How to Outsmart the Narcissist

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  • čas přidán 21. 11. 2016
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    Welcome to the Truly Free Me channel. Where we try our best to help people with their lives and to expose and deal with Narcissists.
    If you are wondering why it is a robot lady speaking... Narcissists hate me doing these videos so that is for my own protection.

Komentáře • 71

  • @kynchan3332
    @kynchan3332 Před 6 lety +37

    Cut off the narcissist completely, give not a single piece of emotion for them to feed off. No negative energy and the narcissist needs to find others to feed off. Plan your escape, guard your thoughts and then surround yourself with positive people.

  • @ninjawilliam1
    @ninjawilliam1 Před 7 lety +54

    how to deal with them : keep a gun. ignore them. remind yourself that you have running water. power. the ability to be positive and most of all. stay solid. dont fold on yourself cause of outside sources

  • @maryrichardson6029
    @maryrichardson6029 Před 7 lety +112

    NO CONTACT. NO CONTACT

    • @KimWilsonTV
      @KimWilsonTV Před 7 lety +18

      I always support No Contact

    • @anniewhite9702
      @anniewhite9702 Před 7 lety +4

      Kim Wilson TV

    • @kimanial
      @kimanial Před 7 lety +15

      no contact is the answer.....but you still will run into them at events or around town...the feeling i get is unreal...almost like my life is in danger

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 Před 7 lety +6

      ***** me too. But only when narc calls
      I never answer.

    • @hetjamesfield4473
      @hetjamesfield4473 Před 7 lety +8

      Please let me share how I got rid of the female evil narcissist. I told her, if I ever see you again arround me, or any person that I know, or if you say just one word behind my back about me or any1 I know, I will poke you with a HIV (aids) infected injection when you never expect it, you will not even know that I poked you. I also told that I would like to go to jail if nessesary. Try me I said... Just try.. She is my family, but not any more. Now she(it) runs from me like from mad dogs. That is my story, and I sugest any1 with this kind of problems to use this tactics because it works, and they are then afraid of you. It doesnt have to be HIV injection, figure something different, be creative 👍 Use the kind of "weapon" that they know you can get any time you want. Show them that you dont care what will happen to you later, when you hurt them. Trust me, those rats will ruuuuunnn away from you ! Good luck people dont be scared and fck them up, go for it ! 👍

  • @serellawilliams2936
    @serellawilliams2936 Před 7 lety +67

    my ex is a narc. I didn't realize this until after watching these videos. 21 years of verbal and emotional abuse. manipulation cheating I was total exhausted. I'm free now 3years. he tried to come back several times. I'm free now I am free

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +7

      Serella Williams: Lucky escape indeed but, careful you dont fall into another unsuspecting trap as these demonstrated are everywhere and strangely growing in their numbers!

    • @namastechica
      @namastechica Před 7 lety +4

      Same here, all these videos all over on CZcams and Instagram post support have helped me heal and literally WAKE UP!!! I literally thought I was the only one and that I was w/a crazy person...

    • @kimanial
      @kimanial Před 7 lety +2

      so happy for you...but be careful...they hate to see you free of them and happy....but heal and really enjoy life now

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +3

      Serella Williams: learning to also please or put yourself is key!😉

    • @lovesnap2658
      @lovesnap2658 Před 7 lety +8

      Serella Williams u r a hero for getting away

  • @peaceandlove544
    @peaceandlove544 Před 7 lety +23

    Narcisist can also be codependent, sado-masoquist, passive-aggresive, not necessarily psicopaths or sociopaths, but toxic, for sure.

  • @Graemedico
    @Graemedico Před 7 lety +24

    ditch em no contact don't go anywhere near them ...or near anyone else who they use to get at you..

  • @jordangraham7351
    @jordangraham7351 Před 6 lety +28

    thank you robot-woman. this helped a lot

  • @marcycarson2130
    @marcycarson2130 Před 7 lety +24

    No contact... run far, far away from them. Stay away and hope they haven't convinced people to destroy your property via arson, etc... and hope they haven't convinced anyone to murder you.

  • @ritahamilton5094
    @ritahamilton5094 Před 7 lety +19

    We will spread Love. And share your information with talk show host, people need to know about these evil people. We are all in danger. The world must know.

  • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
    @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +33

    I agree no contact is the best form of protection but difficult when there are children involved.

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 Před 7 lety +1

      LiveLife LoveLife why is it difficult with children?

    • @charliecoolwater97
      @charliecoolwater97 Před 7 lety +3

      Mary Richardson, coz narc will hurt the children. They're not afraid to go to jail.

    • @princesscharlott1983
      @princesscharlott1983 Před 7 lety +3

      Mary Richardson are you joking?!? My husband is a covert narcissist and he would go out of his way to hurt me if i tried to leave and would have no issue in taking the children from me and turning them against me.

  • @lovesnap2658
    @lovesnap2658 Před 7 lety +15

    love your vids. thanck u so much.

  • @nessahughes4175
    @nessahughes4175 Před 6 lety +7

    God bless you

  • @maqinusir
    @maqinusir Před 7 lety +11

    GOT IT!.. THANX

  • @hetjamesfield4473
    @hetjamesfield4473 Před 7 lety +5

    @Truly free me
    BRAVO !!!!

  • @Luziemagick
    @Luziemagick Před 7 lety +6

    my mother and mother in law

  • @marshamarshamarsha4567
    @marshamarshamarsha4567 Před 7 lety +8

    I was promoted in my position at work. Really, I wanted out, but my interviewing skills stink. Well, I am on probation for 6 months at work. My error without thinking that through. Ok what is done is done. My supervisor created a situation at work that is very chaotic, and she can see it is not working. I can slowly see she needs a scapegoat. Guess who? She brought me into her office and the first thing she said to me is, "you are on probation". She said to me, I wouldn't have hired you if I didn't think you could do the job. All sorts of things went through my head at that moment. I see other possibilities. Narcs never give up the idea of revenge. What a way to promote me, and then demote me in front of my peers. I have seen her do it with others. Since I work in a union environment, she cannot fire me, but she sure can demote me. And who knows what else she has up her sleeves. I started documenting where I put my headphones when I leave work because I pretty much keep them in a bottom drawer every day. I have been finding them in my top drawer. I could be wrong, so I decided to document for my own purposes. There is no point in sharing that with my co-workers they would never believe me and would end up siding with the narc anyway. Even though most of them are the biggest complainers in regards to her behavior. I need to leave whether or not it means accepting a lower position or not. I just hope I can make it through without my depression returning in full force which leads me unable to act in my own best interests.

    • @reneeb8331
      @reneeb8331 Před 7 lety +5

      Not so Golden dont stay there and suffer if you don't have to. Look for another job and get the hell out of there.

  • @NancyBrown1975
    @NancyBrown1975 Před 6 lety +5

    You have helped me very much. Thank you~!

  • @trezgriff4220
    @trezgriff4220 Před 7 lety +20

    Dont wait till your kids are 18 to get out, try to get out as soon as you can. Kim Wilson has a channel and explains ways to help get away from the Narcissistic, I've not long found her channel and its brilliant, she nos what she's talking about cause shes been though it she lived a horrible life with her Narc but she got free and now helps all us with her truthfull caring advice. check Kim Wilson out if you want straight talking advice.

  • @barbaramoomoo2221
    @barbaramoomoo2221 Před 7 lety +8

    amen!!

  • @AsteriETERNAL
    @AsteriETERNAL Před 6 lety +4

    Yup! ⭐👍🏼

  • @danielagalarte5310
    @danielagalarte5310 Před 7 lety +7

    I exposed my ex narc he hated it

    • @aries-seventhseal2473
      @aries-seventhseal2473 Před 7 lety +3

      theyre demons n trust me when I say they are never done. they spend all dayn n night trying to make sure we suffer also just trying to muddy your name and shred ur credibiltie quickly b4 u/we tell ppl of what is truth. I went no contact after they had hovered n id lost everything and everyone. was terrible when realized what that black cloud always hanging over me was. THEM. They almost caused my death. caused others. death by proxy. they hope u just wear down n pull the trigger or better yet for them they want us incarcerated. if we r dead they lost us as supply so in jail wrongfully they get lots of supply. that aerie feeling u have, don't ignore it..take kids n go. I did n they still got my children1+q3333333333 and brainwashed them now theyre adults in major crisis. keep your head in the game n listen to as much narc abuse info as possible. Knowledge is safety. share vids on ur FB and on "The Narcissist Hunter" fb page too. thanks and be safe. stay strong we need to keep protecting our little ones. Get custody of ur chilren. Don't try to be the good guy n high road taker in a divorce. no. No messing around. fight n hear n trust ur gutt.

    • @erinwheeler6772
      @erinwheeler6772 Před 7 lety +3

      daniela galarte how did you expose him? I need to do the same, because my ex narc will not leave me alone. I even got a protective order and he still shows up in places and follows me.

  • @phoenixfyre3465
    @phoenixfyre3465 Před 7 lety +4

    she's awesome

  • @MrDjcamo29
    @MrDjcamo29 Před 7 lety +4

    I dealt with one of those the other day on CZcams Spencerific93

  • @donaldthompson4337
    @donaldthompson4337 Před 7 lety +2

    Thank you

  • @kevinturner3400
    @kevinturner3400 Před 6 lety +3

    Great

  • @thiery572
    @thiery572 Před 7 lety +5

    Watch the movie "Enough" (Jennifer Lopez).

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety

      thiery572 or the movie "sleeping with the enemy" also starred Jennifer Lopez - why does she keep playing these roles, by the way?!

    • @thiery572
      @thiery572 Před 7 lety +1

      Yeah, that one too. :)

  • @donaldthompson4337
    @donaldthompson4337 Před 7 lety +2

    THANK YOU, IM GONE

  • @dandeebelarific4663
    @dandeebelarific4663 Před 6 lety +3

    My sisters best friend is the narcissist who advocated and manipulated my mother to cheat on my dad into divorce and destroy my family.
    All out of jealousy.
    She is always desperate to find the attention and status she desires by choosing vulnerable people as pawns.
    Rumours say, she bankrupts rich guys and uses absolutely everyone to create articulated generalisations to make her look innocent.
    A bit of comedy i should mention lol
    She slept with almost the entire welsh rugby squad shortly after giving birth to her first child when she was 18 and then used my father to force myself out of home just so her and her bastard kid could doss in my bedroom.
    This all started in the late 90s and is an ongoing problem.
    Ever since social media was invented my life went from bad to worse because at that time i was still suffering from my anxiety and mental health, aspergers.
    Ostracised and persecuted ever since.
    If anyone has similar problems is to shut out people even if it's you're whole family and move on, find structure that occupies your own well being and develop new confidence.
    I'm married now to my sweetheart and our old friend's egotistical and poisonous existence has been flushed down the holy toilet.
    Be strong people.
    All the best.
    Dan.

  • @knifemaker688
    @knifemaker688 Před 7 lety +6

    18 omg I have a baby and 5 year old.

    • @daphaniec.4324
      @daphaniec.4324 Před 7 lety +10

      knife maker don't wait until your babies are 18, plan your escape!!!!

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +3

      knife maker: l'ld say you're a very lucky woman indeed, by being aware of this monster at such an early stage in your life, when your children are so young! Try getting out asap if can, knowing what you know now! l only became aware of this demon after 16yrs of my life with him, and of which he's managed to destroy my life; career, business, finances, family and friends! He's now after my life now that l've fully become aware he's been the pepertrator of my misery all along! Empaths/victims have unknowingly been sleeping with the enemy from within"! DON'T ALLOW HIM TO TAKE AWAY YOUR SON TOO.

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 Před 7 lety

    Why do I feel so odd.? I know I have no genitalia. Something gone so terribly wrong. I can't feel it my legs or body. Why? I do not know.

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 Před 7 lety

    I feel so odd. The lack of genitalia n I can't feel my legs. I dislike the FI.I miss my mum. I am wanted dead. Thanks.

  • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
    @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +15

    I agree no contact is the best form of protection but difficult when there are children involved.

    • @maryrichardson6029
      @maryrichardson6029 Před 7 lety

      How older are your children? Kids catch on pretty quick
      Don't lie to them..Hugs and prayers to you

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +1

      Mary Richardson: l have a sweet 14 year old son - he's very much aware of him and won't have anything to do with him. when the narc can't get to me he'd stoop as low as taking it out on my son! He's now withholding money that we're entitled to from us, after purposefully made us dependant on him! He's got his flying monkeys attacking us everywhere we go!

    • @cognizant-vk2qq
      @cognizant-vk2qq Před 7 lety +3

      Same situation..... except he's turned my son into a Narc just like him..... Sad.

    • @iampoweredbythecreator6654
      @iampoweredbythecreator6654 Před 7 lety +2

      mother love: Absolutely - he's tried severally to indoctrinate my son (by buying him expensive gadgets etc.,) but, l'm able to get in there and un doctrinate/unbrainwash him - you can imagine how this annoys him!