STYLING CURLY HAIR DO'S & DON'TS for volume and definition | Jayme Jo

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  • čas přidán 5. 03. 2020
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    Hey curly cuties! This video was SO much fun to film and I am so happy with how it all worked out. Let me know if these DO's and DON'Ts helped you out!
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  • @diinaauwk2428
    @diinaauwk2428 Před 4 lety +22765

    DON'Ts :
    1. Don't ditch your shampoo
    2. Don't let your hair dry in a cotton towel
    3. Don't style your hair on dry curls
    4. Don't brush dry curls
    5. Don't soak your curls to style them
    6. Don't apply thick products on the roots of your hair
    7. Don't over apply mousse nor pull it through your curls
    8. Don't pull the denman brush downwards
    9. Don't use your diffuser on high heat and start playing/ touching your curls while it's still wet
    10. Don't pull your hair while diffusing it
    11. Don't shake damp hair aggressively
    12. Don't put your hair in tight buns, or brush your dry curls
    DOs :
    1. Clean your scalp ( shampoo, condition, sea salt scrub)
    2. Let your hair dry in a tshirt
    3. Put your hair in a bun until it's damp
    4. Brush your hair only when it's damp
    5. Make sure your hair is damp but not dripping wet
    6. Focus on your crown too
    7. Strart small with products and apply from the mid lengths down
    8. Use your denman brush BEFORE mousse, pull away from scalp
    9. Scrunch your mousse into your curls
    10. Use your diffuser after 10 minutes from styling your hair
    11. Focus on roots in circular motions
    12. After your hair is dry from the diffuser, lightly shake it to separate the curls
    13. Softly separate curl clumps with your fingers
    14. Gently shake your hair from roots only for more volume
    _____
    LIKE THIS FOR EVERYONE TO SEE

  • @starhill6792
    @starhill6792 Před 3 lety +12721

    Your don’ts are literally how my hair looked every day of middle school.

    • @saschavest
      @saschavest Před 3 lety +300

      Same. This girl with thick straight hair I was friends with asked me why I pit so much gel in my hair....I told her because it's frizzy lol I didnt have many curly hair friends and my mom tried helping but no matter what my hair was FRIZZY to me. When I was 19 I started to let it go and I was so happy how my hair felt and looked, it was a game changer lol I was wondering why I never just let it go when I was in middle school and how gross my hair actually felt in that time LOL ew!

    • @angelaemily4159
      @angelaemily4159 Před 3 lety +302

      That's how my hair looks now😭

    • @kiaradenese1272
      @kiaradenese1272 Před 3 lety +22

      Sameeee

    • @layalshafee4700
      @layalshafee4700 Před 3 lety +26

      CRUNCHY

    • @remasalhawari8077
      @remasalhawari8077 Před 3 lety +66

      I am a sophomore and this is EXACTLY how my hair looks aaaah I am losing hope on my next wash day I’ll try all her do’s

  • @yunhotaco
    @yunhotaco Před 3 lety +1248

    your dont hair looks like my hair when i think it’s “curly and thriving” 😭

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 Před 3 lety +32

      Lmao relatable content - did her tips help you, though? I'm gonna try them out today and see what happens!

    • @dadscold
      @dadscold Před 3 lety +7

      @@mollytaylor8122 did they help?

    • @sarkastikobserver2842
      @sarkastikobserver2842 Před 3 lety +5

      @@mollytaylor8122 hey, did they help?

    • @sarkastikobserver2842
      @sarkastikobserver2842 Před 3 lety +29

      Why is this so painfully true? 💀

    • @anupamaca6158
      @anupamaca6158 Před 3 lety +29

      Ikr ;-; the oily side was like a slap on the face

  • @anastasakhhhh
    @anastasakhhhh Před 3 lety +415

    My curls are destroyed and i tried this...from the first time i saw results and i almost cried from my happiness...i used to hate my curly hair because i was different from the others because of it but now i really appreciate the gift that life gave me

  • @evemcpherson97
    @evemcpherson97 Před 4 lety +4883

    ok but why is my routine literally her donts fml

    • @moznaaissa2411
      @moznaaissa2411 Před 4 lety +52

      SAME

    • @AliciaMartha
      @AliciaMartha Před 4 lety +27

      LOL same

    • @jbb2009
      @jbb2009 Před 4 lety +118

      same > . < it's so hard to learn as an adult who never learned as a child lol

    • @akbueno9633
      @akbueno9633 Před 4 lety +11

      Mine is to because i have a very different hair texture.Like mousse its a big no no for my hair and the denman brush makes my hair curls even tighter,wich i dont like. my hair is 3c/4a.

    • @nN-fk1ws
      @nN-fk1ws Před 4 lety +2

      SAMEE but less Exaggerated

  • @kmdn1
    @kmdn1 Před 4 lety +4845

    Neither of my parents have curly hair so they had NO IDEA how to care for curly hair and make it look nice! They used to believe it was fuzzy, frizzy and messy looking because I *didn't* want brush it and they would make me brush it! It turned me into a tramautized fuzzball and I grew up hating my curly hair because it just looked horrible my entire childhood, especially when they would make sure I "brushed out the tangles.."

    • @sannawyome
      @sannawyome Před 4 lety +197

      kmdn1 omg i can relate soooooo muchhh!!!

    • @terragrahamthefirst
      @terragrahamthefirst Před 4 lety +187

      The most relatable thing I’ve ever read

    • @rebecasandoval498
      @rebecasandoval498 Před 4 lety +236

      My mom had good intentions, but would fight me so much when I did NOT want her to brush my hair and turn it into a massive pooff. It made us fight for years and years until she gave up on me. She still thinks I looks hella dishevelled but I’m an adult now so 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @aaazzure
      @aaazzure Před 4 lety +6

      kmdn1 ou girl I’m so sorry

    • @kamilkakop
      @kamilkakop Před 4 lety +11

      It’s almost the same for me but my dad used to have an Afro so I have type 3a-3b hair but my mom actually tries to help so I’m really grateful^ω^

  • @trashuqueen
    @trashuqueen Před 3 lety +370

    I’m 16 and literally no one ever taught me how to properly take care of my curls until right now
    I do every single “Don’t” thinking this was how to do my hair, yet I always wondered why it couldn’t get volume
    Hell, I didn’t knew what was a diffuser until now thinking it was like a bigger blow dryer, thank you so much for making this!! I’ll try to take these tips now❤️❤️❤️

    • @mine8194
      @mine8194 Před rokem +3

      Omg sameee, I do every single dont

    • @cadence1055
      @cadence1055 Před rokem +1

      SAME ‼️‼️

    • @airheadedness
      @airheadedness Před rokem +1

      Me too! My mom had no clue how to deal with my curls.

    • @becksy8129
      @becksy8129 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Same here, my mom used to BRUSH my curls every day when they were completely dry😭

    • @carolynbellion
      @carolynbellion Před 8 měsíci +1

      I wish I'd had CZcams when I was your age. It took me until my 40s to really know how to treat my hair, and I'm still learning new things!

  • @delieibelieveicanfly9854
    @delieibelieveicanfly9854 Před 3 lety +612

    When you see that even when she does everything wrong, her hair still looks beautiful 👁👄👁

    • @eshalnusrat9301
      @eshalnusrat9301 Před 3 lety +17

      Oh in my opinion it doesn't tho- xC

    • @lolok6338
      @lolok6338 Před 3 lety +31

      But DEFINITELY not as good as the right way

    • @delieibelieveicanfly9854
      @delieibelieveicanfly9854 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lolok6338 🤝

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm Před 2 lety +9

      Her hair is healthy and in a good cut so even the don’t side will still have decent definition, it’s not optimal.

    • @rozhina2530
      @rozhina2530 Před 2 lety +22

      her hair looking bad is when mine looks good

  • @kalilespere4750
    @kalilespere4750 Před 4 lety +5177

    The "don'ts" were so painful to watch, i'm so sorry you had to do that!!!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  Před 4 lety +192

      Kali Tsehaye HAHAH FACTS

    • @JuliaGoolia33
      @JuliaGoolia33 Před 4 lety +32

      I was cringing too 😳

    • @andreajane4007
      @andreajane4007 Před 4 lety +20

      Had to ? she chose to lol

    • @starvaleri8777
      @starvaleri8777 Před 4 lety +12

      I do the donts every day 😭😭

    • @naomik.6900
      @naomik.6900 Před 4 lety +4

      I really sat on my bed with a pillow for my eyes like i was watching a horror movie. It did really hurt to Watch

  • @yolandajohnson8685
    @yolandajohnson8685 Před 4 lety +3225

    Honey, when God was giving out BEAUTY you were definitely the first in line!!

    • @gracieroberts4562
      @gracieroberts4562 Před 3 lety +54

      Yolanda Johnson right? I can’t stop staring at her

    • @Dcutz
      @Dcutz Před 3 lety +107

      I fell asleep in the hammock and no one woke me up 😔

    • @yolandajohnson8685
      @yolandajohnson8685 Před 3 lety +23

      @@Dcutz love your comment

    • @amee1491
      @amee1491 Před 3 lety +9

      @@Dcutz dude you’re gorgeous!! Wtfff

    • @leonardodavinci4259
      @leonardodavinci4259 Před 3 lety +7

      @@Dcutz I don't agree. You're gorgeous

  • @simplyghosted1926
    @simplyghosted1926 Před 3 lety +61

    Your “don’t” is literally what my hair looks like everyday.😭 I’m trying

  • @aelhnnh
    @aelhnnh Před měsícem +3

    I love how she demonstrated how the donts would affect your curls instead of just saying how it would. Really illustrated how it would look like. Appreciate the effort!

  • @Erica-lw2kh
    @Erica-lw2kh Před 4 lety +3137

    I know my hair can do this I just don’t have patience

  • @valevale0411
    @valevale0411 Před 4 lety +2541

    Your don’t part still looks better than my hair lol. I’m still transitioning haha 😫😶

    • @jakesim7
      @jakesim7 Před 4 lety +110

      Be patient... week by week you will see how your hair looks better and hairstyles will look better also. ❤

    • @nasheria4388
      @nasheria4388 Před 4 lety +35

      I needed this phrase. Thank you.

    • @amethyst532
      @amethyst532 Před 4 lety +6

      same

    • @elainycastro273
      @elainycastro273 Před 4 lety +5

      Awe ull be fine just don’t give up❤️

    • @carmenlamptey4486
      @carmenlamptey4486 Před 4 lety +6

      Me too😭😭

  • @Jenatopia
    @Jenatopia Před rokem +16

    GIRL. you're the prettiest CZcamsr i've came across so far

    • @jonye7511
      @jonye7511 Před měsícem +1

      Without a ghastly nose ring, artificial plumped up lips or covered in tattoos. So refreshing and natural.

  • @vleragashi2715
    @vleragashi2715 Před 3 lety +34

    this is probably one of the most simple, straight to the point vids on styling curly hair. THANK YOU!!!

  • @armadillopillow2111
    @armadillopillow2111 Před 4 lety +1961

    It's crazy how much I didn't know about taking care of my hair type. I was the only one in the family with curls when I growing up, so I was taught to take care of my hair the same way someone with straight or slightly wavy hair would. I just thought that the problem was my hair type, that the reason why my hair always looked so horrific was just because that's how my hair is. After watching your videos and other youtubers with similar curls, I know now that my hair isn't "unmanageable" or "difficult", it just takes different techniques to deal with it. It's definitely been a self-esteem boost to find out that my hair isn't "bad hair", like I thought my entire life! ♥️

    • @thaniagonzalez6348
      @thaniagonzalez6348 Před 3 lety +23

      I had the same experience

    • @tinagill7937
      @tinagill7937 Před 3 lety +9

      Sameeeeee 😭

    • @addisonlydia9506
      @addisonlydia9506 Před 3 lety +6

      me too

    • @munmunil
      @munmunil Před 3 lety +17

      same here ! i hated my curly hair all of my youth until sophomore year of high school :/ now im trying to fix it from all the flat iron damage lol

    • @olivialingle883
      @olivialingle883 Před 3 lety +7

      omigod this is exactly my thoughts

  • @lesliegoldman777
    @lesliegoldman777 Před 4 lety +1298

    Lol. Watching the don’ts was a little too close to home in that I find myself doing almost all those things. I’m just so impatient!! I promise to stop!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  Před 4 lety +35

      GOOD!! Ahhaha

    • @kevitamaster-brewkombucha5472
      @kevitamaster-brewkombucha5472 Před 4 lety +2

      Honestly same but I’m gonna dobut this way tonight

    • @ericashields4944
      @ericashields4944 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jaymejo question what does it mean if the back of your gets all knotted but the knots always happens in the middle is that from not brushing your hair all the way or does curl hair always get knotted I have curly and it gets knotted in the middle of the back of my hair

    • @ericashields4944
      @ericashields4944 Před 4 lety

      @@jaymejo and what should I do when the knots show up in my hair my mom said it's not from brushing my hair that well I just think it's natural when it happenes

    • @chanuppuluri8726
      @chanuppuluri8726 Před 4 lety

      @@ericashields4944 From the middle onwards? Sounds like you might be sleeping on it and tossing and turning at night. Have you tried a satin bonnet to protect your hair while you sleep? (My friends swore off the satin pillowcase because their heads kept falling off of the pillow and they had neck pain for a while.)
      If it's happening during the day time, are you watching your collars and scarves? Wool scarf leads too more breakage. I was told to go with a slippery synthetic fabric in scarves/jackets to keep my back hair from tangling. I also keep the clasps of my necklaces off to the side instead of directly in the back for similar reasons...
      I hope this helps!

  • @jasmin6962
    @jasmin6962 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I've always hated my curls due to the fact as a kid it was always crazy n frizzy. Needless to say I'm 31 now and I've just started my natural curly girl journey and I'm already learning so much from just u along the way, thank u so much!! 💞

  • @gloriaelahi6003
    @gloriaelahi6003 Před 2 lety +6

    Im 33 and I've been doing it wrong for years. I do almost everything you listed on your Dont's list. Thank you for this!

  • @GIRLYISMS
    @GIRLYISMS Před 3 lety +1529

    your “donts” is how my hair looks right now....or somewhat. I want the do’s so i’ll be trying them tomorrow on my wash day!
    Edit : about a year later and oh my god. It is so much prettier. Really experiment with what you like and don’t like within this routine. I personally do not part my hair and that volumizes my hair a TON.

  • @Mxtch.a
    @Mxtch.a Před 4 lety +376

    You know she is committed to us if she goes against 4 years of hard work 💕

  • @milodim9203
    @milodim9203 Před 3 lety +2

    I can not tell you how much this video helped me. You’re so great at explaining AND giving visuals!!!

  • @slothgirl2107
    @slothgirl2107 Před 2 lety

    You’re makeup is simple yet stunning!!

  • @felicitygrey8610
    @felicitygrey8610 Před 4 lety +864

    Me literally doing all the don’ts and wondering why my hair looks so bad
    Thanks for all the likes

  • @hamptonlexie
    @hamptonlexie Před 4 lety +1991

    Am I the only one who doesn't care about volume? It's so hard to find a curly girl who doesn't care. All I want is defined curls with no frizz.

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  Před 4 lety +277

      The same routine will work just dont shake out your hair or seperate your curls xx

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre Před 4 lety +29

      Manes by Mell just uploaded a video about that kind of routine.

    • @jennbee8811
      @jennbee8811 Před 4 lety +53

      Yea same I sort of like when it’s more voluminous at the bottom not the top

    • @itzluhh1094
      @itzluhh1094 Před 4 lety +2

      thats the same with me

    • @meghanodonovan8020
      @meghanodonovan8020 Před 4 lety +1

      Sammeeee

  • @lorilynn8014
    @lorilynn8014 Před rokem +1

    I love, love, love that you are a product minimalist! Less is more. Beautiful results!

  • @alexiswalker8428
    @alexiswalker8428 Před 3 lety +62

    I can not believe that at my grown ass age of 22 I'm doing every single one of the don'ts... lol I'm excited to try this method tomorrow!

  • @smileyfaceprodution
    @smileyfaceprodution Před 4 lety +736

    This is literally the most helpful dos and don’ts video I’ve ever seen. I don’t hurt my curls in those ways but SURELY this helped nonetheless

  • @JezikaRenee
    @JezikaRenee Před 4 lety +769

    I have straight roots and the rest of my hair is curly. I can never get any volume and I've tried EVERYTHING, unless I fluff it all the way out and end up with a frizzy mess. 😫

    • @m-bookie
      @m-bookie Před 4 lety +20

      check out Manes by Mell's video on how to diffuse curly hair that really helped me a lot with my hair

    • @Mini-rt8bm
      @Mini-rt8bm Před 4 lety +49

      Do the shingling method. It's taking small pieces of hair and curling with your finger from root to tip. Similar to finger coils but instead you're using wayyy smaller pieces of hair. Your roots might just need to be trained to stay curly. That will help them

    • @aylanilopez7683
      @aylanilopez7683 Před 4 lety +1

      Same what do I do???

    • @kaylamoosa1890
      @kaylamoosa1890 Před 4 lety

      Jessica Gilfillan same!!!

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre Před 4 lety +19

      Maybe you should try a different haircut. That happened to me a lot until I added even more layers and now my hair is more voluminous. I have high density, low porosity, type 3a curls so I get easily weighted down. Also, my hair is waist-long.

  • @itslikesupernatural
    @itslikesupernatural Před 3 lety +5

    You are such a radiant beauty, i got shocked when I clicked and you popped up like that. 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @raya74
    @raya74 Před 2 měsíci

    Omg you and your curls are literally perfect!

  • @maryamzahir3948
    @maryamzahir3948 Před 4 lety +437

    Okay so i watched this video yeaterday, and today is my wash day and i used every single do(i wasnt doing everything wrong but i still followed along lol) and damn!! My hair is the best its ever looked in my entire life. This def works 100 percenttt💖💖💖💖

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  Před 4 lety +15

      YAYYYY

    • @Charlotte-kh9id
      @Charlotte-kh9id Před 4 lety +1

      Jayme Jo, after doing this for a while, will my hair automatically become this curly or would I need to style it like this every time my hair is wet because my hair is naturally curly and i want better curls so xoxo

    • @leilanilol1422
      @leilanilol1422 Před 3 lety

      @@jaymejo thank you sooo much my hair used to be so flat at the top now it looks so much better

  • @thejennifercatherine
    @thejennifercatherine Před 4 lety +1086

    I think I’m the only person on the planet whose roots dry before the rest of my hair 😂😂😂

    • @delgermaadavaadorj9872
      @delgermaadavaadorj9872 Před 4 lety +38

      Jennifer Catherine nope. Same to me too.

    • @cheyenneosuala3216
      @cheyenneosuala3216 Před 4 lety +12

      Mine does too! 😭

    • @ListicPlay
      @ListicPlay Před 4 lety +52

      Of course the roots dry first... your head is warm so it dries your roots

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 Před 4 lety +15

      Lili Bili Lol what.

    • @ListicPlay
      @ListicPlay Před 4 lety +30

      My Namo yes. After you shower, the hair near your head dries first, because it gives warmth. Or did I maybe misunderstand the comment?

  • @staciejohnson9578
    @staciejohnson9578 Před 3 lety +12

    This video was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! So informative. I loved how detailed you were and how you actually took the time to do it the wrong way so we could see the difference. Thanks soooo much!!

  • @carinacastaldo478
    @carinacastaldo478 Před 2 lety

    This is the first tutorial I've actually sat through in so long! Love the tips thank you!

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell Před 3 lety +255

    I’m on a journey to bettering my curls! I’ve struggled with volume for years!!

  • @AvaAboy
    @AvaAboy Před 2 lety

    Absolutely gorgeous Jayme!

  • @selenatofatugaga8643
    @selenatofatugaga8643 Před 2 lety

    You are literally my favorite curl enthusiast, thank you for what you do for us curly girls xo

  • @lushlolita
    @lushlolita Před 3 lety +339

    Your don'ts are literally everything I used to do up until like 3 months ago it so funny I always just though my hair was a frizzy type hair but nope I have curls I just always killed them before I saw them. So so happy to have my natural hair becoming it's properly looked after self. I always wanted defined curly hair and now I have it.😁😁😁😁

    • @spiderwomen8410
      @spiderwomen8410 Před 3 lety +1

      Good for you, how did u do that?

    • @leilanilol1422
      @leilanilol1422 Před 3 lety +3

      Same I always thought I had frizzy hair type turns out I have 3b

    • @kata7669
      @kata7669 Před 3 lety +1

      Same. I’m 2 c to 3b

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 Před 3 lety +1

      You should change your profile picture to show off your cute curls to us!

  • @alexagg7640
    @alexagg7640 Před 4 lety +129

    Please do part 2 to show us how you extend / maintain past day 1 curls. Sometimes mine look ok the first day but next day they're a disaster and I end up putting it up.😟 3 rd day is non existent 😩

    • @bobbypin1787
      @bobbypin1787 Před 4 lety +7

      Grace Ramirez she has made a few videos on this topic. There are two links below. I hope this helps!:).czcams.com/video/GDiz-tDPyyk/video.html

    • @bobbypin1787
      @bobbypin1787 Před 4 lety +4

      czcams.com/video/uQAloc9zkv8/video.html

  • @rubytuesday8719
    @rubytuesday8719 Před 2 lety

    This is genuinely the best curly hair video I've seen, a couple essential products and good techniques rather than an expensive list of creams gels and mouses. Thank you so much for making this

  • @cassandramonique_
    @cassandramonique_ Před 3 lety

    10/10 video. You can tell you thought very carefully with each technique and it so helpful to see the dos and don’ts simultaneously!!

  • @jasminmcpines1585
    @jasminmcpines1585 Před 4 lety +48

    The most shocking thing is that my hair looks exactly like the "Don't" result. I didn't know I was doing so much wrong 😅 thank you for showing us the right way!

  • @SilsaLopez
    @SilsaLopez Před 4 lety +68

    Me: *Watches* ....
    Me: *Gets out of bed at 5:13 A.M just to fix my hair*

  • @xXJasmineJadeXx
    @xXJasmineJadeXx Před 2 lety +1

    I watched this after I’ve been doing all the don’ts for years… can’t believe this is why I thought I hated my natural hair! You’re a life saver! Can’t wait to try all your tips

  • @Xturnia
    @Xturnia Před 2 lety +1

    Oh, the curls!! Might be the most beautiful locks I've ever seen.😍

  • @nadinem5981
    @nadinem5981 Před 3 lety +97

    The don’t picture is exactly my hair

  • @ninahart228
    @ninahart228 Před 4 lety +79

    you are literally the prettiest person i've ever seen omg

  • @alysiarico6419
    @alysiarico6419 Před 3 lety

    Omg i'm so glad you posted this cause my hair was always flat and I followed your directions and now my hair is perfect, it looks so natural and beautiful!!!

  • @anushrighosh2202
    @anushrighosh2202 Před 3 lety +1

    your eyes are stunning 🥺

  • @janaidalalla3928
    @janaidalalla3928 Před 4 lety +60

    I was literally doing all the don'ts for the longest time but i did my hair today following all the do's and i was blown away my hair diddn't look like a fuzz ball...beautifully defined shiny curls...i love it....thnk u for the video🤗🥳🥳

  • @alyr5348
    @alyr5348 Před 3 lety +6

    *I love the contrast between her hair and her eyes. And that red lip, girl you go!!! She's so pretty!!!*

  • @EzraHaviland
    @EzraHaviland Před 6 měsíci

    I’ve only tried one of your do’s so far and I already see so much improvement!!! Thanks so much!!!

  • @BeautyGuRew
    @BeautyGuRew Před rokem +1

    Just about everything you said not to do, I currently do during my natural hair routine. I’m going to switch my routine to this one right away. I can’t wait to see what my hair does tomorrow. Thank you so much!

  • @karenquin5295
    @karenquin5295 Před 3 lety +317

    The don’ts are literally what I do with my daughters hair and I feel so bad now! I was thinking I had the wrong products but it’s me just ruining her hair 😭

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 Před 3 lety +51

      Oh no! Don't feel bad - you tried your best! My mom would always blow dry the heck outta my hair and force it into a sort of a bob, so you're already doing a lot better than that 😂 How does her hair look now?

    • @karenquin5295
      @karenquin5295 Před 3 lety +14

      @@mollytaylor8122 it’s looking a little bit better. We still have some work to do. Still having a hard time with the frizz though and making sure it stays looking healthy and moisturized.

    • @rel4998
      @rel4998 Před 3 lety +35

      I think it's so wonderful that you're doing research on how to do your daughter's hair! Something that has helped reduce frizz near the top for me is making sure to blow dry my roots first (cold air with diffuser directly against scalp). A soggy scalp = frizzy crown!

    • @karenquin5295
      @karenquin5295 Před 3 lety

      @@rel4998 Thank you for the tip love! 💜

  • @humairabaloch5662
    @humairabaloch5662 Před 4 lety +226

    Your eyes are beautiful Masha Allah

  • @junksatellite
    @junksatellite Před 2 lety

    this was the most helpful video i've watched so far, thank you for this!

  • @ThePacificNorseWest87
    @ThePacificNorseWest87 Před rokem +2

    I’ve been doing exactly what you say not to and I have been extremely frustrated. I’ve always had short hair until I grew it out three years ago and never knew I had such curly hair. Thanks for uploading the video! I can’t wait to see how my hair will look from now on!

  • @graziousgirl
    @graziousgirl Před 4 lety +103

    I FINALLY found someone with my exaxt curl pattern! Maybe I just didn't look hard enough but I feel like there are really few people with this exact curl size and structure so I'm just binge watching your vids all happy right now and implementing everything on my next wash!

  • @SimrohnIftekhar
    @SimrohnIftekhar Před 4 lety +35

    10 minutes of me learning I've been doing absolutely everything wrong 👁👄👁 Thank you!!

  • @cataratortalita4417
    @cataratortalita4417 Před 3 lety

    This was probably the best video I’ve watched about type 3 curls and it works. Thank You! I was doing all the dont’s.

  • @kristytrent9875
    @kristytrent9875 Před 2 lety

    oh wow…just tuned in! i need these tips in a big way!!🙏😍

  • @CurveTheRain
    @CurveTheRain Před 4 lety +171

    “I’m not an expert” says the girl with BEAUTIFUL absolutely perfect curls. 🧐🧐
    Lies!!

  • @user-sb9mv3yn4p
    @user-sb9mv3yn4p Před 4 lety +105

    My with my straight hair: this video is 100% of use for me!

  • @myavaldez3121
    @myavaldez3121 Před rokem +1

    Probs the best curly hair video I’ve seen

  • @jackieschierloh5552
    @jackieschierloh5552 Před 2 lety

    Jayme you rock! LOVE your crazy curls & what I aspire to have mine look like... finally learning to love my locks after 50+ years all because of good teachers like you & correct products👍

  • @saraabusaleh6915
    @saraabusaleh6915 Před 3 lety +16

    yo guys, i actually followed her tips and videos after 2 years of straightening my hair EVERY single day.. and let me tell you how GOOD my hair looks, i am obsessed with it! and i never thought my hair would actually look that fabulous

  • @secession77
    @secession77 Před 3 lety +2293

    DO: have naturally curly hair
    DON'T: think you can achieve this with your damn straight hair by just following these steps

    • @zoelamur8519
      @zoelamur8519 Před 3 lety +33

      Lmao

    • @RanchoBellaVista503
      @RanchoBellaVista503 Před 3 lety +14

      Secession77 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @tifawt3736
      @tifawt3736 Před 3 lety +7

      Lol, right

    • @MLGRDR
      @MLGRDR Před 3 lety +72

      the aggression

    • @heyboo9943
      @heyboo9943 Před 3 lety +133

      haha, yeah I guess, but I had very frizzy hair that I didn't think was curly but after researching apparently if you have a frizz you can achieve a curl and now after following lots of tips I have super curly hair!!!

  • @taye96swim
    @taye96swim Před 2 lety

    wow!! You are absolutely stunning! So jealous of how gorgeous your curls are!

  • @jleezy612
    @jleezy612 Před 3 lety

    You and your hair are freaking gorgeous!! 🤩

  • @mariahmonet3712
    @mariahmonet3712 Před 4 lety +71

    This is one of the most beneficial curly hair videos I have watched! 😍 Thanks, girly!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  Před 4 lety +2

      Mariah Mahon that makes me so happy!!!!

  • @WRAPEDINSILK
    @WRAPEDINSILK Před 4 lety +234

    Then how to control frizz at the roots?
    I did all the steps and let it air dry but the end of curls looked amazing but the roots buffed like crazy

    • @mmm2121
      @mmm2121 Před 4 lety +19

      I use a mousse that is designed for the roots which helped me a lot on controlling the frizz in my roots, you should try that too

    • @mmm2121
      @mmm2121 Před 4 lety +12

      Also applying a little bit of conditioner on your roots while showering might help too, just not too much

    • @kaylarenee1999
      @kaylarenee1999 Před 4 lety +5

      @@mmm2121 what's the brand of mousse u use?

    • @ImNotCallingYouALiar
      @ImNotCallingYouALiar Před 4 lety +3

      WRAPEDINSILK Literally the same thing happened with me also! I'm wondering if I didn't saturate my hair enough with water

    • @chet6244
      @chet6244 Před 4 lety

      sameeeeee here!

  • @athenaufi2337
    @athenaufi2337 Před 2 lety

    You. Have. Literally. Saved. My. Life.

  • @carmenjed8020
    @carmenjed8020 Před 3 lety

    your hair is amazing! beautiful

  • @ximenaluna5005
    @ximenaluna5005 Před 4 lety +51

    This is the video Needed so badly bro. My hair is flatter than a table thank you so much🥺🥺

  • @saraidelafuente8562
    @saraidelafuente8562 Před 4 lety +77

    Girl can I just say that you are so gorgeous! Your eyes are wow! (‘: i can’t wait to try your tips! ! I’ve had curly hair my whole life and I never realized how bad Im styling my hair! 😂😭

  • @karen_louvor9348
    @karen_louvor9348 Před 2 lety

    Omg ypu are a God send! I cant believe it took me so long to find someone who knows what theyre doing with my(our) kind of hair.💜

  • @clairevol
    @clairevol Před 3 lety +1

    I love this comparison!!!!! It’s so eye opening 🙊

  • @MissAnissaB
    @MissAnissaB Před 4 lety +7

    The don'ts are not exaggerated. I have a white mother and a non-white father so I grew up clueless about my curls and the wet, greasy side of your head was me age 12. Even in my 30s I'm still learning. Thank you for your service to Type 3s!

  • @raspberryboo2
    @raspberryboo2 Před 4 lety +26

    Thank you! Im going to try this way. Usually i can only get my hair to look this good if I'm lucky and the weather is just right and my hormones are balanced and the sun and moon are in perfect alignment

    • @Hey_yeah
      @Hey_yeah Před 4 lety +5

      rasp berryboo
      This isn’t really related to your comment but
      How are our names very similar???

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 Před 3 lety

      Dear god I relate so hard 🤣

  • @rynrose9666
    @rynrose9666 Před 3 lety

    Your hair is gorgeous!!!! You are gorgeous!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @edena2769
    @edena2769 Před 11 měsíci

    Your hair is outstanding!!

  • @ralitsaurukova1106
    @ralitsaurukova1106 Před 3 lety +78

    I think we all curly lasses here at least know not to brush dry hair. That's the BIGGEST DON'T 🙅

  • @azzurra6440
    @azzurra6440 Před 4 lety +28

    Tips for me:
    Don't apply so much mousse
    Pull the brush away from the scalp instead of dragging down
    Scrunch the mousse in
    Hover the diffuser around and then lightly shake it, don't touch your hair, don't separate them, don't put it on the scalp
    Don't touch them until they're completely dry

    • @dedeez033
      @dedeez033 Před 3 lety

      She only used mousse for the do?

  • @elizabeth1723
    @elizabeth1723 Před 3 lety +1

    Absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much for the tips. I have been so frustrated with my curls recently so I'm looking forward to giving this a try!

  • @fairydonuts6552
    @fairydonuts6552 Před 10 měsíci

    Your curls are gorgeous ❤ best I’ve seen ❤

  • @JocelynKetler
    @JocelynKetler Před 4 lety +34

    I don’t even have curly hair, but I loved watching this lol

  • @schlumbl84
    @schlumbl84 Před 4 lety +6

    I recently bought some John Frieda Curl Mousse. Can't wait to try it on my next wash day!I really appreciate your channel.I've learned that PATIENCE is really one of the key rules for beautiful curls.

  • @SilviaNesci
    @SilviaNesci Před 2 lety

    Your hair looks so well hidratated😍

  • @Cristina.Antoniuc
    @Cristina.Antoniuc Před 3 lety

    Omg this was so therapeutic!! Loved it!!!❤❤

  • @NoFrillsTwins
    @NoFrillsTwins Před 4 lety +585

    You are so cute. Love love love this video! xx

    • @subliminaleyecolor5279
      @subliminaleyecolor5279 Před 3 lety +1

      👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @FearGod333_
      @FearGod333_ Před 3 lety

      Jesus Christ is The Lord !

    • @arionisgay4829
      @arionisgay4829 Před 2 lety

      @@FearGod333_ true that

  • @dajenielramos123
    @dajenielramos123 Před 3 lety +50

    I tried the do’s and my hair is so curly all the way around my head my curls are starting at the top of my head instead of ear level the brushing method really helped my hair looked like the dont side ever since middle school now it’s full of volume and bigger

  • @52Jaszo
    @52Jaszo Před 3 lety

    I love your hair!!!! It's so beautiful!!!

  • @Olaplex
    @Olaplex Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing your tips for healthy styling! We love it!

  • @MegaYvette2010
    @MegaYvette2010 Před 4 lety +20

    I got anxiety just watching the "dont's"....but eeek, I see that I am making a few of those mistakes. So thanks for this video, it was super helpful. You and your curls are gorgeous!

  • @tarea1534
    @tarea1534 Před 3 lety +7

    You're literally saving my life.

  • @tylacorkill
    @tylacorkill Před 2 lety

    This is probably one of the many videos I actually understand and make sense and actually helpful

  • @BoricuaAsh
    @BoricuaAsh Před 2 lety

    Your eyes are literally gorgeous! 😍

  • @benny-jv1yh
    @benny-jv1yh Před 3 lety +6

    i used to do most of the "don'ts" you literally saved my life thank u sm 😭