If you’re feeling stuck in life, I’m right there with you | navigating my 30s
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- i've been going back and forth with talking about where my head has been at (at least on here), and each time i tried avoiding it, i kept feeling a nudge to just speak. so, this is me, letting go of what i imagined my life to look like and stepping into the life that I am meant to live :)
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Hi There! I’m Seyi and I am a Los Angeles based fashion, beauty, and lifestyle influencer and content creator. Welcome to my other little corner of the internet!
On this channel, I share tips on fashion and beauty, while also documenting navigating my 30s. My goal is to help you look good and most importantly, feel seen.
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Everything you said resonated with me. I lost my mother to cancer at 23 and the rest of my 20s and early 30s were a struggle, to say the least. I'm now in my 40s and I can say it gets better although you'll always be grieving. But it sounds like you have a great outlook on where you are in this moment and where you're going. I love that for you. You got this!
that's the harsh reality of it all, the "always grieving" aspect. It's still something that I find myself a bit shell shocked with because some days the grief is so so heavy. But, thank you so much for taking the time to watch and comment on this video. Hearing your perspective is helpful and reassuring ☺
2:06 can't imagine how that must have felt... please give yourself grace. love the video
thank you so much for taking the time to watch 🤗 and thank you for the reminder to extend myself grace, always always needed
This popped up on my CZcams homepage 🙌🏾 I think your ability to be vulnerable is one of your superpowers.
awwwww girl! this is so kind of you, thank you for watching through ☺
Love you Seyi. God's got this.
☺ thank you so so much! and He does!
Thanks for sharing ❤ I can't even begin to imagine what it was like to go through your mom's passing, but as someone looking in from the outside, you are doing amazing! I really enjoyed and resonated with this message and am excited for what comes in for you in this chapter of "starting over"! Sending you sm love!
Also, side note, you are so beautiful 🥹🫶🏾
awwwww Sabria!! this is so so kind of you. Thank you for taking the time to watch (and comment) and I'm so glad the message could resonate. appreciate you girl!
Always appreciate your transparency, Seyi! I feel this a lot. Our 30's are very odd and not at all what I expected. I am also restarting many things right now and I feel very worried. We have to trust the process and believe this is the plateau before the breakthrough ❤️ easier said than done thoughhhh. Appreciate you!
so much easier said than done 😅 but i think what actually helps is knowing that we aren't alone in this feeling. primarily why i wanted to talk more about this because as much as I love hearing about the breakthroughs and making it to the light at the end of the tunnel, i have personally felt led to not shy away from sharing while i'm still in what feels like a bit of darkness ya know. thank you so much for watching 🤗
You ARE and you HAVE and you’ve DONE. Thank you for this space of vulnerability and strength 🤍
This is so so kind 😭 thank you so so much for taking the time to watch and for the reminder ❤️
Cheers to being vulnerable on CZcams!! I personally think you’ll have more success with CZcams both internally and externally. The atmosphere, subscribers, energy, etc is on an entire different frequency than any other social media platform. I deeply appreciate you sharing this with us!! New subbie for sure❤ Just turned 30 a month ago 🤞🏽❤️
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch! And I do agree, I feel a bit more aligned with CZcams at the moment and have been loving showing up on here. Thank you for subbing!
Thanks for sharing... Sending you Love & Light❤
thank you so much for watching through! means so much 😊
Seyi! My love. You are probably one of the strongest people I know. Throughout these years you have showed up for everyone around you and have been honest, kind, selfless, and caring. That is strength! You’re an amazing woman, influencer, daughter, sister, confidant, and friend. I’m forever in awe of you and I can’t wait to see what the next chapter of your life looks like! Thank you for being vulnerable with all of us and taking us along your journey of life! 🤗 love you dearly!
love you even morreeee!! thank you for always listening to my vents...always ☺😂 and thank you for watching this video and for the constant encouragement you give to me. i'm so grateful for your friendship. it's a reminder that even through a tough season, i am blessed 😭 (and of course, i just love you for who you are 😊)
Have you considered doing therapy? I was a person who always had to plan ahead and didn’t like change. A lot of those qualities are actually anxiety. I have been in therapy for a couple years now and it has really helped me process a lot.❤
I have! it's something that's top of the list 2025. And also realized I deal with anxiety which was a fun realization, but we are pushing through!
"be honest with yourself" is a piece of advice that i've found the most helpful and at the same time, the absolute most difficult to grasp. there are so many ways the details of "yourself" can manifest, and without getting wayyyy too type-a, its really a complex equation of balancing what you are vs what you want to be vs what you prioritize (which may not all line up). then there's the constant nag of what the rest of "the world" (whoever that is) is doing, and resolving the concept of contentment vs complacency, consistency vs predictability, innovative vs genuine ... yeah it can get confusing. bottom line, you aren't alone. anyone who seems to have it all figured out is faking it. the heaviness of grief and loss will always be there, but like it or not, bearing that weight develops a strength that balances it out and gives you the ability to keep on going. along the way you learn to mute the noise of regret, and focus on the only thing that matters ... and that is what you do next. big ol thumbs up for this one! i loved it even tho it made me tear up. may God comfort you Seyi and you owe me a box of tissues haha
phew!!!! this is so wonderfully said. I've reread this over and over again and have come back to it once again. thank you so much for watching this video AND taking the time to share this because it literally describes everything that i've been thinking, especially the "balancing what you are vs what you want to be vs what you prioritize". and 😂 at the box of tissues!