Brutal Truths Every Woman Over 50 NEEDS To Hear
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Discover the Brutal Truths Every Woman Over 50 Needs to Hear in this eye-opening video. As we age, society bombards us with false narratives about what it means to be a woman over 50. But it's time to reject those limiting beliefs and embrace the power and confidence that comes with experience.
In this video, you'll learn the value of your unique perspective and the wisdom that only comes with age. You'll be inspired to break free from societal expectations and embrace your true self. Plus, you'll gain valuable insights on how to navigate health, relationships, and career in your 50s and beyond.
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Turning 50 WAS a difficulty for me. Now I'm 76, still working as a museum moderator, I'm a college educated painter as well, raised 4 kids love fashion (RL fan and wearer), my house, my doggy and enjoy life. I had to learn to be independent after the nightmare of a divorce at a age of 68, when my husband left me for a 20 years younger woman, who was inside the group of our good friends. I really enjoy my freedom now, am mentally stronger than ever in my life and am filled with thankfulness.
Life will throw you a curveball any time it likes. But I'm happy to hear you have moved forward with a thankful heart! God bless!
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Wow what an inspiration ❤
@@marymohagheghi4875 thanks so much for stopping by!
I like you comments. My partners of 16 years asked me to get my own place to live but we would still see each other. This has been extremely hard and I can't get over feeling rejected...I'm in my early 60s...I'm so sad but trying to move on.We get on well but I don't understand why this happened...we had issues but he won't discuss things
Now that I'm 63, I look back on my 50's and am so glad I'm past that. In my 50's, I felt I still had to get up and go to work every day, dress up and wear makeup, and keep up appearances. But after starting my own business at 60, I dress for my own comfort and get lots of rest, stay hydrated, pamper myself and don't stress out. I feel great because I no longer need to please anyone except myself.
Well said!
Couldn’t agree with you more as another 63 yr old !!
I’m enjoying aging, it’s a privilege not everyone gets. I feel I don’t have to prove anything anymore. I just try and look the best I can given my age and my shape.
Agree 100%!
I’m 67 and still working, but feeling a little lonely sometimes as I live a good distance away from my friends and sister. I’m working on building new friendships. Thank you for your message!!!
Loneliness is real. All we can do is try our best to meet new people and engage in new activities. We can do it!
As a retired special educator, mom and grandmother who just turned 68, I treasure getting older. Wrinkles are a minor annoyance! As a cancer patient now in remission, I know that I have more to give and to experience in this world. I have been given each day as a gift to enjoy and choose joy and health! I want to thrive and I look forward to the future, though I have challenges in life as the caregiver for my husband who has Lewy Body Dementia. I have goals - I just registered for my first 5 kilometre fun run since having my two significant surgeries and two rounds of experimental radiation, I take violin lessons and play in a Pops Orchestra, love spending time with my husband, daughters, and grandchildren, and devote myself to issues of human justice! Life is great
Good for you! Life is precious and is meant to be lived and lived fully. God Bless!
This couldn't have come at a better time for me. I am 69, a mother of nine and grandmother of 32 and still working full time, but I'm sitting here bandaged from a double mastectomy two weeks ago. I'm looking at every facet of my life through new lenses, and this has given me a lot of food for thought. Thank you, Beth.
God Bless. Life can be so challenging at times. But remember to look forward no matter how hard it can be!❤️
50 still felt young to me. At 72, I do know I look older, but still take care of my health, appearance, clothes, skincare, dental care, healthy eating , exercise,and spend time with friends and family!
It's the little things that add up, especially over time.
At 80, I'm trying hard😅
Dear at 74, I’m trying to,too! I am having to make concessions but my New Years resolution this year is to dress better and look “better”. My nod to fashion is to try not to dress in a frumpy way. That being said, when do the old lady clothes come into play? I feel I can wear whatever I want, as long as I am not trying to dress too young.
And I bet you are living a vibrant life in the process!
Bless you from France 🇫🇷🤍
I’m 78 and love this! Yes, keep the present front and center, but prepare for the future. If we exercise and take care of ourselves …the future will be bright, and we will be able to manage those moments that aren’t. 😊
Well said!
I am 61 and work as a lunch and recess monitor at an elementary school. One of the kindergarten teachers broke her arm and I was asked to be her helper for 8 weeks.I was so hesitant to accept the offer, then I thought about it and said yes. I absolutely loved it! Sometimes change is good! Sadly, this is my last week.
I'm so glad you had the opportunity to say yes to a new experience!
I love that, Beth - "Aging is a privilege." I always remember a quote from Deepak Chopra: "The past is history, the future is a mystery and this moment is a gift. That is why this moment is called the 'present'." This helps me embrace the today. This was a wonderful inspirational video. Thank you, Beth.
Thanks for sharing! I so appreciate you being here.
Beth, thank you so much for this video! I’m turning 50 this year. Past two years had been very rough and challenging for me as I entered perimenopause with massive changes in my body and mind. Despite all the negative changes I made one great discovery- I stopped caring about opinions of other people. I no longer rely that much on what the others think about me, instead I am more self confident and rely on my own judgments. I am who I am and I want to feel comfortable with myself- I don’t need to satisfy the expectations of others!
Hi Beth…I’m 79 and still take care of my skin, wear make-up each day and style my hair. I go to Silver Sneakers three times a week and trying to eat healthy. Like many my age I have arthritis and don’t feel like going to exercise, but I know I have to continue to maintain stamina and prevent falling. I don’t drink enough water which I should change. I hope those who watch you vlog will take your advice. I’ve played Mahjong for a few years and attend Bible study. I have several friends who I’ve known for years. I think our faith keeps us content and we’re happier.
Good for you! Thats how we lead a vibrant life!
I really enjoyed this video, your spot on. I’m in my late 60s and still put in a lot of effort to staying healthy and dressing well. I started a serious regular exercise and weightlifting routine when I turned 50 and have kept it up. It has made a huge difference. i’ve played the piano since childhood and since retiring, I now have time to really practice and work on difficult pieces and memorize music again. I’m always sad and I hear people say they can’t memorize anymore, can’t do this anymore,can’t do that anymore… We need to all be nicer to ourselves.
I so agree!
I’m in my early 70’s and living a great life. I see friends and family, enjoy the gym several times a week. I have started painting and I’ve had several shows. I follow a few of you on CZcams and enjoy dressing nicely and wearing makeup. I’m working on getting rest, but my dog has her own ideas about how much I need☺️
Keep it up! That's what a vibrant life is all about.
I think I needed to hear this today. I am 64 and ready for the next chapter. We need to realize we will never be young but we can be happy and healthy. Thank you
Thank you for this video Beth
I agree Beth! Great video, thank you. ❤
You are so welcome! Thanks for stopping by!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you Beth!
Glad it was helpful!
Definitely truths that we continually need to review and implement!
Reminders always come in handy!
Beth what a beautiful reminder that our best days are ahead of us. I took notes and am posting some of your quotes. Have a wonderful week.
Yes! Thank you! I'm so happy to hear you were encouraged! That's what this channel is all about.
Great advice. Thank you Beth!
You bet!
Thank you, your topics of discussion are needed, and you talk about them in such a kind and relatable manner. Your videos are very enjoyable, and helpful.
You are so welcome! I’m glad to hear you’re finding value,
You are so right!
Thanks for watching!
Hello from So. Ca. I enjoyed your video very much.
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
Hi Beth! Aging is a privilege! As usual....great spot-on advice!! Thank you Beth! Hugs! :)
You are so welcome!
I'm 60 and I noticed how great your neck looks on this video. What do you do to keep your neck looking young? I have deep horizontal lines all through my neck. Great video.
Young people have horizontal neck lines, too. I wouldn't worry about those. Now, if you have a turkey wattle or two thick vertical bands, that's another story.
@@dammar117 so you just have good genes? You don't do anything for your neck? Yup I have a neck that makes me look older then what I am, could be my genes, yikes! 🤔
I have lines too, but I treat my neck the same way I do my face. It's skincare all the way!
@@Matrix7Adventures Having good genes will only take you as far as 48-50 tops (or menopause whichever comes sooner). After that, nobody escapes sag. But I never paid attention to horizontal lines. As I said, young people have them, too, so I don't care. I do facial exercises to prevent the vertical bands (caused by weakened platysma muscle). To get rid of the early turkey wattle under the chin, I did a lower facelift. I use LED red light, retin-A and a peptide serum. My neck is not firm like a 20-year-old, but it looks pretty good.
I love this and I found it just when I needed to hear your advice! Had been in a hit of funk! I’m 65 and i workout daily and I keep busy and I needed this video just to get me going again! Thank you!
You got this!
Beth, I am a fan of your channel and enjoy your advice on fashion. Today is the first time I recall you addressing diet for ageing gracefully and I LOVE. I am a certified health educator and affiliate with a global health food company( The Juice PlusCompany. Your information is spot on and just know that so many women follow you and can definitely benefit from you saying to eat more fruits and veggies, drink more water, and exercise. So many older women have never made the connection between diet and beauty.
Thank you. Terry Hudson Huntley
Thanks for stopping by! Yes, I even have entire videos dedicated to health and wellness especially our diets.
Beth your eyes are beautiful ! ... great content & encouraging
She does have beautiful eyes!
❤ I enjoy your youtube channel, thank you. To be honest with you this is encouragement that I need at age seventy two.
You are so welcome! The purpose of this channel is to encourage so I'm happy to hear your found that today! Thanks for stopping by!
Great advice love your positive thinking👏👏👏
Our attitude is everthing!
This video was timed so well. After a discouraging surgical outcome you’ve helped to bring me back to reality and brightened my mood. Thank you ❤
I'm so happy to hear it was a timely message. Wishing you all the best!
At 66 I’m doing much better aging than I ever imagined I could. These wonderful videos have given me a great path to follow!
Right?! I feel better at 65 than at 50! I'm so glad you're finding encouragement! That's what the channel is all about.
I was thrilled to turn 51 because neither of my parents achieved that age. I agree with all of your tips for aging gracefully. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this.
Take good care of you. Enjoy life.
I' m 73, heathy challanges the brain is greatful mental , emotional changes. Beth thanks for your advices.
You are so welcome!
I recently learned a new motivation technique to help me with the hard things: sticking to my nutrition goals and daily exercising. I ask myself, what will my life be like in 5/10 years if I do this? What will my life be like in 5/10 years if I don't do this? When I picture myself hunched over, using a cane to get around, and turning down social activities because I don't have the stamina, it's a powerful motivator. I want to live the picture of being active, energetic and involved.
Love that!
Great video Beth, time to get it together @ 71 years old:)
It's never too late!
I have embraced learning all I can about a subject I’ve been passionate about. I ended up in a new masters program, always the oldest in the room - except for one professor who I adored. I loved meeting new young friends and learning new things. So positive, so uplifting. I’d not felt that vibrant since I met my husband in grad school the first time. That worked for me, I wonder what might work for you?
Thanks for sharing!
Hola! Me encantan tus videos❤!! Un abrazo desde Argentina 🇦🇷 😘
Hola, Argentina!
I didn’t mind being 40, I didn’t even mind being 60. But when I was coming up to 50 I sobbed for weeks. It seemed like the end of everything. I should have sought help but I concealed it from everyone even my poor husband.
Now 69, I’ve become more accepting. I’m disabled with back injuries and arthritis, but I still look after my appearance and still love fashion. Getting old is tough but the alternative is tougher still. So I keep on keeping on.
In my 80th year and still going strong….40th birthday was the bad one for me.
Keep on going!
Hi Beth, I completely agree with these rules of aging gracefully. Aging is indeed a privilege! ❤
It truly is! I always love to hear from you!
Thanks for being real!@ ❤❤ We like to use food positive terms. Foods are not bad or dirty. Rather they have more nutrient value 😊
Absolutely!!
Good point
Thank you for the energy, you gave to our life journey in our
"middle age" :))..
P.S:Sorry for my primitive English.🌺
My pleasure 😊
My pivotal point was 60.
I feel too that getting older is a privilege. I've lost so, so many people I loved starting at an early age. They never got to have any of the wonderful experiences I've had in my almost 70 years. I also think that we can thrive at any age. It's all about our attitude!
Thank you so much for this video. Yes, I have been looking at the wrong mirror. I will continue to look at the windshield to enjoy all of the time God has for me. Un abrazo
You are so welcome! Small reminders are so important, but you've got this!
Yes … just lost my beloved dog😢😢😢
And they truly are our best friend!
My heart goes out to you. Grief support groups help a lot. ❤️🩹
I think no matter what age one is that one concentrates on health of entire body and skin; I do also know that consistency of taking care of the body and skin is very important; I had a person tell me once that most woman quit using a product why too early to see if their skin will response to to it; it also doesn't make a difference of the cost of the product.
The younger we start to incorporate healthy habits the easier it is to age with grace, strength, and beauty.
I’m enjoying retirement and don’t worry about my age…can’t change it , right? And certainly better than the alternative!!❤
Absolutely!
Nice video. I´m 62 going 63 in july, and can´t be happy whith my life or cannot look at my self in the mirror some day, because I´ve pain all over the body every single day, and are on pain killers 3 times a day. Thats why I´ve hard time to be happy, but have grandchildren who gave me happy times when the come over 💙💙💙
Honey, I too am on pain medication and have been for almost 20 years. I have degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis. Those diagnosis translate to a fair amount of daily pain. Daily Pain medication does not HAVE to translate into a poor quality of life. FIND SOMETHING YOU ENJOY DOING. For me it has been my iPad. With this little magic machine, I can keep up with friends and family using Facebook, I can learn new things and have endless hours of entertainment using CZcams, I CAN ENJOY THE LATEST BESTSELLING books using Audiobooks. I have learned to quilt and to can watching YouTUBE VIDEOS. My list goes on and on. Very often I will cuddle up with a grandchild or even a puppy to watch a movie. These are just a few suggestions from my reduced activity life. You will quickly find your own. If you don’t own a tablet and a good set of cordless earphones, you are truly missing out. If you don’t feel you can afford to buy them yourself, ask for them for Mother’s Day, birthday or Christmas. I use Apple products because the device itself discourages hacking and viruses by clearing everything out when the device is turned off. Where I live, this is a must. Please don’t let yourself feel your life is over just because you have conditions requiring daily pain medication. If the medication was for high blood pressure, you wouldn’t feel that way so don’t let the fact that you are using a narcotic make you feel bad. We have worked hard to get through our lives, we deserve happiness and peace throughout our older years. Rest, use ice packs and warm heating pads as needed, take your meds as ordered, try not to keep adding more and more stuff and DO NOT LET YOUR FAMILY OR ANYONE ELSE MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR USING PAIN CONTROL . IT IS A TOOL, USE IT CAREFULLY, BUT DO USE IT IF IT IS PRESCRIBED FOR YOU. Good luck to you, feel free to answer me back if you want to!
Hi, I’m 65 very very soon, like you unfortunately I don’t have good health, but on the day’s I’m well I go out & the bad day’s I stay home & relax & chill. Sending love from France 🇫🇷 oh I used too love New York, but we hear it’s not so good now day’s? Stay well 🤍
Our health can give us challenges especially with pain. But I would try to incorporate healthy habits one by one.
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I'm trying to find your video or short on improving posture. Can you help?
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I love the windshield/rearview window reminder
Do you need to change the colours you wear when your hair turns grey
Yes! Suddenly all your old colors look very different. I wear warm autumn colors with my dyed red hair, but when I wear it naturally white, those colors look horrible!
Honestly, I didn't change one thing when I went gray at 50. And I still wear ALL the colors.
What jewelry are you wearing today Beth?
What can you do for age spots.
IPL works wonders.
Looking for Jesus to go forward it's been the greatest win in my life. We're living with different heath issues and about to leave this world so spirituality it's the must have into our own work more than any other discipline 😊
This world is but a blink of an eye. But we are commanded to share our talents.
I thought turning 50 was cool! I had money, no kid responsibility, still young enough to have fun. But 60!, Oh, 60 hit HARD. I turned 60 the same year as covid. So I don't know if it was turning 60 or if it was covid or a double whammy..
I’m 61 I feel that I do not have two go are do anything I do not want two it’s good I feel iv done well with my family doesent stop me asking them are they ok ringing ect that will never stop with me but my self I feel iv got reo this age thsnk god had few dark times along my path but nothing I dident sort out yes I look after my self I m a good heart eater I walk I even gave up drinking yes also got dumped because I changed my life style dident suit a person but hay I want two live see my gran kids get married. Ect ❤
Thanks for sharing!
Minha vida mudou muito após os 60 anos, não me preocupo mais tanto com os que outras pensam a meu respeito, uso mais roupas confortáveis e tento curtir meu primeiro netinho mesmo que a distância atrapalhe um pouco. É muito gostoso ver seus filhos crescendo junto com a família deles. Obrigada 😊❤
Good for you!
Buna sera Beth, ti ammiro moltissimo, vorrei tanto che i tuoi video abbiano i sottotitoli in italiano, perché non riesco a capire tutto ciò che dici. Grazie
Even healthy food is having a negative effect on my body, any type of veggies or fruit , are causing tremendous amount of gas. I have made the decision toceat a thing at work! I rather eat at home and have "the gas concert" at home.
I would definitely take a look at which foods are causing a negative effect. It could be as simple as the process of elimination.
Growing older is something you get to do, if you’re lucky.
One day closer to going home to Jesus. My best days are 100% ahead.
That may be true but while we are here on this earth we are to be lights and not hide our talents.
@@BethDjalali Well…..You’re not “hiding” yours……And I’m certainly not hiding mine. So, I guess WE are all set.
Hi Beth, this was a great video. I've always taken care of myself and also always made the effort to look as good as I can. At 64 I'm still doing it. Sometimes other people or friends of a similar age ask me why do I bother and quote things like " You are getting older so why bother now" I know it's because they just can't be or don't want to be bothered. I agree it's also about attitude too, that goes a long way. Thank you for this inspiring video. Regards Julie ❤
I've always wondered why we think we no longer need to care about our appearance because we're older. Old, young, or in between it matters! Why? Because of YOU. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Beth 💖 (beautiful in blue 😊🩵)
You are very welcome!