How to Ruin the Rest of Their Life (for each of the 16 Personalities)
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- How to quickly ruin your life, based on which of the 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities you have.
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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Best wishes for 2023! 🎉
That infj one was my new year's resolution actually!
Frank James. You have gone from being a struggling young man grasping for meaning and direction to a SERIOUS inspiration and light for others! I have shown more than a few of your videos to my struggling teenage boy. This one is definitely on the list! So proud of you! Really! Thank you so much! I love you!
Extremely well done and remarkably perspicacious. I knew which one was for me, an INFP, before the letters popped up on the screen. Perhaps even more interesting, I was able to tell, pretty much unerringly, which ones out of the rest were "almost" me, or much like me if not quite pointedly, and whaddya know, in each case when the letters popped up on the screen they contained two to three of "my" letters as well. And the ones that I couldn't relate to at all were, sure enough, utterly different from my set of letters. Fascinating.
Thank you! INFP here, and lucky for me I'm a perfectionist. So, from now on I'm gonna track my progress daily! Yes! Oh now I just feel happy typing this and thinking about it! It's a wonderful life!
Am I the only one who tought he was gonna keep saying "advice" for the rest of the video ?
I was honestly scared
Me too bro
say less
he had me going "whu-" and "wait ha!?" in each of them, i only realized we were being clowned on #10, but he sounded like himself in one of his videos from 2 or 3 years ago so i still thought he was serious
It's like a "match the correct piece of advice to the corresponding personality" game.
Done! Hope this helps! Let me know if I made any mistakes! My electronic is starting to lag lol.
1:44 ESTJ: When Failure Seems Inevitable, Quit.
1:50 ENFP: Wait For A Signal From God, The Universe, or Your Gut Before You Begin
2:02 ESFJ: Make Yourself Responsible For Other People’s Happiness
2:08 INFP: Imagine Who You Want To Be or What You Want To Accomplish, but Never Write A Way To Measure Success, and Never Track Your Progress
2:30 ISFP: Assume Talent Is All That Matters
2:40 ENFJ: Become Consumed With Bitterness That Life Isn’t Fair
2:51 ESTP: Work A Little On A Lot Of Things, and Avoid Putting Your Attention On Any One Thing For Too Long
3:04 INTJ: Assume You Know Everything You Need To Know, and Insulate Yourself From New Experiences
3:18 ISTP: Navigate Through Life As Though You’re The Main Character
3:30 INTP: When Bullies Are On The Playground, Hide In The Bathroom (I noticed FJ’s words here are super wholesome and encouraging)
3:43 ENTP: When Someone Disagrees With You, Assume It’s Because They’re Uninformed, Stupid, Or Malicious
4:01 ISFJ: Constantly Tell Yourself A Story About How Your Life Is Crap
4:17 ENTJ: Resent People Who Have Made It To Where You Want To Be
4:26 ESFP: If Everyone Around You Is Toxic, Never Ask If You Are The Problem
4:51 ISTJ: Create A Realistic Expectation Of What You Are Capable Of Doing, and Aim No Higher
4:56 INFJ: Make Your Decisions Based On How You Anticipate Others Will React Emotionally (As an INFJ, thanks for saying this. 😅)
haha im ahead of u in vid 😏
@@satanicsquires8544 Oop 😂
@@ASweetShortCake 😆i always appreciate people who make these timestamps though
@@satanicsquires8544 As an INFJ, I love helping others, so I appreciate it 😊 Thank you
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As an INFJ I must admit that what you said hits harder, when you're doing that most of the time.
I'm an INFJ and I'd say I disagree. I mean life is factually unfair its not a subjective matter or based on one's feelings. It's just facts.
Important note (in my opinion): All those pieces of advice should apply to everyone, but the connections are just emphasis, as those types need them more.
Yes! I agree.
true story
Yes, I thought that was going to be the punchline: this is not a 16 personalities video, these apply to everybody .
true! it might be specified to each personalities but it also can be advices and reminders for other personalities
As an INFP, I felt that way for some time. Once I gained perspective, I realized that even the smallest victories are worth celebrating.
My advice to anyone else who feels stuck is: Take a moment to reflect on who you were and where you were just a year from now. If you can say that you are at least a little better off now, then that's a good thing.
I agree with you. We can’t always measure ourselves by huge successes. Sometimes it’s the little things that add up. Plus, I think we’re too hard on ourselves. Speaking for myself anyway.
This connected with me because I've always had a hard time with internal motivation, but I've been journaling and working with a health coach, and now I can more easily see the small victories.
@@allieoneal2033 Journaling has been helping me immensely! At least now that I've figured out a system that actually works for me. Good luck with life✨️
The new dad energy in this video is palpable! 😂 I’ve got a 1 year old. Love how snappy and casually deep this is, FJ. More like this please!
wow as an INTJ the fact that you said something so real which is actually making my life harder and with a Socrates quote no less... you truly do get us
As an INTJ that is making a point of doing the opposite - meaning to go and get new experiences and learn constantly - this is a goldmine. Go and do it, chase it and your dreams and better future self will come faster than ever. Can't recommend enough
As an INTJ I recently started thinking/doing ALL of these things gs, except the intj's one, in these difficult times. Especially the INFJ's one, and with no Fe to be found that can only lead to certain disaster.
I’m also a INTJ
this is not real
frank becomes a dad and starts spitting good life advice, i love it
I would say, better. He gave a whole bunch of good advice before 😄
Wow, thank you for the video. I'm INTJ and always trying not to try new things because I think I don't need it. You're right, it's sometimes I have to do. Happy New Year.
Yeah damn the INTJ one felt so accurate 😂❤️
Wrote already in another comment but want to tell you as well :)
As an INTJ that is making a point of doing the opposite - meaning to go and get new experiences and learn constantly - this is a goldmine. Go and do it, chase it and your dreams and better future self will come faster than ever. Can't recommend enough
I'm an INTP who fortunately hasn't had much experience of being bullied or being afraid of others, but a lot of the advice for the other types did resonate with me, so I'm glad to have watched anyway. Happy New Year! 🥳
Sometimes I have gotten bored waiting for inspiration and have had to start something just because I had to start. Inspiration can be initiated is one of the things I learned this year.-ENFP
Reporter: How did you find inspiration to get the cure for cancer?
ENFP: I saw a squirrel.
@@jiruhae_art 😁😁😁
When I hit a boredom patch with a story idea I'm working on, I'll try to spice things up by doing a "What if...?" scenario with any of the characters from previous projects. About 45% of the time the result opens up a new path in a preexisting story I hadn't seen before and another 30% is interesting enough to create a whole new series around it. The remaining 25% never goes anywhere but it killed an hour or two so it at least did the job it was created for.
I need inspiration to want inspiration lol
@@D9xAbstract wow, that is low! I guess you chose the correct screen name. 😊
Each of these can apply to other types than the one you most identify with. Good bits of advice for anyone and everyone.
glad you think so! (that's why i tried to bring in the text showing each type as late as possible ha ha) 🧡
Definitely!
“Stop diminishing yourself for the sake of others” really hit me deep, trying to learn how to be unapologetically glamorous this year and take more proud of myself. Thank you🤍. Happy new year🎉.
From the thumbnail, I was a little afraid to watch this, but I'm glad I did. You didn't do anything but speak the truth. Those (collectively) may have been truths for all personality types, not just individual ones. Thanks for that, Frank. And Happy New Year! 😊💜
i think you're right about these being truths for all the personalities. and happy new year to you too!
Haha, me too. I was afraid something bad happened to FJ to make a depressing informational 16 personalities video. 😅
My initial reaction to the advice for me (INFJ) was like, "Okay, but HOW???" *shakes you by the shoulders* "BY WHAT MECHANISM AM I SUPPOSED TO PREVENT MYSELF FROM SPECULATING ON PEOPLE'S EMOTIONS?!"
Then like 2 seconds later I realized that's probably a good opening to use the "best, worst, most likely" strategy. It's mainly used to stop freaking out about future outcomes, but it could also be useful for reaching a state of calm uncertainty about the contents of people's brains.
What's the best case? They're thinking about how amazing I am.
What's the worst case? They're thinking about how much they secretly hate me.
What's most likely? They're thinking about something completely unrelated to me.
Worse! How am I supposed to stop reading people's thoughts and feelings? It's literally my survival mechanism.
ENFP was perfect and exactly what I’ve come to terms with this year (or I guess last year, happy 2023!) Cant sit around waiting for the perfect pathway to pop into my head. Turns in the road will come and you’ll have to make decisions to go different directions along the way that will eventually bring you to where you need to be but you have to be on a road for that to happen. Avoiding your potential because there’s too many possibilities is a great way to be depressed forever and deeply disappointed in yourself, basically decomposing in stagnancy.
I’m an I NFP, but I suffer from the same issue. I have so many interests and I hate to give any of them up, so I don’t do anything. I’m so tired of it. For heaven’s sake, I need to just pick one! You put it so well. I get it. 💕😫
@@whitebirchtarot biggest relief to finally choose a path though! I changed my school and major like 4 times in the past 3 months but I set a deadline which is literally tomorrow and Im content with my decision which was my original choice that I made in September. Most likely if you've always seen yourself doing something the best path is that one, all of those alternate routes you create are usually fleeting interests.
@@raeechil yes, that makes sense. I’ve been working with my writing lately, which is something I’ve done since I was a child and was too scared to pursue in college because I was afraid I would fail, I guess. Kind of embarrassing to realize that it was what I wanted all along, lo these many decades later! Better late than never though. Sometimes just making a choice feels good because the indecision can be so stressful. I hate it when I get like that! Good for you! Sounds like you know what you want. 🦋🌸
@@whitebirchtarot thanks! It's a path that allows for a lot of flexibility, probably the main reason I'm content with it 😆🤦♀️ and writing is a vulnerable path no matter how you approach it but definitely a fulfilling one, good luck!
@@raeechil thanks! Yes, a good writer has to make themselves vulnerable. Yikes! Oh well, if I get negative feedback I can always wear a disguise. 😁
The perspective thing is so true, I thought everyone around me were jerks who disliked me and kept expecting all these things from me, but it turns out that they actually didn't even think about the things that I worried that they would be upset over, and I was just making myself upset for no reason
Dang FJ. Yeah. I probably needed that. I’ve actually been discovering that lately. I keep waiting for inspiration to hit, and when it doesn’t come, I get depressed. I find that when I just DO things, I feel INCREDIBLE. -ENFP
Wow, your INFJ direction was spot-on! I'm an INFJ and I can see why focusing my life on just pleasing others is a terrible idea. Thank you for pointing that out!
I wanted to sob. I needed this one. Thankyou for being you, FJ! :)
I like the format for this video. Not only is it truthful and helpful, the format emphasizes it more, imo. Happy New Year to you and your family. From my family to yours: we wish you all the best this coming year.
I honestly feel like all of these points (or I guess counter points for the bad advice?) is good advice for almost everyone. Not just the personality type it corresponds to.
As an INFJ, not making decisions based on how I think other people will react is something I definitely need to work on. There have definitely been situations where I decide to do or not do something because I fear that I will make someone angry or they will find me rude for doing what I actually want to do. Or sometimes it is because I feel peer pressured to do something or fearing that I will miss out if I don't do that thing.
A good example I can think of at the top of my head, back at my now ex ballet studio, it was a very big thing for the students in the top four levels (levels 5-8) to participate in this international dance competition. A lot of people at my studio participated in this competition either as a soloist, in an ensemble, or both. And to be honest, I've never really liked the idea of a dance competition. Because to me the reason why dance stands out as an athletic activity that isn't a sport is because you can't measure a dancer by how many turns they can do, or how high they can jump, or how flexible they are. To me, dance has always been about performing. About playing a character. About artistry. And dance competitions kind of undermine that. But I still did it anyways. Because all of my friends were doing it. Because *most* people my age there did it. Even during the year covid was still a big issue! Because I wanted to feel like I belonged there. And admittedly, it wasn't a bad experience per-say. But the stress and anxiety our teachers put on us to win didn't really feel worth it once we got to the end of it. At least it didn't to me. I don't even think I realized that was why I wanted to do the competition so badly back then. It took me leaving the studio entirely and a month of introspection to realize that I didn't really do it because I wanted to compete. I did it because I was afraid of what my teachers and classmates would think if I didn't.
INFJ here as well. You and me my friend. I especially appreciate as well the part where you mention not even really realising the reason for why you entered the competition. I believe my general experience is also pretty similar. I know I can't speak for all INFJs, but I do feel some of us (esp those with the "stronger Fe"?) do just automatically and instinctually behave in a way that we know to be "socially acceptable" without even giving much thought to it. It's almost like breathing air sometimes, hard to even notice. The only time you eventually notice is after a string of untruthful life decisions, where you find yourself miserable by the end. I feel like it's even harder with family and loved ones. Theirs tends to be the opinion that matters most, the approval you most yearn for. I used to be a most agreeable child, for what 18 years of my life. Learning to openly disagree with people has been a gruelling process for me and is honestly still a work in progress, 8 years into the effort as I am now. But it's definitely something important for young INFJs to realise, lest they lose as much of themselves as I did. You find that you can't even really make decisions as yourself anymore, swayed by the hive mind as you are. Or, you can, but you find it hard to put those decisions out there into the world, because you learn that every unpopular decision has "consequences". I can only presume ESFJs and ENFJs have it even worse, since Fe is their dom function and I would think have higher sway. Anddd.. I'm not sure why I even wrote this but as I'm training myself not to silence my voice and delete comments after drafting them, here goes! 😂 Wishing everyone leaps of improvement in their personal growth! (I do presume thats what a number of us are here for :>)
As INTJs we get used very quickly to being right, since we use information much more efficiently than others. But life is long, and we often need to make more and more complex predictions, so eventually you’ll need more information that can’t be obtained by staying put. It’s so important to remain being our ‘very often right’ performance.
Intp and infjs feels the same way. Maybe an ni thing… 🤷🏽♀️
You meant Intuition re: being right?
INTP/INFP: I've been diminishing myself for the acceptance of other people since I remember. And I struggle deeply setting and following a precise goal. Thank you.
You can’t be an infp and a intp. And infp don’t care about impressing others we are authentic so this doesn’t sound like me an infp so doubt you are infp
@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 maybe I’m an INTP with a very high F then. Many tests say I am INFP… others INTP. Anyways…I never said “impress”. ;) I hate bragging and trying to impress others, I value honesty and transparency, being humbly authentic. Still, I feel I can easily offend or make people feel threatened if I am really authentic (people get defensive when their life choices or mentality or social position gets slightly threatened), so I only show a part of myself, I try to be diplomatic and sensitive (but always honest), so I don’t cause too many waves and then get suffocated by their reactive drama. If they want a real conversation, and want my real opinion, and are respectful emotionally mature people, then we can have a deep, transparent talk, and we can grow.
This is so good. I’m INFJ but a fair few pieces of advice on this list resonate with me almost as much as the advice given specifically to INFJs. Thank you.
Happy New Year 🎉
INFP here and it is so difficult for me to set goals. Something I’m going to work on in 2023. This was very helpful. Thank you! I have to make one comment about the toxic people situation. I think that’s definitely true when you’re an adult, but of course not so much when you were a child. If you were surrounded by toxic people growing up, I think it becomes a pattern in your life and you don’t realize it until you realize it. Or until someone like you comes along and points it out. Thank you again. 💕
One thing that is helping with goal setting is realizing that there isn't one best way to set goals. Lots of people will claim that they know the BEST way of setting goals, but it takes a special system to work for an INFP, and not even that system will work for different kids of goals all the time.
@@allieoneal2033 That’s a very wise statement. I think we INFPs operate by a different set of rules. I know everyone is different in their own way, but you’re onto something. The typical goalsetting behaviors probably don’t work for us because we’re inherently geared toward interpreting others’ feelings and incorporating them into our actions rather than simply thinking of ourselves and what we want. I also think that our rich, interior lives sometimes get in the way of our outer manifestations. That’s not an excuse, but it is a reason. I have so many dreams and my imagination is so vivid that it’s difficult for me to choose one particular path because I feel I’m excluding so many things. I don’t think anyone can really understand what that feels like unless they stand in our shoes. I’m in a metaphysical discussion group and we met this afternoon and I made a comment and I felt like no one understood what I meant. So often the way I feel is invalidated by others and I realize that they can’t possibly know how I feel, and yet they act as if the way they think and feel applies to everyone. Your comment really fits in with how I was thinking and feeling after yet again having my experience misunderstood by others. I appreciate your comment. It’s nice to know that there’s someone out there who is open to different ways of doing things and who doesn’t expect us all to be exactly the same. 😊
"Life isn't fair. But also life isn't unfair. fairness or unfairness is our judgment on it', Damn that hit hard
Hi
Enfj also here
This video gave me a lot to think about, happy new year Frank 😎💜
happy new year to you too!
INFP and this year I wrote down the things and set reminders to do the things, and track progress. Even made a list of all the books I bought and haven't read yet with "appointments" to read them. 🙃
happy new year Frankkkkk! sending love and positivity to you and your family 🧡🧡🧡
thank you! 🧡🧡🧡
@@FrankJames yo FJ just asking. Like, i wrote a comment in this video and sb replied...but even though they had ur picture and name...it isn't you right?
@@ultimateboss2005 SAME
@@jiruhae_art its sus man
Why thank you FJ😌
I actually think sometimes when people keep encountering toxic people, it sometimes can be because they’re vulnerable and can’t stand up for themselves, or were abused growing up so they gravitate towards abusive partners/abusive friends.
Often the latter is why intuiting matters
everything he said is so on-point! so accurate
As an INTP, I found your words really touching. Thank you. I really needed to hear that.
ENFP... this hits hard.
Really gets to the core of each type. Much wisdom in a short video.
Thank you! I am an ENFP and you really helped me there, in fact, you kind of enlightened my soul. I hope it did the same for others:)
Oh, Happy New year, I stayed up watching your videos, "stay cool and attractive" this year!
#2 and #16 are my default rationale, and the advice for each are helpful.
Thanks, FJ. You rock! 👍🏻
Wow. I am french and I am an ENTJ. This is probably one of the BEST advice I have ever received. I actually printed it and put it on my work desk. Now, I have everything I need to create the life I want. And I will. Thank you VERY much for it. I'll never forget it
Keep doing what you do, because you're one of the best at doing this.
this video was different and yet felt very FJ like :)
INTP here, gotta say that all of the advices here (well beside the 16 bad advices at the beginning) are really solid advices that does not need to be associated with any specific type, in fact I think that I should consider writing my goals and how I want to achieve them and a way to measure my progress (which is the INFP's advice) thanks FJ(:
Watching this kinda hurt because I low-key do most of this regardless of personality type, but loved the advice part it was the most comforting thing I heard all day. Thankyou
the INFJ and INTP advice were really accurate for me as an ISTP, but I guess the ISTP advice was alright too.
Damn i hate how i relate to half of these. Thanks fj, we all are inspired and motivated by this 💙💙
This was a great video that all the personalities can learn from (not just the one piece of advice directed to them, but for all of them)- kind of like a code of life! I really loved how straightforward and thoughtful it was, hope to see more of this great content soon! ❤❤
INTJ here. Several years ago I made a goal to try 12 new things within the next year. Could be anything, just had to be a new experience. I've made it a habit to renew that goal each year and now I look for opportunities to get out of my comfort zone. Changed my life.
Brilliant! I’ve done this exercise in my life and it has helped so very much. Great way to start off the new year! It’s been a joy to watch you grow, get married, and now have a baby! I used to pray for you waaayyy back at the beginning of your CZcams journey and I’m so happy God has blessed you!
As an INFP, this is good advice. I have dreams of doing many a things in life, but I'll never get there if all I do is dream. The big things I want to do are publish my fantasy novel series I'm working on, become a social worker, and also travel. There are several other things I want to do too, but those are the main 3 things. Write, help people, and see the world. If I start working on a time frame and schedule of how to accomplish each of those things, it would really help me out. Great video Frank!
thank you for going a non-predictable route for all of these, especially INFPs. i've always felt bad for myself for not being as far into my goals as i would have hoped, but i usually have vage ideas of what those goals are, so you're absolutely right that we gotta think concretely abt that
even MBTI aside, its a pretty good video
wow thanks!
I like the tired new dad look.
Enjoy every exhausting moment.
So I’m an INFP and here’s the thing. Tell me if any other INFPs relate! So like, if someone asks me for my goals, resolutions, basically just what I wanna accomplish, I have no answer. It’s like I don’t know what the heck I want at all. But unconsciously, I do have goals and I’ll get upset if I don’t do the right thing that leads up to that. I just can’t picture the end goal or what exactly I am trying to accomplish, I just know when I’m not doing it right. Does that make sense? 😅😅
So I'm not an INFP but I am sometimes a bit like this
INFJ here and yes same !
INFJ here too! @badgermc6974, check out Wenzes channel if you got some time. Something she's said I can really relate to is that our types like to keep plans and goals in our heads but struggle to assign actionable steps to attain them. ಥ‿ಥ
@@jeffreyapplesauce If there’s any certain video, send me a link! I looked at the channel a bit, I see it’s more INFJ than INFP but I do relate to a decent amount even though I am not INFJ. So send me a link if u see a specific vid, if not, it’s all good :)
Omg that's true . I play guitar , work as programmer , have painting as hobby . But I don't do anything specifically. I cannot say I only do that. The goals are there and I do work on them but their translation into real world is broken. In a sense that I feel I am going nowhere even though I am doing the hardworking.
Thank you FJ for these advices. They do not only apply to 1 personality. I liked some advices which I took note of, even though it wasn't my personality!
This is perfect for the New Year. Look at your life and try to make it better.
Self-reflection with a bit of that classic FJ humor, love it!
Although I connected to all of the advices, the moment I saw the 16th advice at the beginning of the video, I knew it was connected to the INFJ. I do this all the time and sometimes it feels like my mind just can't stop. It's exhausting! I'm working on my self development through therapy and trying to connect more with myself now but still is a tough process. I really hope we can overcome these issues and level up! This video touchs me deeply, thanks for your great content Frank James! You make us laugh and reflect too. Greetings from Brazil and congrats for your newborn (not so newborn now) baby ❤
16 - Guilty of it! Haha
As usually, James gets us INFJs on an exceptional level. Actually that's a great piece of advice. Yesterday I went on a date and instead of usual gathering of information about the person I decided to go completely unprepared. It turned to be more exciting and less awkward than I expected!
Maybe it's a change of approaches, maybe I've just matured in this regard, but anyway I glad I've graduated the phase of finding out my type and thinking that now I got some cheat codes to hack our everyday social - and to some degree physical - reality.
Hiding in the bathroom or trying to escape is futile, the bullies will merely see you as weak and target you more. You need to make them think you are boring or not to be messed around with. One way is to talk all philosophical or just straight up attack them if they try to hit you, if they verbally bully you swear at them. I know this may be hard I had to switch countries to toughen up. If they talk to you(anyone) tell them about your thoughts they’ll eventually get bored(experience Btw if this has worse effects I am not to blame, you listened to an idiot’s advice.
Spot on advice for INFJ, but that's to be expected from you. My husband and I have been getting into frequent fights recently that often end in him telling me to stop assuming his feelings and to just talk about it. I don't even dare bring up the fact that I couldn't help assuming he's fibbing just to be accommodating. 😅
From an INTJ: And on another note, I have started a new trend for myself that I call "No Hater Gaming" where I go back to games I had negative feelings or negative opinions of and evaluate what I was actually feeling or bring in new perspectives or analyze if I just had a bad attitude about it and wasn't seeing any value. I have extended this to how I treat all media where I take more responsibility to how much something just might not connect with me, but it's not bad. Too many people say "something is bad" when they should be saying "it didn't work out for me".
Waiting for this one guy that tell me where my Mbti is💕
Thank you, really. As a Se dominant I tend to start things and never finish because I think I won't have enough time to "try" new stuff. I really need to work on this.
As an INFP I relate to the advice for ESTJ, ENFP, INFP, ISFP, ESTP, ISTJ, and INFJ
Wow, so relatable! (INFP)
Fortunately I got that over-dreaming danger and I get so serious on doing some important stuff like an ESTJ,
But I'm still an INFP and I can't stop daydreaming a lot about what I want; So understand you have some high preferences and that's fine. Just don't ignore your other side! (Don't forget accomplishing things like an ESTJ, if you are an INFP)
I do #2, #6, #12, #13, and #14 (ish)
So what I get out of this is:
- There is never a 'perfect' time for anything, so eventually you must just start
- We percieve whether life is fair or unfair, but really it just 'is'
- You decide what you get from events that happened in your life
- Learn from people who have what you want
- It's probably you that's the problem, not them (tbh though, this doesn't fully apply to me, but everyone has room for improvement. I only have a few people in my life with toxic behavior.)
I agree with these statements, but some more than others. For problem #12, you have reasons to be upset or frustrated, but also reasons to be happy to be alive. Considering both rather than negative card-stacking is more helpful. Those are my thoughts, but thanks for the unsolicited advice!
- I took the test and am ESTJ, but fit with other types as well so yeah
Frank's place - evidence of spouse! - is that decor (gold and pink pillows) that reflect a certain person's tastes and a body pillow? (pregnancy friendly and sometimes just generally sleep friendly). Yup. Mrs. James exists - not just Buggy! 😜
😆 Was there ever a reason not to believe him?
@@turquoisetranquility no no - I was just saying I don't think those pillows were picked out by Frank! So that also doubles as evidence of spouse. But no, not that there were any questions that she existed! (Just like to see when I can detect evidence, such as today). 😜
@@tinaperez7393 I know what you mean, I was just kidding , I really like your comment 😁
@@turquoisetranquility 😋
Happy New Year's!
I think that is all good advice, but I realized the one for INFJ (I'm INFJ) is something I do all the time! Lol.
I'm an infp yet all these advices resonate with me. Thanks Mr.Frank
Omg, ISTJ here. I’ve lost count of the amount of times people keep asking me why I have self limiting beliefs! In my mind, I’m just being realistic as I know what I’m capable of and what I’m not, but perhaps more than I think sometimes!
I KNEW IT!!!!😅🙃😅😅🙃
Thank you, Mr.James!!!!!
I knew I could always rely on you!!!!😅😗🥰😗🥲😗🥲😗
i'm an ENTP but the ESTP one really hit too close to home
Happy birthday to this channel! :) And happy New Year everyone! :)
yay, thanks!!
Oh, INFJ, thou art a rare and gentle soul
With a heart that doth reach out to all
But alas, thou art never left alone
By those who are needy, and do thee enthral
For they doth seek thy understanding
And thy compassionate ear
They doth drain thy energy, most demanding
Leaving thou feeling drained, and with much fear
And though thou doth try to set thy boundaries
They doth ignore them, most unkind
Leaving thou to feel overwhelmed, most contrary
And in need of solitude, of a different kind
But do not despair, dear INFJ
For thou art strong, and thou art true
And thou shalt find a way to be
Alone, and recharge, and renew
For thou art a gift to the world, most dear
And thou deserveth time to be clear
So let us all respect the INFJ's need
For solitude, and time to recede.
I had to watch this twice to read the bad advice and then listen to Frank give the good advice lol.
As a 40 year old ESFJ, I'm definitely taking the time and meditation to reflect introspectively on my needs. Great video! 👏👏👏
Dude can't wait for the awesome videos Frank James has for the INFJs 🥳 this year
This just looks like my everyday to-do list!
If I had one
(INFP)
To clarify, this is a joke, though I do some of these I am still working to get myself a happy life and I'm generally positive, I don't let negative stuff dictate my life (too much)
No, but really, I am happy in my life even when I'm sad or bitter, happy new year to everyone
Happy new years!! 😊
Actually that advice you gave for all those points could work for everyone really, no matter which personality type they are but yeah interesting video FJ thanks. (Y)
You are cute ❤❤❤Happy New Year and great work on our personality issues 😅
ESFJ here... You were on point! 🤣👏🏻
It's amazing that at the age of 20 I understood this. I'm a bit of a weird ISTP, but I don't like a lot of things around me, especially education. Honestly, I can't find another profession where you can help people more, at school there are people who want to stand out, exploit their talents, but there are also young people who have a lot of problems. I don't know if I was interested in helping students because of some emotional shortcomings I had in my childhood, but I feel like I don't see myself in an office making a company richer, instead of helping young people (mostly because I'm from a poor country)
I think all 16 issues/advices are relatable and thus universal (yes I get that Frank picked the biggest struggle of every type). Great video, inspiring or at least reminding us to keep going.
I'm an INTJ and luckily I understood the importance of experiences few years ago (but hey I'm over 30 tbh). It takes up a lot of energy so I cannot do it daily, but I make myself to get out of my comfort zone from time to time. It helped me to be truly open, to not judge and to respect others more.
I’m guilty of a few of these. Thanks for bringing them to my attention so I can work on them for the new year!
As an ENFJ, I need to hear this. Thank you, a man named Frank James.
Dang this is exactly what I needed rn thanks so much Frank!! 🙏🏻
ENFJs, never make yourself unsuccessful because other people didn't have the good opportunities you have. Because if you succeed and become more socially powerful than you are now, it will be a lot easier to help them ❤️
Happy 2023, FJ! 🧡🎉🎉💥👏✨👍⭐
happy 2023 to you too!
@@FrankJames awwww thank you!!!!
As an INTP have a low opinion of myself because of the way my mother has always treated me. I often feel like trash. I started treating my depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder this year.
Nothing's ever worked out for me with tuna on toast. I want the complete opposite of tuna on toast. Chicken salad, on rye, untoasted with a side of potato salad and a cup of tea.
I LOVE THIS when I first found your channel it was a lot of advice for the INFJ and how to go about things. This brings me back! Much love thank you !
yes. just yes. never change Frank 💙💚
I'm an INFP. I didn't know when my turn came, but when he said those words, i knew they were for me! This is a great video!
The INFP one got me so bad XD... I do things in my head, and even if I write suddenly I feel like... (nope), its all tracked on my mind minddd hahaha
This is the sign I've been waiting for!!
[INFP] Wow. I just had a huge epiphany. I'm going to "translate" all my plans and dreams to very concrete steps. For example, instead of "study philosophy" it'll be something like "read this specific philosophy book"
@FrankJames_1......... bot 😒
[INTP] I was looking for intp comment. but i guess intps won't comment easily on this XD
I think we(intps) are the only reason we ruin our lives.
So long as we're self-aware and proactive, we can avoid it.
Yeah, I don't want to sound insensitive but, you can stop bullying easier than changing yourself.
This was VERY HELPFUL! Thank you .
BRILLIANT!
Oh, hey, what a great way to begin a new year. At this moment in my life I really needed some help, as I'm trying to leave my shell. Thank you for uploading this, as I haven't noticed just how much I've been predicting a wide range of emotions and thoughts just based on singular acts or messages. I see now what I should avoid. Too often I felt like I had to internalize the whole conversation and exchange of emotions between me and another person. There was no place for me to be spontaneously myself, because everything had to go along with some sort of abstract plan of the entire interaction. Everything had to go right to avoid any sense of conflict or any remotely negative emotion. Again, thank you Frank James.
Extremely well done and remarkably perspicacious. I knew which one was for me, an INFP, before the letters popped up on the screen. Perhaps even more interesting, I was able to tell, pretty much unerringly, which ones out of the rest were "almost" me, or much like me if not quite pointedly, and whaddya know, in each case when the letters popped up on the screen they contained two to three of "my" letters as well. And the ones that I couldn't relate to at all were, sure enough, utterly different from my set of letters. Fascinating.