My Gotcha Day (Adoption Travel Vlog 2001) | Scarlett 福茵

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  • @vick1209
    @vick1209 Před měsícem +7

    This got me sooooooo mad. When they went to get the baby they both were so worried about taking pictures and videos while the baby was crying. They didn’t even try to comfort her at all. Poor little baby is living her home that she knows and these 2 people are not helping her at all.

    • @lbmccann
      @lbmccann Před 21 dnem +1

      who is they?
      the parents weren't taking pictures, they were holding and trying to console an inconsolable child at the time. friends were taking the pictures. If they didn't Scarlett wouldn't have her adoption day video or pics that you are now watching. people love to judge, and it makes me sooooooo mad! lol
      All the girls from this adoption journey grew up to be intelligent, loving humans.
      Kids are resilient and love is the medicine.
      She got so much love
      I hope you did too.

  • @swedens1151
    @swedens1151 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Amoreeeeee... ❤❤❤❤❤cuore bello... Sei bellissima... Tutti voi lo siete... Adottare è sempre stato il mio sogno... Purtroppo non si avvererà mai. Ma mi fa tanto bene guardare resti video... Grazie ❤

  • @user-ef1nk4zo2c
    @user-ef1nk4zo2c Před 2 měsíci +12

    My heart goes out to the little ones they are thrust into the arms of total strangers who don’t even speak their language and all you can hear are people more concerned about taking bloody photos of babies in distress wake up guys just imagine how terrifying it must be for them they are traumatised bless them

    • @lilgeorge34
      @lilgeorge34 Před měsícem

      I totaly agree with you.

    • @justynakurp7561
      @justynakurp7561 Před měsícem

      agree, mother who went search for camera inster of tissue broke my heart

  • @nanyanguo1
    @nanyanguo1 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Glad to see you have a good happy story to tell us about your adoption

  • @galinaantoshkina1498
    @galinaantoshkina1498 Před 7 měsíci +11

    Какой стресс для детей передача приёмным родителям, бедная малышка так плакала, аж до всхлипывания, всё чужое, и лица, и язык, мне очень жалко в такой момент детишек, пусть у них всё будет хорошо.😢👶❤️👶

  • @CWC990
    @CWC990 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Thank you for sharing this video

  • @WonderGirl99
    @WonderGirl99 Před 4 měsíci

    Oh this is so so so precious. You've been blessed! ❤❤

  • @spiralrose
    @spiralrose Před 19 dny +1

    The baby distribution system could use a little work.
    I hope since this day, they’ve developed a way to give the parents their children without so much cacophony.
    When we know better, we do better.
    Even and Aunt is young as a year old can feel the change in separation of all that they’ve known and unfortunately, that is an element of adoption.
    Making the process as gentle as possible can help.
    What a beautiful family. I hope that Scarlett has grown happy and healthy with you.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 19 dny +1

      In recent Chinese adoption videos I’ve seen the families are put in separate rooms.
      Thanks, I’m going great.

  • @ilsavankuren6511
    @ilsavankuren6511 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Beautiful little one, nice to see her bonding with mom and dad after initial trauma.

  • @elliesouza717
    @elliesouza717 Před 7 měsíci

    One of our daughter's was adopted from China. This brings back many memories. She's now in grad school, happy and healthy. I hope you're daughter is doing well, too

  • @madamjaynie87
    @madamjaynie87 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You are so darling. A beautiful baby and your parents love you so much! Beautiful mommy and handsome daddy! Lucky girl❤

  • @eprohoda
    @eprohoda Před 8 měsíci +6

    how are things?,love it!insane ~have a nice day!

  • @mortalclown3812
    @mortalclown3812 Před 11 dny

    Thank you for sharing this. 🦋
    Amazed that you're leaving the comment section open. Most people are terrific and mean well. It's just the... Karens who troll who are stunning... oops.
    😂❤ Sorry to be critical of them, but at least I avoided colorful adjectives.

  • @clarabattle1995
    @clarabattle1995 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Scarlett!!!!

  • @mapazrasilloprieto3519
    @mapazrasilloprieto3519 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Es terrible cómo hacen las entregas: tanta gente, tanto ruido...todo el mundo sacando fotos. Debería hacerse en un entorno más respetuoso con los niños, que son pequeños pero también se asustan y sufren.
    En los orfelinatos de Etiopía las organizan mejor, respetando las necesidades de los niños.

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Cute little girl

  • @marycaruso3846
    @marycaruso3846 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I wish they would do an update because she would be in her 20’s.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci +4

      I’m 23 now (24 in April😱).
      I’m so happy that you’re interested in my adoption journey. I started this channel at the beginning of the month, so I don’t have a whole lot of videos yet on what I’m currently doing. I’m working out a filming style and flow that I’m comfortable with.

  • @mayrafernandez7303
    @mayrafernandez7303 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you. That same year, I adopted a boy, 2, and his four older siblings. What a journey!How are you, dear Scarlet?

  • @melanieditzel4291
    @melanieditzel4291 Před 7 měsíci +3

    This should take place in quiet, uncrowded,peaceful space. Too much bedlam!

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Agreed. Would have been a lot less stressful for all the babies and the parents.
      From what I’ve seen in more recent China gotcha day videos, I think they do actually put the parents in separate rooms so they can bond with their child without having to deal with other families trying to do the same.

  • @reneecalpin534
    @reneecalpin534 Před 25 dny

    Adoption is a precious thing and yes it can be scary for the babies kids and their adoptive families.. please try to comfort the children before worrying about pictures it's the best thing to do and you won't have guilt when you think back to that initial meeting. I love Oriental babies they are the cutest babies ever and those who get to adopt are filling the most important voids.. love family and a sense of belonging. May God bless all families who do this so unselfishly and love those children truly ❤

  • @caronnest4939
    @caronnest4939 Před měsícem

    Absolutely right

  • @marycaruso3846
    @marycaruso3846 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I have two Grandson’s adopted from Korea.♥️🇨🇦♥️

  • @danamackay5872
    @danamackay5872 Před 2 měsíci

    This will be a Beautiful story is scary for the babies stranger’s noisy but she’s so brave and what lovely parents you have

  • @holaqasewhat3383
    @holaqasewhat3383 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Porque adoptar en Asia, habiendo tantos niños en su país de origen 😢

  • @HelloKitty-ui2vu
    @HelloKitty-ui2vu Před 7 dny

    Beautiful baby girl gorgeous

  • @user-ef1nk4zo2c
    @user-ef1nk4zo2c Před 2 měsíci

    This little one has already become a daddy’s girl

  • @bonniebeams504
    @bonniebeams504 Před 7 měsíci +21

    My goodness, give her a bottle or a toy, Something. Dont just sit there and laugh at her screaming.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci +11

      Chances are that those things wouldn’t have worked anyway. My mom actually tried giving me a toy at some point, but it made me cry harder. All of the commotion and new faces were stressing me out.
      In the video, I kind of seem to start crying whenever I see my mom. I think that my mom’s curly blond hair freaked me out because I had always been surrounded by people with straight black hair up until that point.

    • @divaitaliana143
      @divaitaliana143 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@ScarlettFuyinaww this was you huni? How are u doing now?

    • @divaitaliana143
      @divaitaliana143 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Also I was going by the video I missed that it was 2001 lol although u could totally tell HAAH.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci +4

      Yup. Doing great now👍

    • @user-ju2mt1kn1m
      @user-ju2mt1kn1m Před 7 měsíci +1

      เหตุใดไม่ปล่อยให้เธออยู่ตรงนั้นมีชีวิตในที่ของเธอหากเธอปฏิเสธ

  • @jaynepeach4689
    @jaynepeach4689 Před 7 měsíci +1

    22 years ago

  • @mariateresastella2019
    @mariateresastella2019 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Poveri bambini, consegnati ad estranei in un gran chiasso, nessuna attenzione. per la loro sensibilità

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 Před měsícem

    Scarlett, when you were baby, your mom called you pumpkin you stop crying and then you got used to your parents at the hotel but then cried for a little longer and it was on your mom and then your mom was able to calm me down. She said hi Scarlett hi pumpkin.

  • @coleengoodell7523
    @coleengoodell7523 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing this Scarlett. So glad to see you're all grown up now and pursuing your passions. You did a great job putting this together. Just love the little moccasins your parents had for you. They are the best things for babies and toddlers to wear for their growing and developing feet. So cute and so very sweet. May God continue to bless your journey through this life.

  • @michellewind8097
    @michellewind8097 Před měsícem +1

    like a zoo, loud and frightening, poor baby

  • @cinziacapuzzi5228
    @cinziacapuzzi5228 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Più che genitori
    Turisti

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 Před 2 měsíci

    Scarlett, you were definitely big when you were a baby. You were crying your head off when your mom grabbed you same thing with your dad crying your head off to your mom and dad. It means you were crying a lot Scarlett.

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 Před 2 měsíci

    Scarlett did you ever ask your mom to say a bad word when you’re younger? Did you ever ask her to say the F word or anything like that?

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před měsícem

      Not that I can remember. I didn’t like cursing because it felt bad. She’s a little surprised whenever she hears me say a bad word now.

  • @donnadee1966
    @donnadee1966 Před měsícem +1

    Adorable little angel!!! That first day must have been so emotional for all of you... It was great to see those first smiles.

  • @PATRICIAOWENS-fu5xo
    @PATRICIAOWENS-fu5xo Před 18 dny

    Good grief!!!! so much confusuion it is a wonder parents got right baby if they did?????😩😫☹

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 18 dny

      The parents all received a photo of their baby before going to China, so they knew what they would look like as well as the babies name which was called, but yeah, definitely very loud and chaotic.

  • @y.lelivelt2619
    @y.lelivelt2619 Před 2 měsíci

    Just one thing. I hope you are a happy girl nowadays.

  • @mariateresastella2019
    @mariateresastella2019 Před 7 měsíci

    Quanti mesi avevano i bambini ? Sembra che ne avevano 5/7

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci

      We were all probably around 10-12 months old.

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 Před měsícem

    Scarlett, you kept crying on your mom when she got you you did the same thing with your dad you thought they were stealing you but no, there’s your parents. It was your mom not a stranger. It’s just your mom Scarlett.

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 Před 2 měsíci

    Man, I feel like the first time meeting between the baby and the mother is so bittersweet. I’m sure mom knew..this might not be as picturesque as some would hope. But she seemed to go immediately into maternal confronting mode, and that was beautiful to see.

  • @genejuarez6731
    @genejuarez6731 Před 3 měsíci

    Ce sont les parents eux mêmes qui remettent les enfants ?? ..

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 3 měsíci

      No. I think it would have been people from the social welfare institute or something.
      It’s highly likely that all of the babies being adopted here were abandoned due to Chinas one child policy.

    • @runpuxie745
      @runpuxie745 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@ScarlettFuyin是的那是个错误的政策造成了很多悲剧,中国政府已经开始后悔了并且吃到苦果,现在中国人口已经负增长男女比例失调

  • @tess5300
    @tess5300 Před 7 měsíci

    En fin ... Dios le da pan a quién no tiene dientes.

  • @irmgardjakobs2769
    @irmgardjakobs2769 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Fürchterlich! Babymarkt! Die armen Kinder😢

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 Před 7 měsíci +5

    You two are irritating her with for forcing the kissing from her

    • @elliesouza717
      @elliesouza717 Před 7 měsíci

      Smh🙄. This is years ago. Why be so critical now

  • @VintageRose515
    @VintageRose515 Před 7 měsíci

    Possible Downe Syndrome??

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  Před 7 měsíci

      No physical or mental disabilities.
      My parents did think I was going to have a clubbed foot or something because my leg was in a weird position in my referral photo, but I didn’t.

    • @BMarie774
      @BMarie774 Před 2 měsíci

      While this baby is now… quite grown up and doesn’t have downs, lol, there’s no indication of downs here, and I’m curious why you would think that? No facial indicators. And her behaviors were very typical of that of other adoptees. It’s a traumatic experience for babies. They’re often growing up in..not the most nurturing environments before going home to their families. If anything, the behavioral displays we see in this video just show the effects of growing in an orphanage setting. In fact, you very quickly see her act like a typical baby after even just what seems like a few days with her mom and dad. One on one parental nurturing is extremely important to babies.

    • @PATRICIAOWENS-fu5xo
      @PATRICIAOWENS-fu5xo Před 18 dny

      This video contains more stupid negativity than any of the.other 100's of videos I have watched 9:21 !!!! 😮😮😩😫☹

  • @lucillecolantuono2113
    @lucillecolantuono2113 Před 16 dny

    Pacifier.

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Didn’t seem to like mom as much as dad

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Quit worrying her mom. You are aggravating her

  • @elaelviradiieejjnjo8052
    @elaelviradiieejjnjo8052 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Very stressful for the baby just give him to stranger people 😢And try to settle him with different language Why not taking easy for him Poor baby

    • @bridgwll
      @bridgwll Před 7 měsíci +2

      This was 2001.

    • @kedhotkerri1
      @kedhotkerri1 Před 3 měsíci

      What's your prob the baby looks so happy