TIM Vol.1: Homegirl REFUSES To Leave Baby Shower To Be By Her Man's Side!
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Sis was definitely with her side dudeđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
RIGHT!! I'm convinced!
Period
Oh Almost definitely. She couldn't even walk away and at least call him to check up on him and then get back to helping the girl. Yeaaa she with her other dude
My thoughts exactly.đ€Ł
U might be right, lol
i dnt like it when women call men who are expressing there emotions females. emotions exist in all of us and this sets us back many years. The man should be able to express his feelings as well as he is also human living the human experience. she is emotionally unavailable to him and that sucks i would never judge my husband for expressing his feeling and something that hurt him especially something like the lost of a love one blood or not.
Agree
fully agree, thank you!
The moment she started talking about some gifts we wouldâve been over. I hope he take her reaction as a sign and a warning to not continueâŠDO NOT PASS GO!!!
Who tf actually wants to sit through the GIFTS AND CLEAN UP of a bby shower! Im here for the food and games. Tbh...
for real she could of left honestly and came back if it was all that
She cheating.
@@naviataylor that's a strong possibility.
Sheâs cheating on him!! Thatâs the only factor that makes what sheâs saying make sense! Sheâs not at a baby shower sheâs off cheating
Sounds like she on a date to me..
Ok bet! oSo it wasnt just me thinking this. LMAO!!!
Iâm on the dudes side not even because she didnât want to leave the event, more so with how she approached the topic of him potentially grieving the lost of his friend. Even if she didnât/couldnât leave the event how she responded to this situation was more of a red flag to me. Thereâs a way to still provide comfort while not being physically present. Seemed like she didnât even want to do that.
Saying he's acting like a female...
@@mannypedib exactly. Like women are the only people who want to be comforted when theyâre having a tough timeâŠđ
It looks like sis been tired of him she called him a female quick đ„Ž and he went from grieving to petty and dramatic real quick
Co-worker?! đđ Her side dude was at the baby shower đđ
CO-WORKER? FIVE HOURS PLUS TWO MORE?
THE PREGNANT COWORKER HAD BROUGHT A DATE FOR THIS GIRL
OH MY WORD
@JAMIETHATSME, everything u said it's what I was thinking. This relationship needs to b over ASAP
âShe has a lot of gifts they just started openingâ.... screaming! This fake
I really hope so because otherwise, they both down bad.
A coworker's baby shower? For HOURS? Nope, nah, it doesn't add up.
When you read that she told him to eat something and put a warm towel on his forehead. I said , this sounds like a woman tired of her man đ. maybe he pulls stunts a lot when she goes to hang out with friends. đ€·đœââïž
If that is the case she definitely should slide on, but maybe he provides her with a roof over her head and she uses him til she plots her next move. Whatever the case itâs time to go!đ
I think if it happened as read then I feel for the dude. đ€Šđœââïž
Lol, I get the same vibes!
Honestly throw this relationship away. Sheâs very selfish and he might seem a little manipulative but I also think heâs in a very emotional state and ppl say and do things based on how theyâre feeling. She doesnât need to be in a relationship if she doesnât want to care about her partner. he needs to find somebody that actually cares about her or has similar priorities as him.
She just takes him for granted because he's into her more than she's into him.
She'd get dismissed asap.
She's wrong and I'll tell you why. Women love to have an explanation for why they are not doing "this with you." When that man was pleading with his woman to be with him in one of his greatest hours of need, she essentially told him no. When it started going left she never said, "You always do this when I have plans," or "You're always emotional." Nothing like that, which leads me to believe that he's NOT overly emotional and he's not always calling her back to him when she has something to do. She would have said it. He seems like he's been a good guy to her. She just doesn't care for him.
Someone in the live said it was giving needy. The girl in the messages said he was acting like a female. Some women want a man to honor her feelings and emotions, but he better not display any of his own. That's crazy to want a man like that. A man that doesn't feel, cannot feel for you. He was losing his friend who was probably his brother! Not "like" a brother, but a true brother. She's not for him, and he can do better.
I would have went to him my friend will just have to understand plus that man will never forget that ..what goes around comes around đąđą
She prescribed a sinus infection remedy for grief đđ She is either: a) tired of him crying wolf in what may be a co dependent type behavior or b) just not very empathetic. Either way, doesn't sound like a healthy relationship dynamic.
Exactly
I don't care if I was there for 5 min my man call and tell me some terrible news like that I'm out I'm on my way babe
@@ajohnson2283 Iâm trippin then!!!
Exactly like wtf
For real
@@ajohnson2283 I dont think they are loved sis. Or they are single.
@@salome9124 Iâm single AF but would have been on the first thing smoking. Hell I would have been on my way for one of girlfriends
I can relate to the boyfriend. I lost someone recently in a tragic car accident and my spouse never quite comes through in the way i need when im grieving. We been married for years and experienced many losses together but i guess they only had 2 years and im at 13 with him so its not as easy to just through it all away. It takes communication and hard work
Thatâs why Iâm confused by a lot of the comments. If you love someone and theyâre grieving the loss of someone close to them I would think you would go be by their side. My son passed and his dad and I had an huge argument the day before our son passed and he was not there when he passed away. He wouldnât answer my phone calls and I ended up not being able to tell him until late that night. After we buried him, I was having a hard time handling his death and his father was not there when I needed him the most. I definitely understand what the boyfriend is going through.
A 5hour Baby Shower and u still ain't ready to go.After 1 hr I am past ready. He needs to exit.
All that pleading for her to come home would've turned into, I advise you not to come home. The Sheriff would have to escort her in cause nah key of hers would be working after I expeditiously made a trip to the Depot of Homes and changed all the locks.
She definitely could have went and she is at a coworkers baby shower. She has been there for 5 hours tha is more than enough time for her to have seen all she can see. She definitely selfish.
If my partner had expressed that he lost someone I would be and I was at a prior obligation I would most definitely call him instead of text him.
I no longer cancel or drop my plans for my man. It becomes too much when it is expected. Her boyfriend made it seem like an obligation. Once things seem like an obligation it takes away the genuineness of the actions
@@yaniquescott6096 that's perfectly fine for you to decide that for yourself but we can't call her selfish because how we might react. Especially since we don't know the full dynamic of their relationship.
Let me guess, it's your boyfriend not your husband.
@@yaniquescott6096 My Ex husband would do this to me all the time. It was like he thought I didn't have stuff to do. Im telling you from experienced, you may say that, but it gets annoying after a while. I am your wife not your mother. I don't think she is selfish, he may want her to do this often.
This mess should be a damn TV showđ lord Jesus
đ€Łđ€Łđđ Right! This is messy!
Naw, she wasnât at a Baby Shower at all. She wouldnât be that vested in a co-workerâs shower. It donât add up.
Sounds like he has a habit of leveraging drama to get his way
I was wondering, because itâs a possibility.
Omg, I commented something similar to this. While she is callous. He is manipulative
I came down here to say this.
Sis was with her side dude at a hotel. 7 hours at a baby shower? I'm convinced she lying. I don't think this is something he always does because the way she started talking to him she would have brought that up. She said he was acting brand new.
5 hours is way to long to be at a baby shower. Something is up and she's probably seeing another guy on the side.
She feels as though she has him wrapped around her fingers and she doesn't need to show him any comfort. He may be an emotional man but she was wrong on all levels. When things cool off, he will forgive her and take her back but this is a warning sign because one day he's going to snap on her and it's not going to be pretty
If the baby shower was soo important she couldâve just came back after she spent some time with her Bf and consoled him.
Thatâs what I be saying Jamiee - when families decide to do that!! God can turn around the situation
She wasnât at a baby shower. She was with another man or woman.
I dated a guy that was always in crisis and expected me to always drop what I was doing to âhelpâ him. But had no regard for my life. Eventually I had to drop him. Susanna just seemed like she didnât want to be bothered. đ
lol đ like damn! They both a mess
This was a good one you had me cracking up but, she selfish. He better off without her
Why didn't he go by the friend family home or his mom house? He was doing too much
Both of them sound crazy đ. Feel for him though .
Yeah sis is selfish.
Need to find himself another woman! When you were in need she was not there!
The fact that she left over her clothes says she been over him. She donât want him.
Period, Erica!!
I'm sorry it doesn't sound like she is at a baby shower
To me it sounds like old girl is cheating and her location may be different than what she told him so therefore she has to give her stuff more time to get back to him something just ain't said right if a man is mature enough to express his feelings to you and let you know that he's an emotional pain and you can't say I will be there as soon as possible in the next 30 minutes or however long to drive is it sounds fishy old girl was not where she said she was and now she got to give herself time to get back to him
This can't be real đł đ€
Put a warm towel over his head ?? Tf lol
Then taking someone off life support so soon đ€
Well, if the doctors stated that he was brain dead, then his being on life support is useless as well as an unnecessary financial drain on the family.
I am on the mans side for sure. If she clowning now she would clown even worse later. Be done with her and get yourself someone that will truly love you
I love this hairstyleeeeeeee
But sis is outa town on a quick rendezvous and she expected him to work all 8 hours he messed up her plansđđđđđđ
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Obligations? I hope they broke up
I call bs on the boyfriend, because right from the start he seemed manipulative. He knew where she was. From the way she's responding, I think he must do this a lot.
Yep and he's a boyfriend
Heâs a boyfriend wanting husband benefits. This is not the first time he has done this Iâm sure it happens often which is why she didnât bother to run to his side.
Wow something do not sound right that baby shower would have had to take a back seat, i wonder how much she really love him couldn't be my man
Ok Jami I see you droppin new segments and stuff!! I meeeean to me its sounds like she was on a lil sneaky link or on a day date. There is no way my man is at home hurting and I'm worried about baby shower duties. I hate doing tit for tat between couples but he did FLY back home when she needed him...ijs đ€·đŸ
Here's my issue she said she'd be there in 2 hours not that she wasn't coming. He behaved as if she said she wasn't coming at all.
Thanks Mikey!! I hope you enjoyed the new segment!
@@naturallynailah6983 oooo that is true. Very good point!
@@mikeyundefeated574 If it was the other way around and he was at a friends party and he didn't rush to her side would we have been as forgiving to him?
@@maradonaz To be real with you if it was the other way around I would feel the same exact same way. Because foul is foul no matter who does it or not. Plus if it was the other way around I would be even more upset that a man didn't do his job as a protector to comfort and protect her in her time of need
He sounds narcissistic, itâs a close friends baby shower, he still couldâve waited until the baby shower is over. He sounds dramatic asf. Watch out for these type of men.
Yep! I would have went if it was me and it was possible to leave. But this seems either fake or dude pull these stunts ever time she goes out without him
She wasn't at s many shower. She was on a date with another dude.
Baby shower âwink wink đâ
So she wanted to leave because of her clothes---side dude vibes( calling dude a female because he expresses himself, which is actually a great quality in a man, makes me think she has a "thug" with her)
He said don't worry I'll call someone else----side chick vibes.( He probably was looking for a way out and used this situation to leave. I think he knew how she would react)
I always had a side dude. She creep n
@@Twinklestar932 really? How could you manage both?
First of all, Why is this a text conversation? Second, Why is this a text conversation? But since it is, red flags all over the place. Why would she RATHER stay at her COWORKERS baby shower than be by her boyfrend of 2 yrs side? What else is going? I need more info.
Something is Wrong with her.
I couldâve sworn this circled around already like months ago. I saw it on Facebook a long time ago. Am i tripping lol
Did yall peep that he initially asked her if she remembered Kevin? They were together for 2 years. If the friend was really that important to him, why would he ask if she remembered him? Seems like she would know him very well.
And even if it's a co-worker's baby shower, if she was part of the planning process, she feels responsible for seeing it through. He should've been okay with waiting for 2 hours. He was acting like a brat.
I empathize and sympathize with him but you cannot expect your girl to stop her plans. He wants her to drop everything to be at his side and when he didn't get his way, he went straight to manipulation.
I understand he is hurting but I think he can't expect her to walk away from her commitments. She said she'd be there in 2 hours. Yes, he chose to walk away from basketball tournament to be there for her losing her grandmother and he wasn't able to get there right away either he definitely said he took a flight so at minimum she had to wait for at 3 hours for him to get home.
Good point.
It's giving me he wants her to drop what shes doing all the time and she's sick of it. #SorryNotSorry Now if the time line is correct 5 + 2 hours??? That's a lot. I see that problem. But when she said eat something and put a rag on your head I hollered. Homegirl sounds like she needed a break and took the baby shower to escape to.
Girl I thought it was a family member I'll be out for my man but if my husband say he ret to go we up out
my gf called off work when my best friend of 20 years died! iâm 26. ion care if she wasnât blood. she had better been there for me!
Regardless of whether he was being extreme, or he has asked her many times to leave something for him, lying or whatever, the point is she should have been there for him and on her arrival if there are any discrepancies in his story or behavior then she could check him. If this is someone she loves she should have dropped everything and go to him, its not like she was being there for her coworker who herself was going through something serious, it was a damn baby shower, A BABY SHOWER! Imagine if he was not there for her when her grandmother died. Her reaction would have probably been worse than his. So yeah I'm on his side, like you said he should neatly pack up her stuff in GARBAGE bags and leave it on the step.
Not disagreeing entirely with what you say. But sometimes until we are in a person shoe, we wolill never know why they reacted the way they did. We on the outside can judge bc we don't know the full dynamics of their relationship. For a woman to respond that way she sound like she lacks emotions towards him and he is manipulative. To me it appears he does things like this many times before when she is out without him. The way he push her grandma's death in her face so quickly, lets me know he isn't the good guy he is trying to project that he is. They probably are in a very toxic relationship and she sounds like she is over him
Those texts sound fake.
Yep
This man exposing how vulnerable he is feels now...
Narrative is soooo telling.
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I'm just going to say this I don't know any woman ..who has a Good MAN, I mean a Good Man Savannah , who don't run when they Good Man Savannah Call on them ...the text message back now forth let's me know already..He is not what she wants or needs
He was being manipulative. "I did this for you so you must do this for me" .. i hate that because don't do s h i for me if you're gonna be taking tally's.
You sitting at home shitting and crying is not an emergency, you're an adult you need to know how to self soothe .
Putting my things on the lawn is an emergency to me because those are MY things. You arent my kid i dont need to run everytime you call
A word!
He's extra your my man not my husband. I'm enjoy the celebration of a birth
Sounds like she helped throw the shower
Wow, most dudes donât communicate like this.
GirlâŠ.RUN!
You dodged a bullet.
Has anyone thought maybe the girlfriend was paid to do the baby shower? How dare you compare losing your friend to losing someoneâs grandmother? If you do something for someone you should do it from the kindness of your heart not bc you want to use it as leverage or to say âsee what I did for youâ at a later time and date. He definitely is not marriage material. There will be many trials and tribulations in a relationship or marriage and heâs ready to throw away everything just like that? I donât agree how dismissive she was but she didnât deserve the threats. When the smoke clears heâs going to regret threatening her n breaking it off. If she wasnât a good girlfriend, why would he so desperately want her by his side in time of dispair? Classic case of cut off your nose to spite your faceâŠ..
If these texts *are* real, bro needs to stop using his woman as his emotional mule. ISWIS
She was on a date definitely but devils advocate what she gone do??? I mean if my friend dies my expectation wouldnât be for him to stop n come just get here soon as you can! Some people need more than others and she probably couldnât relate to that! I wouldâve said sorry to hear that Iâll be home in 2 hours. Love you Iâm sorry Iâll be there! If it was our family thatâs different but my friends i donât need him to stop everything and come đ€·đœââïž
She wrong eos.
I have questions. Is this made up? Was she really at a baby shower? If this is real she is callous bad. However, am I the only one who peep that the dude is manipulative as well? He probably made up stuff like this all the times to get her to leave when she goes out without him. He flash he dead grandma in her face too quickly. He could have said, I need you right now and you can't be there for me without bringing up her dead grandmother.
Iâm sorry but sometimes people canât stop and drop everything. Itâs not like she wasnât coming. She was busy. Trust and believe he wouldâve done the same
She wasnât doing nothing important lol though
@@ajohnson2283 well duh if she didn't it would've been stolen And what would she have then?
He going to have to pay the "stupid tax" if he does throw that stuff outside.
The messages seems like heâs baiting and testing her. I donât believe itâs real. He gave a scenario to see what she would do. This is probably not the first time and she may be tired of games. If not a bait, why post it. Itâs like heâs saying, see how she treats me.
Each time he spoke his story got worse. Something is not right!