Not Wanting to Date an Overweight Person is FATPHOBIC
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- čas přidán 16. 01. 2023
- Wanting to date someone that takes care of their health is fatphobic?? Clip from Daily Swole 2426. • Daily Swole Podcast #2...
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She's so privileged assuming that the people at the gym can afford therapy. For many people the gym is therapy. And it's much cheaper.
Working out is a powerful antidepressant…
@Lady Hawke working out has helped tremendously with my depression way better then antidepressants
lol my insurance that i get for my disability pays for my GYM membership! i use the gym instead of paying for not necessary mental therapy! i do admit i used mental therapy for over two years but got to a point where it wasn't necessary since i made the needed changes in my life to do better
Exactly. $30 for a month at LA Fitness vs $50 a session with a therapist lol. Plus all the added physical and social benefits of the gym.
I pay $140 a month for a personal trainer and gym membership. When I was looking for a therapist, most were in the $200 per hour range. Crazy!
I have gained more from working out than I ever did from men's groups and counselors.
But, that being said, it's still nice to talk to someone about your shit.
Why would you date someone who quite obviously has radically different interests than you?! (In her case... Pretty sure she's thirsty for a built guy to show off as her boyfriend and is bitter about her dream being crushed by reality.)
A lot of fat chicks like to admire built bros but not put in the work
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The ugly truth, but it is the truth
God, it's like trauma and therapy is something to be proud of with these people. like they need to trumpet it every single time.
My husband and I have both been overweight in the past when we met I was 300 lbs I had lost 200lbs before I met him. He was one of my biggest supporters and we have both talked about wanting to be with partners that are healthy and not obese because we want a long life together.
But you seem to have similar interests. It is not about breaking up because someone is fat, but maybe it's a symptoms of depression or something.
I hope you don't feel insecure upon watching this. Men sometimes say things a little harder than necessary
@Mathis Sveistrup I was diagnosed with severe clinical depression, cptsd, and severe anxiety before I met my husband. I am very lucky to have found an amazing support system. But I also had to learn to love myself and decide what I wanted for my future health. Everyone deserves love and support 💯 that's part of the reason I became a certified personal trainer and my motto is health and fitness for every BODY 💪 Everyone deserves a cheerleader
That's awesome that you want to change and be better and healthier. The woman in this clip was shaming men if they would choose to break up with a woman if she gained a lot of weight and you can tell by her attitude she's trying to present that as being not a good reason to break up over. However I see it differently. I am a very fit, lean and health conscious guy and for me it's not just about looks it's about having the same or similar values and goals. I wouldn't likely start dating an overweight woman, possibly if I knew she was very committed and driven to lose all the weight but because of my preferences when it comes to looks it's very unlikely I will be attracted to her during her overweight state. I don't think that's shallow
Racism is it's own issue. "Fatphobia" is not directly related to racism and it's disrespectful for white women to constantly throw racism in the conversation to shield them from the fact that they have shallow arguments. It can be true that "fatphobia" effects some black people but that does not make it, itself racism.
Women like this are perpetual victims. It's not their weight that makes them revolting, it's their attitudes.
I’m not attracted to death or unwellness.
Shit , I had guys who wouldn't date me because of my tattoo . There are other fishes in the sea . You shouldn't force someone to want you . Also in a witchy view you can't force love/ relationship . It has come to an honest heart...
I really despise people who think that people having preferences are toxic or fatphobic. I wouldn't want to date an overweight, unhealthy woman. No women who are obese are pretty. Fact.
This woman makes a huge movement every day. A bowel movement.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is your daily reminder to go to the fucking gym.
"Yes, I'm overweight and not healthy... probably shaving years off my life... and I'm ok with that because this is my passion."
-probably every world's strongest man competitor ever
So sick of the victim mentality. If she got up and MOVED she wouldn’t have time to sit there and have ridiculous conversations with other self made victims.
I don’t date people who have their own gravitational pull.
What happened to personal preferences? Recently, i refused to date 2 ladies, 1 of them has HSV-1 and the other has Vitiligo. Am i disease-phobic or am i just expressing a personal preference?! Women choose all day not to date fat bald brokies so why not men are allowed to have preferences as well?! 🤷🏻♂️
@@oldoakenbucket2025 She disclosed that, before the 2nd time we were about to get intimate; so she didn’t warn me the 1st time, her excuse was that she wasn’t expecting us to get intimate that 1st time, she wasn’t planning on it but things just happened! 🤨
I got myself out of a personal slump where my mental idea of myself broke because of a relationship that didn't work. I started working out again and just kept going taking it one day at a time. I made progress physically and started to realize how much mental health can be tied to physical health in the way I looked and felt. The stronger I became, the better I looked. I feel like making progress made me mentally feel better about everything. It fortified my mind and body.
Also, I hate to be this way..... but it will be way less annoying when these people all have heart attacks at 35
Going to a therapy appointment isn't a lot of work, and it doesn't help much unless you are also working on yourself while you're not at your weekly or fortnightly appointment. I am in long term therapy myself and have to go into a psych hospital every now and then as my insurance doesn't cover transcranial magnetic stimulation as an outpatient. There are people who are regularly in there with no improvement of their symptoms because they just take their medication and see a therapist every now and then. Unless you spend time trying to understand why you are and to change the way you think then you're not gonna get better. More than anything these people use mental illness and therapy as a cop out or excuse for being lazy, an asshole, or not achieving anything. You should just recognise that you might have to work a little harder than the average person to function, not excuse yourself from functioning altogether. These people give me the shits.
She's offended by the gym guy having standards but would also never in a million years date an obese man. The double standards are hilarious
The therapy talk is so right. Ive been in it since 2021, but it took like 3 of them to find the right one and only in meeting the right one has the progress shown bc he pushed me to bring up bad things, to read into coping skills, find what worked for me. And when I committed to the change, ONLY THEN did everything start to regulate. I live with bipolar 2. Sticking to the work I put in therapy and now finally committing to the gym again too has everything gotten better. Not saying everyday is a great day. But I can handle the bad days. And when the depression hits or when the high energy irritability hits, the gym becomes my outlet.
Yup, you hit the nail on the head about therapy.
I've never talked to a therapist that could tell me something i didn't already know and wasn't already working on. Exercise and doing activities and hobbies i love are my therapy.
As someone with mental issues I just wanted to say that the gym actually does make me feel better than talk therapy. I just go to both because in my situation it gives me the best benefits! Talk it out then go work it out! I love it!
Can vouch my ex has been going to therapy his whole life he’s 36 . 😂 he still hasn’t been able to work , have friends , have a stable relationship, because let’s say if therapy was the magic cure … he wouldn’t be like that still 😂
I went to therapy when I was younger because I have Bipolar disorder and have trauma. But I stopped going to therapy because I learned how to heal and cope. My therapist was amazing and that was her goal. Her goal was to help me until I didn't need it anymore. She also ENCOURAGED me to workout and encouraged me to eat well! She encouraged me to get out and go on hikes and meditate. I did all of those things and I found myself having an easier time coping with my issues. It's very rewarding to actually put effort into yourself. These people will never benefit from therapy if their therapist is an enabler which that's how it seems.
People want to date other people who match their energy. People who work out regularly want to be with people who, if they don't work out regularly, at least know how to take care of themselves. This woman is delusional. If she wants a fit guy, she needs to spend a little time in the gym herself.
Why would I date someone I'm not attracted to exactly 🤔⁉️
Exercise IS therapy.
god i love these breakdowns
She, trying to use the BMI argument of comparing muscle to fat 🤦.
True story, I'm a big advocate against obesity and I shit you not.
Someone said you " you must hate black woman" and I was just shocked that being anti obese was being anti black.
100% agree mate, therapy is just a tool, but it doesn’t work alone.
Funny how all of them are disabled but completely unrelated to a body size.
Yup this is reality now where people who take care of themselves, and actually put in the work to fix their problems are shamed, and unhealthy people who rather complain about their problems non stop are praised truly sad
It's like people might like people with like qualities and enjoy doing things they like to do as well.
Well take care of ya health and slim down
I feel dumber after watching that
What bothers me the most about this video is her clear assumption that Fit (read: "skinny") people, don't go to therapy as well. That just because we work on health, fitness and yes, esthetic, that there isn't any emotional or personal work occurring at the same time. It's like in her world, if you go to the gym, that's all there is to you, but if you diverge from that lifestyle, you are somehow inherently a more introspective and better person? I do agree that therapy can be extremely beneficial, but only if you are radically honest with yourself. I go to therapy and it is WORK, because I'm honest with myself and my therapist and I want to get better. I also go to the gym, adhere to my program and eat appropriately for my fitness goals. Because I'm accountable for that shit and I used to be overweight. Honestly, she seems so bigoted herself. The fact that she can't see that is astounding. I'd even call her "FITPHOBIC"!!! The fitphobia thing is something I have encountered many times since my lifestyle change almost 4 years ago. I really hope this person can learn to be as introspective and thoughtful as she claims to be and can recognize her own blind spots in the future. And hey, people are allowed to be attracted to whomever they want. People naturally find different physical and personality attributes to be attractive and it's not wrong to NOT be attracted to someone.
Man I laughed with your reaction, so disrespectful yet hilarious 😊 But I can't blame you, this woman is crazy...
P. S. What can a gym guy and an obese girl find in common? Different hobbies, different food choices, different perspectives... It can't last for long. Love from Greece
I dont get why its considered a phobia? We aren't afraid of overweight people, we just aren't attracted or interested in dating them lol
No therapy= more money for protein bars and energy drinks🤣🤣. Caffeine IS my therapy. *chef's kiss*
Try a healthy diet and regular exercise before as therapy.
I think she has rosacea. I have the same problem I can't go out when Sun is too hot or if it's too cold
i would never date her. not because of the weight. I wouldnt date her because i avoid narcissist like the plague.
Another one just jumping through hoops to alleviate any sort of responsibly, I find it funny that they act like they're just born in a magically bigger body.
Like no take some responsibility for yourself and you are not entitled to anyone having to date you.
Hey Swolio, I have recently found your channel like 2 weeks ago, when it comes to my food after my training,, I always eat rice with pork belly or chicken. is that still as good as a steak ?
No. Eat some beef!
Pappa s got a point find the therapist that wants you to be ready to leave. Not like push you outta the door but the one that asked. Do you feel you need to see me as often? Do you think you have the tools you need to go on your own. 😊 like a good trainer you have the form and the mentality go to the gym! Go Do it yourself
Remember, prefrences are pure evil to these people.
Therapists are like Doctors in hospitals they only treat with prescription medications to keep you coming back.
Excess fat is impractical and makes doing the nasty nastier (in a bad way) and harder, wouldn't want that
She did not worth The World’s Strongest Man. She obviously doesn’t understand why they are so fat. They have to be. She doesn’t want to address both Halfthor Bjornsson and Eddie Hall and what they look like now that they’re not World’s Strongest Man competitors.
Bro these people must hate you so much 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣I can't imagine how much they cry about it
give me a break, if you want to put effort money is not an issue. You have legs? then walk. it is free, clears your mind and it is a great exercise
As someone who’s had trauma in their own life, I take offense to the response that being overweight is a result of trauma. It’s not about what happened to you, it’s about your respond to what happened to you. Emotionally eat or go the gym. Life is made up of CHOICES. AND!! This is America, you can find free therapy and use that money to go the gym. As individuals, we are where we are because of the choices we’ve made. Make 👏🏻 New 👏🏻 Choices!
Therapy?! I needed therapy…. I also go to the gym. I don’t blame therapy on preventing me from living my life and doing what I needed to do!
The self hatred these people have is impressive 😂😂
Agreed... Imagine going for a walk... while their huffing and puffing trying to keep or trying to F**k. Or even going somewhere to eat... When all you intake is crap food. NOPE.
I'm sorry but that would cramp my style ...
You want to be workout buddies and learn something cool..
But if you ain't on the level ... It's not feasible.
Let's be honest. Men have evolved to seek out healthy women and being OBESE is not part of that.
I am going to slightly disagree with you on the therepy part. A great therepist actually tries to help you. Some of them are in it for the money but you cannot throw a blanket statement over everyone. Secondly there is more than enough people who are depressed so that they have no need to care if you return or not.
I'd love to see her respond to this vid lmao
Being the strong man isn't exactly healthy ... like what's her logic.
Having similar interests as your partner is a bad thing now?
Okay, to be fair, you could ask one of the fat people in the gym. Actually, it'd be cool to see if such a person's opinion changes after a couple years of going to the gym.
😂😅
New game! Do a burpee every time they cry racism when talking about something that has nothing to do with race.
Well ya. Same. The gym is very important to me and taking care of yourself. So i wouldn't date a fat person either
Why is her cheeks so red?
@Moo That sounds rather unpleasant.
New goldfish
I dont care if someone is fat but anyone who identifies as a feminists i wouldnt talk to 😂
And all women wouldn't talk to you 😂
🙊😅😂🤣😭🙊😅😂🤣😭🙊😅😂🤣
Call me fatphobic then.
I think this tok, must be her/it punking us, can’t be real.
I’d like to see one of these people be forced to date someone who they do not find suitable or attractive, what will they say then ? 🙄
Whining on tiktok is not work
Most of them make money
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They are going to therapy to say "I am going to therapy". Some are there because there families make them go. They are there to be there. They think being there by itself fixes the problem. When, like you said, they are supposed to put in outside or "homework" into it and they don't.