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  • @kellirobertson6370
    @kellirobertson6370 Před 4 měsíci +35

    SOUNDS LIKE HAND SANITIZER SHOULD BE IN EVERYONES POCKETS !!!
    😂😂 LOL YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME. 💯✌️

    • @jenniferhanson3671
      @jenniferhanson3671 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Soap & Water is the best, if it's there. and a sink is always in a bathroom.

    • @kellirobertson6370
      @kellirobertson6370 Před 4 měsíci

      @jenniferhanson3671
      I was only referring to if BEN had the girls. I imagine its a tough spot if he's wanting to get in and out . I had boys only lol at some point i to had the heby-gebys about my boys going into the mens bathroom . 🫣😛
      At the end of the day as we're able to tuck our babies in we give Thanks and an AMEN to know we all survived another day. Soap/water always the way to go if able 🧼🪣🫧🛁. Have a good nite hun !!✌️

  • @Robindigsit
    @Robindigsit Před 4 měsíci +19

    I'm with Katie on this!!! Teaching personal hygiene is so important! Get some wipes or hand sanitizer!!!

  • @laurendohlman8917
    @laurendohlman8917 Před 4 měsíci +23

    I get where Ben’s coming from cause I’m like Ben in this aspect 😂😂😂

  • @debbielopez6593
    @debbielopez6593 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Yes I agree on Ben logic,and I can understand his reasoning.

  • @user-we8kg7ib6i
    @user-we8kg7ib6i Před 4 měsíci +2

    So proud of your journey!

  • @nahomymalu8055
    @nahomymalu8055 Před 4 měsíci +48

    There's some logic to Ben's argument 😂 but I would wash their hands anyway. Public bathrooms have germs everyyyyyywhere 😖

    • @vanessahinds8320
      @vanessahinds8320 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Especially on the door handles, I keep papertowels to wrap the door handle and use my elbows to hold the door open, then toss the towels in the trash as we walk out.

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 Před 4 měsíci +2

    My goodness you suprised me today. Congratulations! I am so happy for you guy’s. Somehow I have managed to miss 4 videos. I am back tracking now to get caught up.

  • @celinebr0253
    @celinebr0253 Před 4 měsíci +3

    This video made my day!🫶🏻🥺

  • @judygagnon6676
    @judygagnon6676 Před 4 měsíci +12

    I get what Ben is saying. Hes making sense. If the girls havent touched anything, why have then go to a dirty sink and touch that?

  • @ellashalit1739
    @ellashalit1739 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Yay waited for a vid all day!!
    Love from 🇬🇧

  • @markjencks4329
    @markjencks4329 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Yeah Colorado weather sucks right now I feel you I get so tired of the snow right from the first snow fall.. i hope I can move soon to Florida.

    • @jodeming5088
      @jodeming5088 Před 4 měsíci +1

      As someone who has lived in Florida for 50 years it’s not as nice as it used to be. The heat is unbearable and the yearly hurricane stink. If I could I would move north a few states.

  • @jaydenmugadza1374
    @jaydenmugadza1374 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Addie would look so cute in bangs ❤

  • @joey4222
    @joey4222 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm the same way when it comes to the seasons. From summer til christmas i'm happy but after that I'm so over it XD

  • @marymayo9480
    @marymayo9480 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ben has a valid point

  • @gingerglitter4ever
    @gingerglitter4ever Před 4 měsíci

    Agree! I think it's good to get in the habit of washing your hands while visitng the bathroom because you set them up for a solid bathroom routine

  • @mpdaugherty8549
    @mpdaugherty8549 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It feels like it is, please do embrace it. Especially when he or she is born. Im guessing 9/22. Feels like a good day. Virgo Baby

  • @BethAllen_
    @BethAllen_ Před 4 měsíci

    lol felt so seen when you started lint rolling your leggings. I feel like I’m doing that constantly to get cat hair off of me. I vacuum so much but still will find little cat hairs on me. Same for my daughter’s leggings! Drives me crazy! 😂

  • @mckennagibson
    @mckennagibson Před 4 měsíci

    I agree that it’s in the middle neither of you are wrong or right 😂 I could justify both lol

  • @aliceclanton7417
    @aliceclanton7417 Před 4 měsíci

    +1 for Ben. My daughter intentionally holds onto me in a public bathroom so that she doesn’t have to wash her hands 😂

  • @krissyhudak2716
    @krissyhudak2716 Před 4 měsíci

    I love that you let them like not scream, but like screaming yell like you’re not yelling at them to be quiet or anything like that

  • @katlynnmurchie5724
    @katlynnmurchie5724 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm with Ben we do it as well. They don't touch anything they don't have to wash hands but I do sanitize after.

  • @msamp22
    @msamp22 Před 4 měsíci

    As a veterinary student, listening to Ben’s rational is hurting my soul 😅

  • @jenniferhanson3671
    @jenniferhanson3671 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm in Minnesota and this week was the first real snow. It didn't really snow all winter. It was weird seeing other States get snow, but Minnesota, known for snow and cold weather, it wasn't this year.
    I agree with Katie. ALWAYS WASH HANDS! 😁TMI question, do the girls wipe themselves? If they do they should wash their hands. Wash hands regardless though.

  • @mariahl.2052
    @mariahl.2052 Před 4 měsíci +1

    That isn’t hail, it’s graupel which is a type of snow. We have it often in the higher altitude spots of Utah as well!

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl Před 4 měsíci

    Life goes by in a blink!

  • @penyvaras3010
    @penyvaras3010 Před 4 měsíci

    This is so funny 😂. But I agree with Katie 😅.

  • @maili3264
    @maili3264 Před 4 měsíci

    My god, Katie you are right and YES there is a right and a wrong answer!!! Love your videos btw❤️

  • @adriennehiggs5
    @adriennehiggs5 Před 4 měsíci

    I agree with Ben those sink is nasty ! I always immediately sanitize afterwards though.

  • @izzymeese
    @izzymeese Před 4 měsíci

    I get it from both sides tbh😂butttttt id definitely wash every time

  • @shirlynb148
    @shirlynb148 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I’d say as a Grandmother of 10 I’ve gotten sicker from my grandchildren’s germs than any bathroom I have been in in my 64 years!

  • @amysebek4034
    @amysebek4034 Před 4 měsíci

    Yes wash their hands regardless

  • @hugsforlove
    @hugsforlove Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm a mom of 3 4 and under and I agree with Ben I don't do the hassle of washing 3 girls hands after the bathroom but we always use hand sanitizer! It's so much easier since my kids can't can't reach the sinks!

  • @nikolschimmerlova7410
    @nikolschimmerlova7410 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hi i wanted to ask if you have any footage of you telling your family about baby #4 ? Or if tehre will be a video of that? Actually that could be interesting, cause not many people have that many children. I wish the best to you guys and your whole beautiful family!! 💖💖

    • @krissyhudak2716
      @krissyhudak2716 Před 4 měsíci

      She said that she did not record it this time she wanted it to be kind of more intimate between her and her family member and friends and stuff. same with the gender she’s not finding out the gender until the baby is born. I don’t remember what video but a couple videos ago she answered this she explained it like in her own words.

  • @43cwalker
    @43cwalker Před 3 měsíci

    Team Ben. I do the same thing as him, touch as little (if anything) as possible. So we get in and get out. My kids see me washing my hands, though. And we wash hands everywhere else and they know that. Obviously when they get bigger and completely go in the stall on their own, they will know to wash their hands.

  • @annbednarczyk1006
    @annbednarczyk1006 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I agree with Ben in THIS situation, however I agree with Katie because it's really good to teach hygiene to kids. So they know that they should always wash their hands after using the bathroom.

  • @DeeannaLouise
    @DeeannaLouise Před 4 měsíci +1

    I see what Katie is saying about creating a routine as it's good to do that but I also see what Ben is saying. I personally would make sure the kids wash their hands or use hand gel

  • @brandyfreeman4098
    @brandyfreeman4098 Před 4 měsíci +13

    I have to say that I side with Ben on the hand washing issue in public bathrooms. Everything in public bathrooms is disgusting! This includes sink handles, soap dispenser, dryer, door handle, etc. If my granddaughter doesn’t touch anything I’d rather her not be near the sink. We always immediately sanitize afterwards though. I don’t think it’s wrong to always wash as you’re modeling good general habits.

  • @suzyashby8777
    @suzyashby8777 Před 4 měsíci

    Same it was hailing and 38 degrees

  • @pennyferguson9839
    @pennyferguson9839 Před 4 měsíci

    I always make my son wash his hands..even if they don’t touch anything. It is just another time to wash your hands. Especially because they were about to eat chips..you were all sharing the chips. Totally agree with you.

  • @user-ip4ex6gq9b
    @user-ip4ex6gq9b Před 4 měsíci

    I agree with the habit forming part of the argument BUT in school we saw a study that was done specifically with hand dryers in public restrooms and what blows out into ur hands any time u use one. They stuck a Petri dish under, let the air blow out and sealed it for a week and what grew in the dish was literally the nastiest thing I had ever seen in my life. It’s burned into my head lol. It’s probably on Google honestly. But ya I never ever ever use them now, I leave with wet hands but above all I prefer sanitizer cuz I can only image what the sinks r like if the dryers r like that.

  • @hannahgrin1
    @hannahgrin1 Před 3 měsíci

    I wish we could be friends! I have 3 girls ages 5,4 and 2! And my fiance lives and breathes football! I love watching your videos 💕 sending love from Maryland!

  • @meganleelove7043
    @meganleelove7043 Před 4 měsíci +1

    i think katie is right everyone needs wash there hands after bathroom or anything

  • @krissyhudak2716
    @krissyhudak2716 Před 4 měsíci

    10:51 come on Ella didn’t you know that is how you fix your blue lip😂😂😅😅

  • @terinnacrowder9145
    @terinnacrowder9145 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Come to the U.P. Lol

  • @kaoreilly20
    @kaoreilly20 Před 4 měsíci

    i keep a hand sanitizer in my packets to wash my hands after i use the public bathrooms

  • @amandawalsh171
    @amandawalsh171 Před 4 měsíci

    I agree with Ben. I see where he's coming from and I see what you're coming from. But I agree with Ben. If you don't touch anything then why do they need to wash their hands?

  • @AutobotSimmer
    @AutobotSimmer Před 4 měsíci +1

    I think Katie is right, though the wau they both talk, it's amazing they don't teach the girls public bathrooms nasty, hokd it until they get home. Likely important until the girks are a little older.
    What Ben is doing might be logic now but is he going to escort the girls into public bathrooms for life to ensure they don't touch anything? Even the avoid public bathrooms isn't exactly great. Better to teach wash hands. Sanitize after leaving.... I'm not sure because my mom used to use sanitizer until she saw a news report talking about how it's not great for our skin. This was at least ten years ago so i don't know if anything changed.
    Time is flying. I joke about the end is near. Logically it's because as we get okdet we're busy and time seems to fly by. Just like when we're doing something fun.

  • @karenselogic7742
    @karenselogic7742 Před 4 měsíci

    Tell Ben he needs to make sure girls wash hands every time after bathroom even if he helps. Because when you flush the toilet little drops of water fly in the air and land on everything. So if multiple stalls and someone else is flushing also their germs from their toilet will be in the air also. That’s why doctors say keep toothbrushes very far away from the toilet.

  • @jackie-qf2wo
    @jackie-qf2wo Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am 15 weeks as well!! I can't remember if you said your due date? But I'm having a girl in September

    • @rylieaddison9852
      @rylieaddison9852 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Me too!! I’m 16 weeks☺️ 9/9/24

    • @jackie-qf2wo
      @jackie-qf2wo Před 4 měsíci

      @@rylieaddison9852 that's my bday!! I'm due Sept 15th

  • @KYLEDAVY25
    @KYLEDAVY25 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m sorry but i gotta be team Ben on this, if they didn’t touch anything then keep it that way. The sinks can be very dirty and if they already haven’t touched anything they should continue to not touch anything. BUT at a restaurant I can see why you would for example if it’s before they eat, then yes wash your hands in general because you’re about to touch your food. Just turn the sinks on for them and only let the water and soap touch them if that makes sense 😂

  • @mpdaugherty8549
    @mpdaugherty8549 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I truly hated to use a public restroom @ anytime. Especially w/ my precious children. It was bound to happen!!! Obviously. Its important to wash hands sanitizer anything everything anytime every time... period. Its a must. Everything has germs... period. I put toilet paper down the works. Its just what we have and must do. Its a certain without a must do. Its so vital. It is. Period. Im not being rude or disrespectful. Ben isnt wrong either. Equally correct. Thank you

  • @jdicken3942
    @jdicken3942 Před 4 měsíci

    🥴😅 I'm like Ben lol I do not let my kids touch ANYTHING so I just do mine and we walk out. If they somehow touch something they wash hands. BUT a big reason for that is bc my kids are TERRIFIED of an electric dryer. So I do hand sani when we get to the table or wherever

  • @user-we8kg7ib6i
    @user-we8kg7ib6i Před 4 měsíci +5

    I will never sit on a public restroom toilet. I can't think of anything more disgusting haha. I touch everything with a napkin

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 Před 4 měsíci

    Ben!!! lol but they wipe their booties!! 😂😂

  • @krissyhudak2716
    @krissyhudak2716 Před 4 měsíci

    Please stick with it before you know it it will be September baby will be born. You’ll know the gender. It’s something that you wanted to do and if it’s going to be your last one, you could do something that you know for an absolute fact. Would be awesome and it was absolutely something that you wanted to do. and I really don’t want you to regret it so please stick with it if anything remember that you found out with your other three and it would be just cool to do something a little bit different which is your reasoning for wanting to do it anyways, but if you just keep reminding yourself that hey like this is why I wanna do it and you don’t let yourself convince you that you need to find out, you’ll be able to just forget about it but won’t be on your mind as much. It is until the ultrasounds for the scans and stuff and just be careful.

  • @daisymay1608
    @daisymay1608 Před 4 měsíci

    Ben has a point, public sinks are gross

  • @TheMunchie1983
    @TheMunchie1983 Před 3 měsíci

    I make my kids wash their hands after going to the bathroom. I just think their hands are dirty from touching stuff throughout the day. get some hand sanitizer wipes to use.

  • @jasgem76
    @jasgem76 Před 4 měsíci

    Ben's hand washing argument makes sense, as does Katie's point that hand washing should be a habit. Neither of you are wrong, but the habit forming wins the argument.

  • @RachaelNelson-df3qc
    @RachaelNelson-df3qc Před 3 měsíci

    Wash up yes

  • @saramaciejewski5602
    @saramaciejewski5602 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Please stick to a gender surprise. You won't regret it. My 1st 2 were a surprise girls. It was so exciting. We knew with my 3rd ( a boy ). We found out accidentally due to many ultrasounds for a high risk pregnancy. We were so thrilled when he was born. But, the extra excitement of the learning the gender was missing.

  • @karensaurage1120
    @karensaurage1120 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I get Ben’s point. It’s dirt where you wash your hands. Even touching the door on the way out you get your hands dirty. I would still wash their hands.

  • @naturewalkerwindle3011
    @naturewalkerwindle3011 Před 4 měsíci

    At least for habit, if not the nasty public sink and the dryers that literally spew poo germs in the air. Take sanitizing wipes and hand sanitizer to use right out side of the bathroom

  • @saracosseboom5135
    @saracosseboom5135 Před 4 měsíci

    i think it's our emetophobia katie 😂 i have that and touching or being near ANYTHING remotely gross i immediately would have to wash my hands and make kids do the same

  • @paige6549
    @paige6549 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Everyone I know is having boys😊do all your girls have your blue eyes?

  • @chasekratzer
    @chasekratzer Před 4 měsíci

    I will say that I can really see Katie having tattoos.

  • @kelseywinterhalt6468
    @kelseywinterhalt6468 Před 4 měsíci

    You should wash your kids either way if they're in the washroom and if they whip themselves, washrooms aren't always clean enough for not washing your kids hands! You look amazing Katie I can't believe you're pregnant again! I thought Addison would be your last child!

  • @ginabrown3018
    @ginabrown3018 Před 4 měsíci

    Sanitize or wipes just to be safe

  • @kiwibrown3502
    @kiwibrown3502 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Most public toilets don't have lids, causing poop particles in the air, so, imo just by entering, you become contaminated and should probably wash to be safe. But I'm not a scientist, just a big germaphobe when it comes to public toilets and my kids 😅

    • @ItsKalasLife
      @ItsKalasLife Před 4 měsíci

      My thoughts as well. Wash and then even sanitize when you leave. Avoid hand dryers and just air dry

  • @joanwillard9288
    @joanwillard9288 Před 4 měsíci

    Yes, wash hands. Their hands are already dirty even if they don't touch anything in the restroom.

  • @user-io8pi1es8s
    @user-io8pi1es8s Před 4 měsíci

    My pregnancy went by so fast and it was my first pregnancy tho

  • @RachaelNelson-df3qc
    @RachaelNelson-df3qc Před 3 měsíci

    Being covid still around everyone
    Should still
    Wash hands

  • @susanbosch2181
    @susanbosch2181 Před 4 měsíci

    You’re living my house. My golden retriever. I have the dog vacuum and the rollers for my pants. And throw the ball in my house too. On you have dog hair on you. My life. But I love my Ruby and she is so sweet. I vacuum my house every day Dog life

  • @billiwoodruff9022
    @billiwoodruff9022 Před 4 měsíci

    Try sugar free Gatorade

  • @alexisswantek3461
    @alexisswantek3461 Před 4 měsíci

    I am with Ben on this one, But also Katie your not wrong because you should have to wash your hands. But Public restrooms are so dirty.

  • @jenniferpenderis348
    @jenniferpenderis348 Před 4 měsíci

    When you flush your toilet all the bacteria inside of it explodes out as little particles in the air. You should definitely wash your hands if a toilets been flushed 😊

  • @stephanie2
    @stephanie2 Před 4 měsíci +1

    💖♥️🫶🥰

  • @ernestminnix468
    @ernestminnix468 Před 4 měsíci

    It's. Men and woman. Have different aspects. When it comes this area , I can agree with ven but but Katie is correct. Better hygiene habit. To teach the kids

  • @merestasio938
    @merestasio938 Před 4 měsíci +4

    We need a gender reveal 🎉

    • @sunburntgirl
      @sunburntgirl Před 4 měsíci +3

      They’re going to wait till baby is born to find out gender

    • @shirlynb148
      @shirlynb148 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Won’t know till it’s out but they know they will love it boy or girl!

  • @karenseay2225
    @karenseay2225 Před 4 měsíci

    I see his point. Have you ever seen a men's restroom?

  • @hjl198
    @hjl198 Před 4 měsíci

    I understand what Ben is saying… but out in public you get germs on your hands from anything even before you enter the bathroom. Then when that toilet flushes all the bacteria goes airborne & lands everywhere🤮 I’d just wash their hands lol

  • @daniellelaymon902
    @daniellelaymon902 Před 4 měsíci

    Just found out today I’m pregnant with baby number 6.

  • @lizcritten
    @lizcritten Před 4 měsíci

    The amount of e numbers and that colour in gatoraid and you wonder why they are running loose 😅😅😅😅😅, seriously?

  • @ItsKalasLife
    @ItsKalasLife Před 4 měsíci

    The air in bathrooms are full of shit particles so yes. Wash hands.

  • @rosebojorquez1237
    @rosebojorquez1237 Před 4 měsíci

    Hand washing...sorry Ben Katie is righ!! The girls need to get into the habit of washing hands especially when out in public...if not they'll get confused on when to wash hands! Always wash good habit!😊❤

  • @hannahyancey7812
    @hannahyancey7812 Před 4 měsíci

    They were about to eat they should wash there hands all the time they go to the restroom

  • @caseybrittain
    @caseybrittain Před 4 měsíci +1

    Y’all can find out the gender but keep it off a social media❤

    • @lauradelaplane1978
      @lauradelaplane1978 Před 4 měsíci +1

      they want to be suprised

    • @caseybrittain
      @caseybrittain Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@lauradelaplane1978 but I believe this is like the at least a couple times I’ve heard her say Ben is trying to convince her. Hopefully she sees my comment.

    • @krissyhudak2716
      @krissyhudak2716 Před 4 měsíci

      @@caseybrittain she wants it to be a surprise though she wants it to be that way he wants it to be a surprise. They’ve talked about it multiple times now stop pressing it. It’s rude. They’ve said it at least three or four times now they posted the same videos, here, TikTok, and Instagram saying the same things about how they’re not going to find out, they’re gonna hold each other accountable that they said this is Katie‘s last baby that’s what she said. She wants things done a certain way and she’s already talked about how if it doesn’t happen that way she’s gonna be upset. She knows herself so yes as much as he saying that he wants to know most the time he’s been like not joking, but like because he has also said that

  • @foofookachoo1136
    @foofookachoo1136 Před 4 měsíci

    But, what I would like to know, did Ben take the girls into the girls bathroom, or mens?? To me, either one would not be a good idea. I would imagine it was the girls bath r. , but didn’t think a guy would be allowed in the girls bath r !!

  • @sharonpountney5253
    @sharonpountney5253 Před 4 měsíci

    I understand where Ben is coming from however If I just changed my kids diapers and went to the washroom I still washed my daughters hands but if they are not touching anything I am not sure where I stand on that however ro much hand washing isn't good for the kids either

  • @annsaldivar550
    @annsaldivar550 Před 4 měsíci

    At least carry hand sanitizer and use that the minute they come out.

  • @glynisbaglow2169
    @glynisbaglow2169 Před 4 měsíci

    Hi all, i live in Swansea, south Wales U.K. + our weather is pretty poor, rain + flooding in places. Windy with weather warnings. Some snow, all these things cause me to suffer from S.A.D. the letters each stand for a word, but i can't think what they are. I'm so sorry i'll txt it to you once i remember. Love + hugs to you all.
    XxxX. ❤😂❤😅❤😊❤️🤩❤️🤣❤️😍❤️😇❤️😄❤️😘❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️

  • @chrisjohanson9284
    @chrisjohanson9284 Před 4 měsíci

    ♥️🙏🌟👍😊🤰🌺

  • @tammiependergraft7157
    @tammiependergraft7157 Před 4 měsíci

    The older she gets Ella's looks a lot like you

  • @gmahill5972
    @gmahill5972 Před 3 měsíci

    Why would you film getting dog hair off your legs - just sayin 🤨

  • @user-uw8kn6wh3s
    @user-uw8kn6wh3s Před 4 měsíci

    First of all that is weird how you take your kids to the bathroom I have never done that with my kids. Just have them go to the bathroom like everyone else does and when they are done have them wash their hands.

    • @hannahyancey7812
      @hannahyancey7812 Před 4 měsíci

      They are very young kids. That's how kids get kidnapped

    • @allyjane6737
      @allyjane6737 Před 3 měsíci

      its definitely not weird... their youngest literally just turned 2.... she needs help and as for the older girls, they could need the extra help, mainly of course Avrey but regardless, its a safety thing. even if my kids were 5+ i would at least stand in the doorway & wait for them. i'd rather be safe than sorry. but you do you though🤷🏼‍♀️.

    • @hannahyancey7812
      @hannahyancey7812 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@allyjane6737 my thoughts exactly