Single Guy Picks a Date Based on their Southern Dishes
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- čas přidán 23. 05. 2023
- The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Which southern belle will put the SOUL in soul food to win a date with the bachelor himself?
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With the tacky suit, the grill and forced swag, ironically he's the one giving ghetto. It's these low-level dudes with high-level demands and expectations. These girls were gorgeous, especially the winner.
😭the way I cackled reading this
You ate him up😆
His vocabulary sucks, you can’t be that pretentious and that dumb
Lol read him for filth 😂😂😂
@rozette8012 sis...
you know there's always that dude who has one outfit that he wears for every possible occasion? Exhibit A 🤣
Dudes like him make me comfortable with being single.
then stay single bc then the real woman can get a real man instead of the man getting someone like u
@@aj3866 yes they do
Lol
Very genuinely asking; why are the comments so against him? I watched the whole thing and don’t understand
@@BriLoveMusicthey don’t like how he said he don’t want his lady to talk too much so they instantly went straight to hating him and everything he says
I don't think I could last 5 minutes on a date with this guy. I'd walk out lol
I hope all three ladies became friends after the show , they mix so well ☺️☺️☺️
Yes!!! They supported each other which was great!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🌺
and that would be the biggest win
It is a hard no for me regarding that dude, but the women were a joy to watch. They all seemed cool and personable. The second one had such a beautiful smile.
Lol...were all reading the same energy off him.
Agreed❤
Yeah, definitely a Hard No, within the first couple of minutes
Same
A HARD NO😂😂😂😂
Out of all the men out there, this is the best you guys can do? He came off arrogant, so unattractive, and the way he carries himself....big No!! These women deserve much, much better!!
I don’t know which corner they found him from and dress him to come video for them 😂
@@sherrieberrie8122 this comment is so funny 😂😂😂
@@sherrieberrie8122 not a corner, sweetie they found this troll right under a bridge.
@@sherrieberrie8122 😂😂😂😂😂
A whole clown.
Any man that wears shades indoors is an IMMEDIATE walking RED FLAG!
What if they had eye surgery and are sensitive to light ?
@@cvyyjgstay home.😂😂
The man is a NO but those women were ALL SUCH BEAUTIES!!!! Any man would be lucky to even catch their eye, much less a meal. PeriodT. ❤
No way. They were all fives or less.
Fuck no they’re all chopped him included only the host was decent
@@architecture.wyep because uncle fester deserves a 12😂😂😂
Lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo
he aint it....
At all. 😓
Baggy a** turtle neck. Probably all stretched out from them lips.
Neither are the female's
I HOLLERED 😂😂😂😂😂
Aw, he was funny and polite..this is the first comment I saw before I watched the video. I thought oh no! Thought you were referring to his personality. I enjoyed this video 😊
I love the women, their attitude, their spirits, their energy absolutely blended. The dude was a NO GO 🙅🏽♀️
They are so cute and positive !!
Yes who picked him? 😂
I had prayers they would link up with each other and leave the man behind.
Ths is a nice dude
Slave food, I stopped listening after that
1. The harmonies on “We’re going to cook some soul food” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
B. These women don’t deserve this. 😭
they aint good enough for such a baller
They could have set them ladies up with a better date 😵💫🤣 I love their vibe too much to just throw them to whatever y’all could scrape up.
Ok but can we talk about how much Kayline (the host) quite clearly HATED this dude 😂
She deserves a Peabody award for not pushing him over 😂
Off the bat she was like thank God I just work here ..I like kayleen
Rightfully so, can we say douchebag.
@@TharaSivanathan how do you know she didn't? 🤔
Wuts the host ig????
That beard told me everything I needed to know 😂🚩
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmfao 💀
Imagine being from Philly. Nothing but red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩beards 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Yes you could tell he was insecure and he was hiding himself under all his accessories all the jewelry the suit the beard everything was a shield 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
His beard looks like it had been permed lol
This is the kind of episode where at the end I was hoping none of the girls would even want to win anymore lol
I'm glad you checked him "what does that even mean"
The beard, wearing shades inside, grillz, and a woman that don't talk too much 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
If u intimidated by men then just say that
He's a normal dude
@@MantimeHustlethe thing is he’s not a man 😂a real man respects women and allows her to be herself. the “not talking too much” comment was immature af
@@angelicbby99you most be a man knowing what a real man is? This is big back energy!
Turtle neck with a vest
They are all too good for him, but he’s entertaining lol
I’m 2 minutes in and I already a-damn-gree. Lmao 😂
Awe, not nice.
If by too good you mean they suck, you're totally right. Or you just an entitled nobody like the host? 😂
Thank you!!! I said the same he’s very ignorant
Seriously...he has slimy asshole written all over him. pass!
I like the second lady like she could have her own cooking show great comforting personality ❤
Omg who is the lady in the all brown & blonde hair?? She is a VIBE I wanna be her friend 😂😂😂 she was outta pocket the whole first half of the video & I was living for it! Lmaooo
She was my favorite too lol ❤️
This guy isn't looking for a wife...he's looking for a maid.
Agreed!!! The shades told me all I needed to know
What see y’all got the game all messed up y’all now say being a traditional women is now being a maid
😂😂😂😂😂
@@hoodiekeemyt2274The laziness is speaking through the comments Jesus Christ just because you want someone that knows how to cook doesn’t mean you’re asking for a lot
Right
This man was no prize. Nice job to the ladies.
Ok “charkita” lmaooo
Judging on what
Yeah, he's very obnoxious. Hopefully, it's just for the show.
@@biglex42why are u quoting a username like thats gonna do anything.. embarrassing
@@yumelynes not as embarrassing as you over here arguing on the internet like anybody actually gives a damn. Look how many arguments you in where NOBODY ever mentioned you. Lmao you that bored?
I like his personality though ❤ Girl number 2 is as close to perfection as a man gonna get. Wholesome, humble, educated and beautiful
Facts
Yes I appreciate her classiness. Very humble woman and beautiful too.
this was the only dude that signed up I guess. He didn't match any of them!!!! Beautiful ladies!!!
He was more into himself than anything
Veryyyy
Was it his "flat-ironed" beard? 🤭
@@LUX_8omg lol
😂🤣😂🤣
@@LUX_8 It's not even flat ironed. That's how your hair looks when you hit it with the hot comb and it's not hot enough yet 😂😂😂😂
As a gentleman, first, any guy that catches a Queen that can cook, has been blessed. If that ain't her thing, then look for the other blessings she brings to the table.
Aww
Thank God my father taught his daughters young.. not to waste your time thinking you trap a man thru his stomach. You cant keep anything that doesnt want to be kept
Finally a man that gets it
If a woman can’t cook she isn’t worth the time
@Akhenatonio..if she can't cook , i will pay for her culinary school fees.
The second girl plate reaction of the guy liking her food was so sweet n pure that alone would win my heart with her lol
This was so fun to watch. I loved everyone’s personalities. The guy was funny, slim was funny too. But the girl he chose seems perfect.
The three ladies were beautiful and had dope personalities! As for Randy, I just think that **call drops**
😂😂
😂😂😂
Omg I’m crying 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I started laughing So hard when he first came on the screen 😂😂😂
The beard, the shades, the teeth 😂😂😂
Chile I know this finna be a interesting episode lol
Not the teeth, but I peeped that too
He had too much going on 😂
Mhm...
Girl me too 😆😆😆😆
A clown
These ladies are all giving delightful, lovely, warm, personality...just everything.
The blonde short cut was so funny i loved her personality 😂😂❤❤❤
The ladies GAVE this episode. Loved their energies and personality. The hostess was also a vibe!
Him? Mm. 🙂
Him: neeeeeeeeeext
😂😂
I totally agree with you!
nah the guy was red flag but the third girl is annoying af
you said if you got nothing good to say dont say anything at all 😂
I absolutely love the young lady in the pink sweater. She is so warm. When she smiles you can't help but smile too.
♡ yea smiles are a good way to make someone else smile as well usually
#SaveSoil
I agree. She seems like the sweetest person ever!
I agree! She is so wholesome which is very nice to see.
Definitely a sweetheart
Agreed, the one to the left with the nip rings is a pass.
He was absolutely hilarious lol. The winner was so beautiful and kind spirited
"What do you think this persons favorite sex postition is based on this plate"😂😂 im done
All three of them are too good for him lmao the “I gotta work” my dude you think they don’t??
Red flag 🚩 in him lol
You can't even get what a man wants, how you gon get a man for more than sex? 🤦♂😂 Y'all crazy, but don't get cats, spare them.
he’s saying he wants a traditional household he saying he has to work so she DOESNT HAVE TO
@@em0_tion the way im engaged and i don't wprk my man does and it was still a weird statement to make. Assuming that every woman just shouldn't work is what keeps ya'll single. Tell me how long you've been married since you wanna talk about women getting a man for more than sex.
@@genesisyoung4088 🤣 Speaking of weird statements... What I said ≠ what you heard.
The boneless beard told me everything I needed ESPECIALLY the “ I gotta work “ what about them ????😭 he don’t deserve none of YALL
Boneless!😂😂😂😂
@@chilady007I effin lost it!!! BONELESS!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣💀💀💀💀💀
Elaborate on boneless beard
Boneless beard 😂😂😂
Not a boneless beard I am CACKLING!!!!!
This is the only video I have watched from this channel but if the channel is about this concept - this ROCKS!
Loved this episode! The ladies were all really good & they all had wonderful personalities.
I love the fact that the ladies were all supportive of each other and wasn’t hateful or rude
Indeed 😊
They never are on these videos. lol
of course. it's the sister code. they can do no wrong. 🤣
This guy is on some weird patriarchal BS with that "knowing not to talk too much" stuff. Issa no.
Edit: whew, all these pick-me's and incels in the comments are runnin' to this man's defense. I'm just reiterating that I said what tf I said. Have a blessed day, y'all.
Exactlyyyy. Like imagine saying that when your beard got split ends and looks see-through… Bye 💀
@@offbeatttt_😂😂😂😂😂😂😂☠️🪦
@@offbeatttt_I’m cryinggg😂😂😂
@@offbeatttt_ LORD
@@offbeatttt_ periodt
I just became a subscriber. I loved this segment. If he didn't take lady number 2, I definitely would have. She is pure beautiful, and that smile is fire. I know that dish was slamming.
Yall went in on that man! 😂😂😂 He wasn’t bad at all. He’s just very straightforward. I think the confidence and flashy style is blinding yall. 😅 He seems like a good dude. He’s just very honest and likes what he likes.
They snapped on his ass😅😅😅
He lost me at mashed potatoes and peas. That’s a banquet dinner, not soul food in my mind. 😆
This joker said Django…Lawd smh 😆🙈
I thought he was going to say black-eyed peas but then he went to the old Hungry Man TV dinner lol
Green beans would have been a better option lol
My grandma made green peas all the time. Also made green beans and white potatoes 🤷🏾♂️
He lost me with eating food with grills in his mouth😭
I would definitely give him the WRONG number 😂
!!!!!!!
Let's be real here. He'd likely HEAVILY decline yours, so cut the bs. Tired of ya'll.
@@kurokaizen1889 You obviously are clueless about women. Go cry in the corner man baby.
I'll give him no number 😂
@@kurokaizen1889 thank goodness, no one wants his dusty ass😂😂😂
They way he clowned the second dish before trying it..😂.. too funny
The girl in the lavender sweater seems like such a sweetheart 🥰❤️
Right??? She's quite beautiful too. All the woman in this video are stunning.
She was my favorite.
Facts
She a whole Sinclair.
Plus, she bakes the BEST cookies🙌🏾
This was so entertaining ahaha I really enjoyed everyones personalities! Thanks for sharing!💗💗🙏🏽🙏🏽✨✨
god the fact that he put his sunglasses back on before he was going to talk to her... and the negging-hinting with the "I thought you just used door-dash aha"
she doesn't really need to go a date with him, does she? i feel for her.
Exactly
None of the women in the comments like that cornball lol.
The loser of the cooking competition, should have a date with this wannabe Billy D Williams.
Lol she didn't. She is one of my friends
He didn't even greet her right ! SMH ! 🤔😒
Not even 3 minutes in and I'm already loving the personalities of theses beautiful ladies. As for the gentleman himself......✌🏾🤸🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I bet you wouldn’t say that if it was a man of another race?
@@joshuaram100 are you sure? I have dated and even married outside of my "race" and even they weren't great choices. One should never make assumptions about another person's choices based on their own life decisions because it's usually incorrect. So not everyone has a prejudiced mindset, not everyone thinks in the manner that you do.
The one time I’d pray someone didn’t like my food 😂
3 minutes in - and I already know these women deserve better. Can they get a do -over .
men need a new batch of women
FACTS!
They definitely need a do over.
maybe 1 or two of the women deserve better but there's definitely 1 of them that is matching his energy
How did you figure that out so quickly, but the dudes that bust you down gotta beat you up for you to realize he’s the wrong guy 😂
Blonde head is so beautiful. Her energy is rich! She seems very authentic! 👏🏽 I love that🫶🏼
Thank youuuu ❤❤❤
That’s that STL!
@@MonieInTheCity absolutely beautiful and I the red hot...chefs kiss
I know she a freak I woulda picked her off that alone f the food I’m eating regardless
That's the kind of lady you want as your best friend cuz you will never stop laughing
I liked the second dish as well as the girl. She's quality!! ❤
St. Louis ayyyyeee!! Im from the Mid west. hehe You all are beautiful!! Cheers and God Bless!💗💗
He’s giving played out . Mr.smooth needs to reevaluate himself 😂 Great job ladies
I was wondering why his beard was extra long but his suit was small... idk maybe that's the look he was going for...
😘🌹
Loved how the host was lowkey defending the girls 😂
defending them from wat exactly it seems to me like he was givin his genuine opinions and thats what they came there for anyways
You seem triggered. You are him. 😂
Agreed
This was so much fun to watch. Again! Again! 😊
Big Bertha 😁 " I love that baby" 🤪😹😹😹 that woulda been my reply to that too!😺
I'm gonna say create a show around these three ladies and let them decide if the guy is right for them after they are selected...Love their vibe for real.
Or maybe they should be the judges for another lady choosing men 🤔
She did decide I’ve he was right for her she gave him her number and he was respectful
Y’all just don’t like that a man had the choice in this matter cause in shows like this it’s y’all at the women picking from a bunch of men lol.
He decided....she agreed after the fact. My idea focuses more on the ladies making the decision. Not sure who you are directing "Yall just dont like..." to but I dont believe that is anywhere in my comment.
@@kjellmclarensooopo the "bachelor" hasn't dominated airways for 20+ years.
Why is it wrong for women to pick the men given that men have always been able to pick?
@@kjellmclarenright I’m trying to understand why he’s getting so much hate
I like how all three ladies just get along well, and are not competitive in a negative way. 👏👍🌹💯🇯🇲
LOL @ competetive! That nigga wasn't worth fighting for!
Because none of them want him!
they get along well for the camera. inside their minds ..they all hate each other.
To be fair, he was not worth competing for.
@@lisabrightly facts!!💯😂
He’s giving… boy bye! Lol 😂
Kay line looking at this man like the heck do you mean by the kids need food, I haven't even finished the episode and I'm already dropping a like based on that alone
Why did y’all pick himmmm!!! I knew off the rip he was a mess, but I was like, lemme give him a chance. His favorite dish, what’s soul food or southern about sweet peas?
My gurl Simone, with that blonde fro and all the wild innuendos, was my fave!!!!
Because they ain't you?
@@em0_tion oh you’re an interesting piece of something
@@MrSincerity88 How so?
Fro ??? That’s a lady Cesar
Thank you for picking up on the peas and carrots! I have never associated peas and carrots with Southern cooking! Now when I went to the private school, that's when they served them most of the time.
I need an update because these women deserved better 😒
Right
the men need better women you’re correct
@@AgentDGW that man was so disrespectful and rude if you support his words you’re just as disgusting as him
I am binge watching this channel, omg where were you guys during covid?😂😂😂😂
Now I get off work Iw atch it, wake up I watch something ..
The ladies HAVE AMAZING ENERGY🎉😂
It was the 3 contestants connection amongst each other for me! ❤️ All 3 were talking to each other as if they've known/have been best friends their entire lives
Right? I loved their vibe! And their food 🤌
I wanted him to meet who he didn’t choose!
Same!
They usually do. This was edited wrong 😢😢
Who cares, it's a show, not real life. They don't marry right after this. 😁
Exactly, show all the reactions from guy the girls met, just like The Dating Game.
The way I would’ve taken my plate back before he judged it… would’ve found a way to gift him some clippers.
Wow he said a "to go box"...you go girl have fun and your date goes further.
What in the Great Value Kevin Samuels with a beard is goin on here…🥴!?!?!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 not great value Kevin Samuels!
The ultimate ROAST 😂🤣
Lmaoooooooooooo
Did you see his bald spot
These 3 need a podcast together ASAP!! They have great chemistry and they just met , this was one of the best 👍🏽
God no. We don’t need no more podcasts in the black community 😂
NAH FOREAL
100000%%%
@@hat880 feeeeel meeeeeeee 👌🏽
Yeah, I'd like to more of them.
Good to see we all collectively can't stand him 😂 kudos to the ladies (host too!) ❤
They're all so stunning
Yo, the balding covered with black ink is killlllin me! 😂😂 but everything about him is giving "I said Jerome in da house" 😂 "watch cha mouf!" 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
I cant stop laughing at this!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I can’t!
You wrong 😂😂
You guys took out the best part, when he meeds the ones he DIDNT pick.
That might have gone left this episode and was edited out lol
Once I saw this guy….. I ran for these ladies in my mind 😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️
Ah, that’s a hard no. Done watching. Thanks tho for sharing. I’ll check out your other vids cause love your personalities
I like when they get to meet all the people they did NOT choose first . Then lead up to the one that they did .
Same
Yes, that's what I was hoping for
Yes I just left a comment similar to this
I like that too
Thts what I was waiting for
I want to see these ladies in another series something fun. I love the different personalities and them together as a unit
anyone know the lady with the ascot's social media? I wanna be her friend 🤗
Dunno their personalities don’t mesh well tho imo 🌚 it’s like mixing kiwis with mangos and pomegranate all are individually great but the combo isn’t really great
I agree they’re lovely I would love to see them again
Same
I agree!!!!
More of these!!!! 😍😍😍😍
Great video! Great idea
he was eating with his grill still in, tells me everything I need to know lolllll
🤢 indeed
Was It A Grill Or Perms?
You would wait to see if he takes his grill out? They come out?
Lol exactly.... who does that
Those are permanent i think
He’s wearing his necklace over his shirt like he’s in high school again😂 I’m dead
I haven't seen that since highschool
If I Had The Chance To Id Love To Taste All Of The Dishes But Pink Sweater Got My Heart With Her Smile ❤
This guy reminds me of my ex and then I read the comments 😂. Spot on 👌🏾
He lost me when he said his favorite SOUTHERN dish was fried chicken mash potatoes green peas and carrots
you lost cause he never would pick you
I know carrots … that was shocking
Lmao
I know right? I was like, that's so typical. I could do that and I'm not a SOUTHERN cook. 😆😆😆😆😆😆
@@AgentDGW So? Who wants him? She ain't missing a damn thing.
As soon as he started talking I could tell none of these women are for him lol 😂
The missing sign took me 😂
He Hit nail on the head, when said she can't talk to much.
The women are EVERYTHING!!! The guy is giving major RED FLAG 🚩 😳
He didn’t even shake her hand when he met her.
He seems very much rude & probably admired Kevin Samuels.
@@Larbear_1887 He definitely gives kitten heels fan vibes!
From the looks of the suit…I’d say he was a fan
When he said "I'm old school" aka traditonal I already knew
@@Larbear_1887I was thinking this!
"For a second I thought this was Door dash. It's too perfect." 😂😂. Ok bruh!!??
I thought I was being picky but I see my instincts are shared by many other ladies! 😆 I bet he's got fruit crates for furniture at home.
Just because you mess with pookies don’t mean all bm are like that
So they don’t see him until he chooses them? Smart cause they probably would of walked off the set if they did
🤣🤣🤣I definitely would have walked!
I could say the same about all 5 people in this video. 🤷♂😂
@@em0_tion Be quiet and get into the kitchen and make me a sandwich.
“Oh, I can cook, but I gotta go to work, too.” Bruh, what are you even SAYING?
Simone: plate was BANGING, and Simone is my favorite name, all time. The extra flourish with the magnum of hot sauce? Chef’s kiss. She taught him something with the turkey tail in the greens.
Eriel: shrimp, chicken, moderate vegetables and sauce on RICE? I’m all about it.
Kayla: That smothered wing? That is COUNTRY with a silent “h”. Like, COUNTRHY. I saw NOTHING wrong with that plate.
I would rock with all three, and wouldn’t wave no red flags.
Ol’ misogyny-lookin’ boy…
He ain't neva touched a plate made by a Black American in his life. Those struggle jokes he tried said all they needed to. He needs to refind his Caribbean roots. The irony! lol
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Have to have that hot sauce. In my house it's Cholula or Tapatio.
He's saying he doesn't want his children to be raised by some other woman than their mother, doesnt seem misogynistic at all to me.
Like people can't work and cook at the same time, most people who are single living alone go to work and still manage to cook a meal for themselves lol
Love this! Great concept for a dating show on TV!!