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- fiance LIED to me | AITA reddit stories Honey Hearts
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Do you think OP made the right decision to end the engagement in story 1? What do guys do in sleepovers? Let us know in the comments!
00:00 another juicy episode
1:15 story 1: choose between your best friend or me
4:04 fiance likes his "fishing" trips
8:16 story update - this is TEA
12:11 what do guys do on sleepovers
17:27 definition of affair
21:41 internet is YELLING
24:02 story 2: worst birthday surprise ever
30:12 homebody's worst nightmare
34:50 let the man stay home
37:45 what did she plan for YOU
40:02 story 3: ultimate relationship test
45:21 there are 2 types of couples...
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These stories had us running to the comments to see what everyone else thought. The audacity of fiance in story 1!😡 What do guys do on guy sleepovers? What are your takes on the stories?
That fiancee needs therapy. Op should leave his cheating butt and find someone mentally stable
Can't believe he was ready to walk down the aisle with OP😤
With the birthday trip story, it reminds me of stories when people try and turn their partners into people they are not. Like gifting him a woodsy running trip because you wish he was more active.
Ooh that could be a reason! The misery from the husband was so loud in the story😂😭
He should’ve just ate that cinnamon role in the car 😂😂
Moral of the story 3 - don't eat snacks without sharing 😂
It's sooo crazy how his Shawn guy is cheating and MAKING HIMSELF A VICTIM. Oh, I don't know what going on, oh he is my world. Dude, wake up and take responsibility for your actions. Incredible.
the audacity he had🙄
The birthday planning wife, made me think she picked things she had seen her favorite tiktockers
LOL the little videos that make you think wow it's a great idea when in reality it's terrible
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Aww thank you so much! 🩷🩷
Story 1. OP should work on her self esteem. Even without the cheating, no one should tolerate situations when their partner shows this kind of disrespect. If partners don't look at each other with eyes full of love, it's a bad sign.
Story 3. Looks like OP's gf was projecting her frustration on OP. He wasn't courteous and empathetic, but his actions are understandable. Also, dieting is not working, it's a temporary fix and unnecessary stress to one's body. What works is a complete lifestyle change and a new mindset.
Junk food shouldn't be viewed as something good you deny yourself, it should be viewed as garbage that you don't want to put in your mouth because you know how this food is being made, why, and what it does to your body. Then it won't be appetising even if someone eats it in front of you. Everything depends on a good enough reason to change.
Thank you for the video, it was nice listening to you! It's like having a quality girl time. I wish you great success, I believe you two can do anything you put your minds to. 😊
Vy here! Disrespect was so loud in story 1😭. Mindset change is so important in diets to make it sustainable. The US' addiction to junk food is so bad. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and support!🥺🩷🩷🩷
With the second story, just imagine how different that weekend would've gone, if the kids had stayed with a babysitter (I mean, the youngest has to learn to sleep alone at one point), and wife and husband went to that hut alone for a steamy romantic weekend. My bet would be, that OP wouldn't have minded at all. - Candles, their favourite music, a bit of lace, wine/champagner, some nice food to nibble on (like strawberries, whipped cream, and chocolate sauce... 🤭) and a whole lot of lasciviously idling around. - Now, that's a birthday present for your partner of 10 years, right? Even if that partner is otherwise a homebody. 🤷♀️
Would it have been more expensive? Maybe, but not necessarily. Perhaps, the kids could've stayed with family or friends in exchange for returning the favour, everything else would've added up to, at most, marginally more, but for infinitely less stress during and after the getaway.
Anyway, I'd say OP is not the AH for telling his wife he didn't enjoy it. It was the wife who was the AH, because she, let's be honest, didn't take him into consideration at all, and when OP calls her out, she starts gaslighting/emotioally blackmailing him.
With story three, I have to say that whatever OP did, it would've been wrong. Including calling his GF while at the bakery to ask her whether she wanted something, too. Had she said yes, he would've 'tempted' her, and gotten into trouble because she had explicitly told him time and time again, that she doesn't want any pastries, had she said no, she still would've been peed off, that he got himself something and had called and tried to 'tempt' her, when he knew she was on a diet. Even sharing the one pasty, could've gone wrong, especially if she had half of it and found, that she didn't reach her weekly weightloss goal, or something. There was no way, he could win this, except for not having a pastry himself either. But, if someone else wants to lose weight, why should everybody else stick to the same diet, too? Because here's the news, even when you're on a diet, you'll still pass the one or other bakery, or restaurant, or café, where people eat delicious pasties and cake, you'll still see your favourite treats when at the supermarket, or still watch your friends eating something nice and tasty at a restaurant when you're just having a salad without dressing.
I get the GF, though, everytime I went on a diet, I got hangry as well. As I grew older, I stopped dieting and rather started to love my body as it is with all it's lumps and bumps and stretchmarks and saggy boobs from my pregnancies. I'm not overweight, I just don't have the same figure as my twenty-year-old self anymore, and being in my mid-forties, that's absolutely okay.
Also, since the GF doesn't necessarily need to lose weight quickly, so perhaps the solution could be, that she has a designated day once a week, where she allows herself to have a treat. Losing weight quickly, often isn't such a good idea anyway. 🤷♀️
OP is not the AH.
In the first story OP very obviously isn't the AH, but both her fiance and his best friend are, for going behind her back instead of having an obviously much needed conversation. Yes, the fiance was confused about his feelings, but that's not a good enough excuse for not talking to his future wife. As for the best friend, he should've distanced himself instead of constantly inserting himself into the relationship. - And just as with you, I would say the same thing, if the best friend had been a woman. It's an AH-move towards the unaware third party (in this case OP) regardless of gender or sexuality.
What do you think about doing an episode where you only read stories from BestOfRedditorUpdates? They have some really crazy stories with wild twists and turns I think it could be super fun 🤗
If she is on a diet be mindful it maybe rough sticking to it. If it a routine ask about it before hand. And try not snacking in front of her
Vy here! Temptation is hard to resist and tends to be a 2 person issue (person on the diet + their partner trying to work around it). Agree not snacking in front of her would help with the diet a lot
I wouldn't be mad if my husband didn't get me a treat when he got himself one. But i understand the logic of checking in first when it was something you did every time before
That's fair! Haha our reactions show how much of a foodie we are😂
@@HoneyHeartsPodcast I'm SUCH a foodie, too! But sometimes I just get myself a treat. And sometimes I just get him a treat. Or I do both.