Reasons Why You're Single
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- čas přidán 23. 10. 2023
- Are you single and ready to minggg... er i mean laugh about it? Here are some reasons you might be playing hard to get w/o even knowing.
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Very good storytelling and explaining skills
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Free? The meter is still running sir. U don’t wanna know what the tab is currently at
@@swoozietell am byoy! ....
But honestly I ain't paying either
Me too
Rather than directly giving us advice, swoozie tried to understand the lonely feeling that singles face and then tried to help us. Swoozie is truly underrated nowadays
I'm single. Why? Life is expensive. My work is already making me lose my mind. Barely have any free time. So it will have to stay this way.
Swoozie went from giving reasons why we're single to telling us a story about his life LOL
Vars 😦
Another reason why were single is probably because we play league
@@CrackShot-3Gaslighting trash take(although it does definitely apply to most people like you who are NPCs).
Waah
@@CrackShot-3 guys i hate to overuse this joke but we have found another person who doesn't understand what a joke is.
Single days were fun -- full of exploring and trying new things. But my current relationship/marriage days have similar experiences and then more. I've previously dated extremely controlling and rigid people, but my husband is the best friend and perfect partner for me. He's sweet, attentive, emotionally intelligent, comforting, and the most fun I've EVER had. So to conclude... being single is fun and exciting, but finding the very specific right person to be with is the best part of a relationship.
Also congrats on just....everything awesome happening to you Swoozie!! I've followed your videos for years and it's so cool seeing you find all these opportunities and recognition!
Just curious, did you have hookups in the past or sex with other people other than your husband, how does he feel about it
What do y’all enjoy most about being single and being in a relationship. Top thing for both…go!
Single: freedom!
Relationship: knowing someone has ur back HARD (cuddling in a v close second)
Im single because my parents wont let me date till university@@swoozie ,
Single: Freedom, time, knowing nobody is close enough to backstab me.
I can go where ever I want. I don't have to set up a schedule with my partner.
@@swoozieLoved watching your documentary! I bet if you applied again to animation school, they would take you in a heart beat.
Reason why I'm single: I freakin' love it. I have books, a sweet dog, nuff said. I'm basically a hermit and proud of it thank y'all very much!
Stop lying I know your not happy being single(I’m projecting)
@@Hairlike😂
@@Hairlikemaybe he is asexual and likes to be alone you don't know their story so stop being rude
@@gigabow.wow123fr. (Though calm down. Its a joke) but yeah...im the same. People just be doing to much and too many things can go wrong.
@gigabow.wow123 you obviously have no sense of humor if you couldn't tell if they're joking
I’m single because I don’t leave my house🫣
Saaaaaaaame
Truth! It saves a lot of money unless u use Uber eats or order online like I do 😅
bro same
It's safe! Like an index stock. You won't fly to the moon, but you won't lose all your money either!
No place like Home lol
I love the way of thinking that emphasizes self-improvement, it makes happiness feel like it is in OUR control, not contingent on other people... love yourself foo
I have been single for a long time. I have my good days in being single, but I also have my bad days. That statement swoozie said about getting happy being single first before seeking a relationship means I lot to me. The last three years have been very rough for me, but I am slowly turning things around. I just have to faith that there is someone out there for me, I just haven't found her yet. Thanks for this video Swoozie, it means I lot to someone like me.
Adande, you're humors on point lol. I love seeing all your videos and stories.
Being single is legit so underrated, I enjoty doing stuff without the worry of another person
The end hit different for me. I should never have been with someone so controlling with a "my way or the highway" mindset. Compromise is such an important yet ignored thing in relationships sometimes, among other things like listening to and respecting your partner. It was an eye-opening experience for me, and it showed me how a relationship should never be. I'm happy to be single and free!!! I'm currently grinding in my first semester of law school. Thank you Swoozie for the banger video as always 👏🏻💯🧡
These are the type a comments I love. AND you took me on a life story too. Thanks for hanging in the premiere stream also Ocean! I hold no ill will toward any of my ex's either. I'm still on good terms with all of them because at the end of the day everything that happens to us is a lesson and we can let even failed relationships lead us to growth with the right attitude!
@@swoozie great perspective
@@swoozie Woah thank you so much for replying!!! Yes, I completely agree with you that everything happens for a reason. Thank you for your encouraging words!! Your hilarious videos, love of Disney (I really love Disney), and relatability have resonated with me so
much over the years!! I love your work ethic and style, please keep it going ☺️🧡
I left my ex when she pretended to apologize for her actions, only to do them again in less than three days. You made the right choice leaving.
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reasons why i’m single nobody i want want me 😅
Can I join this club?
Me to
@@HeroDM77 lol all is welcome
It’s probably because you can’t formulate a sentence.
New member here 🙋♀️ 😄
Thanks for the video, Swoozie, the validation I’m feeling right now has made me feel so happy.
I’m single, and I am happy to be single, to a point. But I do have times where I just wish I had someone I could cuddle up with at night.
Even worse, my family loves to bring up the fact that I’m still single, that there’s clearly something I’m doing wrong to still be single in my 20s, but as much as I do want to find someone, I need to be ready for it. And even if I feel ready for it, it’s a whole new playing field for me, and I need to find someone I feel is right for me. And I’m willing to wait for that.
Tips from a happily married woman:
You really shouldn't be dating if you aren't in a stable and healthy place yourself. If you have a serious mental health disorder that's currently unchecked, a financial situation that's on the rocks, etc, now is not the time. Don't stress yourself and your potential partner by trying to jump into a relationship you aren't ready for.
Waiting for the right person is absolutely worth it. In the meantime, make friends instead. Who knows, maybe one of those friends will end up being a good fit for you romantically down the line. Having shared interests is always a good start for both kinds of relationships, after all. And the best kind of romances are the ones where you already care about each other and know a little about each other. You get to skip the awkward first few dates like you've used a cheat code.
For the nighttime cuddles, get yourself one of those super big plushies. They're good to have as something to squeeze or as something to put up against your back while you sleep. It almost feels the same as having another person. And I don't care what gender you are, I'm sure you can still find one you like. So long as you take decently good care of it, it can last a lifetime and then some. Secondary plan- a warm and fuzzy pet like a dog or a cat that will sleep on the bed with you also helps. Camaraderie without the risk and stress of another human being involved. Generally more expensive than the plushie in the long run, but cheaper than dating.
Best of luck!
You foreal are such a good dude wit a great way of communicating with others. Over the years i learned a lot from the videos and advice you put out there. Great vid bro
I'm so happy I came across this video. I really needed some validation. Both of my siblings are in relationships and plan to bring their partners to family holiday events. I couldn't help but feel left out. But, when I really thought about it, I was like, "Who am I fooling? Being in a relationship requires effort I am not ready to give."
Maybe a hook-up over the holidays can be managed.
This is too real. Also, when you are leveling up in your career you just don't have time for another person and that's OK too 🤷♀️
very true@@msmariapaula23
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I haven't had a significant other long enough to realize that I am far too selfish with my time to realistically devote a large amount of it to someone else. Its not that I don't want to find "the one" but I like everything about being single, and it would take something absolutely special for me to be willing to sacrifice my time.
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Yeah true
Ha same! Like my life style is self center or not willing to commit time to others. Like I know I am selfish but it doesn't means I always put myself first over others. As you said well type, if I ever met someone that I truly in loved with then I will commit some times towards her!
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YOU DESERVE THE RECOGNITION, SWOOZIE!! been watching you since 2010 and you've grown tremendously!
Congratulations omggggggg !!! You deserve it so badddd been good watching u for years and i really been such a huge fan from the beginning!🎉
"Everybody is madely in love when you're not in love" is something I never knew I needed to hear 💔
The reason I’m single is literally me. I am genuinely “too me” for my own good
This
Man thats just sad...
Feels like me
Someone’ll love you for that lol
@hishamrashid5293 there is nothing wrong with that,its sad you're projecting
being single is honestly so nice. I've always been an extremely independent person (my parents told me when I was a baby I would run away repeatedly and not look back lol) so giving up that extreme independence would mean the other person would have to be REALLY special. haven't met anyone I felt that strongly about yet, might never happen, and that's ok I'll be chilling with the other single grannies in the retirement home one day drinking our .05 oz cosmos getting lit the fuck up
Could it be that it also sounds like an avoidant attachment?
You deserve many blessings. Always entertaining and yet still gives valuable lessons about life
I'm single because I need to learn to love myself. The four guys I've dated in the past took advantage of me. I've been told that I'm too nice.
Right now, I enjoy being single and I wish the people around me would understand that.
@CrackShot-3 I would agree with that 100%, but for me, only one of the four guys wanted to settle...and he's abusive.
If I met a really cool guy who wanted to settle down, I would give that relationship a shot.
An awful reason hey, for someone to break up with u😢. I've had the same. But if y'all got along in so many ways you'd think they'd stand by you forever 🤷
You can be nice in general and still learn how and when you should stand up for yourself. Absolutely get yourself figured out before you go trying for romance again. It's rough for both you and your potential lover if you try to date when you're not happy with who you are. That said, some people are just awful for no good reason. Best of luck to you in finding someone who treats you with the respect and love you deserve.
@@animeartist888 You're definitely right about that. Thank you.
Hard to find a partner who doesn’t want kids too. I feel truly sorry for those out in the dating world having to find a partner without kids. It’s a mess out there.
I agree feels like a real mess to have kids in this day and age.
It used to be better to have kids too.
It’s nothing but single moms bro. It’s brutal
Bro same, dating feels like a 7D minefield chess. The past three years have been horrible. Can’t think of a good reason as to why.
Almost everyone I know doesn't want kids lol
It's funny because everyone I talk to doesn't want children
Congratulations! I'm really looking forward to your documentary. I didn't even know that the narrated illustrated stories on CZcams came from you. Thank you for inspiring others and sharing your stories! Keep going! 💖😊
This video is the latest in a long line of greats. Swoozie knows how to tell a story with great supporting animation!
The documentary by/with CZcams is very well done.
Never expected Swoozie to get a documentary. It's cool to see how far he's come
I'm single because i just wanna be left alone. I don't have the mental capacity to deal with someone else on top of dealing with myself. Watching this video made me think of all my friends who are in relationships tho, lol superrrr well done! :)
I'm glad you're getting your flowers! You deserve it! Been watching your videos for years
Swoozie keeping 💯 with us. Giving life advice and also exposing the single ppl in the process 😂. Great video and I’m Fs gonna send it my friends that are taken asking why I’m single. Love u bro keeping that what u doing brother 🙏.
Hey Swooz. Long time subscriber here.
Just watched that documentary, and bro. That moment around 5:05 where you talk about having your life planned ahead of you and it just getting erased... that hit me, man. I've never seen you get emotional like that, and I felt that. I felt that so hard. Even after all the success you've had, for that to still sting you like it does.
I've spent the last thirteen years of my life doing everything I could to be either a priest or a friar. For as far back as I could remember, that's what I knew I was supposed to be. I put everything on it. Things kept going wrong, but I still pushed. Like you said, living by faith, not by sight. Finally, just over a year ago, I got so close. I was just a few days before the finish line, the happiest I had ever been in my life, and then out of nowhere, everything, everything just got pulled out from under me. All that time, all that work, just... gone. Totally believing in myself, and being the only one.
It's like you said, though. No one has my voice. I've got stories to tell. I've got a lot to share. I think CZcams really is the place to do that. I might not have a whole lot going for me, but I am a storyteller. That's something I love. That's something I hope I can do.
Thank you for being out here and sharing yourself with us, Adande. You really are a beautiful soul, and it has been an honor to follow you all these years and be a part of your journey.
Really appreciate u checking out the doc friend! U guys don't see it but there is a LOT of sacrifice that goes into this :) But like I mentioned, hopefully much more awesome stuff to share on the way!
Thanks for mentioning the doc, I had no idea about it! I've been a subscriber for over 10 yrs, really love seeing him get his flowers 🥰🎉👏🏾
@@swoozie illuminati confirmed
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I’m single cuz I don’t go out too much, but I have been using the time to work on myself and secure my bag. Plus I want to be able to pull my weight in a relationship so the dynamic between us isn’t off balance in any way.
I remember looking up to you for years, especially when i learned you were from TNT like my mother. I still remember when I messaged you on XBox asking if you like CoD and you actually messaged me back. You inspired me to want to be a youtuber.
While it didnt work out for me, I was able to take your lessons of tenacity and apply it to my work and my education. I'll graduate in May and attained a high position at my office and I thank you for those subtle, and not so subtle lessons.
The flowers video touched my heart. ❤ you are so treasured and we are all so proud of you and proud to support you.
1. I only find women that have boyfriends.
2. I need to focus on work.
3. Playing Videogames all day everyday when not working or hanging out with friends.
4. I don't smoke I don't drink I don't vape I don't take no drugs and I use Android.
Deflecting a whole lotta cooter with this one but some will respek it.💯
BRO WE SHOULD BE FRIENDS CAUSE YOU JUST DESCRIBED ME!!
You sound like my ex! 😱
That's exactly what he's like, but he has a lot of kids and didn't tell me AND he has a weird relationship with the mother of his kids. They're always hanging out and going to dinner. I walked away from that. He was definitely my type though.
I relate with that 4th one SOOO bad. 🤣😭
Bro, that's me
Swoozie hittin us with the REMIX!
Relationships be hard. Trust be a big thing these days and not many people worth it - don't gotta change your positivity for nobody.
I’m over 30 and single because I’ve made a very complete life for myself and a girl would probably ruin it if she came into the relationship with a lot of her own ideas. Kind of sad, because the companionship would be awesome but it’s difficult to seriously think about a relationship where I’m at. Love your videos so much sWooZie.
There’s a girl out there that has the same ideas as you and will fit in perfectly. You could meet her in a year, or 20 years. But she exists. I hope you find her!
there are girls who dont spend so frivolously you just gotta find em
Wow perfect timing. Literally just became single a week ago. And for sure it’s like all the other relationships around me are magnified. Somehow this video brought some great peace to the situation. Thanks Swoozie!
Reason I’m single is because it’s cheaper, no drama, it’s better mentally and physically but most of all no one is constantly up your rear end 24/7. I’ve seen how unhappy my cousin is in a toxic relationship and it’s changed him completely. And for that I’m proud to be single and I love the single life 😁😎💯
THIS VIDEO WAS SO PERSONAL AND SO RELATABLE TO ME, THIS MADE ME THINK WHY I WANT TO BE SINGLE.
THANK YOU SWOOZIE, YOU’RE A REAL HERO
I gave her princess treatment for 8 whole months. I mean words cant describe how well i treated this woman. And she left me while I was going through a rough patch because my new roommates were extremely abusive to the point where I had to keep my door locked to my room 24/7. She didnt even try to communicate. She instead told her horrible "friends" about us instead of talking to me about our issues like a normal human being. Not even a break up text. Wake up blocked on everything. Still radio silence 2 weeks later and I honestly don't care, I'm over her. I was devastated. 2 weeks later, I secured a new job that is my dream job. And I'm learning to love myself. Something I've struggled with for years. Maybe everything happens for a reason 😅
Swoozie out here PREACHING. Too many people out here trying to date someone else to help them with their own baggage
This was in my recommended thank you CZcams (I am incredibly Lonely)
Yo this so true man, and Swoozie congrats on the documentary thingy my man
The reason I'm single is cos I'm heavily disabled and literally no one wants to/has to/should have to deal with that. But you do you.
Im disabled as well so makes it hard when being with friends or family since it makes you think your a crutch for people least thats what i always thought for myself
same, so im dreaming of anime husbandos , rip
Find someone like you. You arant alone in your situation so there is no reason to think that.
@@Dogo.Rand their caretakers will forever be third wheels, pun intended
I'm partially disabled, but live in an super expensive area. So my income means nothing and can't help me for dating when cheap beer on tap cost like 7 dollars.
Swoozie is one of those people you can look up to from nearly every perspective. He's a successful guy with a stable career and mental health who can pull. We need more people like Swooze in life.
Happiness is not a good goal, practicing gratitude so you can enjoy happiness when it happens is a better strategy. Happiness as a goal generally devolves into narcissistic hedonism.
Agree. I’ve never found anyone who agrees with me on this. I’d rather be content and grateful, but I don’t mind the neutral and challenging emotions. Plus, “happiness” is so vague, that’s why some chase it to perpetuity …
You are right. Love takes work. You know when you’ve found your soulmate because you want to be a better person for them, and they do too.
The way he presents information is dope. Very good storytelling and explaining skillz....
Baby, you know this kiss is very soft, you know that's why you mention me every single day for the last 4 months..🫦
How long were you and Swoozie together for?
Last 4??? ALL my videos are about you. Now they know 😂
@@wayne2550 Oh wow! We are going there hey,
Ok it was 2y then Adande proposed to me in 2012, I broke his heart and moved home to Australia. So of course he has been single ever since…
@@JerushaCouture I’m over here trying to figure out who asked
Handbag smh
Seeing the end about the CZcams documentary really made me realize you influenced CZcams animation creators. I’ve been watching you since 7th grade (2016-2017)and besides the fact that you’re entertaining and a great story teller I really loved your style of animation. I’m not 19 and still watch your videos lol and it barely feels like any time went by. You’re the longest I’ve been subscribed to someone.
I’ve been watching since 7th grade too! Crazy all these years have gone by
Bro I needed you to drop this earlier!!!😂😭✨ Love your vids bro you’re a lovely personality.
Been following you since like 2007. Keep up the great work, Swooz.
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You brought up a lot of valid points in relationships and being single. Also congrats on the documentary!!!
The reason why i stay single is because i simply dont hang around people like that, and besides im a drama-free person so honestly im not going for it 😂
You deserve the very best Swoozie. A Legend
I felt this to my core. Might have to watch once a week for the reminder.
Oml i just watched the documentary 😭😭😭you deserved this fucking break man I know what it feels like to be at the lowest point of your life and to keep striving through the pain and hardship is suffocating it is really tough man I understand because I'm at that point right now, but then here you're NOW being all no TEA NO SHADE 🐸😂😂 I love you so man you've inspired me a lot thank you for what you create you're truly the king of animation❤
Reason why I'm single? Im picky, and I'm also afraid that men who I talk to will turn out to be jerks. (Also I'm not putting myself out there, I still live with my parents, etc etc)
Glad to have you back my friend! Keep up the clean fun!
Long time no see! Me and my girl have been together for almost 15 years. During the pandemic while we were living separately, we did have a brief breakup given she thought I had my family trying to manipulate everything. I had a nervous breakdown and we ended up rekindling our relationship then. It was rough, but I learned a huge lesson. We have forgiven each other on that behalf too. I can admit I had some issues then. Nowadays, I wouldn't know for sure how I would feel if I was still single. I hardly go out much because I never find much time to do so.
Interesting that you threw out the term "in an isolationship". I think during the pandemic, and rebuilding my mentality back up after me and the girlfriend rekindled albeit while living separately, I had to regroup and focus a lot on myself. I can admit even before the pandemic, I was used to isolating myself, even around family and other friends. I've gotten a lot of help by then.
-Kid Thunder
You’re amazing! I loved watching your stuff when I was younger ❤
The documentary was dope as hell, dude. Ain't no one that deserved it more than you, congrats!
This is easily the most relatable video I have ever seen IN MY LIFE. 🫶🏽🫡
I just came out of school🗿
It was a half day at school for me
I JUST GOT OUT OF CLASS
I completed all my work so I got to leave school early.
I needed this thanks Swooze
Ayo your dj hitting it hard
By the way thanks for the advice 👍🏾(and the fun side stories)
On my life I broke up yesterday, this video couldn’t have been more perfectly timed that this. Thank you Swooz!
I’m single because I’m in a season of learning to be in a healthy loving relationship with myself 🥰
You know I thought this video was gonna be a legit video on reasons why you are single, but I vibe with this shit not gonna lie. It really motivated me to continue doing what I am doing and I'll find someone eventually.
It makes it so easy to plan your hobby like traveling without being concerned with another person.
3:21 HARD AGREE .
Work on yourself first: your mental health, your academics, your finances, your happiness THEN get into a relationship 💜🔮.
Needed this. Thank you ❤
I never committed to a relationship so that me it's like an alien learning this whole different side of the human experience
The reason why I’m single is because I’m not ready for a relationship yet, but when I’m ready I’m find someone.
You have to have a lot of money and time
The reason I’m single is because I want to work on myself before somebody else has to deal with me. I see a lot of my friends get into relationships and they never last, so I think I don’t want to deal with that until I am ready. And I enjoy it to be honest
Swoozie droppin’ this at the best time as always! 👏🏻🔥
Thank you I needed this
Swoozie, you just called me out in 15 ways. Biggest reason for me right now is my last person giving me trust issues bc I really thought he was my forever person. Regardless, being single can bring so much joy and opportunity for self reflection which I genuinely appreciate
My reason is that I hate physical contact. Can't do romantic stuff when the whole romance part is repulsive to one party. It wouldn't be fair to the other person in the relationship to only feel emotionally attracted.
I hope you'll find someone who will be okay in a relationship without physical contact.
@@sexyscientistat that point you'd have to date asexuals
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Yes, I guess @MarikuSalana is ace.
Omg yes... no one can listen to flaws about themselves. The level of maturity in people is frustrating sometimes. There some people that you cannot suggest a single bit of criticism too or they just go off.
And I try very hard not to be those people. I have gone through hell and high water to better some of my awful emotional habbits. And I try really hard to listen if someone I trust tells me something I need to think about bettering.
Congrats swooz your animation really changed the game 🔥🔥
Swoozie always gotta expose his fans but that’s why he’s the goat
hello all my single friends 😭
Hello there 🤚
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Once again I take months off swoozie and days after I come back, he back with a new video
I'm only 10 seconds in and I'm already cracking up 😂😂😂 it really do be a good feeling when Swoozie posts ❤❤❤
I stopped studying to watch my man Swooz be relatable af.
I’m staying focused on myself & my health.
Singleness is a gift
Happy you’re back
Ooo I'm hyped to see what those character designs are about!
swoozie really hit us with reality
Dude the amount of freedom, peace and sanity is just freaking awesome! No nagging, having to hear about messy ass female co-workers I don't give 2 sh*ts about. And most importantly NO MORE TAKING A DAMN SELFIE FOR SOCIAL MEDIA FOR EVERY DAMN THING WE DO!!
Ngl, I had to watch this one a couple of times, I couldn't stop getting down to that sick beat.😂
Bro, I'm not even subscribed to you, and I got this video recommended to me by CZcams as soon as you uploaded the video, which was almost on the same day I got dumped. Thanks, some things that were mentioned in this video did help me a bit, although the breakup is still fresh and painful.
I don't feel like dealing with relationship drama nowadays and after girls just use me for car rides and Money I'm enjoying my life by myself- peaceful and zero drama and do whatever I like
Exactly i wish women would treat us as men and people instead of another opportunity and resource
@@davidordaz5251 just enjoy life u Meet someone but focus on your goals first before relationship Stuff accomplished goals before relationship
The reasons I'm single: According to what has been said directly to my face...in a nutshell - I'm ugly. Boring. Too short. Too nerdy. Too nice. Too much of an introverted homebody who doesn't enjoy clubbing and drinking. "Neither tall, dark, nor handsome."
In a nutshell...
Same exact thing for me lol
Some people are into nerds, there's always a chance ❤
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!
swoozies videos have been making my day for years