Phoebe Buffay, the Mystery Ingredient of Friends

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  • @thetake
    @thetake  Před 6 lety +216

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    • @jerrij4242
      @jerrij4242 Před 6 lety

      ScreenPrism you guys need to do an analysis of the HBO show Insecure!

    • @rexmando1692
      @rexmando1692 Před 6 lety +2

      At last! Phoebe was my favorite FRIENDS character.

    • @cooldudeamough
      @cooldudeamough Před 6 lety +1

      can you guy please not stop making videos about friends, please....

    • @benjaminkuti2009
      @benjaminkuti2009 Před 6 lety

      @ScreenPrism This just an idea.. Could you do an analysis on the 2016 movie 'Split' & maybe explain the abstract connection to the 2000 movie 'Unbreakable'?¿ Or/if not, just the evaluation of a single title. Thanks.

    • @prettyperson9567
      @prettyperson9567 Před 6 lety

      @screenprism you guys should do a video on each of the how I met your mother characters

  • @OctopusLips
    @OctopusLips Před 4 lety +4086

    She's a genius. She survived the streets when she was 14, she taught herself to play a guitar, she wrote songs, she has written 15 books and even without a formal education she learned to speak French and Italian. She's also good at reverse psychology and made Ross admit that Darwin's evolution is one of the possibilities not the ONLY possibility.

    • @cassie2055
      @cassie2055 Před 3 lety +31

      agreed!

    • @wendymccoy1093
      @wendymccoy1093 Před 3 lety +25

      I always assumed she knew French because it's part of her families heritage.

    • @bored.973
      @bored.973 Před 3 lety +15

      @D N i know it's and old coment but she does not think of joey as a genius , but likes him so she lies

    • @Rita-sp7hh
      @Rita-sp7hh Před 3 lety +6

      if Kurt Cobain says is because its true!

    • @yanabanana5086
      @yanabanana5086 Před 3 lety +6

      It is the only possibility though :)

  • @shinjiikaribot
    @shinjiikaribot Před 6 lety +5569

    the secret ingrediant is called phalange

    • @grubbyfork8683
      @grubbyfork8683 Před 5 lety +124

      The LEFT phalange.

    • @britta-perry-apologist
      @britta-perry-apologist Před 4 lety +45

      @@grubbyfork8683The left phalange is a plane part. Have you never checked if its alright before boarding a plane.

    • @crescentcreme
      @crescentcreme Před 4 lety +38

      hi im regina phalange

    • @sbomorse
      @sbomorse Před 4 lety +31

      @@crescentcreme Ken Adams, nice to meet you.

    • @crescentcreme
      @crescentcreme Před 4 lety +7

      @@sbomorse haha good someone remembers

  • @cicolusnage2349
    @cicolusnage2349 Před 5 lety +4362

    Thanks to Lisa Kudrow for bringing this great character alive

    • @mariamarques8262
      @mariamarques8262 Před 3 lety +3

      @Arabella // omg this is immaculatee

    • @abhiram6536
      @abhiram6536 Před 3 lety +2

      2000th like is mine 😀

    • @sadiaafrin7143
      @sadiaafrin7143 Před 2 lety +4

      She is my favorite among all of them

    • @secrets.295
      @secrets.295 Před 2 lety +2

      True. Its hard to play this type of character and I find many "weird" characters on sitcom as not funny and I dont get their jokes. To be honest during season 1 pheobe is my least favorite character. But come season 2 she was on fire. I think she starts to understand her character better as time progress

    • @joesifa5235
      @joesifa5235 Před 2 lety +3

      Notice how her character was the only one not copied by HIMYM? One of a kind trully

  • @worldsbywomen5427
    @worldsbywomen5427 Před 3 lety +469

    Phoebe is the "wise fool" archetype, which means she can poke fun at people and say the truth without ever offending anyone. An essential archetype in comedies.

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince Před 5 lety +10089

    when you remove Phoebe, you get How I Met Your Mother

    • @Itsnotgigi
      @Itsnotgigi Před 5 lety +568

      Tyler Durden III so your just going to do Neil Patrick Harris like that

    • @justakid7991
      @justakid7991 Před 5 lety +17

      Tyler Durden III
      👏

    • @lambyi
      @lambyi Před 5 lety +431

      Actually, Lily very much fills for both Monica and Phoebe quite perfectly

    • @sophiaarias9341
      @sophiaarias9341 Před 5 lety +205

      Gianna Leal Neil Patrick Harris is more like the Joey Tribbiani of How I Met Your Mother TBH

    • @tandiem7541
      @tandiem7541 Před 5 lety +208

      Does that mean Gunther is Ranjit?

  • @rowanmunroe3382
    @rowanmunroe3382 Před 5 lety +1720

    I still wish she named that flower company "Phoebe Bouqet"

  • @ilovenycsomuch
    @ilovenycsomuch Před 4 lety +2228

    I love when she has those sudden outbursts of rage hehe
    “You’re n- you’re not, Againn you’re not sPeAkiNg FRENNCCHHHH”

  • @Kthatslife
    @Kthatslife Před 4 lety +570

    Phoebe and Joey have always been my favourites, both were the strongest emotionally.

    • @maricarortiz8754
      @maricarortiz8754 Před 4 lety +1

      Yessss

    • @ewurabena9163
      @ewurabena9163 Před 3 lety +21

      My favorites were Phoebe and Chandler

    • @smithsunleashed
      @smithsunleashed Před 2 lety +9

      They ruined joeys character. he had more traits than being an airhead in the beginning and later he became a child

    • @Protagonist_irl
      @Protagonist_irl Před rokem

      Facts 💯

    • @emilyconcannon
      @emilyconcannon Před rokem +1

      Yes yes yes and they were both outside the group because they didn't know them when they were younger

  • @askingwhyisfree7436
    @askingwhyisfree7436 Před 6 lety +5509

    the thing about friends is that, behind the laughs and giggles there's a deep connection viewers see in each character reflecting real life people. Phoebe is scarred yet because of this, she chose to view the world in a brighter light. She saw the beauty in this world in spite of deep scars. Because of the trauma she saw in her childhood, her everyday troubles seem minuscule and petty. Among all friends I see Phoebe as one with the most wisdom.

    • @vermin2378
      @vermin2378 Před 5 lety +11

      no ross is the worst

    • @Nazmiven
      @Nazmiven Před 5 lety +18

      @Flowered Sentiments I think it was about how she does not believe in evolution

    • @theimplications635
      @theimplications635 Před 4 lety +46

      We all should be a little more like phoebe

    • @adityakurdunkar6655
      @adityakurdunkar6655 Před 4 lety +42

      No one has depicted phoebe like this you are a genius

    • @LazyLounge1
      @LazyLounge1 Před 4 lety +2

      I think she called street smarts remember because she lived on the street

  • @blahblahblahaha
    @blahblahblahaha Před 5 lety +1341

    If you look at interviews in the beginning they were planning on making Phoebe and Ross side characters. But then they started the Ross and Rachel dynamic and they thought of removing phoebe because they were having a hard time making it realistic that these people would hang out with someone like her but then Lisa said “it’s believable if they say so. If they say she’s their friend people will believe. ” I couldn’t imagine this show without her, she’s my all time favorite character. She had the hardest life yet the best attitude, embraced all her quirks and remained confident and secure through anything. A perfect fictional role model.

    • @mohitrawat5225
      @mohitrawat5225 Před 4 lety +42

      basic bitch not Ross but Chandler

    • @samanthaflorence733
      @samanthaflorence733 Před 4 lety +24

      It's Chandler not Ross

    • @Shinn0
      @Shinn0 Před 4 lety +2

      i can imagine, - its how i met your mother

    • @nancythapa6257
      @nancythapa6257 Před 3 lety +12

      Ross and Rachel were always meant to be.
      But Joey and monica were going to be the next couple not mondler.

    • @somebody-xu4mz
      @somebody-xu4mz Před 3 lety +9

      @@nancythapa6257 Wait is that why they had Monica fancy Joey in the flashback episode

  • @swarleyyyy8206
    @swarleyyyy8206 Před 5 lety +769

    Phoebe Buffay has always been my favourite.
    All hail, Princess Consuela Banana Hammock !

  • @songbird6414
    @songbird6414 Před 4 lety +845

    “I lost my mom to suicide...”
    *laugh track plays*

    • @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini
      @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini Před 3 lety +29

      Wrong TV show, Friends filmed in front of a live audience

    • @songbird6414
      @songbird6414 Před 3 lety +88

      Delvirah Sabatini that somehow makes it worse

    • @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini
      @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini Před 3 lety +16

      @@songbird6414 ...I honestly didn't think like that before 😂

    • @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini
      @DelvirahSabatinidheesabatini Před 3 lety +71

      @@songbird6414 I just remember, in the context of this scene, Phoebe was trying to come up with an excuse as to why she should get the blueberry muffin from Rachel. It was meant to be a joke hence the laughter

    • @songbird6414
      @songbird6414 Před 3 lety +6

      Delvirah Sabatini lol. Sounds like something Phoebe would do.

  • @marimarcalbero7435
    @marimarcalbero7435 Před 3 lety +118

    "Your career doesn't mean everything," I'm 24 and it hits different now. Having peace of mind sometimes really what makes you more contented.

    • @alim.9801
      @alim.9801 Před rokem +1

      I know whatcha mean man I really do

  • @milfsfilms
    @milfsfilms Před 6 lety +796

    phoebe is rlly each of the friends' subconscious

    • @geniusonyeo
      @geniusonyeo Před 6 lety +10

      Isabela Louise 😭 omg yess

    • @romitadey
      @romitadey Před 5 lety +4

      That is so beautifulllllly appropriate!!!!😃😃😃

    • @benbooth6857
      @benbooth6857 Před 4 lety +2

      She’s like Dorothy’s Toto

  • @Earth2LalaLand
    @Earth2LalaLand Před 5 lety +460

    11:24 It makes so much sense that Phoebe was the only person dressed and early the day that Ross had that big speech and Joey wore all of Chandler's clothes. She really honours her commitments..

  • @AngelineProductions
    @AngelineProductions Před 5 lety +89

    Phoebe is the most honest, authentic friend; she is unapologetic about who she is and how she chooses to live her life.

    • @donpula6349
      @donpula6349 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes, I would say the same thing. Also, I'm happy that she's married with Mike. Later, she's decided to live her life with Mike in another neighbourhood to have a normal life without toxicity. She overcame hardship in life. A strong person.

  • @alisonsheep
    @alisonsheep Před 5 lety +1219

    Phoebe was a kind of role model for me, growing up in the 90s. Here was this optimistic, vivacious woman with a highly troubled childhood yet a resilience and strength unseen on TV. I think it was just once that she was bitter in thinking the universe owed her for the crap she had gone through (during her wedding episode). It's not the just-world fallacy rearing its ugly head (which I'm told is not an uncommon cognitive distortion among ppl with childhood trauma/PTSD). When life beats you down, you don't have to stay down forever. Or do. The choices are yours to make and life has its upsides

    • @jillianm5781
      @jillianm5781 Před 4 lety +4

      jisatsu I feel the exact same way.

    • @atomnous
      @atomnous Před 3 lety +4

      I've had become bitter with life too and learn many things from this character.

  • @cellardoor199991
    @cellardoor199991 Před 6 lety +597

    irony: Phoebe is so weird, eccentric and wild that becoming regular, traditional, orthodox is OUTSIDE her "comfort zone" and is really her goal and character arc. WOW!

  • @enricotolentino2537
    @enricotolentino2537 Před 5 lety +402

    The incomparable weirdness and uniqueness of Phoebe Buffay is one of the secrets of FRIENDS success. Lisa Kudrow was born to play this part.

  • @kittyem63
    @kittyem63 Před 4 lety +169

    I really relate to Phoebe now more than ever. I became an orphan, I was homeless at some point and these things really messed me up but I choose not to harden my heart.

    • @amethystferns
      @amethystferns Před 3 lety +16

      You're a very strong person and I'm so glad that you've gotten through all of that and haven't let those experiences harden your heart. I hope you're in a safe, happy place now 😊

    • @munimunus6141
      @munimunus6141 Před 3 lety +9

      Same, I relate to her for same reasons. I can understand where others are coming from because originally I am from middle class, but it all changed for me, so I see those characters as clueless.
      But I see Ross, not Rachel to be the most snobish one.

  • @leandromv170
    @leandromv170 Před 5 lety +5578

    You're a miserable being if you don't love Phoebe Buffay.

    • @ofdragonsdreamed8218
      @ofdragonsdreamed8218 Před 4 lety +56

      The one thing I dislike are episodes based around her. Because of her lack of an important part of the plot she just goes around in her own separate things while the others are intertwined.

    • @callummandragore9004
      @callummandragore9004 Před 4 lety +10

      Phoebe is best girl

    • @jp3813
      @jp3813 Před 4 lety +63

      @@ofdragonsdreamed8218 They're nice breaks from the typical main storylines of the show.

    • @ilovebellatrix123
      @ilovebellatrix123 Před 4 lety +47

      I am miserable being then

    • @ste118
      @ste118 Před 4 lety +16

      @@ilovebellatrix123 me too

  • @amichan9343
    @amichan9343 Před 6 lety +4309

    Phoebe is the most interesting & unpredictable character.
    Rachel is the most developed character.
    Joey is the sweetest, innocent & most genuine character.
    Chandler is the most misunderstood & most loving character.
    Monica is the most neurotic yet the most ambition (all of it came true - losing weight to having a family) & she's the most caring.
    Ross is the geekest, most practical person (asking Rachel to get married after knowing she's pregnant), most responsible.

    • @themeg1145
      @themeg1145 Před 6 lety +20

      Ami Chan Monica the most infuriating control freak

    • @medelhavskorv7947
      @medelhavskorv7947 Před 5 lety +263

      I feel like Monica and Ross are very similar as characters but are disguised as different with genius writing. They are siblings and therfore it makes sense that they are similar but they use their similarities in different ways to make the story more intresting and avoid having two of the same character. They’re both very competitive, ambitious, responsible and perfektionists, but in different ways. They share some character flaws such as over competivness, demnding, need for atention etc.

    • @jancowell
      @jancowell Před 5 lety +83

      Joey? Innocent?

    • @nerdtime1199
      @nerdtime1199 Před 5 lety +17

      @@jancowell lmaoooo

    • @eleftheriagallou4768
      @eleftheriagallou4768 Před 5 lety +74

      nah ross is just a piece of shit

  • @rumudinc3057
    @rumudinc3057 Před 4 lety +32

    Phoebe is the best character ever. She is so cool and confident. She always looks from a different perspective. Also she's always supportive.

  • @elocinaqui24
    @elocinaqui24 Před 3 lety +20

    Phoebe is lowkey my favorite character. She’s a kind, quirky goofball who deep down has simple needs and a heart of gold. I aspire to be like Phoebe.

  • @466chalk
    @466chalk Před 6 lety +1234

    Phoebe is essentially a Bond villain, but well adjusted and nice.

    • @MrParkerman6
      @MrParkerman6 Před 5 lety +4

      She isn't well adjusted, well adjusted means you DON'T come from a broken home.

    • @kyleefeist1324
      @kyleefeist1324 Před 5 lety +49

      @@MrParkerman6 Lol that's not true.

    • @epeyovich
      @epeyovich Před 4 lety +26

      MrParkerman6 what? that's not even close to true... in fact well adjusted means that you have adjusted to what has been given you... It means (usually) that you're adjusting and making the better of the negative that's been given to you. not the opposite.

    • @urmomlovesme811
      @urmomlovesme811 Před 4 lety +10

      @@FairyRosee_ She's definitely not chaotic neutral, she chaotic good.
      Her entire thing is that she wants to put good into the world. She is chaotic, but she always does everything for the greater good.
      A chaotic neutral character sure is chaotic but they have gray moral compass. They would not do anything because it's the good thing to do, they would do it just because they want to. They would do it for their own gain. Someone with nuetral as their moral compass can do both evil and good, but they would do it because they believe that they would like it and they would not do it just becuse that one thing would be evil or good. They don't really care if it's good or evil.
      Sorry, i'm too DnD obsessed at this current moment and i needed to get this out of my system. Feel free to ignore it all

  • @achutamjha2035
    @achutamjha2035 Před 6 lety +424

    Apart from all these deep facts, in my opinion, an important point is that she is bat crap hilarious. She would give one reaction and I'd be laughing till the end is the episode.

    • @borafaruku544
      @borafaruku544 Před 5 lety +10

      Achutam Jha Same here, she constantly cracks me up

  • @prerna1839
    @prerna1839 Před 4 lety +20

    And the fact that she makes songs about all the tragedy with such ease and normality says how much she accepts it. She has gone through so much that general life problems means nothing to her. Plus she believes in herself always and is always willing to be good to everyone.
    I love her. ❤

  • @bigyikes8698
    @bigyikes8698 Před 4 lety +40

    I have a friend who is EXACTLY like Phoebe. Needless to say, my life would be so bland without her.

  • @dlee645
    @dlee645 Před 6 lety +488

    Phoebe was the best part of the show. She was like the court jester who played the part of the fool while unerringly pointing out the truth.

  • @briannalee1998
    @briannalee1998 Před 6 lety +502

    Great analysis on the character! So many people look at her character in a shallow way and miss the fact that she's secretly smart and the deeper parts of her character like her hard childhood, that she didn't allow to harden her and how she helps her friends. I've been waiting for this, but this was WAY better than I thought! Thank you!!

    • @MrParkerman6
      @MrParkerman6 Před 5 lety +6

      She isn't secretly smart, just smart.

    • @OctopusLips
      @OctopusLips Před 4 lety +12

      Not just smart, she's a genius. She survived the streets when she was 14, she taught herself to play a guitar, she wrote songs, she has written 15 books and even without a formal education she learned to speak Frence and Italian. She's also good at reverse psychology and made Ross admit that Darwin's evolution is one of the possibilities not the ONLY possibility.

  • @FaithnSin
    @FaithnSin Před 3 lety +32

    She’s the ‘wild card’. You def need her to introduce plot lines and bring fun. A utility character, one might say. She’s awesome.

  • @allavnukova5980
    @allavnukova5980 Před 5 lety +25

    The most heatbreaking episode of the show was the one where Phoebe tried to ride her new bike in front of all the other guys in order to prove them that she could ride it. I also liked the special bond she and Joey had. Joey was the only one who made it on time for her birthday dinner - it says a lot.

  • @sh5209
    @sh5209 Před 6 lety +201

    She is my favourite character. She's so eccentric, I fucking love it!

  • @MountMister
    @MountMister Před 6 lety +2709

    As a young black man, Pheobe connects to me the most even though she's obviously different from me in appearance.
    I've been waiting for this particular friends video for what feels like forever, however I'm so glad that the video was posted at this exact moment because of the type of week I've had. It's almost as if the universe is definitely looking out for me. After experiencing a tough childhood and being confused about myself, I feel like being a lot more chilled and focusing my energy on helping people is the fulfillment of my character. This is obviously not something that everyone experiences, however it's something that I think Pheobe does that I do in my own friendship groups
    thanks for this video you sexy ladies

    • @MinaF99
      @MinaF99 Před 6 lety +86

      MountMister agreed, dealing with tough shit through becoming kinder and more introspective is something I admire and relate to about Phoebe

    • @IfYouMeetAWolf
      @IfYouMeetAWolf Před 6 lety +10

      Stellvia Stop projecting.

    • @commanderwaddles3483
      @commanderwaddles3483 Před 6 lety +23

      I wish I had you as a friend. I need a Phoebe in my life

    • @infiniteworlds5
      @infiniteworlds5 Před 6 lety +31

      MountMister, have you ever heard of the Myers-Briggs Personality theory? It suggests that there are sixteen basic 'types' of people, based on the way they think, behave, and communicate. Phoebe was an 'Idealist' type, one of the rarer types, and that's why she feels like the odd one out.
      If you've ever felt like you are full of grand thoughts and strange ideas, but when you bring them up you just get a bunch of funny looks, you may also be an Idealist type. If the idea seems interesting to you, I recommend doing some research on it. Knowing more about people could help you find those who are similar to you, and develop your group of true friends. :)

    • @adkerlegand
      @adkerlegand Před 6 lety +11

      MountMister I send you a hug, know how it feels to be “different” as a bisexual mexican, and to let you know it gets better

  • @aly8950
    @aly8950 Před 5 lety +62

    In conclusion phoebe is the friend we all need and the strongest and best character on the show

  • @antwto8784
    @antwto8784 Před 4 lety +18

    Totally relate to Phoebe because I am the Phoebe in my group, always the odd one out, always been different, always felt like I was kind of a freak. Even though my friends accepted me I felt like they didn't accept me as much as they accepted everyone else. There was never a proper bond between me and the others even though I was the one always going the extra mile for them, bending over backwards for them and staying devotedly loyal to them. We need the Pheobes of the world... even though many people mock them and call them weird.

  • @oceansapphire926
    @oceansapphire926 Před 6 lety +523

    The show would be terrible without Phoebe. She's always been my favorite character

    • @monabohamad2242
      @monabohamad2242 Před 4 lety +5

      All of the friends made FRIENDS not just phoebe

    • @BritneyHIAM
      @BritneyHIAM Před 4 lety +23

      @@monabohamad2242 nope, you could easily remove any of the others and still make the show work but without Phoebe, it'd be just another humourless generic sitcom

    • @MikRubin
      @MikRubin Před 4 lety +6

      I wish instead of Joey they made a spin off of Phoebe's and Joey's friendship. I don't really care about the others.

    • @ewurabena9163
      @ewurabena9163 Před 3 lety

      @Soham Mehta it would suck without Ross, Chandler and Phoebe imo

    • @liverpoolfc882
      @liverpoolfc882 Před 3 lety

      @@ewurabena9163 without monica the world would be great

  • @jakocadiz
    @jakocadiz Před 6 lety +743

    At last! Princess Consuela banana hammock! 😂

    • @ChronicallyCurious
      @ChronicallyCurious Před 6 lety +24

      And her hubby, Crap Bag! 😂

    • @ABC4475
      @ABC4475 Před 5 lety +9

      The funniest thing is she even had no idea what banana hammock is until someone told her.

    • @liarose.222
      @liarose.222 Před 4 lety +1

      Was it just me that noticed bannana hammock was sort of like buffay hannigan???? Idk

  • @mimimarie44
    @mimimarie44 Před 5 lety +20

    Watching Phoebe on TV taught me to love myself and she really made me more comfortable with who I am. Especially with the episode where she and Rachel go running. She doesn’t care what people think. And it’s because we only see them once. It doesn’t matter. We are ourselves and we don’t need to be some else for the people around us.

  • @jochlebowski7682
    @jochlebowski7682 Před 5 lety +874

    In a world full of Kardashians let there be more Phoebes!!! 🤞🤞🤞

    • @TheZivin
      @TheZivin Před 4 lety +5

      But idiot will still for plastic instead of books

    • @cait159
      @cait159 Před 4 lety +11

      I’m like Phoebe,my mum might have killed herself (my dad won’t tell me) I’m awkward,sudden outburst of rage,lovable,quirky,weird clothes style now I need a Mike

    • @praveen-gk3lj
      @praveen-gk3lj Před 4 lety +1

      What is kardashians

    • @saichaitanya2329
      @saichaitanya2329 Před 4 lety +1

      🤩😍

    • @mcgil8891
      @mcgil8891 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you !! Well said 🙌

  • @BeckytaSU
    @BeckytaSU Před 5 lety +104

    Phoebe is a life example about overcoming hardship and be a kind and amazing human being

  • @paulafer485
    @paulafer485 Před 6 lety +847

    its funny because my friends have always told me that i was the 'Phoebe' of the group, while i didn''t disliked the comparison i always had the sense it was because they though i was weird, now that i see this; im really proud im the Phoebe of my friends

    • @kanupriyajamwal
      @kanupriyajamwal Před 6 lety

      Eri Taide same

    • @josephinegeorge2645
      @josephinegeorge2645 Před 6 lety +10

      my sister says that about me too, only she means within the family and out of it when she observes how i interact with my friends. hello fellow phoebes! lmao im so sorry

    • @LeilaNaruo
      @LeilaNaruo Před 5 lety

      Me too!!

    • @rashmika9742
      @rashmika9742 Před 5 lety +5

      Yeah, my friend said I'm the Phoebe of our high school friend group, so I watched the first episode and was a little offended lol. 😂Like, is this how you see me?
      But I grew to embrace it. I am a little weird, after all.

    • @sunnylilme
      @sunnylilme Před 5 lety +1

      They've always said I'm Phoebe too..occasionally Dory.

  • @kate2create738
    @kate2create738 Před 4 lety +7

    Phoebe is the guardian angel, does a lot without looking for praise. She is cherished.

  • @elizabethaxley6647
    @elizabethaxley6647 Před 5 lety +163

    Random personal reflections you don't have to read:
    Growing up, my family would watch the news and then Friends, often reruns, most every night. It was a fun family bonding experience (though I can honestly say I most of the jokes went right over my head!). Phoebe was always my favorite character, I felt like I just "got" her in a way. I became a vegetarian when I was 6 because I had just found out what meat was, I was a wide-eyed animal lover, and I was stubborn as hell. Neither my parents nor anyone I knew at the time didn't eat meat. Looking back, I think having an on-screen vegetarian character who was fun, charismatic, and most of all who I related to definitely helped me stick with my decision.
    Your description of her as the "principled" crone who just wants to "make the world better" while still not "hardening herself due to bitterness" and becoming overly dogmatic definitely hits home. The writers totally could have played off her choice to be vegetarian as a big joke, and while it's a sitcom and they still slipped some jokes in there, they used it as a natural facet her character. Her vegetarianism was a genuine wholesome reflection of her worldview and value systems. I took that in as a kid so much. I realized I wanted to make a decision for myself because I felt it was right, and I could do that without resenting others, even in a world that didn't always have the same values. I realized not only would I be accepted by friends while still being different, but most importantly I should just as much accept them without overly prosthelytizing or forcing them to line up with my personal values.
    15ish years later, people are always asking me, "don't it bother you that your SO/parents/friends aren't vegan too?" (stuck with the vegetarianism and graduated to vegan about 5 years back). It doesn't at all. Maybe it's a huge stretch to say that's (at least partially) based on my favorite character growing up, but it really makes sense when you showcase it this way. Never really connected those dots before. Thanks!

    • @Byzantish
      @Byzantish Před 5 lety +5

      nice reflection :)

    • @dharshanization
      @dharshanization Před 3 lety +1

      This is almost what happened to me too. Vegetarian from age 10 and slowly turning to veganism.

  • @mfmf100
    @mfmf100 Před 6 lety +182

    That was actually more interesting than I thought it would be.

  • @natethepotate
    @natethepotate Před 6 lety +167

    I've always identified the most with Phoebe. This video helped me understand why.

  • @heavenlygal101
    @heavenlygal101 Před 4 lety +13

    Thank you, for making this video for anyone who didn't realize Phoebe's value, and appreciate her role.
    For myself, Phoebe is, and forever will be my favourite on Friends. I have always loved her insights, advice, quirky personality, positive attitude, and so much more.

  • @halimabadat4267
    @halimabadat4267 Před 3 lety +22

    Lisa is both an amazing person and an amazing actor...

  • @emilymontalvo7899
    @emilymontalvo7899 Před 6 lety +309

    Without her, there wouldn't be Gladys!!

    • @homelessgunner
      @homelessgunner Před 6 lety

      Emily Montalvo what was gladys..i dont remember

    • @emilymontalvo7899
      @emilymontalvo7899 Před 6 lety +37

      Adarsh Bunny it was the creepy af 3D painting she had

    • @marcelo335
      @marcelo335 Před 6 lety +4

      Emily Montalvo Lol 😂❤️

    • @charmdelish9893
      @charmdelish9893 Před 5 lety +6

      and glynis

    • @monabohamad2242
      @monabohamad2242 Před 4 lety +2

      😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😃😆😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😁😀😊☺😹😸👱👧

  • @robertoconnor1820
    @robertoconnor1820 Před 6 lety +68

    Growing up, I've been hearing a lot of good stuffs about FRIENDS but never really got the interest to watch it . Until I saw that hilarious clip of Phoebe singing to Ross' bagpipes which led me to watch all 10 seasons of FRIENDS.
    I will forever love Phoebe Buffay 💛

  • @stellawi8672
    @stellawi8672 Před 4 lety +42

    Phoebe is the first person who taught me how to laugh about the misery past and still have a great and unique life. Love her from the bottom of my heart 💜

  • @armandotorres8987
    @armandotorres8987 Před 2 lety +8

    She’s always been my favorite character. And even I never noticed how much of the “puppet master” she was on the show and the other characters’ major plot points and decisions.

  • @meganh7526
    @meganh7526 Před 6 lety +367

    Ohh yeah! Clicked on this SO fast. Sad that all the characters have been covered now but looking forward to more character studies (please do Brooklyn 99!!). Sometimes phoebe bothered me for being a little mean spirited toward other characters, particularly in later seasons, but this video really puts it all into context
    Also, seeing the footage of Lisa Kudrow from season 1 always makes me so sad they didn’t stick with the curls. She literally looks like an angel.

  • @plantseedsstaywoke9550
    @plantseedsstaywoke9550 Před 6 lety +1793

    When I first watched this show, I thought Phoebe was an idiot and pointless. Then as I got older, I realized she had the best personality among the girls. Monica is kind of crazy and Rachel is a snob lol.

    • @sugarplum222
      @sugarplum222 Před 5 lety +103

      Plant Seeds Stay Woke phoebe has always been my favorite friend i love her sm

    • @anegron3285
      @anegron3285 Před 5 lety +83

      I always hate Rachel she was so annoying.
      I always love pheobe

    • @hollywoodshopaholic
      @hollywoodshopaholic Před 5 lety +139

      Yeah I wouldn’t want to be friends with Rachel. Monica and Phoebe can be annoying erratic but they’re both responsible, caring people who you could depend on.

    • @scattygirl1
      @scattygirl1 Před 5 lety +56

      @Liza Johnson Yep- and it's never addressed- by her or anyone else; they just all say it's his fault for saying the wrong name, when he only said it because she turned up unexpectedly. She's constantly given a pass for her spoilt behaviour, and apart from getting pregnant never has to live with the consequences of her own poor behaviour, while Ross isn't. It's only Aniston's performance that makes her bearable- otherwise she's an annoyingly selfish character.

    • @freesuckerMCR
      @freesuckerMCR Před 5 lety +74

      @Liza Johnson but she never confessed anything? Literally everyone told her that it was a bad idea and she finally came to her senses when she saw him with Emily and just congratulated him. She never told him she loved him, she let him go. It was a big moment for her character because it was the first selfless thing she ever did. Ross WANTED her to be on the wedding regardless. Rachel was basically prepared to lose him to Emily forever, yet Ross said her name eventhough at the time, he didn't know Rachel was still in love with him. It was his fault.

  • @MartinHCollection
    @MartinHCollection Před 5 lety +57

    without Phoebe there are no Friends... I love her since episode one.

  • @devinbackman9395
    @devinbackman9395 Před 5 lety +34

    This was shockingly insightful.

  • @mariafoteini
    @mariafoteini Před 6 lety +62

    I love Phoebe. She was my favorite out of of all friends! She's so quirky, funny and charismatic. Friends would not be the same without Phoebe.

  • @johnnirivera2848
    @johnnirivera2848 Před 5 lety +58

    I love how you describe Phoebe! She and Chandler are the reason why I have watched F.R.I.E.N.D.S like a million times. :)

  • @nischalprajapati6157
    @nischalprajapati6157 Před 5 lety +58

    Buffay, the vampire layer.

  • @abhinavwarrier3072
    @abhinavwarrier3072 Před 3 lety +13

    "I wish I could, but I don't want to" is what made me fall in love with her.

  • @SophieJackson1993
    @SophieJackson1993 Před 6 lety +188

    I always identified with her way more than any of the other characters.

  • @ashokaayar760
    @ashokaayar760 Před 6 lety +610

    At last
    All the F.R.I.E.N.D.S have been covered
    Thanks for the videos
    It means a lot

    • @mundanemonday46
      @mundanemonday46 Před 5 lety +1

      Why do people keep putting “F.R.I.E.N.D.S” when it stands for nothing?

    • @gyz9599
      @gyz9599 Před 4 lety

      Bread Master maybe because the logo (??) has those dots between the letters u know

  • @sallybranson6042
    @sallybranson6042 Před 5 lety +169

    I was a weird kid, growing up and friends came out when I was nine and I thought phoebe was the coolest friend because she was eccentric. All the girls wanted to be Rachel, I wanted to be phoebe.

  • @weepingwillows21
    @weepingwillows21 Před 4 lety +20

    Phoebe is so like me. I love how she really doesn't care what anyone thinks and just kinda goes with it.

  • @veronicajude
    @veronicajude Před 6 lety +474

    I’ve been waiting for this one.... Phoebe is my spirit animal. Oh, and Lisa Kudrow has said she partly based her character off of Jennifer Anniston and her love of crystals and all things woo-woo... I thought that was funny.

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 Před 6 lety +46

      Wow, I didn't know that!!! That's very interesting (I mean that she partly based her character on Jennifer Anniston)

    • @hollywoodshopaholic
      @hollywoodshopaholic Před 6 lety +76

      Lol it’s funny how Rachel is so uptight but Jennifer is so relaxed

    • @yo-uc7rp
      @yo-uc7rp Před 6 lety +45

      Hahahah this is funny Bc phoebe is such an Aquarius and Jennifer is an Aquarius in real life

    • @raincanbealulcrazy7752
      @raincanbealulcrazy7752 Před 6 lety +2

      veronica jude oh word?

    • @mgmlioness67
      @mgmlioness67 Před 5 lety +12

      Lisa Kudrow is a Leo, the polar opposite of Aquarius, but very often a good match :D

  • @AnyOtherNamePlease
    @AnyOtherNamePlease Před 6 lety +1039

    I LOVE PHOEBE - BEST FRIENDS CHARACTER EVER! :)

    • @chrisanders713
      @chrisanders713 Před 5 lety +5

      Joey was the best character. Phoebe was actually the worst.

    • @Doni080589
      @Doni080589 Před 5 lety +9

      Ok, thanks for the comment and please leave us alone.

    • @blueheaven2135
      @blueheaven2135 Před 5 lety +4

      Joey was good also Phoebe was good too

    • @callumkellly
      @callumkellly Před 5 lety

      Chris Anders nah Chandler is the best character

  • @sophiecat14
    @sophiecat14 Před 5 lety +21

    Phoebe has always been my favourite character, from the first episode, when she's "cleansing" Ross' aura, lol.
    The show would not have been nearly as hilarious (IMO) if it weren't for her. A favourite moment of her's, among thousands, is when she's yelling at her grandmother in *hell* for lying about her chocolate chip cookie recipe... *"You see, it is stuff like this which is why you're BURNING IN HELL!!"* DIED 😂 Another... When she "sings" along to Ross playing "Celebration" on the bagpipes. Even Jen couldn't stay in character during that, lol!
    I'll adore her forever (even named my previously homeless kitten Phoebe/Phoebes, lol), and Lisa Kudrow is absolutely the only actress I can imagine in this role. Her gestures, facial expressions, timing, everything... *ICONIC* ❤️✨💯 (& she also mastered Ursula!)

  • @schang_lh
    @schang_lh Před 4 lety +40

    I can’t imagine Friends without the song Smelly Cat

  • @vayas09
    @vayas09 Před 5 lety +31

    I always liked Phoebe because she's so funny and random... but I never realized the character had that much depth. Mind blown. Great video!

  • @raneenagbariah5565
    @raneenagbariah5565 Před 6 lety +64

    She and chandler are my favorite💜 friends wouldn't be friends without her

  • @friktermind
    @friktermind Před 4 lety +41

    At the beginning I thought it's another gossip channel, but it turns out this is one of the most insightful channels on YT. Thanks!

  • @TheGardenMother
    @TheGardenMother Před 5 lety +67

    Phoebe is like a younger, blonde version of Frankie, from Grace and Frankie.

  • @adimikimkoydu
    @adimikimkoydu Před 6 lety +315

    Phoebe Buffay is my favorite person

  • @Petrhrabal
    @Petrhrabal Před 4 lety +17

    I found out that Phoebe is the only reason I watched Friends... love her!

  • @doxo0
    @doxo0 Před 4 lety +32

    I'm Stoned right now and watching this is making me fell in love with phoebe

  • @carolinepatricia29
    @carolinepatricia29 Před 3 lety +12

    Phoebe is strange, weird, has this crazy personality, and has a very deep background story that you could peel and still there's more inside
    and that's why I love her

  • @4words11letters6
    @4words11letters6 Před 6 lety +163

    Yasssss PHOEBE IS ICONIC AND AMAZING

  • @arundhatipethe5927
    @arundhatipethe5927 Před 6 lety +165

    Phoebe is wonderfully weird 😭 my favourite character ❤

  • @lulilagartos959
    @lulilagartos959 Před 4 lety +10

    Phoebe is my favorite character no doubt. She is really underrated, but she is just so refreshing to the show! ❤️- one of the best characters I’ve ever seen.

  • @CGZ26
    @CGZ26 Před 4 lety +61

    My top three favorite funny moments of Friends are with Phoebe:
    1.- "Pick up the sock Judy"
    2.- When she looses her arm in WWI and goes "ohh no".
    3.- When she starts singing along Ross's bagpipe, that always crack me up.

  • @j-skullz
    @j-skullz Před 6 lety +19

    I always imagined Phoebe as a witch who had magical adventures when the other friends weren't there, furthermore when I read the Harry Potter books I pictured Luna Lovegood as a younger Phoebe because the characters are similar

  • @mhawang8204
    @mhawang8204 Před 6 lety +9

    I often feel Phoebe is underrated as just a ditzy, oddball blond. Thank you for this video pointint out her depth and complexity!

  • @vernelljohnson9300
    @vernelljohnson9300 Před rokem +8

    I love her she is so funny.

  • @joamimynhardt4827
    @joamimynhardt4827 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for this video. Phoebe has been my favorite character since the very 1st episode. Your video is the perfect explanation of why she is so amazing. She's incredibly funny, self confident and so incredibly kind even though she had the hardest life by far. And even though her sister is such a mean person, she even reaches out to her. I'm so happy that Phoebe got married in the end. She deserves to be loved and cherished (yes I know this is only a TV show, but I've learned a lot from Phoebe and I'm grateful for her character)

  • @cthulhutheendless1587
    @cthulhutheendless1587 Před 6 lety +212

    My brother's naming his new kitten Phoebe, after Smelly Cat.

    • @yltraviole
      @yltraviole Před 6 lety +16

      What ARE they feeding him?

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 Před 6 lety +7

      yltraviole it’s not his fault!

    • @elz9202
      @elz9202 Před 6 lety +2

      Jack Timothy I had a cat called Phoebe but she died :((

    • @leticiam9355
      @leticiam9355 Před 4 lety

      They won’t take him to the vet

  • @ajmiracletesorio180
    @ajmiracletesorio180 Před 3 lety +6

    What I love most about Phoebe is how she made her friends realized what is wrong, and to make things right. I will never forget the scene where he made Ross confused in the theory of evolution, when he made Monica realized that she is a good roommate, that she made Rachel realized that she wanted the baby.

  • @elenaelizabeth8011
    @elenaelizabeth8011 Před 5 lety +6

    I think it's amazing how liza kudrow managed to not make pheobe seem annoying! She is so talented

  • @dcrazypersiancat
    @dcrazypersiancat Před 6 lety +28

    Finally! One with Phoebe!!!

  • @jaymichelle8357
    @jaymichelle8357 Před 6 lety +37

    What a phenomenal breakdown of Phoebe. I have never thought of her that way and it’s amazing to see her ftom a different perspective. Great job guys keep the videos coming maybe you guys can do breakdowns for characters in the cast of new girl or how I Met your mother or Game of Thrones or Stranger Things, etc.

  • @AlottaBoulchit
    @AlottaBoulchit Před 4 lety +6

    Phoebe was the best character. I adored her as a child so much that I'd watch just about anything Lisa Kudrow was in that I had access to. It wasn't until recently that I realized how much of an impact she had on my youthful mind. I've pretty much become a Phoebe in my adulthood. 😂 Down to a "plucking things out of other's auras" type level. I'm pretty happy with that.

  • @anawieder5003
    @anawieder5003 Před 5 lety +3

    Phoebe is by far the best character on this show. Altruistic, creative, kind, deeply ethical and unabashed of her difference. I always admired and related to her the most.

  • @Hakajin
    @Hakajin Před 6 lety +93

    I feel like I'm the most like Phoebe out of all the Friends. I'm not that extreme, but I definitely don't hold back from self-expression -- I sing and dance when I feel like it (which is often) without worrying much about who's around. I have a tragic backstory (including when my mother killed herself in a pretty gruesome way), and I'm pretty much on my own... My world-view is more rooted in things like Consequentialism than karma, but I do have a very clear idea of what I believe. I try to be philanthropic, though, yeah, I could be doing better with that... I'm artistically focused, and thus far have kind of drifted through life.
    On the other hand, I don't have that strong friend group (although I wish I did). I'm also not as ok with not having clearly defined goals at 30, and I do struggle with bitterness sometimes. But! I do have a strong sense of self and self-esteem!

    • @svendlundby3638
      @svendlundby3638 Před 4 lety +3

      You seem like a really cool person! I'm sorry to hear about your mom though.

    • @Hakajin
      @Hakajin Před 4 lety +1

      @@svendlundby3638 Aw, thanks!

    • @MustaWizard
      @MustaWizard Před 4 lety +1

      @@Hakajin how did she die?

    • @Hakajin
      @Hakajin Před 4 lety

      @@MustaWizard Well, um... I don't mind saying, but it's always kind of awkward, because people feel bad... But she set herself on fire in our carport.

    • @MustaWizard
      @MustaWizard Před 4 lety

      @@Hakajin oh damn, how old were you?

  • @goodlord370
    @goodlord370 Před 6 lety +21

    When you love Friends so much you’ve watched every episode 12 times (and counting) and you’ve watched every CZcams video about it.... 12 times

  • @minhhien4148
    @minhhien4148 Před 3 lety +3

    I just love Phoebe the most.

  • @WolfLykaios
    @WolfLykaios Před 5 lety +45

    Phoebe is a Ravenclaw! Now I get it!
    You guys are awesome.

  • @CarolinaMillan
    @CarolinaMillan Před 6 lety +101

    Yay! Finally Phoebe!

  • @TheGabbieShow
    @TheGabbieShow Před 5 lety +6

    why did this make me cry??

  • @karmaalbelbaissy66
    @karmaalbelbaissy66 Před 4 lety +4

    Phoebe will forever remain my favorite character from Friends, she always knows how to break up fights between the other friends, and it feels like she is part of the audience just watching all the drama go down from a distance
    But then when it comes to meeting her true love (Mike) she made our hearts glow on her wedding day
    She is daring, bold, hilarious, beautiful, extraordinary, and above all unpredictable
    Even with her rough background and childhood, she never lets that outgrow the glowing child inside of her
    She always says the things that people in the audience are thinking (like when she confronts Ross about his love for Rachel, or when she helps Rachel realize her feelings for Ross)

  • @edum.6353
    @edum.6353 Před 5 lety +4

    that was a very good documentary about my all time favorite friend's character. I wish I had a friend like Phoebe. Love her!