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  • @Xara_K1
    @Xara_K1 Před rokem +219

    On the parents being told, it amazes me how African parents are with their emotions. I learned with my son that many African parents don't show happiness. They exhibit love. My son is adopted and we got him after a week and when I told my parents that we were taking him in, my parents were completely detached and acted like I'd told them I was buying chicken instead of beef. So I didn't think anything of it because i figured they wouldn’t see him as a grandchild so I tried to move on. Two weeks later I get up, and my parents are at my door with heaps and heaps of baby stuff, from clothes to toys to food and they started getting involved with him and that's their youngest grandchild. When we are at home in the villages, my son and stepdad are joined at the hip and that's taught me a lot about African parents and their emotions. They don't show happiness. They think of how they can make things best for that childs life and I think that's so beautiful.

    • @noxible
      @noxible Před rokem +15

      Why am I tearing up. This is so beautiful. God bless you and your family ❤

    • @Xara_K1
      @Xara_K1 Před rokem +6

      @@noxible ❤️ thank u. It's very humbling. Blessings to you and yours as well 🙏🏾

    • @mariasimon231
      @mariasimon231 Před rokem +7

      This literally made me feel for my mom. I'm starting to get why she's always been the way she's been

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ Před rokem +3

      This is so beautiful❤

    • @nadea2645
      @nadea2645 Před rokem +1

      Wow wow❤this is too beautiful

  • @moomangena457
    @moomangena457 Před rokem +196

    I think Nozi is the most beautiful pregnant woman I have ever laid my eyes on

  • @tsholofelomodise8390
    @tsholofelomodise8390 Před rokem +60

    I understand you so well when it comes to the issue of your mom. I dread being a mother because of the trauma I have to heal from . Thank you for being so open

  • @KMboodles
    @KMboodles Před rokem +44

    God is SO good. UThixo umhle. UThixo usezobamhle futhi!
    I’m thinking back to the Nozi we were introduced to on Facebook back in 2020.. as amaNgesi say, the rest is history 🌸❤️
    Thank you for sharing your story with us and being real & raw. You are a living testament of ubabalo nothando lukaThixo 🫶🏽
    As you and your husband walk this new journey, hand in hand, may God always bless you, protect you and guide you.
    We can’t wait for Baby GT! 🙏🏽💕❤️

  • @sihlezukhanye3831
    @sihlezukhanye3831 Před rokem +13

    The last part of the video hit home 😩 38:08 enkosi Nozi❤🙏🏽I really needed to hear that. When she said, "I have come to realize that if I don't humble myself, God will do that, and I'm afraid that His hand is too heavy. " 😢❤

  • @preciouskhumalo3546
    @preciouskhumalo3546 Před rokem +26

    I get your emotions about upbringing.I had no relationship with my dad and for the first few years as parents I would cry every time I see how hubby fathers our children its a constant reminder of what I missed but of late I get so grateful that they have him and I get to see it❤

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Před rokem +78

    Thanks for taking us with you through this journey! You are loved, appreciated and are a great inspiration to so many of us 🤎

  • @thelmabeauty7696
    @thelmabeauty7696 Před rokem +51

    Pregnancy looks so good on you mama❤❤

  • @noxolomali
    @noxolomali Před rokem +31

    Sis Nozi, you make pregnancy look effortless. Awusemhle! Awusemhle! ❤

  • @sibongilevalashiya
    @sibongilevalashiya Před rokem +156

    Don't skip any ads fam🥰🙏

    • @ronicakuntes9562
      @ronicakuntes9562 Před rokem +8

      She must pin this comment cause I was about to skip the ad then I saw this 😂❤️

    • @sibongilevalashiya
      @sibongilevalashiya Před rokem +3

      ​@Ronica Kuntes thanks for not skipping any ads😘much appreciated ❤

    • @miriammamsymhata9853
      @miriammamsymhata9853 Před rokem +5

      I never get ads when watching your videos. Did I do something or turned done off?

    • @asakhanyabangela6819
      @asakhanyabangela6819 Před rokem

      @@miriammamsymhata9853 do you download her videos or do you stream it?

    • @tinyiko2949
      @tinyiko2949 Před rokem

      You actually made me not to skip😅

  • @phindilevilakati3605
    @phindilevilakati3605 Před rokem +57

    I'm glad we are talking more about breastfeeding not coming so naturally for every woman😪 my daughter totally refused to breastfeed, no one could believe this, but each time I tried giving her the breast she would cry and was not patient with the milk not coming. Yes I was assisted by a senior nurse in a private clinic for 2 days, but baby refused. So yeah I gave up trying, I went for formula and had a very health baby who is 12 years now.

    • @amohelangd
      @amohelangd Před rokem

      Share the exact same experience

    • @jerminapetje6795
      @jerminapetje6795 Před rokem

      Mine too bt dcd to breastpumb for 6 months than went formula aftr

    • @lungisilesokana498
      @lungisilesokana498 Před rokem

      Same experience

    • @kamvagetyengana805
      @kamvagetyengana805 Před rokem

      You not alone sis... even nurses couldnt help me...the little we pumped that is 30ml max...she would vomit it...there after it stopped just water coming...I was soo sad, while other ladies were sharing how they lactated even weeks befor putting to birth

  • @user-vx2qc7tb8t
    @user-vx2qc7tb8t Před rokem +6

    Skhu’s childhood story really broke my heart… imagine your siblings life literally dependant on your efforts💔.

  • @gcobisahallom9593
    @gcobisahallom9593 Před rokem +13

    Thank you so much for your honesty. I love the fact that you can be vulnerable with us with no filter. Pregnancy looks good on you my love. All the best in motherhood. ❤️❤️

  • @nkosana_wowo8042
    @nkosana_wowo8042 Před rokem +21

    Our parents really did what they knew best! apparently if they showed they were proud they believed we would be arrogant.Bona they boast when around their friend but Mna personally I appreciate how my own mom is unlearning and learning to tacitly say ''umhle mntanami/you did well /usebenzile Mandunakazi"
    I hope we do right by our kids.They deserve better!We need to express ourselves better thina to our own kids.
    Thank you for sharing your journey mama ka Boy♥️

    • @nosiphojonas7895
      @nosiphojonas7895 Před rokem +1

      Oooh Sisi, I couldn't have said this any better. Our parents really did what they thought is right. Not knowing it wasn't right. My mom is also currently unlearning alot and I appreciate that so much from her. I'm 31 now and she's 60 and our relationship has become so strong and closer. She's learning how to be open and I'm also letting her into my space. I think as we grow older and start to understand some things better, we're better able to forgive our parents for their actions in the past ♥

  • @SunnySpectrum
    @SunnySpectrum Před rokem +3

    Wishing you all the best girly. I can’t wait to see GT. ❤

  • @thandaniyawathe5353
    @thandaniyawathe5353 Před rokem +21

    You so gorgeous ke sana…. GT is blessed to have you as parents. You gonna do well raising him judging by how loving you and Skhu are❤

  • @LuvoMzalisi-yy2id
    @LuvoMzalisi-yy2id Před rokem +2

    Your whole life is a testimony Nozi. I connect to this grace

  • @dimakatsompofu4844
    @dimakatsompofu4844 Před rokem +24

    I enjoyed this video so much, I’m not an expectant mom but took some words of wisdom from this. Congratulations once again to you Nozi, & Skhu, wish you guys all the best on this amazing journey, may the good Lord continue doing His beautiful work in your life ❤️

  • @TheRhaliSisters
    @TheRhaliSisters Před rokem +4

    This was a beautiful video to watch. Thank you Sis Nozi ❤

  • @lungilethukoana1773
    @lungilethukoana1773 Před rokem +13

    Thanks for reminding us to be humble ❤and for sharing your journey with us ❤

  • @thembimtilem3644
    @thembimtilem3644 Před rokem +13

    Just discovered this channel recently but am proud of you I have managed to watch all of your videos 😊I like your bravery ❤. Am even watching your TV shows because you are such an inspiration.

  • @onkabetsetlhapi6407
    @onkabetsetlhapi6407 Před rokem

    Looking ever so gorgeous Sis Nozi! Praying continual blessings and protection over you and your growing family ❤

  • @zakithi_hlongwane
    @zakithi_hlongwane Před rokem +4

    This was so wholesome! Your life always preaches to me Sis Nozi. There's God in Heaven!

  • @notyourtypicalbeliever3968

    You carry pregnancy so well mama. Your videos are always inspiring and comforting, thank you for that.

  • @pulengmafisa8626
    @pulengmafisa8626 Před rokem +3

    Thanks alot for your story, it's comforting that at some point you never alone👌

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Před rokem +7

    Nozi Mayaba, Skhu, and your entire family. You are such a blessing . I love you all. God is showing off with you guys. 🙏 This is His work in progress 👏 🙌

  • @kearabilwesegotso8099
    @kearabilwesegotso8099 Před rokem +2

    Thanks Nozi 4 ur lives. Honestly as I watch u guys I feel consoled that life is showing most of us flames 🔥 All we need 2 do is dust ourselves up & stand tall💝💝💝

  • @milanounited7929
    @milanounited7929 Před rokem +2

    This was beautiful Nozi 🥰🥰🥰 God bless you and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻.

  • @nomabasoziqu9228
    @nomabasoziqu9228 Před rokem +1

    Wow!!! The excitement marn guys.....yile dincanca!!!! God is good!!!

  • @thandaniyawathe5353
    @thandaniyawathe5353 Před rokem +4

    Loved the last segment and your relationship with God ❤️ may He continue to teach you His ways 🙏

  • @sizakelediya3872
    @sizakelediya3872 Před rokem

    I love your chanel, I've been drawn because I'm almost similar journey as you. Your open and transparent is beautiful to watch plus being authentic of who you are without changing because of your platform. I wish you and hubby all the best in your journey on being a new parents by the way we expecting also after a long journey of infertility. God remembered us. I realized though how scared i was to be a parent as I didn't have a great childhood. Maya Angelou once said when you know better you do better so I know we will do different from our parents. I am so happy for you ❤ GT is going to have an amazing parents.

  • @lebom2456
    @lebom2456 Před rokem

    You are GLOWING 💫💫💫

  • @vuyisekakani7375
    @vuyisekakani7375 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful video💖Thank you for sharing parts of your journey with us,you're so beautiful futhi

  • @canisiakhanyisile2248
    @canisiakhanyisile2248 Před rokem +1

    Molo Nozi. I am learning a lot from you. Also happy for the person that will take care of your baby. I genuinely love babies, where I working they both grown 13 turning 14 in July and unfortunate we lost the firstborn when he was 13 January 2021. Lots of love 🙏

  • @akhonashazi7942
    @akhonashazi7942 Před rokem +4

    I’m so emotional watching this video 😭😭❤️ oh thiza…may we be a better generation of parents 😭 God help us!!! 🙏
    I love you so much sis Nozi…and baby GT 🥹

  • @sinayomukume2863
    @sinayomukume2863 Před rokem +1

    Semhle Sis Nozi ❤❤.
    Thank you for sharing your life journey, its always a pleasure to tune in your space, we learn, we laugh we try and dance. The wisdom that you have , discernment, love and your kindness i appreciate, i pray that God continues holding you with his righteous hand and his mercy follow you and your family all the days of your life.
    You are that sister i wish i had.❤❤

  • @nokwandatongo9360
    @nokwandatongo9360 Před rokem

    This is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing 🤍

  • @MalindiN223
    @MalindiN223 Před rokem +6

    😂❤❤❤
    If he’s not excited like Skhu I don’t want him !
    May God continue carrying you through till the end ❤

  • @khanyisaboyce7724
    @khanyisaboyce7724 Před rokem +1

    PRETTY AS ALWAYS SIS NOZI🥰😍
    Also, I need to purchase your book "I am still me"

  • @buyiswampedi6537
    @buyiswampedi6537 Před rokem +11

    Your feelings are relevant sthandwasam, oldies are like that and I don't know why but we are /going to be the best version of parents that we've always dreamt of🥰❤️

  • @zamaquma1852
    @zamaquma1852 Před rokem +4

    We thank God for you Shishi❤thank you for allowing us to be part of this beautiful journey. You are carrying beautifully. Grace upon Grace upon Grace for your little one! ❤

  • @thandosphunzi6840
    @thandosphunzi6840 Před rokem

    You look amazing Nozi! Omg 🥹

  • @Lily-vy2in
    @Lily-vy2in Před rokem

    Yhooo! Sis Nozi😢😢 the last question spoke to me. ❤

  • @sibabalwemankai928
    @sibabalwemankai928 Před rokem

    Thank you sisi❤❤❤enjoyed this

  • @KgRamabu
    @KgRamabu Před rokem

    Yeey, there is this one that's very long Maka GT about 6minutes, yhoe! But we try and watch them. Keep glowing and growing family. We love you. ❤❤

  • @bridgetmawasha7501
    @bridgetmawasha7501 Před rokem +2

    Looking beautiful as always!❤❤❤

  • @katlego5077
    @katlego5077 Před rokem

    Glowing OMG! ❤ yhuuu awusemhle

  • @Lhiza_P
    @Lhiza_P Před rokem

    You are blessed and you are a blessing Nozie ❤️❤️

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi Před rokem

    Love you, Sis ❤ We thank God for you

  • @Lilitha34
    @Lilitha34 Před rokem +1

    Finally I have been waiting for this video 🥺❤️thank you sis Noz Noz

  • @nompumelelonaki6457
    @nompumelelonaki6457 Před rokem +3

    .......❤❤One thing that keeps me glued to your videos, is your values and that most of the time, I am saying "Sis Nozi is so right " jonga I am so agreeing with this or that

  • @ntombifuthigloriamajola9985

    Gee Tee's aunt's, lets watch the ads for our baby's soft life's sake🌻

  • @andisiwemcasa7360
    @andisiwemcasa7360 Před rokem +6

    Thank you so much Noz_Noz for taking us through this beautiful journey, we can’t for GT❤️❤️ you’re loved🌸🌸
    I love the last part about what keeps you grounded, kuthiwa let him uplift you🙌 akugqame yena sinciphe thina🙌

  • @ruthkamwi_youtube
    @ruthkamwi_youtube Před rokem +3

    The parents issue is so relatable 😓 Heartbreaking…
    You’ll be the best mommy to uGT❤️

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo Před rokem +1

    Oh Nozi❤️😍 Love you through and through ke Shishi

  • @valentiankosi2093
    @valentiankosi2093 Před rokem

    The last part❤❤.thank you so much sis Nozi❤

  • @lindatafeni9402
    @lindatafeni9402 Před rokem +1

    You are a true definition of inspiration 🙏💞

  • @luthonele
    @luthonele Před rokem +16

    I understand you when you say you couldn't tell your mom. Look gal, I've been married for 15 years now but I find it difficult to sleep in the same room with my husband when she's at our house. Yhuu aysana sikhuliswe ngenye indlela

  • @mosebjadinkwana8574
    @mosebjadinkwana8574 Před rokem

    Oooh mommy a of this is making me broody. It also takes me back to when we were preparing the hospital bags. Can't wait to meet baby GT.

  • @zinhle__z
    @zinhle__z Před rokem +4

    Pregnancy looks good on you mama kaGT❤❤

  • @khayakazimadani2175
    @khayakazimadani2175 Před rokem +1

    I can't wait to see our little one ❤

  • @phumelelehsikhosanah847
    @phumelelehsikhosanah847 Před rokem +12

    With your sense of vulnerability and openness, I was able to go for a job interview. I didn't prepare for some of the questions but they popped up there I was able to answer because of the knowledge I gain from this channel. Thank you Nozi for the best job you are doing. We all keep on praying for you and your family because of our gratitude to God for gifting with you.
    All the best on your motherhood journey, we love you🤝🤗💚

  • @thulasmo1990
    @thulasmo1990 Před rokem

    You are amazing, you encourage me in so many ways about so many things...you're doing great may you have a safe delivery and such a happy life no Skhu, I love you guys.

  • @siphokazipapu197
    @siphokazipapu197 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for gracing us sis Nozi ❤️

  • @zikhonakapi8648
    @zikhonakapi8648 Před rokem

    Awumhle Nozi😍😍😍 I could listen to you oko uthetha, ndiyakubuka mommy pregnancy really looks good on you❤️❤️ uThixo anigcine.

  • @BeingMrsM
    @BeingMrsM Před rokem

    Thank you so much for your wisdom...May God continue to bless you and yours❤

  • @motshedusimojanaga8501

    Looking beautiful as always Nozi, will come and help babysit GT ❤

  • @mphowittes8229
    @mphowittes8229 Před rokem +3

    I feel like you look so cute mahn, your life reminds most of us(Christians) that God is there and working. Happy journey further sis♥️🥂🌸🤗

  • @portiabuda1505
    @portiabuda1505 Před rokem

    Very powerful cc n informative as well thank you ❤❤

  • @barneyg3959
    @barneyg3959 Před rokem

    We love you...thank u for this video,u have no ideq how much some of us needed most of what u said.

  • @Withlove.K95
    @Withlove.K95 Před rokem +1

    I think you look absolutely gorgeous hey... 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 When God decides, it exceeds even our expectations. I wish you all the blessings for the delivery and just motherhood. 🙏

  • @thandiepinini5295
    @thandiepinini5295 Před rokem +4

    Thank you very much Sisi Nozi. And you look beautiful by the way.
    I know that God will carry you and your husband through out this whole journey.
    I cant wait for baby number 2 after GT 😂😂😂

  • @onesimogwabile2177
    @onesimogwabile2177 Před rokem

    Notification gang🎉🎉❤❤
    Love you so much ❤❤😊

  • @halalavunda8647
    @halalavunda8647 Před rokem

    The last part of your video Nozi yo it touched me, thank you for being honest.

  • @aphiwevali1856
    @aphiwevali1856 Před rokem

    Beautiful content, I enjoyed this video so much. May God continue to lead you

  • @banotsile_n
    @banotsile_n Před rokem

    All the best on your new journey fam... May God be with you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @guguprecious2908
    @guguprecious2908 Před rokem +2

    Wishing you a safe delivery sisi Nozi❤❤❤❤

  • @nomvuselelomalinga7853

    Thank you so much Nozi for this video

  • @sindiswajacobs6974
    @sindiswajacobs6974 Před rokem

    I love you so much...I'm praying for safe delivery. We can't wait to meet GT❤❤❤

  • @lesymalerato
    @lesymalerato Před rokem

    Ahh sisi you make me so emotional. I live my life everyday being the kind of a mother that I wish I had. And somedays it breaks me so much I can't even share this with anyone. Trust me it goes deeper. You look so beautiful yaz...

  • @akhonazintle6792
    @akhonazintle6792 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for your powerful words about being grounded 🙏👏🙌
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @kgomotlokwamatabane3269
    @kgomotlokwamatabane3269 Před rokem +4

    How you mention being unemployed at some point but you still kept on,I salute you and little did we notice coz woow you still smile and looked great ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siyasangatshula6360
    @siyasangatshula6360 Před rokem +1

    Since the first time of your showing tummy,you have been consistent with us,sharing beyond of what you should to prepare people with resemble situation and to us who clearly in darkness. I appreciate you very much mamakhe ,when God decide to bless me ,its a promise I'll keep watching your pregnancy videos they very educating.

  • @buhlebenkosilutuli8256
    @buhlebenkosilutuli8256 Před rokem +3

    I totally understand that whole mother thing sisi. My mother has been trying to form a more open relationship between mna naye kodwa kunzima ngoku because sendiqhele "umoyika"

  • @kholekandlovu2440
    @kholekandlovu2440 Před rokem

    More blessings to you guys ❤

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Před rokem +5

    You look absolutely AMAZING Nozi ❤😍

  • @neoneoi
    @neoneoi Před rokem +2

    Mrs Mayaba truth be told, you are a gifted story teller 🎉

  • @nangamsomwanda2018
    @nangamsomwanda2018 Před rokem

    I’m only watching this later.
    I can’t wait ❤❤❤❤

  • @Kho606
    @Kho606 Před rokem +3

    I never commented on your uploads sana but I am always watching and 👍 🥰

  • @thahxaki3879
    @thahxaki3879 Před rokem

    U look amazing cc Nozi❤️👌

  • @mandisatinana6724
    @mandisatinana6724 Před rokem +1

    Thank You For Always Sharing Your Journey And Life With Us, Ndifunda Lukhulu Kuwe Sis🙏 And May The Good Lord Continue To Bless And Keep You And Your Family Away From Harm❤❤❤

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 Před rokem +2

    Thanx for been vulnerable on the aspect of childhood.I equally don't have any pleasant memories of my childhood.Till now whenever I think or talk about it I find myself crying.It has traumatized me so much that I am scared to have my own kids.To some extent am glad that am unmarried at 31 because marriage will force me to have kids for the sake of my partner.You look so beautiful,all the best in the next journey of your life as a couple.You are gonna be great parents.

  • @ayandambewu8254
    @ayandambewu8254 Před rokem +1

    Thank u Nozi for the Advise for expecting Parents I'm not expecting, U know my Story Sthandwa but at this point in my Life I needed wat u said especially The Power of the Tounge how We are still so hard on ourselves.😢😢😢 Love you so much❤️

  • @Sino_Mene
    @Sino_Mene Před rokem +1

    Oh kunini ndikroba apha, I've missed you ke Mommy za GT😍😍😊 I'm happy you both are Okay❤️

  • @Maps83
    @Maps83 Před rokem

    Morena wa Kgotso,!your transparency sisi.
    ❤❤❤❤ thank you

  • @amandamgobhoza2882
    @amandamgobhoza2882 Před rokem +5

    I can relate to the part where you couldn’t tell your mom about the pregnancy.i was also very afraid to tell her that im pregnant eloxesha ke sisi ndisemtshatweni😂😂i felt like uzothi haibo lomntana sekenza iActivities zabantu abadala.

  • @toliwentanga4879
    @toliwentanga4879 Před rokem

    The wisdom in you Nozi 🙌🙌

  • @nosindisothafene2234
    @nosindisothafene2234 Před rokem +2

    Here we are💃

  • @shaz4709
    @shaz4709 Před rokem

    The important topics that come from this channel. The parent child one is particularly important, I'd love for it to be further explored

  • @dipuosharon947
    @dipuosharon947 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻 watching all the ads Sis Nozi❤️❤️❤️❤️