when your social battery runs out
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Nope, I can actually feel my social energy draining just thinking about being in this situation
DONT READ MY NAMES..
Just watching this hurts me.
@Don't Read My Profile Photo don’t get a job
Yup, I'd be looking for every excuse to leave.
Same man
That whole thing where everyone insists you stay and calls you a party pooper for leaving and then when you finally snap they turn around and go "Well you could have just left at any time!" is sooooooo fucking on point
DONT READ MY NAMES..😑
@@MbitaChizi
Why do you have to be annoying?
Go away, find an hobby, get a gf, a bf or just a friend. Watch anime, a movie, get a video game...
Huh, can't relate to the last part.
Maybe get more understanding friends.
What even is with those people?
@@lohjutsulegend easier said than done
I love that "You're an adult, you can make your own choices." after them never letting him make his own choices.
Every bit of this video hurts so much, it's too perfect!
My reply to this kinda peer-pressuring me into wanting to stay at a party is basically "Yes you're absolutely right - and I choose to not be here" and then leave.
If they then want to call me a party pooper for choosing not to be pressured into shit I never even wanted to do in the first place, then the lot of them can go screw themselves on a rusty spike for all I care. xD
"them never letting him make his own choices"
They literally never stopped him even once, but sure.
@@grabble7605 They begged him to stay and such... Um, how is that not stopping him-
@@grabble7605 yes they did even though they just called out his excuses
They didn't force him into anything. Gotta learn to stand for yourself and leave when you want, no matter what they say. I've learned to do that and it's such a freeing experience.
- I'm going home
- But why, stay longer
- I've made up my mind, have a good night
"Oh, Danny boy, your legs, your legs are broken"
I can't stop laughing at that.
I've never seen such a convincing group of friends that's literally one person dressed differently. He literally interacts with himself just like every male friend group does.
they made one chad mould and then never felt the need to make another. Boys been using it ever since.
Proof that every male in a male friend group all are the same person with slight differences?
I wasn’t convinced until he said he kissed one of the boys
classic boy time
DONT READ MY NAMES!!😑.
Genuinely forgot they're the same people at this point, I've just accepted it
I remember when Daniel was just the piano sketch guy, now he's the sketch sketch guy. He's truly going places.
Hmm, 🤔 seems sketchy....
he did other skteches before piano sktechtes tho check his channel uploads
He's going places? With two broken legs?
Probably home
The ER
I love how they're like "you can just leave if you want to" when they kept peer pressuring him into staying and then they'd go back to the previous convo.
i love how we all keep saying they when it's literally one person lol
@@TheManaMarioBros Imagine reading a book and saying all the characters are the same person because their dialogue is written by the same author
@@TheRenegade... People do this ALL the time as a way to justify bad takes they had about a story.
Hoping for a world where people just understand when you say your social battery died.
Spoonies, aka people with health conditions that limit the amount of energy and things you can do in a day, would understand. A lot of autistic or ADHD people would as well, since we can burn out socially pretty quickly if we are trying to act "normal" and masking our natural behaviours in order to fit in
People do understand that. Just nobody actually says things like that in reality.
@@grabble7605 look up spoon theory, it's a genuine thing that was made up to describe how ppl with health conditions need to budget our energy so that people who have never experienced it can be more understanding
It goes both ways though. If you say - "Allright, I like you guys but I just need to be alone for the rest of the day", they'll let you go. If they don't, you go anyway. Either you just found out your friends are fucking dickheads, or they just found out you actually mean what you say, instead of acting to get attention.
Both outcomes are perfectly fine.
Just to add, that's coming from a man in his late twenties that has just left a party early (read: just in time to recharge) for the first time in his life. It's hard, but it gets you the respect you deserve from the right people.
"Stop you're embarrassing yourself"
"Yeah I know"
Literally me every single time I have a convo with my friends-
DONT READ MY NAMES..
@@MbitaChizi
SCREW THIS, I'M READING IT ANYWAY...
@@Baburun-Sama Bubble Bobble.. man. That brings back some good memories.
@@greed94
Hm, I know it.
Lol
Watching Daniel slowly grow insane is so entertaining
DONT READ MY NAMES..
Slowly?
Isn’t that true
He’s been insane for a while, hasn’t he?
You know for a while ai thought his mental health was recovering . . . then these last few videos have been more insane than your uncle Ted.
This may be the best one yet. 😂
Also as an introvert, I can heavily relate
Alex!
"do you know how to play despacito?"
"heh, do I know despacito?"
*plays smoke on the water*
Daniel's talent truly knows no bounds
I was looking for this comment
@@HungryLilDragon same 😂
I'm ignorant, what's the significance of this? 😅
@@mivvymakesmusic two entirely different songs. Look them up! I highly recommend Smoke on the Water
@@VaellinTheBard Okay thanks, I thought there was a hidden connection between the songs, maybe a play of words on their titles 😄
I’m autistic and this is me in every social situation ❤😂
You too? Welcome to the club Tay, being social is difficult, but we try 😁
DONT READ MY NAMES..😑
ok
no you're chocolate
WHAT IN GOD’S NAME ARE YOU DOING HERE MAN?
This is incredibly relatable. As a fellow introvert, I hate it when my social battery runs out. Because it runs out pretty quickly when the group is this wild and high energy. And you don't want to be rude, but you just want to go home and let your face kiss your pillow.Takes me about a month and a half to recuperate after something like this. LOL. Keep up the great work, Daniel!! 💕
Also, holy crow! I've never gotten this many likes on a single comment before. Thank you all and this is awesome!
DONT READ MY NAMES..
This entire comment is me lol
A month and a half tho…?
@@youngsqueeks Depends on the party and people around and how tired you've got during. But yeah, month and a half is not that rare
@@dariusz.9119 clearly I’m not that much of an introvert lol. Whatever makes you happy
1:14 even Daniel himself couldnt hold himself serious
The fact that I was convinced that there were 4 different people in that room having a conversations together... Top tier acting Daniel, bravo
Later that night the boys, in all their boy time glory, talked about how much they miss Daniel and how much they mean to him. Jakethony and Tambert told a story about one time when Daniel broke both of his legs to get out of being up past his social curfew…despite neither of them being there. Then they spent all night talking about their feelings, but like really talking about them, and only left when they all sobbed and cried, etc.
DONT READ MY NAMES..😑
@@MbitaChizi You have multiple names?
@@MbitaChizi I looked at ur profile.
1. I’m pretty convinced it’s a rickroll
2. Please don’t spam the comments
3. It’s not funny
I remember the last time I had to break both my legs to get away from extroverts
They chased me down like rabid beasts, snarling and foaming at the mouth
Then, right after I broke both my legs, they were suddenly like “Wow, why didn’t you just _tell_ us you didn’t want to hang out, gosh”, it was terrifying, they all said it in unison like they were under a trance or some hive-mind thing
I’ll never forget that day, the day I was almost taken by the *E X T R O V E R T S*
Love this comment 😁
Why don’t you come over this weekend?
Having a small get together.
The Boys would love to hear that story!
No pressure, either, you won’t have to remember to tell the story, I’ll remind you to!
I love how accurate this is. A few months ago I was seriously considering dropping something heavy on my foot to have a valid reason to avoid socializing with someone I find super draining to be around.
I am oddly touched that Bryler has come back for a visit and is now friends with Daniel's roommates.
"Do i know Despacito!?"... *plays smoke on the water*
Getting socially drained quickly and not knowing how to leave social situations do not go well together 😅 Thank goodness I don’t have friends where I run into that problem
HEY
@@saramaynichol9533 sorry for breaking the news to you this way lol
@@bexand93 🥺😭
1:07 the phone sound effects broke me XD
I love how even watching this video gave me anxiety. Being trapped in a social situation when I'm already exhausted and love my friends but let me goooooo
The power of "no" can be very liberating. I've been doing it for years....yes, you will miss out on things, but your beauty/creator rest is more importante. Start practicing on saying with confidence, "I don't have the energy for this..." and "You have to take my NO for an answer if you truly care about me." and then before they can say anything, interrupt their thought with a calm, "It feels great to know my friends "get me"." They'll still talk sh*t about you after you've gone, but.....it's because they adore you.....and are a bit miffed they hadn't finished absorbing all of your energy yet to feed their inner dragon. Or whatever.
I feel what you wrote in my soul. And I also have been learning this the last years - but have a long way to go still. This also happens with family; I don't want to be rude so end up sacrificing myself. Thanks for sharing and advising!!
I love that you still hung up the pretend phone after being called out that it’s pretend.
It even had the bleep sound hahaha
One time my social battery ran out so violently that I forgot to be civil and just straight up said “I wanna leave”
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I am appreciative of my friends forgiving me
Is that rude though? I guess it depends on how you say it (or your friend group) 🤷♀️
I remember when my social battery ran out so violently that when my sister asked if I wanted to play Signs (an intensely social game), I accidentally dropped the mask and said, "No!" rather than, "Thanks, but I'd rather not. :)"
@@Lisa_Flowers say it like someone who’s tiredly telling their friend they want to go home from work and that’s basically what I did
@@anepicotter4595 wait, you can _do_ that? And it _works?_ Are you sure? Because telling them I'm exhausted and desperately want to go home doesn't seem to get my customers to leave my bar... Like, I literally still had people hanging out and trying to get drinks from me _an hour and a half_ after I stopped serving and started closing up for the night, tonight.
FTR, I can't exactly just kick them out, it's a hotel lobby bar, so y'know, my options beyond saying, "Sorry, but I'm closed and no longer serving," are limited.
I liked that little character break at 1:15 😂
Yeah. Daniel's videos always brings a smile to my day.
Seriously. Don't fake people to scam them. People expect to meet someone they admire yet don't realize they're being scammed. Also no one likes a scammer. What would the people you know say?
I'm an ambivert, so my social battery is extra inconsistent. One day I'll have out with my friends for 8 hours then invite them over the next to do it all again, another day I'll be in the middle of a sentence and all of a sudden I desperately need to go home, even though I've only been there an hour. This also extends to my texting sociability; currently on consecutive month 3 of barely texting bc I just don't have the energy lol.
this describes me so well 😭
What’s ambivert? Sorry my vocabulary is really bad
Definitely me, its difficult trying to explain to ppl why I'm just tired and I don't hate you because I'm not responding, and I honestly wish you would let me have my 5 months of recharge in peace
@@hellfire6231 it's sort of like in between extrovert and introvert! the meaning might vary depending on who you ask though
@@noelle4159 ohhh, thank you 🙏
i love how the sunglasses guy who's an ambulance driver is hanging out with his friends talking about pulling all nighters
this is exactly the pinpoint moment of when I start to panic whenever I'm forced in a gathering; running out of things to say, do and ppl I know I can talk to..
Autistic mood (not implying you are as well, just that it's relatable for people who are like me)
That's less of a social battery, more so an anxiety problem that needs to be dealt with.
@@kenz2756 no? When you're autistic it can mean that social interactions take more energy if you're actively trying to compensate for your brain working differently (called masking, especially if you're trying to pretend you aren't autistic in order to fit in) because you have to pay close attention to body language, tone, and phrasing and then analyze it to figure out what they're feeling and trying to communicate it instead of intuitively getting it. And meeting new people means learning how to read their specific body language and tone when speaking which takes effort, as well as the uncertainty of whether or not they will dislike you because you're different.
And a lot of us will rehearse things beforehand or stick to people/topics that we know well because it takes less effort and less processing of things in the moment. So when those interactions that you're prepared for and comfortable with start to run dry, you might not have the energy to seek out other people/topics/activities. We can also be really bad at ending conversations, though that's partly my ADHD as well, so if we can't figure out how to leave politely we can end up super drained from staying past the point of discomfort and fatigue. Sensory overload can also build up at gatherings, and being at one that you don't want to be at in the first place makes all of this more difficult.
Sure, people with social anxiety can feel similarly, but I've experienced that and it's a very different kind of drained/panicked as compared to autistic social burnout. With social anxiety you get worked up or burnt out because your brain is going too fast, your nervous system is overactive, and you feel like you're being judged for how you're acting or how you look. Which can build up into a panic when you run out of ways to cope.
But with social anxiety you are going to start out already panicking tbh if you're at a gathering that someone forced you to attend. If you only start to panic partway through when you realize that you've already gone through all of the interactions that you feel comfortable with (and/or have mentally prepared for previous to the event), then it's less likely to be social anxiety. Or rather, it could be social anxiety but it's likely *caused* by being neurodivergent and knowing that if you don't put in effort and stick to what you know then you may stick out (due to past negative experiences and social rejection due to atypical behavior which is natural for you)
@@kenz2756 I think I'm mainly feeling defensive because of how you phrased this, though.
It felt like you were implying I'm not autistic, or that this isn't something autistic people experience, or we need to be fixed or as you said "dealt with" (because I've gotten this a lot, screw Autism Speaks and their ableism). Even if you're just trying to express that social anxiety is something that needs support and treatment, which I agree with, the phrasing used feels harsh and unsympathetic. Saying something needs to be "dealt with" has a lot of negative connotations and also, to me, implies that the person with the condition or behaviour being referred to is at fault for feeling how they do and just need to deal with it.
If that wasn't your intention, I apologize for getting defensive and making assumptions. I have a lot of negative experiences with people being hurtful and not understanding when it comes to me being autistic, ADHD, having depression and anxiety, and also my physical disabilities. So I'm a bit touchy about the subject
@@Alex-fc8xn Doesn't autism need to be dealt with though? the same way needing glasses needs to be dealt with
When they started singing? Beautiful. What a stunning ballad right there.
I feel this so much. And being married makes it 10 times worse because once your home you’re still not alone.
I’ve done this too many times to the point that I don’t have anymore excuses so now I just say “alrighty guys, my social battery has ran out so imma bounce and get some rest…. CYA” and then I’m gone *poof*.
They can’t say anything when I’m not there haha
1:23 the haa-haaa-ahhh totally had steve carrell's energy like his ghost entered you for a moment, even though he is not dead
I literally, LITERALLY, just told someone that my social battery ran out this week because it was a quite stressful one and today I need to rest and recharge a bit.
Literally just NOW.
This is so relatable, down to the purposeful bone breaking. Usually I go for the nose though, it's slightly less painful.
"Don't be a party pooper! Poop at home" killed me 😂😂
This really is how it feels when you haven't learned how to set boundaries. It feels like you need their approval to make your next move, instead of just making it. You feel compelled to come up with reasons why you need to leave, and if they counter that reason you suddenly can't leave. That's why the reason doesn't matter, just do what you want and don't give one.
I wish someone had taught me how to set boundaries when I was young.
2:54 so uhh, we're listing to Daniel's group singing
I just relized that watching it twice, he made the song rough enough that I forgot he's the same guy
😭
I was in a car with 3 other people for 26 hours over the course of three days last weekend. There was no escape, and I still haven't fully recovered. Monday, I have to go on a work trip where I'm expected to work long hours with a group of people I've never met before. I was low key praying to get covid on the road trip to get out of the work trip. Breaking both of my legs is sounding more and more tempting.
Hey, how did it go?
@@kittykitties4220 I resisted breaking my own legs, and it was less terrible than anticipated, but still pretty exhausting. This coming weekend will be the first actual break I get from people since the road trip, so I'm planning on sequestering myself in my room all weekend and talking to no one. It will be glorious. Thanks for asking 😊
Im so glad my friends just accepted this as fact. We can just say "battery down, cya" and everyone just says goodbye was nice seeing ya
01:57 he is never missing the chance to become spanish for a moment
despacito
Social batteries are a lot like phone batteries. The older it gets, the faster it drains.
thats not encouraging, im not even that old and my battery drains very quickly
Hmm, i don't think that's entirely true. Lots of introvert teenagers and younger adults often adopt an antisocial persona, in a misanthropic way which is bad. As people get older usually they become more adaptable and get rid of the misanthropy, you know, they learn how to deal. People don't simply grow less and less tolerant.
and now as a 21 year old, you just wanna sit down, open up a couple of beers, and just talk about your life choices with the boys.
Social butterflies are extraverts and don't spontaneously become introverted as they age. An extroverts social battery is FILLED by being around others, not drained. Do you mean introverts stop pretending to be social butterflies as they age?
This is a perfect comment
When your so tired that broken legs is better than human interaction, but the people keep noticing you trying to leave
I feel this so hard!
2:19 this part😂😂😂😂😂
That’s why I like that I can just say straight up “my social battery is super dead Imma head out” and just dip because they can’t argue the truth
1:14 that's definitely a blooper I love it🤣
O O F
I feel this so hard. And I work retail so often my social battery runs out before I get off work 😭😭😭😭😭
-He just came back from I-biza.
-Ibita.
I am laughing so hard with the boys
Y'know, I feel like every one of Daniel's videos start off relatable and sound like a cult advertisement towards the end.
0:17
"Could be my birthday, don't know when i was born."
I'm a big fan of honestly, so if someone just says they've had enough social interaction I'm okay with that and can relate. It's the lies, even if benign, that hurt a relationship.
I love how Daniel breaks characters and laughs sometimes and just leaves it in. 😂 “poopin all over the place” 😂
I was not expecting the leg break. I visibly flinched. Lol
He makes my day when I watch him he’s just that funny
2:42, he is literally playing smoke on the water and singing Despacito.
“I think we should stay up all night and talk about our feelings”
Me: *internal screams and panicking*
Never before have I ever NOT related to someone so much, I could spend time with them for multiple days straight until passing out of exhaustion only than would my social battery be low
Okay extrovert
Just watching this drained my own battery. Well done. You captured it too well
Sometimes I really do forget there’s only one Daniel…
Brylar(guy with the hair over his eyes and I hope I spelled the name right) hasn't been in any sketch for a long time. Glad to see his return and that Daniel is consistent with his characters.
Never in all my years have I seen something I relate to more than this, I feel this deep in my soul, I saw myself in this exact scenario and somehow got deja vu.
This is me. Fortunately, I tend to have friends who understand my limits, and aren't mad if I just sit in a corner and read while ignoring them.
This sketch was so relatable that started to have social anxiety watching it by myself
Just that slight change in hair style to play Bryler makes Daniel look SO different
this can't be more relateable.. aka me when i ever talk to anyone. i laughed at how that is physicly how i act to anyone to a literal extent
I woke up this morning and was really sad. Then seconds later I got a Daniel video! I feel much better
So grateful my friends are all the type who understand this feeling. My family on the other hand, don't seem to think they count as people I can also get exhausted with socializing and take my going away personally 😑
This is relatable because when I’m on the bus sitting with my friend and I am ready to stop being social.
In family social situations like these, I just stick around and contribute nothing to the conversation, cuz no one notices that I’m there, but everyone notices when I’m gone.
In social situations with peers I leave whenever cuz I don’t give a care.
9.8/10 on the relatability scale only because i am a girl and have never broken a leg. Otherwise it hits really close to home😭 good job Daniel✨ comedy gold✨
You don’t need to be a boy to love boy time
No she means that the only difference between her and the video is that she isn’t a boy and hasn’t broken her legs 😂😂
@@peachyking1534 thank youuuu
@@peachyking1534 Yeah I know I just wanted an excuse to use the phrase "boy time"
Underrated joke is Daniel's friend asking "Do you know Despacito?" And then his friend playing "Smoke On The Water"
I laughed so hard at this.
I'm gonna go cry now, thank you for this Daniel
Oh man I relate to that probably way too much. The way you deliver it is hilarious, Daniel. Don’t forget us when you’re as big as someone can get.
10000000 feet tall
@@cozyvrc what doesn’t kill you makes you taller
@@saramaynichol9533 indeed
@@saramaynichol9533earlier today I watched one of his shorts where he says this exact sentence and then just now I’m going through old emails and I see this, it was foreshadowing all along
I’ve been quite lucky to have a decent social battery for most of the time. I always tell my friends that I’m getting tired, which just means that I’ll go home and be on my phone for another 4 hours.
I love how you could be just sitting there not being involved in the conversation at all but as soon as you get up your friends instantly do this
1:54 "Ibiza...*ee-bee-tha...bless you" 😂
NOOO THIS IS LITERALLY ME - College is great and all and I'm glad I have friends but oh my goodness I feel terrible every time I skip out on hanging out or movie nights just because I've already socially checked out for the day and I can't handle being around a group of people for much longer ;-;
Can't tell you how many times I've wanted to break my leg to get out of a social gathering, when my social battery runs out.
His Another day at the Office Video gave us a Sneak Peek
I just wonder how many people died inside at 2:34
2:24 shoulda have taken that guy offer, and then broke his leg instead
now you can go home AND get a free ambulance!
The moment they started talking about movies I started getting anxious. I'm also like "no, I gotta go".
Oh this is relatable
I went to a theme park with my friends, and I really enjoyed it for several hours, but I got so incredibly tired that I had to go home early
i dont know why i never expect the way dan's vids start out chill and get more and more insane up until the end
This is actually what I wish my friends would do. Man we have some great times, but I wish we could all hang out together more like that :( dang sounds like a great time… relatable video tho! I understand that feeling to the fullest 😅😅
I can feel this video and it's scary accurate.
Ok but like can we talk about how Daniel gave Daniel a kiss for the auto feeder-?
Brilliant editing! Beautifully executed.
I'm pretty sure I'll break more than my legs in that situation
I like to think Hoodie Guy wasn't there bc he's so much of an introvert he hid as soon as he heard there were visitors
i do the most extremes just to get out of situations once my social battery runs out.. its just so tiring after hanging out for too long
these's skits are getting better and better xD keep it up Daniel!
What a masterpiece. No words. Chef's kiss.
not even joking this gave me a headache and I had to click off
you made this so well that it actually drained my social battery and i had to leave, good job
This is incredibly funny. Great video 😂
Insanely good!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Awesome stuff, as usual!!!! ♥️
Even the sketch's after the sketch are getting crazier, I love it!💚💚💚💚💚💚