Chair Chats Episode 19: Inter-abled Love with Cole and Charisma

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    On this episode, we’re talking with Cole & Charisma, an inter-abled couple who is influencing the way dating someone with a disability is perceived through their CZcams Channel, Roll with Cole & Charisma.
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Komentáře • 235

  • @lasartdesignz7087
    @lasartdesignz7087 Před 4 lety +97

    I don’t care how many times I find a new video that has Cole and Charisma from someone featuring their story. I always enjoy hearing it everytime.

  • @Godgirl1966
    @Godgirl1966 Před 4 lety +46

    Cole Im telling you, that you may cant use your hands but let me tell you this YOU ARE A REAL MAN! You are the man that every woman craves for!! That girl Charisma saw it before another!! You go Cole! Lucky gurl Charisma!!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +2

      They are amazing individuals and a fabulous couple. Thanks for watching & commenting.

    • @gailgregg5178
      @gailgregg5178 Před rokem +1

      They are simply meant for each other' charisma truly loves cole

  • @sandraholloway2725
    @sandraholloway2725 Před 3 lety +9

    I look at people Eyes, The young man has so much love in his Eyes for her, he loves her heart, her spirits. He just is in love with her. They are a Loving Beautiful Couple.

  • @gloriayoung5452
    @gloriayoung5452 Před 4 lety +56

    May I say that Cole and Charisma are looking gorgeous!
    Two people who have the ABILITY, to truly LOVE each other!

  • @valeriebrown3449
    @valeriebrown3449 Před 4 lety +46

    Cole, you is a whole man and Almighty God Gave you a whole woman in your relationship.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +2

      They're both amazing and whole individuals and a couple. Thanks for watching. ❤️

    • @sabrinab2674
      @sabrinab2674 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes Cole you are a whole man! Putting these abled body men to shame. You are a loving soul that can attract the right woman...And that you have done. Haters will hate and say negative things.

  • @passion4posh
    @passion4posh Před 4 lety +51

    I don't get how people look at the name "Charisma " as a black name? Its a beautiful name for anyone and it fits her.Cole talking about confidence brings tears to my eyes.That something everyone can relate to.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +3

      I love their realness too. Thanks for watching and commenting. ❤️ Please feel free to share.

    • @maryjennings4913
      @maryjennings4913 Před 4 lety +5

      I know right? There is a lesser known white female actress by the name, Charisma Carpenter. So, I tend to not assume stuff, when it comes to people and their names.

    • @carolynwilliams6153
      @carolynwilliams6153 Před 4 lety +2

      passion4posh Although it’s s nice name usually Black folks used those names- Charisma, Infinity, Twilight, etc.- non traditional names.

    • @tesswonderful4194
      @tesswonderful4194 Před 3 lety

      It is not a black name. Plus the only Charisma I know is white, PLUS the Charisma that was on Buffy the Vampire Slayer who is also white. From what I understand it has a Greek origin.

    • @beauty4717
      @beauty4717 Před 3 lety +1

      @@tesswonderful4194 I figured that when i first heard of the name Charisma.

  • @carolynwilliams6153
    @carolynwilliams6153 Před 4 lety +10

    Wow! The interviewer had some great questions!!!!! Great answers Cole and Charisma.

  • @maryjones3308
    @maryjones3308 Před 4 lety +33

    I love these two they have true love which most of us don't have

  • @cyntheriahenderson9189
    @cyntheriahenderson9189 Před 4 lety +44

    This was a great interview! Insightful questions that allowed Charisma and Cole to reveal more about the quality of their relationship. Excellent job!

  • @valeriegonsahn2725
    @valeriegonsahn2725 Před 4 lety +20

    Cole and Charisma oozes positivity. Best substantive couple chanel on you tube. You are a brilliant interviewer.

  • @lesliemiller3795
    @lesliemiller3795 Před 4 lety +28

    Heavenly Father 🙏🏼 Please continue to bless this lovely young family ❣️I love the love they've made with each other and both of their eyes light up while talking to each other and the chemistry is there and I await the day to see their beautiful children ❤️ Don't cuss me out (I'm kidding 😣😂😂 Goodbye mom and dad soon to be 😂😂💕❣️😘

  • @carolinehudson850
    @carolinehudson850 Před 4 lety +39

    I loved the level of conversation, I love Cole and Charmisa so much, OMG!!! the indepth love and respect that they have for one another, the quality of discussions, amazing. So inspiring.

  • @OnyinyeNwokorie
    @OnyinyeNwokorie Před 3 lety +14

    I’m so late to this interview but that last thing that Cole mentioned- adoration! That was so well put and something that not a lot of people ever really talk about but something i completely agree with! It feels nice to be adored and to adore someone.

  • @slindilemathe8076
    @slindilemathe8076 Před 4 lety +25

    Cole and Charisma looking great ☺️💕. Good job to the interviewer, good questions through out👌🏾

  • @donnamck8324
    @donnamck8324 Před 4 lety +15

    C and C are one of my favorite couples. They’re a great team and such an inspiration when it comes to a great partnership and supporting each other.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      They're definitely a couple that exemplifies a loving and cooperative relationship. Thanks for watching and commenting. ❤️

  • @vanessajacobs4408
    @vanessajacobs4408 Před 2 lety +2

    I look for their interviews because I love hearing their love story.

  • @taylorewillis1
    @taylorewillis1 Před 4 lety +48

    This is sooooo great! I love this interview. So much of what Charisma resonates with me. How do I like this a thousand times?!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +2

      Thanks so much for your comment. I'm so glad you liked the interview. They're both wonderful individuals which makes for a phenomenal couple. ❤️

    • @esmn9807
      @esmn9807 Před 4 lety +1

      Awesome

  • @barbieallen8991
    @barbieallen8991 Před 4 lety +29

    I enjoy watching this couple

  • @angelam.4353
    @angelam.4353 Před 4 lety +13

    Can totally relate with Charisma when she talked about people saying, “You’re pretty... for a black girl...”. It’s unreal how people think it’s ever ok to speak to people to say such horrible things. I love this couple so much! Great interview!

  • @darkmatter5940
    @darkmatter5940 Před 4 lety +18

    This interview should have more views!!

  • @micheleevans4056
    @micheleevans4056 Před 3 lety +10

    Cole, you have got to know that your such a handsome young man with so much to offer and give. Charisma you are gorgeous as well, with such a strong sense of self. You guys are the perfect couple, you both compliment each other so well and that's what life is all about. You both dug further beneath the surface. I subscribed to you're channel a week ago and I love everything about you guys, I truly have enjoyed catching up on your story, and Mama Kelly is a real hoot, love love love her.

    • @gailgregg5178
      @gailgregg5178 Před rokem

      Me too' thumbs up for momma kelly👍👏👏❤🌝

  • @tawanaavery9840
    @tawanaavery9840 Před 3 lety +15

    That was an “excellent” interview🙂

  • @jannetsmall-francis1656
    @jannetsmall-francis1656 Před 4 lety +12

    Kool-Cole, Charismatic-Charisma = a beautiful pair😍👍🏾

  • @dawnshaffer6869
    @dawnshaffer6869 Před 4 lety +11

    I just love these two, like wise old souls, so enlighten and changing the world. These two are going to do BIG things. I wish them both continual health and happiness. Great interview

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      I believe they're destined to do big things too. Just happy I could say I knew them back then. 😉❤️

  • @jeannettehood6
    @jeannettehood6 Před 4 lety +10

    Cole & Charisma my favorite couple . I love them so much 💕💕

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +1

      They're very easy to love and look to as an example of a healthy and loving couple. Thanks for watching and commenting. ❤️

  • @tawunnaeaton9726
    @tawunnaeaton9726 Před 3 lety +7

    I love this couple

  • @queenbee2447
    @queenbee2447 Před 4 lety +29

    It was a great interview, I love you guys. As always it's always a pleasure listening to Cole and Charisma.

  • @valeriegonsahn2725
    @valeriegonsahn2725 Před 3 lety +5

    This is a well thought out interview! You compliment each other👍

  • @lisagallacher1073
    @lisagallacher1073 Před 4 lety +27

    What a great interview C & C , have you guys thought more about doing podcasts ? that would be absolutely great way to stay connected to your interviews . 🙂

  • @veendace3195
    @veendace3195 Před 4 lety +12

    I always get a good feeling from these two❤️

  • @ds-nv3sy
    @ds-nv3sy Před 4 lety +21

    You interview one of my favorite couples, I love watching their vlogs and this interview was so informative and inspiring. this interview could help able and inter-able couples.

  • @omauzochukwu9172
    @omauzochukwu9172 Před 4 lety +5

    The way COLE laughs😍😍☺️

  • @danitapenn-green2347
    @danitapenn-green2347 Před 4 lety +50

    This is a great interview. You asked great questions.

  • @mmaddox45scarlett
    @mmaddox45scarlett Před 3 lety +8

    STAY TRUE TO EACH OTHER AND KEEP ON DOING WHATS BEST FOR YOU BOTH..
    PEACE LOVE & HOPE

  • @msmelodybellarenn9648
    @msmelodybellarenn9648 Před 3 lety +4

    I love Cole and Charisma so much.. stay positive

  • @girlmeetsreality4644
    @girlmeetsreality4644 Před 3 lety +4

    Communication, trust, patience, love and adoration is importantt to any relationship. Just goes to show through our differences, we're all the same. Great interview.

  • @jujubeanmdz
    @jujubeanmdz Před 4 lety +8

    they do interviews so well!!! I love listening to them talk :)

  • @carolricketts8475
    @carolricketts8475 Před 2 lety +3

    I love this couple.

  • @pamblack5894
    @pamblack5894 Před 3 lety +7

    Love me some Cole...sorry Charisma, no disrespect. I love you too!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety +2

      LOL! Cole is a good looking man. And I got to say that Charisma is a gorgeous woman. Lots of beauty, inside and out, in this couple.

  • @cherylfenton5390
    @cherylfenton5390 Před 4 lety +13

    This was such a great interview. She was good! She asked some great questions. Frankly I really didn't want the interview to be over.😊
    I just love watching you guys.
    Much love & respect to you both!❤

  • @tabithadeveaux7046
    @tabithadeveaux7046 Před 3 lety +3

    There were very good questions and very good answers and all those things are needed in a relationship

  • @jackiemontgomery-hunter7449

    A great interview with thoughtful and original questions.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting. ❤️ Out of curiosity, what was your favorite question?

    • @jackiemontgomery-hunter7449
      @jackiemontgomery-hunter7449 Před 3 lety

      @@OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria I had to watch the interview again to remind me of the question, not a problem, as it's one of my top C&C vlogs. It was the question you asked Charisma but you also alluded to your relationship with your husband - in essence what value does the able bodied person get from an interabled relationship? Your interview style is warm and open - not a closed question in sight. Loved it. Thanks for asking this Londoner!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety

      @@jackiemontgomery-hunter7449 thank you so much for your feedback. I truly appreciate you compliments. 🥰

  • @bridgetsanders1905
    @bridgetsanders1905 Před 3 lety +4

    I love the interview y'all are on point with y'all's answers I've been watching y'all since I run across the first video I've been watching you ever since you just bring happiness to me and I don't even know you you just put a smile on my face cuz I know what it's like cuz I have a hip problem when I have to have my surgery have to have help had to count on someone so my two grandsons that was at that time 9 and 10 took care of me damn was my strong little soldiers love the videos keep on going y'all are becoming a part of my family ❤️🥳❤️

  • @aceace2921
    @aceace2921 Před 2 lety +1

    I think as a woman and believe Charisma loves the little thing that Cole does for her. Like remembering those special occasions and being so romantic. This guy is what every woman dream of in a man. A man that would treat her like a queen and most important feeling love by him

  • @sophgirl8377
    @sophgirl8377 Před 4 lety +11

    What a truly great interview so personal ,sincere and touching ..great interviewer 👍🏽

  • @wunmikeji
    @wunmikeji Před 4 lety +8

    You did a good job bringing those insightful questions. I love Cole and Charisma. God bless

  • @margearettarmstrong4779
    @margearettarmstrong4779 Před 3 lety +6

    This was great loved it💞

  • @Danajanene
    @Danajanene Před 4 lety +6

    I love Cole and Charisma and glad CZcams put this a recommended video. It was well put together....great job all.

  • @taneishakim3673
    @taneishakim3673 Před 4 lety +13

    They're jus super cuteeee together..
    Great questions and 3 beautiful people God's Richest Blessings 🙏

  • @miekelaksmiwati2320
    @miekelaksmiwati2320 Před 3 lety +4

    Great interview o learnt a lot, love you

  • @dewdan11dnd46
    @dewdan11dnd46 Před 4 lety +7

    ✨Thank you. A thoroughly interesting and enjoyable conversation. Important, honest, thought provoking questions, with succinct and unconstrained responses. What a delight to find your channel and to be a part of the C & C squad journey. 💞

  • @denicejohnson9800
    @denicejohnson9800 Před 4 lety +12

    Amazing interview.

  • @misspooh7588
    @misspooh7588 Před 3 lety

    You all are the definition of BALANCE. You both inspire me and keep me encouraged. I thank u.

  • @elizabethchege8050
    @elizabethchege8050 Před 4 lety +8

    This is the best interview I’ve watched on CZcams. You are the best.love charisma and cole .

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      Yeah!!! So glad you enjoyed the interview as much as I enjoyed doing the interview. Thanks for your comment. 🥰

  • @kathleenevers7016
    @kathleenevers7016 Před 4 lety +12

    Love these two

  • @wwashington270
    @wwashington270 Před 4 lety +14

    Amazing interview

  • @sabrinasheppard4614
    @sabrinasheppard4614 Před 2 lety

    Great interview!

  • @suzannehedderly1331
    @suzannehedderly1331 Před 4 lety +5

    Love Cole and Charisma! Great interview with them. Thank you!

  • @BlessedEve
    @BlessedEve Před 3 lety +2

    The interviewer asked some poignant questions which bought out some deep rooted fears in Cole.But like Charisma says, trust is very important in a marriage (as in any relationship). And, communication is key...talk, talk, talk and resolve issues before they escalate! Blessings you both!❤️

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much for watching and your comment. I'm glad you felt the interview was insightful. ❤️

    • @BougieBrownSugar
      @BougieBrownSugar Před 2 lety +1

      I was surprised at how honest and vulnerable they were in this interview. The questions the interviewer asked would make anyone pause and think.

  • @dorisweems1390
    @dorisweems1390 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm so glad that I found your videos and I'm watching some of them every day so that I can get caught up. I just love you both. I hope for continued love and success for you. God bless you, you gorgeous couple.

  • @Loner_Traveller
    @Loner_Traveller Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @traceyjones9685
    @traceyjones9685 Před 4 lety +6

    Such an excellent interview ...thank you👍

  • @amazingseniors5770
    @amazingseniors5770 Před 3 lety

    I shall remember love, trust, patience, adoration, open communication and thank you! Even for able bodied couple, these are great lessons to qpply. Thank you! The three of you are amazing! God bless!

  • @abigailm2484
    @abigailm2484 Před rokem

    A partnership with depth, such intelligent articulate couple. This is very 👍

  • @vrobinson5100
    @vrobinson5100 Před 4 lety +3

    I love you guys! So sweet, kind, loving and supportive of each other! Beautiful couple! 😊❤️

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      Thanks for watching and commenting. They truly are a wonderful couple. So blessed that they allow us to be a part of their journey.

  • @Deepseablue372
    @Deepseablue372 Před 4 lety +2

    Great interview!!! Love Cole and Charisma ❤️❤️❤️ #CCsquad!!

  • @patstinson5167
    @patstinson5167 Před 4 lety +5

    I love this interview

  • @dawnharris3503
    @dawnharris3503 Před 10 měsíci

    This was an unbelievable interview. Im so much more into Cole and Charisma! They are so real!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you for your feedback. They were fun to talk with. It was an honor to get to know them better.

  • @taneishakim3673
    @taneishakim3673 Před 4 lety +5

    GREAT INTERVIEW 👍🇯🇲

  • @bentarussell8183
    @bentarussell8183 Před 4 lety +2

    Great interview

  • @lesangbieliauskas3483
    @lesangbieliauskas3483 Před 4 lety +4

    I am roll with Cole and charisma family, I so love them, that was an awesome interview

  • @ruthanne7170
    @ruthanne7170 Před 4 lety +3

    All I see here are Cole and Charisma and they are such a wonderful couple. When you find someone you have such a connection with, nothing else should matter.
    Lovely interview, you asked some really great questions. Thank you.

  • @bdoug
    @bdoug Před 3 lety +3

    You should def put a direct link to your facebook group in the description!! Marvelous video :)

  • @MARGARET-oe4rj
    @MARGARET-oe4rj Před 4 lety +5

    This was a Beautiful interview ❤️👋

  • @pjtribble7214
    @pjtribble7214 Před 4 lety +4

    OMG! This was an amazing interview! Your a fabulous interviewer and host! I LOVE " Rolling with Cole & Charisma"! Such an inspiring, no holds barred and down to earth couple!! EVERYBODY.... Have a wonderful, safe and blessed weekend! Peace & Blessings!

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +1

      So glad you enjoyed this episode. It was super fun to interview them. Thanks for watching and commenting! ❤️

  • @denisegarland1815
    @denisegarland1815 Před 4 lety +4

    My favorite couple!!!! Fantastic interview!!!!!

  • @chebyhocutt9055
    @chebyhocutt9055 Před 4 lety +2

    I ❤️❤️me some Cole&Charisma! They are so inspiring! They truly ❤️❤️❤️one another! Thank you for this interview! They are so transparent 😘

  • @helenmokom1569
    @helenmokom1569 Před 2 lety

    I just simply admire handsome Cole and beautiful Charisma.I pray for them to succeed in all their endeavours.

  • @maysanm.dumandan2019
    @maysanm.dumandan2019 Před 4 lety +1

    This was a great interview!...
    You guys are awesome!! 😄😄

  • @mariafinafina315
    @mariafinafina315 Před 2 lety +3

    This is a deep conversation be it interabled or normal relationships ,you take away valuable information from this video

  • @daisytimbe2361
    @daisytimbe2361 Před 4 lety +1

    Great interview l love yo honesty and simplicity lovely couple

  • @rogerbixley791
    @rogerbixley791 Před 3 lety +4

    A fantastic interview. Who is the lady interviewer ?. She is soooo beautiful.

  • @Godgirl1966
    @Godgirl1966 Před 4 lety +4

    You guys are so great!! I cant wait for wedding and babies!!....

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      Us too! It'll be fun to watch how their relationship and family evolves. Thanks for watching & commenting.

  • @katrinamoore9307
    @katrinamoore9307 Před 4 lety +12

    Great interview! I just love Cole and Charisma💖💖

  • @junemarie3667
    @junemarie3667 Před 4 lety +3

    Good video👍🏽

  • @nomalangamamabolo1088
    @nomalangamamabolo1088 Před 4 lety

    Beautiful video...

  • @julietauguste1477
    @julietauguste1477 Před 4 lety +8

    I love C&C !

  • @sabrinab2674
    @sabrinab2674 Před 4 lety +6

    Love Love Love this interview. Your next task should be counseling. You guys are so mature. You have gained so much in the 2 years you've known each other. Put God first and you will continue to do bigger things.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety +1

      They're a wonderful example how love between two people can overflow to touch many others. Thanks for watching and commenting. 🥰

  • @babycakes3187
    @babycakes3187 Před 4 lety +6

    you're such a good interviewer! I love them 💓

  • @michs3435
    @michs3435 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow Pauline Victoria, that was a fantastic superb interview. I loved it... . you beautifully flowed with questions, which was nice and deep but respectful yet very valuable to think about. And I couldn't stop smiling . I loved your passion and I would love to hear your story. I loved this interview and the way Cole and Charisma interacted with each other. Their answers comes across very natural not rehearsed. I just love the way they love and respect each other . And I loved the way they look at each with wow beautiful. Only the best for them and continue for you and your husband and family. I love the way they answered your last question. P.S.Just found your youtube and shall subscribe. Many thanks.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful and encouraging comments. I appreciate you watching and taking the time to share your feedback. It was such a fun interview because Cole and Charisma were so loving and engaging.

    • @jhaze8634
      @jhaze8634 Před rokem

      O

  • @tyronecarter8406
    @tyronecarter8406 Před 2 lety

    I really love that

  • @leonatogbah726
    @leonatogbah726 Před 4 lety +2

    Love these two to the moon. Using the word disability sounds stigmatizing, it sounds better when we say able in a different way. The whole idea is that we get to a point but using different means. Someone might walk, while another might use the wheelchair and at the end, they both get to their destination. 😊

  • @cecilialegaspi9521
    @cecilialegaspi9521 Před 4 lety +6

    You guys are so sweet.

  • @donnagrosch4519
    @donnagrosch4519 Před 4 lety +5

    Such a wonderful couple.

  • @jcruz9826
    @jcruz9826 Před 4 lety +4

    Cole n charisma r so amazing...greatest couple ever

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 4 lety

      They can teach us all so much about unconditional love. Thanks for your comment and for watching. ❤️

  • @marionrogers890
    @marionrogers890 Před 3 lety

    One must innately love oneself it's the magnet to others to appreciate you...having quality and confidence matters.

    • @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria
      @OneLegUpwithPaulineVictoria  Před 3 lety

      Absolutely agree. Love must start with self in order to be able to pour it into another. Thanks for watching and for your comment. 💕

  • @nancypaul3030
    @nancypaul3030 Před 4 lety +4

    Must say my favourite couple was awesome. Love you guys so much ❤️❤️❤️🤣🤣

  • @tarras3292
    @tarras3292 Před 4 lety +4

    Nice session and Questions on point and Thank you to everyone involved, 💕💕💕it

  • @randolphechobardo9334
    @randolphechobardo9334 Před 3 lety +1

    God Bless, a great couple.

  • @Max2U
    @Max2U Před 3 lety +2

    The dress 👗 is green btw.😷😁