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  • Supernanny Jo Frost tackles more challenging children. This week we see a young boy who has pushed his parents to the brink. Without having any break or any peace, they don't know what else they can do to control their sons rage.
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    From: Jo Frost: Extreme Parental Guidance S1 E3
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  • @pjschmid2251
    @pjschmid2251 Před 2 lety +73

    I think the mother of that overweight 10-year-old boy needs some sort of help herself. It’s like she’s stuck and depressed since her divorce and she needs to talk to somebody not just for herself but for the health of her child.

    • @Crazycatlady71
      @Crazycatlady71 Před 2 lety +9

      I agree. She needs time for herself away from Josh. While I love they r close, it's not healthy for either one of them to spend 24/7 together. They have become codependent. Hopefully, Josh has made some friends in his neighborhood and can move forward developmentally. Being around adults only isn't good. He's an adorable, well behaved, sweet young man. I hope the best for him and his sweet loving mom. I feel bad for mom bc she's lonely as well.

    • @babesmagee1
      @babesmagee1 Před 2 lety +4

      Right? Where's the dad taking his son out and helping her? If that's not going to happen then she has to get it done. I've been a single mom and it's not easy.

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 Před 2 lety +2

      She doesn't give Josh treats for his benefit but for her own. If she's making him happy *in the moment* it makes HER feel better and feel that she is a good mum because she's making him happy. However, part of being an adult is learning that you can't always have everything you want RIGHT NOW. It's called "delayed gratification." If she doesn't teach Josh this behaviour when he is young he's going to have a difficult time in the real world where he won't be given anything he wants just because he wants it.
      ETA: Mum's outlook on life would improve 100% if she took better care of herself and lost a few pounds, too!

  • @jaxsstrickland1443
    @jaxsstrickland1443 Před 2 lety +148

    I got freaked out that she was driving on the wrong side of the road. Then I remembered they drive on that side of the road. I will never get used to that 🤣

  • @CBDhotdog
    @CBDhotdog Před 2 lety +61

    Josh was such a sweetie I hope he’s doing okay now 🥺 I hope my future child is as sweet as he seemed to be! Loved seeing him pet the kitties :3

    • @seapilot33
      @seapilot33 Před 2 lety +4

      Same he is so cute and mad sweet

  • @huskylover7548
    @huskylover7548 Před 2 lety +167

    I love Jo. Nobody on the planet compares to this woman.

  • @crystalyeary1801
    @crystalyeary1801 Před 2 lety +31

    His mom said I can't make it better for him. Yes you can, stop over feeding him.

  • @tothelighthouse9843
    @tothelighthouse9843 Před 2 lety +16

    My god, that 'certified child minder' who yanks his ADHD son around by the arm, hauls him upstairs, throws him on the bed, towers over him & threatens him & just generally operates on an extremely short & aggressive fuse with his son. To me, a great deal of his son's aggressive & out of control behaviour is learned behaviour the son has acquired by watching & being on the receiving end of his own father's aggressive & dominating behaviour.

  • @lauraamick463
    @lauraamick463 Před 2 lety +54

    I’m kind of annoyed with regan’s family!! Guarantee he doesn’t like being that angry all the time, he doesn’t have a choice, because they won’t give him the meds he needs... and instead he gets in trouble for something he doesn’t want to be and can’t control. It’s a chemical imbalance!!

    • @mlmj1994
      @mlmj1994 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly.

    • @cordeliaface
      @cordeliaface Před 2 lety +8

      Emotional regulation is also a HUGE part of ADHD. It's not talked about much. I didn't even realize my own emotional regulation issues were ADHD until seeing a few videos on it from the HowToADHD channel.
      Hopefully, there will be more light shed on our experiences of the more obnoxious aspects of having ADHD as kids with ADHD grow into adults with ADHD who can help provide additional language and insight into this learning disability.
      It's also not just a chemical imbalance. People with ADHD have a pre-frontal cortex that takes more time to develop than it does for their neurotypical peers. Kids with ADHD will act in ways that are not appropriate for their age because their prefrontal cortex isn't as developed as their peers. They'll continue to blurt out "inappropriate" things or blurt out at "inappropriate" times for their age because their prefrontal cortex just has not caught up.

    • @mackereltabbie
      @mackereltabbie Před 2 lety +3

      They seem to be angry all the time as well, that's not helping

    • @angiepeterson1282
      @angiepeterson1282 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly. My son was similar when small, interventions were not effective, until after he was medicated and he could control his actions and responses better.

    • @kwarra-an
      @kwarra-an Před 8 měsíci

      It's not a chemical imbalance; it's a difference in physical brain structure. People with ADHD really are "wired" differently.

  • @heleenfolgering8557
    @heleenfolgering8557 Před 2 lety +77

    Completely shocked by the reactions of the young girls about bodysize. And ashamed to say I have just about the same thoughts. How did we get here? And how can we change it with images of skinny models everywhere we look?

    • @SweetJoye
      @SweetJoye Před 2 lety +1

      I was shocked too. I’ve never been overweight. Maybe even relatively small and I would always say, “I need to lose more inches off my tum.” I know I need to start to appreciate my healthy body more. It’s not about size but about health.

    • @frogsnack7072
      @frogsnack7072 Před 2 lety

      Revoke the powers that Disney has to govern themselves.

    • @AlfredTortelloni
      @AlfredTortelloni Před 2 lety

      @@frogsnack7072 Ahahahaha that would have literally no impact on this issue. Losing special status wouldn't suddenly subject them to Florida's strict media laws, because those aren't a thing. Good effort on the instigation, though!

    • @frogsnack7072
      @frogsnack7072 Před 2 lety

      @@AlfredTortelloni Why are you talking about media laws when no one has mentioned it?

  • @cordeliaface
    @cordeliaface Před 2 lety +39

    I wonder how much of Regan's "misbehaviour" is because he's feeling overstimulated. There's an awful lot of "shut up," and "leave me alone," and after he's removed from the situation, screamed his frustration out, he calms down. I doubt he has the language at that age to even say "Everything is really too loud," and even if he did, the parents aren't equipped to understand he isn't just talking about the external noise, but also the internal noise/static happening in his brain because they refuse to give him the medication he needs.

    • @Bigrlboi1
      @Bigrlboi1 Před 2 lety +1

      My nephew has ADD and my wife has both ADD and ADHD. They aren’t “over stimulated”!! That’s not how that works!! May want to research it better and understand what the difference is! Being over stimulated deals more with Autism and people who are on a high spectrum of autism and disorders like it. Add is more like being overly hyperactive, not being able to pay attention, can’t finish a project/game/work, can’t finish a full sentence, talks to fast etc! Nothing to do with being over stimulated. And it’s no excuse for a child even with ADD to go hitting their parents in the face!! And kicking people and slamming doors!! You should be nipping that in the bud period!! My wife doesn’t (or ever has!) go around throwing things, slamming doors or hitting people!! It’s just another sad excuse for parents to use and the kids like him abuse that and take advantage of it!

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Bigrlboi1 People with ADHD also suffer from oversensitivities with lights and certain sounds. Overcrowded areas with bright lights do indeed cause meltdowns with ADHD children who don't have coping mechanisms in place, and who are also emotionally stunted. My own daughter has ADHD and I work with students who have this plus other issues. Meltdowns happen, especially when they fixate on a problem and can't work through their emotions. Mental health diagnosis aren't cut and dry, black and white. What one person goes through may be vastly different than another with the same diagnosis, and it doesn't necessarily reflect on parenting style or medication/lack of. Of course they are influential but I'm just reiterating the fact that there isn't an immediate cure-all. Consider different sides and perspectives other than those of two people in your immediate life.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety

      You are very right. My child has sensory issues and immediately quips with tears and anger but we are working on coping mechanisms alongside meditation. She's come a long way, but we have taken mental health days off from school because of severe breakdowns in the morning.

    • @Bigrlboi1
      @Bigrlboi1 Před 2 lety

      @@absolutelyridiculous6743 Ok sure 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Try that I have it and I’m not “sensory” overloaded either 🤦‍♀️ I know tons that have adhd etc. My godson has autism (high spectrum) and shall I go on. No not everyone is the same. But to say that they do is wrong bc like my wife who is almost 40 years old will tell you, it’s not a sensory issue! It’s way different than what you think. Like my wife says, people who do not deal with the add/adhd daily, they have zero clue and they try to act like they do and they try to “diagnose” something bc they “work” with or “teach” with kids that have it and all of a sudden they know everything. And my wife says that’s the problem itself. She talks with me about stuff like this. I myself have multiple mental health disorders that I deal with daily. And I agree with my wife, people think bc someone has a certain disorder that that’s the only thing but it could be a whole other mental health issue that can trigger another one. Add/adhd is not a sensory disorder. Someone (like my wife!) with that can have what’s like a “brain overload” that has nothing to do with noise going on around them but rather it’s in their own heads that nobody else can hear!! Has nothing to do with the white noise etc. And it’s the same for a lot of people I know who have it. May want to not assume as to how many I know or not know that have it either just bc I gave a couple examples of those I know. You don’t need to know how many people I know that have it. My wife also has ptsd and other issues too since we obvs want to go there 🤦‍♀️ Just bc you work with people who have issues don’t mean you know everything that goes on. No not everything is cut and dry black and white! But still doesn’t give others a right to start diagnosing others especially when they don’t know what they go through on a 24 hour basis either.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Bigrlboi1 I'm not saying everyone. My daughter, along with several others I know, have sensory sensitivities with ADHD. If it doesn't apply to you, awesome sauce 🙄
      You don't seem to understand that in no way, shape, or form did I say absolutely everyone has sensory issues with ADHD. Why are you arguing against my personal experiences based solely off yours? 😒 Ignorance

  • @_HolyHell_
    @_HolyHell_ Před 2 lety +29

    These parents are setting this kid up for failure. If you don’t want to medicate him then fine, but these kids need significant help before they leave elementary school. I always wonder what my life could be like if I had gotten help earlier. I hate to see it happen to other people since I see myself in them and I know this kid if going to tear himself apart as he goes through middle and high school.

    • @littleblackcar
      @littleblackcar Před 2 lety +1

      This! They're making short-term decisions that are going to affect him for the rest of his life. He's the one who has to live with the consequences.

  • @karr1111
    @karr1111 Před 2 lety +32

    The 10 year old seems so sweet.

  • @fantasyrogue1996
    @fantasyrogue1996 Před 2 lety +17

    It's so sad that these girls are so worried about their weight. Even when they're already twigs, they think they're chubby. They're already beautiful girls as they are. Media makes us want to look like the stars we see. What sucks is that it's causing so much insecurity and sickness.

  • @ellen5245
    @ellen5245 Před 2 lety +27

    Josh is such a cutie. Sure god love him, I hope he’s doing well

  • @absolutelyridiculous6743
    @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety +5

    Josh is the sweetest lil man! I hope he's healthy and fitter nowadays.

  • @Yasmeen.AlHumood
    @Yasmeen.AlHumood Před 2 lety +4

    26:47 Tears are the most genuine expression of mankind. This is what I love most about Jo, her humanity.

  • @oliverthecuriouscatnice2264

    I love super nanny!!!! I’m grateful I don’t have to follow my parents lead and can look up to jo!!!

    • @bonniemullins6769
      @bonniemullins6769 Před 2 lety

      Same im a single mum andi watch Jo to help with advice a d follow through

  • @YenTube24
    @YenTube24 Před 2 lety +20

    Jo Frost is my hero. I love watching every episodes and try some of the things that are applicable to my kids' situation.

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 Před 2 lety +39

    The family with son with ADHD aren't having it easy. Wishing them the best on this road

  • @jordynniccole7434
    @jordynniccole7434 Před 2 lety +11

    As someone who comes from a generation of women with eating disorders, all it takes is one sentence of talking about bodies in a negative way for your child to internalize that and place that thinking onto their own body.
    A mom could be looking in the mirror trying on a new pair of jeans and say "oh good god i need to lose some weight, my stomach is too big for these pants!" It takes literally 1 time of saying something negative about bodies and your child will cling to it. We really need to be careful with what we say and how we think about our bodies as well as other people's, especially, especially men. Men often get left out of the eating disorder topic, but its more common than not for men to feel like their body is inadequate and not enough. We really need to change, and that change starts with how you view yourself.

    • @janedoe7229
      @janedoe7229 Před 2 lety

      I personally know this as when I was a teenager my brother made one statement that I promised myself I would eat very, very little. And I stuck to that promise for months going down to a mere bag of bones. How I know this.

    • @arbitrary_raspberry
      @arbitrary_raspberry Před 2 lety +1

      Yes the negative comments about my body i will remember forever, all the compliments i immediately forget. Its weird how the mind works.

    • @littleblackcar
      @littleblackcar Před 2 lety

      I know in retrospect that my mom dieted occasionally when I was a kid but I didn't notice at the time and she never, ever mentioned weight, dieting, etc., in front of us. I am ETERNALLY GRATEFUL for that.

  • @farhasyed599brovsbro
    @farhasyed599brovsbro Před 2 lety +8

    I feel bad for the twin brother @ 31:00, I hope he got recognized and praised for his good behavior often.

  • @MillennialMountainMama
    @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +28

    That mother and some of those girls have body dysmorphia and some of those girls have poor self image at such a young age. How eye opening and sad. 😢 I struggle with these issues as well.

  • @Biglifechange
    @Biglifechange Před 2 lety +3

    Omg Jo is a angel sent from heaven she helps every family she sees, what a amazing amazing woman.

  • @hussamtahir915
    @hussamtahir915 Před 2 lety +6

    32:03, his brother couldn’t help himself and used the opportunity for revenge 😂

  • @priestrat
    @priestrat Před 2 lety +7

    "I'd rather not have him on medication, I'd rather deal with it in a parental way" I understand her sentiment, and I'm glad she wants to try to help her son in a "natural" way. but at one point I think people need to understand that these medications are really there to help. Especially in such clear cases. He's going to feel much better with them, and he's going to be able to function. ADHD can be really awful if it's left untreated.

  • @user-kb9cu4rl9z
    @user-kb9cu4rl9z Před 2 lety +38

    Best of luck with the ADHD/ODD boy. He scares me. So much rage. Regan's parents have a long road ahead. I hope it goes well. His brother needs attention for being a nice boy. He gets ignored.
    Great to see Josh and his mom trying to get healthier. Would love to see a follow up on them. He's cute.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +2

      Why does he scare you?

    • @nutstobuttsgaming
      @nutstobuttsgaming Před 2 lety +9

      @@MillennialMountainMama Little lad screams like the devil himself.

    • @prtdiva
      @prtdiva Před 2 lety

      And that’s the issue. Children “scaring” adults. Discipline starts from the moment kids start forming sentences. Parents think it’s cute when 1-2 year olds fuss at them and tell them what they are and aren’t going to do. I think they’re setting themselves up for failure like these parents. It’s learned behavior. If I say no, it means no. Not maybe, sort of. And you don’t have to hit kids to get your point across. Firm “NOs” are very effective. Start this from day one and even if your child suffers from ADHD they’ll know when you mean business. Afraid of a child, pffff 🙄

    • @yume6166
      @yume6166 Před 2 lety

      @@nutstobuttsgaming Its because he gets treated the worst and wrongest he would need for his condition.. Speaking of a girl with adhd herself here

    • @Bigrlboi1
      @Bigrlboi1 Před 2 lety +2

      @@nutstobuttsgaming Lol I love your username 😂😂😂

  • @joeymarie72
    @joeymarie72 Před 2 lety +56

    She triggers his outbursts, alot. I'm sure Jo will notice that too. Edit: so does dad. Not on purpose of course.

    • @river8760
      @river8760 Před 2 lety +4

      Omg she totally does!

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +11

      Good thing Jo told the parents this and they realized their mistakes and changed for the better.

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird Před 2 lety +2

      I think she did, which is why she was getting them to count down quietly

    • @dakooter9
      @dakooter9 Před 2 lety +4

      When you have a child with ADHD, you have to change your behaviour pattern to accommodate the child’s needs because their mind doesn’t work quite the same way that it would in a normal child. Kids like Regan genuinely can’t help their behaviour, and it starts with the parents.

  • @frasersgirl4383
    @frasersgirl4383 Před 2 lety +13

    My nephew died in his late twenties because of a heart attack. He was morbidly obese. It’s the God’s truth that these kids die young.

  • @DoomsdayDame
    @DoomsdayDame Před 2 lety +20

    The little girls talking about how chubby girls look ugly with makeup on.. thats both heart breaking and disgusting at the same time. It was like listening to a group of bullies and they didn't even realize how mean they were being. :(

    • @shungite3446
      @shungite3446 Před 2 lety

      I assume its scripted, reality tv is never reality.

    • @Strazza-1110
      @Strazza-1110 Před 2 lety

      I thought it was that the little girls believed in a dumb stereotype that bigger ladies have no idea how makeup works or how to use the right colours to compliment their skin - but then Jo immediately proved them wrong! They must have picked it up from a dumb tv show or something lol. Kids tend to believe dumb things until they see otherwise

  • @martah5369
    @martah5369 Před 2 lety +7

    A shared portion of 'junk food' now and again sounds like a healthy relaxed way of doing it.

  • @amy2770
    @amy2770 Před 2 lety +7

    I love Jo, what a sweetheart🤗

  • @kalonuuchiha5670
    @kalonuuchiha5670 Před 2 lety +8

    My doctor told my parents I had ADHD when I was little and we went to a psychiatrist and they told my parents a lock me up in my room my parents never went back to psychiatrist because I also have Tourette’s anxiety and depression

  • @karr1111
    @karr1111 Před 2 lety +10

    These kids notice everything around them.

  • @mariajon6423
    @mariajon6423 Před 2 lety +6

    Poor dog at 5:20 looking like wtf wrong with you child

  • @tamrynns7692
    @tamrynns7692 Před 2 lety +5

    I never hit my mother and told her I hate u. I wouldnt be here today.
    .

  • @rachelace6102
    @rachelace6102 Před 2 lety +42

    Each of my parents had "The Look", and I knew where the boundaries were. It wasn't fear, just basic respect.

    • @rturney6376
      @rturney6376 Před 2 lety +6

      Right!! None of the families on Supernanny were capable of the look. I was very good to my nephew and we just had to look 👀 sad and disappointed 😔 and he didn’t want to upset us.

    • @lilianasaba9846
      @lilianasaba9846 Před 2 lety +1

      X-ray look. Very scary

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety

      💯

    • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
      @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 Před 2 lety

      So…fear.

    • @prtdiva
      @prtdiva Před 2 lety +2

      @@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 yeah fear. It’s better than hitting the child or letting them run wild. I was spanked ONCE in my entire life (and that’s because I spit on someone). My mom gave me the look with a firm tone and I listened. Being stern with kids and setting boundaries is necessary. Trying to be friends with your kids or never giving them any rules is setting them up for failure. Exhibit A, the ADHD kid in this video. If the parents had started boundaries early on he probably wouldn’t be this much of a mess. Would he still have some outbursts and have trouble focusing? Sure. Most kids do at this age. And especially with his diagnosis. But boundaries work wonders. I was a school psychologist for several years and I’ve worked with similar types of children. At school we were able to get these kids to do things they’d never do at home because of structure, “the look” and incentives. Being firm, or what you call “fear” isn’t necessarily a bad thing when used appropriately.

  • @loiscassels8966
    @loiscassels8966 Před 2 lety +56

    I thank God every day of my life that I don’t have children. And I’m 68.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +7

      Really? How sad. I feel sorry for you. Children are blessings.

    • @Viragomp
      @Viragomp Před 2 lety +23

      Good for you Lois! I have a grown daughter; she's the love of my life and always has been. But parenthood is not for everyone and you seem to have made the right choice for you. 👍

    • @loiscassels8966
      @loiscassels8966 Před 2 lety +31

      @@MillennialMountainMama No need to be sad. It’s not for everyone. I am perfectly content.

    • @loiscassels8966
      @loiscassels8966 Před 2 lety +27

      @@ShoyuRamenBreakingBad Having children is not a guarantee of care in the later years. Also not a reason to bring them into the world in the first case. It’s an unrealistic expectation.

    • @chickenmacnuggets100
      @chickenmacnuggets100 Před 2 lety +4

      @@loiscassels8966 lovely standpoint lois, i am 18 and feel quite the same way in some ways! Be happy and healthy, xx

  • @dianneorosco9388
    @dianneorosco9388 Před 2 lety +2

    Well done ✔ for willing to achieve your goal for your child

  • @mariecampbell3373
    @mariecampbell3373 Před 2 lety +1

    Nanny Jo is changing the world.

  • @HappyGnoux
    @HappyGnoux Před rokem

    Josh is such a cute and kind kid! I hope they managed to get him healthy again so he can enjoy being a kid. Such a sweet child =)

  • @river8760
    @river8760 Před 2 lety +9

    Must be super fun to be their neighbour 😅

  • @amandawitherspoon5225
    @amandawitherspoon5225 Před 2 lety +14

    Putting your child in their bedroom with all of their toys is not a punishment.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety

      So would you rather the child run a muck in the living room disturbing the entire family?

    • @amandawitherspoon5225
      @amandawitherspoon5225 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MillennialMountainMama They could put him in their bedroom so that he would be bored.

  • @OnlySlams
    @OnlySlams Před 2 lety +23

    I feel like Reagans dad is like one instance away from beating him

  • @ababy6074
    @ababy6074 Před rokem

    ADHD is going to become even more common. It's a terrible thing, and very difficult to manage. I'm a woman with anorexia; I've had it since I was thirteen and now I'm forty. I love you Supernanny. xox

  • @SolvingYourProblemRightNow
    @SolvingYourProblemRightNow Před 2 lety +16

    If the world would loose all them 'bigger' girls... That's a world I don't want to be living in....

  • @dancechica
    @dancechica Před 2 lety +8

    It's so sad that these girls at all ages want to be super skinny and think they are fatter than they are

  • @carolharris2357
    @carolharris2357 Před 2 lety +3

    I did that to my daughter when she was always making her brother late to school. I drove off without her and when I got back she was MAD. But she was on time after that. I forgot what is Crisps?

    • @jkishhabi
      @jkishhabi Před 2 lety +1

      Crisps in the UK are what we call potato chips in the US.

  • @nancymonroe181
    @nancymonroe181 Před 2 lety +1

    The boy with adhd gives me mike tv from Charlie the chocolate factory vibes

  • @veronikahellsnova7510
    @veronikahellsnova7510 Před 2 lety +1

    The family with son with adhd ,wi always medication that will not always solved the problem,if you are feeding your child with junk and procest food in a young age that is not helping them ,a good healty balanced meal and they need to expand their energy .i hope he is better today

  • @rachaelkeach24
    @rachaelkeach24 Před 2 lety +9

    Best thing I did was put mine on meds, he has friends, not constantly being yelled at, doing good at school. He calls them his thinking tablets. He hates being off his meds, says he can’t think. He’s a dream on meds. Just wish they were 24/7….. also my son doesn’t sleep more than few hours a night. Much better for my son to have friends and be happy than constantly alone and in trouble yelled at his whole life…..

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +3

      I agree that unqualified people who I like to call the no medication nazis are not helpful to people who actually need medication and the medication is helpful to them.

    • @cordeliaface
      @cordeliaface Před 2 lety +3

      People with ADHD tend to go through sleep phases. Either we sleep too much, or not enough.
      I can tell you, from my own issues, I struggle to fall asleep at the right time some nights (as a grown adult). Sometimes a nightlight helps, sometimes having the podcast "Sleep with Me" on a super low volume (low enough I can hear Scooter talking, but not so loud I can make out every single word Scooter says), sometimes 8D music helps (requires either headphones or stereo speakers). Sometimes I just give up and stay awake and suffer with being tired the next day.

    • @lilia3944
      @lilia3944 Před 2 lety +1

      Oh yeah, I started taking meds and was shocked by how quiet my head can be - it's like my whole life has been in a uge storm, and now I'm in the eye of the hurricane. It won't ever be perfect, but it's so much easier to deal with.

  • @stancexpunks
    @stancexpunks Před 2 lety +10

    I like how they made josh bald in the 20 years from now pic lol

  • @pamfink4052
    @pamfink4052 Před 2 lety +2

    Nanny Jo, my niece really needs your help! Her 3 yr old son is out of control and she lets him get his way 99.9% of the time!!

    • @Bigrlboi1
      @Bigrlboi1 Před 2 lety +1

      There’s the problem itself! Who’s the parent?!?! Her child or her!! Should be her period! Take back control and don’t give in to everything.

    • @321MjC
      @321MjC Před 2 lety +1

      That's literally the issue...🙄🥴
      PROBLEM SOLVED!!

  • @ilonacharlton1144
    @ilonacharlton1144 Před rokem

    The mum feeling guilty about sharing a serve of fish and chips... good! Let it be a little 'guilty' pleasure every once in a while. Changing their lifestyle as dramatically as they both have doesn't mean you can never have the foods you love, it's about realising that it's an occasional treat not an everyday food.

  • @josephfraser6655
    @josephfraser6655 Před 2 lety

    I think Jo should go on a fitness journey of her own

  • @lindahearson8792
    @lindahearson8792 Před 2 lety +3

    I can't understand how parents can do this to their child

  • @IntersexCreature
    @IntersexCreature Před 2 lety +2

    30:09 “no❤️”

  • @karr1111
    @karr1111 Před 2 lety +12

    Awwwww my heart breaks for this 10 year old.

  • @thatlittlegingerr
    @thatlittlegingerr Před 2 lety +2

    I feel a bit sad that ADHD always gets associated with temper tantrums and anger issues.. it's not always like that

  • @terridemaio2926
    @terridemaio2926 Před 2 lety

    Like this show to Any thing with Jo jo

  • @RunPlayHaveFun
    @RunPlayHaveFun Před 2 lety +9

    I teach 4-6 year olds. I can say without a doubt that I believe the initial reaction to the photos (for the majority of the children in this age group) is most likely because they have very little clothes on. It is not that they are disgusted with their weight. In the classroom the students with the loudest voices and the ones who are actually brave enough to speak are the ones who get their opinions heard. One girl said something about weight and then they all agreed, but that doesn't mean that is why they were all originally expressing disgust for that reason (the person's weight). So... just because they all say eww doesn't mean they are saying that in reaction to their weight. It is very likely they are saying that in reaction to the amount of skin being shown.

  • @marvinmartinsYT
    @marvinmartinsYT Před 2 lety +13

    Free range kids. Worst parental idea I’ve seen.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Před 2 lety +1

      Why? I don’t do it however I don’t understand why people are so against it. It’s not like it’s child abuse, it’s just a different way of parenting your child. The key here is your child. Why others tell parents what to do with their own children is beyond me.

    • @marvinmartinsYT
      @marvinmartinsYT Před 2 lety +4

      @@MillennialMountainMama No discipline. No order.

    • @martah5369
      @martah5369 Před 2 lety

      I would assume emotional availability and consistency is more important than amount or lack of rules. I think you can be a good or bad parent regardless of your views on this.

    • @marvinmartinsYT
      @marvinmartinsYT Před 2 lety

      @@martah5369 Actually. Both as important as each.

    • @martah5369
      @martah5369 Před 2 lety

      @@marvinmartinsYT god jul🌲

  • @nesiebee
    @nesiebee Před 2 lety +7

    It's that look you can give a kid that makes them want to be an 😇 have a second thought about acting out

    • @pamfink4052
      @pamfink4052 Před 2 lety +2

      My now 15 yr old great niece learned that look from me a long time ago lol. I helped raise her, so she was with me a lot when she was little and I expected her to behave like a civilized human being, not a brat throwing tantrums, etc

  • @tigeress699
    @tigeress699 Před 2 lety +3

    Am I the only one who think the narrator's voice sounds like Noel Fielding?

  • @Yayomeow
    @Yayomeow Před 2 lety +2

    Jo is beautiful

  • @amandawitherspoon5225
    @amandawitherspoon5225 Před 2 lety +10

    There needs to be a show like this for the teenagers there that drink, smoke, and get pregnant.

  • @elizabethvanderhorst3916
    @elizabethvanderhorst3916 Před 2 lety +5

    I suffer from ADHD since I was young

  • @zoettesy9676
    @zoettesy9676 Před 2 lety

    I understand the twelve year olds, the internet and all. But the nine and six year olds? No! I was going to cry. I tutor little kids round 5-8 and gosh, they're just kids!

  • @P0IS0N.
    @P0IS0N. Před 2 lety +6

    How to get the kids to behave...just get my mom😰💀😬

  • @AlfredTortelloni
    @AlfredTortelloni Před 2 lety +2

    Okay, why does the Josh in 20 years have to be bald?

  • @buddya.k.apeter
    @buddya.k.apeter Před 2 lety +1

    I hope i meet jo frost in real life

  • @sheluvkami8122
    @sheluvkami8122 Před 2 lety +3

    i had a different kind of ADHD then cause i was more of quiet sneaky thriller slasher movie

    • @babesmagee1
      @babesmagee1 Před 2 lety +2

      Maybe just add then without the hyperactivity.

  • @karr1111
    @karr1111 Před 2 lety +3

    I really should write a book about how to parent because many parents don’t know how to parent.

  • @karr1111
    @karr1111 Před 2 lety +8

    This boy just needs medication and some direction and he will be good

    • @cordeliaface
      @cordeliaface Před 2 lety +3

      Yup. Medication, routines, very clear cut expectations, and active parenting would turn that "problem" child into an angel. Will he still make bad choices? Oh yeah. Part of that is being a kid, part of that is the impulsivity or time blindness of ADHD.
      Instead of "Time for bed!" Start with a routine. "Hey, we're going to be doing bath at 7pm. There is a clock in your room. Here is a visual timer as well that will count down to 7pm. I will remind you again at 6:30p and 6:45p. 6:45p is when you will need to reach a point where you can pause in whatever you are doing, take out your pajamas, find your towels, find your bath supplies, and start getting ready for a bath or a shower. After your bath/shower, it will be time for a bed time story, and then you are expected to be in your room after that. You don't have to go to sleep right away, but you do need to be quiet. At 9pm, lights need to be turned off. There is a clock and a visual timer by your bed to help you keep track of time."

  • @Metonymy1979
    @Metonymy1979 Před 2 lety +1

    Sad

  • @oOSabbyOo
    @oOSabbyOo Před 2 lety +1

    I swear some of these kids don't need a Supernanny, they need an exorcist

  • @rayemartineau8644
    @rayemartineau8644 Před 2 lety

    💓👍👀 4/26/22

  • @kitmc5855
    @kitmc5855 Před rokem

    Jo Frost herself is overweight. how good an example is this?

  • @kitmc5855
    @kitmc5855 Před 2 lety +2

    Well thats great considering his mum and Jojo are overweight....hello

  • @kitmc5855
    @kitmc5855 Před rokem

    So what's your BMI Jo ?????

  • @SolvingYourProblemRightNow

    Meds my *ss! A good and healthy and productive outlet combined with routine, discipline and reward!

    • @Tarotlynx
      @Tarotlynx Před 2 lety +8

      Medication is necessarry.

    • @Tarotlynx
      @Tarotlynx Před 2 lety +9

      Medication is necessary. The rest of it matters, too, but the condition does need meds.

    • @babesmagee1
      @babesmagee1 Před 2 lety +1

      How many kids with ADHD are you currently successfully parenting?

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety

      @@Tarotlynx Agreed!

  • @tamrynns7692
    @tamrynns7692 Před 2 lety +1

    So rude to not even say hello

  • @gabiwonderwall0582
    @gabiwonderwall0582 Před 2 lety

    It is so sweet, when Regan kisses Jo.

  • @summernorman8456
    @summernorman8456 Před 2 lety +7

    There's kids who are very skinny that get picked on for it and told they need to gain some weight. Not all kids want to be skinnier. Kids who are underweight get made fun of alot too and then later on in life can develope an obsession with food and end up not healthy at all and it's very damaging to their mental health as well. I wish there were more cases like that because otherwise it's just biased

  • @shaunanacole
    @shaunanacole Před 2 lety +3

    My son was "diagnised" with ADHD several years ago. I didn't put him on medication, just a couple of select vitamins daily. He NEVER acted anything like that! Never flipped out, or yelled and screamed, or hit people very aggressively. I don't agree that ADHD is an excuse for your child ridiculously bad behavior. He needs a good old country whoopin!!

    • @pamfink4052
      @pamfink4052 Před 2 lety

      My friends twin boys who are now 21 were labeled with ADHD, aspbergers, etc as young kids, put on meds but never really made to mind, mom babied them, wouldn't let dad discipline them and even know they are out of control. They broke her arm when she tried to break up a fight between them; she got slammed into a porch post. Police have been to her home many times, one has a police record, was on house arrest, couldn't live in the same home as his brother. A family member of theirs who is a great, great grandma in her own right said they didn't need meds, they needed the "good old country whooping" and I think she was right. Unfortunately I see my three year old great nephew heading down the same path already. He throws things, hits, screams, throws himself down and has tantrums -including in the middle of a parking lot! Dad tries to make him mind, but mom gives in so she doesn't have to hear his fits.

  • @priscillafrederick4653

    Children learn alot at home..saying ewe to a bigger child..not kool

  • @antoniusgehtdinixo1545
    @antoniusgehtdinixo1545 Před 2 lety +4

    Ob da Jo Forster die richtige ist???Sie hat auch ein wenig Übergewicht Für solche Themen wie Übergewicht ist sie Defenetiv nicht die richtige??Für Themen wie Kindererziehung schon ..Schade das sie keine eigenen Kindwr hat !!!!😴🧠😢

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety

      She made the choice to not be a healthier weight, but children do not. It's up to the parents, and when they fail their children's quality and quantity if life fails. Jo absolutely has the ability and right to tell these parents what they need to do, but it's up to doctors and dieticians to help them in the process. Jo just shocks them into realization.

  • @kelseyg0420
    @kelseyg0420 Před 2 lety +3

    a chemical imbalance in a little child……🤔

    • @babesmagee1
      @babesmagee1 Před 2 lety +3

      Do you even know how brains work? Apparently not if you're stumped by this.

  • @tamrynns7692
    @tamrynns7692 Před 2 lety +1

    Jo is beautiful