Relationships 101: Are We On The Same Page About Porn?
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 5. 03. 2024
- Explore valuable insights with Katie Bulmer, Founder of Truth For Your Twenties, as she delves into an ever-increasing relationship dilemma.
What happens when one partner views porn as a non-negotiable while the other sees it differently? Katie provides practical advice on navigating this conversation, offering guidance for those seeking alignment on this topic.
Learn how to approach the discussion with your partner and find common ground. Join Katie in this insightful discussion on relationships and the nuances of addressing differing views on porn.
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As a porn addict myself, I can tell everyone out there that just wanting to quit porn won't probably be enough. You are simply scratching the surface if you think that staying away from porn for X days is the solution to recovery. It is not. You will need to look much deeper and ask yourself, what is actually missing in your life and what is it what you are escaping from? Then you have a chance of recovery...
I think is not so much about past traumas or something that you are missing, but the pleasure that you get from watching it. Your brain releases a lot of dopamine and you start thinking it is better than actual sex. I stop watching it for about a month and itâs not easy, but you can always do it as long as you want to.
Do you think that it is something that can be changed? I know that I have heard that like any addiction, particularly porn, can never be cured.
â@@maryannedelaney
We will always have proclivities to whatever addictions can trigger our dopamine release but that doesn't mean you must be bound to said addiction.
You can find liberation from the bondage of lust and you Can have control of what you choose to consume.
Personally, it's the decision to be victim or Victor over that which challenges us most in life.
I agree ChrisBale.
I realized that I choose microwave (poor quality but instant) satisfaction when really I should be harnessing my desire to fuel my attempts to actually develop a meaningful romantic relationship with another human.
Only having a relationship with the porn you see on a screen is a sad way to live.
I know that in order to have better,
I must Do better and stop accepting substitutes that leave me feeling empty and apathetic.
@@radfoo72 I know someone who did that. He is married now and has three children. He has never spoken about it since.