218: Our Different Experiences Growing Up In A Family Of 11 Kids: Pregnancy, Postpartum, Motherhood

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  • čas přidán 26. 08. 2024

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  • @nataliemiller2043
    @nataliemiller2043 Před rokem +48

    I can only imagine how this episode must bless your momma. The three of you reflecting so positively on your upbringing and becoming godly mothers is beautiful.

  • @emmakate6518
    @emmakate6518 Před rokem +49

    I love that you guys still call your mom “mommy” & “momma” I hope my children grow up and do the same! It’s so sweet 🥹

    • @jcav7
      @jcav7 Před rokem +1

      I’m 41 and my brother is 42 and when we talk to each other about our mom, we generally refer to her as mommy.

  • @ByDesign333
    @ByDesign333 Před rokem +7

    My prayers go up for whoever is starting a godly family in these perilous times...FAITH!

  • @emmakate6518
    @emmakate6518 Před rokem +40

    I really look up to you guys.. I grew up with 4 other siblings, so I wouldn’t really consider us a larger family but our home was chaotic growing up. There was no discipline, we did whatever we want when we wanted to and the house was always a mess, and now that I’m grown up I think that’s contributed to my poor work ethic (never made to do anything), low self esteem, and ocd when it comes to having a clean space. I’m still trying to overcome these things at 23. I’m a stay at home mom to 2 littles, a 4yro girl and a 1yo boy and I want so badly to have lots of children and to be a large family but I’m not sure if I’m cut out for it.. everything feels so hard right now, I do think I’m dealing with a little bit of depression which makes things harder but I just feel like I couldn’t handle that many children and that I don’t know how to train & discipline them because I never was.. but I’ve learned a lot from you Katie & the talks you’ve done with your mom. I so wish I had someone in my life who could kind of show me how to parent & could give me the advice and encouragement that I need. Anyways, I’m loving this episode! Your guys inspire me so much!!

  • @SkySilver777
    @SkySilver777 Před rokem +17

    One of my fave videos of yours. I love seeing the sibling dynamics - especially since I see so many negative comments on people from big families. To see adults who came from a happy and healthy one I feel this info is so valuable. I had my first 4 in 4 years (3 boys and one girl like Katie!) and knew I needed to space for a fifth. I came from a very small family & love seeing the sisterly bond you ladies have. Hope to see more interviews like this 💞

  • @dhvh6580
    @dhvh6580 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was an incredibly fun episode!

  • @teagranola
    @teagranola Před rokem +5

    Katie, I think you must have done such a good job as big sister to create such a team environment among your siblings! Also I love how genuinely cheerful you all are.

  • @saray9873
    @saray9873 Před rokem +5

    More sister talk please 😍

  • @fionadyson3112
    @fionadyson3112 Před rokem +12

    This made me think of "her children rise up and call her blessed", Proverbs 31:28. The tribute you all bring to your mum (UK speak 🤣) is so beautiful. What a great model she is and as a result we can learn from you guys too! Thank you x

  • @galileecarlisle8950
    @galileecarlisle8950 Před rokem +1

    THis was one of my favorite ever episodes !! I think it would also be great to have one of Elisha and a couple of his brothers!!!

  • @emilyjoerger8964
    @emilyjoerger8964 Před rokem +2

    I’m a past homeschooled oldest of six-now married with a baby and really appreciated this! I value my mom’s intentionality, work ethic, and creativity SO much and I love that you guys value your mom so highly as well. You touched on so many relatable topics! Lots to think about! God bless!

  • @danitapowell2291
    @danitapowell2291 Před rokem +1

    I only had brothers and sons, for which I am very grateful, but I do miss having those women in my life. I loved watching my mother with her sisters.

  • @annatubb8164
    @annatubb8164 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Girls this is so helpful, im pregnant with 6th and learned SO much. Love yalls relationship!

  • @downlow0075
    @downlow0075 Před rokem +1

    Your parents are some of the finest people i know!! Love them so much. Hi from Georgia.

  • @Mom_of_the_Chickies
    @Mom_of_the_Chickies Před rokem +4

    I loved this episode. One thing that stands out is your admiration of your mom. Really brings about proverbs 31 ❤. And what’s more amazing is all the knowledge she passed down to you all BEFORE the Information Age. That’s one smart well rounded woman!

  • @olumbafamilyfaith9396

    How can you not live this family??! Much love from W. Africa! ❤

  • @robzzzzzz1
    @robzzzzzz1 Před rokem +5

    Has your mother written a book ? I think a lot of us moms are trying to start new start beautiful families with kids that speak highly of us and have fond memories of childhood but many of us don’t have fond memories .. I know no one is perfect but it would be lovely to get your moms insight and perspective because she has passed down a lot of gems

  • @Mary_Quaid
    @Mary_Quaid Před rokem +3

    This was so fantastic! Please, have your siblings on more often. What a great talk!

  • @steffa648
    @steffa648 Před rokem +5

    This was amazing!!! Katie thank you so much for thinking of doing this with your two sisters and asking them such wonderful questions. Just hearing you talk about your own mother and hearing that most of what she did was “caught”by all you girls is such a rebuke to me to really be a better example to my own children and the attitude of the home I am bringing each day. The wisdom of you all is just amazing!!
    I want to speak to the last bit about how you all were saying how you felt being so young being married and having babies and everyone around you is cute and tiny and carefree- let me tell you those girls are missing out!! The older I get ( and let me tell you I am way older than you gals) the more I see how getting married and having kids young is better than anything in this world! God designed our bodies as women to be fertile for a time period and even my OBGYN said that a woman’s body is to have babies in the teens and 20s!! So I commend you all for not delaying marriage and children like so many women are around us in this culture and even in the church 😢
    Wonderful podcast!! Also I am the oldest of ten so I also loved growing up in a big family! Never a dull moment 😂

  • @destinyfriday6485
    @destinyfriday6485 Před rokem +3

    This was a great video idea! Now we need to see one with your husband talking to his siblings.

  • @shiphrahhendrickson8702
    @shiphrahhendrickson8702 Před rokem +1

    I so appreciate the truth your family shares, and the way you call out men and women to be who God created them to be!

  • @kaitlync15
    @kaitlync15 Před rokem +2

    One of my favorite episodes !

  • @Mikaela777
    @Mikaela777 Před rokem +5

    I really enjoyed meeting your sisters on this episode! You all are so well spoken and would be such fun to be friends with for your wisdom and outlook. I live in southwest Idaho too and want to hear about where your sister in Eagle fellowships at! God bless you and your families!

  • @WondaElizabeth
    @WondaElizabeth Před rokem +1

    This was so sweet. It took me several days to get through the whole thing, but boy was it worth it. Thank you Katie for inviting your lovely sisters on. Your Mom must be so proud of her girls. She put the work in and is now reaping the reward. God bless her and all of you!

  • @palinapalina5258
    @palinapalina5258 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very good episode, thank you very much:)

  • @brectoa
    @brectoa Před rokem +3

    Such gold. Beautiful sisterhood! Thank you for sharing ☺️

  • @smc240
    @smc240 Před rokem +4

    I enjoyed this episode so much! Pls pls have more of this. PLEASE.

  • @thepuffinpanda9139
    @thepuffinpanda9139 Před rokem +3

    I would LOVE to hear the middle child episode! I was in a family of two kids but I felt like a middle child a lot of the time because my brother was so demanding and I was also a quality time kid. It is my biggest fear in parenting that my kids won't feel like I'm there for them and I really am starting to lean towards just letting go of control and having as many babies as Jesus wills. That is a big hang up for me though so I would love to hear their takes.

  • @angelinagutierrez909
    @angelinagutierrez909 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for having your sisters on your channel. I’ve learned so much from each of your story to apply and adopt as a mom, wife, & sister.

  • @hannahbaker2856
    @hannahbaker2856 Před rokem

    I'm a middle child, and I really like the pen-and-paper way of communicating! I remember journaling a LOT as a child while simultaneously being unable to communicate out loud some of the needs I had.

  • @jessc6119
    @jessc6119 Před rokem +2

    I was 21 when I married my husband who was 18!😂
    We had our first baby when he was 19 and our second baby the day after he turned 21.
    We are actively preventing pregnancy due to health concerns, but would love to be in a place to welcome more children in the future! ❤

  • @Mary_Quaid
    @Mary_Quaid Před rokem +1

    Gosh, these sisters are so beautiful! You should see them all lined up with their mom. Just so gorgeous! I try not to covet their genetics too hard. 🙈🙊😆😅

  • @meganrichter9748
    @meganrichter9748 Před 11 měsíci

    I also love writing! It's great for both the people that struggle with speaking up and those that tend to blurt out the first (potentially hurtful or inaccurate) things that come to mind. We can get our thoughts out of our heads and then choose which ones are actually important to share and how to best communicate them so we can go into any conversation confident and prepared :)

  • @rachelmunoz
    @rachelmunoz Před rokem +1

    So much wonderful wisdom shared in this podcast!! Y’all are so encouraging! Thank you for sharing each of your perspectives!

  • @frochoffthebranch
    @frochoffthebranch Před rokem +4

    “People can homemake, and then people can make a home” 👏 yes so true. Loved this chat ladies, so beautiful in many ways.

  • @Laurenttroyer
    @Laurenttroyer Před rokem +1

    Loved this! What a fun podcast! Even though I’m in the end stages of child training (teenagers), in my 40’s now 😬 yikes, and my last pregnancy was 16 years ago, I still found this super refreshing and super helpful. That quote Karaline mentioned really has inspired me as well and I will for sure meditate on that more and more as I go about my daily life and responsibilities…. Thank you all for sharing your wisdom and insights ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AlyssaHartwick
    @AlyssaHartwick Před rokem +1

    You ladies are all so sweet! Wish we could be friends in real life 🥰

  • @homewithliv6293
    @homewithliv6293 Před rokem +1

    Awww we Love the Vanwingerdens! Sarah is the best! I had no idea Kyla was your sister. How fun!

  • @olgavakulich
    @olgavakulich Před rokem +2

    Such a great episode!! You girls are amazing mamas and women overall! God bless you and your families!! ❤❤❤

  • @rachelschrock9157
    @rachelschrock9157 Před rokem +1

    Love when you have family on the podcast!!

  • @JM76231
    @JM76231 Před rokem +2

    You done an excellent job and love when you have your sisters on also.🙃

  • @EdibleGoddess
    @EdibleGoddess Před rokem

    What a valuable conversation ladies!! To hear your view of your mom and all that she directly & indirectly taught you. Attitude IS everything! Such an impact it has. I’ve had my own rude awakening with that and am reminded how that is what permeates the home, just as much as whether it’s picked up and clean 💞

  • @annielouise5048
    @annielouise5048 Před rokem +1

    Thanks so much for sharing! Love the wisdom of a home being made from our attitude not just in how tidy it is. I am due with baby 5 in a few weeks and am feeling a bit hormonal and anxious about getting my to do list done but need to remember to have a happy atmosphere in the home. Thanks girls! Great content ❤️

  • @Gabriella734
    @Gabriella734 Před rokem +1

    I really enjoyed listening to this! Thank you for sharing. I would love to hear Katie's answers to these same questions :)

  • @kendalecheverria8542
    @kendalecheverria8542 Před rokem +1

    We are in Boise! Originally from SW Washington. What a small world!

  • @hannahmcmillan5712
    @hannahmcmillan5712 Před rokem +2

    I always held onto 10 pounds while nursing too. I wonder how common that is.

  • @timvandermey4792
    @timvandermey4792 Před rokem

    One of my favorite episodes!
    Bring them back!
    Danya

  • @AlinaKu93
    @AlinaKu93 Před rokem +1

    This was so good! I enjoyed listening to this.😊❤

  • @annad9166
    @annad9166 Před rokem

    Thank you Karaline for the quote!

  • @ABeautifulHorizonTV
    @ABeautifulHorizonTV Před rokem +1

    "Sail by Ash Breeze" haha We read that book last year. 😁👏

  • @katjakovalchuk3969
    @katjakovalchuk3969 Před rokem +1

    Love it! Blessings to you!! 🙏

  • @SaraKiene949
    @SaraKiene949 Před rokem

    This was awesome! It was so cool to see the dynamics between you three sisters and your similarities and differences. Loved it! Xx

  • @valeriya105
    @valeriya105 Před rokem +1

    I love this podcast but Katie I think you have to change the intro music! LOL Almost 99% of the time you cut off and start talking before the intro ends and it cracks me up because it sounds like you're irritated at it! lol

  • @Rosie_C
    @Rosie_C Před rokem

    I remember reaching a point in my teen years and asking my mom, “why am I so different than you in all the female ways?!” She didn’t even hesitate and told me that I was just like my Dad’s mother. I think that’s a quirky surprise for many girls! :) Now I wish I had asked my grandma some questions about life before she got dementia.

  • @margeesanmartino238
    @margeesanmartino238 Před rokem

    On a work break and saw this. Too excited 🎉 for this one and already liking! Can’t wait to give it a listen ❤

  • @nh2008
    @nh2008 Před rokem +1

    Hi 😀 could you please do an episode on ‘spacing’ children? Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @brigettepepe9496
    @brigettepepe9496 Před rokem +2

    Best video! ❤

  • @cherylbrunner9404
    @cherylbrunner9404 Před rokem +1

    Gratitude

  • @madisontcarter
    @madisontcarter Před rokem

    Aww my sister's name is Quincey too

  • @user-ql2ml3io3m
    @user-ql2ml3io3m Před 10 měsíci

    Michael Edwards stefanski

  • @glendaakers7528
    @glendaakers7528 Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @alliclymer744
    @alliclymer744 Před rokem

    My mind just got blown that your sister married a Tolpin 🤯

  • @danitapowell2291
    @danitapowell2291 Před rokem

    Are you all Mormon families?