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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2013
  • This video shares the importance of encouraging natural and logical consequences to children's behavior as it teaches them responsibility and respect. Yelling and corporal punishment stop behavior for the time being but rarely guides the child as to what to do differently. Having a consequence that relates to the behavior is far better for self-esteem and independence purposes.

Komentáře • 57

  • @xraygigi
    @xraygigi Před 11 lety

    He is the brightest, kindest and coolest boy I know..not to mention his sense of humour and laughter fill a room! I am so truly blessed by God for making me his mommy...

  • @imlaughin247
    @imlaughin247 Před 11 lety

    I am just loving these 'snippets of wisdom' that you are sharing! As a special needs teacher of children with behavior and learning challenges your words are golden! This is the philosophy that we live by. I love the Dr. Phil quote... "When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequence." It is empowering for kids to learn that they are in charge of the consequences they receive. I would love to learn more about what you do in your "professional life". Thanks so much for sharing!!!

  • @WillowTreeBeeTV
    @WillowTreeBeeTV Před 11 lety

    I know this is lovely logical stuff, but when you're in the thick of it at home with your 2 year old its nice to have a positive reminder, thank you!

  • @LisaB103
    @LisaB103 Před 11 lety

    Great video! As parents and educators we are understanding the impact of positive influences and approaches toward discipline and behavior management verses negative or punitive postures. Thanks again for sharing this!

  • @PaperMoonReality
    @PaperMoonReality Před 11 lety

    I am also a mum and an educator. Sometimes the dear little ones can bring us to the edge of our patience ;-) You examples are so logical and practical, they just make sense. What really rang true for me was the part about ''having respect for yourself'', as well as helping your child. Thanks for another great video!

  • @Gu_te_da_ma_
    @Gu_te_da_ma_ Před 11 lety

    I love this so much. Please continue making videos like this. I truly truly appreciate it.

  • @1969HAI
    @1969HAI Před 11 lety

    Thank you for sharing
    An excellent reminder for me.

  • @debbieloes5903
    @debbieloes5903 Před 11 lety

    Great!!! And so needed! Keep these great videos coming!

  • @JLJJR2002
    @JLJJR2002 Před 11 lety

    I love when you do such videos, very informative, please keep them coming

  • @allanettec.559
    @allanettec.559 Před 10 lety +1

    Thank you for another wonderful video about raising and helping children grow up. Sounds like great advice and makes a lot of sense. I will try to put into practice.

  • @CAROLINAPARISLONDON
    @CAROLINAPARISLONDON Před 11 lety

    I couldn't agree more!!!! Well done!!! Xoxo from Paris!!!

  • @kateaz333
    @kateaz333 Před 11 lety

    These have been fantastic videos, thank you.

  • @Bags4Bubbles
    @Bags4Bubbles Před 11 lety

    Looking forward to this series in the future as well, with the appropriate discipline one coming up... because discipline is something I never know whether I'm over or under disciplining, lol! Thanks!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I have a nephew with autism. The doctors thought my son had it but was later changes to "severe auditory precessing disorder". Thank you for sharing about your son. I bet he is an amazing person.

  • @ddgladiva
    @ddgladiva Před 11 lety

    Loved this video. Great tips and advice

  • @enpazmino
    @enpazmino Před 11 lety

    Thank you for this video! You are really good in this field.

  • @Bags4Bubbles
    @Bags4Bubbles Před 11 lety

    Thank you for these videos!! I'm really enjoying these and look forward to more of them! I've been struggling with discipline when my toddler (almost 3) has a tantrum, which I know is just an overflow of feelings... or if she flat out refuses to do something. Which we've been having happen more often. So far, the taking away of something important (her stuff animals for example) if she doesn't follow instruction, and giving them back when she does follow instruction seems to be working well.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    That's a great question. This practice is appropriate at the age the child understands language, around 2. I hope that helps.

  • @TheOrganiclady
    @TheOrganiclady Před 11 lety

    This is such a good video. I love the way you explain things, whether it is something about an object, an idea, a teaching or a thought. I have forwarded this to my daughter because I know she will take it to heart. She is a great mom, but she does have challenges that can sometimes get the best of her. Thank you. :)

  • @fanfare78
    @fanfare78 Před 11 lety

    Very good Thanks for doing this video

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I have no doubt you are an amazing mom!!!

  • @LOVEfashion1001
    @LOVEfashion1001 Před 11 lety

    These videos are so wonderful! Please keep them coming :)

  • @MyMaria1224
    @MyMaria1224 Před 11 lety

    Love love this please continue with these:))

  • @missmerrybelly22
    @missmerrybelly22 Před 10 lety

    I love all of your videos 😃

  • @135LV
    @135LV Před 11 lety

    What a great video. I am looking forward to more please. I would love to hear what you have to say about teenagers.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I am pleased to hear this. Thank you.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Hang in there. Your work is rewarding but never easy.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you. I teach college and I am also a dyslexia therapist.

  • @fitjock1
    @fitjock1 Před 11 lety

    very thoughtful mary! tks

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Congratulations on your twins. How wonderful and challenging all at the same time!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I love it!!

  • @artsytina8618
    @artsytina8618 Před 10 lety

    Thank you! Good info!

  • @xraygigi
    @xraygigi Před 11 lety

    Great video!!! Very helpful..as a mom of a 12 year old autistic boy, I do have my challenges. Wonderful advice! =)

  • @juliec243
    @juliec243 Před 11 lety

    I couldn't agree with you more!!

  • @juliec243
    @juliec243 Před 11 lety

    Wonderful

  • @teggirl95
    @teggirl95 Před 11 lety

    Thanks for another great video. I get excited when I see you have uploaded a new video. I was initially drawn to to your LV videos cuz Im a purse girl....but I love these videos as well. I have 14 month old twins that are my first kids. Love any info that can help me make them the best men they can be.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you so much.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you very much!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Yes, when the message of intent is out of respect. I can see it in the workplace the most. I hope that helps.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you for the suggestion. I'll keep that in mind. I know next week, I am required to make three or my work on discipline. I'll work to bring in teens then. Hope your day is going well.

  • @Bags4Bubbles
    @Bags4Bubbles Před 11 lety

    Thank you! :)

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I'm pleased to hear this. Thank you!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I'm so glad.

  • @MariaMartinez-ie8cn
    @MariaMartinez-ie8cn Před 11 lety

    thank u!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    I hope to do one in the future. I've been quite slow as you know how work can be...I'll see what I can do though.

  • @CapeCodBelle
    @CapeCodBelle Před 11 lety

    Another great video:) Do you have advise on raising teenagers?

  • @Gu_te_da_ma_
    @Gu_te_da_ma_ Před 11 lety

    By the way, at what age would it be appropriate to teach this to a child?

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    :)!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    :). He's much like his mama it sounds like.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    :).

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you.

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    :).

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you!

  • @captmara
    @captmara  Před 11 lety

    Thank you.