After This Mom Climbed Into The Crib With Her Baby, She Shared The Heartbreaking Reason Why
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- čas přidán 19. 05. 2018
- When one new dad returned home to find his wife curled up with their baby in her crib, he thought it was adorable. He was so enamored with the scene, in fact, that he took a photograph of it to look back on in years to come. At the time, however, he had no idea of the heartbreaking reason behind his wife’s actions.That woman, moreover, is Dayna Mager, who had first met her husband Matt when she was just 12 years old. They would become high school sweethearts and, in 2010, eventually go on to tie the knot. Then, in October 2015, the couple from Ann Arbor, Michigan, welcomed their first child - a girl named Luella.
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My mom said she didn’t have to deal with me when growing up because I could take care of my self but she coddled my sister because she couldn’t. I always felt left out. No matter how strong your child seems please give them equal attention. It really affected my self esteem.
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Highbaby9 so sorry that you felt that way.... I’m sure your mom didn’t mean it the way it sounded. I’ve had 3 kids, and after my 3 child was about 3 I could relax a bit and think about their futures. My firs thought was that my oldest J. Was already independent and was fairly good at amusing herself, she was 9. My 2nd daughter S. was 6 and she demanded attention constantly, and if something was really wrong I got a full blown temper tantrum. She handled things badly and I thought to myself, she’s gonna make a lot of mistakes and I’ll be picking her up and dusting her off many times. My 3 rd child J. my only boy was a quiet boy who just watched everything very intently, he did everything late...walking,talking,potty training etc. there wasn’t anything wrong, he just wouldn’t do it till he could do it right. Let’s fast forward about 30 yrs. my oldest, J a girl is now married has a 6 yr old son, has worked for the same company since she was 16. She’s stable secure, I don’t have to worry about her. My 2nd daughter S. Never made it past 17. She was killed in a traffic accident. My son J, has a 3 yr old son.....he and the mother are not together, as the have a history with drug addiction/abuse. We don’t really have a good relationship and probably never will.
My point is your mom just knew you would be ok, she didn’t say it to hurt you. If anything she really meant it as a compliment! Never doubt a mother’s 💕
So sad, I just don’t understand why people don’t love more like this mom and so many others. We all need to love more.
I'm not gonna lie whenever I hear my 6 month old cry no matter what time it is I always go to him and I always will
How sad is that that they all learned to be quiet because noone was coming to give them love and comfort? So heartbreaking!!
Learned helplessness
I think every day about the babies that were seperated from parens at the border. that is so sad
Why would any woman feel like a "failure" because she had a c section? Something isn't right with our culture when women are feeling this way, and I have heard other women say this dozens of other times. Getting a c section is not failing. It is a horrendously challenging event for a woman...mind, body and spirit. She should feel proud she got through it and not like a failure!
Susan Darby
True, having to have a c-section doesn't make you less of a mother and isn't an easy recovery. One of my daughters had to have c-sections with both her boys who were over 9lbs. She had women who said, "oh you couldn't stick it out through natural childbirth huh?" And she would simply tell them that she did what was the healthiest for her babies and that was all that mattered. She never said she felt like she had failed them in any way and proud that she stood her ground with those who criticized her. Her oldest son graduated high school this year. Both boys are wonderful well adjusted young men. Their mom and dad have done a great job.
I had a c section and I felt like a complete failure. This comment made me almost cry it meant so much. Thank you :,)
My oldest brother was like this when he was a baby. It drove my mom nuts🤗 but this story is so touching how much our parents sacrifice for us. Value and love your parents while they are still around.
Trinh Nguyen
Too late for me. My mom passed away from lung cancer in 2015
Love it. My babies are now teens and young adults so I miss those baby snuggles.
This was a touching video just made me want to give my 3 year old son a big hug even though he's driving me nuts at the moment lol....
Jessica Woodmus LOL enjoy those moments ♡
Jessica Woodmus ha ha ha ha.. I can imagine..
I am glad her baby never had to adjust to no one coming.
Pat Hacker who gives a shit
I was a quite baby.I was left alone alot.sad for those babies.
Tina Rios ..Tina, so sorry honey for the way u were raised..God will give u strength honey and hold u tight, threw everything..God bless u ..
Tina Rios God bless you hun. 💕
Patricia Marie thank you very much
Thanks for sharing your story! I am sure you blessed tons of people who thought they were all alone. Bless you and your family!
Awww this is so sweet! But it's such a shame about the poor orphans. That would break my heart also. 💔
I was just as close with my youngest son as we both almost died at his birth the naval hospital left me in labor for over 48 hr with severe preeclampsia I was almost triple to levels when they told my mom and husband at the time that they need to get him out before they lose both of us. I couldn't let him cry it out and he was born with immune system disorder.
Aww how cute! She cares deeply about her child!
The narrator takes too long to tell the story . . . by the time that he got to the point, I didn't care anymore.
Too long and dragged out.
Good story I was born 6 early and my foot was stuck in my moms rib cage my mom had to have emergency c section because I stopped breathing
My heart breaks for those orphaned babies.. :'(
Sad shit. I’d never leave my baby alone. Thankfully I live with my husband, plus when the baby comes along who cares about concerts!
A sweet expression of Mommy Love for her Child.
When I gave birth to twins back in 1998, the boy had group B strep & almost died. He spent several weeks in the hospital & because he also had severe acid reflux which caused projectile vomiting of his formula, the doctors wouldn't allow him to take a bottle, only a pacifier dipped in apple jelly. They were afraid he might aspirate. He cried so much because he was hungry. I climbed up into the big metal hospital crib so I could hold his pacifier in his mouth & cuddle him. Hey you gotta do what ya gotta do when you're a mommy.
Miss Noname Thanks for sharing and glad your twins made it! You are lucky to have twin boys because that is what I really want if I ever have kids. Your story made me miss my late mother and how forever grateful I am to the sacrifices that she has made for me. But I took care of her until the last day so I was glad that I was able to at least able to do something for her. The bond between a good mother and child is truly touching.
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Well done Dana! There's nothing more to say.
So sweet and touching. ❤❤
I love this story it's sad what motivated her however her actions was beautiful Amen
Heartbreaking......... I wish all the children all over the world had a mommy like this mommy.
I had this exact feeling with my firstborn. He had colic and I dragged through months on 3 hours sleep when I was lucky. It broke me but he is mine and I am his. When his sister was born I made her that promise too. They are almost grown now. Over the years I've been told I'm too protective but they are happy, healthy, and outgoing. I've had my long hard nights of viruses and days of comforting the various heart breaks of childhood. I don't regret being "overprotective" even for a minute. My kids are brave and strong because they feel safe. They can handle whatever the world may dish out because they know they are truly and deeply loved. I am SO blessed to have been able to be there when they needed me. It was hard, so hard but worth it for the bond we share and the love I see in them not just for me but for others as well. Nothing worth it comes free. To any new parents reading this I encourage you. You will make mistakes we all do but love your kids; they WILL forgive you. Mistakes made in love are easy to forgive. Be the parent your heart wants to be and don't let others discourage you. I wish I could thank this woman for sharing her story. Best wishes to everyone reading this who is struggling through the hard parts. They don't last forever. You'll get there.
That is being a parent. That's wat they do. Is protect there children. Be there for them no MATTER WAT.
That’s so sweet, but the orphans are still silent. 😢😣
What a lovely family I wish them all a happy, bright,and beautiful life.
My wife gave birth by C-section to both our children who are now 39 and 37 years old. Back then there were women who said to my wife that she didn't really experience childbirth and that she really can't claim having all the feelings of motherhood since she didn't push a baby out the birth canal. People can say the most hurtful things.
If you hear of an extreme case, you should not necessarily go to the other extreme. Children should feel loved and cherished but its just as dangerous if they are idolized
They realise: No one’s gonna come for them 😢😢
The reaction shouldn't be to the photo it should be to the children suffering in Uganda.
I heard this story from the lead singer of the Christian band Side Walk Prophets. This was his experience. My heart broke too.
That is such a sad story that she was told, it's heartbreaking
She is so lucky
My daughter and I slept in the same room till she was about 9. We had bunks. I was in the top bunk, where I'd always slept, and she was in the lower one. If she ever needed me I was always there. As a mom you can't afford not to be. They grow up way too fast. You hold them tight as a baby, blink and they are going off to a friends house to play. Every moment is precious.
Im welling To see the man more the anything and im love hem one only for me .
Seriously the background music is ruining the whole story. It’s like action music. The story would’ve been really touching without it.
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2:49
Is there cliff notes?
Watt a story so sweet 😊
A beautiful mother baby bond. Those poor other babies break my heart.
A true loving mother
What a beautiful baby! Luella! Beautiful name!
Tamara your correct on that one ill do the Same ill go to those 100 babies and hold them as well
This made me cry
So sad
It sad because this is what my mom did was when I cried she would just let me cry till I gave up crying but really now it just made me scared to be alone now i don't do so well when I'm alone now because I'm afraid I'll be like that forever ig
Devin Turtle Bands... I read in my baby book that a Dr told my parents to give me sleeping pills, so they did. Am I alright? No. I sympathize with you. The right type of therapy can at least help. I encourage you to keep looking, sweetie 😘. It's never too late. 🌹💗
2:48
Just get to the point already
I am disappointed she & her husband didn't become missionaries and go to those babies and give a few hours 2 each one every day holding them loving them, that is what I would have liked to hear. If someone could make it possible for me to go, I would live & care for each & every baby there. God be with those baby's & the people that do their best to be there for them.
Jade Hunter she has her own baby to look after. She can't ignore her own newborn for two hours.
I might agree but in this case they said children in Uganda. So actually moving there would have to occur first.
I made the same promises and I kept them, and I will always be there uf my children need me, no matter what, nothing stops a mom from being with their babies, unless they don't want to be a mother, I would have had ten babies if my body would have let me, lol!!
On and on and on and on.........
After 2 minutes and 30 seconds I can't no longer watch this guy talk too much
Why was a very quiet baby....my parents forgot me a home once....
Eighth
I too sacrifice all my days and years with my three kids without their dad since he traveled all the times n now I want to do a bit of travelling myself am considering real hard.
T
If u know Jesus as your savior & he shows u Babies in need of Love, then they should be asking theirself is there any way that I can help share the love I have been given for not just my babie but others that need Love. God wants us to serve him by sharing, his Love, Word of salvation to those in need. You will be Blessed if you live the life God meant u too. Love & Blessing to those whom follow in the steps, God has put before you. 💕
Jade Hunter so sad that these babies are already conditioned at such a young age to not cry out for anything that is bothering them.
Unfortunately and I pray that the bonding stage has not been so damaged that they may never know that love.
I guess the don't have a program here where grandmothers or older aunts can came in and rock and just hold them-awhile just to provide some sort of bonging for these babies. This is the kind of stuff that gets me the most. No way could I pass and not try to do absolutely nothing.
Dottie O I would have thought they would have tried to do something for the babies, get their church involved to find a way to reach out to them. So sad, I pray for babies& children & animals every day that God would send Angels to watch over them, give them help. I hope I can find a way to help them. If there is a way God will show me.
God be with you.
Jade Hunter
And you as well my friend. May the knowledge be passed on and on.
Jade Hunter honey how do you know exactly what they actually done behind the curtain. God also asks us not to be boastful of the blessings we share to others. I dont think we should b "judgeing" this . Im sure if they went there they done something if it wasnt but donate money. We dont knw what god put on their hearts or even their walk with god . I think the story was a way of showing how grateful we should be actually. For all we knw her or her husband are sick in sme way that they dont share and cant take on the responsibility of 100 plus (beautiful) babys. That situation may had happened bc god wanted her to see she needed to cme out of her depressed time and love and enjoy that baby she has. There may be more to the story.......... never know. I will say either way god knws those missionaries that travel are out to help and love others. God will bless them for whatever they had to give. Even if it wasnt much. I knw you said you will b praying, i also will b praying for those babies tonight. All in all i knw god has his eye on them . Thank you lord, whatevers in your will lord
Old Fashion Mommy
How was Jades comment being judgmental or boastful in your opinion? Sharing in itself is a blessing to others just as this mother explained. I have an aunt and uncle and a niece who are missionaries and have witnessed similar situations in orphanages in Africa and Nepal. They helped set up Christian outreach programs for as many of the orphanages as they could.
One of the locations strapped babies to potty seats for hours where they cried and rocked back and forth. They were able to gather volunteers to come in daily and help in many areas. Several babies families were funded so they could take their children back into their homes and care for them again.
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This isn't heart breaking it's stupid. It's dangerous for an adult to sleep in a crib for multiple reasons and not like either where dying she heard a safe story and acted irresponsible. If she wanted be near her baby 2 things could have done 1 sleep on floor near crib. 2 bring baby to her bed. Ppl act like this is precious wwell it ain't
Lola I license childcare and in like that's not a "Safe Sleep" practice.
Think about that next time you think CIO is okay.
Hi first comment
Posting first isn't really a comment.
Jealousy at the most
Also, buzz off and notice I don’t swear bc it’s not good to and have a nice day jealous people😃
She sure sounds altruistic now...too clingy! wait until her daughter becomes an adolescent
so sad