Every aspirant must accept this fact if she is preparing for UPSC Exam
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- čas přidán 30. 11. 2023
- It's Supposed to Be Hard
Everything worth pursuing comes with a little pain. The trick is not minding that it hurts.
Yes, these lines from 'Same As Ever' by Morgan Housel are indeed true, and worth taking note of.
In UPSC or for that matter even as an IAS or IPS officer, a critical life skill is enduring the pain when necessary rather than assuming there's a shortcut around it!
Similarly, as Housel notes, if you are building a social media presence on Twitter or CZcams, you might be advised to use hashtags and tricks around when to post your content etc.
Yes, it matters, but the most effective social media trick is: good content that people read again and again!
Similarly, for an exam like UPSC, the most effective trick is to put your head down, reduce all the distractions and have a single-minded focus of having an effective study plan.
This is true for pretty much everything! Your exercise, diet, finances, even family and relationships!
In fact, Housel goes on to even say that if you are looking for too much efficiency, you are doing it the wrong way!
Shortcuts in name of efficiency can be lethal! Everything comes with a cost. And the cost of being on top is definitely your time and other pieces you don't like (boss' temperament, long hours, constant doubt etc). Nothing worth pursuing is free!
Housel calls this inefficiency as 'hassle' and notes, and I agree, that you have to put up with some amount of hassle, otherwise you cannot succeed in the world at all!
Therefore, for all the UPSC aspirants:
Don't run after unnecessary tips, tricks, efficiency hacks etc. Figure out things that work for you, measure your progress objectively along the way, read well, write a lot and work hard (forget social media and AI)!
There is no shortcut!
"if you are thinking something is inefficient, then it is not inefficiency but it's a hassle one has to go through'' one of the best line I learn on the internet. I used to feel the same thing whenever I compared that how was my performance 6 months ago or even 1 month ago and how it's now, there was a positive difference in my efficiency. Actually we think that one born with the efficiency and one not, which is not the case, efficiency is actually a process not a state. Whenever we start something new, initially we do lots of mistakes, sometimes we choose the wrong path or do the wrong planning then we feel bad about it, which we should not because it's an avoidable part of the process, it WILL happen regardless of how carefully you do but the key thing is that we have to learn from that mistake and do better next time. and in this whole process the most important thing is that we will have to be consistent in that process and keep doing it because that is the key. Thank you sir, thank you so much, you don't know how important that line was for me.
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@@ManujJindalIAS 🙏🙏
THANK YOU FOR NORMALISING 'SHE' INSTEAD OF 'HE' IN CASUAL STATEMENTS. IT MEANS A CHANGE...A BEGINNING OF CHANGE TO SAY THE LEAST ...☘️
We must
Why not "you" if we are really after equality?
@@cutecool16ab Tak jab sirf 'he' chalta tha tab 'you' ka khayal nhi aya.. suddenly 'she' dekhte hi, 'you' yaad aagaya.
Apne soch pe baat ayi, tabhi inclusiveness dikha
@@cutecool16it will be grammatically incorrect if you is used
Ban Jana ias fir implement kar dena 😂
"It is supposed to be hard"...literally struck my mind🙂
The" she" different it kind of happy but "he" too have go through a lot in this journey thanks for the update 🙏🏾
Sir is very firm about that "she is preparing for UPSC Exam" and not "he is preparing..." 😂😂😂😂
A boy recognizes a boy.
Women appeasement...
You have mentioned "she", that's so peaceful!
I am 28 .lower Middle class family. Always Aspired to be a civil servant. Kept trying for other jobs so that i can create a backup for my family. Failed each and every exam by very less margin. Appeared in 67th BPSC ,which got cancelled. Now i want to give it all to my dream. I am going to do the key work : hard work . And i am very certain about myself..my focus..!! Thank u so much for making time for us sir . 🙏
I wish you all the best
Same story bro... Are u working somewhere now.... Or preparing for CSE alone
Toughest thing ever is whn u try ur best, still fail and the people around u bring u down with their behaviour and words😞
Usi ko toh motivation bana ke aur mehnat karne hai 🔥
*she* is preparing for upsc🙌sir you are setting a trend
I was finding this comment
Thank you Bhaiya.. It feels like this video randomly came in front of me. It is exactly what I needed at this point in my life. God bless you😊
Hard work always pays off.
Even hardworking gives inner satisfaction too.
Thank you for adding English subtitles, sir.
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Love all ur videos❤ they are the to go videos whenever i feel low during preparation.
Thank you for telling about that "inefficient hardwork hassle" thing. Everytime I read, understand, then mark key points, make my notes, short notes,.. it feels like a waste of time. Thanks for telling me that it's necessary ✨ Thank you so much sir 🙏
Thank you so much sir for your valuable life lessons from your personal experience. Please keep on guiding us like this always ❤❤
Thank you sir i was about to quit my journey of civils now back again only because of your genuine honest motivation.
You're one of the best officers India has produced.
Thank yo so much Manuj ❤ I have been screaming the same to all the people always. Social media, specially youtube se padhke CSE clear nahi hoga, it may act as a supplement for some or the other thing, but will not create depth. This is the main reason people are stuck in Mains and stuck in this cycle, & then they just start making the videos, become UPSC Guru's, CZcamsr's giving or sharing strategy for their people. This is all Sham !!
One has to read the BOOKS. Thanks for sharing this Million Dollar Advice ❤
Thank you so much SIR ❤ I'm really looking for this ❤️
Good afternoon sir !!!
Thank you for the words of wisdom.
I think i really needed them.
I have an attempt in 2025 and i was genuinely terrified about the fact that i have limited time in my hands now.
I'll work harder and get through it no matter what.
I'll deliever my best !!!!
Sir, thanks a lot for talking about the reality and addressing our real issues! 🌻
I really needed this motivation. thanks a lot 🙏🏻
thank you sir because lot of time i waste and at that time hath kucha lga nhi koi bhi bhaw kamwakt jaga nhi thank you so much to inspire me
Thank you so much for your motivational words sir ❤
Thank you sir for your constant guidance. 🙏 ❤
U are amazing source of motivation 😊
Needed this today ❤
Thankyou officer 😊❤
Thanks Sir it is very helpful ❤.. continue sir please ❤
Happy married life sir😊 You are always an inspiration to us🙏
Thank you so much sir
It means a lot for me
Motivational video. Thank you for such words sir
Thank you so much Sir 🤞
Much needed ❤
Yes sir true hoga nehin hoga ye khwab dara deti hai. But i will continue tq sir.
English translation for us who don't completely understand Hindi. So appreciated. I just love your channel. Keep shining.
As soon the notification hits...I always watch your vdo...❤ Again the 1st one here....and thanks a lot sir
Sir no words for u ❤❤❤
Sir , your videos are always a saviour . An aspirant who is studying for 3rd attempt at State PSC , the dejavu of studying again for mains is kiling me . But here is your video to bring clarity of classic good old way of books ❤. Thank you sir
Don't worry friend you will be successful.. best of luck❤
Very very thanks sir plzz aise hi guide karte rhiyega sir g plzzz
Eagerly waiting for your video..... Thank u sir🙏😊
Most welcome
Thank you sir ❤
Sir, I hope everything is okay. Thank you so much for your guidance.
Yes thank you
Thank you sir.
Thankyou sir for adding subtitles in English
Sir i agree with every point you made in this video except one which is
You are far above the lower middle class category you fall in upper middle class category...
Also will request you to make a dedicated video on how to improve the answer writing for MAINS and ways to improve the writing patterns
Thank you very much for helping us sir. Sometimes I find difficult to understand editorial topics. Could you please tell us any good CZcams channel which discuss editorial in detail.
Thank you soooo much sir
Thank you sir ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks sir mujhe bahut jarurat thi
Yes sir we are facing 😢 but I will combat all those circumstances for becoming a good civil servant.😊 ❤Love from Madhaya Pradesh.
Yes
A heartfelt thanks to you sir for your advices...🙌
Sir can you please make a video on answer writing..I don't know sir why but there is a fear of answer writing inside me and I really wanted to overcome from this fear
Sure I will
Iam a college student,
Sir Post one small video on Preparation Strategy for UPSC 2026
Thankyou sir
Thanks a lot Sir.
Most welcome
Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Congratulations on your marriage sir ❤️
I just started my preparation and your guidance regarding this was so needed and so helpful. Thank you so much sir. Sir I had just graduated and now started to pursue MSc Botany, I had started with basic ncert and habit of reading newspaper. Is it the right way and what else I should do?...... Please guide sir🙏
I connected to you very much sir
I also used cricket analogy like you
❤❤thx
Thank sir
Thanks
The TITLE of this VIDEO❤
This is bitter truth 😢
Hello sir.. please explain test series in detail in your next video. ...
Sir what's the right time to start with mock test, like I feel starting with it in the month of Feb... but different people have different opinions
I want to meet you bhaiya and touch your feet for your sincerity and humblebess,how can I do so
" REVERSE DISCRIMINATION IS STILL DISCRIMINATION" it's not a solution but a continuous loop of problems.Choose wisely you may be unknowingly or knowingly making it worse.
sir thanks for english subtitles
Sir please one video on how to choose service IAS or IFS (with them)
Love from Kashmir sir
Respected Mentor,
You’ve always set a fine example for us in our professional life to overcome any obstacles!! 😇
Wishing you & ma'am hearty Congratulations for the wedding and what comes after!! 🌹
Regards,
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Sir please make a video on how to develop conceptual clarity sir
Thanku sir I'll keep it in my mind 🙏💐
Sir I wanna say that i was consistent for months but I don't understand what has happened I have lost my consistency, I am not able to study even I want to study . I'm wasting my time knowing that I am wasting it . Please help sir how can I get out from this.
Sir i am in class 11th and sir i started preparing for upsc...plz guide and make vedio on strategy
Yes sir tq but i have one doubt sir in coaching classes the teacher is good but i want to learn that subject from other faculty. But the time is limited.
Congratulations Sir 🎉🎉 Wishing you Happy married life ❤thank you for always making time for us ❤
So nice of you
Kaun kaun sir ko Dil se Manta hai❤❤
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Sir which company's pan you have use?
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Hey Manuj can you make a video where we can find that UPSC ask more from this particular topics .... Just as a reference not for reading those topics only
Sir please can you explain the role of pyq in this preparation, because only little bit are repeated??? Is it only for those questions or something else too?????🙏🙏🙏🙏
If the aspirant is already group A or group B officer then he is eligible for OBC (NCL) in upsc/ other competitive exam.
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Sir I want to give my prelims 2024 ..then how can i start my preparation?
Sir...this dreams kills me...drives me😢
Sir, if you don't mind I want to know whether you are brother of Anuj Jindal Sir, who is also a great faculty in a CZcams channel in his name, who guides the banking aspirants 🙏🙏
Sir please say is it necessary to read NCERT from class 6 to 12 for every subject
Sir sometimes due to personal problems, we end up doing nothing. We just stuck and we didn't even realise that we wasted so many days. Sir how can an aspirant address this problem. Sir sometimes it's very tough to move on from things... kindly address this problem in your upcoming video 🙏🙏
I can understand I am also facing this sort of problems
Same here but at the end of the day we have to realise that we’re not alone in this journey. This journey is meant to be hard and in so many ways it gets hard.. emotionally, mentally, physically, financially and what not but we have to stay firm on what we desire and aim to be and I hope one day, may we all be at such point in our lives where we are undoubtedly happy and healthy.
Sir thanku from the bottom of my heart for this message🙏as an aspirant your messages are something that have made an immense impact on my life. Thanks sir❤🌷🙏
Shaddi enjoy kariya sir😅🎉
Yes
6:40 “Koitis Markhan” 😂😂😂🎉
Haha yes
Sir please make a video for 2026 aspirants
Please sir🙏
Yes sir🎉
Yes sir very much needed...
Yes sir
Yes sir please ..
Even I am a 2026 aspirant well are you doing ug private or regular
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How can a person manage revising same thing without getting bored of that particular subject sir?
Thank you
Wish you a happy married life❤
Thank you for always providing our right direction . This video means a lot for us. 🙏🏻🤍
Sir please give suggestions on improvement in reading speed as you had said around 15 pages for 1.5 hours. How can increase such speed?🙏 Sir also suggest how to handle CSAT because of lack of knowledge regarding core concepts as being the student of BA language.
For CSAT you can refer to these videos for basic concepts
czcams.com/play/PLBqb7Bjsscm9XK3ombssKoY_pY7mDcEjS.html&si=R0DNDDOjuCB_qdWW
Sir itne din Videos Nahi aa rahe the.... Sir Answer writing phir kab se start hoga
Only civil servants thinks about aspirants ❤