Built a Company With My Best Friend, Then Had to Fire My Own Brother for Stealing From Us...
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- čas přidán 15. 05. 2024
- Built a Company With My Best Friend, Then Had to Fire My Own Brother for Stealing From Us. But It Turns Out Our Parents Manipulated Him Into It and He Was Giving Them All the Money.
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“i’d rather be homeless than take money from you”
…was…was that supposed to be a threat…?
no, just his selfish attitude rearing it's head
0P: Yeah because that would actually be great for me lol
So they’re too proud to take money but took it when their son embezzled it and when she was supporting them for 5 years? God they are dumb
It's probably the stereotype of the dad "providing" for the daughter, so he can't ask her
But to ask a son is OK ( I don't believe in this shit)
Lots of boomers like this are incredibly dumb and egotistic.
If the parents just asked OP none of thos would have happened. L parents
Nah, Everyone in that story is a walking L except Finn's wife
Because you can trade 'pride' point with house mortgage, point for groceries, and other necessities.
@@SYLVESTER-6782you are brainless
Father: I prefer to be homeless than...
Op and brother: Wish granted, it makes everything so much easier. Thank you
We didn't ask to be born. We owe our parents nothing.
That maybe true, but no child who loves his parents will see them go without. On the other hand, parents don't owe their children anything after they have reached adulthood. So no offspring should be looking for anything from a parent after their death!
@@lynettephillip2412 personally, here's my take on this saying:
"we didn't ask to be born. we owe our parents nothing but the love and respect they give us."
in other words, we only owe our parents what they give us. if your dad who supported you your entire life is diagnosed with dementia, you're obviously gonna help him. but that doesn't mean a narcissistic mother would be entitled to the same love, respect and help.
@@leeshyd531Totally agree with this.. some people take this saying the wrong way and abandon their good parents
@@leeshyd531 The talk that usually fly around on this thread, is that we don't owe our parents anything. Nobody asked to be born! At the end of the day we should treat people how we want to be treated. I don't know anything about narcissistic parents. My parents were not narcissistic, but they definitely had their faults. But I took care of them both before they died.
@@leeshyd531 100%
Dad: I’d rather be homeless than take money from you!
Where was this when you stole money from OP and threw her brother under the bus? It seems your pride and ego hasn’t gone anywhere.
They need to swallow there pride
Who wants to bet that after a month or two if they last that long that the parents are gonna come crying back how their children are being Disobedient and ungrateful brats for not supporting their parents and try to beg them for a financial help again.
it's ridiculous that the OP was talking about potential consequences but her opportunist parents didn't care about such things when they actively harmed her business
Loll the dad… Kids are not an investment they dont owe you a dime for there upbringing… 😂
It ain even about the money, it’s about the principle and disrespect and dishonesty
"and that's when I lost my car" had me dying😂😂
I feel like this was some sort of fucked up sabotaging of their son's business on the parents part.
It takes one genuine apology, ONE!!
Yeah GENUINE😮
@@scourgedarkpaw9949 Wdym? I wouldn't accept a non genuine apology
@@nex3858 I think he means the apology being genuine is the key part
@@Zevelyon yeah thank you
Op really is a doormat to their parents.
Good for them to come into their senses at the end.
Edit: grammar
Everyone in this story are total morons
I wonder how her business is still operating being such a doormat.
People can compartmentalize work and personal life successfully. It's like an autopilot one can switch on and off.
Op is more rational than being a doormat. Cutting her parents of entirely is cruel, despite what they did and knowing they have no one else to rely on being thag old. And unlike most wicked and selfish ppl on this earth, she's not like that. Not stooping to their level is not being a doormat.
@@curator9024 Everyone in this story is a moron (except Finn's wife) the funny thing tho is that OP got lucky because the parents refused to take her money if she wasn't gonna see them and weren't even sorry about stealing the money.
Naive and stupid are the best words to describe both the OP and her brother
FR LIKE WHY WOULD THEY STILL OFFER HELP LIKE- 😭
I feel like there’s going to me so much more people like their parents using them and they’re too blind by “being human” to notice.
Hell to the fucking no… I would have gone no contact FOREVER if my parents did something like this to me and my brother..
Op really annoyed me. Why give money to people who are responsible for embezzlement!
Because this story is most likely fake and everyone in this story are total morons
Cause she a doormat with no spine
Because she is a pathetic doormat. If I was a stranger she would have sued them, but since she is weak she will give them money. She deserves everything that happened to her i don't feel sorry for her
Op’s parents just sound lovely.
Why did bro's voice get deeper in the middle of nowhere for a brief moment?-
Went tru puberty
In before the parents come back 6 months from now asking for money
Yup, at which time OP and her brother will gladly forgive them and start feeding them money again, never realizing that the parents are only faking it to get money.
@@mannydcbianco naah. They totally realized it. This is actually common in some cultures. It's a way to say "I'm not stupid, I'm just a human with a heart but that's all you got." It also means that you're so rich and succesful you can even throw money to your enemy
They betrayed their own son. Made him a criminal.
Just so you don’t waste your time like I did, OP and the brother are both doormats and continue to give their parents money because “they’re old” even after they lied and manipulated both of them over pride.
Nahh this is wild for their own sake of money breaking relationship between siblings is way too far
op brother wasn't innocent. he was gullible but not innocent.
Forgiveness is not for the other person. it's for you. If OP wants to set those boundaries. Thats up to them. I understand her feelings and think that is a good boundary to set.
nah bc just ask the guy for money instead of manipulating your own son into stealing for you. op's parents are sick and the brother needs to grow a backbone fr.
"I'd rather be homeless!"
Don't threaten me with good times
Just grow a spine and block them. Not sure how close I'd want to become with the brother who doesn't know right from wrong.
Dad: Id rather be homeless!!
OP:......was that even a threat?
They haven’t screwed up in a big way, they got exposed as terrible people, which they still are.
He is not innocent. He still stole for them.
Kids never owe their parents repayment for being born and raised. That's absolutely fucking ridiculous. Kids never asked to be born. It's completely selfish to have children in the first place, so the least you can do is provide for them and give them a strong foundation to be productive adults. And in return, doing a good job should be reward enough.
Family or not they committed a crime brother as well. Prison time for all plus repayment
What a sad system. In Europe you get a minimum pension no matter how much you work of pay in to the system. It's incredible to me how you can work your entire life and pay taxes and at the end the state does nothing to help you...
I'm disappointed in this OP
Put them to work at your business sweeping floors.
OP the Doormat.
Wicked parents!
“Because ‘family’….”
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The parents could live comfortable lives in prison.
So he had proof in the email but not when he talked talked to his parents.
im surprised they never even thought of an old folks home, if my parents did that and couldn't work, old folks home.
OP's parent repeat after me welcome to walmart
you can put them in a home then. sell their house and stuff to pay for it then pay for the senior home. THAT can be their punishment. if they refuse, then they refuse your help. but dont give them cash to keep the house or special shit.
Parents who say their son owns them the money they used on them as a child are mental
Doormats
Geez, I know my family is prideful, but even they know when to take the L for what they want
It's not about being "a feeling, emotional robot," it's about taking an appropriate and reasonable action against awful people who tore apart their kids' relationship with one another and holding them to their arrogant sense of narcissistic pride, just as they wanted in the first place when they manipulated Finn into ruining his own career at OP's business. OP is TA for even considering enabling their selfish behaviour after all of it. If you really cared about your brother and sympathised with his suffering, you wouldn't have still attempted to support the people who exploited his naivety, knowing that it was them who coerced him into doing it.
Finn's actions may have been egregious, but he absolutely should not have been a scapegoat and taken all the blame for it for so long. At least he had the common decency to openly confess and explain every intimate detail about the events that transpired. Poor guy got used like a puppet then tossed out like trash when he wasn't providing, and his own sibling, after being told everything, still wanted to support the people who abused him like that.
It's clear that OP retains the same sense of arrogant pride as the parents here.
Iswtg stop calling OP a doormat. They’re not a doormat, they’re human. It sounds easy to cut someone off but when that person literally raised you, it’s hard to leave them helpless. Yes. The parents deserve way worse but but a doormat would just let everything go. OP set boundaries and stood by them.
Here is what you do; write your parents a big check. Tell them this is all the money they will ever get from now on, and this you “repaying” them for raising you and then wish them the best and cut contact forever.
This solves the obligation you feel for them, because they raised you AND then you don’t have anymore guilt because you did “took care of them” just like they “took care of you” growing up.
Then when they are homeless it is 100% on them and you no longer have an obligation to them.
I had a similar situation with my family and I gave them a lump sum with the stipulation that this was it and I would NEVER help them again. I haven’t heard from them in two plus years.
The way I look at it, I took a finical hit in the short term but in the long term I was buying peace and quiet. And they know for a fact that if they show up I will be getting police involved.
this story is fake you cannot tell me a grown adult is stupid to steal money for a stupid reason
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This is soo messed up . I hate the idea of parents who believe that their children own them for bringing them into this world and its their right to treat and used their children any way they want to. How can these parents be so arrogant and disgusting and not see the harm they have caused to their kids
What a doormat
Annoying doormat OP stop acting all tuff if your gonna fold 3 seconds later
time for time. they made you loose 5 years of yr time with your brother, u make them wait retirement by 5 years, and even after that make half the payments you used to make.
Ngl op tried to do the right thing but the parents are to dumb and prideful
Did the parents gave money to their parents?
The parents are so egoistic to the point they made their son fired an then put him under the bus they are so bad parents
12:45 did it just change voices for a sec
🎶Wheel of Morality, turn, turn, turn! Tell us the lesson that we should learn!🎶
And the moral is: *_USE. YOUR. F-ING. WORDS._*
Nice animaniacs reference with the wheel of morality
Free housing and food in prison
Lol
Why are some parents (it soes not matter the generation) so frickin greedy. This has nothing to do with substainibgba kife style, it was laziness
doormat
IKEA lore
Another fake story.
Op needs to do right and make Fin vp.
Feels nice being early
I could understand op and her little bro coz in real life I am facing the same except that I am the only child to my family...My so called father was my problem and still he is ...My mom and him had an arranged marriage so they don't know each other before marriage and because my mum and her side didn't know how cruel , hypocrite and gold diggers of the people my demon and his side was ...since she was married my mum faced a lot of abuse (both verbal and physical) and because of that she had a miscarriage but she couldn't even get a divorce because her circumstances and that stupid cultural beliefs 🙄🤬...six years later she had me and that Son of b*tch how and whom made his made mindset fix that I was not his bio kid ( hate to admit but I am his kid) and abused me like he does to my mum( he even verbally abuse my mum's parents and bro, but they couldn't afford to do anything at that time coz they themselves barely manages to make the ends met and my mum is house wife and this guy is earning pretty well but never shared a penny with us ), never attended any of my scl events and several times throwed us out of the house during midnight coz of some stupid that he made while he was drunk , I even remember the day he thrown us out on a winter night becoz my mum and I caught flu ( I am the one who got caught from scl and later it also passed on to my mum) we just went to doc and had meds that evening but threw us out coz he is afraid that he could caught it too ...we stayed outside Shivering in cold midnight with a single water bottle with no one lean on other than each other and my mum hugged me to keep me warm and just like that we endured everything just for the sake of my school life to be completed without any problems but now 2024 I completed my 12th grade and got my mom and myself moved out of that jail and freed ourselves I still had few months before clg but recently he is calling daily and asked about us and apologize to my mum Continuously ( I refused to talk and straight told him since I was a child I never seen him as my dad becoz of the way he treated us with parents and sisters ) to me he our past roomate in a same house ...But couldn't understand when he cried like a baby when me and my mum packed our things while moving out of his house and said he couldn't sleep for days and eat properly ( tho they have a maid) since we left and kept calling himself a "demon" and said he live only until his mum( evil's evil mum) dies and afte he would either go somewhere permanent pilgrimage or would die as well ... Looking back there wasn't any moment I didn't longed for a father's warmth and affection even though I don't I guess I said that out of anger but in school days whenever I see my friends prepare gifts for their dads for father's day , I would simply cry in the restroom ..IDK becoz I had that very faint hope and longing in my heart I never expect any bad things to him( will just scold and curses him for hearts content, not from my heart but from mouth) and felt painful when he said he would go pilgrimage or would die as well becoz in his side he lost every family and friends he had due to his behaviours even his sisters would treat him not more than a stranger I guess thats what made him understand or something a act he is putting on ...also my maternal grandma and my mum's side always believes harmony and after understanding he has no support from his side they want me and my mum to forgive him for both our mental well being as well as they think he suffered enough becoz now he had no friends or family that he could lean on even mother very very old seems like she could only live for a year or two at max...then he would be an literal orphan my mum's family doesn't want us to punish him further....I too though hate him never thought of abandoning him alone but give him some allowance and kept him at a distance from us ( I mean from wherever I go to work for) but everybody ,except my mum, and my some stupid inner conscience of me doesn't want to do that, some imagination of us three living peacefully and happily in my own home goes on and off even after the things he did to us all these years....I got caught up in this mess..Please everyone this is not a fake story but the traumatic life of mine ...Idk which side I should listen ? My conscience or my mind?? 😢..Please read only if you are not bored ...
Hmmm
Cheesecake
Tard op
You don't bring your brother back into the business irregardless of why he stole. He stole and that is it. He can still be your brother but not your employee.
Second plz pin or something
88th ezzz
i swear, the people in this comment section truly are cruel to people who have wronged them. they are willing to let their parents be homeless and starving in their old age. while i get it, im a bit worried for whoever wrongs them in the future 😅
If my family stole from my business, i'd press charges at most and disown them at least. They can get help elsewhere.