintain the relationship. Some also are so untrusting of good men they think and are waiting for him to slip up because they are used to it or expecting it so in the end they sabotage the relationship or sabotage themselves. Most stable good men are seen not as exciting and mysterious as the bad boy/felon. Men have to be there entertainment directors throughout the whole relationship or they'll one day drop you no matter how well you treated them because they think grass is greener.
The most obvious one; can't crack a f*cking smile to save they're life.
Women should never prioritize career over marriage.
During my time in the army we had four black guys in our troop. Each of them was married to a white woman. When we asked why? that's easy to answer, they said. Most black women are too masculine bring to much baggage and stress with them, plus the majority of them have been run through.
That list is terrifyingly accurate
Im a caribbean male of 33, in new york city i only met FIVE chill black women i would date in my life.
the rest are.....*MEAN*, they act as if their shizz dont stink, they act hyper masculine. Im 6'2' and quiet and most are more masculine than me, and loud? Lord they loud!
Its very replusive. And ive never had a black girlfriend.
Keep your streak alive. You're not missing much. Finding a woman in your age range (down, not up) who is childless and without deep seated emotional trauma/baggage is like buying a billion dollar winning Powerball/MegaMillions ticket. Those odds are better too. The decline (in NYC at least, I'm from Bed-Stuy/East New York) began in the early 90s and has only accelerated........downwards. Social media gave the decline a diamond tipped drill so now the quality is underground, approaching the center of the earth.
Bother I'm 56,use them as side chicks or other words jumpoffs.
Number 12 Letting double digit pookies hit it raw. And now you're a single mom.
I was in Tokyo last year and watched a black women trying to talk to a Japanese man and she scared him off at first then he started talking to her and his response had me 😂😂😂 he said oh I thought you wanted seg she said why do you think that he said I seen a lot of black women from the us on the internet and I m not trying to get robbed or finessed for my salary
But may I ask you why that is funny?
I think there is a bigger issue here. The negative qualities are highlighted more than the positive ones many Black women do posses. Now, I understand why that Japanese man thought the way he did due to the meg the stallions, sexxy red, dojacats, and sukihana running this earth, but not every Black woman is like that and I think it's so sad how people fail to see that.
Even though the percentage is low, there are still Black women getting married, and sadly, those kinds of black women are not being uplifted in the media especially and people continue to think we ALL are these hypersexual baby mama's.
@@Bbmoney244 it was funny at the time because I’m looking at it from the outside looking in. I understand there are a few good black women out here that can be in relationships however that isn’t norm and typically those black woman would rather not get involved and help there sisters change there image to look better to others. They simply don’t care. If black woman want to look better it’s up to them to change how they look on a grand scale
@@TheprophetDJright. But also from a media perspective, the image of black women is also in the hands of both black and white males. Yes, bw need to stop signing these contracts to portray themselves so negatively, but you have white executives, some black too, that also have to stop pushing and approving the narrative of the ratchet black woman.
@@Bbmoney244 Also, the core fanbase of the women you mention (though you left out the self-admitted finesser, Cardi B) are women. Particularly black women. So, if those women are who you (general 'you') want to represent you, what do you think people are going to believe? It doesn't help when international media sees how out of pocket (some) black American and UK women can be, like fighting with the staff at a nail salon in Bali and running away because they didn't like the price. (The same price they agreed to before work even began) Or arguing with a man (yelling, screaming, and cursing allegedly) in a Middle Eastern country where such a thing is *_literally against the law._*
In college, the lady was on point a bunch of the bw I went to college with ended up becoming single mothers, turning down those good men who eventually making good fathers and husbands to good women who saw the potential. Now all they do is complain about how bad men are
Every black man who puts a woman on a pedestal is called soft or a weak man by the very same black woman who lie when they say they want those types of dudes. Look at Will Smith. He put his wife on a pedestal and not only has she cheated on him more than once, she also destroyed his public image. That's what happens to a Black man when he puts a black woman ahead of himself. She will not respect or appreciate him for it 💯💯💯
Facts bro big facts I will never put a woman above me. I'm number one I been call al types of names oh well.
Facts
Put a woman on a pedestal and she’ll be out of your reach.
100% correct!!
@@lind3237 Or the corollaries: Treat a woman like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan. Treat a woman like a queen and she'll treat you like a peasant. Put a woman on a pedestal and she'll spend every day looking down at (and talking down to) you.
So let me get this straight you expect us to marry bad behavior just because we're the same race
Yeah no fk that… we can reproduce more black people. Women can’t reproduce more black people… the seed is in the man women are the soil and you can plant any seed and any soil and the seed of that tree will never change. So get with whatever you like, I would avoid yt women though out of all the women in the world because yeah they are our natural enemies and they are subconsciously racist it can’t change but yeah do you brother and make yourself happy. I would love a black wife myself but these Keisha’s got real problems 🤷🏽♂️
Bad behavior, poor morals, NO loyalty, and nothing but endless conflict. Yep, that's about right.
@@Remianen F**k that
But will they ever take accountability average man???? Will they ever???
No they will not....sysbm.
Some might a few unique individuals, but the overwhelming majority will not unfortunately. Decades of brainwashing and programming has been too damn effective.
@Kite166, why do ask a question when you already know the answer.
Their ego won’t allow them to do it, even if they were burning in fire 🔥 they still won’t do it‼️‼️
They were already told that they are better than you. Wouldn’t expect much out of most of them.
Very accurate list
That list is 1000% accurate
broke but will go deep into debt just to present as rich with name brands
11. More bodies than a graveyard
They are disliked for many reasons and we ain't taking their crap anymore.
BM is having difficulty finding wives within the BW community.
Luckily, I found mine.
Why you here though 🤔
@@nashambenyisrael7689 Who say's he's looking for a wife on here??
@@nashambenyisrael7689cause he can
@@nashambenyisrael7689 to brag
@@nashambenyisrael7689
COINTELPRO…..😂
Only 6% of black man make $100,000 yrly. Unfortunately, a lot of black woman are looking for big earners to take care of them, which is not realistic. I make over a $100,000, live modestly and it still is not enough.
Alot of people don't understand that 100k in a city like Chicago or Dallas really isn't alot. After taxes and retirement and health insurance you really left with ~65k
And that’s part of the problem. Most modern black women don’t want to build with a man. They wanna wait at the finish line then when those top-tier men make it past the finish line, they want those men to marry them, but those men now have so many options due to modern women’s dating strategies that those men don’t have to settle for them… they can pick a younger woman that’s going to get on his program that they’re looking for, a woman that’s for them and not for their money. It’s more wise for women to build with those men so they can cross the finish line together and continue to build that we don’t have generational wealth because our women don’t wanna build. If you don’t wanna build with that man when he’s building, that’s fine. Don’t get mad because he made it without you that you have no say in what he does with his money, time and attention because you weren’t there when he was building it. That’s what a lot of ladies fail to realize: why should YOU personally benefit when you had NOTHING to do with building?
Really depends on where you choose to live. I live fairly modestly (budding minimalist) and live on 35% of my net income, in the second largest city in PA. I'm guessing you have a family/children? As a single man, living on less is relatively easy because all of my money is mine.
Brother their loos,wonder why they are alone and desperate now.Enjoy life my guy
I’m attracted to fit black women but I can’t deal with that attitude
No sir,the woman are leaving the marriages
Any black man that make any covenant with modern day bw is a fool because she will stand with you when time get hard
100% correct!
I agree with the list but it's so many more reasons like don't love themselves and materialistic
GAH DAMN THEY WROTE A DAMN GROCERY LIST
sounds like a solid scouting report
*There's almost half a million more married Black Men than Black Women.*
True
This list is completely valid and mostly true! It’s unfortunate that it’s this bad
I agree with this list and like to add one more... unwillingness to take accountability and fix issues, but gaslight and project onto men who had their back.
Shoutout to Medium Man and BGS for debunking the lie that BW/WM have the most successful marriages.
Stats now show that BW are the most divorced. BM IR marriage rates have recently increased from 15% to 21%, and we have lower divorce rate in general than BW. So how are black women more successful with wm, whej wm barely marry them amd black women are more divorced than any other demographic?
What I have come to find out is this 304s are dumb.
Super-dumb
Spot On, Rome!
That list applies to African Americans women only. All of the above. My boss Bee wife destroyed my family. Trying to turn my kids against me. She loves to have arguments in front of the kids.
She's miserable and got issues
Some are unique to BW. But, the majority of these undesirable traits cross racial lines and apply, in whole, to MW.
Marriage rate for bw is 26% and bm at 46%. And contrary to popular belief, bm aren't having kids left and right. Last year alone bw birthed 1M more babies than bm fathered.
And they still got rid of 260k through PP smh
Apparently they're mostly mixed kids.
Yes, it is a lie that BW are repeating to manipulate BM.
They keep having ghetto twins and triplets. Same guy getting multiple women pregnant
@-.-_-. Yep with a white dude and counting
Black women dont realize black men observe black women in their families too its not always about who we date. Its about aunts and moms and grandmas and cousins. Over generations. They are more similar than they want to admit to. They just think that they are some exception or that their situation is different when its not hence why they get the same results as the rest.
Yep, the disrespect and unloyalty came way before we got involved with any woman romantically
Great opening! I'm almost 50 and never imagined the black community in a state of chaos! We are in a new era! Fellas be wise about who you choose!
They chase the players who won't marry them and aren't loyal to husbands if they marry a good man.
Yup, and they say confidence is the answer to all this lol what a joke.
my brother in law became an electrician, started a business and has employees now. 0% ego we played golf together, smoked weed, no ego. he bought his own house. humble and successful.
I have heard young and middle aged women continuously say every where they are, “there are no good black men out there”. I am now over 60 and I still hear black women saying it.
90% are Pookies leftovers
Pokie lol the 304 themselves at young ages without pokies
No Lies Detected!
Mannnnn as a man who married a black woman and can’t wait to get free. This lis is gold. And the top 5 are like wow. Not all of them. But 4 out of the 5…… nailed it
Top ten list of pure facts.
I agree with them all.
I want add no self control of their sexuality which resulted with many children without discipline and more than one fathers.
There’s the lack of humility and empathy as well.
keep up the good work
"THIS" LIST Should be "POSTED" in every court room for judges to comply, with many Other agencies that cater to BLACK WOMEN, while stepp'n on BLACK MEN !!!
Malcolm X also said: "You never can fully trust any woman,’ he said. ‘I’ve got the only one [his wife] I ever met whom I would trust seventy-five percent. I’ve told her that,’ he said. ‘I’ve told her like I tell you I’ve seen too many men destroyed by their wives, or their women.”... They never mention this tho 😂 I read the Autobiography of Malcolm X in High School and never forgot this quote
I love "Just landed in Paris!" Sista tore that thing up. Appreciate the content 'Rome. Another banger!
Right on point
Most Black women say what mine is mine and what's yours is mine. Simps like Steve Harvey and Les Brown believe that even if a woman is a millionaire she should be able to keep her money and the man should still stand on his own and not benefit from her money at all. If I work my butt off and she doesn't contribute to build our family but she wants to hoard her money and if she divorces me she takes half my company, takes the house, probably get alimony, child support and half my retirement account then this is a bad deal period.
Absolutely. There is no upside for you. You don't have to marry her (and expose your assets) to procreate with her. They've already proven that they don't want/need to marry before they carry. Marriage in the US especially is flat out the worst financial decision a man can make, no matter what his income level is.
No lies detected 💯👍
PREACH!!!!
This is sooooo true
My dad lived with his girlfriend in a beautiful three bedroom three-story house for over 30 until the day she passed from cancer. And thankfully he did not marry her because he would have been responsible for all of her outstanding medical bills. But because they weren't married when she passed all of her bills passed with her. And those bills were so outstanding my dad would have lost his house in the process of trying to pay her bills. A true commitment is when two people decide to be together without being forced by the state. And most women, yes most women. Over 70% of women do not stay in relationships past 5 years. So why bother getting married if you're only going to be together for half a decade. But when you're not forced to be together that's a true testament to how much you really love being with each other. Think about it
How does that apply to black women?
Not sure what # it would be but one that should rank is even if you find a good single childless BW, the chances are 99% that good woman is surrounded by the women on the rest of the list.
Basically even if she’s a decent woman, it’s the company they keep.
You forgot to mention number 12 , yep, LYNDON B. JOHNSON .He offered $1,500 for black women NOT to have a man in the house. Ice cream 🍦 anyone.
12. Hates all BM,13. Rather be Brad's 304 than a BM's wife (example BW loved the show Scandal) Now imagine if the show was in reverse, they would want the show canceled.
This the one right here. 💯
And it will also stings them to the core too 😂
Bw cheat the most.
Facts
I agree with this list!
On point. It’s so sad but true
💡 divorce is a source of income for women, black women specifically.
Just getting married isn't the fix. Not when gender based laws, marriage laws, and family courts are the way they are. Even the employment situation is a barrier to this. So long as gender based employment initiatives are in place, marriages aren't going to happen or are going to end. Women in general do not respect and do not marry/stay married to men who do not significantly exceed them in earnings. The effect of putting women ahead of men in hiring has been a huge sabotage job to marriage rates. All that leads to is ruining the men who get married in good faith.
Most people slept on the "double minority/affirmative action" scheme to devalue BM in the economic realm.
Spot on
Women in their 30’s look good but they’re stuck in their ways. They stay stuck in that masculine energy and independent mindset. They don’t take marriage seriously and they want you to join their team.
And to all of that, I say: Hell no 😂
It’s more to the list but it’s definitely true.
Holding out to see if they can get themselves a WM.