A REAL WEEK OF CURLY HAIR | How I manage wash day to day 5

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  • čas přidán 26. 04. 2022
  • BUCKLE UP!! This week was a journey and my hair was NOT behaving. This is how I managed my curly for 5 days until my next wash. This is the reality of having curls but we have to work with what we have got!
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Komentáře • 157

  • @ayad2928
    @ayad2928 Před 2 lety +353

    the fact that my hair is exactly like yours and I had no idea because I though my hair was super damaged or just weird since I never see your hair (or any curly girl hair on social media) throughout the days, so I've always been looking for a product/technique to help my curly hair look "normal". Tbh this video made me feel so much better about my hair

    • @bluyellow
      @bluyellow Před 2 lety +12

      Riiiight!! Me too. It was so nice to see a social media curly girl actually show their genuine curly hair journey throughout the week …. We really only see a portion of peoples journeys and I often forget that and hate my curls !

    • @insideout_sam
      @insideout_sam Před rokem

      Same girl same

  • @jadeansted5852
    @jadeansted5852 Před 2 lety +183

    Thanks that was actually really helpful to know what’s “normal” and not just a wash day 👩🏽‍🦱

  • @beverly3760
    @beverly3760 Před 2 lety +88

    Echoing what everyone else is saying about the unapologetic honesty in this video! It 's validating to know our curly hair isn't abnormal if it isn't internet perfect 24/7. Love this community of curlies and love you Jayme Joe

  • @JiixBooks
    @JiixBooks Před 2 lety +178

    I cannot stress enough how much I appreciate these realistic videos bc I’ve started to hate my hair so much and seeing you show how you handle it just love 💜

  • @lenamandwee2002
    @lenamandwee2002 Před 2 lety +436

    This video was so honest and I related so much. My hair looks like your day 3 hair here day 2 for me! I am still trying to train my hair to wash it less but sometimes it’s just unsalvageable and I get headaches from it!

    • @l.lawliet433
      @l.lawliet433 Před 2 lety +12

      same my hair feels disgusting plus i have an oily scalp

    • @parsakamali4957
      @parsakamali4957 Před 2 lety +3

      @lena mandwee What do you do with single strand knots? I startes getting them when my hair reached a certain length and My hair is like destroyed rn

    • @parsakamali4957
      @parsakamali4957 Před 2 lety +2

      @Lena mandwee I get them alot and they never unravel so it's like on a single hair I have 3 knots. do you use coconut oil?(tnx for the reply btw)

    • @lenamandwee2002
      @lenamandwee2002 Před 2 lety +2

      @@parsakamali4957 I like the olaplex oil

    • @CleopatraPapadopoulos
      @CleopatraPapadopoulos Před 2 lety +1

      I agree. I can't go passed day two or three at best.

  • @ditajacob
    @ditajacob Před 2 lety +101

    Omg please please do more of these ‘through the week’ videos. Even if it’s just a shorter “this is how it looks after waking up”… “this is what I’m gonna do with my hair today” kinda video would be so helpful.
    My hair is a lot like yours but thinner.. so after I put it into a loose bun/ponytail and sleep on it, the curls rarely last more than 2 days (even using a satin pillowcase). I always end up refreshing and leaving it down but it’s becoming such a pain, so trying to figure out other hairstyles and the struggles behind it.
    Thank you!!

  • @simplyjess9689
    @simplyjess9689 Před 2 lety +23

    seeing you're 3rd-5th day hair is so relieving. I always feel so ashamed and frustrated when my hair gets to that stage so its nice to see that its just a normal stage for curly hair. we need more curlies embracing this stage

  • @whatwendylikes
    @whatwendylikes Před 2 lety +34

    This was the most relatable curly hair video I have ever seen. Thanks for keeping it real. You are gorgeous every day!

  • @bluyellow
    @bluyellow Před 2 lety +14

    Thank you for keeping this real and honest. You showed the true struggles of curly hair. Trying new products loving them & then realizing they don’t work for your hair. Ahhhhhh all so relatable 💕💓🙌🏼

  • @CegomezChannel
    @CegomezChannel Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you so much for filming this video!! I've been so annoyed at my curls for such a long time for being frizzy and my hair not lasting looking good for too long, I thought I was the only one!! Your hair always looks so good in your videos but I loved seeing the reality of your curls after a few days, they always end up looking so good after you fix your hair tho!! thanks for the content

  • @elissacarroll1130
    @elissacarroll1130 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Jayme! Always so important to see such lovely reality of hair. Definitely good for all of our mental healths :))

  • @roxannearismendez1315
    @roxannearismendez1315 Před 2 lety +8

    I love this honest video! It makes me feel so much better about my own curls. I go through a lot of the days you do. I pick mine up in a messy bun just like yours for work 2-3 days a week, and some of those days I can let it down and doctor it up a bit if I need to. Too bad we can't have day 1 or 2 hair always. People love curls, wish they had curls, compliment curly girls A LOT, but don't realize how much work it takes to have curly hair. But I wouldn't trade much curls or the work for straight hair.

  • @yahairasishaw
    @yahairasishaw Před 2 lety

    Not only do ur curls look good but ur bod literally my dream body thank you for all of the content u make for us!

  • @jasminesander8719
    @jasminesander8719 Před 2 lety +2

    Love this video so much! I finally felt like I could actually relate to how someone's curly hair can look after a few days! Just a tip, wearing a bonnet or silk headscarf to bed makes such a huge difference in day 2,3,4 etc. it was a game changer for me! Especially since you already have incredible curls, I highly highly recommend!

  • @kendallrice5705
    @kendallrice5705 Před 2 lety +2

    I loved this video! I thought I was the only one that would start getting matted knots by day 2 and struggling to figure out what to do with my hair the next couple days. My hair is getting longer too and as much as I love it it so much more work. Thank you for showing us curly hair isn’t always glamorous, most the time it can turn into a mess depending on what you have going on throughout the day and especially the weather.

  • @clairemckinley691
    @clairemckinley691 Před 2 lety +7

    I don’t know if you’ve done this yet but I would love to see a video of what your hair looks like washed and dried with no product or styling! I really liked that this video helped to break down the expectation of having perfect hair all the time and I think that a video showing your hair in its natural state with no product or styling would help add to this as well as being super interesting!

  • @_bloodymarii
    @_bloodymarii Před 2 lety +7

    I looove how realistic this is 💗

  • @Angelinaslifefl
    @Angelinaslifefl Před rokem

    Soooooo grateful for the honesty!!!!!

  • @shirushgraydi9667
    @shirushgraydi9667 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this honest video. I've been watching your vidoes for over a year now and this one is my favorite. I also have very long curly hair and I used to brush it dry, use unfitted cream etc. Then I found you in youtube (I'm from Israel) and I started using your techniques and my hair grew and become curly, healthy and much more pretty.
    Also I have VERY bad hair days and weeks sometimes but when the hair is looking good you forget all about it.
    Thank you and please dont leave youtube for tiktok😉

  • @emmacrane9381
    @emmacrane9381 Před 2 lety +2

    Loved this video! So nice to see a realistic week with curly hair

  • @candacemackintosh6227
    @candacemackintosh6227 Před 2 lety +4

    I liked the whole video❤❤Ive been watching your videos for a very long time now and I love your honesty, your vibe, your voice, cuteness with your family too💖💖and how you try to make us feel good and showing us its okay that your hair gets so messy in this video😂and yeah😊thank you, and love you❤😘

  • @wajeehaalam5849
    @wajeehaalam5849 Před 2 lety +4

    This vedio is so satisfying like I used to think I'm abnormal to have thoes frizzy hairs on 3rd day!💕 All love to you, you made my day

  • @chroniclesofcalm904
    @chroniclesofcalm904 Před 2 lety +3

    Super relatable! Would actually love more videos with the same concept. Especially advice around working out/ sweating with curly hair (styles while exercising and products to salvage the sweaty hair haha). A bit frustrating wanting to work out 4 times a week with out washing it every time haha

  • @graceofgod4924
    @graceofgod4924 Před 2 lety +2

    Love love love this video. I have wavy hair and it always loosens through the day and it bothers me so much. Nothing beats wash day. I always thought if I had curly hair the loosening wouldn’t happen as much but now I see that it does. Thank you so much for making this video. 🥰

  • @jessicasopolis3904
    @jessicasopolis3904 Před 2 lety +18

    Great, helpful, real wprld curl help here! Thanks for this fabulous video!

  • @doslbabe
    @doslbabe Před 2 lety +3

    As a curly hair girl this video was honestly amazing to watch. It’s 100000% spot on what’s it’s like to have curly hair, the days after wash day aren’t as easy as people think. I loved how honest this video was

  • @salwasoso5593
    @salwasoso5593 Před 2 lety

    I am beyond in love with this video! THANK YOU

  • @a.b.7932
    @a.b.7932 Před 2 lety

    I needed this. Glad I’m not alone. 💜

  • @LolaSilvers
    @LolaSilvers Před 2 lety +1

    You look stunning and your hair is stunning! ✨

  • @laalipandey297
    @laalipandey297 Před rokem

    I love this vedio.. it’s so honest and real .. every curly girl go through this frizzy days and Feel stress but we learn that it’s normal and we should love our hair all days 😊

  • @royah5404
    @royah5404 Před 2 lety

    Love the video and the honesty!

  • @belindachappell9875
    @belindachappell9875 Před rokem

    Your hair is stunning babe. Loved the emotional highs and lows, could really relate although my hair doesn’t get quite as curly as yours. I gasped out loud when you revealed your day 3 nightmare knots from that product 😂 😱 but you rallied and made it work. I also quite like the brushed out curls as an alternative look. Thanks for the honest view into your curly hair week. Super entertaining ❤

  • @janneke2315
    @janneke2315 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you soooo much for this video ❤❤. This video showed that curly hair isnt perfect 5 days. All the social media made me feel bad about my curly hair. I take really good care of my curls but it doesnt look like other curly girls, i thought. This is so realistic, so thank you

  • @fierylatina1
    @fierylatina1 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for not letting me go crazy with my hair thinking it was so bad because of something I was or was not doing... It is totally normal and it does get out of control LoL...ty

  • @doortovalue
    @doortovalue Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you 🥺💕 this was such a helpful video

  • @julespearson
    @julespearson Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks I needed this today! I normally blow dry my fringe a bit straighter but today it just did not want to go straight and I just had my boss ask if I had just been to the gym as my hair looked like a mess!

  • @cookiediangelo8511
    @cookiediangelo8511 Před 10 měsíci

    That actually did make me feel better about my hair thank you :)

  • @skywalker6763
    @skywalker6763 Před 2 lety +4

    Nick might not know how much of a display of love it is for you to let him play with your hair lol

  • @na5314
    @na5314 Před 2 lety +8

    Hi dear Jayme, I don't know if you will be reading this youtube comment, but I wanted to place it here anyway in hopes you and others may benefit. When you said "I will be doing the unthinkable as a curly girl brushing out my hair" I felt compelled to let you know that it's okay. I know some might disagree, but truly it's down to knowing your hair and what is best. I personally dry brush before washing my hair because I lose less hair, and ironically enough it is truly less of a hassle. Fun fact, if you use oil (you don't have to use a lot) before detangling, it will provide enough slip to allow those tangles to come out. Also detangling your hair in sections can help too versus trying to get all the tangles out in one go. Again, this is all based on trial and error. Personally, I try detangling when my hair is matted and wet and it's a disaster. It's so much better for me to dry detangle and I don't cause any breakage due to the oil providing slip for my hair. On top of that if you do pre-poo oil treatments it's so beneficial for your scalp, and it protects your ends and gives them some nourishment before further stripping of a shampoo. I highly recommend giving this a go especially since you have longer hair now. If you do give it a go I hope it adds to your routine and makes it easier. God bless you! My fellow sister in Christ. :)

  • @ggfgfj
    @ggfgfj Před 2 lety +1

    hey jayme a video on scalp care would be great! i feel like a lot of my curly products have done some strange things to my scalp??? or like hair in general, like im not sure how healthy it is to pack on so much product anymore

  • @upekadissanayake1583
    @upekadissanayake1583 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @ariesgalaxynation9579
    @ariesgalaxynation9579 Před 2 lety +2

    I totally relate, when my hair was shorter it was easy to manage and fix whatever was wrong with it, now that it’s longer it becomes messier on day 3 or even day 4 and I’ve set myself a goal of washing it every 7 days but now I’m thinking I should reduce it to twice a week.

  • @robyn6454
    @robyn6454 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this honesty!!! This is exactly what my 5 days looks like! Side note I’m so jealous of curly girls with small/round foreheads, the slicked back look isn’t a vibe for us five heads

  • @evelynchavez5274
    @evelynchavez5274 Před 2 lety +8

    my hair looks just like this! do u think protecting it at night would help? also i always re wet it and style it again maybe on the third day. you slick back a lot which i’ve learned pulls on your scalp. now anytime i have it up it hurts me knowing it’s pulling my hair. i use hair clips right now. i also try doing a braided look at the end so if my scalp needs any oils it’s easy to apply for my wash and for detangling.

  • @doniaghobashi
    @doniaghobashi Před 2 lety

    Love this video! Great job!! 🙃

  • @AmandaSeeny
    @AmandaSeeny Před rokem

    Thank You soooo much for this!!! 💙💙💙

  • @ashantyr4128
    @ashantyr4128 Před 11 měsíci

    I feel you with the layers girl me toooo!!!!

  • @w6kasa727
    @w6kasa727 Před 2 lety +3

    Hello Jayme Jo, hope you are well.
    Can you please do a video about Curly Hair Product Recommendations? My hair type is 3b, but it does look like your hair in a way. You made me really proud and happy of my curls... 😊

  • @emmaphilo4049
    @emmaphilo4049 Před 2 lety

    I liked the look of your curls brushed out. You have beautiful hair :)

  • @camillavanwijk2725
    @camillavanwijk2725 Před 2 lety +2

    Loved this, thanks!! Indeed made me feel so much more normal bout my own hair. Does you scalp not get itchy after day 3/4 hair? Thats often why i need to do a new wash day.

  • @kenomis
    @kenomis Před 2 lety +2

    ok but you and your sister hit them notes😭❤️

  • @EverythingsOrange
    @EverythingsOrange Před rokem

    Yay! This is just like me! I'm naturally blonde and curly so my hair is very fine! 3/4/5 day hair is hard! 5th day is just fluff at that point definitely a bun is needed

  • @LenkaMuir
    @LenkaMuir Před 2 lety +1

    You are so gorgeous, that even the worse hair was still amazing!

  • @simhaaaaa
    @simhaaaaa Před 2 lety

    I really liked this video!!

  • @hannahsamir3110
    @hannahsamir3110 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this video♥️♥️♥️

  • @biancaalcaraz2908
    @biancaalcaraz2908 Před rokem

    This is so relatable. I always wondered if others struggled like this too with their curly hair, my hair is forever in a bun 😅

  • @Nora-nl9zc
    @Nora-nl9zc Před 2 lety +2

    ahh do you think you could make a video telling us where u got ur jewelry from? I always love them sm

  • @Nothing7194
    @Nothing7194 Před rokem +1

    Well I went from let's try that CPR stuff to "oh yeah, no" real quick! So thank you for that product review!!

  • @jacobdecker2564
    @jacobdecker2564 Před 2 lety +3

    My hair usually looks good all the way up to day 4. Day 5 depends on how I slept the night before and then I sometimes push it to day 6 before washing.

  • @toniapedd
    @toniapedd Před 2 lety +3

    This is why I began straightening my curly hair! The struggles of in between wash days!🥴 Jayme, what is your favorite refresh/restyle product for non wash days? Pleeeese answer!!!🙏😘 I'd appreciate it soooooo much❣❣

  • @cocoacoolness
    @cocoacoolness Před 2 lety

    I feel like I always need to brush my hair out on around day 3 or 4, then I either embrace the friz, or put it in a messy bun. The next day the frizz has usually settled a bit and I can refresh it properly

  • @avadeleon668
    @avadeleon668 Před 2 lety

    SHE GORGEOUS

  • @simhaaaaa
    @simhaaaaa Před 2 lety +13

    How often do you wash your silk pillowcase and how do you care for it when you do wash it? maybe make a tiktok about it!!

    • @katemcauliffe2836
      @katemcauliffe2836 Před 2 lety +3

      I use a different silk/satin pillowcase every night. Mine are fine to wash with my white or towel load. I never put them in the dryer and always air dry with my delicates.

  • @karahall6296
    @karahall6296 Před 2 lety +1

    This video helped me a lot. Do you have any advice for going days without washing? After 2 days I have so much oil, flakes and itchiness.

  • @amandacolettemerrill5611

    Loved this. Thx! X

  • @Ikigai747
    @Ikigai747 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for making this

  • @AnaVelaRpo
    @AnaVelaRpo Před 2 lety +1

    one of my biggest problems is that my hair is always tangling. Like, nightmare tangling. Everyday no matter when I washed it. How do I keep it cute without havig to untangle it dry?

  • @mollysoukup2315
    @mollysoukup2315 Před 2 lety

    i love this!!! i love your videos much and they are so inspiring and i am learning so much. your curls are BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ i have 2c 3a curls. the under layer of my hair is 3a but for some reason the top layer of my hair is straighter. i am curious why it is like this. can i do anything to make the top curlier?!! is it damaged?!

  • @yienaolss1738
    @yienaolss1738 Před 2 lety

    Love it!

  • @ashleenicole5799
    @ashleenicole5799 Před 2 lety

    So relatable 💜

  • @ruth8268
    @ruth8268 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you! Yes, I feel more NORMAL! I would like to see how you slick your hair.

  • @cabjob
    @cabjob Před 2 lety

    Hi Jayme, What product do you use on your hair when you slick it back?

  • @tamirescosta6557
    @tamirescosta6557 Před 2 lety

    Jayme! I was looking at this video but from 1 year ago, and your hair has grown SO MUCH in just a year! what is your secret sissss I am STRUGGLING to get my hair pass shoulder length:(((

  • @chambersjc85
    @chambersjc85 Před 2 lety

    I’ve been following you for so long! You are just stunning, and I love your hair! Is your hair colored? If so, what color? We kinda look like we can be cousins, and I want your color! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BonBon2828Z
    @BonBon2828Z Před 2 lety +3

    Curly and wavy hair looks so much better than straight

  • @jadesimone_
    @jadesimone_ Před 2 lety

    this is whyyyy i’m SO scared to use new products or any products at all that aren’t leave in conditioner. cause soon as i put it in it’ll look real nice, but soon as i wake up the next morning my hair looks crunchy & stiff with like the most messed up curl pattern. 😩

  • @karunasol
    @karunasol Před 2 lety

    what products do you use to slick your hair!? love your videos!

  • @huntervassar8691
    @huntervassar8691 Před 2 lety +1

    Love day 5 😌

  • @freeyourbladder
    @freeyourbladder Před 2 lety

    Oh really pretty. Nice sharing. Keep it up.❤❤❤💯👌👍

  • @yourstrulysas
    @yourstrulysas Před 2 lety

    can you do a tut on slicking you hair (day 4 hair) please !!!

  • @jessicaflamenco6732
    @jessicaflamenco6732 Před 2 lety

    Where do you shop at?! Your tops in all your videos are super cute!

  • @cameronramsey8268
    @cameronramsey8268 Před 2 lety +1

    I wish I could curl my hair I've tried to get it to curl but it just poofs out but I'm going to the hair salon tomorrow so I'm hoping they can help me

  • @tiya9676
    @tiya9676 Před 2 lety

    can you do video on how u brushed curls out and still ended up with something presentable for the next 3 days? 😅😅

  • @umadevi0101
    @umadevi0101 Před 2 lety

    When you get a haircut, what do you request? Just layers and framing your face?

  • @proprietaryblend
    @proprietaryblend Před rokem

    Jayme Jo 💕thank you sooooo much for sharing - Would you be able to let us know what shower cap you use and any other recommendations - it is so hard to find an effective shower cap for long curly hair .. which is why I rarely use.. they tend to create like a sauna effect for me and don’t fit hair even in a pineapple 🍍 🥴🤣😂

  • @AshHeartz
    @AshHeartz Před 2 lety

    Do you have tips on how to sleek curly hair? I always get frizz!

  • @user-KK812
    @user-KK812 Před 2 lety +1

    omg she looks like bella hadid in the second pic in the thumbnail ! she looks absolutely gorgeous !!

  • @auzzieag6058
    @auzzieag6058 Před 2 lety

    where are your black flares in the dance clip from? xx

  • @littlefroe3316
    @littlefroe3316 Před 2 lety +2

    Are you wearing clinique black honey? Looks similar. Also great video

  • @bhawansandhu4541
    @bhawansandhu4541 Před 2 lety

    how do you slick ur hair back? what product do you use?

  • @monnaboulette8747
    @monnaboulette8747 Před 2 lety

    What type of haircut do you have?? I love watching your videos. Thanks

  • @shesnour
    @shesnour Před 2 lety

    i discovered i had curlY haIr like 2 years ago cause when putting a hijab u always just brush it so i never noticed my curls ... now i feel much better knowing that the texture i was getting from brushing my hair dry everyday WAS ALL MY MISTAKE

  • @b.c.akathenewdarkeclipse

    Mind blown 🤯

  • @zakharovax
    @zakharovax Před 2 lety

    Do you recommend using dry shampoo? xx 💞

  • @jessicarausch337
    @jessicarausch337 Před 2 lety

    Would you be able to link the products you used?

  • @timwiesenfeld8031
    @timwiesenfeld8031 Před 2 lety +1

    This is the exact reason I never wear my hair curly … i cant deal. The first day is fine and then I straighten it bc from day two on its just terrible

    • @andreaherrera754
      @andreaherrera754 Před rokem

      Omg same. Except in the summer I can’t. I don’t have AC and I can’t fight the humidity to straighten it, the house is so warm i can’t even dry it. So it’s an entire summer of me wearing my curly hair slapped in a bun on top of my head 💔

  • @materialgworl3608
    @materialgworl3608 Před 2 lety

    Why do you think I put up my hair after a few days with hair down curly. ITS LOOKS SO BAD I HAVE TO PUT IT UPPPP! Also I just found out I have curly hair and I LOVEEE your helpful content thank youu!!

  • @italyshanmei
    @italyshanmei Před 2 lety

    Same struggles even with much shorter hair lol

  • @laurarodrigues9393
    @laurarodrigues9393 Před 2 lety

    Hi! What products do you recommend to sleek hair?

  • @Boss_etc853
    @Boss_etc853 Před rokem

    I keep forgetting not everyone wears bonnets and scarves to bed lol im like “wtf isnt your hair going to be tangled rolling around on the pillow cases??” 😂