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  • čas přidán 29. 11. 2021
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    On this episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast Ryan talks to entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk about his new book Twelve and a Half: Leveraging the Emotional Ingredients Necessary for Business Success, how to get comfortable with vulnerability and emotional development, the best way to maintain long term business success, and more.
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Komentáře • 191

  • @DailyStoic
    @DailyStoic  Před 2 lety +45

    Hope everyone enjoys this interview. We'd love to hear what your favorite parts were, comment the timestamps!

    • @andrewryan2814
      @andrewryan2814 Před 2 lety

      Just subscribed to daily email. Ever since I first began to study Marcus Aurelius, I strive to be more stoic. If a Roman emperor can withstand far greater temptation than is offered to us, we should all strive to that same goal.

    • @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
      @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 Před 2 lety +4

      My favorite part was (paraphrasing) the whole thing about people/business/orgs that may have done you dirty, and they are not even a thing to waste energy on. Put them on a shelf somewhere and move forward. The sesne of actually moving forward with that level of detachment... In listening to this interview I envisioned what that would feel like to be so far liberated from those negative experiences, and thought to myself - hell yeah! What an epic success that is.

    • @formisfunction1861
      @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety

      The whole thing is pure gold!

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 Před 2 lety +149

    I'm 80 years old now. At age 10, in the fourth grade,, when they were doing their best to break me, and almost did, I made a solemn vow to myself that I would never be like them.... I have lived up to it.

  • @codyhunt1838
    @codyhunt1838 Před 2 lety +42

    “When we watch this in 5 years people are going to be quitting jobs they love.”…. I just resigned from the best job I’ve ever had because I had an option to take on something more difficult and meaningful. We are there already Gary.

    • @codyhunt1838
      @codyhunt1838 Před 2 lety +2

      Just passed my licensing exams today… can’t believe it’s happening. Thank you all!

    • @DefeatLust
      @DefeatLust Před 2 lety +1

      @@codyhunt1838 Congratulations 🙂

  • @ProjectJamesify
    @ProjectJamesify Před 2 lety +88

    Ryan and Gary, you know it's going to be good

  • @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur
    @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur Před 2 lety +4

    It's inspiring how two pros with noticeably incompatible personalities are having a conversation on so many relevant life topics and having both agreeing and disagreeing views on them. Normally we see people agree or disagree in these talks but this time we actually get to see a middle ground.

  • @studywm_pls
    @studywm_pls Před 2 lety +15

    bro two of my best mentors talk - this is incredible !!!

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 Před 2 lety +5

    ... " when you eliminate fear, people can move fast."...

  • @juliuslopezramirez8028
    @juliuslopezramirez8028 Před 2 lety +8

    26:36 best bit in my opinion, something thats so repeated by many people and yet embodied by not that many, we truly are fortunate and many times we don't realize it, but when we do most of our problems become trivial and they stop being something to be upset about. Great conversation, keep it up!!

  • @sensecarter2516
    @sensecarter2516 Před 2 lety +9

    This is an incredibly inspiring channel. These principles of stoicism have impacted me immensely. Thanks for your self-sacrifice to inspire others.

  • @ashtonlosier5123
    @ashtonlosier5123 Před 2 lety +13

    I really wish they would go into more advanced things with stoicism and Ryan would bounce those deeper ideas about stoicism and the logos and what not and see how they respond to that

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety +2

      Gary is incapable of anything beyond the first sentence. He lacks any depth.

    • @matthewcote5198
      @matthewcote5198 Před 2 lety

      @@DinoCorvino damn, you really didn't listen to any of this conversation, did you?

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety +2

      @@matthewcote5198 I did not. I rejected Gary V a long time ago, and feel no need to listen to him when there are things I think of more substantive of my time.

    • @matthewcote5198
      @matthewcote5198 Před 2 lety

      @@DinoCorvino look, that's cool and all, but what would Marcus Aurelius say? Making opinions on things you are totally uninformed about. Gary has shown a totally different side of himself recently...and if you are a fan of stoic philosophy, you will also understand that Marcus accepted truth can come from any source. But to call another human with no depth when you haven't even given them a real chance is pretty shallow.

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety +1

      @@matthewcote5198 I am sure that is true. I gave Gary a chance a long time ago, and after reading what he wrote, watching his videos, even speaking to him on the phone twice, I made a personal choice for myself that there are other things that I would like to consume. That Gary was not one of those things, and given the state of the so called content world, Gary is just one loud voices in a sea of loud voices. I am under no obligation to try to consume them all. You are free to take your truth from where ever you find it, I chose to reject Gary based on the lack of substance in his first three or four books. His participation in the so called HUSTLE culture, his support of the DISRUPTION thing. He lost me really when he talked out his ass about public schools. There are other voices I want to hear from, feel free to find yours where you wish.

  • @Rod-dg7fy
    @Rod-dg7fy Před 2 lety +16

    Someday there will have to be a movie on Gary. He is the best example of the current state of the world.

    • @somguy728
      @somguy728 Před 2 lety +7

      That comment could mean so many things - I consider Gary to be a high energy snake oil salesman - not a mass murdering eugenicist like those from Davos.

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776
    @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776 Před 2 lety +6

    Two heavyweights of thought. Great meditation to start the day. I was fortunate that a key part of our business school studies was based on "soft business skills". Love the notion of "sportsman/womanship"

  • @lyndao7356
    @lyndao7356 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow. Breath taking. Good job, guys.
    This: ‘If you’re one of the people who thinks someone else’s success takes from you, you’ve lost already’ paraphrasing Gary, of course, but that’s the truth.

  • @JdotCarver
    @JdotCarver Před 2 lety +1

    Damn, the Audio/Video quality of this show makes it so enjoyable to watch!

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 Před 2 lety +1

    Gary is clever to say that you have to have courage to do something or anything.

  • @TheYorickFrijtersShow
    @TheYorickFrijtersShow Před 2 lety +6

    This was great. One of the two people I listen the most to and this ending is really typical and funny 😂❤️

  • @aminmohammadi5011
    @aminmohammadi5011 Před 2 lety +4

    My immediate response to thumbnail and titles and after checking the name of channel 5times, was oh shit! Ryan & Gary! I've never expecting this!!! THE Best thing I couldn't imagine! Thanks Ryan 💛

  • @louielimranola
    @louielimranola Před 2 lety +1

    OMGGGG STOICISM AND GARY, WHAT A COMBO!!!

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 Před 2 lety

    Gary is so clever. I think that Ryan is clever too. I want to be a stoic. Freedom is the key to joy

  • @johnhansen4794
    @johnhansen4794 Před 2 lety +6

    That was the perfect Gary V ending. 😎

  • @chatch909
    @chatch909 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you, Ryan. This is solid.

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw Před 4 měsíci

    AMAZING conversation 💯💯💯 thank u 🙏

  • @hectorcavadajr6727
    @hectorcavadajr6727 Před 2 lety +5

    Gary V the Stoic lmao that's great

  • @DinoCorvino
    @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety +9

    oh this is too bad. I think Gary is a huge part of the problem. Him, Kevin Rose, Tim Ferriss, that generation of guys...just straight unconsidered lives. I feel bad that this interview even happened.

    • @FrenchPhotos
      @FrenchPhotos Před 2 lety

      Why? what's with Tim Ferriss?

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety +3

      @@FrenchPhotos That crew of guys, for so long have claimed this bullshit title of DISRUPTOR and used it to make claims that have been attacked for years. Whether it be Kevin Rose and his bullshit tearing down a historical house, or the medical claims that are or are not posted by Ferriss, to the absolutely devoid of substance books that Gary Vee puts out combined with this youtube presence that is a long career of empty platitudes. Vaynerchuck has gotten to the point that Trevor Wallace even mocked him. There are people who do work, share knowledge, then there are these guys who got rich, and now talk all the time.

    • @FrenchPhotos
      @FrenchPhotos Před 2 lety

      @@DinoCorvino I would agree on some points. They were fooled by randomness and now they're talking in hindsight. But if you look at the back end, they were giving value to their market as well. Garyvee with his Agency working with big brands, Tim Ferriss and his personal struggle to better his lifestyle, and interviewing people who have their own struggles as well. But I won't discount your opinion as they also have some truth in it. ❤️

    • @DinoCorvino
      @DinoCorvino Před 2 lety

      @@FrenchPhotos So here is the thing, I know no one who has worked with or for Gary Vee. And look, his books are empty and without substance. What an opportunity he has to be a great mentor, but what he gives is style, the pose, the iconography. Not the work. A thousand years ago Bill Gates wrote a 500 page book about email. Dense, and hard to get through. But, really substantive. Punch Punch Jab Jab, or whatever, the ever annoying Hustle book. These guys do REAL things, not just buzz words. Not just DISRUPT OR HUSTLE OR HACK. And they sit down on those nonsense phrases, and people go for it.

  • @ChristianSoschner
    @ChristianSoschner Před 2 lety +5

    Awesome episode. Thanks for putting it together

  • @divorcetheworld
    @divorcetheworld Před 2 lety

    I love the gratitude talk. The whole time I was hoping the conversation would head towards "if you regret fine, this is where you're at. Where to you point your sails from here.

  • @wawuchallenge8469
    @wawuchallenge8469 Před 2 lety +7

    I love this interview, as always Gary dropping a ton of value coupled with stoic philosophy, this is priceless life lesson.

  • @therealdavidtrotta
    @therealdavidtrotta Před 2 lety +2

    Perfectness, two of my favs!

  • @woahwoah407
    @woahwoah407 Před 2 lety

    Legendary.

  • @zachrat9083
    @zachrat9083 Před 2 lety +11

    ‼️If you aren’t eating your own shit and sleeping 3 hours a night, you don’t want to be rich ‼️😎💪🏻

  • @along9971
    @along9971 Před rokem

    ROFL!! Gotta love Gary!

  • @prudhviraj97
    @prudhviraj97 Před 2 lety +2

    This is legendary gary helped me and millions of ppl appreciate it

  • @isaiahbarze1952
    @isaiahbarze1952 Před 2 lety +1

    I immediately saw this and thought That I would be better for listening to this.

  • @expeditiontotry
    @expeditiontotry Před 2 lety +5

    I've been waiting for this conversation to happen. So hyped!
    I love Gary's ability to know he's a Stoic and at the same time say he's not one. That's so Stoic

    • @afinkeln
      @afinkeln Před rokem +1

      no that's just Gary enjoying his own flatulance

    • @ShinShinoke
      @ShinShinoke Před rokem

      He comes across as incredibly self obsessed personally

  • @louielimranola
    @louielimranola Před 2 lety +1

    SAVED THIS FOR LATER BUT I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO BE AMAZING

  • @Flips4Miles
    @Flips4Miles Před 2 lety +3

    Gary the legend

  • @droshik
    @droshik Před 2 lety +1

    Loved everything about this! This is the type of content I can consume 24/7! ❤️

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 Před 2 lety

    Change is not progress but progress requires change!

  • @AlexZeBeast
    @AlexZeBeast Před 2 lety +1

    This is powerful!

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman Před 2 lety +3

    Wow! Look at that wall made with books!

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před rokem

    "Hey I'm humble." LOL!

  • @pilkingtongue
    @pilkingtongue Před 2 lety

    this is my first podcast on this channel, i’ve only ever heard of ‘gary v’, i’ve been interested in stoicism before i was directed here, i think it was comedian annie ledderman shared you on an ig story, now i’m here, throughly enjoyed this. i know both of you could go at least 2+ hours and i would’ve seriously enjoyed it. thank you!

  • @christiandeltoro5128
    @christiandeltoro5128 Před 2 lety +1

    I came to a conclusion that the reason why people judge others goes back to our evolutionary methods of human history. We “change/evolve” the world to suit us rather than ourselves “change/evolve” to suit the environment. We started making stone tools to give ourselves the advantage in nature rather than evolving over long periods of time. “Changing/evolving” others sounds like the expedient way to get to where we want to be. The hard way is looking inwards and change ourselves each individually.

  • @IamMattBeard
    @IamMattBeard Před 2 lety

    The...Gary V - "romantic of the concept of losing it all and building it back up!" Amazing interview. Every piece is just full of value.

  • @MyOutdoorQuest
    @MyOutdoorQuest Před 2 lety +1

    two legends in one frame ❤️‍🔥 #stoicism

  • @anwest
    @anwest Před 2 lety +2

    This is gold! Thank you!

  • @zachprice355
    @zachprice355 Před 2 lety

    I'm so happy so happy i found this video

  • @thescruffie
    @thescruffie Před 2 lety +1

    Great interview! The end got me 😂

  • @yesyesyay8452
    @yesyesyay8452 Před 2 lety

    I wish Gary isn’t glorifying social media as if it’s the only thing to become successful in the world. Otherwise, Respect.

  • @mcjoe4324
    @mcjoe4324 Před 2 lety

    Daily stoic, Like this if you’ve kept contact with gary for more to come❤️

  • @akramdris7096
    @akramdris7096 Před 2 lety +1

    it could be a good idea bring to the podcast Chris Bumstead, he is a big fan of stoicism

  • @nikeball7
    @nikeball7 Před 2 lety

    Very very very grateful

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety

    "No opinion is the super power." = Love it!

  • @kevinsnyder3040
    @kevinsnyder3040 Před 2 lety +6

    he is obnoxiously loud...but people like loud people whom exhume confidence

  • @joser3075
    @joser3075 Před 2 lety

    43:00 gratitude 🙏🏼

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety

    Life is long and life is short views = great conversation.

  • @viviancrawford114
    @viviancrawford114 Před 2 lety

    Great speech Gary. I believe you.

  • @MrAshay12
    @MrAshay12 Před 2 lety

    Best interview of Gary in a while

  • @alanchriston6806
    @alanchriston6806 Před 2 lety +1

    Superb once again , Brilliant 😊😊

  • @galador8089
    @galador8089 Před 2 lety +18

    Listening to people like Gary will not help you.

    • @prudhviraj97
      @prudhviraj97 Před 2 lety +3

      Who are you to say lmao and no one cares about your opinion

    • @mrcalificator
      @mrcalificator Před 2 lety +8

      @@prudhviraj97 and here you are responding😂😂😂 plus this is yt comments, he can say whatever he pleases why u so mad?😂😂

    • @abel5333
      @abel5333 Před 2 lety +1

      Cry more pls

    • @playerformerlyknownasmousecop
      @playerformerlyknownasmousecop Před 2 lety +6

      yeah agreed. Gary V has nothing to do with stoicism and has contributed to the toxic hustle culture more than any one person I can think of

  • @unspokenwounds
    @unspokenwounds Před 2 lety

    Loved this entire thing! Best part was the very end when it'\s REAL REAL!

  • @Adrianblackshowman
    @Adrianblackshowman Před 2 lety

    So thankful for you two coming together for this talk! Thanks guys! Lots of gems in here!

  • @SalvationsElite
    @SalvationsElite Před 2 lety +2

    Hey man, this is the first time I've ever seen your content, and I'm blown away by your ability here. Loved every second of this conversation. Definitely subbed! Excited to go through more! You and Gary click to say the least!

  • @zacrobinson6117
    @zacrobinson6117 Před 2 lety

    Ryan, please read the I ching and break it down for the plebs

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 Před 2 lety

    Life is short compared to the endless amount of time available to get but at the same time life is long asf for us if your smart!!!

  • @erichopham
    @erichopham Před 2 lety

    When you judge others, you’re practicing for yourself

  • @theindiancricketpodcast

    I LOVE the way it ends! Wow you guys!

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 Před 2 lety +1

    I love the stoics and love all you do and I love @garyvee because your an intelligent dude! But guys please don’t sleep on my views cause I don’t on yours.

  • @a-jai9381
    @a-jai9381 Před 2 lety

    i love love love love love this so much!!!

  • @dallaspassmore
    @dallaspassmore Před 2 lety

    I’ve been saying Gary is a modern day stoic

  • @ZakHilton12
    @ZakHilton12 Před 2 lety

    Super high quality episode!

  • @pucyu9678
    @pucyu9678 Před 2 lety +2

    A true and through and through bs artist at his prime

  • @unnaturalatrophy8073
    @unnaturalatrophy8073 Před 2 lety +5

    Oh its the dude who couldn't pay the 100$ for garage guy

  • @chrisa6212
    @chrisa6212 Před 2 lety

    Based on how much you both had to say, to the point of Gary running over on time, I think it would interesting to have a part 2 of this dialogue.
    It was great to listen to! 👍

  • @LaynoProd
    @LaynoProd Před rokem

    this had so much life gems that even apply to me as a music artist, thank you Ryan and Gary for this wisdom 🙏🏽💎👨🏽‍🎨 with gratitude, LaynoProd

  • @haroldoluizrodriguesfilho7779

    Admiral Stockdale, John Wooden, Warren Buffet, Monty Roberts, Peter Drucker, Clayton Christensen…wisdon

  • @weavemagic
    @weavemagic Před 2 lety

    loved this conversation - thanks ryan & gary

  • @ScottDLuffy
    @ScottDLuffy Před 2 lety +1

    When I was 5 , 6 , 7... 4... 12 , 14, 13.. 11

  • @Demajaasa
    @Demajaasa Před 2 lety +15

    I can't believe you invited this fraud

  • @BillyPulido
    @BillyPulido Před 2 lety

    Seeing this two in one vid. Wishing all the best here in comments.

  • @ruben_torres
    @ruben_torres Před 2 lety

    Best ending ever.

  • @LwaziSbuLive
    @LwaziSbuLive Před 2 lety

    Lovely Talk.

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety

    The alumni locker room = powerful!

  • @chuyv4760
    @chuyv4760 Před 2 lety +1

    I hope Ryan reads the book Breath by Rickson Gracie.

  • @ImperialDarkKnight
    @ImperialDarkKnight Před 2 lety

    Solid content to help you with attachments of knowledge

  • @gabes80
    @gabes80 Před 2 lety

    He's whatever is trending today

  • @raiseyourmedia
    @raiseyourmedia Před 2 lety +1

    Gary is right... the right perspective is everything.

  • @rodredoun1922
    @rodredoun1922 Před 2 lety +8

    Gary V is very interested in wisdom lol, aren't we all?

    • @garyvee
      @garyvee Před 2 lety

      We sure are Xoxox

  • @isaccarvalho2652
    @isaccarvalho2652 Před 2 lety +3

    Why this guy with the hat keep screaming? I couldn't keep listening.

  •  Před 2 lety

    Awesome interview! So funny, was exactly 8:44 when he said it...I was kinda confused until I realized it was pure coincidence

  • @mmarelated2034
    @mmarelated2034 Před 2 lety +2

    Gary Vee does well when he is being interviewed and the questions are for him... But boy does he stink as an interviewer - he'll talk over the guest, ask a question and then answer it for them, cut the guest short and make it all about how he is always right..... You did a great job here Ryan.

  • @jillym2743
    @jillym2743 Před rokem

    Great Podcast. I just came from the Robert green one to this. The energy is very different.
    Gary is awesome but his energy makes me wired up...not in a good way.
    The loud talking is not my vibe.
    Felt so chill with Mr green podcast.

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety

    Two genius's

  • @BLimepositivity8
    @BLimepositivity8 Před 2 lety

    Btw i talk deep about everything because everything is a copy of everything and o the stoics are the road maps of life! Plus they knew shit before others!

  • @Jennasworld1876
    @Jennasworld1876 Před 2 lety +8

    I am done with the internet. Gary V, a stoic? Please. That man has taught countless people to just post to the wind, hustle until your brain explodes, and as long as you work work work.. something amazing will happen. IT IS NOT REAL LIFE. The stoics are what brought me away from that bullshit. Maybe Gary is a different guy now but this one really bums me out. And yes, I am bitter before you say something. I gave my life to all of these movements and now I am trying to find out who I actually am. Gary V was extremely damaging to me in some ways. I also just got scammed by a guy who worked for Gary forever, so I have an extra bad taste in my mouth. All of these success and life internet gurus are so slimy to me now, I never want to feel that way about Holiday. Please remember that all of this "free advice"...it's not free and you are the product here.

    • @ConfusedProud
      @ConfusedProud Před 2 lety +1

      I do agree - I think in general its a little embarrassing having a guy on to your Stoicism-themed show, just so he can talk about how great, intelligent, thoughtful, and humble he is. This episode was genuinely confusing. I'm not sure if his usual guests use the show to so blatantly self-promote, I'm not entirely sure Gary really knows what Stoicism is wither after watching this.

  • @dwaynecrosse8208
    @dwaynecrosse8208 Před 2 lety

    Yes sirrr

  • @ErikKing1
    @ErikKing1 Před 2 lety

    That was very insightful.

  • @antoniotubbs
    @antoniotubbs Před 2 lety +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @a12tmagazine
    @a12tmagazine Před 2 lety

    I know Gary is always very talkative and engaging but it seems like he was extra engaging in this interview. Also this interview seemed less Cutting-each-other-off mid sentence as Gary usually, not sure if its his growth that he mentions or just your chemistry. Great talk, sad it ended abruptly.

  • @liam_dawson
    @liam_dawson Před 2 lety

    excellent interview